How To Become The BAD BOY Women LOVE

[@benjaminnielsen4288]

In my experience, women who like you, when they really like you, they will make it easy for you. You don't have to act like a bad boy to try and get her. The door's open, just be confident and walk on through.

[@BlahBlahPoop617]

Yes and no. The main point here is “in your experience.” Perhaps you’re not a ‘bad boy’ and so you’ll attract the women who aren’t as much into ‘bad boys.’ So your experience could be selection bias. As opposed to a bad boy who will naturally attract women who are into bad boys and not men who aren’t bad boys. So yes, be yourself, and you’ll attract women accordingly. But of course that’s nuanced too because ‘being yourself’ is also somewhat conditional. If you’re a slob who doesn’t shower and lets yourself go, or you act too clingy, then you’re being yourself but that will virtually attract no women. Of course I am sure you know this but just to point it out as an example. On average though, I’d say most women want at least some of the ‘bad boy’ qualities. Epically when they’re in their 20’s. Usually when they hit 30+ they’re more serious and have had bad experiences with the bad boys. But issue is at that age they could have accumulated a lot of emotional baggage from bad choices in toxic men. This is also compounded by the fact that, according to the science, women tend to be more neurotic than men are.

[@Ronin_87]

U sir, have experienced the best experience 💪🤙

[@benjaminnielsen4288]

@@Ronin_87 I failed many times in my life with women. But the few times I was successful with them easily, at least later in my life, they made it so easy for me. I didn't have to go out of my way or be a relentless dickhead. When girls like you, they will often times put themselves in your orbit. It's up to you to act. I did. 💪🤙

[@Ronin_87]

@@benjaminnielsen4288 indeed, I resonate because I struggled in a similar fashion. Wasn't till later I realized their was a better way. Never went back afterwards

[@JohnM...]

Maybe in YOUR experience, but some of us get treated like unwashed lepers by that species, ugly OR handsome. Women LOVE to humiliate a man they see as ‘not good enough’. Sorry, ‘ALL women….’

[@ModernDatingMastery]

*Women love men who are unapologetically themselves and don’t let anyone’s opinion dictate their worth. Focus on building self-assurance, owning your decisions, and embracing a no-fear attitude.*

[@realperx1102]

Exactly, i don't even try.😂

[@Psych1_-]

Another huge thing that people need to understand is sometimes women are just messed up from childhood. If her dad was bad, or didn't show her much affection, she often times will be paradoxically attracted to men who are emotionally distant. So you can be a great guy who is strong, and affectionate, but she's turned off because her idea of love is all messed up.

[@ghostccc8089]

This is why vetting is so important.

[@chrishartzog9189]

I understand that some people have trauma in their lives. That's not an excuse to bring that on someone else. Whoever a woman ends up with, that guy did not cause her that past trauma.

[@RubenWalsh-iv5ik]

Well said

[@gho5t504]

Oh, that's why she keeps trying to reach out! She ditched me when I showed a bit of emotion and interest. It blew up into a massive argument. Couple of months into no contact, bits started to fall into place in my head and I figured out some things and told her to not even think about believing that she has wiggle room to get back. Then she tried to hoover me after 10 months since we had that argument, but I rejected her. Then couple of months later she called me again, but I didn't pick up. I didn't even assume it was her until I called back, 'cause I was expecting a courier. She took her sim card out and I haven't been notified of her activating the number back on. I guess she finally understood that the tables have turned and that I'm done after 14 years of knowing each other.

[@PkrDealer86]

That's every woman

[@MorsOktober]

You’re nailing it-women aren’t drawn to bad boys because they’re jerks; it’s about the confidence, decisiveness, and leadership they project. Being a leader doesn’t mean controlling her; it means stepping up, making plans, and being clear about what you want, while leaving room for her input. The key is balance. Don’t overthink and become passive, but don’t swing to being overbearing either. Confidence comes from being steady and purposeful, not from trying too hard. Lead like a good dance partner-set the rhythm, guide the steps, but let her shine too. It’s all about showing up with intention and presence, and that’s what really draws people in.

[@RubenWalsh-iv5ik]

Your totally wrong. Women like bad boys because they have no goals, are chaotic and live in the temporal. Just like women.

[@luckymoon7276]

No, they are drawn to them because their role models reflected who the women are attracted to. Attraction is always there for each of us. However, it's a matter of how the women were exposed to when they were young. Who were their role models growing up will shape who they date. That's a fact of life. As my days as a tour guide and hospitality industry, I have spoken to thousands of women. I have noticed the women who were more secure that grew up with decent dads tend to like good guys. And the girls who tend to like bad boys are more anxious. Something to think about.

[@mavs2p2]

Guys, don`t resort to mental tricks just to sleep with someone. Learn to be alone. Accept the harsh reality of female attraction. Enrich your life by pursuing your life goals, fullfiling hobbies, mental and physical strenght. This is the winning path of us.

[@larrylama1471]

very good mature comment. Let us just be ourselves, let them mess with the toxic assholes and cry later.

[@robicelus]

Also being ruthless helped me attract beautiful, young and feminine women.

[@vasyavasili2172]

Can you elaborate what being ruthless means in relationship?

[@ghostccc8089]

“Ruthless?” WTH lmao…. Define to us what that looks like.

[@robicelus]

Being careless about her needs and never please them in any way, they love that. If she even senses that you try to please her in any way, you're out even though she gave you the impression that she liked your good intentions. Forget the "just be yourself" nonsense. After living 40 years on this planet I realised that women (especially the young and attractive ones) are the happiest when their man is cruel and selfish (if she gained weight, tell her she has to lose it) and be 100% honest about it. Oh yeah, and never lend them money (unless she's your wife).

[@luckymoon7276]

I don't have to be ruthless lol. I just have to be me and I noticed I tend to attract secure, beautful, sexy, feminine women who have a healthy relationship with her family. Ironically, I tell them I'm a shy guy and they always love it lol. Then we proceed with our dates successfully. It's always exciting. I guess I don't have to change myself just to attract amazing women. No need being "ruthless". I'm just an island boy par

[@Shawn3002]

Dating was so much easier before cell phones. You would eat, watch a movie, listen to music, smoke and go to bed. Communication wasn’t a problem because its all you had to do and there were no interruptions. This bad boy bs wasnt even a thought.

[@Looking-great]

Yep. Social media has screwed everyone's minds too. I miss the 90's. 😂

[@dnzltan]

i love how i can clearly tell that ur a Corey Wayne disciple 😂still, u guys speak straight facts 🔥

[@ghostccc8089]

It’s so true!!!! Legit using wordage from Corey, and Corey is 10000% right!

[@octopi9]

if you're a Corey dizciple ; put on ya obi-one-kenobi religion outfit. Hee Hee.💞

[@remc0s]

From my experience you don't even have to be a bad boy. When i show interest once and they don't want to date, i just ignore them. For some reason this makes them beg for my attention again. Never fails. Women like this fantasy that they are the only one you want. When you signal them they're not and that you have options, they want you back. Also guys; stop putting women on a pedestal and quitt the whole queen/goddess routine. Women are just human, so just treat them as such.

[@clouddash-x8n]

How long did that attraction last? The "you have other options" way of attraction?

[@abstract-thoughts]

I'd say what you described are also bad boy traits.

[@MissionJesus370]

Do not comply with these evil Jezebels. Do not submit to her. Jesus is King

[@briansaiditsoitmustbetrue4206]

I am what I am...I am kind... I care about people... I am loving... I am loyal... I will not change who I am... If these "Personality traits" offend you... That is too bad.... I will still be here when your looks have faded and you no longer get a second look from the "Bad boy" 😁

[@abstract-thoughts]

Did you watch the video? Did she say you have to give up all those traits? You can be all that and still be a "bad boy".

[@briansaiditsoitmustbetrue4206]

It tends to be childish emotionally immature younger women or women who are "Damaged goods" with "Daddy issues" who go for the "Bad boy" ...Guys with the tacky gold neckless and tacky gold watch to match...The tacky neck tattoos and the guy who goes to tanning saloons and the guys who use illegal drugs... With age comes wisdom and luckily most women actually grow up and they realise that "Captain Caveman" is actually not the best choice for a lifetime partner. The ones who don't end up crazy old "Cat ladies" with lots of pet cats and a d/i/l/d/0 for company... Hope the above information helps.

[@larrylama1471]

very good comment. Let us raise our sons to be better than this bad boy nonsense.

[@Ollision]

Wow, didn't know deciding what to eat for dinner makes me a bad boy 😎

[@Ronin_87]

😂

[@yvesgysel9834]

😂

[@stevesundstrom]

and mixing up what days of the week your dates are "the mystery"...

[@ElevateMyRelationships]

Sarcasm aside, continuing to let her decide and not being a leader, and always being a pleaser will get you single pretty quick.

[@TrueLoveLovesAll]

1. Lead her. 2. Be mysterious and more aloof in the beginning. 3. Be confident like a mountain. 4. Be authentic, be upfront with your desires.

[@jwill9877]

Women love two archtypes of men. The bad boy and the pretty boy. The bad boy puts himself first. He trusts his dicisions and is confident in himself. His confidence comes from sucess hes had.

[@Jungle_boy123]

What sucess he he had that gives him confidence all the time??

[@jwill9877]

@Jungle_boy123 success with women and success in life in general. Success begets confidence. You cannot fake real confidence. It means the man has some type of success in life that is of value. Women are hardwired to be attracted to confidence. They are hardwired to be attracted to a lot of things and the bad boy naturally displays many of these. They always are attracted to the two archetypes I stated. It never changes in their lives. They just learn to stay away because they usually get hurt by them or cannot lock them down long term.

[@VideosVonDennis]

The concept is quite simple. Research Cluster-B and understand that there is a big percentage of women out there with a personality disorder. Quite common nowadays is Borderline or narcissistic personality disorder. It is extremely common in women. Now you need to understand that such a woman grew up in a toxic family environment, usually without a father who could have given her a stable personality, but with a single mommy who usually is a narcissistic person who kicked her husband to the curb and prevented the dad access to the child while not being able to raise a kid herself. This will be essentially the trauma chain at play because she will do the same to you if you are a nice guy, as her mother did it to her father. Without a stable identity that could have been given by a father, she of course can not know what love is and what a stable man looks like... how could she know? What she is attracted to is the behaviour she is used to. Remember, she got raised by a narcissistic and abusive mother... that is what she grew up with and what is normal to her. Thus, she seeks the same attributes in a man, which is why she likes a bad boy... she thinks abuse is love. That is what she learned all her life. Forget all other bs.... you now got a scientific explanation and if you want to go down this rabbit hole... I suggest Professor Dr Sam Vaknin but there are more. Forget dating couches, they have no clue what kind of family dynamics are at play and where this trauma with bad partner choices stems from in reality.

[@RubenWalsh-iv5ik]

At last someone said it

[@slate4687]

Now...just look at her face for a second..."she is a personal coach" 😂😅😢...so sad....

[@LaMarmotaJuguetona]

If I decide what to do, she complains "we always have to do what YOU want to do"

[@adrianparker-e9f]

If she's still with you, she must still like you ?

[@ghostccc8089]

That’s when you say: “oh, I didn’t even think about it, what would you like to do?” Life really is that simple. That quality of life you’ll have is based on the quality of questions you ask.

[@jwill9877]

​@@ghostccc8089sounds good in theory, but if you let your girl change your mind so easily it's going to put into question your ability to lead.

[@jwill9877]

Ask her if she has a better idea? If she doesn't then say "see?" If she has another idea, tell her "we will do that next time, but I have the plans already set up for tonight." Now you have a second date partially setup. You set up the rest later. But I'm gonna tell you this. It's less of you doing what you want and more of her not wanting the responsibility of picking a bad date.

[@adrianparker-e9f]

@@jwill9877 That last sentence is completely true ! This was something that i saw with my mother. She might disagree with my father about something, yet knew full well that making decisions and bearing the responsibility for them was something that she couldn't deal with. Sometimes, certain behaviours by women are just a case of 'going through the motions'.

[@clouddash-x8n]

only one reason why it's like this: she doesn't like you. If she truly has feelings for you she won't let you jump across so many hoops . That's not how you treat someone you really like. Yes, mature people would try to vet people but they likely won't make it so difficult. If it's that difficult, then she's not into you, because she doesn't care about how much effort you have to put in to keep satisify those demands and games, and males often already have invested much energy and feelings that they even start to think any kind-of positive signs from her side is her kind of liking you. Perhaps she doesn't dislike you, like you are not that annoying and appaling to her, so she can make this kind of "vague", because her true feeling is that you are not that dislikeable to her, and objectively you are not. If she makes it obvious, it will also reflect poorly on her, affecting how others see her. So she does these small things, within a reasonable range, to make it not full on dislike. But she's not into you. And you are a fool, getting strung along repeatedly just like videos like this that give, me, a false hope.

[@adrianparker-e9f]

In the past these traits were standard 'male' ideology. The 'good guys' were brought up this way too. But over the years, these ways have been diluted and eliminated as being 'uncivilized' leaving only the 'bad boys' with them, because they don't care.

[@felipeecheverry8155]

You re talking facts.. Actual world. Like it... Keep it.

[@octopi9]

I'm ya bad boy baby! ; even tho we're on oppozite teamz!! hee hee

[@Chebito710]

Haven’t watched video and won’t. Women like a man who is him and doesn’t care. Just throw her a bone here n there and love her 💯

[@derwoodhamburger]

I think they call it the integrated man. I was a "nice guy" then when I realized the psychology behind it I became pissed off (at myself and the world) and turned nasty. Now I'm working towards integration and having a secure attachment style

[@P1983sche]

You don’t have to do this bs when a woman really likes you. She will let you know. If you like her and have to wonder; it’s a game, just stop communication.

[@abstract-thoughts]

She likes a guy because the guy is acting like she explains. Not just because.

[@larrylama1471]

@@abstract-thoughts she likes a toxic guy, it is that simple. I do not want toxic.

[@abstract-thoughts]

@@larrylama1471 what about all this is toxic?

[@yvesgysel9834]

Yeah, right, I was on a date... Leading, planning, ordening for the both of us, being confident... Everything went well. Laughing. Kissing... I kid you not. Next morning, a message of her. "I liked it so much, and you are a great kisser, I want to kiss you again," I reply. "I am sure we can." To that, she replies:"In that case, I will not. ". So I didn't send her anything anymore. A few weeks later, she again:"Why haven't I heard from you anymore?" So I reply."Never mind, I am already seeing someone else." Some of these women are just nuts. What do they expect "playing games and then being surprised that they don't hear from you anymore and that you have moved on"??? I am not the pursuing guy, and if I wanna play catch, I can do that with my 4 years old nephew or dog!!! Once it's NO, maybe, or playing games, I ompletely check out!!!

[@RubenWalsh-iv5ik]

You dodged a bullet

[@tylerrjohnson68]

We don't wanna change

[@octopi9]

You're a well Quality Lady! Damn well make zure ya keep bein' you!.

[@PkrDealer86]

I haven't dated since the metoo movement, have fun and be safe out there men!

[@thesaint5619]

I hear you it's gone crazy

Actually it's not bad boys women are attracted to, it's confident guys that don't need any particular chic.

[@Ohem1]

*sigh* I’m so not the bad boy type, I just want peace and mutual respect, and become a dad. I like who I am regardless how it comes off as, I’m comfortable. But keep hearing that’s not enough, so I guess I’ll have to accept my role as undesired.

[@abstract-thoughts]

"Bad boy" is just a name for the qualities she's talking about. Why can't you start adopting them? I am not naturally a bad boy but I learned these and started applying them. You can too.

[@larrylama1471]

very good comment. Me too.

[@larrylama1471]

@@abstract-thoughts these games, stereotypes and so-called bad boy qualities will not get you the wife that you truly desire. Just be yourself.

[@AttractiveIntrovert]

@@larrylama1471 most guys are "being themselves" already - and how's that working out? 50% divorce rate, while most of the divorce or breaking up is being made by the woman.. so you tell me how being yourself is working right now? Time for men to learn some skills that actually makes the relationship last.

[@IAMGEORGE415]

Correst tittle should be ‘ how to be a nice guy that plays games’

[@jqxznetwork]

No thank you, I'll stay the nice guy that everyone hates.

[@larrylama1471]

Me too.

[@thesaint5619]

Once you get older you just say F it ill be me no acting no bs and you'll find someone that way or stay single and build wealth. Few quid or few hundred quid a week put away changes everything money gives you options.

[@marekknieshtschav6391]

15:30 hilarious delivery with the gigglesnort lmao

[@MrYou-n4f]

In my city is extremely opposite. A lot of disengineers guys act like a friend and it's so. Underhanded, making me ask. How could you have the goal to jump into physical intimacy with a friend? That's a line. You never crossed if she was a real friend. You would never think about her that way.Unless you were plotting and scheming with false pretense with the illusion of being a Distant genuinefriend I'm direct and honest civilized but that never works over here which might explain why i'm popular anywhere I am today

[@mictrap1383]

Ass hat is amazing 😂❤

[@tadichaguyo290]

Be always mysterious

[@adrianparker-e9f]

I found this to work for me, but it wasn't a first choice.....or even a choice at all ! If how you already do things works for you, then all well and good, there's no need to change. I reached my early thirties without any success, so i decided to experiment, and try out different things. This worked for me; someone else might have success with something else.

[@vasyavasili2172]

What exactly worked for you?

[@adrianparker-e9f]

@@vasyavasili2172 The word 'confidence' is often used, but it can be a bit difficult defining what that actually means ! ( i'd say a better word is to be 'fearless'. ) My first thing to change about myself was just getting talking to girls in any situation, and, like starting any new skill, things can be a bit crude to begin with. With this, i also changed my thinking. I kept saying to myself 'i have every much right to meet girls and form a relationship the same as everyone else !' ( up till then i felt as if i was being 'intrusive', i was 'bothering' people and it was my fault if they were upset etc.) Once i started, i began to see the knowledge that i needed every where. You start to pick up on how others communicate, and how effective they are, or not. Even watching movies and TV, you 'tune in' to the things that are now of interest ! It was funny how i found myself 'noticing' behaviour that i hadn't before. I will write some more soon !

[@spinback72]

Ironically, in time, many men fall into the role where the woman "wears more of the trousers"... I've seen so much of this 😏

[@airgunballistics1779]

I run around banging slots that's the new normal😊😊😊

[@macc1370]

Literally none of these things sound like a bad boy to me.

[@octopi9]

I'll take ya down ta 5th Avenue Honey-Bunz! (4:35)😜😁

It's not about women at all. It's about men, only men. The more confident and self assured you are, the more women you get to choose. Those are the facts. I don't need to look for women because I can go riding, hiking, skiing or traveling alone and meet women everywhere. I also can tell when women are playing. You wanna play? I'm already out and about meeting others. So ladies, play your games and miss out on good guys because you're not giving good guys enough time to adjust to your needs. Next in line.

[@dandaman9009]

3rd comment but please know “just be confident” with women doesn’t work for men who’ve never experienced it. It’s like telling a fish to breathe water.

[@ZuZu_Petals]

I don't understand how being a leader is a bad boy quality

[@IAMGEORGE415]

Its not

I'd rather date 100 women once, than one woman 100 times. It doesn't give her a chance to play these idiotic games.

[@wrcinc]

Bad boys don’t go on dates…they come over 😂

[@thesaint5619]

Im hear cause christine is fit that's it . If i can help a bro out in comments i will. Yes im aware shes married lol but facts are facts

[@Ur2ez4me81]

I don’t want to be a bad boy I want to be a good man & just fall in love…

[@AWFULWORKPLACES]

MAKE GOOD GUYS GREAT AGAIN 2024!

[@larrylama1471]

I wish they make videos on how to be in a healthy relationship again.

[@Bacon7666]

She has a wife. That means that she is the bad boy in the relationship, that's why she's giving advice.😂😂😂

[@starlingafrica8791]

come on bad booy boy boy you should begin up take it take it love me love me says Rihanna

[@_baller]

You said, ABSOLUTELY NOTHING

[@donflash17]

What about long distance getting to know a girl

[@octopi9]

Gimmie a Beautiful dance poze honey!! (hee hee) (6:10 +20 zecz)😍💃❤‍🔥

[@StonedGoku]

have you heard of Dan bacon?

[@zupurfeg89]

What if interest grows later as I get to know her?

[@bulldogsnewleaf-m7g]

that's called a healthy relationship...

[@DirtnapJack]

I got a bit of a laugh from this because it autoplayed from the woman’s attraction fluctuates clip she did. Does it fluctuate with the bad boys or just the rest of us peons cuz that’s how it appears.

[@PeaceMaker669-c1i]

The windshield glasses ! Sorry but I’m done already

[@_baller]

Your wife?? Lesbian

[@Warntator]

🤮

[@glennhosick1514]

I really can't quite get why you would want to change within the person.soul You're!! To attract another from the opposite sex!! In this instance ( men.to.women) Why oh why would you want to try adapt traits to win some one over!! If they don't like the soul you're. Let them lead on..&..find within whichever they want! Always stay true to who you're. Never attempt be a person you're not. To impress anyone else! As you will be putting on a facade! .&. Where do you draw the line! When you become a person who doesn't know themselves anymore!! All in trying to gain validation from another! I think not!!(My opinion mind) Each to their own!!

[@M0SCON1Audi0]

Women who grow up with to much drama are attractive to drama boys.

[@Jungle_boy123]

But all the women like bad boys that means all of them grown up drama

[@adrianparker-e9f]

@@Jungle_boy123 This is what i discovered ! ( things may have been different in the past ) Right through my twenties i had the notion that when i came across a girl that was similar to me, a relationship would just form 'naturally', but that never happened. I eventually realized that even the girls that i was most compatible with still behaved this way and disliked me as i was.

[@octopi9]

Ztar-warz epizode 6 baby ; if you will not turn people into pozitive zychology? ; then perhapz i will? NO!!! ha ha.!

[@luckymoon7276]

You mean women like you right? Because not all women like bad boys. Not unless you grew up with a bad father or your male role model at a young age is bad, then you'll like bad boys because that's imbedded in your unconscious. I have seen women who grew up wih a decent father and they prefer to date decent guys because that's her foundation as a child growing up making them very secure or having secure attachment. I have met those women and they are stunning. For the "women" that like bad boys, studies have shown that "women" who like bad boys tend to have an anxious attachment and it makes sense. Bottomline, if you are lecturing guys about being a bad boy because that's what you believe women like, then you're just in your bubble. You should talk to more secure women because they are attacted to healthy decent guys. That's facts lol.

[@leaveandneverturnback8226]

Why should a serious man do that? If he wants to play games he can buy a Nintendo.

[@jwhubert91]

No. I want an alpha female.

[@lovethyneighbor3401]

so youre gay

[@aymenmazari8374]

12.13

[@Tryggvasson]

how to be a bad boy without being bad. only women can come up with that. "be a leader" 😳 what the hell has that got to do with being bad? that's why you never listen to women. no (absence of) logic ever registers with them. why the hell would you make up a plan? "to be a leader". that's not what being a leader is - 1. being one is not "being bad" - 2. and why should you be one - 3? and that's just for the first item. the same bullshit with "masculine vs. feminine", "leader", etc., that doesn't get anybody anywhere, repeated from anywhere else. just share the links to where you've read, no point in making a video about it.

[@camronrubin8599]

But you don't have a man

[@octopi9]

I know ya married n'all ; but i ztill luv ya baby! ha ha i'm juzt an arze-hat!! hee hee. (1.45 +10 zecz) (1:45)

[@Warntator]

gross