Life Update: Am I Getting Divorced?

[@Mixedmakeup]

Hi everyone! Thank you for the supportive comments. I have especially seen them come through via DM on Instagram. Just noting I filmed this prior to any fires in Los Angeles. ❤

[@tc7909]

Thank you for trusting us to share a bit of your private life. No explanation needed. It’s between you and your partner. As long as you’re happy it’s best thing. Being happy also makes you a better parent and person. Here’s to a new start!

[@idalarsson4729]

The only right thing for the children is to have happy parents. Children notice so much more than parents realise and pick up. Often we sit with our devices, working or just scrolling. I wish you all the happiness in this new era of life! 💕

[@Letty.Noguera]

I just love that you’ve gotten to a point where you’re successful, you’re a mom and you’re focusing on yourself 💖 love this for you!

[@Makeupbynikkilarose]

I clicked this video so fast for many reasons, mainly because I MISS YOU! And I’m so here for happy, sexy SUSAN!!!!!

[@Mixedmakeup]

Love you Nikki!

[@mominachowdhury7734]

@mixedmakeup what blush did you use and shade?

[@carolinek220]

HRT (hormone replacement therapy) has changed my life. I’m 51 years old now, but I can look back into my mid 40s and see the signs of my hormones changing. If I could go back in time, I would start HRT earlier. It started for me with anxiety and sleepless nights. To say I was a horrible sleeper is an understatement. I was in a job that I actually thought I had PTSD, but looking back with hindsight, it was more than likely hormone related. Several years later, the plantar fasciitis started, the aches and pains in my joints, weight gain, foggy brain and eventually the mechanics of intimacy started to go awry. All this to say is check those hormones girl! 44 is still young, but like I said with all the experience I have now with the relief I get from HRT, I wish I would’ve started it sooner! Creatine is also a game changer!

[@LondonSunflower]

My same experience, HRT has been the best thing for me and huge improvements for my health 😊

[@vhelma21945]

Yes! Absolutely! The same here, my Perimenopause started btw when I was 40-42 yrs

[@tarski7420]

How did you go about checking your hormones? Was it a blood test? My doctor won’t put me on hrt until after I go through menopause but I’ve been dealing with anxiety & insomnia & brain fog for the last 10 years

[@NataliaPessoaXOXOMAKE]

@@tarski7420go see an obgyn or an endocrinologist

[@morena1682yc]

@@tarski7420change Dr. it basically comes down to that

[@9806evelyn]

I’ve seen my mother be in an unhappy marriage (with my father) and stay because she thought it was the best for her children, It was not. After their separation, she also glowed and I felt so proud of her. As moms, we tend to look out for everyone else but ourselves. It’s completely valid to be selfish sometimes and look out for our happiness.

[@NataliaPessoaXOXOMAKE]

Same! I ended up resenting my father a lot because of it

[@rachel-beaubien]

I had the same experience with my mom! ❤️

[@Mixedmakeup]

Thank you for this note. I appreciate it!

[@nadiamikhaylova8967]

wow i really needed to hear this

[@steph5308]

Yeah same here

[@ahdb6220]

So many women immediately have a glow up after leaving a marriage ❤ I’m so happy for you❤

[@lizzyp679]

Your makeup changes that you have acquired due to natural aging changes (crows feet), are exactly what I've had to change as well. Really appreciate you normalizing and educating on this! :) you say it so nonchalant that it makes it feel like no big deal- LOVED that! Thank you :)

[@Mixedmakeup]

It’s not a big deal! Aging is a privilege!

[@RickSkin]

Ended a 7 year relationship in august that was also amicable. While we're best friends now, we kept running into the same initial problems romantically and while they weren't enough to break us over the 7 years it became a question of if there could be someone out there just that bit more compatible. It was also necessary for both of us as we had gotten very comfortable and now we're both extremely motivated to make our lives better independently. Its exciting when you open yourself up to more opportunities and I commend you for making that decision with so much invested. Weighing those options can be so difficult.

[@Goodhairday181]

I love all of this! So wonderful to hear you’re prioritizing your health and happiness, Susan. I’m also in my early 40’s, happily divorced and taking the best care of my physical and mental health ever. Cheers to all the strong, independent women in their “sexy era.” ❤✨

[@Mixedmakeup]

Sexy era 2025 for both of us 💪

[@fu4realtalk952]

You look fantastic (as usual) and I’m in awe of your courage and strength, saluting your decision to start afresh! If you decide to talk more about the divorce, I’ll be tuning in as I always wonder how and when people know it’s time to let it go. I hope you manage to make it work the best for both yourself and your family!

[@veronicaivanova]

This is certainly a very brave decision! Well done for realising what's best for you! It's really nice you mentioned people shouldn't talk badly of your (ex)husband and that nothing bad happened. I hope you stay friendly, if not friends both for your kids and for your history. You created 2 amazing children.

[@notdestinym]

Found you in 2020 and you transformed my skin. Love seeing this glow about you now. That fun side to you would peek out before, but you're lighter and even more fun! Sending you love and can't wait for your next chapter, whatever that looks like for you

[@emagnusson6479]

Happy parents who can communicate with eachother and not talk crap about eachother will be sooo much better for child 🙌🙌🙌

[@Mixedmakeup]

For sure! It’s the goal

[@Noor-kp1yb]

@@Mixedmakeupgood luck with that and well done. unfortunately I don’t have this co parenting relationship with my ex husband I’m bring up our toe kids myself and I’m fine with that rather than being forever let down.Stay strong

[@aliciarubio8191]

This fills me with inspiration and so much pride to see how intelligent and successful and true to yourself you are. So happy for you!

[@A14BYT]

Soo happy you posted - really missed your videos - all the best for this new chapter in your life 💕

[@Mixedmakeup]

Thank you!

[@hillaryhollenbeck370]

I think you letting us know about your marriage and where you’re in your life at this moment is so brave of u ❤ And I can tell by the comments it hit a lot of women. Maybe you should do an advice segment and see how that goes, for your next video? I think a lot of women would benefit and chime in from it! I would! 🙏🏼 And ps.. You ARE glowing ✨

[@Naurd915]

This was such a fun video to watch! It felt like we were face timing ❤ With the utmost confidence, I can say watching your videos genuinely changed my perception of age. I’m hitting a new decade in March and I just keep getting more and more excited! You really do feel more confident and bada** as you grow up! Wishing you the very best of luck, Susan ❤

[@primareina]

It takes great courage to end a marriage, specially when little kids are involved. I applaud you for moving forward for your happiness and wellbeing and wish you the best of luck in the adjustment of your new “sexy” era! ❤❤

[@Mixedmakeup]

It’s a hard decision! Thank you ❤

[@amandavicente7067]

Good for you!! Thank you for always being honest.. going through divorce can be a tough situation no matter how hard it is. I love watching your skincare, & makeup videos.

[@TheSabrinax89]

Love the honesty! Good luck in this new chapter and have fun! Your kids will be happy if you are happy!

[@reneekamer]

I just bought that multi peptide rich cream, and it is AMAZING!! I swear it is the best moisturizer I've ever used, and the peptides are just a plus!!!! Thank you

[@GodsGreenEarth360]

I LOVE SINGLE SUSAN ALREADY!!!! Wishing you the best! 🙂

[@lauralyndsey]

I relate to that single feeling. I loved it. Was content and felt so much peace. I got married in 2020 and found out real quick how much I regretted it and don’t like marriage life. I wish you the best. Blessings. ❤

[@serenatina]

I’ve been following you since like 2018 and it is so beautiful to see how far you’ve come, Susan! Can’t wait to witness your Samantha Jones era.

[@emilyborquez8386]

I've been subscribed for a while and have never left a comment, but this was such a fun care-free video experience with you and I look forward to this new era you are walking into

[@lunahendrix3131]

I love this! I am also in my single era and loving it. I have truly had a lot of time to get to know myself better and it's one of the most amazing things. I think my children also appreciate their mom a little more now they see me doing things on my own. There is definitely a unique power in single motherhood and the joy that goes with it is unmatched❤❤❤

[@purej9designsbyjaninewitbo678]

This was empowering. A relationship does not need to be messy before you need to leave...it's okay to be happy apart.

[@karlasousa8581]

So happy for you! You and Jessica Alba should hangout since you are both successful, beautiful and going through a divorce. Xoxo from La Jolla, California. ❤️🥂

[@Mixedmakeup]

So many women getting divorced lately!

[@emallace447]

Susan I am also going through a divorce and I can't tell you how much better your video has made me feel. I really connect with what you shared. Wishing you all the best!

[@Mixedmakeup]

Wishing you the best too ❤

[@tomisinolagunju8436]

First off, HIIIII!! Thank you for your vulnerability 🖤. And YES, you have been dressing sexy lately, and I love that for you 🤩 I love seeing you and Phelisha together! I miss you both so much 😭 I love this new era of youuuuu 🥹🖤

[@Mixedmakeup]

Thank you Tomisin!! Miss you!

[@vanessacalfat1184]

Love the way you talk to us like we are besties! Thank you so much for sharing❤

[@MakeTimeNow]

Susan, I've been following you since you worked at NewBeauty Magazine. I'm sorry that you're going through so much but at the end of the day, you can't fill others' cups with yours depleted. Make sure you're taking that time for you no matter what is going on. Replenish yourself and your spirit and know that your people will follow you no matter what and support you through whatever season of life you are going through.

[@Mixedmakeup]

Wow!! Thank you for the love all this time. I appreciate you ❤

[@rachelhein4945]

Thank you so much for this Susan! I ended a 10 year relationship and this video is giving me life. It’s okay for people to change and sometimes they grow together and sometimes they don’t. Life is long and we have a lot of joy ahead of us!!!!!! You’re an inspiration.

[@Mixedmakeup]

Sending you so much love! You’ve got this!

[@Paulaserenity]

As a woman who got my finalized divorced papers at 40, I can honestly say this…nothing is more empowering than a woman who is emotionally in tune with herself. Prioritize your health in all aspects and your children will notice the happier you. Your children want you to be happy, and love you no matter what.

[@karlaharvey2623]

Hi Susan, it’s so good to see you laughing and you just seem less stressed and or having to force a smile. I remarried my 1st husband( high school sweetheart) and father to my only child after 32 yrs. We had NO INTIMACY BEFORE MARRIAGE BOTH TIMES) and I was 56 when we remarried. We had not been married but for a short time and I started having horrible anxiety the day before he would come home for 2 weeks ( he worked off 2 weeks). I dreaded going to bed with him, and just dreaded everything. He would stand over my shoulder when doing anything, even loading the dishwasher. I was becoming a nervous wreck. Like my daughter told me, “ she thought I remarried him thinking I was giving her her parents back and she was mostly right. Anyhoo, I understand how when we are so unhappy and dread being around our spouse, it can cause us so much stress. I finally divorced him after only being married almost 2 yrs. He was sooo angry, stalked me out a tracker on my car etc. it’s been 6 yrs and I have not had any interest in dating and or talking to anyone. Like you, I could finally breathe and knowing he wasn’t coming “home” was such a peace of mind. Your much younger so, get out there and be YOU! And embrace the Newness of being Single again. After being married for 15 yrs, you will discover so many new things in life that you now Love as a single/ divorced mom, business woman, lady. Thank you for sharing.

[@karenortiz7188]

I'm soo sorry about the divorce!! I hope everything works out for you.

[@caitlinhollywood4107]

Your energy is so light and positive, love that for you ❤

[@Tshala292]

I can relate to most of what you said. Ended a 17 yr marriage a year ago and I’m so at peace. It’s a huge relief when all is said and done.

[@mefranmefran7133]

Also went through the whole divorce thing and even though it was my decision and it absolutely had to happen, I was distressed and very upset. I look back and wish I had allowed myself to feel the peace and relief you do, because I guess on some level, I felt I couldn't have that in front of the kids. Still haven't gone into the dating scene and it's been 5 years. I think Ive needed this time on my own to adjust and learn to do things on my own... which led me to realizing I am actually capable of doing DIY 😂

[@Motti88]

Awwww ! You honestly do seem 100% happier than you ever have in any of your videos ! It’s like a whole other personality that we never saw ! Very happy for you ! Glad to see you used the makeup forever foundation because I’ve been leaning towards trying that now you helped seal the deal 🤝 also yes 🙌 fellow Aquarius here do this is going to be our year ! 🎉❤🙏

[@danieladelgado9065]

We are ready for this new era for you!! Thank you for sharing, being truthful and honest!

[@stacywooldridge6495]

Naturium Multi Peptide Rich Cream is amazing. Usually thick creams are too much, this one is so plumping and hydrating. I love your realism and here for it. I’m also in my 40’s and it’s such a breath of fresh air listening to you. Yes we can be a mom and still be sexy! 🤩🤩 ty

[@shyannealexis1600]

This was such fun video ! So glad your doing what's best for u

[@ReneeKersey]

You’re in your 40s?? Oh my god you’re so beautiful! Not that that’s new but dang. In my early 30s and your videos have helped me since I started following you about 5 years ago. Wish I had found you earlier but so grateful for you. Your skin has been my goal since finding you. Thank you! 🙏🏽 and yes also going through a divorce rn. It did have to happen and am happier. Definitely do not need anyone’s opinions on it. Congratulations! 🎉

[@fauziaahmad2521]

Sending you all the very warmest wishes and strength for this new phase of your life Susan. Even though you a public persona you don't have to answer any questions about your personal life that you don't want to. You are beautiful inside and out and despite the little breakouts and dermatitis you highlighted, your skin is glowing! Wishing you every happiness xxx

[@alw87642]

The Make Up For Ever Hydra Glow foundation is my #1 foundation of ALL TIME. It’s incredible

[@Mitzi712]

You put it really well. It’s all about what’s right for the kids, and I’m honestly stuck in that mindset. I’m not happy, but I’m also not financially confident enough to take the step of a divorce. I haven’t been single in 21 years, and honestly, I don’t feel like I’m the same person I was back then. I can’t help but feel a bit envious of your new freedom. I truly hope the best for you moving forward.

[@Karin730]

Wishing only good things for you as your start this new chapter of your life. It sounds like you made the best decision for you and that’s all that matters. Your kids will probably benefit from you putting yourself first and seeing you as a good example. Best of luck to you.

[@LouAnnBeuke]

Wishing all the best for 2025. Love all your videos, honest skincare routines and insights. You are very real and relatable! ❤❤

[@kennethAmos8929]

Sometimes we humans just grow apart from each other, and that is just what it is sometimes….. You do you and what makes you happy. Life is to short not to live a happy and satisfying life. Power to you for being true to yourself ❤

[@laurapritchett7564]

Love your honesty & vulnerability about sharing your life. 2024 has brought clarity for many! Cheers to your next best era! 🍾 Can you please share your supplements or do a vid showing the supplements/brands you use :)

[@sereinwubeauty]

You look incredible and seem lighter ❤

[@camillafernandez7146]

I started watching you when I was 16 and I’m 25 now! Thank you for sharing, you truly are glowing!!

[@ybs161]

Thank you for sharing this! PLEASE please do more vidoes with Nikki, you two together is the best 💕

[@Mixedmakeup]

For sure will!

[@blackstripened]

So excited for your new era! I love your vibe! ❤

[@myawhidden1330]

You look amazing and only you can decide what’s best for you. I’ve been a supporter from day one and have never left a comment but I just wanted you to know how happy I am for you. ❤

[@simmisidhu7410]

Love this era!! I would love to see your journey as a newly single woman. It would be interesting to kind of get snippets of your life updates because I think there's so many people out here who are probably going through the same thing and want to reassure that they aren't the only ones going through it. You are definitly glowing and it's so nice and refreshing to see you choose yourself. Looking forward to all the content!

[@malloryjohnson6192]

Omg, you said “bye phelicia” at the end of the video 🤣 I get that it’s her name, but that was so funny to me!

[@Mixedmakeup]

Haha! IYKYK

[@cheevue668]

I have completely let myself go to since becoming a parent… it’s very difficult to carve out time for myself when I am so exhausted. I’m happy for you❤

[@Mixedmakeup]

It happens to all of us! Try to make time for yourself, even if it’s just 20 minutes to go for a walk. Sending you love ❤

[@Mshummingbird314]

I’m going through a divorce right now and I couldn’t be happier to move on from the narcissistic abuse. I got rid of my wedding dress, got my wedding bands (that I purchased) resized, going to have a party… I can’t wait

[@thaliathalia9184]

Im so sorry your going through a divorce. It’s hard for everyone especially kids. IM SO HAPPY TO SEE YOU HAPPY!! IM GOING THROUGH SEPARATION AND HOPEFULLY THROUGH A DIVORCE IN A YEAR.

[@prettyninfad]

It’s crazy how we as the audience notice things. Def noticed who was not in your videos and how different you been looking. Hope you and your family do well. You have your family support so that is awesome. Good luck in 2025 🎉🎉 Here is to Susan’s sexxy era 🎉🎉

[@nicoeeek.7181]

God damn you look gorgeous Susan!! I haven't watched one of your vids for ages and you look better than I have ever seen, glowing, gorgeous skin, etc, etc! Ahhhh heck yeah to the sexy era, whoooooop whooop!

[@maireadweaver8952]

your happiness is literally jumping off the screen and you look beautiful. Hope you have a happy year of new adventures!!! BTW I love the chocolate brown 'cardigan/top' .. where did you get it? Thanks a million. x

[@Mixedmakeup]

It’s from Zara! ❤

[@maireadweaver8952]

@@Mixedmakeup Thank you Susan .. will be hightailing it over there later today then!!! xx

[@rationalatheist9824]

I got into breakup 2 weeks ago from a selfish abusive relationship, the process is tough after nearly 6 years together. Still angry but its part of the moving on process, gets better. My 13 year old dog passed 6 months ago, if that got better then anything would.

[@lizzyp679]

The Flonase and perioral dermatitis relationship blew my mind!

[@Mixedmakeup]

Me too!

[@trivas15]

You seem more energized, lighter, and happier!!! 🎉

[@andreal2971]

Hi Susan, you look more beautiful and you smile and laugh more often now. Good for you, you are an empowered woman that deserves to be happy. am getting married in three weeks and your makeup routine will help me.

[@MrVikingsandra]

I love this for you Susan! I can really tell you're happy and relieved, that's how you know you did the right thing ❤ So happy for you, definitely do what makes you feel good, no such thing as being selfish. If you're happy, you're gonna be your best self for others too. You go girl!

[@Makeupbynikkilarose]

Also- seeing you use that damn eco tools brush from 25 years ago sent me 🫨🫨😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@Mixedmakeup]

Bahahahaha

[@paiputratnapradipa3480]

Last time i watched you was when u launched your products first time. I am glad to see u again today. You looks more beautiful and happy. Peace can really bright you up.

[@dledee]

One of the worst things in my childhood was seeing my parents' marriage falling completely apart and getting to that point where my brother and I were just relieved when they finally decided to get a divorce instead of making everyone miserable, Trust me, you made the right choice.

[@CatsInTheFridge]

Lucky. My parents still sticks to their toxic marriage and turning themselves and those around them toxic too 😂.

[@sreddy9889]

So thankful to see women outside of medicine living their best lives inspiring every single doctor and nurse out there who are feeling a bit tricked about their profession...So thankful every one else can see your messaging. I love when good women feel better on the outside so they can feel better on the inside.

[@sreddy9889]

The powers that be must love you! They will see it thank God!

[@sreddy9889]

Glad you were the one that at least decided. Listen to the stories about sabotage to make yourself feel better that you are in control of your new life.

[@safrica229]

Wishing you the very best Susan!! I’m here for your thirst trap posts 😂

[@Xtine_628]

❤ love this video! It’s nice to hear as someone who is also going through divorce

[@Mixedmakeup]

Good luck with everything. Sending a hug

[@mabelpkosovych1880]

Thanks for sharing your story. I love the part about “it’s okay to be selfish sometimes”… I wish I could! Yes, you look beautiful 😻

[@MariaLuckyxo]

Thank you Susan for opening up about your divorce. You seem to be in a good headspace and I love to see women thriving after divorce in their 40's. Wishing you all the best in your 2025 sexy year. 💜💘💚

[@Glynis007]

This was quite surprising but wishing you only the best ❤

[@thayspascoal8004]

You seem so happy, Susan!!! Love the energy! Have fun 😄

[@Mlo-t4r]

Thank you for sharing! I’m currently going through a divorce right now too. Having the same feelings like you….feeling so much at PEACE ❤

[@Mixedmakeup]

It’s such a good feeling! Sending you lots of hugs through this process!

[@leah_1577]

Good luck on your new path!!! I agree putting yourself first is priority so you can be the best for your kids!!! Just curious what brand creatine do you use? or can you do a video on your selfcare/wellness items

[@Mixedmakeup]

I’ll do a video!

[@merrly20]

Happy new year I’m glad you’re a lot happier from filing for divorce. Most people would see it as a failure, but I’m glad that you’re happy and I don’t really wanna, but I think some people do just apart, but I’m glad that you’re happy.

[@aggiealeks3744]

Sooo happy that you’re so happy!

[@KMPA531]

Love You aunty 🫂 ! Sending you all the love and light

[@brandiphillips3441]

The happiness coming off of you is so obvious and amazing. You go girl! 🎉

[@geremycampos4618]

Gosh - sending you so much love, abundance, and joy this year!!

[@marim248]

Hi! Can you talk about the different stages of your career, funding, and running your businesses?

[@ThisSeasonsGold]

I appreciate you for this video and share, Susan!! Thank you for your honesty. Wishing you the best!

[@charlottelrose3221]

Your skin looks so beautiful here (pre and post makeup!). Xx

[@lefkostefanos5060]

May you always be blessed and love ❤️ to you always! Happy New Year-- this is your year!!

[@farynhill8961]

Excited for your 2025 year! But also - with Hashimotos you'll always need to be meds. I can't believe your doctor told you to get off! I've been happily at a TSH of less than 1 for years. Looking forward to what you'll bring to Naturium with the word "sexy" for year

[@PNPN09]

I was in the same place as you a year ago. Best decision I made for myself and my daughter as I am a better mum now. Sometimes loneliness kicks in for some reason. The desire to be loved again by another sets in. Will this pass too? Will have to wait and see…..

[@Mixedmakeup]

Thank you for the reassurance. I completely see how loneliness can set in, but I know this is the best decision.

[@melissapowers4780]

My parents divorce when I was 16 and while the transition was hard, it was soooo much better after. Everyone was happier, less tension in the house. They ended up being great friends eventually which was really nice.

[@danawhite9325]

I really enjoyed this video! So happy for you! Great advice to women of all ages!

[@maddieforward5342]

Thank you for sharing! I appreciate your candidness. Fuck yeah, way to go!

[@jessabeauty917]

Happy to go on your journey with you, but happy for you to have as much privacy as you need. 💛 I stepped back from retinoids and my skin looks better and more plump. I dont need snatched.

[@elizabethmaday5263]

Your comment was so kind! I loved it.

[@krystalgodwin2513]

Since you asked for questions some that came to mind was : how is your ex husband’s parents taking the news? And If Arun starts dating will you be upset? I feel like sometimes even though you no longer want to be with them, when they date I’ve heard my friends say it feels awkward. And that it’s hard not to judge the other persons girlfriends looks and characteristics harder then you would normally . And that with the exs parents I heard either they take it fine or they are like another stress in your life where they now suddenly talk bad about you and hold a grudge.

[@Mixedmakeup]

I can’t speak for his parents but I would be happy for him to date someone. As long as that person is good your kids!

[@krystalgodwin2513]

@ I agree, as long as they treat the kids and you respectfully and nicely that’s what matters most.

[@michaelsantiago12]

This was a fun video! I vote yes 🙌🏾 for the Samantha Jones era. Also great job on the make up. It looks so pretty.