Caught crossdressing by mom

[@LaFemmeSabrina]

I believe the risk of getting caught is what makes crossdressing extra exciting. 🙂

[@kimberlyvictoria-mf7mw]

yes there is definitely that element to crossdressing

[@mikee750]

I had very similar experiences. Like you at a young age I could't express why I loved to look and feel of feminine clothing. I just knew that I did. My parents passed away in an accident when I was 14. I was taken in my a neighbor family I grew up next to and they had two daughters twins my age. They new my secret because they were my best friends. I was eventually adopted by them and my sisters helped me really embrace my crossdressing life. Out of an awful loss and confusing time I gained a new family and an identity. I am straight and like girls too. But I love pretty bras and panties and all other feminine attire. Playing dress up with my sisters as a kid are some of my most cherished memories and the love and support that came with it. Cheers!

[@macarenacd]

I was never caught by mom, but sometimes I think she might know more than I think. I started crossdressing at 7 years old, and doing it for so many years living with her, I it's hard to believe I was that great hiding it. I guess it's easier to fool someone doesn't really want to know. Loved the video and your story! Great channel!

[@joseesparza9757]

Trust!!! Your mom knows!!! Somehow they’ll figure it all out. That how my mom confronted me about it

[@jimmieroberts4430]

It's such a double standard that woman can wear men's clothes and it's not an issue. Nobody thinks twice. A man wears something feminine and it's an out rage. We should all have the right to dress in anything we want. Without judgment.

[@GS-ot3qh]

Jimmie And Paola you are both so right it's wrong us guys in get judged, so what if I want to wear a Skirt or Dress 👗 we are not hurting anyone are we? Great videos keep doing it.

[@konradson]

@@girltimewithpaola9251 What's more... originally, some clothing for men, are now just for women. Men wore high heels first... Romans, mini-skirts...

[@hans4462]

Agreed. Cross-dressing doesn't hurt anyone, but judgment can hurt deeply.

[@your_royal_highness]

Lesbian sex is a turn on for most men vs man on man. At least to heterosexual men.

[@garymorris1856]

It really isn't the same at all. Typically, women who wear men's clothing are not trying to act like a man and striving to be masculine. Males who dress as women are wanting to feel feminine, it is not the same, and you know it. I am not saying that anything is wrong with males, crossdressing, I am only saying it isn't the same .

[@reaperofbloodmoon]

im straight but i was caught by my mom and she acceped me for who i was and now i can dress up anytime i want now

[@geoffjoffy]

Nobody's business but yours. Enjoy

[@jimsoupene8081]

Do u

[@davidcarrington9259]

Why does everyone think that cross dresses are gay? You look gorgeous wish I had your beauty

[@aaronfc02]

Society

[@remainstrongcarryon5363]

I do envy her beauty. My shoulders are to masculine for me ever to go out as Brittany.

[@leotomma3494]

People like to put labels on people

[@BBrusehaber1]

When I was 11, my sister who was 9 talked me into having me dress in her clothes for one of her videos she likes to do. I was very hesitant at first because of a bit of pride and a very hard-nosed stepdad in the picture. I followed through with it and I enjoyed the experience a lot. After that one experience, I grew in love with it. Under my clothes, I would dress in my sisters underwear and bras and bathing suits. It helped me feel a large sense of freedom. A few weeks have past until there was one night where my parents went out to a party, with my sister and I left home alone. I have just turned 12 a week before. I was wearing one of her bras, going thru some of her clothes which seemed a little bit larger on her and more fitting for me. She was chilling in the living room playing her Nintendo DS and watching TV. When I was gonna go in to take some of her clothes into my room to try them on, there she was standing in the kitchen. I looked at her like a deer in headlights. She was crying bc of seeing me in her clothes, and I was crying from the shame of getting caught. She called my parents home, and told her that I was in deep trouble. I told her how sorry I as of this. Then my parents came storming in, featuring my intoxicated step dad. He kept repeating himself in how if this happens again, he would send me to a psychiatrist. My young mind interpreted that as what is considered as a psyche ward, which at the time seemed like jail. He also kept saying how it was illegal in different parts in the world, and how I would've been killed if others saw this. My parents tried to get an answer outta me as to who condoned this. The real answer was my own desires as to it feeling good, and the fact that my sister introduced it to me. However, those didn't seem acceptable in the eyes of my parents. I felt the need to lie and blame it on an imaginary kid from the summer day camp I was going to. They said that they were going to call the camp director to investigate, but they never did. At the end of this, my stepdad booted me from facebook, which was very crushing for me as that was how I communicated with friends outside of school. My mom hugged me and told me "you will always be my boy". From that point on, I knew I had to be a lot more discreet to not get sent to what I thought was the psyche ward. I sneaked around a lot, as I would wear my sisters dirty clothes from her hamper when nobody was home. I would really enjoy it while wearing the clothes, yet feel very guilty of it after. This went on from 2011 until roughly the Summer of 2018. When I was in school, my desires were very distinguishable to me. I would catch myself gazing at girls not because I was attracted to them, but because I wanted to be more like them. In high school, I wouldn't be able to grow close to people or make any lasting friendships because I was too ashamed of my hidden desires. When I went to college, things changed dramatically for me, where I made very close and caring friends. However, this has brought on crippling anxiety. I initially vowed to myself to keep this completely out of my college experience. However, with drinking problems coming from my stepdad who became more and more abusive to my family and myself, uncertainty in choosing a major, and the stress of the college grind, I went into an identity crisis. I powered through to become a psychology major, in remission from my drinking problem, and I found close, nurturing friendships. This last summer, I was able to start coming out to my close friends who accepted me because they already know that I am a very unique, incredible soul even without my desire to crossdress. As my senior fall semester has started, I came out to all of my close friends, and then my track team and then my coach. The most difficult person to come out to was my mom. I drove home to tell her. Little did I know, she found some clothes under my bed while I was away. She was very open and accepting of it. I proceeded to let the public know about it. Now, I am slowly starting to embrace and explore my inner femininity. It feels right to consider myself as gender fluid, as I further experience my true self. My advice those who haven't done so yet is to come forward with what your desires are, no matter how hard it is. People who accept you have and will continue to love you unconditionally, yet people who aren't accepting aren't fit for your journey of life. You will find your way without them. You are strong. You are loved. You are so beautiful when you are your true self!!! Much love! Thank you so much for this video!

[@Jodi28]

WOW ! Brandon , an amazing story . Glad to hear everything turned out well for you in the end . It just goes to show , honesty is the best policy . Well done .

[@BBrusehaber1]

@@Jodi28 Thank you so much!!! :)

[@Jodi28]

@@BBrusehaber1 You're welcome . :)

[@liam64]

This is very inspiring, I am still figuring out whether to come out to people or not. I'm very glad everything worked out for you :)

[@aestheticemma_2755]

I'm gonna come out soon, I'm 12 and was caught a couple years ago, but I can't wait since my parent keep on saying they love me no matter what. I'm still embarrassed, but I'm going to be honest. Wish me luck!

[@riffhard7605]

I was never caught but I can address why I do it. When I'm Amber I become calmer and more at peace with myself. Like there has been hole in my life that has suddenly been filled. You are a strong, beautiful person. Don't let others take that away from you. Love and Peace.

[@jimsoupene8081]

Ty I become Rayanne. She is so relaxed. No stress

[@requiem165]

I feel like it’s kinda an incognito mode for life. It’s peaceful

[@jimsoupene8081]

I'd love pics. Not sure how

[@tedhenkle]

I always love hearing about Paola's experiences as a crossdresser. When I've cross dressed, I wouldn't describe my feelings as peaceful, nor have I named my alter-ego. (I haven't thought of a feminine name that I felt would fit). I've always admired women, not just for the clothes they wear, but for the way interact with each other. Even if its just they way they snuggle up with each other when posing for a group photo. Anyway, I'd feel more playful, sensual, and a bit "naughty" when I've dressed up. I guess this is a way of imagining how I'd behave with other women.

[@henktulp4400]

About becoming calmer....always after dressing up I realise I waited too long before doing it....and after dressing I am totally indifferent about some remains of eye make-up exposing my secret....and yes,dressing up is always very relaxing!!

[@katemcgee3620]

Hey girl, Thanks for sharing! I was caught by my mother wearing my sisters tights when I was 4 and caught a few more times between the ages 4-6. After that I was never caught again, but had a few close calls. Unfortunately, my mother’s way of stopping me was to make fun of me and call me names in front of my brother and sisters.....anyway, you hit it right when you said that it just “felt right” dressing up. I was 4 when I started and I don’t know why I was dressing back then, but something inside me was pushing me in that direction. Have a great Thanksgiving with your family!

[@katemcgee3620]

@@girltimewithpaola9251 I guess back then, this was just such a different and taboo topic, and they thought they could shame us out of it. It is awful to feel ashamed of part of who you are. As you know, it takes a long time to accept yourself (stop the purging) and hopefully find someone to love you the way you are.

[@editkecskes9761]

I got caught by my mom wearing my sister sheer to waist tights at age 6 first time. She asked me why I have it on. I told her because tights looks pretty . She asked me If I like it how it's feel on my legs. I told her yes, very much. My mom wear pantyhose all the time back then so she was understood . She started buying my own tights and let me wearing it at home all the time and colder days to school under my pants. A few years later she cought me wearing her one of her black pantyhose while I was masturbating front of the mirror in the bathroom and she come home early from work. She had a long talk with me about hygiene for wearing her or my sister pantyhose. And asked me which colors my favorite ones. The next day when she comes home from work she come to my room and hand me a dozen pairs of pantyhose all different colors and told me to use them for sleep in them or what I was doing a day before and keep them in my underwear drawer with my tights., just don't use hers. After I got married my wife started buying me pantyhose and tights do to mom advice her I have pantyhose fetish since childhood. Happily married over a decade and wearing my sheer to waist tights and pantyhose daily and every night in bed

[@randycobb7765]

My mom shamed me.made me wear her big panties and bra and sit in the living room on front of my sister and bro too....called me fag and gay and I felt ashamed...but that only made me more careful hiding it

[@charlestoole1789]

My first experience crossdressing was when I was 7 years old, my mom and dad were divorced and I rarely saw him so I lived with my mom , grandmother and 3 sisters in 1975 and '76. I started out trying on their clothes when I was home alone and I am fairly sure I may have brought attention to what I was doing by accident by not putting things back in there rightful place and folded neatly. I was only 7-8 years old back then and I knew it wasn't what I should do it but I wanted to doing and it felt good. I got the surprise of my young life at Halloween that year in '75 when my mom came to me and said "i didn't have a chance to stop and get you a costume but I have an idea for a costume for you", that's when she said come with me to the room, so I did and she said wait here I will be right back, when she returned she had one of my older sisters dresses in her hand then she said will will dress you as a girl. I said no at first and put on an act to hide my true feelings about it then said ok, then she said we need something else so hold on a minute and she left the room again, after about ten minutes she returned and said I sent your grandma to pick you up some shoes to wear and a wig to help with the look but while we are waiting for those lets get started. She told me to get undressed completely and helped me step into a pair of my sisters silk panties and a bralette then helped with a pair of tights and put the dress on me. It felt good but I was not making to obvious that I was enjoying it a lot, then she went and got her make up and put some on me, by this time my grand mother came back from doing her shopping for me shoes and wig and finished me up. I was ready to go Trick or Treating, my own friends didn't recognize me they did such a good job dressing me up.

[@davidscott4998]

There are more cds roaming around on Halloween than ghouls and witches in my part of London 💃💃💃

[@donovanduransr.]

So lucky

[@gypsyman1967]

As a trans woman, we have have similar experiences.. growing up trying on different female clothing, be cause it just felt right.. I'm glad to know you had a loving and supportive father. My mother has disowned me.. I am the black sheep of the family. Anyway, I love your videos. You're gorgeous and present yourself with respect.. How would you say your crossdressing self and male presenting self differ?

[@ericborgen7311]

@Meran Berwyck People should treat each other better than we do I am a republican and I don't dislike you at all you are a good person lots of love and friendship towards you best wishes and thank you for sharing your story

[@ialokinstein]

Love the dress! Love the shoes!! Love the hair too 😍... and thankful for your story 😊❤❤ its nice to hear those things don't just happen to one of us, but many of us 🥰

[@gregtbr]

Wow! If people only knew what we have to go through. And realize we did not choose it. At least I never did. Thank you so much for sharing with everyone so they can realize it's ok. Back in the 60s it was unheard of, and better not be. Please continue your videos. And can I say you are so beautiful.

[@cherrybomb2356]

I haven't actually been caught, but I've had a couple of close calls. 1st time was when I came home from school. I was in the bathroom when I heard the door unlocking. My heart started pounding, and I wasnt sure if it was my mom or my dad. Turned out to be my mom, she had gotten a new job at the time so she was just helping set everything up and came home without sending me a text saying she was on her way. Thankfully I was in the bathroom. I slowly undressed and quickly grabbed all my clothes and shoes and put them back in my storage bin. 2nd time was when my mom was deep cleaning the carpet in my room. While passing through the hallway, she found shedded hair, which was from one of my wigs. It was a burgundy/wine red color so it was very noticeable. She showed it to me and asked where it was from. I just grabbed it, looked at it, said I didnt know, and threw it away. My parents are pretty liberal but I'm not sure what they think of crossdressing, I just really wish I didnt feel like I have to be hiding my wigs, clothes, shoes, etc.

[@xxxbbb1973]

now i stop crossdressing. i had same experience with you. and my parent is very religious.

[@Ronny_van_Gerwen]

When you will move out of the house, when you get older, you won’t have to hide it anymore.

[@PredatorKingdom]

@@Ronny_van_Gerwen Exactly that's the key once you move out of the house you won't have to hide it anymore. You can still hide it from your parents but you will have complete to do as you please in your own house at all times.

[@tedhenkle]

Thank you, Paola for sharing your experiences at getting caught crossdressing, even the ones that didn't end with a show of support or understanding. Since you invited your viewers to share their experiences, please allow me to post mine. Like you, I've been fascinated by girl's attire at a very young age--and still am. Up until a few months ago, I was never caught, but my second ex-wife knew of my crossdressing. She didn't object, but she wasn't openly supportive either. There was one "missed opportunity" when we walked passed a Victoria Secrets and she suggested that we go in to pick out something for me. I was shocked, but pleasantly so, but I guess my hesitation embarrassed her and she scurried passed the store and wouldn't talk any further about it. Well, I'm in my third-time's-the-charm marriage and I thought I no longer needed to crossdress (which until now I did to fend off the sense of loneliness of being single ,or even in my previous, unsatisfying relationships). So I purged my wardrobe, which Paola recommend in an earlier video to never do. (Which is something I did every time I got into a new relationship). A few years into my current marriage and I realized I have a debatable degree of Gender Dysphoria, but like you Paola, I have no desire to transition. But I did re-accumulate a wardrobe that I stashed in a couple of boxes--A wardrobe my current wife stumbled across a few months ago. She wasn't angry, but did not approve of this. We didn't argue, and I explained the events in my life that led me this (minus openly admitting to Gender Dysphoria). She said she understands, but does not approve. Like your mom, Paola, she's very religious. She made no demands on me, but rather than continue to have this hang over our heads, I purged my wardrobe. The main reason I gave in is because I'm currently dealing with a life-threatening health issue. Last year, just before Covid-19 hit our shores, I was diagnosed with Idiopathic Pulmonary Fibrosis (IPF). It's an incurable, degenerative lung disease. As of now 42% of my lung tissue has been destroyed. Yes, Paola, I wish my wife were as supportive as yours is with your "girl time," but I did keep this a secret from her because I suspected--correctly--that she wouldn't approve (I commented in a couple of your past videos of a couple close-calls). The bottom line is, I love my current wife, she's been a great help to me during my on-going health battle, and I don't want to get hung up on her non-acceptance on what is a small part of my life and personality. Besides, my main hobby is tabletop wargaming, I've already filled the empty boxes with gaming material. :) Now I "cross dress vicariously" by watching videos such as yours, Paola, who can pull off looking like such a lovely young lady in public, which I admire, because I certainly can't. Some items survived The Purge. The most I do now, is wear "corporate colored" women's short and running tights while out power walking and cycling, which at the risk of sounding vain, look better on me than men's sportwear does. :)

[@theymi]

omg such a lovely and touching comment to read love ur honesty and wish u all the best!

[@tedhenkle]

@@theymi Aw, thank you! I've had a bi-lateral lung transplant since my initial post. I spent 4 months in the hospital, because my recovery was a difficult one. It still is. My new lungs are--finally--working fine. However, the rest of my body got wrecked in the process. The drugs necessary to prevent organ rejection (a constant threat), gave me osteoporosis. So I'm dealing with chronic pain and I'm limited to standing or walking for a handful of minutes at a time. So I've completely given up any crossdressing activity for myself. Although I'll click "like" on images I find on-line of the various sites I belong to. (I've been meaning to "check-in" with Paola's channel for a while. Thank you again for your well wishes. I hope all is well with you and yours.

[@michaelgojkovich8026]

You are just so incredibly beautiful! You give such great and amazing information! Thank you for being so brave and for all you do!

[@dm9078]

Wow your dad sounds like he was one heck of a guy

[@jamessmurf7937]

@@girltimewithpaola9251 You were very lucky Paola, you must miss ur dad :/

[@alainrouette8149]

Dads are awesome isn't it? Men have such a bad rap these days it's good to hear you how much your dad was good to you...too few people do...Thanks for 'justly' sharing Paola, you are a great women too.

[@rogermorin4149]

Thank you, for talking about your early crossdressing life.

[@subashpatra4118]

@@girltimewithpaola9251 hi

[@martinshelley2332]

@@girltimewithpaola9251 Appreciate when you open up and share your life.

[@terd234543]

HI Paola, I've been dressing since I was 9 years old, 62 years ago and still enjoy it. I often said people like us are "gender gifted" something I firmly believe. So much has changed with the LGBT movement and the public acceptance of girls like you and I. My only regret is that I didn't enjoy as much as I should have being a young woman as yourself. Thank you for your bravery sharing your experiences. Keep up the great work sister! Pamela Sweet

[@jimjones7912]

I love your videos! Your so calming! I relate to your life, I think others struggle to ynderstand and/accept! ❤️

[@dionnflr5708]

Lucky, you had an understanding father. Deeply sorry to hear he left the family to join the Universe, he seemed he was an open accepting father. Lucky those who had this kind of parents. About your mum, well maybe she needs some time to understand since she did not freak out it is still good. Not all people open up at the same time. What is most important is, you should feel good about yourself and empower yourself. Empowerment comes from self-acceptance and holding my ground when people see me as different. Each of us, human beings has her or his own erotic and sexual imprint, lifestyle and way she or he expresses love and sexuality. Feeling good about yourself is the most important central factor. Those who cannot accept you as you are they shouldn't be your friends. Good luck, much love. enjoy the holiday season. Dionn

[@aleishaedwards7878]

I was caught when I was 11 by my mom. I didn't know how to answer my mothers questions of whether I wanted to do this full time or was I just curious. Her acceptance through me and I responded through tears that I wasn't sure. Her stance was it was normal for boys to exhibit curiosity at some stage and act out by crossdressing. This was back in the 60's so sexuality was barely discussed anywhere except for sex ed which focused on the heterosexual experience. Through the years I have always had their love and support no matter how much my actions hurt them. They would not force me to be anything but who I am as long as I gave it my best.

[@christopher7952]

Thank you for being open and honest. Your a real true LADY OF DIGNITY

[@margaretpepper3550]

I am a 76 year old Transwoman having had SRS in 2004. When I was 11 my mum came back early & caught me dressed up completely in underwear & dress...I think that she was shocked, but we never talked about it again. Years later when my son found out that I was doing the same again, he voiced his disapproval. I told him to mind his own damn business!!

[@dinahnicest6525]

I' 66 yrs. old. Sometime around 1970, I was a teenager and didn't expect to see Mom up and about at 3 AM. She seemed OK, but later, I got all the questions and "Keep out!" The Next time it was "If I find any more female clothes in your room, I might not keep your little secret any longer." It was one of a few wedges that had been driven between us. I was already the black sheep. In 1999, Mom and Dad invited me to stay with them as I recovered from surgery. During that time, Mom hinted that she may have accepted it, but black sheep are never close enough to their shepherds to risk becoming a mutton chop. She died 3 months ago without us ever talking about it again. Fortunately, the other wedges did all eventually disappear, and she went away taking and leaving plenty of love.

[@cpaul69]

I grew up near the same time as you and I totally understand what you had to deal with with your family. Black sheep are still sheep my friend and our wool is just as soft. Take care

[@jt9474]

I completely relate to all of this. I remember being caught by my parents wearing my sisters top in my room when I was 14. I didn't, know what was going on either but it seemed so natural. Thank you for sharing your story and lots of love

[@hannahmich7342]

When I was a child I used some red lipstick and failed to remove all traces of it from my lips. I went outside and my father was working on something in the garage and when I went over to him he asked why my lips were red. Without a moments thought I said I had just ate a cherry popsicle. He in turn asked why I didn’t bring him one also. I made my way back to the bathroom and then removed all traces of the makeup and then dug around in the freezer for the one and only popsicle we had and brought it out to dad.

[@fleetadmiralperry5739]

You’re a genius TBH I’ve had a couple close calls I wear Thongs sometimes and I worry about having to bend over and flash that Bali Waistband

[@newartist210]

Hello, Nice to Meet you 😊 I was Never Caught - But it hit me in my Late ages to Change what I do... It's Very Hard and Difficult, I'm in my early 40's But It made me Feel Happy like you said! But still face difficult times till today 👍

[@tabithastorm1129]

OMG caught by extreme Catholic mom and was shamed as well. It didn't stop me from getting into my sisters makeup though. Love your videos girl. Keep it up and thank you.

[@garystar2398]

Thank you for sharing your story, and educating your many straight followers. You are very beautiful, and always have a perfect makeover, outfits, and heels XX

[@t-wrecks7481]

I completely understand how you felt on an equal level. I was caught a few times when I was younger by my sister who of course couldn't wait to tell on me. I didn't understand it but I knew that I really liked it and like you, it made me happy as well. I fought it several times and purged several times but always came back to it. The urge was too strong to deny and finally I gave up denying it. I've dressed in one form or another my entire life sometimes just underneath, but mostly all out dressed. It's always been a closely guarded secret although there are maybe 10 people that know of it. Unfortunately I've not been able to dress in the last 10 years or so due to personal problems and I truly do miss it. I'm happy to see that you're happy and I wish I would have had the courage to do what you're doing on here. When this was happening to me it was the late 60's to early 70's so it was very frowned upon so it was always a secret back then. If I was coming up these days like you I'd probably have done what you're doing. You look fantastic and keep up the good work.

[@lesliethomas9540]

I was probably younger than 5 when I walked down the stairs in a dress. We had guests round and I think my mum just panicked and she told me to get back upstairs and not be stupid. I carried on secretly of course through my entire life and I was 60 before I "came out" to my wife. She was amazing and now pretty much everyone knows about this other (I would say the real) me. Thank you for this video. x

[@misscute580]

Wow, that's a nice story, but also kind of sad that you didn't get to live as yourself until 60 years old.

[@roopnarinericky]

I just started experimenting with crossdressing, makeup, wigs etc. I have not been caught yet but I am so scared for that to happen. I've identified as straight my whole life but now I want to do more feminine stuff. Thank you for posting videos of your experiences.

[@Randi_Beirt]

I love that dress with the auburn hair, stunning.

[@Messier77]

Thank you for sharing your very personal experiences with courage and honesty. From about age 6, I became aware that I was different and attracted to women's clothing and feeling feminine. My parents never directly caught me trying on and wearing my mother's clothes, but although I tried to put them back as I found them, I'm sure my mother knew. She shared "my condition" with my father, but neither one ever confronted me. It was the early 1950s and gender differences and crossdressing were barely understood and generally a taboo subject, lumped in with "being gay." Looking back, I still feel sorry for my dear well-meaning parents (now both deceased), confused, anguished and disappointed in their son. Now in my 80s, I have fought my crossdressing all my life, purged several times and never married. I have suffered a poor self-image, have not achieved as I should have, and will die a bitter, unhappy person. Such is life. Thanks again.

[@Jodi28]

Wow ! Paola , that's an amazing story . How clever of your Dad to make up a checklist and an amazing way to get the dialogue going and then giving you a hug and giving full support , that's beautiful . So sorry to hear you lost him early . Condolences . I was only caught once . Mum and Dad were out and I had been trying on different outfits as Mum and I were the same size then and I decided to put on her wedding dress . This was a late 40's dress which was very demure . Silk satin , semi fitted to the waist which had a cumberbatch style waistband in the same material and featured a rounded collar around the neckline . Flared from the hips jodhpurs style (subtle) finishing into a straight skirt . With long sleeves tapering until just after the elbow . With a stuffed bra I looked amazing but I heard the back door opening and panicked a little as I got the zipper up and couldn't get it back down . I had maybe a couple of minutes before they saw me and I was really close but I just couldn't do it . So I went on the offensive . I leapt into the kitchen like a ballerina , threw my arms in the air and went TA....DA ! Spun really quick with my back facing Mum and said " Zipper Please " Then I ran off to get changed . I was mortified , my heart was pounding , I could feel my face was bright red . It never came up again . I made sure to never get caught after that . I don't know what Dad would have thought and I think Mum would have been okay with it but it was never talked about and they didn't need to know the extent of it really , especially if they couldn't understand . So , must say , loved the opening speaking of demure . You looked very nice and with the soft makeup very pretty . Thankyou Paola , until next time . :) x

[@johnnj3858]

I'm very Happy Thanksgiving to you and your family. Thank you for sharing your amazing stories. Your parents truly loved you.

[@ronaldoswald1942]

Early 70's, I was 12ish and wanted to know what wearing pantyhose felt like, got a pair of my sisters and been obsessed ever since. Mom catches me one day and the way she reacted you would have thought I killed the family dog.

[@AutumnRainLand]

Ugh this made me 😭😭😭😭 You had the sweetest Dad in the world 💜

[@hpscan]

Gorgeous dress!! While I was never fully caught I have had a few close calls. Tge first couple close calls were on Sunday mornings getting ready to go to church. My dad was already gone off to work. He worked a lot. My mom was in the bathroom when I snuck into their bedroom and borrowed a corset and stockings. That was when I was in my very early teens. My mom found the items missing and asked who had beennkn her underwear drawer. My sister and I both replied that we had no idea. Another instance of almost getting caught was a few years later. I was off work for the day. I was upstairs in my room my dad was also off work that day and he was downstairs. I guess he heard me goimg back and forth between my parents room and my room. By this time I had bought clothing of my own. I was dressed up in a skirt, blouse and blazer. I hadn't heard him coming up the stairs but did hear him just before he came into the bedroom. I was standing in front of the mirrored closet doors. Just as he came into the room I stepped into the bathroom. Close call but I don't think he ever saw me. If he had he never said anything.

[@stacy-qm4qq]

When I was 7 Yr old my dad got married to his 2nd wife who had 2 kids already , over the next 6 year I was abused bullied and beaten quite badly by them to the point I didn't want to live anymore just before he divorced his wife I started crossdressing really as a way to disguise myself in the hope they wouldn't find me and abuse me anymore......I quickly discovered that I felt more normal dressed like a female my dad divorced his wife when I was 14 and up till the age of 27 I was on and off with crossdressing, I was in a serious relationship with a female by then but hadn't told her my secret , I started becoming an outie on a weekend when she was at work and one night almost got pulled by a group of guys in a car which kinda made me feel good because I must have been convincing at the time but also made me very uneasy about it so I became an innie again by the time I reached 37 my relationship was over because my girlfriend discovered my secret and burnt almost everything I had after a massive row a year later I got with another woman and I decided to come clean straight away about my crossdressing she had 2 kids so it was best thing to do to be honest luckily she accepted my other self now we are happily married with a kid of our own aswell we opted not to tell the kids so as not to disturb them so they still dont know bout my other self , but stacy does come out quite regularly , but now due to covid and kids not being back at school properly I haven't dressed now for almost a year but can't wait to get back into my more normal self

[@renalove2537]

So sorry Stacy about the terrible abuse 😥

[@richardg6293]

I have to say you are beautiful first of all... i have never been caught, all of this is new to me. But that story about your Dad about had me in tears...he sounds like a extraordinary man. Love your videos 🙂

[@GraveFireflys]

Your an inspiration, to many of us, you make cross dressings acceptable, and you always look gorgeous, your clothes and voice, so wonderful, thank you for helping me accept myself, big hugs, from the UK, soph.

[@Spalpeenz]

Thanks for sharing, your father sounds like a good man, may he rest in peace. I have been cross dressing since I can remember. I even convinced my brother to cross dress with me we were about 6 and 7 at the time. He spilled the beans but nobody said anything to me. I once wore my sisters holy communion dress a very girly very white special dress over to the garden to see my Mother. She asked what I was doing , I told her I had no clean clothes and this was the only thing that fitted. She told me to go back to the house before the neighbors saw me. I wore it for rest of the afternoon before my father came home. Years later, after both my parents died, I found out they thought I was gay. I am not, I am married with two grown up children. They are adults and my oldest child caught me cross dressed. I ran to the bedroom changed and came back to talk to her and said I was sorry if I had offended her or shocked her by crossdressing she gave me a hug and told me a secret about herself so we would have a secret about each other. My wife knows about my crossdressing and I asked my daughter not to let my wife know that she knows which she agreed to cos I don't want to cause any friction in the family. I told her she could tell her one day but not right now. My wife wants me to keep my crossdressing secret and I agree for everyone's sake

[@seriousaleks8752]

I know Im a little late to the video, but... I just decided I wanna go all in and spent 1k $ on every possible girl clothes for me to wear in secret at home. Getting caught terrifies me, but hey I guess I'll take the risk, I wanna know what its like... boots, skirts, leggings, hoodies omg I cant even

[@Andi845]

MARRY CHRISTMAS to you and I must tell you that your videos are a wonderful present, it is like Christmas every time I watch one. Have a safe and happy one.

[@monicarichards1064]

The world should have more people like your dad. I love your dad even though i never met him. Keep his memory alive. Im so sorry you lost him at an early age. How do you think your parents conversation went about you getting caught???? Keep up the good videos, you look great.

[@jeffreyelya9996]

I've heard both sides of the story. People get judgmental when they've found out, especially parents. Some parents don't even care that it happens if guys are doing this during their younger years. First and foremost, yes you need to love yourself, that's always important because in some cultures, there's a pride for male dominance because it's the man's responsibility to carry the family name and genes. I still believe it is taboo for guys to try on skirts and dresses, and that's almost always because those kind of boys are more interested in the female body as less of a comparison to what they already have. If you're wanting to alter how you look because it brings you happiness to look and feel as the opposite gender, it's like feeling a sense of worthlessness of who you are, and that's something any guy should never have to loose.

[@cassandralesh8536]

This happened to me too. But I knew I was a girl. I felt like I was cross dressing when I wore boy clothes

[@jfolz134]

Hello Paola. Happy Thanksgiving to you and your family. I'm very thankful for your channel Jewel

[@leonardodalongisland]

That smile is one only those of us you Dress know. I discovered during my early days and still see it at times. It's something "straight" guy will NEVER know. It's like it lived inside o us for years-waiting to be born-and as soon as we see ourselves Dressed-and especially when admiring friends or even strangers see us-it/that Smile BURSTS out! It's so crazy. LOVE seeing it on other boys/gurls/bois. It looks GREAT on you-you wear it well sweetie

[@lapislazarus8899]

Thank you for info on finding clothing! I am a cis woman; however I am 6'2" and weigh about 235 (I'm recovering from an injury that left me bed-ridden for over a year, getting exercise has been challenging!) and finding ordinary women's clothes is frustrating, if not downright traumatizing. I can't help the height I grew to, it's not like I've done something wrong... But so many think it's a grand old time to insult me. I have a pretty good sense of humor, but I don't get how anyone thinks attacking someone is entertaining. Just wanted to say, I may be straight, but I'm not narrow! I totally stand in solidarity with LGBTQAI+... Stay empowered, and stay true 💗

[@julianmogg4694]

I think that is so funny, I remember my mom's found a few of pairs of her underwear under my bed, and she reacted the same way got super upset and then asked me if i wanted her to buy me some and asking if I was gay, I guess I was lucky my dad wasn't around so I only had to deal with her. But what is it with mexican mom's and instead of talking to me About it , would rather bring it up around others to embarrass me instead. But happy thanksgiving to you and your family And I just want to add your videos are very helpful and have really helped me to understand all my thought and feeling that I'm going thru. Finally realising that dressing isn't just a fetish or sexual. And realising I'm happier, as a women, and so i've finally decided to stop hiding and lieing to myself, and my happiness is what matters at the end not what others think. your videos helped me figure alot out and honestly your tips and suggestions of how you do things, are probably the easiest and best ways I've seen so far, I'm very glad I found your channel and look forward to the next one. Again happy thanksgiving and thank you for the help you have given me and I'm sure others.

[@joannewatters684]

I was 16 years old when I let my mother catch me, I had been dressing up as a girl for as long as I can remember & every time I would dress up I would get the urge to let my mother see me as the girl I wanted to be, the more I dressed the stronger the urges got until, when I was 16 years old, I couldn't take it any more. I waited for my mother to leave for church one Sunday, I knew she wouldn't be back until 7:00 that evening, she left the house at 9:00 that morning, every Sunday was the same. All I knew was that I was going to let my mom see me as the daughter I have always wanted to be. As soon as she left the house, I took a bubble bath & shaved my entire body, I put on red silk panties with a matching padded bra, I polished my toe nails a bright red then shaped my longish finger nails before polishing them the same color. I wore shiny, suntan pantyhose under my belted, black mini skirt with my ivory, long sleeved, silk blouse tucked into my skirt, I put on a pair of black, platform heels which allowed my bright red toes to be seen clearly. I rolled my wet, shoulder length hair in curlers & kept them in my hair for 3 1/2 hours before removing them. I plucked my eyebrows to a fine line with a high arch in them before doing my makeup, all of the makeup that I wore was long wearing & water proof, I knew from past experience that it was very hard to remove without makeup remover & I took all of my mother's makeup remover & her nail polish remover & flushed it all down the toilet, just so I wouldn't be tempted to chicken out at the last minute. I wore silver bangle bracelets on my right wrist, a woman's, silver watch with a black band on my left wrist, a silver ankle bracelet on my right ankle, a silver cross on a necklace around my neck & I pierced both of my ears so I could feel the pair of silver, oversized, hoop earrings, swinging from my ears every time I moved my head. I removed the curlers from my hair, brushed it out then styled it into a very feminine looking hair style, then I sprayed my hair heavily with ultra hold hair spray. I sprayed myself with Charlie perfume then I got a black purse with a shoulder strap & filled it with all of the makeup I was wearing, the nail polish I had on, the Charlie perfume I was wearing, a hair brush, my money & my house keys, I zipped my purse closed then went over to the full length mirror on my mother's closet door, I couldn't get over how good I looked, I actually looked like a beautiful young lady. I was amazed at what a difference thin, arched eyebrows made to giving your face a truly feminine appearance, along with the feminine hair style I had & my pierced ears, I was even finding it hard to believe that I was really a guy. My shiny, pantyhose covered, shaved legs looked so sexy & seeing my bright red toes showing thru my heels made me feel just like the woman I have always wanted to be. I went downstairs & sat on the sofa, waiting for my mother to get home, she would get home at exactly 7:05 just like she did every Sunday for the past 3 years. At 6:55 I got up & went to the bathroom, after washing my hands I touched up my makeup, I finished with touching up my red lip stain then brushing over it with long lasting wet look lip gloss, I just adored how the slightest bit of light that hit my lips would cause them to shine & look completely wet, I am sure that any man that would see this would be instantly turned on. It was now 7:00, I went back downstairs & decided to go out back & sit on the steps & wait for my mother there, this way it looks like I was not paying attention to the time & would be caught completely by surprise, I opened the back door, leaving it wide open, then walked down to the 3rd step & sat down, I crossed my legs like a lady & waited for my mom to get home & catch me, I had my purse in my lap & my hands folded on top of it. I heard a car pull up in front of the house then a car door close, I knew it was my mom getting dropped off, I sat there trying to look as feminine as possible for my mother when she catches me. I heard the front door close & I could hear mom's high heels walking on the wooden floor coming towards the back door, then I hear mom saying," what on earth" as she stood in the doorway looking at me, I actually jumped a little bit as I turned my head to look at mom, "what are you doing" mom said, then she followed it up by saying "why are you dressed like that" ? I was at a loss for words, mom told me to get in the house so I uncrossed my legs & stood up, I put my arm thru the strap of my purse then walked up the steps to the house, I had to squeeze by my mother who stood firmly in the doorway. When I was inside mom closed the back door & looked me over intently in the light, "oh my God" she said as she continued looking me up & down, "you shaved your legs & plucked your eyebrows" she asked me, before I could answer she said "did you pierce your ears ?, move your hair so I can see your ears", I took my hands & held the curls back giving my mother a clear look at the large, silver hoop earrings swinging from my ears, my mother looked at me in disbelief before asking me if I was gay, the only answer I could come up with was, I don't know, I don't think so, mom told me to go into the living room & wait for her, she went up to her room to get changed, I walked into the living room & sat on the sofa, crossing my legs like the girl I looked like. I was waiting for 10 minutes then I heard mom go into the bathroom & start running the shower, she was going to be a while I thought so while I waited I went into my purse & got out my nail polish & started giving my finger nails another coat of bright red nail polish. Just as I started on my second hand, I hear the bathroom door open & mom started coming down the stairs, I just continued polishing my nails as mom walked into the living room. Mom stopped in front of me & asked, "do you want to be a girl"?, I finished my last nail & put the cap on my nail polish before looking up at my mom & answering her with a yes, I really do, mom didn't know what to say, I don't think she expected me to say yes, she went over to her chair & just sat down, she didn't say a word for a whole half hour, then all she said was she told me to go up to my room that we would talk about this tomorrow.

[@rachelsmith625]

I hope the talk went well!

[@christopherturner816]

I wish my mom excepted me

[@markhuckercelticcrossbows7887]

Yup, happened to me to me twice, once by my mother and once by my brother. When I was about 13, Both of them shouted and humiliated me. Never spoke of it until today.

[@Andi845]

You are an amazing and brave young Lady. Parents can be tough! Wishing you and your family a very Happy Healthy Thanksgiving!!

[@shellshocked1027]

No one says that but the fact is that women's dresses are and always will be 1000 times better than men's dresses. That's a fact and people is colse minded! It's sad to see that just because a boy likes make up and to wear women's dresses, most people think that it's gay. Very interesting argument!

[@innovacraft]

Your dad handled it by first telling you that he loved you. I grew up without mine. I'm so sorry you lost him so early.

[@Sophie1Lynne]

I was caught by my brother when i was 15. I had to give him one month of my pay from my job (about $250) to keep him quiet. I didn't trust him, but I had no choice. To his credit, he never told. I'd already managed to get into boy clothes, but still had full makeup

[@kevinfarley7732]

I wasn't ever caught wearing my Mum's clothes, if I had been I wouldn't have been able to explained why I did it. She did partially dress me up when I was very young, just lipstick, mascara, clip on earrings and an apron! She never did it again and I was too shy to ask!

[@virginiadelgado5451]

That story was almost similar to what happened to me , Especially when you were first cought and asked if you wanted your own bras n panties. In my case I just froze and was scared and said no thinking I did the worst thing ever. I wish I could of said yes but now I'm 55 and been living as a woman for like 10 years and am happier than before. I would crossdress every chance I could as young as 11 years old and through the rest of my life.. I love being a woman !! Thanks for sharing! 😍

[@donaldbaker6961]

It’s amazing to hear your story I remember I had a pink one piece bathing suit I wore it all the time under my clothes on time my grandmother came over she hugged me and her finger got caught under the strap through my shirt she heard it snap and she kind of felt my shoulder and just knew well she told my mom at some point so my grandmother left and later on I went to bed I had the bathing suit on but it wasn’t up over my shoulders I had it down like underwear she stormed into my room pulled the covers back I had no shirt on she was expecting to catch me wearing something but she wasn’t sure what then my step dad came in behind her and said what are you some sort of transvestite!! I had never heard the word and mom said I better not catch you wearing any of my stuff !!!! Or I will wallop your ass so it was pretty scary as a young boy but I totally understand you I didn’t know why I just knew and I liked it weather it was the way I felt or a calming feeling I’m not sure but I absolutely love what you do and wish I had only followed through with it as I grew up my girl today is ok and says you can wear whatever you want with me but I think there is a small part that would rather I did not she has hidden some of my guy stuff and said come on put something on let’s go ... but I get chicken 😔 oh well who knows again love what you do I’m jealous 😊 you and your wife have a great Thanksgiving ❤️ thank you you are an inspiration ❤️😊

[@deangammey374]

Wow Paola what a story. I was 5 my twin sister had a full size cowgirl doll. I decided to put on the dolls clothes. Got caught hiding under my bed by my oldest brother. He dragged me out into the kitchen in front of all the rest of my family. I can still hear the laughter 55 years later. I finally got to run off and change. The next day my mom asked if I wanted to go clothes shopping with her. I was a confused angry and humiliated 5 year old. I didn't want to shop I wanted to run away. I appreciate your courage.

[@honiideslysses12]

Ooh la la, girly girl! Those shoes are beautiful; you've great taste in quality footwear! Unfortunately my feet are so wide that it's difficult to wear regular shoes especially those with pointed toes. I can totally empathize with you and I had a "mommy's shoes" experience of my own, which has confused me for my entire life. When I was around four I slipped on a pair of my mother's boots! This was the early to mid seventies so I'm sure you can visualize the style! I was walking around in them and my mom caught me and simply said, "Take those off. You'll break them!" She never told me that little boys are not to wear girl's clothes, but at that age I didn't process it, so I guess she thought that this was not wrong. I had three female cousins that had so much fun dressing me up as a girl and I loved every second of it. Fast forward to my thirties and I started to buy heels and now at fifty I'm beginning to make to journey of leaving the house en femme(for the second time) and even though I live in a very ultraconservative area yet I'm no longer afraid to make the leap. Back to the parents which now feel that what I'm doing is wrong and I'm in need of serious psychiatric care(drugs)and now my mother is questioning her own parenting skills. What parents need to understand is that they have done nothing wrong in our upbringings. Our proclivities have nothing to do with our folk's skills(or lack, thereof)as a parent, so basically they didn't fail. This is our individuality and our expression of our true selves. I wish I would have done this thirty years ago, but the way I see(and feel it)the time is now and I can no longer wait. Thank you so much. You're a sweet and beautiful soul. Keep up the great work! Happy Thanksgiving to you, as well!

[@KaySanders-ux5ve]

Hi! You give us all courage! Thank you! I started crossdressing at my friend’s house at about 8 years old. She was two years older than me. Her mom was furious because she refused to wear her “girl” clothes. One day I came over to play. My friend was visiting her dad. Her mom and I talked and as if on cue, I followed her into my friends bedroom. It was like something in me came alive. She laid out a pretty plaid dress with a Peter Pan color, Mary Jane shoes, and lacy white socks. I followed her to the dresser and observed her taking out a pair of cotton panties. I said oh no, and pointed to a pretty nylon lace pastel pair. She seemed very pleased at my selection. She said Kay, get dressed and come to the kitchen. I would like you to help bake cookies. I said yes Ma’am. I got dressed and marveled at how I looked but more of how amazing I felt! As a new found girl! I felt liberated at that moment as I twirled around! I was afforded this opportunity for a few years there. Heaven!

[@austinpatton8517]

I'm glad you had the courage to be yourself 💖💖💖

[@gary8878]

Paola, I think your Dad would be very proud of how you turned out! Peace and love. Have a wonderful Thanksgiving!

[@christiewoods325]

Hi Paola, I am the oldest of 4, 2 boys and 2 girls, and was about 9 years old. My mother's communion dress was in my sister's closet even though it was too big to fit either of them. She was saving it for their communion. I decided to encourage my brother and sisters to play a game where we swap bedrooms and try on each others clothes. My goal was to try on the communion dress. The game became mad dashes to the hallway as we each showed what the other looked like. After working up from underwear I finally had the dress on but just barely fit into it and zipped it up. The game continued for a little bit and then we decided to stop. But I ran into a problem. I couldn't get the dress off no matter what I tried. My sister ran downstairs to get my mom. So there I was in her communion dress in my sister's room when she first saw me. By then I was already crying, not sure how this was going to play out. This was the 60's, times were different, and all of us were spanked on a regular basis. Worse yet, my mother found she couldn't undo the zipper or get the dress off from around my shoulders. We were both in tears when she decided she would have to cut the dress off. Looking back I think it must have been very traumatic for both of us. I later came out to my mother that I was transgender at age 21 after seriously contemplating suicide. Her first response was "Do you want to be a woman?" I answered no but I did so because I felt that was her biggest fear and I couldn't hurt her by saying yes. I always felt close to her and we talked somewhat openly about me being transgender after that. 45 years later, about 5 years ago, (that's right Paola I'm about the same age as your dad) I brought up the event to her and she said she didn't have any recollection of it. She also said she couldn't think of any indication that I was transgender while I was growing up. I do think after that event, if not sooner, I learned to hide my transgender feelings very, very well, to the point that no one had a clue. I was that adamant about not revealing anything to anyone. That is until I was 21, had contemplated suicide, and decided to seek help. It DID get better! Thank you for all you do! Happy Thanksgiving! HUGS!! Christie

[@tabithamaydavis5792]

One of your absolute best outfits! Looking good, girl!

[@dalefunk9337]

I have been caught cross dressing lots of times when i was younger at that time my parents weren't exactly all that open minded about it I was always made to feel that it was wrong and that I shouldn't be wearing girls/women's clothes my dad even told me one time that I should not be wearing women's clothes in public or if I wanted to do something like this it should only be wearing these clothes in my own place. I have been doing this for quite sometime already most people don't even say anything when they see me although I have gotten a few compliments from women on my nail polish and my heels.

[@hans4462]

Thanks for sharing your story. You look beautiful! Happy Thanksgiving to you too!

[@stedehans3851]

Wonderful story honey. I had same experience in some way. My mom new I was fem and when she caught me she would just buy me my own panties, pantyhose, dresses and heels. It was very fun. Love you honey. Peace

[@lindsaymartin9814]

Hi thank you for another great videos for all us to enjoy. I was caught by mom when I was 15 i started when I was 12 my mom came home early one day and found me in my sisters skirt top panties pantyhose and heels at first she freaked out told me to change. A few weeks later she came home and and had gotten me panties and bras and pantyhose. She told me that she's not mad and I can only dress at home

[@andromedeawilson4172]

As hermorphdite (intersex) I completely support your soul. I was forced into being dressed up as a sexy female, for the church and the private so call healing. From the age of 6 to 15.

[@DJ-kt5bk]

Hi, your dress and makeup both look amazing also I was just curious if you have any advice for people wearing and buying female clothing for the first time?

[@DJ-kt5bk]

@@girltimewithpaola9251 ok thank you have a lovely day

[@mishiou7244]

Thank you for sharing. I can relate to your story. Unfortunately because of my transition choices I haven't spoken to my mother since I was 14. Keep up the great videos 🙂

[@semco72057]

I only crossdressed twice in my life and the first was with a friend when I was about 8 years old, and the last time was when I was a senior at a new high school after they integrated it in Arkansas. As part of the FFA (Future Farmers of America) initiation all the new kids joining had to wear a dress for one day and we had to do what the older kids told us to do like carrying their books to class. I found out about people who crossdressed regularly when I went to Thailand while in the Air Force and that was an experience, but I never dressed as a woman while there though.

[@edharry3984]

I love you Paola and enjoyed your stories . Thank you for being honest & this should be talked about more ...............

[@drmarvel7851]

As long as I can remember I dressed up in girls clothes mom and my two sisters supported me. And I guess it began playing dress up with my younger sister realizing that I liked it and this is who I am. 40 plus years later I still dress up going out in public I'm happy with my life and who I am able to love myself getting the opportunity to be loved by others.xo

[@frankcastillojr6575]

Hello Paola, wanted to share my story about crossdressing. I've been dressing since age twelve and it all started when my sister threw away some of her old skirts, bras, and such. I would go through them and got curious about how they would fit on me and that was the start. My mother caught me a couple of times and asked why I was doing this and all I could tell her was that I didn't know why. She never told my father and it was something that was just between us both, and as I grew older she knew I was still dressing but never once mentioned it. I just seem to enjoy the feel of how the clothes feel and how I look. I have gone out dressed and as you have found ways to improve my dressing style, makeup, and hair. The only thing I haven't accomplished is my voice, but I keep trying. I so look forward to your videos for helpful hints and support, your beautiful and wish I could be as you free-spirited. Keep doing what your doing and all my love and support to you.

[@DonnaSwan]

When I was 9 or 10 I would go in our attic and try on my Mom's old clothes she had stored. There was a bathing suit that had bra cups, so I wore that a lot and put socks in the cups for boobies. One day, I wore it outside under my boys clothes. We were playing with friends and my brother noticed a strap peeking out from under my shirt and yelled "He's wearing my Mom's bathing suit!". I guess that one flew around the neighborhood quickly. I was at my friend's house when his Mom asked me to throw out some trash. Placed right on top was a bra and panties. I knew right away that that was a trap to see if I would take them ( and I would have loved to ) but I threw them out and left the bra and panties exactly as she put them. Hopefully, the nosy neighbor was disappointed. I lost all trust in my brother after that as he kept making fun of me and told everyone he knew, including my nephews years later. They would even make fun of me by calling me "Auntie". My Mom and Dad never said anything to me but I'm sure they knew. I basically lost interest in my friends and family and walked down my own path most of my life. I think it made me a stronger person because of it. I really enjoy crossdressing and do it all the time, including going out in public shopping, traveling, flying, etc.

[@rons7555]

Thanks for sharing. I, too, crossdressed as a kid.

[@davidscott4998]

I think most of us cds were caught trying on femme clothes etcetera at an early age and I was 5 yo old and in my mother's bedroom looking through her wardrobe and makeup i was wearing a lovely lime green pair of her frilly panties negligee with red lipstick on my lips and not too tidylied applied more like a clowns i was having a lovely time until I heard my mother calling me in panic i hid beneath her bed as I heard her coming up the stairs and into the room seeing her lingerie all over the place along with her makeup she shouted for me to get myself upstairs before hearing me cough from under her bed and hauled me out from under it she looked at me in horror and then burst out laughing i can still feel the embarrassment i felt to this day and it was 60 years ago but remember it as if it was yesterday, that was the begin of my journey into transvestism i have finally mastercard the art of applying my lippy too xx

[@mrlemon5438]

I got caught and I played it off like I was just experimenting. BTW, you so cute !

[@darrylm5669]

Thank you for your video, I identify with so much of it, I was left home alone a lot when I was a child and I would love to wear my mums clothes. I wasn’t confronted but I think she knew. I’m now 67 and I cross dress constantly, I keep thinking I shouldn’t do it and what would my kids think if I died and they found all my girly clothes. I sometimes think I should stop and get rid of them but I remember what you said about not purging and in any case I know I would only buy more to replace what I threw away. From your biggest fan this side of the Atlantic, big hugs xx

[@miket6672]

Gorgeous wife material. Wow . Love your honesty. You’re amazing.❤️🌹

[@miket6672]

@@girltimewithpaola9251 ❤️❤️❤️😘😘😘

[@AmyraCarter]

I don't have any such experiences, but I will say this. You're looking fab in that dress.

[@peachsncream5808]

Wow it made me cry when you explained how your dad handled it .my dad never hugged me the last time I tried to connect with my father I was in my 20s .I’d bought him a big knife from Switzerland.he loved knives. When I gave it to him I wanted to hug him but he stepped back -and said mate you know I’m no good with this stuff. There’s no way I could have ever tolled him about my cross dressing. When I tolled my mother she said-how dare you drop this shit on me. The only other person in my family that hates it is my wife. That still hurts me to the core.bunt I understand me being a cross dresser herts my wife just as much. Even though I don’t dress in front of her nor do I go out in public so she won’t get imbarest no one else in my family are bothered bye it .they love me same as always. I was never Found out .until I tolled everyone.

[@williampaddock4863]

Happy Thanksgiving Paola love your dress

[@JohnSeinset]

CAUGHT CROSS DRESSING BY MOM

[@jacobwheeler6136]

I was caught before I was too young to remember.. she told me years later that she knew and was just waiting for me to tell her

[@gabriellavalentine17]

Hi Paola! Happy New Year! Those stories are pretty emotional and almost heartwrenching. I was caught by my mom, not fully dressed but with lipstick and nail polish. She had me confess to her that i did in fact wear some of her clothes behind her back when she wasn't around. I felt embarrassed and humiliated and since then would never crossdress around her ever. i had explained to her that I had seen other guys do it on TV and that was my only excuse to give her just so she wouldn't think there was anything wrong with me. I was about 10 0r 11 at the time and When I got back into it, I just stuck to doing it but on my own time. I don't think I'm gay, I just think I'm a closeted CD with good reasoning since this is what makes me happy and I enjoy looking pretty as well.

[@scorea22]

Paola dropped off the face of the earth April 2023 and hasn’t been seen since on any social media platform!😂

[@tracy5641]

Thanks for sharing your story paola I was caught by my mom when I was 14 my brother and sister-in-law were living with us would sneak in and wear my sister-in-law's clothes thought my mom was sleeping on the couch as I walked by but she saw me made me see a psychiatrist it didn't help Happy Thanksgiving to you and your family😍💕💖🌹🦃

[@PredatorKingdom]

I read quite a few stories on here as so many relatable experiences to mines. I was among the crossdressers who didn't have a positive experience with my parents, in this case, my mother. I started crossdressing when I was 12 and I never got caught in my teen years but I didn’t do that often during those years because I didn’t have time for it going to school and other activities such as work as well. As I got older into my 20s that’s when it intensified and I started sneaking around with it and I got caught like 4-5 times and each experience was bad as my mom shamed me each time. The final time was the worst when she threatened to kick me out of the house. It really motivated me to move the following year because I knew my crossdressing drive was intensifying every year. I finally moved out and I finally felt liberated after that and since then I haven’t allowed my mom to see me do it as it's been 9 years now since I was last caught as I love my mom and want to keep my relationship with her but this was the one wedge driving a wall between us. If people aren’t open-minded about it just move on, I haven’t had a bad experience like that with anybody else ever since as it seems nobody cares that I crossdress so I pretty much just keep it away from my family.

[@gpwil3847]

Though I am 63...I feel no difference in our ages. I am just like you. Yes it just feels right inside and makes me happy. The art of transformation is fun, it is amazing if I have made an effort, to see a woman in the mirror...it is just the best! I was never caught, my parents never knew. I told my wife 7 years into our marriage, after our two sons. I thought marriage would make it go away. We loved each other so she understood I could not help being this way. We had a few rules and she would allow me to dress on occasion. Sadly in 2009 she was diagnosed with Alzheimer's and after caring for her for 9 years I lost her on her birthday in 2018. I am still alone.

[@arnoldfootle2856]

Yes I was caught, that why I am on hormones, and I would never go back I use patches and Spiro. My forms went bad, I never knew silicone form can go bad. Mine are about 40 years old. I will be going in for my surgery soon I hope. You have no idea how good feels to have female hormones in you, and be dressed at the same time. It is one of the best things I have ever done. Going to get nipples for my forms. Keep up the excellent work. AJ

[@nigelmulvee994]

Hi Paola. Thank you so much for sharing your story. It's a shame your mum never understood. But your dad did. It's good you can talk about this now and look back from them years. As me the more I do it the better I feel and makes me happy. I don't have a lady in my life at the moment but I can say I have when I'm dress female. I think I was around around 10 when I discovered feelings of dressing. Any way happy thanks giving here in UK it's just a normal work day. Stay safe. Looking forward to your next video.☺☺☺

[@aestheticemma_2755]

I was caught 2 times, once I was 10, and I had put on one of my mums bra's. It was at night, around an hour before they go to bed. She came up early and she started saying things like "what are you doing, are you gay?" And "we love you no matter what" I didn't know how to answer, since I'm not and wasn't gay, and I didn't know the word crossdressing existed, and even if I knew I would have been to embarrassed to admit it. I started tearing up since I was very embarrassed and my mum felt bad so she hadn't spoke of it again, and agreed not to tell my dad. (Who is also understanding, btw). Second time was more or less the same. I've decided now, at 12 years old after learning about crossdressing and several YT channels like this one and f1nni5ter live, I've decided I'll tell my parents and pursue my crossdressing dreams, im still very embarrassed,I just have to wait a month for my grandma who's visiting to leave, since her mind is very old fashioned working and yea, she wouldn't be to happy. Wish me luck on this! (P.S, I actually forgot to mention I cross dressed in nursery, I put on princess dresses, and my parents knew, but a few other kids were doing it and they just ignored it and found it a bit funny)

[@msarilyn7677]

It was my dad that caught me, and I feel like that made it more awkward than if my mom had. Is that a double standard ?

[@tonysargent1133]

Heartfelt thanks. I think most of us can relate in some way. 🤗