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@davemi002 жыл бұрын
I’m not afraid of rejection It’s giving my trust to secretive people, who seem to be Most ppl. We have so much to lose, financially today.
@theworldisimmense2 жыл бұрын
I totally disagreed with the bs “she wants to see men as this strong and she wants you to pursue her” screw that. Now there’s has to be a “right way to pursue a women in 2022”? Get the hell out of here haha. Here’s a fact , it’s usually the guys she’s not interested in that will approach the women. The attractive/hot won’t be approaching women , they have women approaching them. It’s freaking stupid to think that all a girl thinks she has to do is just sit there and wait for the guy she really really likes to approach them and do all the work while she just exist. Screw that, no wonder there’s many girls single nowadays , women better step up their game if they wanna get the guy she really likes in 2022 and beyond because a lot more guys ain’t approaching. You should maybe teach women to start approaching!
@mikehickmanvloggamessingin36042 жыл бұрын
@@theworldisimmense You are partially right and wrong. Also your misunderstanding what Coach Melannie is saying, if I understand what she saying right. Yes a woman, especially a attractive woman, should not, can't just sit there, do nothing, and expect to get a good, at least semi attractive guy to attractive guy.(As even attractive guys can sometimes not see the signs that a woman they are attracted to is interested in them, and thus not make a move) And your right that a lot of worldly less Christian women, will chase after hot attractive guys, and even some Christian women chase guys too But some to a lot of women are not just only doing nothing, and they are chasing guys in a kind of way. . These women are FLIRTING, are interested, and are chasing by making both verbal, nonverbal cues, moves, flirting, signs of interest to guys that say, scream, "I'm here, I'm interested, please make a move, please ask for my telephone number, please call, text me, please ask me on a date now or later". And there are attractive to women guys, that pick up on that and are also interested in the woman, and ask the woman for a date, and get a date with that woman. There are also less attractive but still attractive to some women guys that also see the signs of interest and ask the woman and get a date with the woman. There are a lot of guys, that don't see the signs, clues, etc, don't chase, make a move, ask for date, etc. Those guys do need to know, learn, see the signs, clues, chase, etc. And some of those guys are both attractive and less attractive. And I have almost finished, finalized a divorce, after a long separation, etc, and so I have semi forgotten, and need to relearn some of this stuff, as I was one of the clueless guys until I took a similar dating program, and started dating, found my soon to be ex wife. For centuries women are WIRED to make the first move, chase a guy by FLIRTING, showing signs of interest, that the woman, women are not aware of. AND for Centuries, guys have been wired to see those signs and PURSUE. And women are WIRED that IF a guy, no matter how hot, etc, does NOT see signs of interest, does NOT Pursue, then they will lose interest in such a guy eventually, and eventually MOVE ON, etc. This is illustrated by a woman that I hanged out with that I was interested in. She was interested in me, would flirt with me. And then we went on a kind of wishy washy hang out kind of date that we didn't define as a date, and didn't know if was a date or not. Because of that we didn't know how to act, etc, and we friend zoned each other. Later on years later I talked to the woman about what happened. She said she was interested in me at time, thought I was cute, flirted with me, but that it took to long for me to recognize that, make a move, ask her out on a real non hang out date, and that because of that we friend zoned each other(That was before I did the dating program thing I did) Your right that it a guy is attractive to a woman, but not recognizing the clues, signs, and therefore not pursuing, making a move, etc, that the woman needs to learn the signs that the guy is interested in her, and needs to make a move on the guy, and either flirt, etc, more overtly, less subtly, or ask the guy out. The problem with that, is that with a couple, few, some, maybe even semi most, etc, guys, that if a woman ask the guy out on a date, etc, some of the guys will lose interest, as they want to be the chasers, as it makes them feel more manly, etc. When my divorce is finally finalized, I look forward to eventually getting help from coach Melannie to learn the signs of a woman's interest, and how to make a move right, and how to date, and how to develop a relationship, get married, etc, and how to spot red flags, and how find the right woman, and how to stay married, avoid divorce, etc, as I will need help with these things, that Coach Melannie teaches. And oh btw, I put more credibility in Coach Melannie's credentials, and what she says to doz which is back up by other dating programs, science, etc, things coach Melannie has studied , learned, over your no name lack of, zero Credibility, etc.
@theworldisimmense2 жыл бұрын
@@mikehickmanvloggamessingin3604 but yea I forgot this channel is for “Christian people” old fashioned stuff. Then guys keep pursuing like a desperate dog in hen
@blessings10152 жыл бұрын
I was at the gym at these 2 beautiful women when next to me giggled here & there and she moved her body to the other side of the workout machine so her body was within my view
@saycog10842 жыл бұрын
I’m a woman watching this. I pass by this guy during my morning walk and give him a big smile every time. We’ve exchanged hellos a few times now… if he passes by he makes sure he looks me in the eyes and says hello…I do wish he’d be the first to stop and initiate a conversation…bottom line…we girls ( I’m 53, btw) do feel better if the guy starts the conversation…we certainly can go ahead and do it ourselves and I’ve done that, but it just feels very awkward. Wish me luck!! 😁 This week I took the courage and said to him unless you’re taken, I wonder if you’d like to go for coffee sometime! And he said he’s married and thanked me. Well, at least now I know! I’m glad I did it! Today he stopped me to say I took him by surprise the other day. He said I’m an attractive woman, he felt great about what I said but he needed to be honest to me. I thanked him for being honest in saying he was married and that’s the kind of man I want in my life and his wife is a lucky girl. It was a beautiful moment, two human beings being clear to each other. For more moments like that in my life! 😊
@sound-wave95352 жыл бұрын
Good for you!
@Calamity_Leo2 жыл бұрын
Your 53 you should have asked off the bat
@willcook4032 жыл бұрын
Sounds beautiful - I’ve had girls tell me they were attracted earlier on but never let on it was the case.. Do women realise I wonder how hard this can be for men ? It’s hard on our hearts more than just the ego ...
@adamfindlay70912 жыл бұрын
You're on your way to finding it being what you want.
@spaceted39772 жыл бұрын
Yes !!! Us Men are completely useless at reading hidden signals. So if you like a man, just ask him some question like what time is it etc. And if you tell him he`s handsome and thanks for helping me !!!! Then he will get the Message !!!! No straight man is going to think you`re a fool for being friendly !!!! It`s a huge ego boost for a man to have compliments from a woman ..........It doesn`t happen very often !!!!
@kingdamager73702 күн бұрын
I'm not afraid of rejection. I fear losing my job and good reputation. Women have made approaching risky to an extreme.
@marcelpenuelatraub2343 Жыл бұрын
I have high functioning autism, and psychological problems too, like depression, insecurity of my gender, and even suicidal thoughts. You'll help support so many people who have trouble socializing, like me.
@nathanmarineau39933 ай бұрын
Hello! My ex-girlfriend is on the spectrum, has ADHD, and depression. These features of her personality were never an issue for me. I loved her like crazy! She just decided we were better off as friends, and we are still really close. Best wishes to you! 🙂
@argent-wolfman902 жыл бұрын
To be honest, I NEVER notice when a woman is interested in me, I have issues with detecting social cues. If one does giggle around me I often wonder if she's been smoking something illegal.
@usmanshehumuhammad85282 жыл бұрын
🤣
@manonymasmr4153 Жыл бұрын
When it’s too obvious, I don’t know how to capitalize on it. Maybe I’m just really indecisive/choosy.
@donttreadonmetal5073 Жыл бұрын
I just assume she's laughing at me because I'm deformed and ugly.
@roberttrough64399 ай бұрын
Social cues have changed or are distorted. Good luck 👍 I find the melding of cultures also have different cues. Not good or bad only different. Also women who would never talk to me or look my way once a friend invites me in their circle and they get to know me we are friends. It’s bazaar and I’ve done nothing extra only kept being me. Women are a mystery depending on the day of the week, moon, culture, temperment, and desires. Too confusing for a simple man. When women know what they truly want and can communicate their wants and desires to the correct men then relationships seem to click! Life is too short to play games.
@Braica87 ай бұрын
Fr. Every laugh I hear feels insulting because when I look at them, they get deer in headlights look. Women's fear makes me feel like a monster bruh
@mgu1N1n12 жыл бұрын
Men, do not hesitate for one moment to put a restraining order against your female partner if you feel your safety and health is in jeopardy. Placing a permanent restraining order on my female partner was absolutely the wisest protective move of my adult lifetime. My only regret is not doing it years earlier. Men, be safe!
@parthhi6192 жыл бұрын
what do you mean by restraining order ?
@prekypinkz92012 жыл бұрын
@@parthhi619 claim her
@ozzysantoya2631 Жыл бұрын
Lol
@iamsobeautifulomg Жыл бұрын
tf?
@staycasual7203 Жыл бұрын
Jesus wept, she bashing you about or something bro?
@paulmesler94122 жыл бұрын
Thanks!
@jonkas45422 жыл бұрын
Self doubt paralyzes me. But hearing info like this is helpful.
@robertlangston50 Жыл бұрын
I'm going through a divorce after 20yrs. I love this video because I'm out of the loop and my confidence is shot.
@bayareathrasher666 Жыл бұрын
15 for me, she already moved out...but I'm talking to two awesome ladies currently...
@nobodyknows31804 ай бұрын
You aren't alone, brother.
@PRdude2 жыл бұрын
Strange thing is that I could notice most of these signs, and still second guess myself, since I want to make sure I'm thinking with my brain and not my you-know-what. It has actually happened before, and then the woman had to tell me outright that she likes me.
@Allan_aka_RocKITEman2 жыл бұрын
It is a _Male Operating System Limitation_ many women do not comprehend: *"MEN CANNOT READ MINDS"* 😊😊😊
@johnlombardo7816 Жыл бұрын
holy crap I agree! im talking to a girl now and im so afraid its just a friend thing.. as she said she reached out to me after 15 years because I was a good guy and friend.. but 15 years and out of the blue? how many other guys are you talking to every night for 2 weeks, all night ! lol .. i get it!
@Avareee. Жыл бұрын
They often just reject you either because they want to feel the rush of ego boost, or they are really really awkward and shy. She literally could be showing all the signs, but still do it.
@hp25467 ай бұрын
@@Avareee. Hiding feelings and rejecting a person are different issues. If that woman makes an excuse to reject me while liking me, that will be called playing hard to get. She will only experience driving people away. I can be shy too but I don't reject any crushes. What I do is I just don't confess I am attracted to them when I know I will get rejected. I would get scared but I don't turn down opportunities.
@AlanMills-v3vАй бұрын
Signs, Yes, Thank you, Coach Melannie!
@ModernDatingMastery2 ай бұрын
*It’s crazy how fear of rejection can make someone hold back even when they’re clearly interested.*
@markhedges11942 жыл бұрын
The signs are, the puffer fish is supercool! Singing is super cool too, and even more so deliberately pretending to sing badly always gets great laughs, letting your comical side out is great fun! Thanks again for an amazing video, God bless! x
@andymitchell4914Ай бұрын
Thank you pufferfish! Your advice is good.
@luthermcgee37672 жыл бұрын
You got my thumbs up at 4:50. That was the deciding factor.
@mr.goodwrench82732 жыл бұрын
SIGNS & PUFFERFISH. What surprised me the most? The catwalk. Now that would be a positive sign. Thank you again for another fine video. God bless you 🙏 and I hope you have a great weekend.
@CoachMelannie2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much! Have a happy day! 😀
@favourismyname1312 жыл бұрын
Signs 18. She cooks for you 19. She cares for you more 20. She "dreams" about you 21. (God will expose her! 🤣🤣🤣)
@favourismyname1312 жыл бұрын
@lightskincromagnon The Lord God is Faithful. Tell Him your desire and your need.
@favourismyname1312 жыл бұрын
@lightskincromagnon House and riches are the inheritance from fathers, but a wise, understanding, and prudent wife is from the Lord. [Prov. 18:22.] Proverbs 19:14 AMPC
@favourismyname1312 жыл бұрын
@lightskincromagnon Never give up. Repentance is a process where you are also learning to change from bad to good. Do not stop Praying the Holy Spirit to brainwash from every bad past experience even you fall. Jesus Christ loves you and has a wonderful plan for your life. God hates sins but still loves sinners that is why Jesus Chrirst came on earth to save those who would believe in Him (Jesus)
@ararog Жыл бұрын
I know a girl, which I talk eventually and I noticed she says “me too” a lot. I like her, and these “me too” cause a huge effect inside me.
@donttreadonmetal5073 Жыл бұрын
i think she means hashtag metoo.
@JeanPaulFernandes5 ай бұрын
@@donttreadonmetal5073 dude might get a case
@Good.London6 ай бұрын
Only just found your channel and love it
@17ducci Жыл бұрын
Video starts @2:20
@simplecomplicated86342 жыл бұрын
My issue is I’m about daft as they come to these signs and almost never notice this. Still love your videos and keep up the good work.
@HateDietPepsi2 жыл бұрын
Women don't like me. So there is no reason to look for signs.
@tylerkendricks15042 жыл бұрын
I could see some of these signs and still be scared of rejection
@oscargonza27482 жыл бұрын
Life is about taking risks especially when apportunities present themselves you go for it, what matter the most is you took the chance win or lose you tried
@Introvertedalpha2 жыл бұрын
I know how this goes...
@arturoroldan48392 жыл бұрын
Who dares wins.
@TheSingleTrucker2 жыл бұрын
Signs a puffer fish will not poison us by Coach Melannie. Wait, love is not toxic? Inconceivable!
@NicholasPR2 жыл бұрын
I had a confusing and depressing encounter with a former co-worker earlier this year. We had had a good relationship, and I always liked her. We had a lot of the signs in this video, but when we got together, she looked incredibly dejected and wouldn't even look at me. She took some jabs at me too. I couldn't figure out why she was upset, and she wouldn't tell me (that's on her). In the end, I asked her if there was something I didn't know that she thought I should, to tell me what it was. She thought for a minute, and gently told me "I think you might be autistic. You're so intelligent, but you don't seem to understand social cues." Then she said that she thought she herself might be autistic. It stung and was really confusing. After watching this video and some others, I realized that I "rejected" her right before we got together - she made a move on me and I didn't go for it. Completely unintentional on my part, but like Coach said, her heart was completely crushed and she felt stupid and rejected. Imagine the heartache I had when I put it all together. Navigating male/female dynamics can be so tricky, but worthwhile doing some work to at least try to improve your ability to read things, so thank you for the videos
@QueenOfTheGreen272 жыл бұрын
Weird, I think its not being autistic it's that we have been hurt and are not so quick to trust seemingly obvious signals to other people. We overthink things as to try and control it from not happening again.
@NicholasPR2 жыл бұрын
@@QueenOfTheGreen27 Agreed. I myself have very deep trauma as it pertains to romantic relationships. It's mine to work on. Never attribute to autism what can be attributed to poor communication
@sclark2232 жыл бұрын
Wow, sounds like you had a fairly open conversation in the end, on something that would be really hard to talk about. That sounds promising ... given that little bit of breakthrough conversation, were you able to retry? Was she open to that? I like that you did "research" in a caring way - that you don't say "oh she's terrible", but rather you are concerned about her feelings, and trying to understand. That shows a lot of promise too. A lot of kindness and open-mindedness. Really a nice thing for whatever woman takes a spot in your life.
@NicholasPR2 жыл бұрын
@@sclark223 That's cool of you to say. I'm actually not interested in retrying though. Interestingly, she hit me up the next evening and said that she wanted to give me something. She didn't say what it was, I'm assuming it was a small gift of some kind because she had given me little gifts before. I told her no thank you. The truth is that I'm not interested in retrying for someone who won't be straightforward with me when I ask her what the problem is. I was concerned with her feelings, yes - but I'm not going to go after someone who won't communicate her feelings to me in an open and honest way. That's a red flag that will be a big problem later on. I feel ultimately like even if there was interest, mother nature's timing has different plans for both of us and it's best to just trust that and move on
@saycog10842 жыл бұрын
I met a guy online recently, he looks great, seems smart, but he gets no clues whatsoever. I thought he might be autistic too. It’s a shame, he seemed to be my type. And he keeps talking to me when I contact to ask something unrelated to dating…he’s very quick to answer and willing to help. In the beginning he told me he was deeply hurt before.
@rayeldridge5369 Жыл бұрын
Yes SIGNSTHamk You for all your help!!!!!!!!
@Shedshananigans2 жыл бұрын
I must be in a unique environment because at my job if you initiate a conversation with a female, especially one you don’t know, you will be automatically labeled as a creep by everyone. That’s why I’m always very careful not to stare or talk to women at work or really anywhere for that matter.
@anishnaabehistorypodcast7215 Жыл бұрын
Truth!
@jimdandy8996 Жыл бұрын
Just tape a big sausage to your leg under your pants and they'll come talk to you instead.
@Stevensonbenson10 ай бұрын
@@anishnaabehistorypodcast7215not truth, you have to know HOW to approach womeb and when. That's nonsense
@kaibalfour23187 ай бұрын
I just crack jokes with who ever is near me. Of course I don’t say anything outlandish or inappropriate but there’s nothing wrong with light hearted conversation with people you see everyday. If your only acting that way towards one girl then it might seem more obvious that your flirting with her, but if your like that with everyone then it won’t set off alarm bells
@tapthatt20124 ай бұрын
@kaibalfour2318 that's how I do it.
@jessehargraves29197 ай бұрын
Signs...I really like hearing yor voice and the bloopers are the best
@stephenkenney7983Ай бұрын
Definitely enjoy your videos.
@musicman5975339810 ай бұрын
love it, liked, subscribed, keep em coming
@ayisch2 жыл бұрын
It's such a pleassure listening to your voice! And thanks for great advice
@Introvertedalpha2 жыл бұрын
Great insights, especially the one about her getting nervous when she's around you. This happens a lot!
@manonymasmr4153 Жыл бұрын
Most of the girls who flirt at me don’t seem nervous usually.
@MrAhoy19572 жыл бұрын
Signs and pufferfish Melannie, love the bloopers too, shows you are genuine 😀
@BillWiese-v6b Жыл бұрын
I enjoy every time I see you and you have a lot of info about ladies that has helped me .
@musicman5975339810 ай бұрын
OMG the Blooper reel at the end, I'm dead.
@organicmechanic5150 Жыл бұрын
Your advice is absolutely on point.
@adrianfeek3464 Жыл бұрын
Hi Melannie you have just answered a puzzaling thing about how my co worker and I do we do silly things like making animal noises that we both laugh at
@bogusmogus95512 жыл бұрын
Thanks Melannie. That's advice I needed when I was 14 years old, maybe younger. -Too little, too late now, 40 years too late.
@CoachMelannie2 жыл бұрын
I never think it's too late!
@buffyd57372 жыл бұрын
@@CoachMelannie What's your email? thanks
@klewis43772 жыл бұрын
Thanks for this! I love it!
@Introvertedalpha2 жыл бұрын
🔥🔥
@chrismcevoy2503 Жыл бұрын
I love you videos Coach Melanie please make more.
@JackSparrow-nd8pp Жыл бұрын
It becomes really complicated when both of you are married and you get these signs when your spouse is around :-(
@wilfredosaenz7755 Жыл бұрын
You are correct some girls feel nervous when I'm around , the girls others giggles but pretending they are not see me that's the way girls do!
@John-x7r7p Жыл бұрын
Signs....,. Please continue ...,. This has beeñ very inormative😊😊 and many of the revealed info is there.....
@dicky1961AD Жыл бұрын
I always trusted Women more than men.Please keep up the awesome work!Please! God knows we need it!
@jwh3rooo7462 жыл бұрын
Great full in depth video. Melanie looks like actress Kirstin Dunst. 😄🙂
@lucbertrand3653 Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much Melannie for being there to coach us with women ! I wish I could have found you when I was 20, 30 or even 40, it would probably have changed my whole life ! Unfortunately, I'm now 62, I'm divorced since 8 years ago after being in couple 25 years with an handicapped woman who didn't share my desire to have children. Since I was always rejected by women and used to be the laugh of my high school, I met her through a dating agency and thought I had to give up some of my expectations to deserve love. Today, after having tried to be loved in helping or trying to save women living pain or injustice, I would prefer to die or never come alive. I would like to attend your Academy but I don't believe at all that I could be truly loved for who I am. I hate me so much for having failed everywhere it counted (love, family, career, personal finances and so on) in my life so I can't imagine how you can reverse this fate, even though you're so dynamic, knowledgeable, caring and lovely !
@ungido30 Жыл бұрын
go to God, get to know Jesus no woman can lighten the burden of you heart, one may be able to compliment you however if you continue so hurt and damage you'll be no good for no one. Only God can heal you, even at your age
@TheLman7711 ай бұрын
62 is still young. You should try and talk through your self doubts and feelings with a counsellor.
@michaelhayward68252 жыл бұрын
Signs. Your jokes are always funny! 😁 pufferfish (is puffer fish one word?!)!!🤣🌹 Have an amazing day too!
@JamesSmith-pn2wb Жыл бұрын
Hey Boo Pufferfish, It's me James, do you miss me yet? I just want to give a HUGE shout out letting you know that you are making a powerful impact on a lot of people. Congrats on all the great work.
@rubennavarrette796 Жыл бұрын
Hi Melanie, thank you for your awesome videos! I live them! You are a godsend!! Keep them coming!!
@ozzyb2 жыл бұрын
Signs, very insightful and informative video. Keep rollin' out those videos. And of course.... Pufferfish, lol. Love the genuine bloopers
@oscarerroa2287 Жыл бұрын
Wow! You’re good!
@markhedges11942 жыл бұрын
I have to say about Puffer Fish, lots of laughter is always a good thing! God bless!
@ryancox5870 Жыл бұрын
Puffer Fish ,great video 😁
@ryanhebert23742 жыл бұрын
Coach Melannie I have been watching your KZbin videos for some time and I’m also a member of your academy program and although I do admit I have not been on the your website recently I did go fully through it and your teachings are firmly in my mind and one of these days I wish to share with you my full story of how I came to meet your program.
@TheRyanSoucie4 ай бұрын
I am so bad at these signs. I totally fumbled.
@estebancervantes78032 жыл бұрын
Pufferfish. Lol. That's funny. Great video.
@bernardmueller56762 жыл бұрын
Why are some of us unlucky all the time? I've never found anybody. Sigh.
@oakleyturner9544 Жыл бұрын
Puffer Fish 😂 A bit late to the party, but I enjoy the content. Thanks
@michaelhayward68252 жыл бұрын
Thanks
@CoachMelannie2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much! Have a happy day! 😀
@jaredshaw50232 жыл бұрын
Yes it’s very helpful and you are right there’s the right way to approach a girl and the wrong Way
@MrTheJiugo2 жыл бұрын
Thank you!!! Loving the videos. Happy I subscribed
@TonyClarke-u4i Жыл бұрын
Hi Melannie, you're an amazing woman.
@Dragunov382 жыл бұрын
I am at a loss... Had a great 1st date and it was clear for both of us that we had mutual attraction. However after this, she has distance herself and our connection dwindled down. We are friendly towards each other but I guess I blew something for this sudden change? Women minds are so complex.
@CoachMelannie2 жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry this happened. Usually this happens for one of two reasons. Either she likes attention but isn't interested in a serious relationship or something happened that made her feel uncomfortable and think a relationship wouldn't work. The key is to learn how to approach and interact with a woman in a way that makes her feel safe with you, melts her heart and makes her want a relationship with you. Feel free to email me if you have questions!
@Dragunov382 жыл бұрын
@@CoachMelannie Thank you so much for your reply! I am elated and humbled. Yes, I think in my case, is the latter... We are both coming with a Christian background and maybe she is in a stage where moving forward with a romantic relationship will not work at this point on her life. I deeply appreciate your insights.
@argent-wolfman902 жыл бұрын
Hypergamy likely kicked in.
@isaacpeters40452 жыл бұрын
Signs and Puffer fish. Great video!👍
@andresmedcalf71282 жыл бұрын
Signs and more. I do all of what you talk about in your video's naturally. I literally have numerous woman who try and get my attention, but I don't pay no attention to them because I already like someone else.
@GoddenTusiime2 жыл бұрын
I love your voice and accent it perfectly suits the job!!
@EddieArenas-es1cb7 ай бұрын
I have noticed almost all of those signs...the thing is...I am much older than her...I fall for her at our first met...she's my office mate and we've been doing good.,.a year after I express my true feelings to her...she said nothing at all...after a week she blocked me in messenger...but still were good...and still noticing those subtle signs...she even touches my arms when it reacheable
@JeanPaulFernandes5 ай бұрын
damn that's really mixed signals
@joemorris31652 жыл бұрын
another great video Coach!!!! puffer fish to the end!!!
@humbertopocasangre5931 Жыл бұрын
Thank you Coach Melannie for the info you are amazing
@boikanyosera14722 жыл бұрын
Awesome! We need more!
@joegrande4848 Жыл бұрын
Or she offers to help you even though you may not need it.
@nobodyknows31804 ай бұрын
5:56 "I need to warn you about something pretty important, one of the easiest and quickest ways to reject a woman without even knowing it is to not respond when she tries to show her interest in you. This is one of the fastest ways to just totally reject a woman - it feels like a slap in the face and often she won't try again, she'll just walk away from a potential relationship because she's hurt and she feels stupid." That's a dangerous position to take because it assumes that ALL men can read these signs, and it will be their fault she's hurt and feels stupid - but it isn't because he rejected her, he just missed her signals. There are men out in this world who have been so rejected, so dejected, and so hurt, that they can begin to believe that NO women will ever be interested in them, and as such, they may even tend to ignore signals, thinking that those signals are either intended for someone else (they usually are), or that the woman is just toying with them. Not every man gets it, and some never will at all. But in the end, regardless, it isn't our job to read YOUR minds. I've tried to explain to women in the past, I am NOT a player, I am NOT a pickup artist, I don't know the right player signals to use on you and I sure as hell aren't going to understand the player signals you use. Just be straightforward, and stop with all the games.
@genefreak Жыл бұрын
You've probably heard this before... but wow! It's Kirsten Dunst! ;-)
@rossmarino27762 жыл бұрын
You should also make some videos about how to politely reject a woman's interest without making her feel bad. A man is not always interested in a starting a relationship with a woman yet she can be his good friend instead.
@peacefulwarrior4078Ай бұрын
Be so much easier on everyone if she would just ask /tell😘 them
@chrisluland8116 Жыл бұрын
Signs, love you work.
@BILL001STEELERS432 жыл бұрын
Melanie I have a crush on this girl for about 2 months now, I believe she's hinted about being interested, but then I get mixed signals sometimes, when she sees us all standing there, she hugs everyone but me( hello and goodbye).but then she will always ask me questions or help with something, which is cool. Confused, Thanks.
@CoachMelannie2 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry she does that. These videos will help. kzbin.info/aero/PLsQq0KK7pJ-WjotkCVLvYKp30QhuvcKDN
@franciscozuniga52472 жыл бұрын
First time watching till the end, I loved the video and the info! - pufferfish
@NatesAdventures422 жыл бұрын
I appreciate the intense use of NLP throughout this whole thing.
@AB-vc7ox11 ай бұрын
you know you really messed up when ten years later, all the moments and signs you missed from one particular woman are still looping in your head as vivid as yesterday. edit: I couldn't make sense of why she treated me so completely different from the rest of the men in our social group... that's what this video is about. Did you know eating a puffer fish can kill you if they aren't prepared by a specially trained chef?
@amessenger32082 жыл бұрын
Can I just say that as a man, I find you adorable :) as a Christian relationship coach/guide. I know you're already taken, lol. But your content is both wholesome (Christian) as well as very insightful and accurate. Keep up the good work. God bless.
@sunilalexandercampianregis8874 Жыл бұрын
I would say that the content is comprehensive, and feminine behaviour well defined ; greatly appreciated and admired .
@TommyD_Edits2 жыл бұрын
Boom! Right off the bat...The giggle. There's this Italian girl who giggles every time I get in the class. I come late though. 😂 She got exposed the day I caught her staring at me with both palms on her chin. I was stunned and she averted her eyes after 3 seconds. Thanks, coach Melannie for exposing more secrets. Haha.
@irena1286 ай бұрын
Thanks this is brilliant and very correct, I wish men found this videos and followed your advice. Us women are shy and been told we have to wait for the man to make a move. It's so confusing to all of us. I just want to ask him if he fancies me but can't I'm too scared he'll say no...
@frankvega15082 жыл бұрын
Yes they do help me very much thx 🙏
@bobburch2151 Жыл бұрын
You are absolutely amazing young lady and I really enjoy your videos so much.
@jamesbinkley43252 жыл бұрын
Your doing a great job keep up the good work
@keithbarnhart6952 Жыл бұрын
I don't always know how women actually think about me ( how is that possible?) but I DO know how they REACT to me, or more accurately, DON'T/WONT react to me.
@alwynmifflin39492 жыл бұрын
Hi Melanie, I,,like Your videos. They are really helpful and encouraging.
@xybersurfer Жыл бұрын
thanks again for the valuable insight. by the way i think you can actually sing, because i remember being pleasantly surprised when i saw you sing on another channel. on a completely different note; i've never seen a puffer fish in real life, but they look so cool
@tujungite4914 Жыл бұрын
I'm glad this coach exists! I've done these things naturally in the past but I'm talking with a girl I feel strongly for and I think she feels the same way, and she exhibits several of these traits! Oddly I'm scared of her but in some way I'm attracted to how she pushes my limits as to what my breaking point is. I just like her soo much but need to not go crazy and be comfortable. Why does it feel weird to go the extra step when it's obvious even to others she likes me. I saw that she was shakey and almost losing her balance standing next to me! She's so pretty, i like her so much, we talk about deep subjects. She mentioned we have telepathy! I get it! If there is truth in what's meant to be, we should be together. So I look to these lessons:)
@ronmiller7248 Жыл бұрын
I wish she would get to the point quicker. And not get so distracted.
@leonardm4722 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this lovely video
@Gregtier32 жыл бұрын
Like your vids. Your advice is good, unfortunately I'm a bit too experienced to ever date again. Love your ability to be so expressive! Signs and Pufferfish 😄
@wallsInc4 ай бұрын
I got a new one. Right now, my crush blocked me, ghost me, ignores me, cares about me and misses me. Right now she going to places that I would go. I also don't exist to her and she won't admit her feelings to me
@JeanPaulFernandes5 ай бұрын
She is sending me mixed signals i dont know what to make of it and she's much younger so I got to be careful
@prettyboyyounq71359 ай бұрын
At 5:37 what is the name of the song?
@blessings10152 жыл бұрын
God truly made us unique men & women a lot goes on in our minds
@Hello-dy1gh2 жыл бұрын
Don’t be scared, I’m really very understanding even though you might not think so. I’m actually a one woman man if she earned it? It means you are now in my heart. You will be taken care of for life.
@jeskoumm Жыл бұрын
I'll admit Cooch Machine makes valid points about how women feel and what they frequently do when there is the need to enjoy the company of a desirable man....blushing is a sure fire sign to pursue her 😄👍
@joshuavanwinkle3192 Жыл бұрын
Im 36 years old and have not dated for 11 years because every woman in my past have cheated on me so i have been avoiding every situation where i think a woman might be interested in me