Give These Up & Get Closer to God | Biblical Signs of being Lukewarm & Backsliding | Melody Alisa

[@MelodyAlisa]

hey, sis! let's chat. today's question: what has been a symptom you've experienced from backsliding from the Lord? i think it'll be so eye-opening for us to share the ways backsliding has show up in our lives so we can be ON GUARD together! for me: backsliding often times leads to self-sufficiency. thinking I GOT THIS and I don't need help or help from God specifically when that couldn't be further from the truth. When i really think about, self-sufficiency is rooted in pride too. so self-sufficiency/ pride is a symptom i pray you look out for!!

[@caitlynsworld2012]

Hi! Not reading my bible is one. On April 17th, something just threw me off.

[@LovethroughAbby]

I definitely fall into the trap of self sufficiency 🥴

[@caitlynsworld2012]

@@LovethroughAbby Same with me!

[@rdoniawilliams3290]

Backsliding causes guilt for me because I know better & Lord Jesus deserves my best daily❤✝️❤️‍🔥

[@nikkic2710]

For me is not spending enough time with him, not praying enough even if I try which I think is from the overwhelmness of work and the Chaos around me daily as well as some setbacks that been hindering/ blocking my FREEDOM in certain space leave me with limited options😢😢😢😢😅😅😭

[@Key-b9s]

One symptom of my back sliding is falling off with the intimacy with God. I knew exactly when it happened and since then the enemy has been wrestling with me. Loneliness has made me fall back into a habit of drinking because it makes me feel like I’m not alone. But through my back sliding right now I have asked God to just please lead me and God me. Because I can’t do this on my own. It makes me so ashamed sometimes because the year of 2023 I was so on fire for God. Chasing and just being filled and idk where I left a small crack for the enemy to just come in. I will get through this because even through my discouragement and feeling of loneliness I just ask God to please just breath on me to feel his peace and guidance.

[@rumbikufa5406]

I completely feel and understand what you mean, but one thing I've come to learn and truly understand is that whenever you back slide, first and foremost, ask God for forgiveness. Secondly, forgive yourself even if you keep tripping up. Third, be patient with yourself and give yourself grace to your deliverance. And lastly, fourth, be happy that you went back. It sounds very odd but hear me out. If you don't backslide how will you be able to recognise the cracks that tripped you up in the first place? How will you be able to avoid them next time around? You can't avoid something you never knew was there?! And in the end you thank God for the bad situation because: 1. He ALWAYS works things out for your good. 2. God will not allow you to go through more than you can deal with but only when you cling to him. My all time favourite verse whenever I've gone back to my old ways no matter how big or small it is: Isaiah 41:14 NLT‬ [14] Though you are a lowly worm, O Jacob, don’t be afraid, people of Israel, for I will help you. I am the Lord, your Redeemer. I am the Holy One of Israel.’ And read the whole chapter of Hosea 2 where God talks about unfaithful Israel but it's the second half of the chapter that's even more beautiful, actually tearful because God tells what he's going to do to win you back because you are His Special Possession. So you see, God knows that you're weak but he's it's okay that you're weak cos I'm going to help you if you only let me. The Holy Spirit recently said to me and I can't stop thinking about it "Jesus is a gentleman, he will never force himself on you". That is such a powerful word that applies in every part of life and that's including you getting back to where you were before. He's so gentle with you and always takes his time with you, so do the same for yourself. When you're not nice to yourself it's a spit in God's face for you are his temple ❤

[@Key-b9s]

@@rumbikufa5406 thank you so much for this. You truly don’t know how bad I needed this. The enemy has been truly trying to make me believe that “oh you are winning God isn’t gonna help you” but I fight everyday and I cry out to God everyday because I know he still loves me and he’s gonna help me through and he truly sees me trying. I can’t do this by myself. Thank you again. This has blessed me.

[@JvstHere]

Girl this is so relatable. The last few days I’ve had to repent because I realized I’ve been backsliding too. I fell off with my intimacy with God and have been prideful and doing things my way like I’m the Lord over my own life. I love the fact that our God is such a kind and patient father, and loves us so much that all we have to do is repent and change our heart and He welcomes us back with joy and open arms. He’s just a prayer away sis and He’s anxiously waiting for your return. You’re never too far from Him. Ever. He loves you, and He’s not mad at you, remember that.

[@Key-b9s]

@@JvstHere thank you so much. Time and time again he has shown me that. Thank you so much for this

[@Keri.M]

God already won your battle❤️ you already made it through. Now it‘s just our part to learn in this season which we‘re in and I love how you still see the Lord in your situation. Maybe you cant feel him, but he knows our story way too good.

[@V1ck77]

One symptom of my backsliding is that I found my self falling into sin. Lust to be exact. Every time I commit this sin I always feel so ashamed to go back to God. I always tell Him that “it’s the last time” or “I won’t do it again” and I always do. I am always trying to get rid of it myself, using my own strength instead of relying on Gods. I just want to be happy again with the Lord in my life.

[@mmkvoe6342]

This workbook might be helpful along with whatever else you use. Or the podcast by Sarah Brewer. Either resource, you could just use what's helpful to you.

[@TyWorthon]

Same I’ve been battling lust and anger

[@khadeejaj689]

Same

[@love7love]

Watch the video about demonic strongholds from pastor David Diga Hernandez, he speaks exactly about this. How as Christians we can’t be possessed by demons, but we can have strongholds that if we dont identify and know how to break, we’ll just keep going back around in the same sin cycles. So he explains how to attack these strongholds at its root. Im still watching the video is a bit long but it might be exactly what you need. God bless.

[@V1ck77]

@@love7lovethank you, God bless you❤

[@sparklessweets10]

Hi Melody my sign of backsliding i start noticing only the wrong things in my life i start complaining about the things I don't have compare my self to my peers . A grateful heart keeps me closer to GOD.

[@_jennem_]

I needed this today. I dont know how I took this turn, but one day I am journaling and spending time in the Bible every single day to not at all.

[@MelodyAlisa]

it's something that happens so subtly! i'm so glad God brought you across this video sis, definitely not by accident!

[@inongemoilwa8864]

me too. and i am struggling to get back but i will keep trying.

[@StephanieU872]

This is me currently.

[@inDTM]

Learning to rest appropriately and not resting for too long

[@Iamyl4]

Same sis. God helps us all

[@julesm9883]

For me backsliding means going back to old patterns and places: substances and behaviors, hanging out with people who don't know Christ, avoiding church, etc. I've been backsliding for about a month now, ashamed of my decisions, and feeling distant from God and barely hearing from him. I kept praying though and a couple of days ago He called me to fast. 3 days, and I'm almost done, but I am feeling that fire again, finally. He is so good! I think we often backslide before a major change/breakthrough. Kind how like when you make a big leap over something, you need to take a few steps back to get a running start. Thanks for the timely video! God bless you ❤

[@coolchristiangirl190]

One symptom of backsliding is doubting everything I do, I’ve especially experienced this since getting into Harvard. This then leads me to not do my work or procrastinate by doing nothing which leads me to produce awful papers and not do well on my exams. I’m so focus on how I even got in that I’m letting this blessing slip through my fingers.

[@TheHarmonicHour]

You could be idolizing the entity (Harvard) to where feelings of inadequacy are trickling in. Harvard is a beautiful accomplishment but understand that it was made by man and when you place it above God it feels fickle. I hope this makes sense.

[@Ariia206]

😥 I'm actually sad and glad. Sad because I am backsliding so hard. Glad because God holds me still by his hand and this video in my subscription box popping up. God tries to encourage me and call me back to him. My symptom is, I'm still reading his word, but its not going into my mind. I'm so easily distracted and I don't ask Jesus for help with my whole heart I will watch this video now, thank you sis and thank you Jesus ❤️

[@sarahsimpson2531]

Thank you so much for this comment. This is exactly how I’m feeling. Thank you God for this community 🙏🏿

[@Ariia206]

@@sarahsimpson2531 I'm happy to hear this. You are not alone sis 🫂 God is for you, not against you ❤️ God bless you, Jesus the author and finisher of our faith will bring the good work in us to it's end

[@melodiembonayo1825]

I feel like this too. I know I can trust God and I should rely on Him but when something I want doesn't go as I had planned or wanted, I backslide..

[@Ariia206]

@@melodiembonayo1825 same sis, you are definitely not alone 🫂 Jesus knows us so good, that he is not surprised by any of our ways. This won't last forever, Jesus the author and finisher of our faith will bring the good work in us to it's end ❤️

[@layoshadunigan3188]

One of my biggest signs of backsliding is not spending time with Jesus and self-sufficiency. Whenever I feel like I've gone too far from rescue, I stop spending time with God and start relying on any and everything but Him.

[@xkendlex3475]

i think one symptom that i experience is a lack of true peace. through backsliding and choosing old sins and habits, it’s like a form of temporary satisfaction. but reality creeps in and it really never leaves you even during the act. like in the back of my mind i know “i miss God, this isn’t God, this isn’t peace, this isn’t home, this isn’t right.” so that lack of peace and subtle off feeling is a big sign.

[@kimberleysaintjuste1742]

One symptom ive experienced from backslidding is operating in Sin, especially being tempted by sin that God had set me free from

[@Sadechronicles1]

Not being consistent reading Gods word

[@Cinnamon2088]

For me, I use to try to tread the line! I was ashamed to tell people I was saved and because of that I would still listen to worldly music, cursed, etc.! God calls all of us and we have to be willing to hear him! It wasn't until I truly got sick and tried and living in sin that I got up and said YES, Lord to your will and your way that the chain of sin was broken! When you decide to give your life to Christ you have to go through the process of being sanctified and only the Holy Spirit can help you! Jesus said “Be ye holy; for I am holy."

[@Sofia-sea]

The timing of this. Is wild.

[@MelodyAlisa]

God be knowin!

[@SimplyMimiNitreese]

This is exactly what I needed to hear 1. If you are not apart of a Bible believing Church(Community) that is a big problem as Christian’s we need each other I learned you cannot walk this path alone and isolated we need accountability!!! The Bible says God has given us Pastors after his heart You need a shepherd please don’t allow anyone to keep you from the house of God I am currently without a physical church home but I am praying to belong to the Right Church. No more excuses Get In Church!!! 2. Your Prayer Life Decreases 3. Fasting is non existent 4. Bible Reading/Studying no longer becomes Important and the issues of life overtakes you. 5. Allowing The World to consume you, the cares of everyone and anything outside of God to be your guide when this can cause you to fail.

[@tamiadawkins9873]

When I'm starting to back slide I notice that I'm not super excited in reading my word and I don't talk to God as much. Thank you God for being so faithful and caring for me. I pray I just stick with you and be loyal fo you. You are my source and my strength. In Jesus name Amen

[@ElizabethFaithPierce]

One symptom I have experienced from backsliding is forsaking the body. I think it's one of the most obvious signs someone has backslid.

[@MelodyAlisa]

ooh this is such a good one. very relatable

[@Beautiful_Blessed]

Can you elaborate pls?

[@ElizabethFaithPierce]

What do you mean ?

[@NashleyC]

@@MelodyAlisameeting with others in church

[@SmithKMonet]

This is perfect and so timely!! I started a full-time job 2 weeks ago....after being unemployed for almost a year. My commute is long and I'm exhausted and super busy. I was just thinking to myself, I have to find a way to get back to seeking and being intentional in my relationship with God! Thank you for this. 🙏🏾

[@jdrob6574]

One of the symptoms I experienced when I back sad slid from God was I would become irritated with anything spiritual or related to God. That’s when I knew for sure I had gone too far and desperately needed to get back.

[@naturalgalwilliams]

Hello friend. For me, it's thinking everything is smooth sailing, when actually, I'm sinking! I'm thinking all is well until I get that nudge from the Holy Spirit that I'm absolutely wrong!! Needing spiritual guidance and not that of my own is what's best. Therefore, I turn to your channel to help get me back on track. Short story...I've entered into a new relationship with the Lord on Easter Sunday this year, took a 4 week course on my dedication with Christ as an adult, and am to be baptized on May 19th. I'm totally not messing around this go round! I truly would like to thank you for being a steward for the Lord!🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽 Many blessings 🫶🏽🫶🏽❣️

[@kianapeterson1484]

My symptom of backsliding is shame. Normally I see my past mistakes as testimonies and I can reflect and share how I’ve moved forward. When I start running from God, I begin to feel immense shame over every mistake (past and present) and that leads me to want to run even further

[@LuvJesusinfinity]

One symptom of backsliding for me is doing everything else but spending time in the word and given praise and worship. Each time I do that the Lord in all of his greatness shows me. Just alone today he showed me twice a coworker with a simple reminder of how gracious our God is and this video

[@VanessaMwololo8]

I was so committed and doing well with my relationship with God in 2023, coming 2024 I really don't even understand whats happened, I wasn't discouraged about anything but I don't read and journal everyday like I used, I touch my bible more like 2 times a week and when I do I feel a sense of guilt....It's a constant battle. But i won't give up on God cause I know He would never give up on me :(

[@JustbeingSheShe]

What’s crazy is I did something today and knew that it was wrong and was like “Lord I’ll do better”. Then I see this and said “Lord I hear ya”. He stay on my neck!

[@helenaellie907]

I firmly believe that I have all the symptoms of Backsliding - seeking approval in the wrong places, slipping into sin, no intimacy with God, and creating refuge outside of God... this was more of a wakeup call for me to get back with God!! With so much going on, I have been discouraged and been relying on myself for satisfaction, which I now know, that it has only causes me to backslide from my faith and especially from God - hardly praying, hardly reading my bible, and barely talking to God. Thank you for this sis, thank you for the encouragement to get back on track with God!!

[@God-s.butterfly]

Since i lost my father I’ve been far from him and not hungry,i want to read and pray but the energy just isn’t there,but I’ll get back to him ❤❤❤

[@AmeraRecords]

When I tell you this video is timely! I JUST watched your video on “how to get out of *that* rut” from a year ago THIS MORNING and now u posted this ur doing Gods work literally 😂 I’d say a lack of self control/discipline is a major sign I’m backsliding from impulse buys, pressing snooze, it all just makes you feel more chaotic and far from God!

[@eliz9853]

Definitely the slowly and subtly falling back into sin for me. I find myself being nonchalant about things I usually wouldn't tolerate, using more and more foul language, engaging in online conversations that I usually wouldn't and entertaining lustful thoughts instead of holding them captive

[@morganwickman8451]

This was everything I needed this morning. I recently returned fully to Christ and I was on fire! Somewhere along the line I started putting my morning devotion on the back burner in exchange for being more productive with homemaking. I thank the Father for using you as a tool to reach me! Powerful word Melody!

[@Chevonne8]

Backsliding with me often leads to sin and losing interest with intimacy with God. I definitely seek approval like no other. I definitely fell into that sin this past week and realized how I should have listened to God and instead was disobedient. Now, I have been pleading my case. I do realize that I need to start telling Him everything, even about the discouragement that I may feel in my waiting season.

[@blissfulmom21]

Isolation, not wanting to be around anyone. There is taking time to be with our Lord and then there is time when we just don’t want His community and the reminders around us. In the latter isolation this could be a sign of backsliding

[@divinatchibambe2295]

Seeking validation by the wrong people,fomo. That really resonated with me because it’s something I’ve deeply struggled with. Im currently working on my relationship with God. He’s the only one that preserves.

[@LifeWithDemee]

The feeling of emptiness and needing more because I’m not leaning on Jesus. This has been on my mind for months and this is just confirmation that my conscience is telling me to go back to God.

[@naangokainge]

MAAAMMMMM When I tell you I just "Got back" with God yesterday 😭😭😭 This video IS SO TIMELY 🥺 Since March 21st, my life has been under attack. I was literally admitted into hospital on that day and while in bed, I received news that I got rejected from an opportunity that was so fitting in my eyes. Everything else went downhil from there. From my job going ghost, failing an easy module, surgery being postponed, "friends" not being the friend I need, etc. I became SO BITTER 😭 even wishing bad upon my "friends" out of jealousy and envy.

[@MelodyAlisa]

GOD IS GOOD!! the fact you can share that you "got back" w/ Him yesterday!!! i can only imagine how painful the attack was but i am SO happy to know through it all, He drew you back to himself -- the true place you can find refuge!!

[@VioletNicol]

One symptom I’ve experienced from backsliding is a broken heart. Trying to find refuge and the fulfillment of Gods promise to me outside of his will just to end up with a broken heart that I have to run back to God to heal. 😢

[@YouTubeReady]

I think another issue that we are trusting God for something has not happen, yet we are going through these storms, where it is indeed easy to say trust God throughout it; but when you're the one thats going through it and receiving blow after blow, it gets hard, which may make you backslide or start doing things your own way, because youre asking, seeking and knocking as the gospels tell us to do, but you do not see ot hear God.....yet people keep telling you to have faith when they are not in your situation or experiencing your specific storm...and that can lead to discouragement and feelings of disdain. Trust me, i know. I have been without a job for a while, and thid job market isn't making it any better. It's to say "trust God", when you have been trusting and having zeal for God to come through, yet you are in this wilderness with no job, a broken car, and no money. It can be discouraging!!

[@withabbyjoy]

Praise God that He is redirecting my heart. I think I’ve been backsliding for a while. My ego and pride are so big as is my lack of faith. I used to open my Bible first thing in the morning and now it’s my email. I want to be closer to God and trust Him with my whole heart but I keep setting myself up for failure.

[@dar-94]

I feel far from God. I have had a consistent almost 4 months relationship with God and right now I feel He is far from me so I have just been holding back. Thanks for this

[@MelodyAlisa]

you're so welcome sis. I think sometimes we have to also remind ourselves that even when God "feels" distant, He is truly right there and often times it's us who have drifted -- whether it was intentional or not! praying for you!!

[@deniselynch5421]

When I did it, I felt lost and very hurt because I let god go because I was hurt but I am backslide. Thank god by his grace I am back each day I wake up feel so much at peace and that’s why god said I will give u peace and he do each day. Back in church and building my relationship god

[@lornasimango1670]

Backsliding for me is like doubting God. Choosing other means of getting a breakthrough besides from God when things get difficult. It gets lonely, sorrowful , discouraging,confusing.

[@latriecehatch4626]

One symptom of my backsliding was taking things into my own hands and not trusting God for protection, provision, comfort, etc. not going to God about everything. I used to go to God about everything. I believe that I left a crack for the enemy when I wouldn’t push myself to read the Word or pray even when I didn’t feel like it; so, one day turned into two, three, and so forth. Also having a wrong perception of who God is and knowing that He is Love. He is waiting with open arms to receive us back to Himself. Please pray for me.

[@JessieEmile]

Waw the living God sent this video for me! He doesn't give up his sheep

[@justjanai6672]

one symptom of backsliding I regularly experience is a lack of concern for how my actions impact the work of the Kingdom and the Father. I sin without regard or much sensitivity to conviction, and then it hits me like a bus, throwing me into guilt. It’s a vicious cycle of shame and numbness, and it can be hard to navigate out of.

[@abomatthews]

thank you so muvh Melody! my symptom is feeling unclear for extended periods of time, but I cancel that in God's name! Amen !!

[@te1975]

This was definitely me in my last relationship. I settle for less knowing it was not coming from God. Grateful it only lasted few months 😮‍💨🙏🏾

[@ShajiraYaniceli]

So true! One of my symptoms would be disassociation, wanting to just escape from it all (for like 30 mins), come back and get back to work. When I should be studying what His rest looks like and not my own.

[@tierrabrantley1791]

One symptom of backsliding that I am experiencing, so falling off with intimacy with God. I’m trying to baclance being a wife, somewhat new mom, work, and I’m just so tired. I feel like a hypocrite because I share the good news and encourage others to spend time with God and all however, I don’t do the same anymore. Im trying to change it, but it is so hard.

[@esthersbeautysecrets4541]

I've backsided in the amount of time that I've spent reading my Bible. Thank you for bringing this awareness to our attention

[@kenyahkia]

This video was so timely, and I thank the Lord for the timing of it all. For me, a symptom of backsliding is my insecurity attacking my thoughts. I would be bombarded by negative thoughts and was always drift to worse case scenarios. But I find when there's intentionality in constantly communing with God, being in His Words, praying, being with other believers, the thoughts are quieter. I'm able to spot the lie a lot quicker, rather than ruminating on these lies driven by my insecurities.

[@JustAmom-k1g]

Thank you Melody for this episode. I am indeed backsliding. i used to have morning devotions and moments with the Lord in evening. Recently, i dread to read the bible, worship and praise and going to church. On the days that I make time for the Lord, i feel no connection.

[@mmkvoe6342]

One thing that I sometimes have to do is instead of reading scripture, I have to listen to it, or listen to a devotional or sermon or testimony explaining the gospel or scripture. The word of God as Hebrew originated was meant to be heard, not read, and as Romans 10 says, faith comes by hearing and so on. If I do spend more time listening to people speaking the words of God to me I get more motivated and end up changing my own trajectory better than if I were only reading.

[@JustAmom-k1g]

⁠@@mmkvoe6342thank you so much. I will try it. Thank you 🙏🏿

[@mwiizakalindamunangandu1850]

One of my biggest was when I was dating someone who wasn’t God fearing and their influence was terrible. It made me backslide. Secondly, when life hits you so hard and you just wanna be in your feelings instead of pressing on to Jesus Christ. But now, thanks to James 1:5 as God said we should ask for wisdom if we lack it. It’s been a help from not backsliding.

[@lindelwamsibi6540]

Thank you for such a timely word!❤ This word came exactly when I needed it..I received a very bad report recently. I completely felt discouraged. I haven't read the read or prayed because I have been trying to think of all the people I can ask for assistance and of course neglected my Maker. This word has given me a rude awakening to get back in my prayer closet so I don't go further along with backsliding. Thank you for sharing ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@audryross]

Subconsciously going back to the old ways. Without realizing what is even happen and once realizing, comes some sort of guilt.

[@authenticallylakita]

Happy Motivational Monday Mrs. Melody Alisha: I hope you and your family are doing well, blessed, and staying safe. I'm doing good. The symptom that I've experienced from backsliding from Heavenly Father was when I took it into my own account to do things that I thought were right. When actually it was wrong and I did not seek Heavenly Father for His advice through prayer. I made careless mistakes, dishonest with loved ones and others, and that is why I was in a Job season. Everything was stripped away from me for me to open my eyes and realize that I need to seek Heavenly Father about everything and not rely on my own instincts and decisions. Heavenly Father taught me to never turn my back on Him about anything. To remember to always seeks His guidance and approval about everything even if He says, "No, this isn't the right time. Wait, my daughter." I must obey Him all the time. Thank you, Mrs. Melody for this great devotion today! 🤗😇🙏🏽. Have an amazing and blessed week!

[@jamillahclanton2192]

The one symptom would be taking control of trying to get my finances back in order. I felt like God left me in my wilderness season to defend myself for a while, but God never left me.

[@Xoxannalisa]

I realized fasting is a good way to bring your heart back to God , because you’re denying your flesh . I recently did a 3 day water fast and felt that intimacy with God again :)

[@fdoctor79]

For me yielding to the flesh and making a decision to be willing to participate or engage in mindsets or behaviors that are contrary to his will. Lord have mercy on me. 😢

[@sunflowerlela4424]

You are truly a vessel for God’s word. Thank you for posting this video, I really needed it.

[@VioletNicol]

David is one of my favorites. He led a full life of sin and grace. Discord and mercy. He was chosen specifically by God and called a man after Gods own heart but there are so many examples in his life for us to learn from maintaining hope in the knowing that God will never leave us or forsake us. ❤

[@katerahutchins6467]

Thank you so much for this! It was right on time. I’ve fallen off track with God I never felt worthy enough for Him but I know it was just the enemy telling me that. God is so good thank you so much for sharing what God gives you to help us.

[@toniodejimi3905]

It’s the way God has FETCHED me with this video. I’m on a trip and I fell away from my daily reading of the Word for two days and this video pops into my feed. I think the backsliding has been happening for weeks now though. What gets me wary is when I start to fantasize again (one of my biggest battles) or start to silently judge others in my head. Praise God that He saw where I was heading before things got ugly. This video gave me the push to get back into my Word.

[@musicxelf]

A symptom is definitely giving into my negative emotions. When I'm with the Lord, I have so much fire and faith that I know all things work for good. I find that when I'm out of that, it's easy to give into anxiety and depression, and that's why as always, your videos are so timely ❤

[@user-wh8kq9xp6z]

so happy I watched this! I love how much you quote and use scripture, especially the ones I haven't heard often. It makes me more excited to read the bible :)

[@jo-e2574]

I’ve been discouraged by a promise that gave me life a promise God gave me that I let go of because of everyone’s opinion😭I gave up on my promise and I’m afraid to believe again, if it’s not a real promise of God then I could end up wasting my life. I need a big big move of God to show me if it’s really from Him. If God doesn’t move and show me some undeniable proof that He made the promise then I’ll go back to suicidal hopelessness.

[@gabbyk.2000]

Hey I'm sorry you feel this way. God gave us his word. In Romans 8:1 he said "There is therefore now no condemnation to them which are in Christ Jesus, who walk not after the flesh, but after the Spirit. You shouldn't feel condemned for giving up on your promise. the enemy always comes to discourage us and sometimes we miss the mark but that's not the end. Pick up your cross and start again. In Matthew 24:13 he said "But he that shall endure unto the end, the same shall be saved". Don't give up on yourself. God hasn't given up on you. You have a purpose.

[@divyarachel2261]

God showed me this video at the right time, this got me to sit and analyse where I'm getting distracted and how I can be on guard from now on, so thank you so much God bless you! I backslide because I used to be such a people pleaser, every time I get close to anyone I draw my self worth from their words and feelings for me, and then I start feeling low because that strength is not coming from the Lord- it's pride/ ego. I know that I have to be connected to God all the time to be happy and Joyful but I should never get distracted by peoples words and actions. Turn my eyes to the Lord and keep my focus on Him and Him alone. Thank you Sister Melody Alisa :)

[@patriciatendo]

On top of the video being a blessing and very timely message, the comments help me acknowledge that am not really alone and I can overcome and get back to that first love and fire for God, thank you all for sharing

[@jasmineshields2285]

Such a great video! Can’t wait for Pt 2 🙏🏽 I think self sufficiency is a symptom for me too. And a lack of awareness

[@Kay1331Kay]

I started falling to sin and i almost fear intimacy with God at this point. That changes today

[@loweeeeeeee]

Thank you for this Word! Something I notice is that I becoming easily distracted and unmotivated.

[@Chevonne8]

If everyone can please pray for me. I definitely have backslid so much that I am just trying to crawl back to God because me backsliding has me allowed me to sin. I just miss God and I need Him so please keep me in your prayers!

[@rachelkanyoro9614]

I have been feeling the same way falling into the pattern from the past and thinking I can do stuff without guidance and approval from God

[@chaniquelewis]

Saw the heading first and immediately felt the tears coming. I was just coming on to watch your videos to help me feel at peace as they always do but this specific video hit home..I felt immediate conviction but also longing.

[@Yvonnluna]

I think for me back sliding is worrying too icy about my finances and feeling anxious about it another one is trying to date when I know I’m not ready yet, and losing my focus alittle bit

[@KaylaKonnections]

This word was from God today. My prayers today were of repentance for back-sliding with busyness

[@louieunlocked]

My symptoms are being easily angered, cussing more, being on social media a lot and paying lots of attention to lustful content. I just want to be on fire for God from now on.

[@thatssochelseaa]

Just finished my 2nd day of the Good and Beautiful bible study, and the verse was 1 Samuel 25, then opened KZbin and saw this! I have definitely backslid and felt guilty for doing so. Now I don’t even feel I can get close to him since I’ve said things in the past and cast God away. People around me tell me that I can go to him still because he is not like a human in the sense that he will always forgive me and be there for me, but for some reason my brain keeps telling me the opposite. Long story short, thank you for this video, it is very much needed!!

[@Nii_sj240sx]

I think the moment I felt like I was backsliding recently is knowing that I may hear the Holy Spirit less. Moments when I walk I usually talk to the Lord openly and then lately it has felt like I’ve been doing it less and I go Lord 😭what am I doing rn thinking about someone who may or may not know you. Being in these moments I’ve felt too is it right to hang out with my guy friends one on one or maybe I should stop that all together. Accepting my friend to drink in front of me when it doesn’t align with what I want in my walk in faith. 🥲definitely felt this was right for me sis and thank you so much for this video. Reminds me that I want to work thru this life with God 😭 and my prayers lately I’ve been definitely thinking about leaning on him and not to my own understanding lately. It’s been so interesting these past few weeks.

[@mrschrissyg.5955]

This is perfect as I literally feel so so far from God! I had commented on your other video.

[@Beautiful_Blessed]

Very timely, I recently got my “fire” for God back after being spiritually lazy, & just 2 days ago I started delighting in distraction 😭😫 1 symptom for me is less intimacy with God.. not in my word, studying & journaling like I usually do, just putting it on the back burner. The worst part about it all is I KNOW BETTER😫 very much feeling like Paul in Romans 7:15-20!! By God’s grace, hopefully I will get back on track again 😖

[@BVel96]

A few symptoms of my backsliding, crazy amounts of anxiety eating away at me. Conviction of the Holy Spirit but being unable to move forward because i feel ashamed and unworthy. Short temper. Thank you for this, I’ve recently had the story of David on my heart as well. For the past two months I’ve felt so distant from God and I’m pregnant i feel like since finding out I’ve been going thru the craziest spiritual warfare this time around

[@latoyao7519]

Mines has been an onslaught of disappointment but I'm coming out of my rout its not easy when you feel like your daddy has let you down but its all a lie i am protected i am enough i am smart i am loved i am saved 💖

[@danipage2057]

i need part two 😣 this was really good!

[@charlenebackus1240]

I have started smoking again. My issues are always financial. My hubby has spending problems and I am working all the time and work and home. I backslid I need help I always feel guilty afterward. Ant wise words appreciated

[@hannahbarnes3743]

Hi Melody! 🤍 My backsliding has been reminiscing on a toxic relationship that I ended 3 months ago instead of feeling the presence of the Lord with me always and curing my “loneliness”. I need to remind myself that there is no greater love than His love and that I should never stoop so low that I crave flesh over the love that will forever exist 🥹

[@fentsemoyana3198]

My symptom of back sliding is inability to pray,i just cant get myself to pray for the life of me,i get distracted while praying,get random thoughts of my to do list and just get speechless.Currently in this season and im trying to find my way back to Jesus despite my schedule and emotions right now,Please pray for me

[@user-yq4qf2dr5e]

Melody 🥺😭 the anointing God has on you is insane

[@MsKa004]

So good!! Thank you sis! Our identity is our foundation; if it's not Christ, it's sinking sand!!! Definitely a lack of intimacy and double-mindedness (sin) on how God sees me. Thank you for this video.

[@luizadossantos1064]

Wow! This came at the perfect time! I backslide when circumstances (after a while) don't match what God has promised. I start to rely on astrology/horoscopes and honestly I know these things cannot fulfill/confirm what God can!!

[@emanuelzapata.ez1]

Every message you give speaks directly to me! Thank you for letting God use you 🙏

[@dallas.danielle]

The way these videos hit every time I come looking is God!! As always thank you for being a vessel sharing his messages 🙏🏽

[@PinnacleQue]

Hey Melody :D thank you for the video. I’m starting to notice my backsliding looks like avoidance burying myself in serving and neglecting my being with God. I’m grateful to God for this timely video because I feel like I’ve been waiting for clarity to make a decision on things in my life. It’s been making me step into this cycle again but I’m trying to prayerfully give it to the Lord and move forward trusting that He will give the clarity in His timing. I think I can be so action focused that when I have to sit, I can get really unsettled. Please pray for me ❤❤❤ thank you again sis! God bless you and keep you and your beautiful family!

[@YgalSharon]

Thanks, Mel for this meditation again. Always a pleasure to hear you. Very interesting story about David's rogue activities and how the Lord woke him up. I always focused on how he encouraged himself when his men's families were abducted and everyone wanted to stone him. But this meditation sheds light on the fallout that preceded this story of encouragement.

[@xosinamari]

Love the new background

[@MelodyAlisa]

Ty sis!

[@purplehibiscuss]

For me my symptom was discouragement. Disappointment. I was trusting in God for direction and favor and it didn't happen the way I needed it to. I felt lonely, disappointed and hurt by God, i started entertaining secular music to boost my confidence and make me feel better. I got lowkey mad at God and avoided him. Then progressed to lust. I'm now trying to get back up.

[@Lexineffect13]

#4 is the one! 🙏🏾

[@thecrowngem6683]

I think I needed to hear this, I've been wondering the last couple of days if I am backsliding. I think I have just a little bit, it happens so slow you don't even really notice.🙏🏾🙌🏾💞

[@HopeBrown-pm2dy]

I’ve found myself praying consistently and spending time reading the Bible and suddenly that urge stops when I become discouraged that I’m not understanding reading the Bible .. however, recently I’ve tried to spend time at my own pace without feeling the pressure of reading more than one chapter of the Bible just starting off small and it’s been working so far so some tips on this for another video will be so good .. again thank you for this ❤

[@santanabandanna5729]

This video popped up just in time i've backslidden yesterday but i also made sure i repented immediately 🙏

[@sophiasmith5373]

For me my symptom outwardly Complaining and being critical/ negative and inwardly alot of confusion/ indecisiveness/fear in every area of my life. I'll get easily burnt out because I'm trying to make decisions on my own and keep up with life's demands "by myself" and on my own understanding

[@perfectlysmart91]

Hey there! I recently finished The Story of David through Hillsdale College and was on the edge of my seat! I learned so much! I am going to go through Genesis and Exodus as well!

[@s.crockett5457]

Hiiii Melody, and thanks for sharing! A GREAT reminder to examine our hearts , motives and patterns!!!🤗 Also wanted to say CONGRATULATIIOOOONNSSS on The Squad!!!🎉🎉🎉 I'm SURE it's going to be an incredible and moving experience. I've always enjoyed my Esther fasts and Zoom calls with Morgan Tracy J, so I could ONLY imagine the in-person experience/impact that's going to take place. 🤎🎁 Much Love, from Northern Cali to you and your family👐🏾☦