10 WARNING Signs your Hairstylist SUCKS!

[@GlamGirlGabi]

What are some of the things that your hairstylist has done that has made you feel really taken care of? Leave them here and we can start a discussion! If you liked this video, check out this one next: **Daily Habits that RUIN Your Hair (STOP DOING THIS!!!) kzbin.info/www/bejne/j2eUpaKYnaiBbK8

[@readingsbycara]

Gosh! I'd love to know where you practice... ! 😍

[@Augustbeauty69]

I have had really bad luck with hairstylists. I finally just let my hair get long - too long for my age - and don't know what else to do. I left the last stylist because she kept cutting my hair - "Let me just get this one last piece...." - when I was already out of the chair and ready to leave. I kept asking her not to do that because when she did what I asked, which I called blunt with layers, a wash and go style that suits my hair, the cut was awesome. When she didn't, which was when she wasn't in the mood, wasn't feeling good, was feeling whatever, she would positively butcher me. I have watched videos of hair cuts so I knew exactly what to ask for, I've looked up terminology so I knew what to say, and it would pay off the first time and then she'd never do it again the same. She got upset when I asked her not to cut me out of the chair and said she wouldn't walk on eggshells.

[@rosed4304]

My stylist has really taken the time to get to know me, and whenever she learns a new technique or products(processing/hair care) that she believes would fit me she always brings it up to me. We have always had amazing color, cut, and hair health results because of this. We are also very honest with one another, if she thinks a color may require over processing and result in damage to my hair, she will bring it up and offer alternate routes/options to achieve a similar result or if a cut or color is not exactly what I wanted and I am unhappy with the end product, I have never felt like I couldn't say something. I will say it has never been so bad that I couldn't wait until our next appointment to course correct. She is always accommodating, and makes note of what didn't work for me so we don't repeat. On the other hand, she has opened me up to colors and cuts that I would never have thought would suit me, which have really been all time faves on mine, so I really really trust her ideas and recommendations.

[@GlamGirlGabi]

@@rosed4304 She sounds absolutely awesome!!! I love that!

[@ayazenoria8781]

I've had a couple incredible stylists, but more that fit in this video. The best stylist I ever had left and went to just be a mom but she was so committed to her closest clients that she did continue to do cuts and minor coloring from her home salon. Incredible woman but she eventually stopped all together. The leads to one of my worst experiences. I have very long hair that has wave to it. I've had so many bad cuts because they don't take time to look or point blank tell me long hair makes them nervous which is why I always ask for a stylist that's comfortable with long hair. I (no lie!) had a shop owner fit me in with one of her girls. When she was working on me, she asked me how I was and if I was alright with what she was doing (props to her!) and the owner looks over, rolls her eyes, and then says "You're lucky, if you got me I would've just cut it all off" then proceeded to laugh as she continued another client's hair. I've never gone back to that shop and will discourage anyone asking my opinion of the shop.

[@Yolduranduran]

When my stylists husband got terminal cancer I knew she was very stressed. I noticed she made mistakes during that time but I never said anything. It was such a difficult time for her. Don't forget these ladies are people too. I give her a lot of credit for working during that time. God bless you all.

[@diane5908]

Yes. That was so kind of you. Mine was going through a stressful time too and same happened. It was not her normal amazing work. Thankfully I could talk to her to fix what wasn't working for me.

[@erossore8500]

Yes! We are humans. This empathy is needed when it comes to service industries. When we find a keeper- recognize that they have their off times as well. If they are truly the stylist for you they will be able to amend mistakes when possible.

[@raffila]

@Yol2000 God bless you for your loyalty and compassion

[@danielawilliams5988]

Love this

[@04beni04]

A hairstylist that knows how to give bad news tactfully _and_ make it a constructive conversation is a total gem. A while back I had some physical scalp trauma and no idea that the healed skin wasn't growing or supporting hair well. (It was a busy time and I wasn't styling my long hair much beyond quick-washing, quick-drying, and maybe pulling the length of it into a low pony or loose braid.) When I went in for my semi-annual cut and highlights/lowlights some months later, my stylist asked if I was on any new medications or something else that would affect growth. She showed me how to find the thin spots -- and hell, but 'thin' was an understatement! At least one spot was practically bald. Seeing my reaction, she took me to a back area and set up mirrors so I could cry in quiet privacy while getting a better idea of the damage. She stayed open late that night so I could come back for a consultation (without an audience) about adjusting my cut and colour to compensate for the changes. As a total bonus, she managed to make the experience feel like an opportunity to try something new and different, not panicky emergency repair, and seemed genuinely surprised when I tipped well afterward. I've always had fine hair but adjusting to life with thin hair would have been a lot harder without her. Needless to say, she's a keeper.

[@GlamGirlGabi]

Wow wow wow wow!!! This was an amazing comment and that hairstylist seems like an absolutely incredible one. Keep her forever because those stylists can change your life. Thank you so much for taking the time to comment.

[@Markofitch]

how much did you tip?

[@mariettedemarest5173]

@@Markofitch none of your business.

[@mariettedemarest5173]

@@MarkofitchI don't know what ur talking about... you asked how much SHE tipped.... what a person tips is not your business, I wasn't referring to any stylist that I have visited.

[@mariettedemarest5173]

@@Markofitch ???

[@anneoneill280]

I cannot tell you how many times I've left a high end salon and had to go right home to restyle my hair. The cut is often great but too often they way they style afterwards is awful.

[@joycechildress2537]

This hits home so hard for me! I, until very recently, still had mid back length, thick, wavy blonde hair. I was ready for a change, found a shorter style that I really like for me, set an appointment, and spoke with the stylist beforehand trying to explain to her that I'm not very good with hair, that I work 50 plus hours a week, and just wanted something simple that would look nice just having a brush run through it. I told her I wanted approximately six inches off of my hair, amd showed her a picture of what I wanted. She interrupted me multiple times, said "uh huh" alot, then said "yeah, sure, we can do that!". An hour and a half later, I left the salon with only two inches off of my length, and a cut / style that didn't even vaguely resemble what I showed her or asked for. Not only did she not get even close on the style, but never responded to me when I spoke to her during the cut, she also never looked at me from face on, and kept me turned away from the mirror the entire time. Several people have asked why I didn't demand that she fix it, and though I maybe should have, I'm a nice person. It was already long after hours, her husband and children were waiting in their car for her, and I was already frustrated enough. I paid her, thanked her for her time, but did politely tell her that it wasn't exactly what I was going for. To which she replied, "well, we can set another appointment for next week if you want, but it will be another cut fee". Yeah, thanks, but no thanks. This is similar to every salon appointment I've ever had. Now, sadly, I understand why some people would rather just try their luck by doing it themselves at home.

[@ALinn-vr3nl]

I completely agree. See my comment, above. I get sick and tired of stylists who refuse to take off as much hair as I ask for: the first time. They're so paranoid about going too short, they don't cut the hair off. And I don't want anything fancy, just a men's short clipper cut (I'm female.) Wash and wear, no blowdrying or product. I don't care about all that nonsense. It's really annoying how much garbage the salon industry imposes on women.

[@cfoster6804]

Same here. I'm not having much luck either with stylist.

[@alexhudson97]

Also, if they did a bad job on your hair the first time, do you really want to trust them a second time to fix it up? I’d rather take my chances elsewhere.

[@nmc1859]

Same here. They don't listen and act like they are doing you a favor when you are paying

[@jilly7306]

I just recently had a second cut from a new stylist, liked the first cut, but the second was awful! Not even remotely close to the photo I had, and it’s a pretty easy cut, I think. Do I go back or find another? She has big Instagram following so I thought she’d be great.

[@marye813]

I absolutely love your videos. It is really hard to find a good stylist. Have experienced that many stylists have no interest in working with older women and have stereotyped ideas about styling.

[@worldlit1146]

Best hair apt ever - first (thorough) consultation, the next client had just cancelled - to which my hairdresser responded "wonderful, now I have even more time for you". She really took her time, she does not judge me for using box-dye for basic touch-ups, and is not mad when I ask for cuts that are easy to be maintained by myself (especially useful during a pandemic). I have been in good hands ever since.

[@GlamGirlGabi]

That is wonderful!!! She sounds fantastic! I am happy that you found your hair person :)

[@worldlit1146]

@@GlamGirlGabi I am sure you are amazing too. Love your videos. Your approach & angle are real.

[@GlamGirlGabi]

@@worldlit1146 Thank you so much. That means a lot to me!

[@nmc1859]

Very Blessed

[@Svartr.HrafnSvartr]

My personal Pet Peeve are stylists who insist on chatter. I'm an intensely introverted person who typically doesn't enjoy small talk but I'm also partially deaf. I tell the stylist to please not talk because I need to take my ears (hearing aids) out and I won't be able to hear them. But they're so used to chatting with clients and I end up using so much energy trying to follow the conversation because I don't want to be rude. I end up leaving very frustrated because I know I've missed so much when all I wanted was to just close my eyes and enjoy being pampered on, because I really don't get enough of that in my life. I've never really had a bad stylist but I've also never had the experience I've wanted.

[@melissaculpepper7663]

Works both ways. I wear two hearing aides and my clients WOULDN’T stop talking…even while I’m trying to do a relaxing shampoo for theM, AND blow-drying their hair. Whew! I had to endure this ALL day long. I’m retired, now😌

[@diannaschaumberger7055]

If the bliw dryer is on, we can't hear you! Pro tip smile nod and close your eyes

[@cl5193]

Wow. This just nailed my stylist of 9 years. In the beginning I was really impressed with her, but over the years I now dread going to get my hair done. She's super sweet and engaging to talk to, but she never cuts or colors (highlights/lowlights) my hair the same way twice. She still asks where I part my hair. (The same part I've had most of my adult life AND did you not just see me when I walked in the door?) On several ocassions I've had to run to Sally's and get supplies to try to correct what she's done. Ugh. She has 3 kids now and a busy life. But, I definitely don't feel like I'm anything other than a paycheck for her. Thanks for this video. It's given me the courage to look elsewhere.

[@interlocution6619]

When I had my salon, I had a rule. EVERY client was offered coffee or other beverage. We had fruit water, and on weekends we even offered pastries. No matter whether the client was there for a simple eyebrow wax, or a full day of service, we wanted them to feel special. We offered aromatherapy at the shampoo bowl and manicure stations, too. It sounds like you really have a grasp of how to treat clients. I think a lot of younger stylists could learn from your example.

[@LadyJollyRoger]

We do the same at our salon/ spa. 🤍🤍🤍

[@melissaculpepper7663]

I always offered a nice assortment of high-quality teas; I served coffee with raw sugar and real cream. I offered wines, bourbon, whiskey, and scotch for my late afternoon evening clients. I had dimmable lights, tranquil music, and always did aroma therapy during their deluxe shampoo experience. I always had nice chocolate candies, too. I swear, my clients came for that as much as my services☺️☺️☺️

[@diannaschaumberger7055]

😂 I couldn't keep the street people out if that was the case! They already ask for toilets, water, a seat to rest in, a space to warm up in, to use my microwave to warm their coffee/food, or if I have soare change to give them! They think it's the drop in center! If I made it more welcoming they'd move in! I have compassion BTW and most times accommodate if I can but as you can imagine, it's disruptive

[@interlocution6619]

​@@diannaschaumberger7055 I"m sorry that's a problem in your area. That would get very frustrating.

[@WeekendWandering]

As a stylist myself, I resonate with one thing in particular: education... I freelance and work outside of a salon environment, therefore I'm not getting to be a part of classes that salons have offered in the past. It has to be up to me to learn the new techniques and I've been trying to work on that for the past year. Although most of my clients have stuck with me over the years, I have lost a handful and I know it's because I wasn't doing my best work and part of that is because I wasn't quite sure how to achieve what they were asking for. I didn't realize that I didn't know how to achieve it until we got to the end of the appointment and it didn't turn out right 🤦‍♀️ It is a real blow to the ego when this happens, but totally my fault. I've also learned that there are some things that I'm just not good at and I have to be able to tell my client sometimes that what they are asking for is not my forte, I can either refer them to someone who I know is better than me at that certain thing, OR if they really want to stick with me and want to try it, at least they know it's a test run for both of us and we work together to get there. I've been working as a stylist for 13 years now and it really wasn't until year 11 I started to learn the hard way that I'm not good at everything. It's my goal to work hard now at learning the new trends and techniques so that I can continue to impress and make my clients happy all the time!

[@juliebriz1703]

My Hairdresser was great until the last occasion when I asked for what I've always asked for, a good trim and blow out or straightening of my hair. I mentioned that my side bangs seemed to be being cut shorter and shorter and they were point cutting the ends when all I ever wanted was a blunt cut. I have fine, but thick hair that looks so much better cut bluntly and suits my lifestyle (putting hair up, braiding etc). I was told that my hair was always cut using point cutting and not being cut having a blunt edge. The Hairdresser firmly stated that they were definitely not going to blunt cut my medium length hair because it looked better this (their!) way. I was too embarrassed to be more assertive and so ended up with paying for an expensive trim. In the end, a couple of weeks later, I decided to go elsewhere and got just what I wanted. I felt amazing even though I had to 'sacrifice' another extra inch off of the length. I felt great to be listened to! I felt a bit disloyal and sad but at the end of the day I needed my hair to be me!

[@purplemav]

When you are paying for service your loyalty is to YOU!

[@robinwomack2850]

You Know your hair better than anyone. You've been attached to it longer than anyone else. If a stylist argues about how a cut is to be done, ask for a manager. If it's the manager.....get up and leave. You shouldn't pay for something that both you and your stylist can't agree with. From my point of view is (as a stylist) that if a client is adamant about a style and/or color and they get what they want, if they don't like it after I had said it wouldn't work, it's not on me. I don't feel guilty. But I do feel badly for them. But.....hair can grow out, color can be fixed. I love what I do but at the end of the day I want and need my clients to be happy with my work.

[@Augustbeauty69]

@@robinwomack2850 Omg, where are you? I finally had it with stylists and now just get a trim at Supercuts. I got so tired of paying for cuts that were awful. All I asked for was a good cut, was willing to pay for it.

[@virginiamoss7045]

@@Augustbeauty69 Same here; I gave up trying to find a real stylist and now just go to Great Clips. At least it's not very expensive. I'm retired now so I don't feel the need to impress anyone so if my hair looks poorly cut, what difference does it make, it will grow out. All but one hairdresser in my long life were a disappointment, instead of educating me they would say, "Whatever you prefer." Basically, I was asked to tell them what to do and they would try to please me by doing it. There was never any talent; it was just a way for them to make some money. Where are the real stylists?!

[@robinwomack2850]

@@Augustbeauty69 I'm so sorry to hear that. Have you taken pictures of your hair when your stylist had done it great? Sometimes the hair can grow faster than the last time it was cut or slower. So when a shape up is in order the style can differ from the last time it was done. If it grows too fast the next time it's cut it won't be enough to keep the same style. If it grows too slow the stylist can take too much off during the session. And when it's off too much between visits the style can be lost entirely. So if you have it cut and styled by the Hairdresser in question take a picture and just show it to them and ask for that style. If you're still not happy then look for someone else. I'm not trying to make it sound I'm on the stylist side, but there was something you had liked about the stylist beforehand. I live in N.C.

[@junedouglas6614]

Thank you! After 20 years (!) with the same stylist, I've decided to look for someone new. I finally realized that my current person never takes the time to ask if I'm happy, and simply keeps cutting my hair the way he wants. I've tried to ask for different things, and it might work for one visit, but then it's back to the same look he always gives me. Thank you for validating my feelings that I am overdue to find a new stylist.

[@moniquelindholm1381]

I’m so glad I stumbled upon your channel. As a stylist for over 35 years I’m in need of inspiration. I recognized my own burnout from this video. Most of my clients are long time customers but I realize I probably need to up my game. Offer something new. I do go to continuing education for my hours but I need to do more.

[@QManagerin]

It's so hard finding a good hairstylist- I'm more than willing to pay for good craft and service...but I had been disappointed so many times. I don't think I'm difficult or anything.

[@Augustbeauty69]

You're not. Too many of these stylists are renting a chair at some salon, which makes them answerable to nobody.

[@Augustbeauty69]

@Denise Comstock I've quit going unless I absolutely have to, and then I go to some cheap place just to get a trim. I got tired of dealing with the attitudes.

[@katrynaweiss8228]

You were by far the best hairstylist I've ever had. I never worried about getting my hair done and I always walked out happy. I desperately need a cut and colour but I'm too nervous to have someone else do my hair, especially the bleach. I miss you 🤗❤️

[@DW...]

Every hairdresser needs to watch this video❣️ #thankyou💕

[@jih-pu4xe]

I have curly hair. I could tell you so many issues! For curly hair I just have too many things to say to even know where to start! Today was yet another bad day. 🙁

[@m.i.n.d.y]

The most frustrating thing happened when I asked for balayage and the stylist gave me two toned blunt highlights. She acted the whole time like she was going to deliver on what I had asked and never once said no, but she gave me something completely different from what I had asked. I wish she would have just said no if she wasn’t able or willing to deliver on what I had asked for.

[@amyboyd5760]

I think this is exactly what just happened to me. I had photos, which my sister called balayage and I got stripes of dead mouse and cold yellow, with super sharp starting points. It did not look any different than the “time test” I did myself in February (I was super stressed as my mom was in hospice). And I paid a fortune for it and $80 for a 10 minute trim

[@diannaschaumberger7055]

Maybe she tried her best and just couldn't deliver. It happens. Hairstylist's are human

[@tamarathejudeochristianmedium]

I’ve been getting the same blunt shag for 2 years in NYC, that’s all they’ll give no matter the picture I bring in. I’m 53 so I know what my hair can do so I’m not asking for something outside of my range. They also act like they’re a star and everyone is a peasant.

[@mulliganstew72]

Back in high school, they used to do a four-point layer and a double process bleach and tone and I had perfectly layered hair perfectly highlighted. I think all this fancy crap they’re trying to pull in is ruining their craft. I do it myself now I cannot deal with them anymore.

[@tamarathejudeochristianmedium]

@@mulliganstew72 I color my own hair now. I paid $450.00 in NYC to get a normal cut. The coloring process they use now is ridiculous. 3 different colors and so many highlights that it comes out the same color, like gray, or white 🤣 And they shred hair and then the next visit sell you something for the damage they caused 🤣

[@archeewaters]

my hair stylist will text me, she will give me the phone number of another stylist if her schedule is full. she will even give me the recipe for the color. i really trust her

[@GlamGirlGabi]

She sounds AMAZING! When I was doing hair in the salon full time, I had no issue giving out my recipe cards either. If a stylist cares about you, they want you to be happy and to have beautiful hair regardless of who does it. And if you treat a client with love like that, they will be so loyal to you. Thanks for sharing your experience.

[@Ryanneey]

I never have a long-term stylist. I found the longer our relationship, the more comfortable with me and the service went downhill.

[@tamarathejudeochristianmedium]

Same.

[@RachThom17]

Same

[@tamarathejudeochristianmedium]

I find that oftentimes they want women to look masculine. Like she’ll have beautiful shiny long hair and she wants to shave yours, chop, shred, color gray, making you look butch 🤣

[@RebelAlliance42]

1; they use a razor. Razors absolutely ruin my hair! 2; they use thining scissors. Same reason! That's the first thing I say when I sit down, no razors or thinning scissors.

[@sharroon7574]

Yeah especially thinning shears on the ends

[@diane5908]

Thinning shears left my ends so thin it took awhile to get my normal texture back.

[@Jennifer_Lewis_Beach_Living]

Great video! Yes, hair factories are set up to get clients in and out. They often offer inexpensive haircuts, so if I need a quick trim, I’ll go there. However, if I’m looking for something different with my hair, like a radical hair color change, a general color service or a new hair style, I’ll go to a “champagne” salon because I know that the stylist will take the time to do the job correctly.

[@rain3743]

A "trim" is still a haircut.

[@dianaholbrook]

This was such a timely video!!! Many of us are looking for new looks in the new year! I love my hairstylist as a person but I decided I needed a change for my next haircut --- due to many of the reasons you stated in your video that I had been unable to put into words. What was most irritating was that on my last haircut, the blowout was very painful. It seems to me that an experienced hairstylist should be aware that they are hurting you when they are yanking through tangles. Very un-relaxing appointment. As much as I like her, I will be moving on.

[@rain3743]

That hits home. I am a stylist and I have a super sensitive scalp and so I am very gentle with blowouts and detangling. My friend, who does my hair, has been doing it much longer and is so rough on my head. I have to say"Ow! Easy!" That's a peave of mind. Also...every single guest gets the same 7 min scalp massage. It's THE best part. The lights get dimmed, and I shut up, and give them luxury, relaxing service. I also have my own hair studio and work alone. I never stop getting education or learning new trends...and I am in my 50's. So...it depends on the pro..But great pros PRACTICE tgeir craft and, make right , any mistakes, in my opinion.

[@dianaholbrook]

@@rain3743 Nice to know I am not alone in my peave! I applaud you for speaking up and I need to do a better job of that if it happens again somewhere else. I guess I was just dumbfounded. Also I applaud how you treat your guests. I am also in my 50's and I love that you love the continual learning aspect. Those of us 50 and up are still just as interested in keeping up to date. Hairstyling is an art in my opinion and not just a routine drive-thru service. Due to all the social distancing of the past couple years, I am sure that you are aware that the 7 min scalp massages may be the only human touch the person has received in the past month. I hear this from my older widow friends a lot. They may never admit it to their stylist! Wishing the best for you and your hair studio!

[@kimgloslee7378]

Thank you for doing this video. Would you be open to doing another video on what questions to ask before you book with a stylist? Or the best way to find a great stylist without having to experiment with an actual appointment and then hating your hair after?

[@lisaswords1582]

Yes, please!

[@LittleE461]

I went to the best salon in my town for 3-1/2 years and my hair looked terrible almost every time I went. Many people would point this out. I told the stylist that my hair had become fine and frizzy now that I am older. I asked her every time what can be done to improve it. I finally had to just research on my own and learned about hair thickening lotion and leave-in conditioners. How could the stylist not know about those products??? The stylist said she had been cutting and coloring hair for 30 years!! She would only color it two colors and it looked harsh and phony. Most hair is 3 shades. So, for the last two years I've been coloring the 3 shades, in layers, myself. I cut a fairly complex layered cut, too. It is not easy. I am so happy with my hair now and it looks good all the time. That salon was such a negative experience I still get angry thinking about it.

[@cfoster6804]

I hear you!

[@babycakes8434]

I had the best haidresser for more than 10 years. Now she moved away and it is trial and error every time ughh. So I hear you. What great leave in conditioner did you discover? I use Extra Strenght Argan Oil from OGX, and Fortyfying Damage Repair, Overnight Restoring Serum with castor oil from Pantene.

[@jessieh9127]

I went to a fancy salon thinking that they must be awesome to charge so much. I left with my hair looking horrible and not anything like I asked. I found an amazing stylist at Hair Cuttery that I went to for ten years - I trusted her enough to tell her on several occasions to do whatever she wanted. She would explain what she wanted to try on me bc of my hair type/face shape and it always looked like I had spent ten times more money. Unfortunately she changed careers and I haven't found anyone close to her 🙁

[@babycakes8434]

@@jessieh9127 I hear ya. The price doesn't matter as much as talent. I hope you find somebody you love. My recent hair stylist did good job at first but then everytime it was getting worse. Also pulling my hair so much while brushing when wet😰😢😥I am going back to more expensive haidresser, who doesn't pull, knows how to color, but doesn't know how to cut 🤦‍♀️

[@jessieh9127]

@@babycakes8434 yeah it definitely takes a lot of time finding the perfect fit.... I haven't found someone since my hair stylist of ten years went into another field and that was about 9 years ago. I think I got extremely lucky having her for those ten years

[@Berriesnbels]

I didn’t even know you were supposed to be consulted first??? 😳😳 my goodness. I stopped going to a salon after the woman who had been doing my mom’s hair since I was a baby chemically fried off my hair and caused scalp damage. Absolutely ruined my self esteem for years. Walked around with cracked, fried & broken hair for 3 years. Just now grew back all the lost damage. Thank you for your advice always!!

[@diane5908]

Oh wow im so sorry. Glad your hair is back from the damage,

[@ginacheselka6086]

You are the Best stylist and I wish you were in Florida.

[@jennifervawter7737]

My personal favorite, when the stylist hands me the blow dryer and had me blow dry my own hair because they were running behind and the next client was waiting !! And I’m paying HIM?? Needless to say I’m not with him anymore!

[@businessoffice4964]

My hairdresser won’t really even style my hair…..like take a curling iron to it even after I asked her how to get a curling iron to work on my hair! And she’s the salon owner and the most expensive. It’s so frustrating.

[@jsteelelifewithjenniferste6290]

Great topic for a video, Gabi! It was great. I especially liked the part about learning and honing your craft. I've been to stylists who aren't constantly trying to improve their work and talent, and just get comfortable. I also think it's so important to be detail oriented on all customers so they get quality treatment and don't have to return in between appointments to correct issues. Care and attention go a long way!

[@jennifers1040]

Yes! My stylist has been so inconsistent that I decided last time was it. I would love my hair the first four times and have hated it the last 4. I feel so bad leaving but I can't keep paying for a cut I don't like.

[@junehouge1276]

Text messages for appointment reminders are great. I am also able to book for entire year which helps with my calendar and theirs, too. The color system used is important as well as the salon products they carry. Love one-stop shopping! Mainly, my stylist gives me a hairstyle specifically designed and unique for me. The only con is that I have to drive a few miles to get this service.

[@LB-rc7jp]

Years ago while getting a cut and color I randomly asked my stylist to give me bangs. She said, “sure, call me in two weeks and I’ll squeeze you in”. She knew it was a bad move and that I would come to my senses and she was right. I never made that call. 😀😀😀

[@GlamGirlGabi]

LOL!! She sounds like a keeper!

[@JessDEdwards]

This made me feel so lucky. My stylist is amazing. The salon is really trendy and they raised their prices just a bit because they moved to a bigger space. They grew because they're great. They have classes every Monday, they close their shop and learn more skills and have people from other states and countries come and show them things. My stylist is super trendy and is always noticing my eyes, skin tone, makeup changes, what's going on with me in general etc. If I show her an inspo she will say okay, we can do this and tweak a few things for your face shape. I've never been let down. She also keeps really detailed notes on my color so she knows exactly what was done the last appt. And they're still reasonable on price! I usually go every 4 months for a full color melt and cut and it's around $275 - $300. I think I found a great salon and stylist. Oh and multiple drinks / snacks if I want them! She's awesome

[@rain3743]

That's how to do it. My clients are all celebritjes to me. They get beverages and I will call for food delivery if it goes long and we're peckish. I keep snacks here, too. My prices are based on time and product so It's fair to everyone. My cuts are $20 less with a color service, too.

[@larsonanne]

wherrrrree? 😁

[@JessDEdwards]

@@larsonanne Alchemy hair in Orlando, Florida ❤️

[@susanruby3239]

Years ago I got a botched hair color job and I ended up with black hair and white highlights. I had long hair down the middle of my back and had been growing out my hair for several years. I was so upset about the messed up color that I almost shaved my head. I decided to just call a salon in the area where I lived and see if they did color corrections. I found a nearby salon with a stylist that also taught at the Clairol institute. She worked on my hair for 3 hours and I came out of the salon with brown hair and blonde highlights. I went to her for twenty years until she retired.

[@whitneybaxter3299]

For people who felt this way about shaving their heads after a bad hair color: NEVER EVER shave your head if you feel the color was botched. I know so many women who’ve done this only later to find out it was totally fixable. Unless there is severe lighting damage go to a stylist BEFORE taking it out on your hair. I’m so so glad she was able to give you a beautiful look❤️

[@Stacyahmad99]

My master stylist did my hair for 7 years. At first it was platinum service. After awhile she was taking haircuts and color during my appointment. If I'm paying over $300 for my service and your attention isn't on me, we have a problem. I was paying $75 for a haircut and there was only a small pinch of hair on the floor. I have naturally curly hair and everytime since I've been going natural she has been blowing and straightening my curls when I ask her not to use a iron or straightener. The last 4 times I she has burned me with the hair dryer by keeping it in the same place too long and too hot. She used to make my hair beautiful but the past year it's been going downhill. I get my roots touched up every 6 weeks which costs $150, it's over $300 if it's a total root to tip refresh. After 2 weeks all the color is gone after 4 washes. I wash 2x a week. I asked her about it and she never answered me. I then decided I was no longer going to that salon anymore and have been doing my own root touch ups and refresh. I am currently looking for a new stylist that will give me her undivided attention and not be doing other clients on my time. 🥰

[@jennpiach]

O my head gets burnt everytime I've gotten it blow dried and they rise u withschilding hot water, which should be cool to close the cuticle.

[@aenigmatica8]

I love that you’re open about your mistakes and you don’t beat yourself up about them. Goals!

[@natashajohnson186]

I’m sorry I couldn’t watch to the end of this video . I had such a bad experience I won’t go into it . But it’s nearly 10 years on and I still shudder with anxiety . I only go to hairdressers friends recommend I even question them , why do u like her , how long have u know her , does anyone else we know go to her/him …. when I find one I trust I stay there , until they leave . I don’t care that the others hairstylists in the salon know me . They didn’t cut my hair . I look and find one . Damn I’m looking for one now . My hairdresser is on maternity leave I hope all the best ! She’s taking a year off . Such a sweetheart… hello from Sydney Australia

[@cupcake110473]

I had one stylist burning my scalp as she was drying my. Rolled her eyes at me when I told her it was too hot and burning me.

[@wendybarker590]

I have just stumbled upon your video, and you are amazing! Such perfect timing, having cancelled my appointment with my hairdresser (of the last 4 years) last week. I felt invisible, taken for granted, ending up with cuts that were a clone (cookie cutter) of the person in the chair before me, in fact for all the reasons highlighted in your video. Wearing hearing aids, I'd repeatedly asked for a cut that would add width to my rectangular face which would also cover my ears. Instead the result was really short layers that accentuated my really fine hair and everything I was hoping to disguise. Thank you so much! 💓 I feel so much better now. Have subscribed.

[@kaseywebb770]

I've been loyal to several different hairstylists for the past 14 years and out of those, I've left one for a really trashy color transition and two others for being extremely heavy handed on my freshly bleached hair. All the others got married, moved away or moved to a new salon. I have to say, the absolute worst experience is seeing clumps of your hair thrown to the floor because of a careless character.

[@nmc1859]

Yes. They aren't really called to do this

[@hnb1113]

I'm so glad I found your video! Before the pandemic, I had been seeing the same stylist for about 4 years. She was great at color, but I found myself wanting to try something other than the lob I was growing out. I showed her a picture of a long cut with face-framing layers. Simple. Unfortunately, I ended up with the same cut I had before. After sitting in her chair for almost 3 hours I was just ready to go home. I tried again on our next visit to explain exactly what I wanted. I also showed her a picture for emphasis. Again, I walked out with what looked like the same cut I walked in with! I started realizing that lob cuts were her comfort zone and that I was likely never going to get what I asked for. During the pandemic, I learned to cut my hair at home and actually liked it more than what I was paying all that money for. I'm hoping that the next stylist I see with be a better listener and open to trying new things.

[@MusicLover-sb7mo]

You are an exceptional communicator. A skill the client and stylist both need to perfect in order to have a harmonious and successful relationship. Wish we could clone you where we live!

[@susanjones4954]

It's annoying when the stylist spends the entire appointment gossiping with the other stylists. I feel like I'm interrupting when I need to say something. That's not cool. 😒

[@GlamGirlGabi]

I agree. I absolutely HATE that too.

[@juliegoerke721]

What a timely video! I just switched to a new stylist who is very knowledgeable about color which is so important as my hair got badly damaged from the previous stylist. I have my hair double-processed meaning that I have to get my roots done for gray coverage and highlights so that I can be blonde. My natural hair color would be considered light brown. I liked that she worked quickly putting in the foils, but the results were not consistent. She said that I needed to sit under the hair dryer because my hair was “resistant”. The past few months, I have noticed my hair becoming more unmanageable and frizzy with frazzled pieces at the crown and in the front bang area. I mentioned them and she asked me if I put my glasses on top of my head. I said occasionally, but in all of my years of getting my hair done, I have never had this type of damage. We also have hard water where I live, so I know that contributes also. She also blamed the hard water. After realizing my damage is chemical (also confirmed by new salon), I texted her to cancel my appointment and made an appointment at the new salon. I realize that by having chemical services done on my hair that I am exposing my hair to damage and I can accept that. However, isn’t the stylist responsible for not damaging my hair? My new stylist said that heat shouldn’t be used unless you are trying to do a high lift which we weren’t trying to do. I think the former stylist was trying to fit in as many clients as she could to make more money. She was not expensive and now I know why! I also mentioned a shampoo to remove hard water deposits from Living Proof that I had been using and she was not familiar with the brand! Shouldn’t hairstylists stay current with products as well as techniques.? I should have known better when the salon was lacking in cleanliness and the clientele were much older than me and I don’t think the stylist has any interest in being current. Anyway, I really like the new stylist. We had a conversation about the condition of my hair not being able to handle any bleaching for a while and when I am ready, she will judiciously place them where needed. The salon also carries many product lines; however, I did not feel pressured into buying them. They were very helpful in suggesting a regimen and I bought travel sizes to make sure the products work before investing in the full sizes. I am so happy to have found someone who is interested in the condition of my hair and that we have a plan going forward. Communication is key!

[@dorigotzmann1948]

How do you find a good stylist!? 😢 I’ve struggled with this so much… I’ve restored to giving myself cuts at home and hating it, going to a stylist to fix it and seeing no difference. I love your videos, thank you so much for putting up such good content.

[@ariel4065]

As a newer stylist myself, this was great information👍Thank you! In my prior profession and this profession, I found this philosophy to be the best of all... you can be, and should be, kind to ANYONE for 5 minutes, 15 minutes, 2 hours, regardless of circumstances. It will benefit them to experience kindness, but will ultimately benefit you - your business will grow, you will be less likely to be sued (as in my previous career) and/or slandered if the client felt cared for, and it's simply an easier and healthier way to move through life🌺

[@heidirosin5577]

I LOVE my stylist! She's communicative. She educates me on what will or won't work. She respects and loves that I educate myself watching educational hair videos so I can communicate better in stylist language AND she lets me bring my own products and towel to use! And if I want to show her how I do something to my hair - like doing it curly with the diffuse or straight with some bend she lets me and then takes back over so she can learn. She's all about teamwork and being a partner not a dictator when it comes to hair. Also she loves her calling as a stylist and it shows in her results. I feel truly blessed to have found her!

[@beth6703]

Thank you for this video. I've been frustrated with the salon I've been going to and this convinced me I should change it up. No matter what I would suggest, it seemed that they would always do the minimum to get me in and out and still charge a fortune.

[@laureradloff1616]

Great information! Let me add one thing as a 63 year old stylist of forty years. I no longer have the stamina to do four hour colors. Thats not unusual as we age. I will refer those long hair clients to another stylist that enjoys that type of work. However, it doesnt make me invalid as a stylist, just realistic :)

[@GlamGirlGabi]

Hey Laure! The great thing about this is that you WILL REFER to someone who will and you won’t make up excuses as to why it’s not possible. That’s the key. It’s clear that you care about your clients if you send them to someone else when they want something you aren’t able to do anymore. I do this ALL THE TIME. I’m not good at pixies so whenever a client wants an amazing pixie, I refer them to someone who is great at it. The client will always come back to you when they know you care about them and want them to be happy.

[@rain3743]

It IS hard on the body. I learned some better placements to work smarter and get a blondes result without a zillion foils. I work alone in my own hair studio on my farm, and I wear super comfy shoes. I'm a little younger, so there may come that time when I refer the big jobs to the younger stylists I know. I know a.lot of them as I have only been doing hair 15 yrs and went to beauty school at age 40. I have more stamina than some half my age. They"l have to pry the tint brush from my cold, fead hands.

[@VikkiBounds]

I've had a few stylists I loved (1 was even a friend) since living where we do but sadly they've all moved out of state. Lol. One was so great bc like you said, she was honest & told me no when I mentioned wanting a cut I'd seen on a local news anchor. We were never in town for one & apparently that woman had that same cut for YEARS. (Funny too it's been almost 20 years since then & that woman STILL has that identical cut!;; Lol. My stylist had said it was an out of date cut & she said it wouldn't be my best choice. I appreciated & respected her so much for that

[@stefaniecolapinto]

My sister is just diagnosed with breastcancer, last week we went to a salon specialised in wigs and hairpieces, and they also do a cut before you lose your hair. My sister had really long hair so this decision was no joke. The owner really breezed through the cut, making her look so old…didn’t even offer us a drink, was chasing after her little dog in between cutting…afterwards we kinda were both in shock I guess…You would think that a person owning a salon specifically for people dealing with probably the most difficult period in their life would be more sensitive…I’m really into hair but nowhere near a professional, but I actually fixed her hair afterwards…my sister was so happy that I took my time for her.

[@stefaniecolapinto]

The owner was not all bad though, she was really nice and all..when I told her I wanted to try to make a hairpiece myself out of my sister’s hair she actually gave me some lace and tips…but the rest was just…weird 😬

[@GlamGirlGabi]

I’m really sad that you had that experience. I had an appointment yesterday with someone who is going though extreme hair loss and I had to cut all the remaining hair off and help her with the new wig as well. These experiences are traumatizing for someone and completely and utterly heartbreaking. You need someone who will sit and take the time to listen to you, be there for you, cry with you and be completely free of distractions. I’m so on sorry that she had that experience and I really wish that I could have been there for her on that day.

[@stefaniecolapinto]

@@GlamGirlGabi Well, we live in Belgium, so coming to you wasn’t really an option 😅 but you’re so sweet, and I’m happy to know that they’re still people out there that take their job seriously and that I can learn from them.

[@GlamGirlGabi]

@@stefaniecolapinto Absolutely. I'm sending you both a hug from Canada.

[@jennyrose9454]

I'm sorry. I pray your sister recovers! I was st a notary who let het puppy chew on peoples shoes. Pets should not be running around its not sanitsry.

[@m.p.6039]

I live in Lisbon and I've never had a positive experience with hairdressers, whenever I asked them for anything beyond brushing. I got tired of looking for one place where I could get decent customer service. I just started cutting my own hair at home and I've never looked back.

[@susannewicht7570]

So did I. They cut my hair shorter than I wanted, made my round face even rounder, there was too little volume on the top of my head... Horrible! So I gave it up and decided to do it myself, too. I had tried four or five stylists, and none of them managed to get my hair done they way I wanted it to look... 😒😔

[@Ms7of8]

Likewise. Since I was a teenager, I've had horrible and, many times, traumatizing experiences with hairdressers. When I was coming of age, very long, stick straight, parted in the middle hair was just about the only game in town. Then the Farrah Fawcett 'do. Well I had fine, although lots of, extremely curly/frizzy hair. They didn't know what to do with it. One male hairdresser suggested I get a buzz cut, which was horribly upsetting as a teenager. I had a small reprieve in the 80s, then everything came crashing down again in the mid-90s up until now. I mostly cut and dye my own hair. Last time I went to the salon was last summer, and she charged me over $200 for a trim and color (which came out looking brassy and awful). I don't know if I will ever go to a "professional" again.

[@michellewei7349]

One time I had a hairdresser take a phone call and hand me the hair dryer to dry my own hair. I found that quite unprofessional.

[@cfoster6804]

😲 No way!

[@MandieTerrier]

I am only halfway through, if your stylist has one hairstyle. No matter what picture you take. You get that hairstyle. I guess that goes with doesn't keep learning. That's how I got a mullet

[@GlamGirlGabi]

Yup! The cookie cutter stylist that just does the same thing over and over and over again. That is never a good sign. Customization is essential.

[@nolasfamily3913]

This is coming from a former licensed cosmetologist, ME :) This is a very honest video from you, similar to Ellebangs, telling the truth to help those who can not afford to go to the salon frequently. May I add to your list, some stylists or colorists want to do what they think looks best, not what the customer is paying them for and colorists who go for those short cuts of foiling the top and bottom layers and skipping the middle and when the wind blows, it doesn't look fluid. Just sayin' Gabi! Have a great day & keep telling the truth. Thumbs Up!

[@rain3743]

Most stylists I know, now, including myself , charge for time and product. The client needs to understand that fluid, blended looks from highlights means babylight or fine weave full head of highlights. That can take 2 hours just to foil. Clients with complex looks or tons of hair will take longer. Also, a good colorist reformulates each time they see your hair, paying attn. to what they're looking at. Yes, we write it down but formulas need to be adjusted, sometimes. The consultation should include approx time and cost before doing the work, so the service can be adjusted to their budget. Clients can take my whole day if they want to pay for that time.

[@stellarjazz6426]

I appreciate this video. I recently moved and had to find a new stylist. I thought I had vetted her well enough but I left with a bad cut and so much tonner in my hair it took 5 washes to get it all out. I'm a med/dark blonde and have been doing various types of lighter blonde highlights for over 20 years and this is the first time ever I walked out with toner in my hair!!! My hair was down to my waist this time and wanted I to take about 5 inches off...she didn't want to take the time combing out the tangles so started cutting some of them out...and I think it was too short and now I have a weird layer in the back that is too short. She took about 8 inches off and it's shorter than I wanted. Will not return.

[@HRwoeking]

I finally found *the* stylist. He listened to me, I was up to date, he cut phenomenally (the first time I went to him he cut like 10” off my hair, and as someone who has literally cried too many times in the salon it was amazing because I LOVED it) I didn’t even care I had to drive two hours. THEN he left to work for Dior in the capital (5 hours away) and I haven’t been able to replace him. I have curly hair & he was the only one who understood where to put the layers so I didn’t look like a triangle! I’m still mourning the loss of Junior. If he ever comes back. I will be the first person on his books! (Stylists in my local area are very stale. They can highlight, perm & set. Not much more! The problems with living in the middle of nowhere!)

[@stacyklein2497]

Can you do a video on things to ask is to ask going through consultation. And different conversations to keep conversation goingDuring long processing

[@dawnfrye4343]

This was great to know, I’m going to a new stylist tomorrow, my prior stylist doesn’t suck but I’ve always wanted to go to a curly hair specialist and I finally found one in my area so I’m excited to see the difference with my cut & color.

[@bfrbguide-skinpickinghairp8242]

I've been really enjoying your videos. Thank you! Professional, direct, but friendly

[@maialowell7894]

Great video! I have had multiple types of the stylists you have covered. My first stylist I went to for years when I got platinum blonde highlights in highschool but I grew out of that. Balayages are of course the new thing and that’s what I wanted to move towards and she completely butchered it. I think she’s just old school and doesn’t keep up with the trends so I left in hopes of finding someone more fresh. My second stylist I went to briefly I ended up leaving because of her being unprofessional and rude. She would constantly yell at me to give her tension and was so picky with how I held my head. Lastly, I found my current stylist who is amazing! She co-owns the salon. She is young, fresh, current with the trends, and takes her time doing my hair. She comes in special on saturdays to do my hair (when she normally doesn’t work saturdays) and gives out mimosas! We click so well and I’m so glad I found her!

[@gabyjimenez4818]

Awesome warning signs. I was trying to figure out who you looked like! Rochelle from selling sunset !

[@GlamGirlGabi]

Oh you think so? That’s such a compliment. She’s so beautiful.

[@pistachiosandpopcorn7146]

As far as color...how bout the ol "We'll get it next time. It takes time". And next time you go "We're getting there...just give me a few times to get to know your hair". And you finally leave for good and not come back...it is not right and never was right and it's 3 years later. It doesn't take a stylist 3 years and counting ..time to figure out how to dye an ash blonde/light brownish to medium brownish woman to light blonde. Don't fall for the "I'm gonna put this glaze on because it looks yellow" either! Get a stylist that uses the purple shampoo on you after and doesn't charge 20 bucks for it. I totally appreciate your warnings of bad hair stylists because even though some might watch this and say "well duh"...it's not always as obvious to some of us. I spent years not realizing I had a bad stylist. ALSO...when I did leave I went to a lady that did what I wanted first shot and for half (no exaggeration) of the price! OH another thing...if they have their assistant call you to let you know a price that you actually texted the actual hair stylist for...be weary. Mostly..if that assistant gives you a price..make that hair stylist honor it or go elsewhere. And don't fall for the "I had to use more bleach" line EVERY TIME. It's ok for that to happen once..but every time to be told that? Don't they know that after a couple of times and should tell you when they price it out for you right away????

[@pistachiosandpopcorn7146]

BTW I left when I saw a big patch of grey left (because I'm getting some grey now underneath) after paying 200 dollars for my hair. The lady I have now is 105 for full hair done and 95 for roots and includes the haircut. I hit the jackpot. Keep in mind this was after her assistant called and told me my hair would cost 110 and it somehow magically went up to 200 and the excuse was "Oh my assistant didn't know what she was talking about"

[@mulliganstew72]

Oh yeah, “keep coming back”… love that line. I feel like telling them this is in an AA meeting. I don’t want to keep coming back.

[@stuartpierce121]

What I hate when they what big money. Then what you in and out as soon as possible. I use to be a hairstylist so I know the business. Thanks Jennifer 🤩

[@pollysshore2539]

I have very thick, dense wavy - curly hair. I get very nervous when I check out a salon and see nothing but balayage on clients with straight hair that has been slightly waved with a curling iron. Don’t get me wrong! I do take the time to look at the color services they provide. I appreciate the work that they do. I can see pictures of their work and know that they take pride in providing a fantastic color service. I also know they might be a one trick pony. I know that they will not have products for curly hair or a diffuser in sight. When I see pictures of stations that have Dyson (I love mine) and other hair dryers with every attachment EXCEPT the diffuser I know I am not going into a curly friendly space. This is a common problem where I live. I know that they will most likely offer to straighten and “re curl” my hair, which is absurd. I know they will want to pull out thinning sheers. I recently went to a new stylist and came prepared. I had a huge bag full of diffusers, and products and they were all needed. My suspicions were correct (because I’m 46 and this isn’t my first rodeo). The stylist does a beautiful job with color. This I knew from the pictures of her work. I told her I do not straighten my hair often at all. I’ll go years without doing it and only straighten my hair 1-2 times a year when I get a wild hair. She offered to straighten and curl it with a curling iron 🤦🏼‍♀️ I was so nervous going in. I was sure it would be like my last 5 salon experiences. I would go once, would have to bring everything needed and they would never schedule another appointment with me again even though I requested a layer cut/shape up, highlights and a colored gloss. Nothing insane. The new stylist ended up surprising me. She was very excited and interested in learning more about wavy - curly hair. She asked me to send her videos of my favorite curly hair stylists/specialists on KZbin. She was thrilled that I came prepared. She did a wonderful cut, and mixed up a beautiful gloss that complemented and freshened up my dark blonde hair. That was all I wanted done this time. I did see if she was open to “highlighting” with demi hair color because I would like to move away from bleach. She was. I appreciated it more than she knows. She’s a very sweet girl! Early 20s, recently out of school, and willing to expand her client base. *I’ll add that I’m a 911 dispatcher. I’ve been working 12 hour swing shifts for 18, almost 19 years. Who has the time to straighten their curly hair and then re curl it with a curling iron? Not me! I have no interest in doing it either. I love my mix of waves and curls. I don’t need uniform waves and I don’t want my hair to be a conformist 🤣

[@mulliganstew72]

I was just commenting the same sentiments on another thread. No experience or inkling of trying to learn about thick curly wavy hair textures. At home I air dry overnight (and it will still be wet in the morning ) then lightly dry in am. & go to straight in with the curling iron…no blowing it out straight because it’s so time, consuming all end up with tennis elbow three hours later, in the fall of phrase on my head. Plus it adds adds another layer of damage. Although at the salon I get they’re gonna blow it out at a salon….but it usually takes two of them lol

[@mulliganstew72]

Ps-thank you for what you do.

[@williamcharles8628]

I worked at a hair factory type salon, I had just moved back to Texas, right after salons just opened at full capacity. Every client was new to me, alot of clients I was getting haven't had a service in at least 6months to a year , once I noticed that " trend "and running behind I asked for extra time, cuz I was basically starting from scratch on every client. Nope, they flipped the script pointed the finger at me saying I was slow. So it got to the point I would go work with butterflies ,and that I just got pulled over, and may have a warrent, sick feeling in stomach. I couldn't take the anxiety so I bounced

[@MelindaMassie]

I ADORE my current stylist. Last fall I had to cancel my appointment because I was cast in a TV show and would be filming that day. I wasn't sure when filming would be over and didn't want to reschedule just to cancel again. Especially since he's so booked out that he's not taking new clients right now. He said to just message him when filming was over and he'd squeeze me back in. It's such a little thing, but it made me feel so valued and important. I have so many stories of little things he does that's wonderful, as well as his actual hair skills, that I could turn this comment into a novella of praise!

[@kimberleychavelle9426]

You are amazing 🤩 I love everything you said. I had a wonderful experience in a deva salon in NYC. They made me feel great 👍🏻 the only problem was they really pushed there products. I let her know I was from out of town and couldn’t bring them on the plane ✈️. She eventually stopped. Being I could get the same products at home. It still was a good experience. My old stylist said she couldn’t highlight my hair they way I wanted, she said it wouldn’t work. I sure she didn’t want to take the time to do it. Thanks for all the great info 🤗💕

[@ashleyk3602]

So happy to have my current stylist, but I’ve had some nightmare hairstylists for sure. I’ll never forget the one time where I asked for a trim and the person cut about 7 inches bc she wanted to “surprise” me.

[@sarahsambucini7271]

Great Video! On the flip side. I'm a client who knows my hair, not how to change it, but knows my hair. I went to a stylist for a body wave, stylist accused my of already doing it, being my hair had a bit of a wave, also I have natural highlights, she accused me of highlighting my hair also. I thought bad stylist, If I say and insist never chemically treated my hair, I didn't. I would not lie about it and get more chemicals put in! (after your video though, I can kind of see where she came from) First stylist I ever went to, I had hair to my knees. Even cut, thick and long. I tried dying my hair myself, oops! It turned several different colors. I had to have it stripped back to blonde. The next day, couldn't get a brush through last 4 inches. Sat in another stylist chair, she proceeded to cut off 4 feet. Needless to say, I cringe alot when in a chair.... You are great though, nothing to you love, Thank you for your informative video :-)

[@jennyrose9454]

I had to get so much hair chopped off today because of several stylists not cutting my hair even. Choppy pieces and uneven. And they damaged my hair by putting my bleach highlights under the dryer. I found a curl specialist but now I have to wait till my hair grows out to see her in like 6-8 months. Wish I'd gone to her first😭. Thank you for these tips.

[@achaley4186]

Thanks Gabi, great vid…all boils down to humility and service. 🙏🏼❤️😊

[@thefrontierfamily3495]

The first lady I went to took the whole afternoon on me, listened to me, was great. But...m hair didn't lift!! So she charged me half price and I walked away looking no different. So I went to another gal who specialized in blonding...she rushed through and it ended up with just a few highlights that were very orange. She didn't have time to fix it so I booked with another lady who promised me she could get me what a wanted. She got me brighter but rushed through it and was doing other clients at the same time!! It still wasn't what I wanted and I think she used a really HIGH developer because my hair is breaking off and coming out everyday. Also she trimmed off 3 inches when I was insisted on no trim. She literally cut it off and said "I know you said no trim but this is just a dusting"...3 inches is not a dusting. I give up!! No more color and no more stylists.

[@maijabirkmane669]

I cut my hair at my hairdresser for 2 years now, and every single time when i came, she doesn't remember me! Its time to change the hairstylist!

[@luciatat4084]

never heard of such a case...maybe she had short term memory...

[@luanminitti1177]

Some hair stylists suffer from a high level of narcissism and it REALLY shows. These stylists will never have a client base that will grow. In ANY profession, it doesn’t matter how great you are because there will always be someone better 💁🏻‍♂️

[@tamarathejudeochristianmedium]

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[@luanminitti1177]

As a customer, you have every right to complain. You’re paying money for a service and you expect it to be great. Of course, human errors happen and perfection is often unattainable (like the unrealistic expectation of being able to go from black to blonde in one sitting with minimal damage). But for a stylist to behave in such a way that any sort of criticism against her is viewed as an outright ATTACK is hardly a stylist I’d ever care to visit again. Good on you for standing your ground, and I wish you the best in finding a stylist. Having a mom who hasn’t had much luck with stylists due to English being her second language (A LOT of stylists are racist, call it what you will. Discriminating against someone’s English is not okay, especially when that person is clearly trying), I know it can be tough to find a stylist!

[@ewapaulinska267]

You are just amazing ❤️ thanks for sharing this tips

[@janicesaccomanno5971]

How about being nice? An upscale salon I was going to had attitude and acted like they were doing you a favor taking your money.

[@Evolve_with_jen]

I had the same hairstylist from 1998 to 2021 literally every 28 days for cut and color. Towards the end she had a bad attitude and stopped treating me like a new client with care. Then menopause made my stick straight hair go fabulously curly. I did research and realized I needed a curly cut specialist which my hairdresser was not. Part of me was glad to be getting a new one. I had a consultation with who on yelp was touted as amazing for curly girls. During the consultation we discussed having an olaplex treatment as I had just bleached the 30 years of red hair out to my natural blond/grey and ,u hair was damaged big time. The day of my appt she yelled at me as I came with clean non styled hair. She never told me to come with my hair styled to see how my curls were. She started cutting and I asked her how do you know what to cut if my hair isn’t curly? She had no answer. Then it came time for the olaplex. Whoops we don’t have any/why did I have a consultation 2 weeks earlier? So they sent someone to go to the store and she kept cutting!!!! I ended up with the big chop without as,I got for it. It was uneven awful. They charged me for a product I didn’t want and got mad when I made them refund me. I complained to the manager who when found out I didn’t want my money back didn’t care at all. The second curly stylist was a bit better but the third one I found is amazing and my hair is so curly and healthy and she treats me well and teaches me how to style as I still have no idea what I’m doing. This was a great video. Sorry for such a long comment

[@rosed4304]

It wasn't until living in Europe that I learned to take an interest in how my stylist worked their magic and started having conversations with them about my hair goals etc... Coming back to the US I definitely became a lot more particular about salons and stylists, appreciating you get what you pay for a lot more, I found myself putting an emphasis on building a partnership with my stylist. My worst experiences with stylists have been when I have had no real idea what I wanted to do and allowed a new stylist who didn't really know me do whatever they wanted, a recipe for disappointment!

[@leighhuggins5030]

I LOVE my hairstylist. I've been with him over 3 years now and I won't let anyone else touch my hair lol. I tip him GENEROUSLY and he 100% deserves every $500 hair appointment he gets!

[@MaryBethMcCoy]

This was a really insightful video. Thanks for sharing!

[@GlamGirlGabi]

You’re welcome! Thanks for coming and hanging out with me :)

[@myelectrolysisexperience7254]

I thought there’s going to be something a little less obvious. Like technicalities regular people might not know. Like maybe “if hairstylist dries your hair at a straight angle” or something like that.

[@karenarias2711]

One problem with hairstylists that Ive always had is that they dont take the time to hear to learn about my hair. Ive had my hair all my life, i know how it dries, when it gets frizzy, how it curls with different amounts of layers, how it looks like the second day after washing. Ive gotten told before that things wont work with my hair or that the pictures i showed them are how it looks like styled and not how my hair will ever look like this on its own. Im not asking for much lol usually i just want a U shape cut with 2 long layers and face framing curtain bangs. (To have that blow out look) now my hair is really wavy 2c almost 3a hair the moment its washed but the next day it turns into 2a -2b hair. Most of the time i repeat my styles so i know it works with my hair and theres always someone telling me it wont work, when ive clearly had it and had been happy with it before. Its frustrating to know that I need to settle for what they give me instead of them trusting me that the haircut i am asking for is something that works with my hair and has worked many times before.

[@rustygold598]

Thanks so much for this information. This was awesome!

[@angie8896]

#11?? A stylist that is taking you from a medium brown to platinum blonde and never asks what you've been using on your hair, especially just after salons were allowed to reopen. We were all using box dye!! And possibly shampoos/conditioners that may interact with the brand of bleach or color they are using. Then they blame you when your hair burns off. I didn't go to school for this, how would I ever know?? Also, the stylist that puts chemicals in your hair and gets sidetracked by another client and leaves the chemicals on far too long and/or doesn't come and check how quickly you are or are not processing.

[@angiegavin1999]

Hi Gabi, Thank you for being so helpful and down to earth. I wish you could do my hair !!! 😉

[@GlamGirlGabi]

Thanks for such a sweet message Angie! I wish I could do your hair too :)

[@lisaswords1582]

Me too!! ❤️

[@angeln2631]

Another great video.....I wish you were my hair stylist, having no luck I seem to attract the hair factorY situation!!! can you move to Australia please...he he he! xxx

[@interlocution6619]

All 100% correct. Thank you for doing tis.

[@janestwocents6938]

This was so helpful and fascinating! I had a stylist who just set me right diwn at washbasin without talking to me, assuming she knew what the job was. I hadn't even been going to her that long. Maybe six or eight months? I just assumed it was because she was experienced, because she was, but I realize now she was just over it. a kind person, but ready to hang up her scissors i think. So she wouldn't really check in with me each time when I arrived. i wear a textured pixue and she would return to tools that i said left my hair weird...it is hard to leave, but we do eventually. so awkward....

[@leecrespi5162]

For many years I stayed with a stylist because he gave me a beautiful cut but all he ever talked about were his other clients, particularly famous ones. It drove me nuts and made me feel like I was nobody. I finally got up the nerve to find someone else and my current stylist is very relatable and we have great chats. Plus I still get a great cut.

[@buggy627]

Gabi is a truly caring stylist 💕 anyone lucky enough to go to you I hope they appreciate it!! I wish you lived in the same country as me 😭

[@kellye.5678]

You make amazing points. The hair salon I went to placed the bleach on my hair nicely but they didn't care that my hair got damaged. She kept pulling the paddle brush roughly through my fragile bleached hair and there was a ton of broken hair in the brush. The blend is nice but they were too rough and didn't customize the bleaching process for my hair. I told them the second half of my hair was bleached a year ago and they still put the bleach on it for 50 minutes even though the strand test lightened in 10. That's why it broke off.

[@AndreaShink]

great vid. I have an AMAZING STYLIST~~~!!! I love her, am grateful for her, and I tell her so all the time!

[@theteal123]

I have been getting my hair blown out every sat for 25 years and cut by her 25 years. I decided to try a new shag with my fine hair and I hated it. Layers were too short. I asked for a redo and my hairdresser said that I should find someone else to do my hair. This happened 6 months ago and I still have not gotten over how mean someone can be, when I tipped and gave her complements on her talent for years. I am in pa and cannot find anyone that can make my hair look good.

[@GlamGirlGabi]

I am so sorry that happened. That must have been really heart breaking for you. Shags do have short layers. They are very in style at the moment but I am not a big fan of them either and I don't think they work for a lot of people. A select few can rock them but they are definitely a look that you need to be brave to get. I had a client get it done once with another stylist (truthfully because I don't know how to cut them very well and I suggested she go to someone who does) and she absolutely HATED it too. I wonder why your stylist let you go as a client. Did you ask her for any feedback? That is really upsetting.

[@theteal123]

@@GlamGirlGabi my stylist told receptionist that I should find someone else. I thought that we were friends. Very devstating.

[@GlamGirlGabi]

@@theteal123 Wow she didn't even speak to you herself? Yikes. That is horrible. I am so sorry that happened to you.

[@kate7621]

Where in Pa

[@theteal123]

@@kate7621 My stylist was in Philadelphia, although I live in Doylestown, PA. If you know someone very good, please let me know. I have been trying out different people every week and find it very frustrating.

[@dreambrush7251]

I once had this hairstylist that refused to colour my hair pink. And it wasn't about the bleaching, because she was fine with bleaching my hair, the hair wasn't overly damaged but she insisted so much that it wouldn't look good on me for some reason. It took my sister to come in and convince her but even after that she didn't do pink, she did like a strawberry blonde which i guess was nice but it wasn't what I wanted so instead i bought one of those box dyes to make my hair colour pop more. I don't know why some hairstylists are this weird and I guess given what you said about them not saying no, they might think that I would regret it but both me and my sister insisted and she was STILL like "uhm, no, i wouldn't suit you"

[@catchmybreak]

Yeah like if you asked for a certain cut and she gave you examples as to why it wouldn't be a good fit, sure.. but to say no to a hair color is weird. I hope you liked the color after you did it yourself!

[@VoxyPop518]

I went to a fairly expensive salon that focuses on curly hair some years ago. Besides the fact that the cut was just meh, the stylist started putting little clips into the hair before drying, apparently for volume? I still don't know. When I told the stylist nicely I'm never going to use those because I tend to wash and go she was super annoyed. She didn't even bother to ask anything about my routine. I have found a great stylist now and I would never go to anyone else.

[@mulliganstew72]

That cracks me up with a little clips. They try to section in quadrants of four & I’m like you’re gonna need to Multiply that equation &. Scale up if you’re gonna get in there and do a good job but they don’t. They don’t do a good job.

[@maryannbarker4823]

I couldn’t agree with you more!

[@zitaschuessler4902]

now........how do we find a great stylist???? I have found most stylists are great on color but no one I mean no one knows how to cut!! Thank you for these tips great video.