Getting Along with Strong-Willed People - Cynthia Tobias

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Focus on the Family

Focus on the Family

Жыл бұрын

In this upbeat presentation, Cynthia Tobias explains the positive and negative characteristics of strong-willed adults, and provides tips for healthy communication at home and in the workplace. She encourages the audience to consider their own strong-willed traits, and explains how certain words or tones of voice can really alienate a strong-willed person.
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@marjoriebennett8443
@marjoriebennett8443 Жыл бұрын
I prayed for help and here it is.
@allcoolnamestaken4672
@allcoolnamestaken4672 Жыл бұрын
Me too!
@j4j.c913
@j4j.c913 Жыл бұрын
Me three!!
@Rose2rose2
@Rose2rose2 Жыл бұрын
Same🙋🏻‍♀️🙋🏻‍♀️🙋🏻‍♀️
@msdixie1972
@msdixie1972 Жыл бұрын
He promises wisdom when we ask for it. 😎
@divinelyguided3961
@divinelyguided3961 Жыл бұрын
Same
@kathleenshaffer3145
@kathleenshaffer3145 Жыл бұрын
“You may be right.” Is my way of ending a discussion for another time.
@ramonac6237
@ramonac6237 Жыл бұрын
I am raising 6 strong willed boys, married one, and I am one. 😂 I love this talk, I see the light, finally!!
@saramartinez103
@saramartinez103 Жыл бұрын
Lord have mercy
@bddollen7384
@bddollen7384 Жыл бұрын
- LORD, THANK YOU FOR CHANGING THE FAILURES OF STRONG-WILLED PEOPLE - SO KIND…. !!!
@juliewestover9774
@juliewestover9774 11 ай бұрын
❤❤❤
@b.b.finsclara3589
@b.b.finsclara3589 Жыл бұрын
I am strong willed.....and have had a life long of struggles......not ever reconizing-admitting how large my participation played with my-in my difficult life.....i wish i have had these TOOLS much earlier......my parents lacked communication skills and they passed on these deficiencies unto us......These SKILLS ought to TAUGHT AT SCHOOLS AT A YOUNG AGE......how many lives we would improve....how many conflicts lessened.....how much violence avoided!!! So much rencor, ressentment saved......SAD SO SAD few in the education and Police, Armed Forces, Intelligence sectors have missed these opportunities!!!!
@randiloreaux55
@randiloreaux55 Жыл бұрын
Cynthia’s book completely changed my life. As a homeschool mom, it was so instrumental in healing my relationships with my children and allowing me to recognize who I was and who my children were and how to make those work together. BEAUTIFUL 💕 Thank you so so much!
@puppetshack4931
@puppetshack4931 Жыл бұрын
Which book?
@diamond_p
@diamond_p Жыл бұрын
Beautiful! 💙
@saints82
@saints82 Жыл бұрын
We'd really appreciate knowing which of Cynthia's book's changed your life Randi. Thanks :)
@melbakitchens6790
@melbakitchens6790 Жыл бұрын
Wished I could have talked to you when my strong willed child was young!
@christinalw19
@christinalw19 Жыл бұрын
Oh. When the government and media was telling me what we had to do regarding Covid, I became defiant. I’m glad to be strong-willed. I obey God’s Will, no other.
@granmabern5283
@granmabern5283 Жыл бұрын
When they used threats and fear instead of logic, I went looking for logic.😊
@dayers8715
@dayers8715 Жыл бұрын
@@granmabern5283 whose logic?
@JaneWaweru
@JaneWaweru Жыл бұрын
She said, "check your tone" and am like, "I can't even get myself to say a word at that point. My heart will be beating 1000 times more"
@hopefulforhumanity5625
@hopefulforhumanity5625 Жыл бұрын
I raised a strong willed child and it was rough! I read ALL the books, but I never found them helpful. I think tone of voice and word phrasing are THEE MOST important tips I've ever heard. I don't remember reading that in those books.
@meilee7613
@meilee7613 Жыл бұрын
I noticed Cynthia modeled that…
@monicadaniel9439
@monicadaniel9439 Жыл бұрын
This was great. I usually flee confrontation, the Spirit is giving me new tools and I thank Him for adding this!
@eyemares9834
@eyemares9834 Жыл бұрын
I found out while raising my strong willed son that “Do you know why we do it this way?” Worked so much better than “I told you to do it this way!”
@vigilantwatcher2408
@vigilantwatcher2408 Жыл бұрын
I have a difficult coworker, who definitely qualifies as a SWP. I let myself get angry and reacted to her when she was being ridiculous toward me and I don’t want to lose my power with her the next time because I lost my cool and my negative reaction was my own fault. It did not make the situation better so next time, and I know there will be, I will pause, and I will definitely react differently. Thank you for sharing this! I do pray for her, but I’m going to pray about how to react the next time.
@adrienewells4436
@adrienewells4436 Жыл бұрын
True immaturity shows in rebellious attitudes. Conflict resolution doesn’t mean placating swp.
@shaquithas
@shaquithas Жыл бұрын
11-11-22 from Riverside California. I needed to here this. It's going to help me. I will need to listen to this ALOT, OVER & OVER. I need healing and deliverance. I want to be a blessing to others
@iamenough6958
@iamenough6958 Жыл бұрын
Dr Joe Dispenza KZbin
@samantaray
@samantaray Жыл бұрын
Thank you Lord for sending me this fantastic lecture. ❤
@debrasusan73
@debrasusan73 Жыл бұрын
Fantastic!!! I'm a school bus driver, and I'm definitely going to use all these suggestions, with my students AND my coworkers!!! Haha! And I'm going to definitely tell that joke!
@lindadevine9776
@lindadevine9776 Жыл бұрын
This lady was awesome just what I needed to hear n the delivery was great n she was soft spoken and funny
@4evahis343
@4evahis343 Жыл бұрын
I do feel at some point as Christians the FRUIT OF THE SPIRIT should kick in.
@anjieismyname
@anjieismyname Жыл бұрын
Exactly.
@tinathomas3288
@tinathomas3288 Жыл бұрын
Yes! I was looking for this comment
@charlottefreed3813
@charlottefreed3813 Жыл бұрын
Amen
@carinacoetsee2334
@carinacoetsee2334 Жыл бұрын
Do you have a strong willed child? It's not easy. But I'm glad one part of the fruit is forgiveness.
@kianalauder
@kianalauder Жыл бұрын
@@Mel84943 😊 x😢la ixsi😢😮r😮
@Psalm_27.4
@Psalm_27.4 Жыл бұрын
My first thought upon hearing Mrs. Tobias was, “A certain tone of voice can alienate a strong willed person??? Well, excuuuuuuuuuuuuuse me!!!!” (Hands on my hips!) However, maybe all she is saying is that SWPs have a very deep sense of human dignity, which I can appreciate. I truly believe that we should ALWAYS honor another person’s human dignity. In fact, I think we should be as protective of another’s dignity as we are of our own! Now, THAT one thing, right there-mutual honor-would resolve ALL, (so-called) race, class, and gender issues!!! 😊❤🥰
@vonfloryanzia138
@vonfloryanzia138 Жыл бұрын
Yep
@anniemccoy3009
@anniemccoy3009 Жыл бұрын
I would add age to race, class and gender
@suetucker9264
@suetucker9264 Жыл бұрын
Or, is it a pride issue?
@Psalm_27.4
@Psalm_27.4 Жыл бұрын
@@suetucker9264 I’ve wondered the same thing. Not sure.
@Psalm_27.4
@Psalm_27.4 Жыл бұрын
@@anniemccoy3009 Yes, age belongs on the list! Thank you!
@miss_sunshine25
@miss_sunshine25 Жыл бұрын
If it hadn't been for focus on the family in the '80s I wouldn't have had any parenting skills at all. I never knew they had a KZbin channel. Pleasant surprise
@sharonjohnson2965
@sharonjohnson2965 Жыл бұрын
I read "The Way They Learn" by this brilliant woman. It helped me homeschool my son so effectively. Thank you. (That was many years ago)
@danielleelias685
@danielleelias685 Жыл бұрын
Yes I read that book also, it helped me so very much. Love that book.
@teresacahlik6887
@teresacahlik6887 Жыл бұрын
Yes, I had heard her on Focus on the Family, ordered the book so many years ago. It helped me understand my daughter’s learning style and me not have frequent meltdowns.
@teresacahlik6887
@teresacahlik6887 Жыл бұрын
@kettleroland2@ yes and having fun with grand children
@edenelston7668
@edenelston7668 Жыл бұрын
I'm an SWP and so are my kids. This was definitely helpful in making me aware of my own behaviors and in understanding those same behaviors in my children
@carmenabels1256
@carmenabels1256 Жыл бұрын
Same here and I just hope I can remember all of this.
@4evahis343
@4evahis343 Жыл бұрын
Fantastic. She nailed the qualities of an SWP. They really are go getters. This is very helpful information.
@SavannahMares
@SavannahMares Жыл бұрын
What a beautiful human being!! 🙏🏼🙌🏼☝🏼
@anjieismyname
@anjieismyname Жыл бұрын
Why does it have to be a 1-way street with us bending over to accommodate them so that they don't get offended. Perhaps they should deal with the spirit of pride in their hearts.
@victoriaoshea4865
@victoriaoshea4865 Жыл бұрын
Heard this about 6 months ago NEED TO LISTEN AGAIN
@sadiqakhan4795
@sadiqakhan4795 Жыл бұрын
It's your tone that kept me following through with this very informative video to the end. Much blessings. Thank you.🌻
@christiangenger
@christiangenger Жыл бұрын
“Why do I have to conform to you?” “You don’t. You can be miserable.” I love the relational tone and the encouragement rather than shutting down communication. The laughter in the crowd shows just how well this lesson connected, thank you very much Cynthia!!! ❤️ I just bought your book “A Woman of Strenth and Purpose”… I appreciate you!
@beachgirl9234
@beachgirl9234 Жыл бұрын
Thank you with all my heart. Your personality sounds so much like mine. I needed to laugh and giggle and realize when I'm dealing with the swp's in my life, including my perceptions and how I want others to work with me. Your sarcasm is so sweet compared to some people's sarcasm I know. Your sarcasm is not pointed abusive but informative, funny and straight forward. 😄
@Mushroom321-
@Mushroom321- Жыл бұрын
Yes!!, no one in history have calmed down from hearing " calm down " amen !!
@Grace-bk4tq
@Grace-bk4tq Жыл бұрын
Assertive vs. Strong-willed A strong-willed person can have unjust or unethical demands. Assertive people are bold but respectful. They get things done while having strong principles and morals. It is a positive trait. It is not being bossy or aggressive just to get their own way whether it's right or wrong.
@johnpaulgarcia6906
@johnpaulgarcia6906 Жыл бұрын
I agree
@jeslovesjesus
@jeslovesjesus Жыл бұрын
This was one of my favorite broadcast you guys have done!
@KCSmith1
@KCSmith1 Жыл бұрын
You just explained myself to me.
@Brian-rs4ug
@Brian-rs4ug Жыл бұрын
Yep. Getting along with strong willed people is possible. Although it does require tact and wisdom when working with them. As for the strong willed person. If they are intuitive and have the ability to self reflect. They learn to adjust and change from the inside out. Some come to realize the world does not revolve around them.
@perfectionista492
@perfectionista492 Жыл бұрын
I agree. And oftentimes, these strong-willed people who seem to be proud of how vocal they are and how primed they are for leadership, are extremely soft and tender-hearted on the inside. They also often deal with loneliness and feeling misunderstood because many of them have the best hearts and want to help and connect with others, but because of their strong-willed nature, they are misunderstood for being bossy when they are trying to be helpful. It's very heartbreaking. I have this particular insight, because I have many strong-willed people as family members.
@candyalexander2196
@candyalexander2196 Жыл бұрын
Well said
@emilysnead7245
@emilysnead7245 Жыл бұрын
I would beg to differ on the perspective that strong-willed people believe the world revolves around them. I am one of those strong willed persons and I don't recall ever having that mindset. I am well aware that I am no more important than anyone else. Other people are extremely important to me, and I greatly respect the opinions and beliefs of others. A strong-willed (or stubborn) nature can be channeled into a determination to follow through and accomplish things that those without strong wills would more easily give up on. I believe a strong-willed person has a greater capacity for handling difficult things. A strong-willed person may be less likely to be swayed from their beliefs with more boldness to share their faith with others. On the flip side: strong-willed people tend to be bad at asking for help. And yes, we do indeed struggle to admit when we are wrong. The world needs strong-willed people as much as it needs people of any other character type.
@Brian-rs4ug
@Brian-rs4ug Жыл бұрын
@@emilysnead7245 I agree, strong willed children tend to be stubborn and refuse to give up on things they have strong convictions about. It sounds like you had some admirable core values planted into your heart early on in life. (In regards to caring for others and placing them others above yourself) You are ahead of those who had to learn this later on in life. Count your blessings and be grateful that you didn’t have to learn this through unnecessary hardship and trials.
@patrickmcmanus1360
@patrickmcmanus1360 Жыл бұрын
You know, culturally in the West weaker personalities are valued at least on a moral level. They are looked at as more neutral and innert. I would suggest to you that that's a misleading appearance. People who aren't "strong willed" often have trouble standing up for what they believe in. If you read Hannah Arendt, she suggests that in fact the root of all evil are people who refuse to stand up for what they believe in. People who can be pushed from one side to the other easily. I think assuming the truth in her analysis, it's more valuable to learn from SWP and what they have to offer and to make that sacrifice to learn their language and communicate with them. "adjust and change" is something we should all be attempting. I think people sometimes are focuses on the surface irritation and fail to recognize the rivers of value that run deep under the surface. Maybe try the see the value in people instead of zeroing in on their irritating features. Sometimes it's actually worth meeting them where they're at.
@Hannah-jk3dk
@Hannah-jk3dk Жыл бұрын
I always tell my mother to be calm and to quit releasing negativety to the environment. I need to learn how to help her cause she doesnt understand
@karllewis4258
@karllewis4258 Жыл бұрын
WoW! youtube has been “reading my mail”. Nice prompt youtube … you listened to the Holy Spirit. I love “Poke us in the Family”. I listened to Focus on the Family on the radio for decades. I recorded the programs on cassette tapes to listen a second and third time. And gave them to others.
@edithbannerman4
@edithbannerman4 Жыл бұрын
@Hello there, how are you doing this blessed day?
@uofa82
@uofa82 Жыл бұрын
I AM the strong-willed person. And so is my only child, a daughter just like me. Help me, Jesus!🙏✝️🕊️❤️‼️
@RoseLynnnn
@RoseLynnnn Жыл бұрын
I will pray for you! I am that strong willed person & I too have an only child, a son who is also strong willed! This has helped me so much just listening to this video! 🙏❤️
@Vida2419
@Vida2419 Жыл бұрын
Lol... same here ... pay back. 🤣
@sophiaramirez1088
@sophiaramirez1088 Жыл бұрын
@@Vida2419 iOPp1
@BitsyBee
@BitsyBee Жыл бұрын
Ha! You mean help the rest of us 😉
@anafloresflorestas3387
@anafloresflorestas3387 Жыл бұрын
@@Vida2419 mmmmmmmmilmkllkmkkmkmkmkkkmkmkkmkkmkkm❤
@terrymunda5767
@terrymunda5767 Жыл бұрын
This is so needed right now
@carmelacox2460
@carmelacox2460 Жыл бұрын
I enjoyed the message. Simply message but powerful! I haven't missed my baby milk..I have enjoyed the meat of God's Word❤
@TexasSandyJ
@TexasSandyJ Жыл бұрын
Thank you kindly. I will remember not to take the bait in the future. I will smile and be kind. Silence is also gold. 😁😁😁
@AQ-bd8ry
@AQ-bd8ry Жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing this precious teaching .
@auntymom
@auntymom Жыл бұрын
The Lord knows I needed this...from a SWP clashing with another SWP 🙏
@HousesForSaleCairns
@HousesForSaleCairns Жыл бұрын
Opposition defiant disorder - how to cope with interactions! She’s hilarious
@Esther27Yadah
@Esther27Yadah Жыл бұрын
Thank you for wisdom, a laugh & hope given!
@maureenmuggleton5145
@maureenmuggleton5145 Жыл бұрын
Exactly what I needed to listen to today .Thank you !
@bebamorales1000
@bebamorales1000 Жыл бұрын
Oh dear mine! I am so blessed to hear this message!!!Thank You!
@jd-um4jw
@jd-um4jw Жыл бұрын
Tone is everything, everything
@berdinenickens4823
@berdinenickens4823 Жыл бұрын
I love it! Communication is important in getting alone with others 😉.
@bobnewman3053
@bobnewman3053 Жыл бұрын
My wife and I both are strong willed. We do fight a lot. I’m hoping this will help me in dealing with her; and she with me. Thank you Cynthia Tobias.
@doric.bermudez9885
@doric.bermudez9885 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing this broadcast. It's actually blessing 🙌
@sandra-799
@sandra-799 Жыл бұрын
This is mind blowing! What an answer to prayer and fasting I Now I have knowledge and skills I am grateful beyond measure!
@nanyaonwuamaeze4862
@nanyaonwuamaeze4862 Жыл бұрын
This is a very sad/painful video for me. Ms. Tobias is very correct in her presentation but it is difficult when you are trying to live a Christian with a strong will spouse. Hopefully I will have the grace/patience to apply the wisdom principles that Ms. Tobias has shared. Thank you Focus On The Family. Well done
@truthbetold7775
@truthbetold7775 Жыл бұрын
Same 😢
@focusonthefamily
@focusonthefamily Жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing, Nanya! We’re glad that you found this program helpful. If you ever need a listening ear, please don’t hesitate to call us at 1‐800‐232‐6459. God’s best to you & yours!
@leondrawalker7304
@leondrawalker7304 Жыл бұрын
Iam so grateful for this teaching and learning experience for growth Grace compassion in Jesus'Name
@leahjagger1309
@leahjagger1309 Жыл бұрын
As an SWP , raising them and having many in my family, thank you! I needed this years ago!
@deborahmoseng7150
@deborahmoseng7150 Жыл бұрын
Love, love, love this. I need to listen to this everyday. Thank you.
@kjwolfe8907
@kjwolfe8907 Жыл бұрын
Thank you ❤️ for providing so many tools!! I will definitely use your example for how to give grace to a difficult co-worker.
@judykaymacgreagor4422
@judykaymacgreagor4422 Жыл бұрын
I needed this yesterday.
@Mushroom321-
@Mushroom321- Жыл бұрын
I like the " i think i meant it differently how i said it ". 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
@Questingmind
@Questingmind Жыл бұрын
I struggle this was on a Christian podcast. Esp when you’re talking about the Holy Spirit. I’m SWP… and it’s been a lifelong fight to walk in humility, esteem others more than myself… try to live the 1 Corinth 13 way. The work has to be done in MY heart… not by others learning to deal with me. As a coping mechanism with other SWP children or people.. just brilliant! Very useful and insightful … and I will def try to apply it. But I wouldn’t expect to have to apply this to a mature Christian. Puzzled by ‘ the gift of sarcasrn? From a youth with a cutting tongue , I was told it’s the lowest form of wit, but as a growing Christian? It’s no ‘gift’… It’s a fruit of the flesh.
@patrickdavis7000
@patrickdavis7000 Жыл бұрын
Couldn't agree less...I don't think you are as swp as you think
@patrickdavis7000
@patrickdavis7000 Жыл бұрын
Also...I bet the person who told you that sarcasm is the lowest form of wit has no wit at all.
@elizabethe5976
@elizabethe5976 Жыл бұрын
I posit that strong willed people have high need for and tend to extend respect, and so often in culture we "nicely" disrespect and SWP recognize and resist that.
@ingoditrust1543
@ingoditrust1543 Жыл бұрын
Thank you. I just learned why there are too many fires in my house with my 5 year old.
@sweetk5897
@sweetk5897 Жыл бұрын
I love focus on the family, Thank you for your ministry
@BelindaTN
@BelindaTN Жыл бұрын
This is why I have an aversion to strong willed people…….then I married one. And found out that he inherited the trait. Lol not knowing how best to deal with it, I just didn’t. I just avoided it when I could and gave in when I couldn’t. Peace is more important to me, I guess. 43 years later and I still have my much loved husband that seems to appreciate me because I have put up with him. It helps that we moved into a bigger house and more property for me to have the space that I need to avoid him when I need to and he respects that. He in turn has learned to avoid me when he is in one of his very negative and angry moods that I am clueless to understand. Like he is clueless to understand why it should bother me so much. I have entertained the idea to treat him Like he does me with those strong willed and irritatable moods. Well. I can’t say that I would recommend that idea. Lol. What I can say is that my husband is a strong and honorable man that takes his job as a husband and a father very seriously and I love him for that.
@melissatowery3319
@melissatowery3319 Жыл бұрын
My son is home from prison after many years and his sister died just this may of overdose…my husband is not happy with the situation. He won’t work with this and the two are fighting…I’m stuck in the middle…..two strong willed people. They have the control😢 and I’m so tired. Pray for all of us. I took the bate
@focusonthefamily
@focusonthefamily Жыл бұрын
Hello, Melissa. We're so sorry for your loss. Our hearts went out to you as we read your note, friend. Be assured of our prayers for you, asking the Lord to draw you, your husband, and your son closer to Himself and unite your family in HIs love. May He touch you with His healing hand whenever you hurt and surround you with His peace. Also, If you ever need a listening ear, please don’t hesitate to call us at (800) 232-6459. God bless you.
@joedevane4734
@joedevane4734 Жыл бұрын
@@focusonthefamily website
@Blessedmama7
@Blessedmama7 Жыл бұрын
This helps me SO much with my son!
@debridgesbridges3775
@debridgesbridges3775 Жыл бұрын
I love hearing focus on the family!
@patricialancaster4320
@patricialancaster4320 Жыл бұрын
Overcoming the fear of swp. I want to express myself freely.
@robinrusso1969
@robinrusso1969 Жыл бұрын
Thank you....timely answer to prayers
@elainethomas9532
@elainethomas9532 Жыл бұрын
Thank you. God's blessings 🙏💗🙏
@randylynnr
@randylynnr Жыл бұрын
I’m a strong willed person but I thank you for this. My DIL is a SWP but also a narcissist. So sometimes I get angry because she leaves thing out that I don’t get upset about because it is nice for her family and not mine. My older son is her family and that’s it. So I have to use your way with her. Maybe that will get her to think of others and not just her my son and grandkids.
@hhhunt777
@hhhunt777 Жыл бұрын
love her!!!
@Angebaby1237
@Angebaby1237 Жыл бұрын
I can’t tell you how amazing this video is! My 13 year old daughter and I are not SWP!! All too many times I have to say get behind me Satan! ❤ We go in circles about subjects, I feel that this tactics will put a stop it! 😂
@redhead8777
@redhead8777 Жыл бұрын
As a SWP, I can vouch. This is great. Thank you! I learned about myself and others.
@annewilson6648
@annewilson6648 Жыл бұрын
Amazingly helpful..Teach this in Schools!!!!Everywhere.Replay replay!!!!!
@valerielove9837
@valerielove9837 Жыл бұрын
Great message. Love how she uses sarcasm. I have tried this at times. I sure works
@MonarchAZ
@MonarchAZ Жыл бұрын
I am a reformed by Christ SWP. Unfortunately my son married a girl just like his Mom was before Christ fixed me. My DIL is not a practicing Christian so her strong will has manifested in bullying me. I've allowed it thinking she'd eventually respond to love & kindness. 15 years later she still dominates and I can only maintain my contact with my son & granddaughter by obeying her rules. Her abusive disrespect has only grown. My broken heart is only surpassed by how she has throttled my ability to bring Christ's love into their family. I would like to stand up for myself but Christ is more important. I pray they will have some revelation after I die.
@dianemurillo7437
@dianemurillo7437 Жыл бұрын
I want to thank you for this talk. ❤
@laurieannJake
@laurieannJake Жыл бұрын
She’s awesome!!! 😊
@marjoriebennett8443
@marjoriebennett8443 Жыл бұрын
this is very helpful; thankyou.
@jimpemberton
@jimpemberton Жыл бұрын
I appreciate the advice Cynthia Tobias gives. The only thing I object to is the use of the moniker "strong-willed". That implies that people who are not "strong-willed" are "weak-willed". From the advice I hear from Cynthia, SWP are less capable of not being acerbic than I am of being acerbic when I choose to be. It seems they have less control over their will than I have over mine. The best way to manipulate a SWP is to let them think they are winning. I do that with my boss all the time in order to "lead up".
@lolaalaniz9620
@lolaalaniz9620 Жыл бұрын
🤣
@taras4352
@taras4352 Жыл бұрын
This Christian speaker isn’t promoting manipulation. She’s teaching effective communication skills. There’s a big difference.
@jimpemberton
@jimpemberton Жыл бұрын
@@taras4352 I beg to differ. There is an overlap between them.
@cindyshaver3432
@cindyshaver3432 Жыл бұрын
Please what is an SWP🤷‍♀️?
@jimpemberton
@jimpemberton Жыл бұрын
@@cindyshaver3432 SWP = Strong Willed Person. Cynthia used the acronym in the video and unless I just missed the explanation (which wouldn't be uncommon), we were just left to pick up on what it meant on our own.
@kristinyaekelnegley3978
@kristinyaekelnegley3978 Жыл бұрын
😆 Oh I love her! And she is so right on. I have a 5 year old SW boy. It’s a rollercoaster ride of emotion. I always love him. But we have great, amazing times. And we have struggles (because I’m not an SWP, but I do have red hair😋). But he is an amazing kid and will definitely be a leader some day!
@carolynprice9288
@carolynprice9288 Жыл бұрын
I have red hair and was so quite and timid. People were surprised.
@alisonmorgan7238
@alisonmorgan7238 Жыл бұрын
Oh how I wish I had this advice when I, an SW parent was parenting an SW son. It certainly would have been helpful for my SW mama when she was raising 3 SW children! (There were 4 of us but thankfully #4 was a sweetie) My son and I survived my SWP mistakes and we have a wonderful relationship now. More thanks to his graciousness than anything I did! Love covers a multitude of sins
@victoriaoshea4865
@victoriaoshea4865 Жыл бұрын
Amazing talk!!
@tarynleikam
@tarynleikam Жыл бұрын
My husband is an SWP. 38 years ago, someone told him he’d never be able to be sober…..he showed them!! That’s always been his attitude! Don’t tell me what to do! Love your speech 🥰
@mirana3967
@mirana3967 Жыл бұрын
My family is loud. Not angry. Guess it sounds angry. Im gonna get this book.
@kobusingyehannahannet6546
@kobusingyehannahannet6546 Жыл бұрын
This is real Life nuggets thank you so much
@augustinaoluchi1902
@augustinaoluchi1902 Жыл бұрын
Those who makes you sad are in control
@patriciapettie2938
@patriciapettie2938 Жыл бұрын
So it Seems. sigh
@mcleodpro7
@mcleodpro7 Жыл бұрын
Absolute quality 👌🏾
@lynnclark4208
@lynnclark4208 Жыл бұрын
Thank you Jesus!!!
@lauragb3677
@lauragb3677 Жыл бұрын
These communication tools are perfect as we enter the holiday season.
@traciebecker6669
@traciebecker6669 Жыл бұрын
This came up in my feed just in time.
@kathryncarty1629
@kathryncarty1629 Жыл бұрын
Thank you so very much!!!
@conniejd8046
@conniejd8046 Жыл бұрын
You're mine kind of person. And it works I've tried it and it works. Thank you
@jchambers5668
@jchambers5668 Жыл бұрын
Thank you! ❤️
@Vshokri
@Vshokri Жыл бұрын
Leo sign here. Loved this clip. ❤️ I am SWP
@ntrelis
@ntrelis Жыл бұрын
Amazing message ❤
@lindachristjansen2074
@lindachristjansen2074 Жыл бұрын
Lovely. Thank you
@ritadaniels3175
@ritadaniels3175 Жыл бұрын
I acknowledge that I AM a FIRST BORN & STRONG WILLED❣️ In TODAYS world tho… I question a Millennial giving someone that “TAG” when I see SNOWFLAKES that MELT @ the HINT OF WARMTH😮😢NOW THAT GETS ME UPSET & ready for battle as I have recently battled a Narcissist in my Life that I HONESTLY THOUGHT CARED… He left me for a millennial Jezebel/Delilah & NOW I AM THANKFUL FOR TOUGH❣️✨🙏🤓 ❤️🤍💙🇺🇸
@toniturner3478
@toniturner3478 Жыл бұрын
Oh my goodness! I love this woman!
@edithbannerman4
@edithbannerman4 Жыл бұрын
@Hello there, how are you doing this blessed day?
@vanessap8354
@vanessap8354 Жыл бұрын
Excellent! Advice,
@randiloreaux6991
@randiloreaux6991 Жыл бұрын
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