My Girlfriend’s Whole Family Got Involved After I Asked Her to Sign a Prenup and Now Wants to Sue Me

[@Gerilyn2003]

After the PI...why is he still trying to marry Sarah? She and her family have gone off the deep end. The fact that she is complicit with her parents means he needs to RUN.

[@tonyjones1560]

IKR? I’d have been like, “Gurl, pack yo’ shyt. There won’t be an engagement party, because there’s not going to be a wedding. Your parents are both psycho…and the apple hasn’t fallen far from the tree. Get ta STEPPIN’!”

[@Teezyweez216]

Absolutely ridiculous lol

[@samuelwalston9828]

Sarah and her family had a whole future planned for your money! Trust me you weren’t part of that plan. Seriously ask her what she is bringing to the table other than drama! If you marry this girl you deserve what you get.

[@TheHighborn]

Cos simp

[@delorescannon455]

@@tonyjones1560 🤣

[@randomaccount-dq1jq]

Asking for that pre nup saved this guy from being majorly screwed over in a few years when he ended up divorcing after finding out about the affair with the friend and potentially paying alimony and child support for the friends child.

[@HLS70]

If Sarah STILL acted like a child, after everything HER parents did....HE NEEDS TO RUN FROM THAT P.O.S.!!!!

[@ayanamiry0]

RIGHT!?!?!?!? He better RUN FOR THE HILLS!!!

[@michael029138]

"Update #3" - She moved out back to her parents, GREAT. Now change the locks to all the doors, break the engagement and move on with your new life.

[@jamiesatyr1309]

With the PI situation, that would be a wrap. I would've told her to "get lost." No way could I allow such behavior around me. He should marry Maria. 😅😂🎉

[@supremeturtle1186]

If your partner reacts very negatively to a prenup take that as a sign that you shouldn't marry that person. If he still chases after her after all this then he deserves the headache he's getting

[@lostharmony27breaker98]

true in a way. its important both parties to talk and write one that suits both parties as going from maybe being married 10-25 years can be a shock and a massive change and stressful time especially when someone's either cheated or there's so much hatred

[@jonwuddup5410]

Ik I was yelling you're a stupid man whose thinking with his Diqk and not his head. For a man with smarts. He's really dumb. 😂

[@catlinmarie]

As long as the prenup gives protection to both parties and your future kids it is fine. If for instance he wanted her to quit working to be a sahm her future earnings will be impacted. She loses years of experience and seniority. The prenup should protect her in that case

[@Catherine.Dorian.]

Yeah it’s a giant red flashing sign. And clearly she was glad her parents were doing this. He was an idiot for ever thinking marrying her would be a good idea when her parents are like that and his fiancée cares more about her parents then him

[@bignorm7992]

Facts

[@cornestthrobest]

HUGE red flag if someone reacts like this to a prenuptial agreement. Clearly a gold digger, the whole damn family

[@megamiet1210]

What can Sarah's family sue you over? Your property you rules. Her family is nuts. Better this crud is coming out before you got married. Red flags all over the place. End the engagement enjoy your freedom.

[@Vincerama]

Yeah, this seemed really fishy. And at that point I had to wonder if the whole story is made up.

[@GrumpyCat-mw5xl]

If they are acting like this now imagine how they would behave if there was a divorce

[@southpaw8040]

This is a made up story for entertainment purposes. In simpler terms, it's all fiction.

[@blacksunday4231]

​@@southpaw8040 agreed. They'd have assault charges pressed on them for throwing drinks at him, especially on a property where they were banned from.

[@billgoodman9103]

The prenup exposed the type of woman you were dating and good for you. You dodged a bullet and a lot of heartache.

[@vintagemoss9578]

A big girl would have agreed to a prenup and would have taken the papers to her own lawyer to make sure she was treated fairly and maybe add conditions of her own. He clearly dodged a bullet.

[@paperkay]

But then all her hard work pretending she loves him would have bene for nothing.

[@deepblue362]

Agree with this! Usually there are clauses that protect the other partner. It’s not clear cut like he keeps everything most prenups have clauses like “if married for x amount of time the other party is entitled to xx% of the others assets” “If they have kids your entitled to xx% of assets” My brother signed one with his wife since she has alot of family assets before they got married. After years of marriage and 3 kids the prenup clauses essentially say if they did get divorced it’s 50/50 If the prenup isn’t “fair” it can be contested or thrown out

[@steffenjonda8283]

Well, as mentioned, it make no sense to demand this. he could make sure that his wealth BEFORE marrying should be safe, but i have the strong attitude that if you are in a relationship, you share everything. Maybe it is different in other countries, in germany you will be seen like this He: 1 Million, She zero. Married for 10 years, wealth after divorce - both 3 Million. So 1 million is his, 2 Million are shared 50:50... that is something that is fair. Maybe it is different in other countries?

[@LeRoyPoleschuk]

@@steffenjonda8283 let me guess female that wants in on money right? why else you against a prenup?

[@LeRoyPoleschuk]

@@steffenjonda8283 in US dont have a prenup? expect to lose at least half

[@michaelgriggs395]

I would have dropped Sarah like a bad habit rather quickly after she started acting crazy and wouldn’t get her parents to stop the shenanigans.

[@earlinejackson8151]

She’s not going to sign a prenup because both she and her parents are fully intending to screw op over. She doesn’t love him, she’s just after what she can get. And she’s proving that with every single thing she has done.

[@pauldeshon393]

I agree❤

[@joekahno]

The flat out rejection of a prenup without even asking about terms is the relationship equivalent of a mugger aiming a pistol at the op's face. His future inlaws getting on board tells you they already considered themselves interested parties in his impending divorce. He must be a complete "bunny in the headlights" for them to let their incredible arrogance get so far out of line he eventually caught a clue.

[@petercoutu4726]

What happened during their break is exactly why he needed a prenuptial, She showed exactly what she would do if there so called perfect relationship ever hit slightly rough waters.

[@damoneboyd9945]

Assets before the marriage should always be protected

[@treco2583]

They ARE!! Any asset you bring into a marriage is YOUR asset. Obviously, there are a few nuances, but that’s the general rule. I know a lot of people think attorneys are blood sucking vultures, but you could lose a lot of assets during a divorce, if you think once you get married 50% of your assets automatically belong to another person, and you don’t seek legal advice. I don’t see why anybody would ever marry, if they would automatically lose an ownership interest in their property.

[@damoneboyd9945]

@@treco2583 you know you can't trust the courts today

[@nykthosacolyte5710]

@@treco2583 they aren't is the thing, major assets are usually protected but it isn't a guarantee for your money. The same way men have been ordered to pay child support for children that aren't their own after filing because their partner cheated, a man was ordered to pay a woman he never married and never even lived with alimony, etc.

[@herewego8686]

​@T Re Co because the laws are fickle depending where you live. Like someone else said some men are stuck paying for children that aren't even theirs. You hear about the woman who had sex with an underage student. He grew up became a doctor and then she came after him for child support off her rape baby. Look up Nick Olivas as well. Got a 20 something year old pregnant when he was a minor. She never told him 6 years later the state said he owed 150000 in child support plus back taxes

[@andrew3224]

Assets during the marriage should be protected. Feminism and its nonsense is destroying society.

[@FigmentVFX]

You never truely know someone until you tell them NO!

[@EMalachi]

As soon as the drama with her bad mouthing him over the phone to her parents in front of him started, he should have dropped her.

[@snidecommenter7117]

Her: We need to set a date for the wedding. Him: I think six months after you sign the prenup would be suitable.

[@davewilson4528]

That's particularly good advice. In many stories where a prenup was brought up just before the wedding, the woman was able to break it by claiming she was pressured into it at the last minute. Something settled before a wedding date was even set would have much stronger standing.

[@Muney-hl9jh]

She said she didn't agree to the prenup cause he "didn't trust her" but turns out, he couldn't trust HER as it was obvious that she would stoop so low as try to have an affair with OP's Ex-Best Friend. And even without the prenup, if you had your money and home before the marriage, she wouldn't get a single dime of it and she wouldn't get alimony or property division in the case of infidelity.

[@tiaa668]

Now Mike can be taken to the cleaners 🤣😂🤣😂

[@robingibson6561]

​@@tiaa668 nope, Mike already used a prenup once, he'll do it again

[@theevilmilkpudding]

From the sounds of it she was most likely already cheating on OP with mike

[@Muney-hl9jh]

@@theevilmilkpudding seems like it

[@seshasatyakrishna5016]

It's not stooping bro.. she's already a gold digger

[@semajyahudah1957]

All of what you are experiencing is a sign of future struggles you will have with Sarah and her family! Run as fast as you can. Marriage is a contract, there is no reason you shouldn’t draft your own marriage contract.

[@nalaka3488]

This is definitely a happy ending, imagine being married into this family? It will only end in divorce alimony and child support

[@sadiehunt3970]

It's definitely a happy ending with op getting back with his ex girlfriend who had his back during all of this

[@dennisperry8579]

And that child support would have been for someone else's kid, too.

[@benny2125]

The clown OP really did deserve to not have a happy ending. Spineless morons telling reddit about their spineless thoughts.

[@marktwain2053]

If they had kids, it's pretty obvious they wouldn't be his.

[@shonfromdachi]

She shows him EXACTLY what he needed to know! If she was real, she’d sign it! Doesn’t she know that the document works BOTH ways! She can request certain things as well to protect herself! Leave her and her family on the curb, where they belong!! And found someone who can TRULY appreciate him!!💯🔥🔥🔥

[@juliamiller2299]

This OP has absolutely no spine. When his fiancee was upset at the prenup, all he had to say was either you sign a prenup or give me back my engagement ring. A real man should always be prepared to walk away from ANY relationship. This girl proved she was not worth his time and he would have saved himself a lot of trouble and money by walking away at the beginning of all this drama.

[@lostharmony27breaker98]

its because he likely lacks self worth in a way. also its possibly the closest he's gotten to being married.

[@atl7368]

Not gonna lie. This OP kinda pissed me off. Like dude step away from Sarah. She showing you exactly who she is

[@benny2125]

How the hell did he succeed in business with no spine. Fighting to marry a red flag? These fake stories are getting annoying.

[@tonyjones1560]

If he told her to sign it or else, she signed and the marriage still failed, she’d walk into court and say she signed the prenup under duress. A judge throws it out as invalid and ALL his premarital assets (the stuff he was trying to protect in the first place) are on the table…and he still gets hosed.

[@juliamiller2299]

@@benny2125 Well we have suspected many fake stories posted on Mr Reddito, and this one could be another. Regardless, they are entertaining even if they are a bit unbelievable.

[@joshdillon9637]

The number of times you hear, "I couldn't beliieeeeeve what I was hearing!" You'd think he'd start to realize that Sarah doesn't care about him at all.

[@jemase7931]

The correct reaction to being asked to sign a pre-nup is to get your own lawyer and make sure that there is a fair settlement in case of divorce. A cash amount could be specified. Regular deposits could be made into a spousal IRA. An agreement on educational funds for future children could be specified.

[@tonyjones1560]

🎯🎯🎯🎯And bring it up BEFORE the engagement not after…so there’s no surprises. Bring it up and note the other person’s reaction clearly and ruthlessly. If you hear a stuttering word about a prenup being “unromantic,” or “don’t you trust me?” or “that’s planning for divorce,” you’ll KNOW you’re dealing with someone you shouldn’t propose marriage to… BTW, this is also why it’s a BAD idea to live with, blend finances or have children with somebody you’re not (and maybe wouldn’t) marry.

[@diy_nailsby_heidi_r3889]

Exactly. I'd done this with my first husband (he passed away). A pre-nup not only will protect assets accrued previous to the marriage, but it also protects a surviving spouse if the primary spouse dies, among other protections, ESPECIALLY if you live in a community-property state like I did. In my case, my husband had a rather large debt-load he'd kept hidden from me prior to our marriage. I didn't find out until we first filed taxes together as a married couple, when MY tax refund got yanked to pay debts. When I questioned him why, well, the truth came out. Over $263,000!!! Neither of us had income to pay that kind of debt! What was I going to do? That's where the pre-nup came in. My parents put me in touch with their lawyer. After he'd went over the pre-nup, he found it was basically a bog-standard agreement AND that I was NOT liable for any debt-carryover on my husband's part per the agreement. The other thing I had going in my favor was that I had not benefitted from this debt-accrual in any way - only his ex-wife had. It took time and not a few court appearances to straighten out, but I got my refund (plus interest, courtesy of Attorney Schlink (not his real name) and was not held liable for his debts, only my own ($1,200 for furniture for my apartment while I was still single) and what we'd accrued together ($0!). Whew! After my husband died, however, the IRS and some other debt-holders sued for his debts. That pre-nup saved my butt again, as did the transcripts and adjudications from the previous legal actions. I did wind up not inheriting the moneys and assets he'd gained from his deceased parent's estates, but that was okay. What didn't go to his debt went to his children from his first marriage. That was fine with me. I had his life insurance as sole beneficiary, a smallish amount, but it helped me to have enough funds be able to move with my little boy (from previous relationship prior to meeting late 1st husband) and to live on until I found other employment & a place to live. So, signing a pre-nup really helped ME more than it helped my late husband, who requested it, in the end.

[@esafiri4663]

OP dodged a bullet the size of a cannonball! Hope Maria doesn't have a problem signing a pre-nup!

[@DemelicosHelsaint]

I would have called off the wedding the second she refused siting that "I guess we aren't ready". The parents I would turn into the police. They assaulted OP, they forged documents to sue OP and they harassed him too. They'd spend years in jail. As for your now ex, make sure to tag her in your wedding photos and be passive aggressive towards her. Also, if your ex-friend comes by to defend her, ask him when is it his turn to ask her to sign a prenup, you'll find someone new to lie about you and for her to cheat on him with.

[@floydsimpson3640]

He is a complete idiot. When Sarah showed that she didn't want to sign a prenup that was the moment she told him she didn't love him and was only in it for the money. It should have ended at that point. But even after that every time she sided with her rotten parents he should have known that she didn't respect him much less love him. As weak as he is i wonder how he made all his money.

[@giantleprechaun5985]

If you set a boundary in a relationship and it gets crossed, you end it right there. They’ve shown you who they are, believe them!!!!!!!!!

[@brycekline982]

Looks like it worked out for almost everyone. Ex GFs parents wanted them broke up.Mike wanted & got what he wants and Op walks away with ALL OF HIS MONEY AND a 2nd chance with his ex GF from before. Well done Op for finding the truth and walking away

[@dorotheawalker7985]

If she wasn't really into just getting the money she would of signed the prenup. And I believe her parents are in on it to take everything.

[@acpadilla7146]

Would've*. But yes I agree with you

[@SoapEFresh]

Absolutely correct. If they weren’t in on anything, why were they constantly bring up lawsuits? 😂

[@stevebailey18a]

That entire family was looking for a pay day

[@Awesome_Atlantean]

Honestly, hindsight is always 20/20. I’d like to say that as soon as the future-in-laws hired a shoddy PI, and the fiancé was blatantly ignoring her parents terrible behavior, that I would end it right then and there. However, if I put myself in his shoes, I honestly don’t know if I’d have handled it any differently. I do hope that he drops the “best friend”, Mike. That’s not a friend, if you ask me.

[@blackrecluse9488]

Wow! How does signing a prenup make you short circuit to stupidity? He been should’ve told Sarah and her parents to kick rocks from the start.

[@taipan1234]

Make sure the woman signs a STRONG prenuptial agreement.. women are strong and independent..

[@petersmafield3474]

Just get Sarah to call off the wedding and walk away, but keep all the harassment documented and prepare for a lawsuit with her parents.

[@dtee9053]

Op was immature as hell and a doormat. I'm glad he finally moved on instead of allowing his inlaws disrespect him and seeing his fiance not have his back. I woulda been ended that relationship when she backed her parents with everything they did.

[@suelakkari8128]

I would have stopped trying to keep the relationship once it was clear she was okay with all he parents were doing. I see no reason for the engagement party. By update 2 or 3 I'd step back and see what they're doing next. You want out, don't let the door hit you.

[@Draggonny]

Yes. It was ridiculous that he was still insisting on an engagement party when they hadn't resolved the issue of the pre-nup. They should have put everything on hold until they reached an agreement. OP doesn't come out of this one snelling of roses either. He sounds arrogant and controlling. Banning her entire family from the engagement party before even speaking to her. Not even entertaining the idea of cancelling the party when she said she wanted to. OP is clearly used to getting his own way due to his money and didn't even consider that she might disagree with having a pre-nup. This was never a partnership, and when she realised she'd not be a financial partner, she baulked.

[@candicabral3767]

I have to say kudos to OP for giving her the prenup at the time of the engagement. So many men bring it up two or three days before the wedding and you don't have time to get a lawyer to see it or anything else. I say if you're going to ask for one that's the way to do it!

[@paulanewhook4460]

During the final confrontation as he was leaving OP should have let it be known that Mike also supports prenups and had one with his ex-wife.

[@IFAMILYIH]

EVERY MAN SHOULD GET A PRENUP NO MATTER WHAT

[@razrramonel4077]

File a Counter-Suit, and then file for a Restraining Order against Sarah's Parents.

[@lukeyetsterjones]

if money is not an issue in the relationship then a prenup is not a problem, its only a problem if money IS important to them, if you want a prenup and your partner says no then run, run far and run fast

[@JamesSmith-ey7vc]

OP should have left her a long time ago. The red flags were everywhere.

[@andrew3224]

The second a girl rejects a prenup. Dump her. It doesn't matter dump her.

[@emilyspoon8238]

You dodged a bullet fr!!!

[@tela1653]

This guy dodged a bullet. I hope he is happy now.

[@HLS70]

HE MUST BE DESPERATE TO MAMRRY AFTER ALL THE BULLSH!T HER AND HER FAMILY HAS DONE!!!! WAKE UP BUDDY!! YOU ARE MORE THAN YOUR ASSETS, BUDDY! YOU ARE BEING PLAYED!!

[@BennyMeans]

Unfortunately most males have feminine tendencies and Simp over these toxic females.

[@lostharmony27breaker98]

seing this story makes me cry there's guys out there who will put up with this just because they love that person and don't think that another person will ever love them

[@manicmarauder]

@@lostharmony27breaker98 It's not only that, it's that some guys have never actually seen any other option. It sounds like he's fairly open with/about his wealth, so it's quite possible that's the only type of partner he's ever seen.

[@chadsamuels6512]

It had to be an entertainment story and fictional... its hard to think of someone actually acting like this.

[@bill8384]

OP is very lucky! He found out about "crazy" BEFORE the marriage! I didn't realize my ex-mother in law was crazy until AFTER I was married!

[@winniethepoohandeeyore2]

He didn't dodge a bullet he dodged Tsar Bomba. He should have broken up with her as soon as she balked about the prenup, then when she admitted she knew about the P. I. etc. He should have Asked her, her parents if the wealth were reversed would THEY want YOU to sign a Prenup in order to protect HER wealth.

[@solomonkane6442]

If a csar bomba was dropped on Plymouth England it would wipe out most of the south west peninsula of England 😂 ( csar bomba is the biggest nuclear weapon I think? ) if i remember correctly

[@winniethepoohandeeyore2]

@@solomonkane6442 That's the entire point of why I said the Tsar Bomba. Tsar Bomba (in Russian, Царь-бомба) is the Western nickname for the Soviet RDS-220 (РДС-220) hydrogen bomb (code name Vanya). Detonated by the Soviet Union on October 30, 1961, Tsar Bomba is the largest nuclear device ever detonated and the most powerful man-made explosion in history.

[@johncherish7610]

@@solomonkane6442 The biggest problem was the air crew they would have used to drop it would have been suicided, there would have been no way they could have survived the blast wave. The other problem is that there were no rockets or planes large enough to carry it at the time it was just too heavy. so it was detonated on the ground as a show of how mighty the USSR was. Not really how practical it was IMO

[@sbradley3008]

The second she threw a fit at the suggestion of the prenup, he should have dumped her.

[@HLS70]

UNLESS SHE WAS WITH YOU THROUGH YOU FROM THE START OF YOUR WEALTH, SHE SHOULD SIGN A PRE-NUP!!! IF SHE DOESNT AGREE.... RUUUUNNNNN!!🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️

[@tiaa668]

Exactly 🎯

[@fcastle]

Lol, she wasn't shootin in the gym!

[@mizal321]

Even if she was with him if she didn't contribute she shouldn't get ant lol

[@alicedavis4847]

Dump her ASAP plenty more where that came

[@alicedavis4847]

Men don't usually fall out like that leave here ASAP

[@Harry-lq5hu]

This is the easiest problem ever. Dump her immediately, and block them all. Dugh !!!!

[@achilles299]

How couldn't OP see Sarah was a giant Red Flag 😳

[@lostharmony27breaker98]

love is blind

[@bigmike4342]

I think it's pretty obvious that she wanted this guy for his money and the moment he brought up a prenuptial agreement her entire plan went up in flames.

[@JohnSears1970]

Sounds like you dodged a bullet!

[@SoloClone]

No breaks, if a woman says it's time for a break, end it. Let her know, if she chooses this route, it's over.

[@jonisilk]

If she didn't want you for your money alone, she would sign the pre-nup. She clearly wants your money and you're in the way of it. You can also bet on it that she wont want a paternity test if you have a child, "because if you loved me, you should just trust me"

[@jasonwallace6749]

Dude, kick her gold-digging ass out, file harassment charges against them, and move on with your life without her. This BS behavior will only get worse if you let them stay a part of your life.

[@ilbercgross4736]

Prenup is like car insurance. You hope you never have to use it, but if you do, you are glad you had it.

[@tsisko3795]

No. A prenup is literally pre signed divorce papers. I have never seen a marriage last that had a prenup. And how can it when one or both people have one foot already out the door. And while my experience with these is limited at best. I can honestly say if you feel the need to have a prenup then you aren't ready for marriage.

[@ilbercgross4736]

@@tsisko3795 I have seen more marriages fail without a prenup than those with a prenup. I bet there is a study out there too.

[@bautistalover]

@@tsisko3795 then there is something wrong with you. Marriages fail with or without a prenup. The prenup isn’t the cause of the divorce what it does do is prevent the other party from taking away premarital assets that they contributed nothing to. There is factual proof that prenups have helped a lot of people or loose everything they worked pre marriage.

[@bautistalover]

@@ilbercgross4736 of course there is. It’s the reason more and more people with money and now regular people are getting prenup…protecting their premarital assets. Prenups are more helpful then harmful. The only people who have issues with prenups are the people who are looking to screw someone over.

[@pauldeshon393]

Good for you for loosing the the little spoiled girl that wouldn't sign the prenup.....

[@aum1040]

Only an idiot would move forward with an engagement party and the relationship when the parents and fiance were acting like that. He put himself through needless trauma. (Of course the story is fake. But if it weren't he'd be an idiot)

[@daywalkingvampire1521]

If Sarah thought op asking for a prenup was bad wait till mike asks her for one.

[@bonniehalf-elven]

If this were my story, it would have ended before the first update. If I had enough wealth that I required a prenup and my fiance balked, I would break up then and there. The end.

[@tonyjones1560]

IKR? At this point, I’d have made my opinion about the prenup clear as crystal BEFORE the proposal. Call it a shyt test…because that’s what it would be. Good for the goose and all that.

[@ellenl.5581]

He should have had her sign a pre-nup before moving in together.

[@mikelawrence3108]

Two things in life one must remember 1. Always get a pre nup, especially if you have major assets, money, property, successful business. You never know what will happen. 2. Always get a DNA test before you put your name on the birth certificate. You don't want to be pay child support for the next 18-24 years

[@rikubrown8109]

Soon as you said she got her family involved, I'd have dumped her

[@slomo1562]

First, always discuss the pre-nup often and long before proposing marriage. It should never come as a surprise but make certain it doesn't by actually communicating. Second, if the girlfriend and her parents lose their minds over the mention of a pre-nup, run! If any one of them does, run! Next, this guy must be lying. He sounds like "everyone is against me." His best friend throws him under the bus then gets involved with OP's fiance even after seeing how crazy they are? Run OP! Run!

[@chung2055]

Op, cut your losses with Sarah and court Maria.

[@prairiepalmetto9378]

I’m guessing Dogan and Betty are in massive debt. They wanted their daughter to fleece OP.

[@frederickwilliams147]

Always get a pre nuptial agreement if you own anything! If it doesn’t work out they want half of everything you’ve worked for!👍

[@tiaa668]

1st, Thanks for the entertainment Mr Reddito ❤

[@samaxe488]

The second she started arguing he should have dumped her right there on the spot. Period.

[@SyntheticCupcake]

I'm not sure how he expected things would go when he banned his fiancé's parents from their party? Like yeah, they started it but he had to know that things were over from that point on?

[@bautistalover]

Things were already over when they started hitting up his exes looking for dirt and hiring a PI.

[@joshhuatheg3m3ni5]

She told you everything you needed to know when she blew up about the prenup. Tell her you trust her but you don’t gamble on something that half the time doesn’t work and is more than likely going to be ended by her statistically.

[@glynissomes4470]

Leave her in the dust she doesn't deserve you

[@BI-11y_TheStormTrooper]

Remember people throwing champagne at someone is considered assault, he had every premise to sue and have them arrested as well as trespassing.

[@theaffiliate4208]

Sorry boys & girls, I put the full blame of this situation totally on OP. The moment 'Sarah' put up resistance to a prenuptial, the ring would have been back in my pocket. In fact, the introduction of the prenuptial should have happened long before the proposal ever took place. Her intentions fore or against the pre-nup concept needs to well cemented and understood before the offer of marriage be made. The only drama here should have been how soon can the now Ex be out of the home. Period!

[@Split0069]

I'm pretty sure you should break off the engagement, then counter sue for harassment, stalking, and lawyer fees.

[@annem7806]

Can your money be put in a trust to protect it? Then no prenup.prenuptial. Otherwise walk away & don't look back. She is not to be trusted.

[@nickl8830]

The moment she argued about a prenup, I would terminate the relationship, return the ring and tell her to pound sand. Don't be a simp.

[@staylor3483]

OP needs to message ex-best friend: Thank you for taking Sarah & her psycho parents off my hands. Best thing that's ever happened to me. Be careful, though, and don't expect her & her parents to allow a prenup. Toodles, I have to get back to my beautiful date. 😊

[@BonBon-fn9dh]

When they say they don’t care about the money, they care about the money. Her attitude is huge red flag!!!!

[@perfectlyimperfect9129]

If sarah brings her parents into it and makes it their business that's why they're in it. She is their daughter they are only worried about her best interest not yours. She and her parents are making way too big of an issue out of this so yeah I would be worried about Her trying to take everything that you have. Trying to gaslighting you and guiltily you that's not cool. Not quality is in a Partner I wold want. Sounds like this is not a marriage that you want to be in or a relationship for that matter her true colors and her parents are coming out Luckily before you married her. Really sounds like he's blaming her parents and she's just as bad. I don't even know why he tried as hard and as long as he did with this Spoiled entitled little girl. Also OOP wants to be mad that Sarah got her parents involved in their private relationship problems. But he goes to another woman that he's been friends with forever and spills his guts that's not right either!!And she's your ex on top of it !! Wow!! Who didn't see not coming, The o p and his ex girlfriend that he talks to every day was gonna get back together so he didn't really want to be of sarah anyway. clearly Neither 1 of them really loved eachother. They both seem to" fall in love" really easily.

[@tsisko3795]

Exactly.

[@bautistalover]

Don’t blame OP for looking for support. (He said he was low on family so all he really had in terms of support was his best friend and Maria(so what if she was his ex. It’s a testament to their characters that they could remain friends after their break up)). His ex sicked her parents on him and his so called best friend betrayed him. If it hadn’t of been for Maria he may have been gaslighted into giving his ex fiancé no prenup then he would’ve been boo-boo the fool while Sarah and his bestie were having an affair under his nose and taking him for everything he got. The only person who wasn’t ready for a relationship was his ex fiancé. All this did was show OP he was with the wrong woman the whole time. He’s reasonable and rational and to me is ready for a healthy relationship.

[@bigtheo03]

I will never understand men like this. I told my girl if you want to marry me a prenup is what you will sign. If not then you should leave now. I’m not arguing with a person over something I achieved and earned on my own.

[@nancystanton955]

Yes he should drop Sarah like a lead balloon but... if he breaks the engagement she can sue him or breach of promise. And I have a distinct feeling her parents wold jump on that very quickly.

[@carolcarol9982]

Then he can counter sue for fraud, as in, "You're not the person you were pretending to be".

[@dankuykendall]

No breech of promise as she was the one that broke it off by leaving.

[@DemelicosHelsaint]

He could nail her back on that, assuming they even live in a place that bothers with it. After all, she cheated on him, that is not at all what an engagement signifies.

[@YOYOKE64]

Breach of promise is anarchic law that's obsolete

[@mythogenesis4788]

It would be very difficult to price after the amount of harassment he endured WITH witnesses and the fact that both parties had new partners. Add in that he technically agreed to marry her under the condition of a prenup, then they were never officially contacted by promise to marry. She opted out.

[@donaldevans2064]

Make the prenup fair. Make sure you have one... I'm glad I did.

[@scotthultin7769]

What is Maria think about signing a prenup did you ask her yet?😊

[@DemelicosHelsaint]

I believe they are in the same field, so it probably won't be that much of an issue. He said in passing he was paying all the bills, I'd bet Maria is paying her half.

[@Tact-1]

So many red flags, i think you should dump Sarah and avoid that bullet

[@RebeccaLunsford-qe2kt]

I have got to be honest here. The way OP is acting right now tells me he didn't bring up the prenup politely. While I understand OP was upset he doesn't seem to care Sarah was upset about it. And OP has a right to protect his assets yes. But she has feelings and he needs to be mindful of that. And if it makes her feel better to talk to her parents she can do that. But her parents didn't have a right to do what they did.

[@acpadilla7146]

You are delusionally biased in favor of Sarah

[@bautistalover]

Sarah has no right to be upset and her feelings are absolutely not valid. Her feelings are proof the prenup was needed. Anyone who is upset about a prenup is someone who was looking to take advantage.

[@cwb2992]

The op deserves everything coming his way.

[@TheFleahost]

Only the people that struggled with you during the race should share in the glory of the finish.

[@erhok6392]

This story sounds so made up

[@joez656]

Mr wonderful has said a great quote “what’s easier to replace your money or your girlfriend”

[@wordboy707]

This the second time an OP completely in the right has pissed me off.

[@TheRabidWolverine]

First get a lawyer. Second verify if the suit is real by going online and look up the case number.

[@timber168]

Dude waited entirely too long before walking away. As soon as they started in he should have walked. How people act will always tell you who they are.

[@williamwallace410]

The moment she didn’t joyfully sign the prenup out of love, he should have ended the relationship.

[@jyyyb]

Always walk away at the first sign of unnecessary drama

[@susangamble6888]

Kick her out and cancel everything.

[@joshboris5790]

Boy run run as far as you can away from this girl and her family

[@ziggy7668]

If they didn't care so much about the money they wouldn’t have flipped out so much

[@reanehooper3085]

You know what I would do in your shoes? END IT AND RUN PERIOD