GETTING BACK TO MY JOB l REAL TALK # 2 l Reallife Realhome

[@swatinegi6401]

Hello Anu, Congrats on your new job! I absolutely love the clarity of your thoughts and principles you live by. Thankyou for being on youtube, people like you are rays of hope and inspiration in an otherwise saturated and senseless medium. I have always loved your views on parenting and today I was nodding all along when you talked about why it is absolutely normal for your husband to be not on your videos. I personally believe love is something you can get from people without any major effort but respect is always something to be earned and every time I hear you speak, I respect you even more as an individual, and as a woman. Wishing you all the luck for your new job and I am sure you will succeed in all your endeavors because your value system is intact. So much to learn from you Anu ! Much love and hugs from Germany ❤️❤️😘

[@PriyankaUppal]

I agree 100%. Well done Anu. BIG Congrats and Good Luck with your new job :)

[@tarlapatel5111]

Good Luck Anu 😍🙌😍

[@thelifestylepro390]

Why her husband is not ok with her videos ??????? Pl answer

[@ashvitagill6129]

Truly felt like you were speaking from your heart and your positive vibrations resonate so much ! All the best to you on your new job!

[@aparna8568]

Hi Anu, very nice vlog. I liked listening you no matter how much time required. I can sit for an hour listening to you. You calm n soothing voice brings lots of positivity. You are really down to earth. I feels like I must have a friend like you in my life so motivating, understanding. You are so matured. You know I repeatedly watches your videos the way you handle all chores, and still happy n relaxed at the end of day. What I like about you is your simplicity, way of your talking your voice, matured talk...I really loves you

[@meghamalabanerjee7267]

Congratulations! I wish you best of luck and I also wish that you become able to manage your home and work life equally well. But who will be there to look after your kids when they return from school? Your point on raising daughters like daughters is really appreciable. Raising kids is one of the most beautiful things of life. Seeing a child grow and become a mature, responsible human being someday is a joy incomparable to anything else on earth. And my journey as a mother has become much less rough and much more enjoyable experience as I got a chance to meet you. Thank you. God bless you and your family. No matter how infrequent your vlogs may become or how less time you may spend in reading and responding to our comments, we are always with you. This RealLife RealHome community that you built will never stop growing and supporting each other.

[@NMC622]

youtubes first n ever true n genuine video.. anu ji you are sincerely superb ✌👍

[@kundantrivedi8946]

All the best anuji..

[@deepmalamishra2098]

Ur answer about perfection was so real and honest that it melt my heart.........

[@banerjeearundhati22]

Hi Anu, WOW! What a video...but firstly a big CONGRATULATIONS on your decision. I am sure you will do it well. Impediments will come and go, difficulties will happen, some days will tear you apart as your husband keeps traveling on work but do not worry it will work out. Now that your elder one is a little grown up, he can support the younger one wherever you need to fill in. Take care. Yes, I will miss your videos as I know the frequency has to come down...but happy for you. Take care and best wishes to you and your family as this is a new step for the whole family, not just you alone.

[@yadavapurva]

Thanks! I’ll show this to my husband.now I won’t pester him for small things. Will let him be his way too :) He genuinely tries to help me a lot and has made many adjustments to learn household chores to help me.

[@organicvoyage]

Wanna give it millions of likes Especially husband wife part was very useful

[@TariniPeshawaria]

I showed this video to my husband. This blog felt God sent. Thank you.

[@WonderWomanHere]

You are such an inspiration and so level headed! Your advice is spot on!

[@poonamj6336]

swapna bellare exactly ...

[@ambreenhamid5326]

Radiance on your face shows the purity of your heart ❤️

[@gayathriiyer5207]

Hi Anu.... All I have to say is wow! Where were you till now Anu? This is one of the best videos ever! I absolutely loved all your answers. They were so honest and came from the heart. I completely agree that a household cannot function if you say equality beyond an extent. There are at times you do work more and times where he does more. A family has to function together. And how awesome when you said you are not getting angry when he doesn't do things your way. It took me a long time too to figure this out but I working on it. You have to let go and appreciate. I have always seen nobody has motivation to help when you want things just your way. Your family falls apart. Such a heartfelt conversation Anu... You are such an amazing person and I am glad you are in my life. I am so happy to be seeing someone else thinking like me which gives me more affirmation in my thoughts and views. Congratulations on your job Anu. I am definitely going to miss seeing you 2 to 3 times a week but I am happy for you. I am praying for your success Anu. I think you and your husband are awesome people who are lucky to have found each other. I wish you success on your amazing journey and we'll definitely keep in touch. I only have one question - When am I going to be able to meet you in person? Please say soon! Lots of love from California

[@khadijaeram2270]

I lke ur cHannel

[@ColoursCreativitySpace]

Gayathri Iyer agree with you 👍👍

[@niyatiburghate6893]

So happy for you! All the best...We will keep cherishing your videos n certainly keep waiting for the new ones...Take your time and rock it as u always do! Much love,

[@myhappiness5414]

hi Anu. m ur silent viewer frm d past few mnths. i really like ur thoughts. u r very mature, intelligent, practical n motivational lady. luv frm d bottom of my heart. all d best fr evrything u do.

[@shameelarizvi6434]

Nice views,,,,nice thought about real life,,,,many many congratulations to your job again

[@safiyasalma7566]

Well answered to all the questions. Congratulations for your new job. Take care of your health. Good luck👍👍

[@rupinderkaur4419]

I always watch your videos but rarely comment. You are such an inspiration. I always look for positive and inspiring videos on KZbin when I am sad. I will watch this video of yours from now on. Respect!

[@shreeshree3481]

Hello Anu. Congratulations on your new job. This video is good. But This is just my opinion. Your advice on in laws is good only if you are away from them or visiting them once in a while. Girls staying with in laws specially manipulative ones would require different set of skill sets to handle them. They would crush you otherwise. In our culture, most of us are taught to be silent whatever they say. When husbands are supportive of their wives, they would be turned as joru ka gulam. You have just talked about in laws who are really nice. I feel either such things are lie or that person has to be the luckiest in the world. 90% of the cases are not so happy. Respect should come from both sides. Just not from girls side. Because no one is nobody’s slave. Please make a video on how to handle exploitative in laws.. 🙏🏼

[@jyotisharma-qz5vd]

Sabse pahle to ek nye payedaan pe kadam rakhne aur aage badhne ke liye aapko badhai!🙏aapke liye to ab dil me aur bhi jagah ban gyi hai.....kitni sulajhi hui aur samajhdaar hai aap! Aap ki har ek baat me bahut sacchai hai

[@pratibhapadhi9440]

I love you Anu di. Happy to hear that u r joining job. Keep motivating all. Wife husband kamon ka hisab nahin rakhna chahiye. Kabhi kisiko jyada karna hota hai, agree with you.

[@sudhandevadiga6613]

Apki yehi simple ya puraani soch mujhe pasand ati he.. its so good to see such people exist in todays world.my husband handles household chores n i work out. But i know he still works more than me. I sit at one place in the office. Husband bahar ka b kaam sambhal te he..ghar ka bhi. Humse nahi hoga itna. I appreciate and respect that

[@hemaishwarbakhtiani9823]

Anu dear... Felt so good to watch ur video..i love ur excellent command over language.. U r so calm n composed which makes u outstanding.. 😘👍

[@vedhaandh8120]

The way u answered is the reason why people respect u ..u totally deserve it..

[@pranalijadhav1785]

Aaj tak aapka yah sabse achha video hai aapke vichar soch bahut achhi hai aaj ke jamane ke boys & girls ne ye video dekhana chahiye bhut kuch sikha milegi ye video se ....love u Anu ...take care...and best of luck your next step.. job💐 .........l like video love you lot😘😍😙😗👍

[@WeightLossWithSeema]

Yeah Baat aapne bilkul sahi kahi, Har insaan ka kaam karne ka tarika alag hota hain, even aapke parents ka tarika alag hain kuch cheejon me aur aapka alag. Sabko apna space dena jarrori hain, saath saath khud ka space bhi rakhna hi hain. Har cheej me toka taki hogi to baat bigdegi hi. I think yeah pahla youtube video dekha, jismen kisi ne itna khulkar clearly apne thoughts rakhe. Aur mujhe to kahin se nahi lagta, aapki soch purani hain. Aapki soch meaningful hain. Aisi videos Dalten rahiyen. Isse kafi kuch sikhne ko milta hain :)

[@nidhichaurasia2170]

Simplicity n beauty at its best😘😘😘😘😘u deserve all pleasure es of life 👩‍❤‍👩👩‍❤‍👩👩‍❤‍👩👩‍❤‍👩

[@sushmacs9061]

Congratulations and All the very best on your new job !! I have always enjoyed your videos, please keep posting. You always bring new ideas and useful in everyday habits, going along with your channel title. We will be waiting for your videos ....

[@krishnaconscious2619]

Truely said ma'am..no one is perfect. Feels really positive after watching your videos. :) Can you please make few videos on how newly Weds can strengthen their bonding with husbands. You are mature and straight forwardly honest so I feel you can do it nicely. :)

[@garimasmusicchannel9907]

Kratika Chauhan ladai jhagda kalesh Kam see Kam karna...wahin see bonding tut jati hai...I know it's difficult to make peace with a new person....wo bhi aaj Kal ke temper ke sath..but avoid karogi tabhi bonding strong hogi..Khana unke lie khud banao...Bina expectations ke phir dekhna magic...

[@krishnaconscious2619]

Thank you for valuable advice. 😊

[@garimasmusicchannel9907]

Kratika Chauhan you are always welcome dear..I've been through this phase..now it's been only three years in marriage and ye Jo KZbin par perfect husband aur couple goals ka chal rha never get affected by this..and iski wajah se never fight with your husband...jad hai har problem ki yahi

[@krishnaconscious2619]

Yeah correct. I don't fight. M peaceful person. It's just that generally we have different family backgrounds so there is difference in thinking and it gives result to clashes. I cook food by myself only. :)

[@priyanka2124]

Glad that someone is talking like real mother here else all others is just drama!! All d best👍happy summer☺️from Sweden 🇸🇪

[@debjanidutta7000]

Anu your vlog is really practical and your honest confession is worthy of praise. Be happy be logical. My good wishes for you.

[@madhuri9149]

Hearty Congratulations and all the best for your new job . Love your thoughts as always!

[@sowmyasampathkumar690]

Good wishes Anu. This is a great video that you have shared. You have planned everything clearly. Take your time to settle in this new routine. We all will wait for you. Best wishes and May the almighty shower his choices blessings on you.

[@Swathisadanand]

Wonderful Anu !!! Speechless and a big big thumbs up dear for your thoughts . I totally agree with you each and every point you have discussed here . Once again you are an amazing personality with no comparisons .

[@PakistaniMomZahraaChOfficial]

10:24 strongly agree with u ..buht sensible hyn ap ... ❤ buht kuch seekhne ko mila .💐😇 ap buht achi insan lagiN islea izzat khud ba khud dil main aati hy to hi ham apko #Annu Jii bolty hyn ... Lots of love 💕💐

[@PoojaPanchal12]

Loved all that you spoke, it's an amazing decision that you've taken , definitely needs a lot of courage, waiting for the next video when you talk about how life has been after you started working , maybe 2-4months down the line. All the best ❤️

[@meenujasrotia1501]

Congratulations for new step! Each& every word touch my heart. God always stay with u & ur family.

[@fatimaansari1535]

Motivation wali bat bht sahi khi apne anu didi.. Apke thoughts bht acche h..U r so simple n real

[@hasnamasood5461]

All the best anu I know u will manage the things. After seeing you vedio I went on to share your thoughts with my mother in law and she was so happy to hear. She has given all her blessings to u. All the best.

[@RealLifeRealHome]

Thankyou

[@6zun]

You are such a real person,really liked your videos and your way of talking is really awesome,it gives positive attitude,confidence to me,Thanku so much.I am newly married came to abroad Newzealand,I was very lazy person but your videos really really gives so much strength yes now I am changing my activities,makes daily plan,organising things.Thanku so much.

[@soulfulnomad6135]

Hi di .Congrats on your new job. Is it okay to ask what your new job role is ?? I understand if u want to keep it confidential. All the best. We are sure that you will rock. It's going to be tough to get used to this new routine. Eventually u will get used to it. God bless.

[@nitikadahiya87]

Congratulations on your job, I always look forward to your videos. I have two kids and managing them is not easy so try to always learn from you. Your videos are very motivating.

[@maaminishow73]

Hiii anu akka, I'm south Indian. I know hindi 70 percent i love ur videos soooo much. Ur English is too good. I'm trying to talk in English but I can't. Please is ke bare main ek video banayiye. Kuch tips bathayiye. Waiting for ur reply akka

[@simplyash1949]

Hi. Congratulations for the new starting. May I know what job are you going to do ?

[@payalpandya2865]

Rightly said. Once a mother, always a mother. We tend to take care of everyone including our partners all the more because a mother in us is born a long with our little one. And it is perfectly ok to share household chores and it's natural to feel lazy some days. We are human and not robot to work mechanically. Life is different for all. If we know our sole purpose of existence then nothing can come in way of progress. Congratulations for being a great youtuber and Good Luck for your new venture. I am sure you will nail it too. Lots of love and best wishes

[@dpikashrma]

You are such a great soul and inspiration. Just loved this video. Keep this good work up.

[@mayurimande9211]

Bohot badi soch hai mam aapki.... Bhagwaan ko jo chije hum se chahiye hoti hai..... Jaise ki ek dusare ko samajhana, bado ki respect Karna,aur wo sari chije jo aapne batai hai vedio mai....aur ek baat muze bohot hi achhi lagati hai ki aapko bilkul bhi kisi bhi baat ka Garv nahi hai........... Aapko to bin mange bhagwaan ne kabka aashirwaad de diya hoga

[@RecipesOutOfABox]

Best of Luck with your new job.. Love from Canada ❤️💐

[@yangzibhutia5759]

As said being real always attracts the masses...though I am not married I love watching ur videos...ur parenting and day to day life...all the best for ur new job..

[@shaheenali9588]

hi best of luck we you new job and bless you anu❤really like watching your video's 👍👍👍👍

[@gopalidesai3657]

Lovely talk , I agree with each and everything you mentioned ... Congratulations and Good Luck for the new job ...Take care ...see u soon

[@AnupamaJha21]

Congrats Anu.. 😄 I am very happy for you..but pls don't mind.. Who is going to look after the kids? Actually I am bit concerned about the kids so I asked this question as it was my biggest concern when I was working..hope u take my question in positive way.. All the best dear

[@anilkumardubey4560]

Anupama Jha o

[@funkyricha]

You are absolutely one of the best indian youtuber. Big congrats and hug to you on your new chapter of life. Being a working mom with a 3.5 year old, I can only imagine how tough life can be at times however, women are born FIGHTERS. #upliftwomen love from Washington D.C!

[@los-angeles]

Hello Anu. Love your channel! Your videos are so inspiring. I was under the impression that with so many subscribers, your videos would generate enough income, keeping you fulfilled and busy. So if you don't mind me asking, why do you feel the need to commute two hours a day to work outside home?

[@sminur9759]

Congratulations ! Be all the blessings of God be with you in this transition... Take care.

[@derpina615]

Thanks for keeping it real! 👏🏼👏🏼

[@tanujaal2119]

All the best anu di...

[@swatichavan2863]

Hi Annu...thanks a lot for sharing your views on certain topics...was like an eye opener...you made me think that things can be looked upon differently which in turn helps us to be more clam and focused... thankyou very much...lots of love n congratulations for your new start

[@geetarawal8459]

Di kasam se aapk baare me hi soch rhi thi...missing u.. Sunday bn gaya aaj😇

[@seekthetruthandthetruthwil2388]

Congrats Anu. You are a blessing to so many and hence u are more than blessed. Enjoy ur work and shine!

[@angelpari6693]

Looking at you di you are an avtaar durga maa

[@aparnnalaxmiraveendran3707]

All the best to you. Wish you great happiness and success in the new job.

[@skingstonsunndar4539]

Plz English subtitles

[@mgankanchana7678]

ya..me too waiting to listen wat she said..but 😕😕😕........full of hindi.......no subtitle...

[@lakshmikarthi1]

Please Translate her thoughts in English..

[@jvrrdt]

English sub pls

[@AnithaAbraham1981]

Eng subtitles pls...din understand anything...

[@geetanavasundi3896]

Yes

[@PriyaSharma-if3lb]

Dear Anu, hello from New Zealand! You are such an inspiration and such a pleasure to watch. Congratulations and best wishes on your new job!

[@itsmev3539]

U r so right....my husband helps me so much in the household chores that I feel so blessed...God must have been so happy with me that he gave me a lifelong blessing in the form of my husband....

[@MsJennyShah]

Hello Anu! As per other comments that’s very true you are simply awesome. Lots to learn from you whenever I am watching your video regarding family or parenting values it gives me motivation & inspiration too, your way of narrating is so soothing. Good luck for your new adventure & god bless you to you and your family! Thanks & keep inspiring us 🙂

[@trigyar4914]

Best video ever..... Apki baatain log samajh jaye to life easy ho jaye anu...... Best of luck for your job......

[@chandnibais1187]

Yes Di aap sahi bol rahe ho husband ese bahut se kam krte h jo humko dikhte nahi h pr vohmare liye bahut important hote h humne aap se bahut kuch sikha h thanks or congregation di

[@MPowerBeReal]

Awesome Video! Many Congratulations for your new job. Good Luck!

[@techiedkb]

Good luck on the new chapter in your life! I am sure you will do well there as well as all the other aspects of your life 👍

[@servil123]

Ur amazing..I cud validate so many thoughts of mine with yours.To top it,u have such a soothing and lovely voice that it immediately makes me calm in midst of stressful days.

[@hemangikulkarni3814]

Congratulations for your new job. We are ever inspired by your wonderful housekeeping ideas. Indeed you are a genuine person. You are a nice Indian homemaker and ever inspire like a sister

[@SSsays29]

Dear Anu, i saw lot of honesty and wisdom in your conversation. You seem to be a self monitored/ regulated person trying to lead a life simple yet fruitful life... but i have seen people like you go through lot of heartaches to reach this level of maturity. They dont have a very rewarding life. Log jam ke unka faiyda uthate hain...i hope it is not the case with you... matter of fact we should not generalise these things. Many congratulations for your job. You will take it in your stride very fast. Love from Sonia.

[@Louisvuittonlover2]

Very happy for you and excited too.....bloom where you are planted Anu, and I'm sure you will be amazing at managing both work and home. It will take some time to adjust but you already do meal prep ( infact I learnt from you!) and you are disciplined, both of which will help you better use your time.God Bless you. Good Luck and take care.

[@smita7213]

I liked your channel and video.All the best for your new job.

[@swapnasureshbabu4261]

Dear Anu, I 100% agree what you shared as I also had the same experience and finally I came to the point ,that I need to change my perspective and learn to appreciate people rather looking at the empty part of the glass ... ultimate aim is peace within us, peace around us. ✌️wishing you a very successful career ahead ❤️.

[@naghmaroohi1420]

Congratulations dear.bohot badhiya soch hain aap ki .people around you are lucky to have you in their life

[@surbhis3791]

Very nice video Di.. Best wishes to you for your new chapter. Aap Jitna bhi time lo settle hone k liye but pls kabhi bhi video bnana band mat krna . Chahe 2 min. Ka video just to say helllo. Apki smile , apka sath hi bhut hai hmare liye. I am so lucky I found you . Best regards and respect 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

[@uthravaradharajan5902]

Congrats anu & really u r a role model for all to follow.U r an inspiration to all and spreading positivity all around u.

[@madhurikotabagi4659]

Hi Anu, congrats on your new job. Thanks for another motivational video.

[@kameswariaparnamantravadi]

Anu...superb video u r inspiration to every Indian girl worldwide out there.....N great opinions...u always r helping a newly married couples who r away from there parents from India

[@kavita384]

So good to hear that you are getting back to work. I too resumed work recently after 7 years of being a house wife...All the best ...

[@AkanshaGupta]

Loved your vlog. I always believe that 1:1 comparison of tasks is not scalable. Being a bigger person is understanding your purpose in life and living it to make life good.

[@shrutishinde5531]

I just love listening to your views on different things.

[@shabananaz4243]

Excellent block.God stay bless you and your family .

[@angelangel2980]

Best of luck for ur job...the new beginning....now i think ur videos will become more encouraging.

[@rajni6619]

Very Nice Vlog Anu ji.. So realistic and practical aspects.. Good luck for ur new job..

[@hemangikulkarni3814]

It's very good that you are joining a job. I am sure that you are capable of keeping balance between job and house management. We working ladies are proud of you .Keep inspiring us by your better housekeeping ideas.They indeed are wonderful, Anu

[@busyTalkingmom]

Your always special for me,the way to handle your kids , studies, family.cleaning organising many more every thing I like the most even single day am not missed your videos I saw all your all are fabulous.tq u.love u akk

[@pgtradingcompany6451]

Congrats for job n best of luck .I always waiting for new video no matter how much time you take you r big inspiration for me

[@StaytunedwithSamudrika]

Honestly speaking, I have never felt so happy after watching any video on KZbin like this. U seems to b so sorted and focused. I really like the way you explained every points of yours. U just earned a loyal viewer. Subscribing right away. Lots of love and support.

[@kathikayadav7019]

All d best for yout new job..thanks for sharing your views with us....i really like d way you speak....i know perfection is nowhere...but you r very near to perfection and v all moms and ladies want to b like u.....once again congratulation..stay blessed...

[@ranjusaini8512]

Congratulations Anu for your job. I hope it would be a positive and great adjustment for your family’ s growth. Good luck 😊

[@neelimabavirisetty5013]

Congrats Anu. Wish you good luck on your new job. And glad that you would continue this channel. I am actually a new viewer and love to watch your videos.

[@supreetiprakash5222]

You have covered all the important questions very nicely. I watch many Indian youtubers but you are my most favorite KZbinr... many many congratulations on going back to work...will definitely miss you till you get settled after joining work

[@sonal9600]

Absolutely true anu ...Jada expectations nahi rakhe tho bohot happily rahey sakte hain...very beautiful vblog..showing all positivity

[@dhrutikaparekh340]

Very well explained.. I am so particular about things to be done this way only....if my husband helps sometimes instead of appreciating I say u did this n that n get irritated.. but after seeing your video I will try to don’t be bothered about it n be happy 👍🏻

[@aninditatamuli5511]

The points you talk about dividing work between husband and wife is 100% true. It will never work on a 50-50 division, better to let your partner do chores you don't particularly enjoy. :D

[@sarahmahmood06]

Hello anu, It’s very exciting to go back to work, i am sure it will be a smooth transition for you. I discovered your channel few months ago and I am a working mom here in the USA.Your videos are very helpful esply the food prep ones, it may sound weird but I always wished you got back to work just so you can make videos catering to the needs of the working moms, I am already very excited for such a video. 😄 Good luck and enjoy.

[@lifeinusa_anud]

I am so so happy for you Anu ji , Congratulations for your new job and all the best to you and may you succeed in all aspects of life you are choosing for your self. You are really giving me goals for following my dreams and not looking for excuses for not doing it . Hopefully I will also give you news of starting my new venture in few months. thanks a ton for all your positivity and guidance. Thank you from the bottom of my heart.

[@praveenarohith1217]

I loved your saying a feminist talk of half work by husband will break u your family awesome you are not old fashioned you are right that is fact ...being a Indian this is a truth

[@parvathikannan3182]

💙💙. All the very very best. Best wishes. May your energy and your people's, around you, may be high for all your and their endeavours for a happy happy life