Getting girls is easy, you’re just not trying

Stop coping bro
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[@abhiwagh2312]

It is not about just getting a girl but more about getting a good one. Also later on in life it becomes really difficult to get a girl who is wife material or is serious about it.

[@JobeHanna]

I agree, that’s why even though dating isn’t a priority for me at the moment I’m always keeping my eye out for women who could be wife material

[@mmo2780]

Many girls r wife materials however they bully them for staying pure until marriage and they get heart broken and lost hope cause no1 appreciates them and they lost hope….they stay loyal and loving later to find out that men waste their time and break up with them for hoe materials…….or leave cause they think they found a “better” one…..eventually to try and get back….to us…i personally loved someone so much and even supported him in many ways../eventually to finding out that he didn’t consider me “serious” and cheated on me and told me: stop with the fairy tales….there is no love….so now I truly believe there is no love….

[@HenriqueM-jh1ye]

Your opinion doesn't matter. You aren't ugly.

[@JobeHanna]

My point still stands, it is so much more difficult to attract girls if you’re not putting yourself in optimal situations, regardless of how attractive you are

[@HenriqueM-jh1ye]

@@JobeHanna 0x1 = 0x100

[@gorillaeggs8199]

@@JobeHanna OP doesn't understand that ugly people have extremely low chances with attractive people but ugly people don't have extremely low chances with less attractive people. Everyone thinks that if you cant get a 8> then you didn't really get a girl. Like the median woman is like a 6 or 5. I mean nobody should want an ugly woman but reality dictates that some people can only get ugly women, so it's either take it or leave it.

[@expiredfroyo]

BS, there are ugly guys who are killing it out there. Enough of this sulking 😂

[@cjthedj8154]

Cope

[@Iamdrewskies]

Getting girls IRL doesn’t count they might only like you for your personality. Tinder is the only true test of your facial aesthetics

[@hahengemahen4236]

I live in a fvcking box: school, workout (at home, I don't even go out), eat, sleep. Best period of my life.

[@JobeHanna]

Sometimes nothing beats the simple life

[@endergamer.mp4]

You say to go to places to meet women. I literally live in a suburban/rural area with literally nothing to do. Where do you even meet people in such a place. Everything is an hour away and I just don't have the time to go to those places. This stupid small town I live in is filled with old boomers. I know I have to go out there and do shit, but its hard when you live in an isolated area with barely any people your age. With that "there are plenty of fish in the sea" example, it would be like fishing in a puddle surrounded by desert land. The only way out of this hellhole would be to move to a bigger city. But with inflation and shit, there is no way I'll be able to afford some place to live on my own. While I do agree that going out to places to meet with people is the way to get friends and a partner, there are a lot of circumstances that just doesn't allow you to do that very well. Hell, even if I did go to places and did shit, I would barely interact with people due to my autism. Its not that I don't want to, I'm just too focused on my own thoughts and actions to even care about other people. General advice like this is why a lot of people give up. They try so hard to do what they're told, but because they don't factor in issues outside their control, they just think it's their own fault. I'm not saying to be lazy and not to do anything about it. Just try to do your best with the circumstances at hand. I've stopped wear earbuds at stores and in public, to maybe interact with more people irl much better. I've had a few small talks but it's pretty rare in this small town.

[@JobeHanna]

It’s definitely tough in small towns, I guess the only advice I have is to make the best of your situation, which by the sounds of it you are

[@glavlhff5984]

What do you think about tinder/onlinedating?

[@JobeHanna]

I might make a video abt this, I think it’s good for dating experience but should never be used for serious dating

[@glavlhff5984]

@@JobeHanna why not for serious dating? There's a lot of couples who have found eachother from there

[@JobeHanna]

Most people on dating apps have the wrong intentions, which makes it super difficult to find someone who is serious

[@usurname-ge9lr]

What about getting boys? (I’m a girl)

[@JobeHanna]

Easy, either make the first move or make it really obvious you’re into them, if they miss obvious hints, they’re too stupid for you.

[@sirati9770]

@@JobeHanna　make sure they arent an autist tho. autist will still miss the hints because thats their condition lol

[@Cloggedlamp]

Getting a guy as a girl is the easiest thing in the world. Even if a guy doesn’t like you, you will leave a huge impact on him and make him feel so good if you approach him. Girls literally can’t do anything to be creepy or mess up the interaction. Girls just don’t approach guys.

[@JobeHanna]

Oh I totally agree, I just meant in terms of people without any conditions that affect their behaviour.

[@koma7252]

mythical algorithm pull...thanks for the epic wisdom, I'm getting all the girls after following your advice wtf?!?

[@sirati9770]

in 7 hours

[@tristopherweaver9180]

Yea first problem is needing “the boys” to go out with

[@quoctran5337]

go on a solo adventure try new waters

[@quoctran5337]

never done it myself but yolo

[@JobeHanna]

I agree, maybe instead you’ll find your guys on a solo adventure.

[@idostuffs9520]

easy for you

[@JobeHanna]

That’s the wrong mindset brother, start truly believing that you can and you’ll be amazed at the success you have.

[@GodReplyMe]

Believe is not = attraction lol. If you are ugly it's so hard to get girl as a men ​@@JobeHanna

[@theravenousrabbit3671]

Are you married? If no, stop giving advice.

[@Volfied]

Is he good looking? I can't tell.

[@johndank2209]

He's a 6, but with a beard he's a 7.5

[@JobeHanna]

And I was about to shave it all off 😭

[@johndank2209]

@@JobeHanna wrong move tbh