Glee - Burt talks to Kurt about having Blaine in his bed 2x14

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[@oursilenthearts4767]

what Burt is saying is perfectly reasonable. he's not homophobic and he never has been. he's setting the same kind of boundaries for Kurt that he set for Finn

[@kikijean3534]

But what about when Rachel and Finn got engaged, he and the parents practically made Finn sleep with a girl. Although it wasn’t under his roof he still knew what could have happened and that is out of his boundaries.

[@gameingmushrooms6776]

Ikr

[@briloveskurthummelbriones1565]

Burt is not Homophobic, Finn is

[@jayxfrost8987]

@@kikijean3534 Rachel and Finn wanted to get married... Burt and Rachel's dads only did this so they wouldn't. He actually didn't want Finn to sleep with her, he wanted them to fight by locking into one room so they would change their minds.

[@rebekkateppola1754]

@@briloveskurthummelbriones1565 Did you even watch this show?

[@RileyConnorHale]

I couldn't help but laugh at the end when Kurt essentially asked his dad to prepare for the day when Kurt asks him about sex. I don't know why but it was funny. Hesitant Kurt is cute.

[@CesarHernandez-sy2tg]

Riley Connor Hale oh I was laughing too

[@skylindquist3150]

Riley Connor Hale Which was literally the next week 😂

[@heddalee]

He wasn't hesitant. He was being pretend-shy so he could bait his father into finding more common ground between them. It worked (Kurt is definitely not stupid when it comes to other people).

[@xtonibx5770]

@@heddalee i agree 100%

[@zuleyzulekha]

💀💀

[@Luxalonso]

With that logic, bi kids we can't have anyone to sleepover lol

[@areneej1]

Luis SR haha

[@sarahcarvalho9963]

In their beds! That is the point! Why is Kurt ignoring that? Blaine could have slept on the couch for crying out loud.

[@issacavidal4598]

That's my case, my mom doesn't allow me to sleepover in anyone's house.

[@jamirdobson]

No if that’s the case the person you are dating can’t sleep over.

[@PietheLibra]

Tis a sad life we live lmao

[@willowdrew1999]

Burt has a point. Either way kurt should have asked his dad... it would be the same if it were a girl.

[@destinyelizabeth4281]

Honestly

[@GOOBGLOB]

I stringly disagree, nothing happend all they did was sleep nothing inappropriate happend at all he shouldve just asked if it was okay for him to stay but his dad shouldve trusted kurt.

[@firstcedric8129]

@@GOOBGLOB that is exactly the point. Burt isnt piased cause Blaine sleeped in the house, he is pissed cause Kurt didn't talt to Burt that he have someone sleeping in the house

[@knowledgegathererdraftsave1979]

Willow World Traveler You’re right, but Kurt has some valid points here too, I mean his dad didn’t necessarily mean he would have said no to him having Blaine sleepover, but if he has no problem with Finn having Puck sleepover or if he would set the same rule to Finn having a girl over then Kurt maybe has a right to think he’s being subjected to some unfair boundaries. All in all Burt’s right that Kurt should have asked him, but it’s mainly because as he said he had no idea what two guys do when they’re together which is why Kurt asked him to look into it so they could talk things through in the future.

[@xoxohayaati]

Ryan the weirdo, my dad won’t let me have a straight guy sleep in my bed- even if we’re strictly just friends.

[@rattusrattus706]

Burt is right tbh. He wouldn’t let Finn have a sleepover with a girl so Kurt shouldn’t have sleepovers with boys

[@morgan2193]

how so

[@inalaska1208]

Perfectly reasonable to say "you can't have a possible sexual partner over without talking to us first"

[@bunny_0288]

@@inalaska1208 Yeah, cuz teenagers are so honest lol

[@sxflyer5410]

What’s this “no sleepovers with the other sex (straight)/same sex (gay)” policy of mostly american parents all about? Why not allowing them to have sleepovers? Even why not allowing sex at their home? Age of consent is 16 in many US states, and it’s even as low as 14 in for example Germany. As long as the parents know who is sleeping over and had a sex talk with their kids at some point I think it’s completely fine. If the teenagers are deeply in love they will have sex somehow anyway, maybe even in more dangerous environments than at an sleepover (for example at a party?!?)

[@assyrianprincess3]

SXFlyer Parents house = parents rules 🤷🏻‍♀️ Sure they cant prevent sex, but making it difficult is good enough for them

[@ItsLunaRegina]

Burt is just trying to make sure Kurt doesn't end up pregnant is all. Big deal.

[@lostboyuwu1247]

Unless kurt is transgender i dont think he can get pregnant

[@beach8765]

alexacq1 • lol I’ve been waiting for someone to take this seriously 😂

[@maya-xj3xq]

you dont say

[@fahdalsubaie757]

Valiso UwU trans don’t get pregnant unless there’s a uterus biologically

[@mvoonlight1250]

we must protect Lady Hummel from getting pregnant

[@mcgde0]

I’m gay and I agree with Burt. He setting boundaries and rules for his children straight or not.

[@fernandoemmanuellopeztovar6213]

Too

[@juliagarcia28]

"Something went down in the tent" Man, yeah, monopoly was intense.

[@Beppo85]

The movie's really not ambiguous about what happened, is the funny part

[@FacebookQueen]

I mean... It really is an intense game but... lol

[@DarkAurora2002]

I'm gay and I don't like how Kurt is trying to make his dad out to be homophobic because he doesn't want Kurt having boys sleep over

[@DarkAurora2002]

Kurt Hummel This has nothing to do with stereotypes. It is normal for a parent to not want their teenage child to engage in sexual activities

[@BTURNER1961]

you know this interaction really has remarkably little to do with sexual orientation. A kid is pissed that Dad is trying to enforce rules, he thinks are silly. Said kid is intentionally making Dad feel inadequate, or uncomfortable by questioning their logic and purpose, because that is the kind of thing teens like to do, so Dad will leave him alone next time. its all about teens and parents behaving like teens and parents.

[@darkmagician2521]

But in this case, Kurt is hurt because his father somehow does not trust him as much as Kurt trusts himself even though it is the typical "leave the door open policy" when involving sex with any sexual partner. And we know Kurt trusts himself a lot because in the season 3 episode The First Time, he resisted having sex with Blaine who is pretty drunk after hanging out at a gay bar called Scandals. The point here is Burt should have known he can trust Kurt to not have sex or a sleepover. Burt took it a little too far because Blaine only slept in the bed. This "sleepover" is only just sleeping because your typical sleepover involves having a fun party before sleeping and maybe some funny business with the sleeping part that involves "having the door open", which none of this happened. Although, Blaine could have slept anywhere else in Burt's house besides in Kurt's room so Burt would not be hard on Kurt. But nevertheless, I am loving the Burt and Kurt scenes so much as even though they love each other, they still hash over serious matters like sex and other subjects.

[@rakamukherjee9070]

Robert Nicholson I think kurt misunderstood what Burt was trying to say

[@disneyprincessintraining2725]

I know! Like, his dad is not being unreasonable! Like, if I found my gay son with an attractive man in his bed I’d be pissed too if that happened without my permission! I’d get into momma mode and be like, “no child! You are too young!”

[@CekaDStar]

I get Kurt sometimes has to pull the “is it cause I’m gay” card out but I think Burt was just being a typical dad like if you have a boy/girl in your room you have to keep the door open or like if they stay the night they have to sleep on the couch

[@DivisonXx]

Kurt wasn't planning on doing anything sexual though. When he was "walked in on" by Burt he didn't feel interrupted or invaded. He only brought Blaine home because he was drunk, if he was sober they wouldn't have had a sleepover.

[@chiraine1]

@@DivisonXx yes, so what was to stop him from explaining the situation to his dad and asking for permission...? Whether kurts intentions were good or not you don't go behind your parents back like that. If he had just asked, burt would've never send Blaine home in his condition. That's how you build trust and respect. Burt has always been fair and Kurt definitely hasn't given him enough credit for that

[@DivisonXx]

@@chiraine1 It was probably very late at night. Why else would he bring him home, an -in-the-middle-of-the-day sleepover? He wasn't trying to go behind anyone's back. Why are you trying to make it seem like Kurt was trying to sneak around?

[@chiraine1]

@@DivisonXxdoesnt matter should've woken him up and given him a heads up anyway or call on the way home. Im not making it seem like he's sneaking around, im just saying it's better to be upfront and communicate instead of his dad waking up and finding blaine and not knowing what's going on in his own house. THATS what's making it seem like he's sneaking around. But you're a kid aren't you? Well let me tell you something. Ive had plenty of similar situations when i was a teenager and no matter how late a party or just hanging out got, whether i thought it was saver/easier to bring home a girl or a guy friend or for me to stay with them I always called my parents no matter what. And they've always trusted me for it. Parents care way more about what's going on with you, than what time it is. And It's always easier to be upfront, than to have to explain after the fact.

[@aleahworzel5562]

@@chiraine1 Yeah, and it's not like he got punished for it. Burt just wants to know what the plan is ahead of time in the future. My parents would NEVER let me have a guy spend the night, even if they knew we were just friends. And in this case, burt didn't even know that. I think he handled it very well

[@BennyBringerOfChaos]

They both have valid points here.

[@AaronNickolas7]

I totally agree. I'm bi and my parents don't allow me to have "sleepovers" with girls or guys. It's a safety thing. I'm actually grateful my parents have that rule because it means they respect me enough to be worried about my safety. I'd be more upset if they didn't care at all.

[@mizzwalker454]

+ Aaron Hoagland I kind of feel sorry for u.. the only thing u can have a sleep over with is a pillow and sleeping bag 😂

[@AaronNickolas7]

Taja Walker thanks, but you don't have to feel sorry for me. I never wanted to have a sleep over to begin with. I'm not really a social person, so I don't feel like I'm missing out on much.

[@BennyBringerOfChaos]

Aaron Hoagland I know how you feel. I've never been social that much myself.

[@albertesolveigbkgaardmorte9356]

Ali Song yeah

[@lbabzful]

Kurt was a nightmare this episode. First he's pissed at Blaine for figuring out his sexuality and wondering if hes bi. Then he acts like his dad is being homophobic by asking him not to have sleepovers with boys.

[@emmanuelaadebisi5743]

Deffo! But he’s a teenager

[@maliaferry8212]

Kurt was totally hipercrital, nobody batted an eye when he made out with Brittany, when he was trying to figer out if he was gay or stright, but gets all upset when Blane kisses Rachel, total dubble standers. I did not at all like Kurt in this episode.

[@sariyahjackson5646]

I was so annoyed with Kurt in this episode. It's okay for Blaine to be bisexual and he should also know that his father loves him and cares about him so much. Burt has never been homophobic toward him; he has always been supportive of his son from the day Kurt asked him for sensible heels when he was a toddler.

[@anastasiia4311]

@@maliaferry8212 the point of making out with Brittany was not to figure out if he was gay or straight, it was just Kurt's attempt to please his dad's old dreams about spending time with his son who Burt expected to be straight, due to the environment in which he himself was growing up. And as Burt was spending a lot of time with his new stepson Finn, he was happy about it and was telling Kurt stories about them spending time like a typical father with his straight son, so Kurt became jealous that Burt might would forget about his actual gay son (which was not true and groundless because Burt was happy not about spending time like a stereotypical straight father and son, but about establishing good relationships with a new future family member), because it wasn't interesting for him to go on a football match etc., that's why he decided to pretend he was straight, and Brittany wanting to kiss him, because he was the last and only boy at school she haven't kissed till that time, was the perfect opportunity to portray and somehow prove his (fake)straightness to his dad, so that he could spend more time with him as Finn did. Till and after this time Kurt was 1000% aware and sure that he was gay and not straight or bi. It wasn't about finding himself and experimenting, it was just about Kurt's groundless jealousy which led to these weird behavior and situations.

[@xtonibx5770]

I don't think Kurt was "acting" like his dad was being homophobic. To Kurt, it just felt homophobic. He can't help how he feels and his dad is right and perfectly reasonable but the way he kept saying "being inappropriate" likely made Kurt feel like he was being shamed and naturally he believed his sexuality had to do with that. Kurt's behavior in this specific scene was not nightmaric.

[@lokasennax3097]

I like how Kurt is younger and knows how to Cook really well and Burt is older and doesn't know how to Cook.

[@hannahvance3798]

good point

[@kristopherawojobi7745]

B.M Undercover I'm assuming Kurt's mom took care of that stuff before she passed. And I'm assuming she's dead cause I really can't remember much about this show.

[@333br]

B.M Undercover I can kind of cook and my dad can barely make a sandwich.

[@jayxfrost8987]

I guess Kurt's mom did cooking when she was alive, and then probably Kurt took over the kitchen.

[@brittnaysnewbisexualgirlgl5194]

Kurt learned Cooking from his mom, he looks more like his mom than his dad

[@nothanks2575]

Burt just didn’t want his kids having underage sex in his house. He a good dad. Kurt was so annoying sometimes tbj

[@sxflyer5410]

@No Thanks what’s so wrong with underage sex? In Germany age of consent is 14, in some US states 16. What’s wrong with having sex at home? Parents shouldn’t restrict too much imho, except their child wants to hook-up with strangers, parents shouldn’t allow that. But with a boyfriend or girlfriend? Why not? They will have sex anyway somehow, maybe even in a more dangerous environment (parties, outdoors, ...)

[@courtneydenzer1742]

Real shit Kurt was using the gay card here and it really wasn’t fair

[@jontavianandbrandon8722]

Courtney Denzer look at where Kurts coming from tho, if Finn has a boy sleep over things would be perfectly normal but because Kurts gay he has to assure his dad nothing will happen instead of receiving the same level of trust as Finn simply because of sexual orientation. So playing by that logic if Kurt has a girl sleep over without informing his dad would he have still received this talk since he’s gay or would he unlike Finn have to go through his dad for both genders? Which makes it seem like the dad has more trust in Finn than Kurt, because Finn is straight while Kurt needs more caution for being gay.

[@yard8616]

what no you didnt get it. Kurt having a boy sleeping over is the same a finn having a girl sleep over. And burt doesnt accept that either. If finn had a boy sleep over there is no or VERY little Chance of them doing anything inappropriate

[@sirusfan8890]

@@yard8616 So the answer for this situation for Finn and Kurt is Finn have a sleepover with Blaine and Kurt with Rachel And in the night somebody has to change the room :)

[@DontMindLena]

"Something went down in the tent." AHAHAHAHA

[@susanmorgan9074]

T we all know what happened in that tent

[@briloveskurthummelbriones1565]

Kurt and Blaine having sex

[@Beppo85]

Funny part is the movie's really not ambiguous about it

[@beccagregory3586]

Something definitely went down in the tent

[@sethronalds9457]

lol this comes back to bite Kurt in the next episode haha. Burt brings home the pamphlets to talk and Kurt didn't want to. you got to love the relationship the two of them had. a dad who is clueless in some regards, but does try his best to love, respect, and stand up for his son. and he was fair. he would not let Finn sleep with a girl in the house so it is not just him being homophobic (which the show showed many times he was not)

[@hannahvance3798]

yep

[@hannahvance3798]

Seth Ronalds yep

[@tenny6020]

So we're not going to talk about how he watched Brokeback Mountain with Kurt?

[@ifeelpretty5790]

I had to watch The Wolf of Wall Street with my dad.

[@alexsummerscrane1522]

🤣🤣🤣

[@dumbmusorowan]

"from what i gather SOMETHING went down in the tent" LMAOOOOOOO

[@goldrush18x]

I hate how Kurt has this habit of deflecting and ignoring the real point when people talk to him. He tries to make everything an issue with his sexuality when in reality his dad is just trying to be a responsible parent.

[@ahhh4117]

Yeah but also people treated him terribly due to his sexuality! Thats canon! And also its weird being in that situation because in the back of your mind its like "Does my parent wish I was a different?" which is really asking "Is my parent's love conditional?" Its hard to deal with and contemplate. And even if you have tentatively accepting parents like Burt you're still scared, I've met people with loving parents who were still scared. Kurt does so much for his dad, he loves his dad so much. So don't see his reactions as one of ego or arrogance but just him being a scared kid A few months ago he was in the closet, he doesn't know how far his dad will go with tolerating him (he doesn't know how gay he's allowed to be basically)

[@ellyuploads]

1:27 Pause. Just pause.

[@totallyrandomLLAUREN]

everything about chris colfer is cute. even his mountains of chins :3

[@liawhite5004]

lol

[@lokasennax3097]

ellyuploads I paused!😂😂😂

[@alexia2536]

ellyuploads 😂😂

[@jessrluo]

ellyuploads HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA

[@emmajean1948]

I WENT THROUGH THE WHOLE BROKE BACK MOUNTAIN FROM WHAT I GATHER SOMETHING WENT ON IN THE TENT OMG

[@luciasofia8890]

Kurt is fair in asking his dad to educate himself, but the dad is acting how any other parent would act (actually, being much more calm). It's got 0 to do with being gay. It's his underage child sleeping in the same bed as someone who is of the gender they're attracted to. And furthermore, the other person is someone the kid is attracted to, and the attraction is mutual. I have a trans friend who had extremely strictly religious parents, but when she came out to them they started doing their best to adapt. One day, she was about to go out wearing a skirt and her parents told her she couldn't wear it and to change. She got upset because she thought they weren't letting her out in female clothing. Their reply was brilliant. "No, if you were our daughter-"(ok, they got that a bit wrong but they were trying)"we wouldn't let you out in that either. It's far too short, just find something a bit longer." How brilliant is that haha. These parents didn't even allow Harry Potter, Pokemon, or Sabrina when my friend was little!

[@emspace1227]

Diana Woods The only when this isn’t acceptable to do is when the child’s bi even then they probably shouldn’t sleep on the same bed or just have some prohibitions.

[@ItsLunaRegina]

A few years after I started transitioning (I started very young, blockers at 11, hormones 13. I was 14 at the time this happened) I was shopping with my mom and found a skirt I liked but it was quite short. I remember she told me I could get it but couldn't wear it out because it would be "like I was asking to get raped" and looking back, I appreciate that she thought of things like that and cared enough to say something. (For the record, I know that no one asks to get raped and my mom doesn't think that either but she knew things about the world and men that I didn't know at that age and her saying that helped me be more aware that even though it doesn't matter to a rapist what you are wearing, suggestive clothing on a 14 year old will attract all the wrong attention). Hope that makes sense, I suck at explaining. Your comment on your friend reminded me of that situation I was in and thought I'd share.

[@ahhh4117]

@@ItsLunaRegina As a transguy who experienced 13 as a girl, that was a rough year. People had never objectified me more and haven't since

[@Yellowducky665]

I LOVE BURT

[@hannahvance3798]

me 2

[@briloveskurthummelbriones1565]

I Frickin love Burt!

[@elisagonzalez4868]

From what I gather something went down on the tent. Lol, yes. 😂😂. I love Burt.

[@honeymoon7259]

this scene just made me think: it must be really hard trying to have sleepovers with people when your bi, like your parents must be really strict with that stuff

[@beccagregory3586]

Sometimes, my parents trust me but they're still protective, they come in and check in on us and were not aloud to sleep in the same bed, we crash on the couch

[@B16wally]

I actually like Burt, because he's very relatable as parent. The struggle of finding a balance of being accepting of who their children are and still setting boundaries of what is and wat isnt appropriate. He's not perfect, sometimes he gets it sometimes he misses.

[@bijalmakadia1199]

I was thinking what if Finn just walked in after his name was yelled

[@beccagregory3586]

I would never allow Finn! to *Finn enters* You called?

[@destinyelizabeth4281]

Kurt is honestly the best about telling people to get educated on same sex-sex because it is in their lives. We need more of this

[@kriscv5026]

Burt’s a good dad. In all seriousness, if Kurt had just asked him before bringing Blaine home and explained the situation, he probably would’ve said yes. Might’ve made Blaine sleep on the couch, but at least he would’ve had a safe place to sleep without Kurt causing tension with his dad.

[@camilayael2584]

That is so true I don't think he would have refused

[@lizziel92]

Lol Love Kurt He's Adorable Add The Scene When Blaine Is Talking To Kurt & Says He Might Be Bisexual Lol That Scene 2x14

[@strangerthingsfanthatsalso601]

I know this is kinda unrelated but I love Kurt's voice.

[@wesleyhall4261]

Plot hole. He was ok with kurt and brittany doin the dirty in the basement but not kurt and blaine in the house lol

[@elizabethorla3700]

They both have valid points. His dad isn't just doing it because he's gay

[@laurine____7543]

But so, why when Kurt was Kissing and making out with Britanny , Burt only say " think about protection , ok ? " it isent logic

[@okiedokie6307]

THE SHADE.

[@lifeisbitvlover171]

I get where Burt is coming from, but c'mon, they slept in the same bed, fully clothed, and Blaine was drunk, that's the only reason that he stayed there, it's not that big a deal. BTW, I've watched this show so many times!! 😁😁

[@baked_alaska]

I find this to be an utterly ridiculous parental strategy. People of any gender and sexuality can have platonic relationships with any gender and sexuality. Not allowing your kid to have friends of a certain gender or sexuality stay over because it "might turn sexual" is a stupid idea because it robs your child the chance of developing a deeper connection with their friends. You don't know what your kids are attracted to and you aren't supposed to. You're a parent and your child is on the cusp of becoming an adult. Give them the freedom to manage their relationships. If you're that worried about them having sex, put a ban on actual romantic partners staying overnight and trust that your single kids will tell you about any romances they get into when they're ready. Trusting them to make their own life choices will make them infinitely more likely to trust you enough to tell you when they start seeing someone.

[@akumayoxiruma]

I don't understand this reaction: I would allow my children to have sleepovers but I would also make sure that they have proper sex education at the beginning of their puberty so that accidental pregnancies, STDs and other sorts of accidents don't happen as well as teaching them to set boundaries so that they don't let themselves get beaten, choked or abused in a way that they clearly don't want but are too scared to tell. It will be an awkward feeling at first but I think it is important to have an open, mature conversation about that to ensure the safety of my children.

[@vilyda]

I'm bi and my rule was "anyone can sleep over if their parents are okay with it." Apparently our parents all thought DnD was good birth control by itself lol

[@celineterra8107]

Burt has a point. I’d be the same way with my child. I would want them to ask me if someone is drunk that they can’t can’t drive I would understand

[@kevinfox298]

Absolutely. It wouldn't have been an issue if Kurt had come up to him and said, "Hey, Blaine is here, he's drunk and he can't drive himself home, can he stay here for the night?" -- Burt could have simply been like, "I'm not happy about the drinking, but I can call his dad and let him know where he is, and you can make him up a bed on the couch." If Kurt doesn't come to him with this, no matter what time of night it is, Burt has no choice but to assume Kurt's hiding it from him for a nefarious reason. If they don't trust each other to let each other know what's going on, they can only assume the worst, and that's not a good father-son dynamic.

[@im.ralphn8]

Can y’all just enjoy their father/som relationship? Burt did what a father usually does no matter his kids’ sexuality. And Kurt was just being teenager who like all of us goes thru a changing stage. They cared and loved each others so much.

[@gavinpotter9286]

Honestly, Burt was the best character on the show. He was kinda bad in the first season, but his character growth was just 👏👏👏.

[@ahhh4117]

firstly, everyone sucked in S1 secondly, I love your pfp

[@aina.bordon5695]

"From what I gathered, something went down in that tent" oh the good old brokeback tent scene

[@megancorbett843]

Can you please upload the scene where Tina and Mike talk after Sectionals in season 3??

[@C0rvidC0rpse]

I think the part that annoys me most is Burt saying he was being "innapropriate" no he was being responsible and a caring friend, he told him many times they didn't fuck. Sure he could've asked first, but it's just like a sleepover, they didn't do anything deserving the term "Inappropriate"

[@user-hb4zz4gh5e]

Blaine was in his bed, that’s what made it inappropriate

[@secretlyclever4062]

burt was 100% correct in this. Period. And yes, I'm a young gay man.

[@ChefDuJour78]

Bertasu being gay doesn’t give anyone the right to break the rules in their parent’s house or disrespect their parents. Finn is not allowed to have girls sleep over and Kurt is not allowed to have boys sleep over. Kurt was disrespectful in this clip.

[@nylahmuhammad1497]

But remember when Kurt brought Brittany over and he literally didn’t have a problem with it I even think he said something about using protection implying sex so even if he was acting how any other parent would act I still think it had a little bit to do with the fact that he’s gay

[@Anastasja13]

Apple Sauce Because Burt knew damn well that Kurt was gay and that the whole Brittany thing was just a charade.

[@brittnaysnewbisexualgirlgl5194]

I love Kurt and Burt's relationship

[@patriciairv.3347]

Kurt always thinking somebody homophobic 🙄

[@gerwinopong671]

Kurt: Please Educate yourself Burt a few scenes later: It's time we have talk....

[@lucyg4532]

Burt is definitely right here. He said “isn’t he gay?” so he definitely had heard about Blaine’s sexuality from Kurt. His son having another gay guy sleeping in his bed without even him mentioning that to his dad was wrong. I know Burt doesn’t know gay stuff so he can’t talk to Kurt the way he can to Finn but he tries and Kurt should have addressed that problem with his dad separately from the Blaine issue. His dad would never let his straight stepson have a girl over either.

[@annatimberlake7]

Blaine goes and tell Burt he was gay. Remember that scene where Kurt can't make sexy face and Blaine went to Burt to advise him to get a sex talk. He said he was gay

[@andrewlinden482]

Okay. 1. Burt is right for being upset, however he should have asked Kurt to apologize for not asking for permission. Kurt saying that they were fully clothed should have been enough for him to trust his son. Kurt is still wrong but he was asked to apologize for something that he didn’t even do when he clearly said he wasn’t inappropriate with Blaine. 2. Kurt was being dramatic about him being gay was the problem and it being a matter of bias. It’s not. Burt said the same rules would apply to Finn. HOWEVER, Parents really should educate themselves on how sexual activity works for people other than just heterosexual couples. Especially when you KNOW your child isn’t heterosexual. You’re the parent. Be there for your kid even if it means going out of your comfort zone. Kurt was valid with that point.

[@khfan4life365]

If Kurt talked to me the way he did to his dad, his clock would be cleaned and then his ass would be grounded. Burt’s well within his rights to set boundaries and rules.

[@XLose_yourselfX]

Kurt looked so awkward at the end

[@just-trying-my-best-everyday]

Burt: I don't want you to have a potential sexual partner in your bed. Kurt: *Unbelievable.*

[@rara1800]

Man, I loved Burt’s character he was so awesome ❤

[@rynr20]

please upload the scene when they talk about Burt telling him that he is gonna find as brave as him, or something like that.

[@jean-louisecarroll2447]

"From what I gather, something went down in the tent"

[@orishoval7305]

Why do I relate to Burt about the brokback mountain thing

[@cantinasmile]

Damn I always have to ask permission before having anyone over. Even boys. I am a lesbian

[@Ray-qf1hb]

I mean after he explained why he was sleeping over I don't think it should've been. Problem Kurt was being responsible. Also we don't know if they were sleeping in the same bed Kurt could've just woke up and went to do his morning routine.

[@Asaciadaone]

I hate him using the word inappropite. Kurts face is so cute I just gunna die now

[@1234lyndia]

Kurt was actually trying to manipulate the situation while Burt was trying to enforce rules.

[@quirkypurple3]

1234lyndia duh, because he’s a teen. he’s trying to up the ante and be offended so his dad stops bothering him. and also it’s a moot point to say this because kurt gives in in the end and points out that he needs guidance. some “rules” don’t sound like rules to kids, they just sound like restriction for the sake of it. also this is the way they chose for kurt to let burt know that he feels uneducated, i don’t see someone like kurt doing it outright when he apparently cannot even stomach watching any porn at this point. they’re trying to have a somewhat cohesive transition to the next episode which is about sex ed

[@Beppo85]

@@quirkypurple3 Agreed, it's just a realistic father-son argument scene.

[@bobbiems3154]

I’m bi, guess I can’t have anyone sleep over. Dang it.

[@bobbiems3154]

Hunny, it’s me from the future. u are not bi. try omni.

[@luciasofia8890]

Asking him to educate himself=totally fair. Getting all defensive about someone being in his bed=totally teenager. Defensive about everything! Burt doesn't have a bad bone in his body. When I had boys in my bed at that age (and younger), they were gay and straight and my dad tried to set boundaries but was to embarrassed to say the words. Poor dude. Luckily, even though i lost my virginity at basically 14, I've always been hyper responsible about 'Safe Sex'. Birth Control injections plus a condom.

[@nightflairr2186]

im a lesbian and burt is completely right.

[@karleighrock593]

This had absolutely nothing to do with sexual orientation. Burt was establishing reasonable ground rules for his son and his possible boyfriend. Those are the same rules any good parent should have for their children, regardless of who they date. Burt was the best parent on the show.

[@thepoet9134]

Kurt tries to paint his dad as homophobic in this scene but it works the same way as if Finn had a girl sleep over. All Burt is saying is it’s not okay for your boyfriend to stay just as he would have said if Kurt was straight and it was a girl.

[@facescrub6254]

He was fine when it was brit though

[@villedart970]

I understand both points of view tbh. I don't believe Burt was being homophobic, he was just protecting his son, even more if we consider Kurt's obvious feelings for Blaine (despite him doing the right thing for his drunken friend). But I also understand Kurt, most of the time in the series, he was treated like a girl by those around him, something we did not see with other gay characters, and while I know this is the writers fault, I understand him being tired of not being able to bring a guy friend without feeling that people are judging him.

[@THE_TOMCROWELL]

I think Burt should have said “From what I gather, something went IN in the tent.” Giggity giggity. Truth be told. I never watched Brokeback Mountain but I love that reference. It was flat out hilarious

[@lukebrennan9584]

I sat through the whole of brokeback mountain, from what I gathered something went down in the tent 🤣that tickled me

[@Asaciadaone]

This is similar to my conversations with may parents. Not the topic but the way kurt tries to slip through the cracks and questions him. And burt winning in the end even though you don't understand.

[@alansmith6376]

One of the best TV dad’s of all time. The actor and the character don’t get the credit they deserved.

[@brithegothemohookerbriones2986]

I love how Kurt says "It's Blaine he's intrested in Rachel"

[@brianheid5394]

God, Kurt was absolutely obnoxious in this s scene (and so many other scenes, to be honest).

[@amber_vink_hbr4k480]

I get both sides here tho.. I mean I need to ask if someone sleeps over! Even if it’s the same or opposite gender even tho I’m bi.. 😂🏳️‍🌈

[@lovesitstarstruckdiva6392]

Hence why I’m waiting to come out to my mom. She’s not homophobic, I just don’t want to not be able to hang out with girls😂🥳

[@MateoJFR]

I’m gay, and have a son. I’d have a problem with him bringing someone into my house without telling me first. Especially if it was someone of sexual interest. Kurt WAS being responsible by taking him home, but damn tell someone. Also looks pretty sus when found sleeping with him. I never liked Kurt. He’s always come across as a brat with a attitude problem. This isn’t the first episode he’s used being gay as a tool to attack his dad or other non-homophobic people around him. He never came across as sassy, Santana was sassy, he came across as a low-key privileged bully.

[@amandaswigert5998]

Omg Kurt is so ignorant here. Burt really just had to say "It's not cause you're gay, it's because you're 16!" end of story

[@aliciamata00]

The thing is Kurt is getting mad for no reason it’s completely normal what he’s saying which is “nobody you’re attracted to in your bed” fin isn’t allowed to have girls in his bed why should Blaine be allowed to be in Kurt’s bed it’s simple and logical

[@MissPumpkin91]

Kurt is being stupid. I mean, you just dont take people to your parents home whitout tell them about it... less you put them in your bed where any family member could walk in and see them... i mean, i'm straigth, but my parent doesnt even allow me to have girl friends to the house whitout a heads up. IS disrespectful

[@xeniadelavega6827]

MissPumpkin91 Ok first of all, do you need to go back to 2nd grade? Cause you really need a grammar check. Second of all, Blaine was in no position to drive himself home so Kurt did the right thing. Kurt came home very late and Burt was asleep. It's not like Kurt and Blaine were causing any trouble at all anyways. They just went to bed. So there was really no reason to tell Burt.

[@MissPumpkin91]

Well.. English is not my first language; i learn it by myself, so i guess my grammar is goint to have mistakes. Secodn, i'm not saying that he did wrong by bringing him home... is just the attitude he show to his father. Like, he needs to be more humble to his dad because is his home, his rules and his responsability if something happens to the boys.

[@xeniadelavega6827]

MissPumpkin91 Kurt wasn't giving him attitude he was simply asking his dad to treat him like he treats Finn. Like a normal boy, because he is a normal boy.

[@MissPumpkin91]

Thats unffair in this situation. Kurt pull out the "homophobic card" to his dad to get out of troulbe but Burt wasnt even talking about the fact of him bringing a boy just because is a boy. He was talking about bringing someone to his house and specting he acted like "oh cool, birng strangers to pass by and sleep, i dont care. Here's your breakfast". The first thing he says is: you need to ask me before you bring "someone" to speel over" he never talk about a guy, never talk about sex. Kurt birng that out. Plus when he talk about sex he talk about Finn and tell him that he woudlnt allow him bring a girl either. Kurt then accuse him about being unconrotable about gays when Burt wasnt

[@agustinaquino3116]

Kurt is so so so FUCKING cute on this

[@sadclownhooker5876]

kurt was being a little pissy about this. burt had a point

[@mayamartinez5805]

Burt is right though and Kurt just needs to understand. Burt is not being homophobia, Burt is a dad parenting his son. I would be the exact same way if I had a son who was gay or straight or a daughter who was gay or straight. Burt is just being protective of Kurt and Kurt needs to understand that and not go the “Oh would it be different if so and so had so and so in his bed?”

[@zippers987]

I know kurt is being annoying here but tbh I was this annoying when i was 16/17 and I wasn't exactly sure how supportive my parents were

[@rixsist7048]

Everyone is annoying at 16/17. When I watched this when I was younger I was on Kurt’s side but now a decade later I am firmly on Burt’s and think Kurt was being childish and inappropriate and Burt was 100% right to say that to him.

[@dreaxil_lixir]

It's obvious Kurt's father was saying NO hanky panky going on under his roof with Kurt OR Finn, that it was more a teenage issue than a gay one. Kurt should've known that already.

[@niyah7139]

he dad is right

[@alice.ali.a5175]

His voice is so soft OMG

[@entertain7us148]

Lol pretty sure Burt WOULD be uncomfortable if Finn had a girl in his bed

[@marie6226]

entertain7us14 burt said he would be

[@theamericandream5576]

NOT THE BROKEBACK MOUNTAIN REFERENCE THAT TOOK ME OUUUTTTT

[@abehostetterjr.8702]

Something went down in the tent lmao

[@malloryiskindadumb7602]

but nobodys gonna talk about the fact that when kurt brought brittany burt literally didnt care

[@alexandralugo1743]

I think he was ok with it Kurt and Brittany because he already knew Kurt was gay. He was just confused why Kurt was going through the trouble in acting straight. Remember, when Kurt came out to him Burt replied with "I know. I knew since you were three. All you wanted were a pair of sensible heels".

[@reina_harhar7815]

Burt does have a point. He's just trying to protect his kids from anything that's inappropriate.

[@valentinafangirling]

You know, I used to be 10000% on Kurt’s side when I first watched this. Now I’m out of HS and I’m 1000000% on his dad’s side while watching this lmao. Your ass can’t have your partner sleeping around and staying over when both are still like juniors lmao.

[@finley2300]

Unless their a reliable person. Or asexual. Either or. My point being, that not all teens wanna have sex.

[@Beppo85]

Burt is the more reasonable one in this scene IMO. But also Blaine wasn't Kurt's boyfriend yet at the time and they were both virgins until next season.

[@lilrose7936]

I kinda think this is unfair. Cause What it’s someone’s bi can they not have anyone over. Or what if someone is a lesbian but only is friends with girls. Are they not allowed to have sleep overs . Like this mindset is kinda crazy, though since Kurt does have a crush on Blaine it’s fine because things could have happened. But things could have happened no matter who was in the room.

[@NanztheFan]

i love how most of the comments are like 2018 - it makes me so happy that gleeks are still alive and well

[@lucasouza889]

burt didnt have that problem when kurt brought brittany over. he just said use protection.

[@arturo435]

Umm, did Burt watch a censored version of Brokeback 'cause the removing of the pants and placing of spit I feel like paints a pretty clear picture... like sweetie...

[@Beppo85]

Yea, that's the funny part, the movie is REALLY not ambiguous about what happened in the tent.

[@kevinfox298]

Yeah, but Burt has no knowledge to build that on. Even when I watched the film as a teen, I had at least heard of what sex entailed for two men. Burt is pretty innocent of it because it makes him uncomfortable, still -- it's pretty brave of him to admit that.

[@gadfageyar]

I will enver understand why American parents get so huffy about alcohol. It must be a cultural thing, but can someone elaborate please? Cos in nearly every American programme I watch, when the teenagers drink alcohol usually their parents act like its this big major thing? In England our drinking age is lower but we know kids are gonna drink underage but we just don't make a big deal about it!

[@baileeamador1866]

1:34 pause

[@Amelia-tu7yn]

Bailee Amador I

[@annaparks288]

When see a hot guy walk in the room😂😂

[@laurenelizabeth2221]

Shook

[@nanalove3819]

Kurt : "I was being responsible" Me : "by watching all your friends getting drunk?"