Girlfriend Invited Her Ex-Husband To Family Vacation, Leaving Me Out Cause It Was "Family Only"

[@dalecowart1826]

As OP said, of course he feels like a loser. He’s the only one in his circle of influence who willfully and wrongly missed the red flags. While OP mocked the fact that Aaron was not very smart, he was being mocked by everyone else, including his parents, for the very same thing.

[@hugoumero9723]

and now cassie parents will realize that Aaron will ended up abandoned them and Cassie they probaly messed it up

[@MustangWriter]

Love is blind. Just ask Johnny Depp.

[@jarnojuusola6611]

​@@MustangWriterlove isn't blind, it's retarted.

[@pyrus0zero]

Not just a doormat, but a delusional doormat. One that makes as many excuses as possible to justify their toxic partner.

[@dwho3]

in other was your average Reddit user

[@thomasjoseph5876]

IF and that is a big IF, this joke of a story is real, I am pretty sure the OP is probably more entitled than the girlfriend was. What I mean is that I am sure he has gotten "bailed out" of many life screwups by his parents. He just doesn't come off as being the sharpest tool in the tool shed. I'm thinking Mommy and Daddy fund most of the big items in his life such as a home, car, and probably a monthly allowance. They even had to come with him to the Resort to make sure he didn't screw that up LOLOLOL.

[@pyrus0zero]

@@thomasjoseph5876 I think it’s more of the fact his parents kept telling he was making a mistake and trying to convince him to break up with her, but he was just too ‘in love’ with her to see it. It literally too them bring him to the vacation to see his gf cheating to finally snap him out of it.

[@TheHighborn]

Giga simp

[@thomasjoseph5876]

@@pyrus0zero So basically, they went along to make sure he didn't screw up and take her back or get gaslit to the point HE is apologizing to her LOL. He is a naive idiot that has probably cost his parents hundreds of thousands of dollars over the years because he always chooses the "wrong way or wrong one" LOL

[@derfder7810]

Op didn’t just miss red flags, he missed illuminated runway direction arrows. Seeing the ex constantly hanging around and leaving for a vacation without him would have been the final straw for me.

[@thebabiesmomma]

Totally stealing the runway reference. 😂

[@stevebanner5609]

Here’s the thing- the courts said his ex could keep all the gifts “in good faith.” Well, lying and deceiving throughout the whole relationship IS NOT GOOD FAITH, the judge should have screwed OP’s ex on all that. Oh,he didn’t dodge a bullet, a cannon, an artillery shell, he dodged the end of the world…

[@darnelltucker9163]

I don't think they could. When it comes to relationships, anything we give to a partner is considered a gift, unless we have some deal (in writing) that there's a transaction.

[@stevebanner5609]

Yeah but it wasn’t really a relationship, it was fraud-that changes the dynamic.

[@darnelltucker9163]

@@stevebanner5609 That's definently true, but remember, we're in a gynocentric society where the system caters and panders to women. Case in point with the results.

[@stevebanner5609]

Darnell Tucker I’m assuming you’re not in the USA, as the laws are about as equal as they can get for both sexes. If this story went to trial and gf was found guilty for fraud the judge would order restitution..

[@hvymax]

The Judge probably considered it a Stupid Tax.

[@carlfromtheoc1788]

At the 3 month mark when she pitched a fit over not getting a fancy purse was the time to eject. So Cassie is a garden tool and her parents her pimps. Nice family🙄🙄🙄

[@stevebanner5609]

What does that make her ex? Anyone who would allow their beloved to date another with intent to marry is horse droppings

[@laurabb5961]

I like your polite way of saying she's a hoe.

[@jamiesatyr1309]

One tantrum would have been enough for me. I have no patience for that kind of crap. 😊😅😂

[@mommac8215]

I will now forever use “garden tool” 😂❤

[@jamiesatyr1309]

@@mommac8215 I thought the latest symbol for it was "304." 😆

[@nimisilverbird1239]

Nta. Throw her stuff out and change the locls. Cassie and her family are gaslighting you. When they call say you decided her vacation is to be permanent. Then block her

[@starzgellizeau3663]

Dash she things ah road.. she belong to the streets

[@aimzjane3548]

Donate her things, he brought them

[@glenstoffers817]

​@@starzgellizeau3663 qq¡!¡!+!!qqq❤

[@vanessacallahan3515]

Sue her for the money you spent. She romance scammed you.

[@robingibson6561]

Cassie's family and ex 'pimped' her out to get any and everything she could from OP. All the expensive gifts OP gave her she sold. Good thing he kept the car in his name or that would have been gone too. Aaron is probably broke too or he wouldn't have been willing to be a part of this. Every red flag was there for OP to see but love blinded him. Cassie and her family had to be stupid as h*ll to even think about doing this since his family are successful lawyers. But they fafo and now the money is turned off, Cassie lost her job and her part of the house. Hopefully Aaron hasn't wasted his money from supposedly being a professional football player. KARMA...

[@Alucardx25]

ATM/Doormat, op ignored every red flag that even others saw, especially his parents.He wasn't invited on a family trip, but her ex husband was? Pure foolishness on op part for not seeing that BS. At least op got out before they could had literally bleed him dry as they planned,, she had the audacity to call op about him freezing a card he never open, she and her twisted family/partners in crimes deserve everything that happened to them.

[@Darkspark06]

A golden doormat*

[@hvymax]

OP should listen to his parents. The fact that this lasted more than a week proves OP needs a Conservatorship!

[@rominazarei744]

Damn, OP is such a doormat. He should honestly stick with that woman seeing as how no smart, honest woman would be with him. He's the type of man to believe phone scammers.

[@grumpypants2066]

That doesn't make sense

[@DXAB91]

When I was listening to this, I literally said "Such a nice and trusting boy, wonder if he'll let me hold his wallet" 😂

[@JoaddahfromCAMEROON]

Looks like Cassie ROMANCE -SCAMMED OP-he just received his DOORMAT CREDENTIALS🤡😱🤬😝

[@DXAB91]

@Timothy Robertson flattery will get you everything 😆

[@jeanninelockridge5235]

If I were you I would have broken things off a long time ago. She doesn't deserve your love. I agree with your parents.

[@ejp99]

OP was a walking doormat!! He owes his parents a HUGE apology!!

[@NeoRazgriz]

Of course OP feels like a loser..because he acted like/was one! Prime example of a intelligent, successful person with less common sense/street smarts of a rock. Parents should have recorded their confrontation for proof/evidence against the whole family.

[@nardopolo7407]

if i were op id have bailed a long time ago on this relationship

[@MrBeevee5]

That's the whole point of this story. Only OP couldn't see it.

[@tracygardner6318]

If I found a guy like OP and he had money I would appreciate him. She does not appreciate him.

[@kaitohkid7229]

I hope the same goes for any decent guy even if he has less money...

[@coureenlawrence4915]

She can't appreciate him because she does not love him. She was about to marry him to get spousal support so that she and her ex to live off OP.

[@Wese28]

There were signs from the start. But the “love” haze is a ruthless bastard if you ignore it.

[@TMorales131]

He didn’t have to waste his money on travel expenses and come close to stalking her to discover the truth. The truth was in front of him from the beginning. He just didn’t want to accept it. Instead of feeling sorry for her he should have gotten help for his own self-esteem issues. Because only someone with low self-esteem would allow themselves to be treated that way.

[@sheliawaymon9023]

OP got his feelings hurt. That's what he can't get over. But good for OP for pressing charges. OP justice was served. You need to move on with your life. OP had smart parents.

[@PossumLady8262]

The minute op found out the dastardly couple were engaged…op should have went back to court and asked if they’d bought a ring…because if they did, technically they should have given the money to op to pay back their debts.

[@naturalPaths]

The best part of this pretty much ridiculous story is just what a lovely, close, and well educated/equipped family OP comes from. By the time the story ended, I did not remember how old OP is, or even if the story gave that information. He ‘plays’ as if he’s in his early, possibly mid, twenties. (Note: I listen, do not read.) OP nta.

[@CarlosSantos-kv9ip]

A note for authors: if you’re going to say you’re a lawyer who comes from a family of lawyers, then learn to write like a lawyer.

[@tracygardner6318]

They’re using OP’s money for their vacation🤬🤬🤬

[@jayshutman3101]

A 3-month anniversary is very typical for a gold digger. 😈

[@ronaldfinkelstein6335]

I was under the impression that OP needs to have either the word "sucker", or "simp" on his forehead.

[@ronaldfinkelstein6335]

Stories like this one make people feel hostile towards OP, rather than the e-thots, because they're so WILLFULLY BLIND! And even when the mendacity of the e-thot is blindingly obvious, they come off as willing to forgive.

[@tracygardner6318]

Oh, her credit card was cut off makes me feel so bad it couldn’t happen to a nicer person

[@stirrednotshaken4823]

I wanna know if she has to pay back that $20k she spent on a card she fraudulent took out in his name! And why did the judge only give her 3yrs of probation when she committed identity theft 🤦🏼‍♀️

[@IFAMILYIH]

MAN WHY WOULD YOU GET WITH A WOMEN WHO WAS ALREADY MARRIED BEFORE?

[@teristricklen2844]

OP, you dodged a major bullet!! Be glad you decided to check on her, because if you had married that gold digger, she'd ruined you!! Still NTA, but the ex-husband is a MAJOR douche bag AH!!

[@bralinciameadows8015]

At least they get what they deserve

[@jayshutman3101]

I would never have confronted them directly in the other country. I would have just gone back to where I lived and started the whole legal process and been happy that I dodged a bullet. 😈

[@cookiescott9329]

People who are not in the relationship can see whats happening much better because they have nothing to loose. People who are in the relationship see what they hope will happen. U need to find a mature partner not an entitled child. U need to believe people when they show u who they are. Never second guess ur fellings. Move on and find someone who is worth ur affections. Good luck in the future.

[@MrBeevee5]

Loose? Loose what? Oh, you mean "they have nothing to lose". Gotcha. Loose is the opposite of tight.

[@cookiescott9329]

@@MrBeevee5 I know that my phone keeps correcting, drives me crazy , so I stopped trying.

[@nicerperson1]

Yep, you start hoping the garden tool will snatch a Ferrari off him - oops! he went and did it, he bought her a new car - damn!!!!

[@maxwellmukwevho1383]

Cassie is a horrible person but OP is just a serious doormat

[@Bill-1370]

If this guy is really a lawyer then he can't be a very good one as gullible as he is.

[@ap8409]

What a dope. My god man, these red flags beat you over the head and you still ignored them.

[@samuelwalston9828]

OMG what are you doing? If her ex at any point said he would take her back she would drop you quicker than you could blink! Her parents are waiting for this to hopefully happen as well.

[@nathanosaka3977]

Dude be having red flags bright and early but completely ignoring them then they ask what’s wrong 😂

[@tracygardner6318]

The next girl you find Opie make sure she loves you and doesn’t just want you for your money. They are out there or just be single nothing wrong with that.

[@karinasamaniego8765]

OP is the very definition of sucker. 🙈

[@simon6412]

This is so dragged out, I hope it’s just made up, to believe that a man as pathetic as this exists is too painful and I stopped it halfway.

[@jimh4167]

The parents should have asked one question What does she do for you What does she bring to the table

[@lelandsmith4809]

I thinks it's funny the lawyer looking dude on the cover of the video looks like Tubbs from the old Miami Vice show

[@davidnash8208]

As always people blame the man instead of the wife who behaved so badly.

[@geraldmahoney4856]

He should have listened to his parents.

[@beatricereadel645]

OP needs to cut himself some slack. He was conned by experts. It happens. It’s called the long con.

[@MrBeevee5]

Not too long. Only 3 months in and she wanted a designer purse.

[@Dolomite78]

They don't come any dumber.

[@nathanosaka3977]

He wasn’t caught , bro was just fuckin stupid

[@dcummings336]

Love the visuals. Didn't know Mr Reddito is a Stalker😢😮😂

[@leroyreed1215]

Her parents have the nerve to be assholes after you help pay their bills wow

[@dscheaffer]

OP sounds like a doormat, so it’s no surprise, his gf is treating him like trash.

[@tracygardner6318]

Asking someone when and where they’re going is not interrogation and if Cassie gets upset over that she’s a spoiled brat and she’s obviously hiding something

[@ginefloki3022]

omg this one was so hurt to heard, this doormat deserved being disowned by his parents!

[@cathyhendrickson9640]

Run Dude Run!!! Don't look back, you know she's with her Ex.

[@pamelaprince7020]

Her 1st throwing a fit as an adult she's a been gone if I was in his shoes!! No way no 1 should have to deal with this crap

[@86jpw]

when they confronted them they should've recorded it. and have audio proof that the parents were in on it as well as the bf.

[@mpa8336]

She had a temper tantrum? Immediate ghost, dude.

[@rolandoperez7946]

He was surprise they were sharing a room😂😂😂😂😂

[@johnhazlett3711]

He might have been a doormat, but at least he was willing to find the truth.

[@HeavnzMiHome]

Tantrums for gifts? Crazy.

[@mrgreeneggs6191]

id have used a hot glue gun on the parents house while cassie was visiting then set the house alight while they where all glued inside

[@clairetoler438]

OP have them all arrested for stealing from you

[@kristined9099]

He got out before he married her, he should consider himself lucky!

[@maryjoyspohrer256]

Oh, no, honey, you didn't lose. You won big time by dodging a cannonball.

[@tflowers31]

Glad he finally learned the truth.

[@colliness]

OP….trust me, you are in a better place. Do not call yourself a loser. Your life will be much better without her and she will come back and beg you to take her back. I am talking from experience and in the end, those who thought they can game you will end up being a loser.

[@davidmor9276]

It pains me that people are this weak.

[@vanessacallahan3515]

Doormat. That’s what OP is.

[@Saarman82]

How can someone with that much money be that stupid to not see the GLARING red flags in this story??? I'm not rich by any means and I know to check my credit often enough to see if there is a new credit card in my name. I gotta find this guy and get him to invest in some mutual funds (ponzi schemes) i got.

[@parkwood6334]

If you consider Casdie's issues to be minor and you can work around them you deserve what you get. I can only think you either like unequal relationships where you get to scold your partner, you're choosing someone your family will be relieved to see go or you're physically addicted. Too bad an otherwise intelligent man behaves the way you do. I don't see any acceptance of personal responsibility, it's all Aaron, Cassie and her parents' fault. You're also very spiteful.

[@carlsjourneyp6157]

Yes you should back up right up out of that so called relationship

[@KegWarrior]

There's a point where willful ignorance makes it hard to sympathize with someone.

[@cherylemerson7128]

OP should have talked to the police to see if the BF could have been charged as a Pimp since he pimped out his GF to OP. Also, could RICCO charges have been filed against the 4 of them.

[@barbaraunderwood1762]

Glad he got rid of her & u also think she should have spent time behind bars. She got that card behind your back. Bank should have alerted u about it , but she may have used your name to get.

[@gregoryrainsborough1715]

Feel like a fool? No, you are a fool OP.

[@tonya8984]

OP was a total SIMP and I am surprised his father did not slap in his head for being a doormat. Too many red flags in his face.

[@lynnechapman6204]

They were a family of con artist. OP, you came out ahead.

[@lucillepfundt6757]

Cassie wants to have an affair and her parents approve! It's time Op divorce Cassie as she and her parents will never consider Op family. Op needs to sue them all for damages and make Cassie pay him alimony as well!

[@davidransom4476]

No kids and still hanging with the Ex? You turn and walk and don't look back.

[@pitviper2]

Story 1: Simp story, Op was probably a virgin and this was the 1st woman he's been with, that's why the rose tinted glasses were so thick, even bringing his mommy and daddy to support him stalking his gf, dude was so deep in denial it's pathetic

[@michealjaye283]

I would've taken the car back before her and her parents came back. Sued her for everything that she bought and got punitive damages for running up my credit.

[@jimmywilliams3204]

You know I would take her I would follow a lawsuit against her take everything she has and take her fans to court too

[@treevenewson]

Jeez this chick had a dozen red flags in the 1st five minutes.

[@alicedavis4847]

How many husbands will she have by 30?

[@aimzjane3548]

I would of dumped her

[@helenwoodrum2383]

OP if you would have married Cassie and she had access to your money, she would have bankrupted you. Gotten a divorce and alimony. I love how your parents raised you, too bad Cassie's parents didn't follow their playbook. You guys should have recorded the surprise meeting conversation and played it in court.

[@jasondavis7567]

I would have dropped that BI long ago it never would have gotten to the point where I was spending thousands of dollars on her at a time especially with that spoiled attitude of hers this man is clearly beyond slow I honestly don't think that someone that is slow would tolerate this bs seriously WTF was he thinking

[@jasondavis7567]

I also seriously want to know how she only got probation and community service with that amount of fraud that would have been a first degree felony with a minimum sentence of 5 to 10 years in prison

[@aryanblitzkrieg9771]

Dude dodged a bullet.

[@drhoughton5481]

Gather proof? What for ? Not married.

[@stephanbutler7988]

Three lawyers from the same legal practice were able to get immediate leave ,at the same time ,for several days ,what about the practice regarding their clients and the court appearances.?..

[@asaniwilliams4350]

Things like these last as long as they do because people are afraid to be alone

[@ArethaVGuedes]

Cassie must be really pretty! My God, OP is such a delusional

[@brianparramore1104]

She told you outright that you were not "family" and still you clung on?

[@JamaicanFujoshi]

Dude. I feel bad for OP's parents.

[@tashikaford4825]

Take the car back, change the locks & don't look back!!!

[@darnelltucker9163]

Sucks for Op, but hopefully, he takes this as a learning experience. I could relate to him in a way. When I was with my ex, her father was aware of her cheating and actually approved of her doing it even though I never hurt or disrespected her. Like Cassie, my ex was a spoiled brat. As guys, we need to pay VERY close attention to red flags. Not surprised she didn't get jail time as women get lesser sentence than men committing the same crime outside of the extreme. OP needs to chill, heal, and enjoy himself and when the next time a woman comes into his life, be on guard and not be a simp.

[@jyvben1520]

Not a fairytale ending, but quite realistic ! Karma might still be coming for the criminals

[@BigIIndo]

I ain’t even have to watch the whole video to understand what type of dude he is and how it’s going to turn out just in the first 60 seconds I know that he’s incompetent fool that just lets him so be ran over she showed you in the first three months, major red flags and you just continue to ignore them and he continue to state more major red flags and continue to ignore every single one knowing damn well that it’s not normal and shouldn’t be excepted so calmly as soon as he first mentioned that the ex-husband is still around and that she still kind of close to him that’s not an ex-husband that’s her husband and you’re just a boyfriend rebound that’s being completely used like an idiot

[@senfnotmayo9004]

When god handed out brains, OP was getting some chalk from the office.

[@DCD762]

Dear lord, this OP is a total simp.

[@ah5721]

Ex left for a better life and her parents like the ex once he came back and invited him back ? city girl who doesn't like camping and wants purse after 3 months ? RED flags for this poor simp ! Shes a high maintenance brat!

[@TheTokyomatt]

My Ex Girlfriend took her Prison Pen Pal on vacation.

[@youngloki1]

I dislike the word gullible because it's insulting to the party that trusted them/you so blindly to not doubt them/you

[@cheryljones8875]

He was lucky he was able to catch her before he married her. Personally I don’t consider him a fool… some people are just really good liars and he will find someone much better suited for him later.