The One Where Your Receipts Need To Match

[@OLIVERNolan-pp1rd]

THANK YOU LALA! For calling out that writer! My Mom was in AA for over 40 years before she died and Ive been in Alanon for the same. My Dad, while President of the Television Academy started a program for Producers to accurately depicted alcoholism and drug abuse in television shows as well as ACTUAL sobriety. This “California Sober” and “Sober Curious “ thing that people are doing is dangerous and people pushing it, like James on Vanderpump are contributing to the problem, so you’re saying you don’t recognize that on television as a truly sober woman is really important and calling out that writer even more so. So thank you. I’ve seen too many die from this disease, including my Grandmother, its life or death and the death part is not pretty.

[@Bryn_G_Mama_of_3]

Very well said! Alcohol and drugs affect everyone involved, and it sucks to say the very least. I’m sorry you had to experience and endure this, I can’t even imagine. That’s so awesome your dad created that program, I’m sure it helped, and still helps, so many. I also agree with you about “California Sober” and “Sober Curious.” It’s either you are completely sober or you’re not. Sorry if that’s offensive, but once you’ve seen someone going through addiction, you realize quickly there is no “half in, half out” it’s literally all or nothing.

[@jennjohnson4067]

Well said, bless you and yours!!

[@Bryn_G_Mama_of_3]

I just want to say how much I appreciated yall speaking about how it’s okay to leave a relationship for your own happiness in order to be your best for everyone else, especially for your kids who need the best you possible. I have 3 little ones - 7.5, 6 and 3.5 years old - and I’m in limbo on whether or not to continue to put up with things I would never want my daughter to allow, trying to work through past and current hurts by myself, and stay with a husband who is giving bare minimum and not trying to give much more than going to work and helping minimally with our children. I’m just not sure what to do, but man, that all hit so hard!! I needed to hear this so badly, and that it’s okay for me to choose me for once so that I can be my absolute best for everyone else - mainly my babies. Thank yall, I love yall so much!! 💜 Fridays can never get here fast enough lol.

[@karenhunt194]

The TV mounting story is giving me throwbacks to Scheana saying , “He hung my tv in under 7 minutes!”

[@senaax8255]

The way James talked to Tom this last episode was amazing... He didn't get mad and aggressive, just honest...

[@KvDRo123]

I love listening to Lala sing!! She has such a stunning voice. Put an album out Lala! You rock that voice.

[@danad6440]

Be proud of yourself your heart is growing more

[@senaax8255]

Lala and James are actually beautifully intelligent when sober! And I've always thought Katie is gorgeous but this haircut is amazing on her

[@Solodolo18]

I can't wait to meet yall give them lala podcast thank yall god,god gonna bring us together soon amen amen amen 🙏 ❤

[@alyssamcgraw2287]

Can lala talk more about being off social media and creating a beautiful life for herself? Need more of this content!!!!😍🔥

[@X._.COCO._.X]

I thought you were the only one to hit the mark with the emo-nite fashion. You had a front bang swoop * signature emo*, punk black hands grabbing your tata's. It gave what it was supposed to give

[@annabrock832]

Thank you for addressing the Sandoval NYT article! I was waiting on someone from Bravo to say something!

[@lindseyrocha2613]

Katie also talked about it on her pod this week!

[@annabrock832]

@@lindseyrocha2613 thank you for letting me know! I love Katie! I will definitely check it out.

[@kellytriebwasser5001]

Without making excuses for him- it’s 2bad ppl that do know him… in a non edited form… he not only speaks without thinking first… he means differently than what he says…. He glitches with the like like like… and second guessing without finishing explanation of what he means. Terrible out of touch examples that are beyond different except for in the way he was meaning- is the media/country’s attention- and in the other cases, warranted and understandable the draw and obsession…. In an Affair? That’s happened 50x w/every single person on the cast INCLUDING ariana! Cheaters, liars, r that! Matters NOTHING they weren’t bff at the time!? Eww whatever idiot makes that excuse to stay supporting ariana! Who stayed prior squatting in his house! And has stolen… w/out saying- sandwich shop was done 6+months ago 😂

[@sandybeebee6511]

Alright, I completely agree 100%. If you're an addict, you're either sober or you're not. I am in recovery so I can speak from experience. Lala is spot on when you are a true addict. There is no dabbling, it's between life-and-death.

[@kellytriebwasser5001]

Well she smoked weed for yrs off of blow and drinking but ya…. Wonder her thoughts on Carl from summer house

[@EmeraDanos]

Oh my gosh Lala talking about sobriety got me all teary. I know that feeling and I go to those rooms to save my life. Fuck anyone who talks about it and has no clue. Can’t believe that women would stoop so low. Disgusting.

[@charityjohnson3527]

Sheena swing and said, "Restraining order" lmao

[@tiffanimorris7127]

No way Taylor and Travis is PR. She's taking 12 hour flights to watch his game. He's taking 10 hour flights to see her concert. Both their families are involved. Theyre two alpha's at the top of their respective careers and they just work. Btw The Taylor Swift "Love Story" Club Mix is poppin!!!!! There's a video of them at the club with Marshmello dancing to it to and it sounds 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@kellytriebwasser5001]

Ofcourse it is….. don’t be ridiculous. Wouldn’t take a 12hr flight for experience of being the princess of the superbowl? Gaining millions of fans and millions of dollars and following thru on a contract? Please

[@lauragarza7158]

I understand the nanny thing I do have a babysitter that picks up the kids and it's only been a yr kids are now 5 and 7 and when she was 4 it was one day a week she's with her all day so I get it. Sleepovers are only with my in-law and that's because my parents dont live near us. They live five hours away I will say the first day we hired our babysitter was rough. I had to just jump in and let it happen and I got comfortable. There was no preparing and easing myself into it. I had to trust that everything was okay. Also my husband does shift work so he was here all day but he was asleep so that helped tremendously. Knowing that he was still in the house just asleep, she wasn't fully left alone. There has been times where she has been fully left alone but we worked up to it if that makes sense

[@amandaalbright5271]

As though Lala would be so privy to Taylor’s Swifts love life 🤣

[@kellytriebwasser5001]

A person in the entertainment world knowing it’s not at the way it appears?

[@rebeccareber113]

I respect Lala’s position on sobriety, but not everybody who is fully sober agrees with her. Things like “California sober” or “sober curious” can be steps in the right direction even though they are often used as denial. For me, a better position to take is, “The most effective to stay sober is not to use any of these substances recreationally. If these are steps to getting sober, I understand that it can be a journey, but they are not the same thing.” Now that wouldn’t make for great reality TV, and Lala doesn’t really do nuance, which is why she is great TV.

[@doloresquintana5702]

The whole thing about Sandoval acting like he's any judge of fashion or costumes. Even if Lala had shown up in a boxer's robe, it would have been fine. Rocky was a film from 1976. One of the biggest movies of the late 70s. He's not just a liar; he doesn't know anything about fashion or film. Didn't he think he was an actor at some point?

[@katielafave4543]

it's a remix of love story that plays at the club

[@katielafave4543]

who flies all the way to Australia to only be there for 2 days for a PR or open relationship???

[@kellytriebwasser5001]

Taylor swift! On her own jet! That’s how she has

[@katielafave4543]

@@kellytriebwasser5001 Yeah Taylor uses her own jet to go to each place on our tour that’s for her tour that’s not for Travis. When it comes to Taylor fact that she went from the Grammys LA to Tokyo for the tour then flew all the way to Vegas just the Super Bowl then flew out to Australia for the tour again. why would Taylor do all that and go through all the huge time changes for fake relationship?

[@toniacarter4674]

Congratulations Lala!! I'm so happy for you!❤

[@klara664]

Love the energy❤ 😄

[@SunshineRae]

Scheana did do it she said “Restraining Orders!”

[@colesuflair912]

Another Great episode . ❤️

[@mollydoran9488]

...new generation! Im here for it!....you know the men wont stand for it! but they will bow!

[@swtdi40]

I love that you outed her. I love you and love t u at you are sober

[@nicolerogers9480]

Literal if you give a mouse a cookie story😂

[@BeautyXXBrittany]

PREACH LALA!!!!!!!! PREACH ABOUT SOBRIETY!!!!!!!!!!!! YESSS GIRL YESS!!!!!!! ANYONE WHO TALKS ABOUT BEING SOBER OR CLEAN AND THEY HAVENT BEEN THROUGH IT OR EFFECTED BY IT HEAVLY, YALL NEED TO SIT TF DOWN!!!!!!! FR!!!!!!!! DO NOT SPEAK ON STUFF U KNOW NOTHING ABOUT!!!!! GET UR FACTS RIGHT FIRST!!!!!!!!!

[@nataliemartin4405]

CAN WE WRAP THIS UP?! Ugh im dying. i fell in love with you then and i love you so much more now.

[@melissanunez2540]

Sobriety is a personal journey what works for one doesn’t work for another. what ever keeps the person alive works for me. Unless you are directly asked No one should have an opinion on what others are doing.

[@AmyxAim]

Kim Kardashian is the #1 celebrity??? No way!

[@tiffanimorris7127]

Idk why Lala always gasses up the Kardashians? Kim might be the #1 reality personality but that's all I'll give her. I mean what other reality star hosts SNL?

[@Nothereforgames]

Omg thin mint girl guide cookies are next level! I need to find them lol

[@carolinenunez8977]

I look forward to your podcast episodes every week! You guys make me laugh and smile😂😂❤❤

[@catherinecalvert7742]

Is this live?? Still taking a break from social media??

[@TrishRyan-ey8go]

I always leave comments please bump my gums lala❤😂🎉🎉love you❤😂😂

[@kellytriebwasser5001]

Sorry Jessica but the whole scenario raquel and Tom were in…. Was not just an affair/ messy affair… the world went against them EXTREME! Tom had to do shows he was contracted 2…. And he was to this day the only one paying not just bills but MORTGAGE! On remember ariana wants to remind all, she “owns the home”…😂 she doesn’t. She has a mortgage that Tom or his assistants he has hired for her…. Do NOT need to break down what she signed in a bank on a refi! In 2021! She probably does considering she believed he took out a heloc only against his portion of the house😂😂😂🤡

[@tammmygrenoble-ue2gb]

❤❤❤😂😮 great podcast

[@saundicurtis8113]

Hi from Lake Tahoe

[@stellablue02]

im in lake tahoe too!!!

[@LG-hn6rd]

I wonder if you would be so forgiving to Sandoval and so disdainful against Ariana if Tom started hanging out with Randall. I like you try harder to not be a hypocrite.

[@moderator7169]

no it wasnt it was kims crying face ahem.she was pregnant, in the car with kayne. . it was turned into a meme. the roblox had the meme/ pic and the commet/title above it was kims face after her kid sees the sex tape

[@pamelasaunders3736]

Oh Lala you are a bowl of Sunshine ☀️. You have an amazing life ahead of you. Your my favorite human on VPR that’s why I never want the show to end because I get to watch you and all your quirky sayings. Your so gorgeous in sweats or glam. And you are way more pretty than Zendaya.. by the way I have 27 years sober. And there are Great AA meetings and fellowship in the desert.. ♥️

[@nadineedwards4830]

What are you doing here without Dorinda? 🦅🐦‍⬛

[@ThereseHerring]

I really enjoy how Jessica gives her feedback on Sandoval. Lala needs to learn to be more refined, it is trashy to boast about how you made money feeding on the carcass of Ariana's life. Ariana was the one hurt, betrayed and humiliated by the double deceit from her partner and friend. It is so gross that they actually say they planned on coming out to the group as a couple as if it would not be shocking and hard to stomach. Lala would flip her lid if she found out Jessica, Katie or another single friend was screwing Randall while she was with him. Then to support your friend only for monetary gain with the merch. Lala needs to empathize with how it feel to find out it was Raquel that Randall was cheating with after she had been with him for 9 years. If you are going to support Ariana - BE CONSISTENT AND STAY THE COURSE! Stop flip flopping to find sympathy for the villains.

[@katielafave4543]

in no world would taylor be in an open or PR relationship

[@drx6139]

Agree with this! Considering what she stands for, I doubt she would sell herself or allow anyone to use her for media attention or an agenda.

[@coloradocrystal2510]

Well duh...she isn't Kim k 😂

[@happyblacklegends]

Maybe not open but PR? I could see it

[@katielafave4543]

@@happyblacklegends taylor is one of the most famous people in the world. she doesn’t need PR

[@LilyGentile]

@@coloradocrystal2510pitting women against each other is so lame stop that

[@DoreenRangel]

11:20pm Love watching you from Texas.

[@tjfarmer1083]

❤love tht u love to bump gums lol love u soo much girl...

[@jessi32717]

Omgggg Lala your so funny!!!!!❤️🥰🐾💕

[@AprilGuthier-c5c]

same. love it. texas.

[@licitrafam5880]

Listen, I get it you give one water bottle to the person keep it moving. Then to ask for more and snacks, I’m not your mommy bring your own lunch box and do what I’m paying you to do sir

[@itsyourlady]

why are you all expected to beg him for accountability when he’s VERY CLEARLY shown you all that he still doesn’t understand the gravity of how it effected others nor is he seeking the help he clearly needs. sandoval pulling james aside was actually really sad to watch. he’s manipulating you all so far in this season - love you guys 🤍

[@ashleyowens3010]

Right! Like he goes through the motions after someone blows up and he has to be told what to say but he still doesnt feel the way he is saying. He is just pacifying them

[@kellytriebwasser5001]

Seems like he’s trying to explain the obvious hypocrisy and his experience. But everyone go off and continue pretending he’s the one who traumatized you… or that ariana isn’t and wasn’t a more putrid person! Going to be sooo funny and not an edit- she has been done w/sandwich shop! She Fkt up and said it on the aftershow….. while explaining/lying why she didn’t pay mortgage!! Tom didn’t need to break down refi she signed in 2021! She didn’t have the $! She was demoted! And decided the world of trolls would fill in the blanks and back her disgusting ass! And they all did!

[@tamiebarnes7287]

i was attracted to the title of the podcast i love you but i love me more reminds me of the sex and the city line where kim catrell said the same thing when leaving her boyfriend.

[@amandathompson109]

💝🪷

[@barbraw-backtoeden7419]

Can your head get any bigger 😂….confidence is great but cockiness is ugly

[@tanyasteers4802]

Come on lala you really need to learn about your anatomy that's sad

[@classyconversationswithrho344]

I know I sound like a broken record. I have been saying this for over a year! I have the receipts saying "I had a strong feeling Ariana was the Mastermind!" On VPR Ariana allegedly was on The chopping block. So it's reasonable to think they came up with an idea, to save the show. Nobody talks about the black guy in March 2023 not the fact that their relationship has been over or non existent since 2016 allegedly And so much more has been quoted by me, that came true! Nobody took me seriously, when I tried to contact the network. Trying to bring family values back. To change the way they produce. Too many people were getting hurt as well, lives being destroyed! I wanted to help. Now look how bad things are getting! Now with Andy. As a fan I didn't want the network to crumble, now it is! I've also been saying," this is just the beginning" Everyday something new comes out! It's all too sad. I understand as a published writer, I am not well known. You don't need to be to have insight. I spent over a year trying to be heard! Everything I said is in writing all over the internet. As well in a well know magazine. Looks like its too late for the network. I really didn't want this to turn out so badly. If anything I truly tried. Too many shows are destroying the other for ratings. Allegedly Fans wanted good TV not watching people tear each other apart. She was not Ariana's best friend nor was Tom married. Rachel is human and made a mistake like many did, on that cast. People made millions off her pain! She has every right to do what she feels is right! Its illegal to tape anyone in the state of California, without written consent. Being on a reality show, does not mean it gives anyone the right to hwve a person's life destroy by the World! Rachel has a strong case.

[@michelleandre1229]

BONER episodes are SO good! Thank you.