Harmful Cultural Practices ; A Victim's Story Feat. Kelly Kosi | The Honest Bunch Podcast S05EP19

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@kejuocheni
@kejuocheni 4 ай бұрын
She’s so traumatized because she’s still defending the people who did her a lot of wrongs. The friend who made her have sex for accommodation,her ex husband,foster mother,etc. May God heal her. She was so innocent and people abused her. Such a beautiful person.
@Emeka_Apala
@Emeka_Apala 4 ай бұрын
She is defending them because she is hiding some details. If she answered all the questions about how it started, you would discover that she made some mistake and she is not ready to take responsibility for those mistakes
@OnajiteOboharhephrure
@OnajiteOboharhephrure 4 ай бұрын
She is traumatized sincerely. Jezzzz how are you defending him
@hamdallah5243
@hamdallah5243 4 ай бұрын
​@@Emeka_ApalaFor someone that was probably SA,women are going through a lot in this part of the world
@Snap_zzzbk.3
@Snap_zzzbk.3 4 ай бұрын
@@Emeka_Apalayou are so insensitive
@RIELNIX
@RIELNIX 4 ай бұрын
Even jesus defended us 😂
@AllRounder77769
@AllRounder77769 4 ай бұрын
Who else among u love her the more she speaks in igbo language.. .. ❤. Her English is uniq
@official_ijeomacomedy
@official_ijeomacomedy 4 ай бұрын
Me I Soo much love her.
@ikediezechinaza7829
@ikediezechinaza7829 4 ай бұрын
This is a typical example of why you shouldn't judge anyone no matter the kind of life they live, choose to help,show love and bring them closer. People are really going through a lot.
@Chadash12
@Chadash12 4 ай бұрын
I totally agree 🤝🏽
@AQUABEE19
@AQUABEE19 4 ай бұрын
This lady has Stockholm Syndrome and a truck load of trauma. Her story just makes you realise how much we have failed each other as humans, as a people and as a society. Toun was very correct- Therapy and healing is needed. Husband Material- Thank you so much for your diplomacy and wit in asking the right questions.
@humidg355
@humidg355 4 ай бұрын
The young lady needs counselling. Our youths should be educated as to where they can go if they have problems. I was a school counsellor. I went the extra mile for my children. They could tell me anything. What I would like to say is that our young sister should not generalise. If you close your eyes so that the wicked walk past, you may miss the good ones because you will not know when they walk past
@tessyigiba5622
@tessyigiba5622 4 ай бұрын
Not this is Stockholm syndrome, It has to do with the same ignorance and mental/emotional processes that led them to fall victim in such a way in the first place. Therapy will educates the person on the subject and help them gain understanding of those inner workings and a perspective on things that is right for them
@synteearhmorgan3180
@synteearhmorgan3180 4 ай бұрын
Stop using we speak for ursef ah
@blackmellow1717
@blackmellow1717 3 ай бұрын
This isn't Stockholm syndrome...she has clinical depression and needs help, Stockholm syndrome is when someone is in love with their abuser and she has shown no signs of that...kindly try and educate yourself before misdiagnosing
@theophilusidowu-asufi9495
@theophilusidowu-asufi9495 4 ай бұрын
Chukwudi is the conscience of this show. Always bringing everyone back to the subject matter and asking relevant questions.
@franchescaasamoah3046
@franchescaasamoah3046 4 ай бұрын
💯
@johnsunday6960
@johnsunday6960 4 ай бұрын
💯
@ZeroneSolutions
@ZeroneSolutions 4 ай бұрын
Hence the name Bunch
@deyoncashout916
@deyoncashout916 4 ай бұрын
You spak my mind 😅😅 Chukwudi na d engine of Honest Bunch Others also gud 👍 but he guides everyone bak to main point..
@WISDOMRESULT_TV
@WISDOMRESULT_TV 4 ай бұрын
My only concerne is her children one day watching this podcast,,, the effect it might have on them?
@joekelz179
@joekelz179 4 ай бұрын
Her story has molded her to become the strong woman she is now. May God give her a lasting Joy by bringing her children to her one day
@emmafortune6824
@emmafortune6824 3 ай бұрын
What is strong woman?
@omotayoodiedi2665
@omotayoodiedi2665 4 ай бұрын
Oh, my goodness, she is the same age with my last child. I am crying. Whyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy. It's not too late for everyone involved to be arrested. I am so proud of her.
@adeolalayemo3178
@adeolalayemo3178 4 ай бұрын
Thank you for saying this. It is not too late to get justice for all she went through as a child, but because she is in Nigeria
@qsfkellyofficial
@qsfkellyofficial 4 ай бұрын
How can we get them arrested
@dereomiebi977
@dereomiebi977 4 ай бұрын
Omo this is almost every girls story in Bayelsa Yenegoa.. every fine girl in Ph.. Omo I'm more shocked by the comments.. thought every Nigerian knew this how girls survive.. it was made by our leaders that No other economic value is attached to our young females.. so they can have their way with them
@aflstitches4031
@aflstitches4031 4 ай бұрын
Hmmm.. Things are happening
@DolaniRacheal-ov9gh
@DolaniRacheal-ov9gh 3 ай бұрын
Same story 😢😭poverty & illiteracy 😢
@donyaxtv
@donyaxtv 4 ай бұрын
Wow young lady we are proud of you. Get a lawyer and get custody for your kids. You are a great woman. Stay strong.
@TIG_ICOGB
@TIG_ICOGB 4 ай бұрын
Humans aren't property. Knowledge is power
@mmesomaobodo3470
@mmesomaobodo3470 4 ай бұрын
Same thing my aunty is facing, the husband collected her children
@emmanuelchidozie9004
@emmanuelchidozie9004 4 ай бұрын
She's not saying the truth ...
@Abbyforreal.
@Abbyforreal. 4 ай бұрын
Get custody? Someone that’s still struggling, will you help?
@ofuasiankechi803
@ofuasiankechi803 2 ай бұрын
​@@emmanuelchidozie9004what you sow you reap😢
@sir_kurah
@sir_kurah 4 ай бұрын
If given the right mentorship, she will be a good mentor and also a guide to today's girl child. She's strong and beautiful, she's sound and i respect her a lot.
@uchechukwumichael4907
@uchechukwumichael4907 4 ай бұрын
For the first time, Edu and co sounded so ignorant in their line of questioning. Poor girl told you she was 16yrs old when she was groomed, manipulated and abused because of poverty and you are questioning her like she is 30yrs then. How many of us are able to make decisions even on our 20s without an external influence especially in Africa.
@brezzyslide
@brezzyslide 4 ай бұрын
They are so trauma uninformed, did not understand the basics of co-regulation. They. have no idea what vicarious trauma is, they just do content
@RettiTransformation
@RettiTransformation 4 ай бұрын
@@brezzyslide the questions asked feel like they don’t know what trauma is!!!! From facial expressions to the questions themselves … it’s giving judgement.
@tonyemeka5752
@tonyemeka5752 4 ай бұрын
Really ignorant with their questions.
@olanrewajusamuel5861
@olanrewajusamuel5861 4 ай бұрын
Birds of feathers. She's behind it already and healing in fact of which I think you three don't understand yet. The conversation although with a lot of fun Is well understood by the interviewee herself. Stop mongering bullshits please
@olanrewajusamuel5861
@olanrewajusamuel5861 4 ай бұрын
In line with their curation style and ethics, the Honest Bunch Podcast makes the conversation go the distance with fun. Mind you professors, they are not psychologists and this programe is not a therapy session
@giftshantel160
@giftshantel160 4 ай бұрын
Someday I must gather d courage to tell my story. Her story is really similar to mine. May God heal u fockelly u a very strong lady😭😭😭😭😭😭😭.... pls my people never mock d pain u never experienced I beg u😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
@pinnaryokubo3563
@pinnaryokubo3563 4 ай бұрын
Na wey you get problem you no know say men and friends are useless
@adaugoobioha8801
@adaugoobioha8801 4 ай бұрын
I swear, one day I will gather that courage to tell my story..
@Vivianrecipeandtip
@Vivianrecipeandtip 4 ай бұрын
You are very right, may God heal you and her
@janneyhenry3894
@janneyhenry3894 4 ай бұрын
You are a strong lady....only Christ can heal you...trust me
@MalinFamDee
@MalinFamDee 4 ай бұрын
So after telling the story, where are you expecting the solution? 😮😮😮
@gifthigher6847
@gifthigher6847 4 ай бұрын
Nothing fit shake this girl for this life again,she is now a very very strong woman
@amaechiwilliams1345
@amaechiwilliams1345 4 ай бұрын
A messed up woman
@emmanuelebunoluwa1501
@emmanuelebunoluwa1501 4 ай бұрын
​@@amaechiwilliams1345get, she could be fluent ooo buh then😢
@emmanuelebunoluwa1501
@emmanuelebunoluwa1501 4 ай бұрын
hmmm...I might not agree with you totally
@Johniyanu44
@Johniyanu44 4 ай бұрын
This interview would shake her. She would watch again and it would have impacts. She needs counseling
@Anonymous-b8c
@Anonymous-b8c 4 ай бұрын
What the mother told her about her Dad driving two cars means "If the Madam is a female boss, then you have the answer, He will drive the tipper and also the Madam but i am sure the meaning is not far from that. but she is a strong woman and God be with her
@chibuzor4960
@chibuzor4960 4 ай бұрын
Who else wasn't expecting this section to be emotional? i come jejely to come do aproko, ended up emotional
@JessicaMichael-tt2ns
@JessicaMichael-tt2ns 4 ай бұрын
is really emotional 😭
@houseofcoco1618
@houseofcoco1618 4 ай бұрын
Yes it was emotional
@wendybeeee
@wendybeeee 4 ай бұрын
I'm telling you
@franchescaasamoah3046
@franchescaasamoah3046 4 ай бұрын
Very heavy to listen n watch it was😢
@Osatomusic
@Osatomusic 4 ай бұрын
Hmm it's well 😢
@monsoortaiwoakintunde9813
@monsoortaiwoakintunde9813 4 ай бұрын
I want to believe this platform provides psych support to people like this because the amount of trauma they offload is heavy. Nobody remains the same after such. As much as viewers learn from their experiences: I hope this girl (especially) finds genuine peace.
@dicksonudeh7671
@dicksonudeh7671 4 ай бұрын
😅😅😅😅😅
@ajteddy9341
@ajteddy9341 4 ай бұрын
😢 Amen
@ayomidequeen6245
@ayomidequeen6245 4 ай бұрын
Amen
@estherifyikwumelu4113
@estherifyikwumelu4113 4 ай бұрын
😢😢
@MaijaneKangar
@MaijaneKangar 4 ай бұрын
I'm watching From Liberia 🇱🇷 am I'm really touched by her story 😍 in a nutshell I'm grateful to the organizers of this podcast. Kelly you're indeed a strong woman 👊 May the good Lord continue to bless you 🙏
@sunesis101
@sunesis101 4 ай бұрын
Dear fathers, protect your daughters, be present in their lives and let them experience the love of a father.
@Ifunanya4121
@Ifunanya4121 4 ай бұрын
i love you said this, cause the person i blame is her father
@sweetteejay
@sweetteejay 4 ай бұрын
If u be girl u come from rich home or u get good relationship with ur parents u don't know wat God has done for you cos life a woman is hard
@OYEMWENSARAHOMORUYI
@OYEMWENSARAHOMORUYI 4 ай бұрын
Yeah God try for u
@alakazainab6491
@alakazainab6491 4 ай бұрын
Walahi.
@Veraoshobugie
@Veraoshobugie 4 ай бұрын
Exactly
@ichadopriscilla9289
@ichadopriscilla9289 4 ай бұрын
My sister even if u have a Relationship with ur parents as a girl we are vulnerable,one can get molested under ur parents roof if there are not sensitive😢😢😢😢
@sweetteejay
@sweetteejay 4 ай бұрын
@@ichadopriscilla9289 chai na Dem go molest us, abuse us, rape us still come dey insult us. But if u hv money to some extent u won't go through so much
@johnsonblessing5854
@johnsonblessing5854 4 ай бұрын
Kelly, you have been through a lot man. This episode is full of life lessons😢😢😢. I came all the way from tiktok❤.
@okaforpeace1272
@okaforpeace1272 4 ай бұрын
I wish your mum was strong enough. I was 17 when an over 30 year old man wanted to marry me... I can remember vividly even my aunty already accepted but thank God for my mum. The kind craze my mum bin bring that day 😂... She said, them wan destroy her baby life. Poverty is really a disease ooo... I'm 28 now and everyday I thank God for my life that I didn't make that careless mistake. I pray for you, that you heal from whatsoever you're going through. God will see you through
@estheramanda7529
@estheramanda7529 4 ай бұрын
Unrelated question,are you married now?? If not,do you feel any sort of pressure coz of the age?
@okaforpeace1272
@okaforpeace1272 4 ай бұрын
@@estheramanda7529 If you're an Igbo girl you'll know that to get married, just stay in your village and your aunt or uncle will connect you to someone as long as you get good character as a girl. I travel almost every year and I cannot count how many I got in my years. But growing up, I always remember what my mum (may her soul rest in peace) said, and I quote; "Marriage is not for children, them no dey rush am. Just take your time and pray, be sure you're ready for it. Don't worry, God will give you a good man that'll take care of you!". Based on your question, NO! I have never felt pressured and will never feel pressured. Anyone that feels like I'm getting old, should marry on my behalf.
@chikaodiliruth
@chikaodiliruth 4 ай бұрын
​@@estheramanda7529how is that ur business 👏👏
@tao1724
@tao1724 4 ай бұрын
Nedu saying she enjoyed the sex with the man for 3 days, when she clearly slept with him out of desperation was disgusting. But I’m glad she corrected him and he apologised
@ibrahimolamilekan604
@ibrahimolamilekan604 4 ай бұрын
Nedu na mumu nah
@NGULUNMINATI
@NGULUNMINATI 4 ай бұрын
Very insensitive! Highly
@MjIbie9fo
@MjIbie9fo 4 ай бұрын
⁠@@ibrahimolamilekan604I nor know why them dey put am for the podcast
@KeneMuoneke
@KeneMuoneke 4 ай бұрын
u watch the program to spot the wrong of Nedu and broadcast them? What other lesson did you get from the show?
@ochphotography9229
@ochphotography9229 4 ай бұрын
Nedu no Sabi talk, even his questions 🤦🏿‍♂️
@princeobaseki2931
@princeobaseki2931 4 ай бұрын
That is why I don't judge people... If I can't help you I will leave but if can help and I helping without sentiment
@ademolaadesina4593
@ademolaadesina4593 4 ай бұрын
Sharing children among family members to look after, after the demise of a parent is very true and it is the only way to help the children survive. My prayer is, may those who accept to train other people's children be good to those children. God bless this guest for working hard to bring her siblings together. That is a selfless thing to do. My eldest brother did that for us and we value that. It made us close. May the good Lord continue to bless my brother. 🙏
@bettertinx4823
@bettertinx4823 4 ай бұрын
My Elder sister died leaving 3 kids,I shared them among 3 family members and support them each my little way.God has blessed me w my own kids too and i still love them lots
@AngelineWilliams-gh7um
@AngelineWilliams-gh7um 4 ай бұрын
This is my story this lady is narrating Every month I go through a mental breakdown but God is so faithful to us that have been in sure situations not to give up in life. I was born on May 27, 1999, the same as this lady the only difference in my case is I didn't get pregnant in the process of abusive teenage marriage 😢 Everyday I cried and till now haven’t gotten heal from this trauma I lived with both of my parents before I started living with my ex but none of my family members fought for me to remain this guy that I was only a kid. It’s hard to come out sure situation when you’re from a poor family to make a right decision. I’m so hurt and unhappy for all the horrible experiences I had while I was teenager 😭😭 I pray God come into my situation and heal me from my brokenness.
@adesholaadebambo9016
@adesholaadebambo9016 4 ай бұрын
Hang in there.. You are STRONG 💪.. I'm so sorry for all what you went through..
@georginanathan8423
@georginanathan8423 4 ай бұрын
May God heal you. Amen
@chiomavictoria1172
@chiomavictoria1172 4 ай бұрын
🫂
@AngelineWilliams-gh7um
@AngelineWilliams-gh7um 4 ай бұрын
@@adesholaadebambo9016 I’m trusting God for a new day and thank you so much
@AngelineWilliams-gh7um
@AngelineWilliams-gh7um 4 ай бұрын
@@chiomavictoria1172 🙏
@godonuhollorunwa3794
@godonuhollorunwa3794 4 ай бұрын
I don't understand igbo language, but I love the way she spilled in small igbo language to expressed her self. This life no balance at all
@Sandrak901
@Sandrak901 4 ай бұрын
Bruhhh, this lady is a strong woman, she's seen shege, i hope she gets therapy and heal no joke...
@Becky_lawrence
@Becky_lawrence 4 ай бұрын
I don’t know her personally but she is a full vibes I feel bad that she went through all the by herself
@JenniferOkonkwo-...
@JenniferOkonkwo-... 4 ай бұрын
Fact💯
@Justjoshua504
@Justjoshua504 4 ай бұрын
She needs an award this is a good life lesson kudos to her I pray God heals her heart
@chikaodiliruth
@chikaodiliruth 4 ай бұрын
How is the life Good
@jochebedaniyas
@jochebedaniyas 4 ай бұрын
She’s so beautiful, even her heart is beautiful because she still speak good about the people that hurt her….I just wish she’ll see a therapist 😌
@apostleofgod6861
@apostleofgod6861 3 ай бұрын
White people don deceive this one with English.
@ponsakchristopher2807
@ponsakchristopher2807 4 ай бұрын
NEDU is a Broadcaster, most question he asks may not make sense to you, but he is being professional. he is asking on behalf of some people. he is that intelligent
@DoubleTeeOye
@DoubleTeeOye 4 ай бұрын
I def do not agree with you sha, he pokes too much into details that is not needed. Let’s be sincere, he spills out rubbish most time
@Exquisite11
@Exquisite11 4 ай бұрын
@@DoubleTeeOye exactly! He’s too nosey
@gibszololo3937
@gibszololo3937 4 ай бұрын
It is deeply concerning that a significant portion of the Nigerian population is facing numerous challenges. I have observed the struggles of many parents who are unaware of the daily experiences of their children. It is disheartening to witness young children, under the age of 10, unsupervised and roaming the streets at late hours. These observations indicate a systemic failure that has adversely affected a substantial number of individuals. It is imperative that we collectively identify and implement effective strategies to address these issues and improve the overall well-being of our society.
@darealbabe5444
@darealbabe5444 4 ай бұрын
I love her. She has a very beautiful heart. Imagine not being able to hold grudges after all this pain! Ill learn this nne. You are forever protected by the LOVE of the Universe, Kosi
@fatimabalogun7207
@fatimabalogun7207 4 ай бұрын
Mr. Nedu, this lady needs serious support, especially on the kids
@zoway
@zoway 4 ай бұрын
I swear
@hannahackerman5017
@hannahackerman5017 4 ай бұрын
​@@zoway therapy 😢😢
@ayodehindefalade9418
@ayodehindefalade9418 4 ай бұрын
Pls this woman needs help...let get her a lawyer because of her child
@hannahackerman5017
@hannahackerman5017 4 ай бұрын
@@ayodehindefalade9418 yes we can all contribute comment pannel gether here
@emmanuelchidozie9004
@emmanuelchidozie9004 4 ай бұрын
Who told u she needs help. This lady just like sex. .no one took advantage of her
@on__off2923
@on__off2923 4 ай бұрын
i love the way Nedu breaks things down... her story is not really clear from the beginning😅
@AkujiezeFranklyn
@AkujiezeFranklyn 4 ай бұрын
Ndu please try and take courses on communication, and personal center practice. Maybe all the team should also. The channel is getting bigger and i believe you guys should get more upgrades. Honestly u guys are trying
@EricsonSong
@EricsonSong Ай бұрын
DO YOU SQUIRT? 😅😅😅😅QUESTION OF THE YEAR
@okonjimarianego7902
@okonjimarianego7902 4 ай бұрын
if every girl/woman who grew up in Nigeria( rich or poor homes) opens up about their molestation stories eh......families go divide, everywhere go divide. the girl child is not safe at home,it's mostly safer outside for some.
@Phumzy280
@Phumzy280 4 ай бұрын
IF ONLY YOU KNOW THE WAY I HAVE BEEN PROTECTING MY ONE AND ONLY GIRL CHILD SINCE HER BIRTH, WHO IS 16 NOW WITH EVERY BLOOD IN MY VEIN. ANY HUMAN BEING TRY ANY RUBBISH WITH HER BE READY......
@MsCee612
@MsCee612 4 ай бұрын
@@Phumzy280please keep it up ma.
@orevaoveh5700
@orevaoveh5700 4 ай бұрын
Not just the girl child, but also the boy child.
@mabelokpara-q6k
@mabelokpara-q6k 4 ай бұрын
This!!!!
@IfyOma-vm8uu
@IfyOma-vm8uu 4 ай бұрын
You are 100 percent right, families will definitely divide
@udehdaniel1794
@udehdaniel1794 4 ай бұрын
Looking at the snippets on tiktok and twitter, one would think she had no message. We all have battles we are fighting. I hope she gets reunited with her kids
@carlosdickerson4217
@carlosdickerson4217 4 ай бұрын
When someone that is/was abused start defending his/her abuser, then the person needs huge help…
@abubakarhauwa924
@abubakarhauwa924 4 ай бұрын
I keep saying it that people should not judge others until u are put in there shoes 😭😭😭😭😭😭
@HaleemahAdekunle
@HaleemahAdekunle 4 ай бұрын
Fr
@authenticsisk8290
@authenticsisk8290 4 ай бұрын
Can't hold back my tears. May God heal your pains young woman. This episode got me really emotional.😢
@ezehjean47
@ezehjean47 3 ай бұрын
The lady on shades just drank 3 cans of beer in one sitting, contribute na 😂😂😂
@ekoidowu3511
@ekoidowu3511 4 ай бұрын
She was young, naive, and probably stubborn. She was trying to escape poverty and met with a sweet-tongued prophet. Poverty played a major role in her experience. It is criminal for the Prophet to marry her that young, but he probably never thought about her age. All he saw was a full-blown, experienced lady, young enough for him to control.
@Mriluezi
@Mriluezi 4 ай бұрын
I feel the exact same way. He probably even thought he met her at 17 that's why he got married to her a day after her birthday possibly thinking she was 18.
@ugwuemmanuel568
@ugwuemmanuel568 4 ай бұрын
Honestly we shouldn't judge anyone before we walk their shoes. Also, we can't condemn until we've heard from both party.
@babalolacynthia1246
@babalolacynthia1246 4 ай бұрын
I tell you 😢
@lilianchim7520
@lilianchim7520 4 ай бұрын
What do u mean by both party, an adult getting married to a minor , making her go through abortion and depriving her from seeing her children. Pls what do u want to hear from the party
@chikaodiliruth
@chikaodiliruth 4 ай бұрын
Are you serious right now 😮
@ugwuemmanuel568
@ugwuemmanuel568 4 ай бұрын
@@chikaodiliruth yes very serious. Honestly you can't judge a story by hearing from one part. In that way you have a proper view
@ugwuemmanuel568
@ugwuemmanuel568 4 ай бұрын
@KZbinCommentter You know you could really state your valid points of any without cursing? How can you be objective by hearing from one side and conditioning the other?
@healthyyou3914
@healthyyou3914 4 ай бұрын
She's just one out of many that experienced this. Her life experiences could probably be considered normal in so many environments. It's not just the individuals she encountered in her life. The entire community needs sanitising, she inclusive. To some extent she has also been infected with the mentality. Social cleansing, awareness is needed in so many of our communities.
@EvolvewithBwayisak
@EvolvewithBwayisak 4 ай бұрын
Familiar spirits give people visions, dreams, prophecies, and miracles. Be careful! Do not be exposed to demons and think it is God. The gifts of God are without repentance; once given, they are never taken back, but the fruits of the Spirit are the real deal! Foc Kelly, you are loved!!!
@VeoKingdomwealthofficial
@VeoKingdomwealthofficial 4 ай бұрын
I am a young person that the responsibilities of leadership really forced to be matured at a very tender age, so i have learnt in a very hard way at the past, never to pass judgement until I hear from all the parties involved in a case. That's how I can get a balanced judgement.. In issues like this, i step aside so that i won't be caught in the trap of one sided emotional blackmail. In a case like this, emotional blackmail can make you to goof as a judge and you will never see things from the right perspective, because emotion has been involved. If you must be a great leader in any sphere of influence, pls learn this uncommon life principle 🤔.. This my above statement is meant for matured minds, and not for biased individuals. I arrest my case..
@xtonetware5493
@xtonetware5493 4 ай бұрын
y=You are truely matured. This is one comment I 100% resonate and agree with. Yet I sympathize with her.
@CjGrand-i2d
@CjGrand-i2d Ай бұрын
My sister , words can't really explain how am feeling already, but the only thing i can say is that i am very proud of your and God Almighty will continue to guide and uphold you and his Grace will never ever depart from you.... I love you❤
@joeldaniel7041
@joeldaniel7041 4 ай бұрын
All this things started from the family,the family you come out from us very very very important
@tennysonosita9018
@tennysonosita9018 4 ай бұрын
Husband material they ask questions sha... He is a deep thinker
@abelemmanuel.8960
@abelemmanuel.8960 4 ай бұрын
Swrs men! He thinks outside the box
@phreshp926
@phreshp926 4 ай бұрын
The only sensible host in that podcast.
@MrHandle_1
@MrHandle_1 4 ай бұрын
Lol, be calming down​@@phreshp926
@chukadennisamadi7888
@chukadennisamadi7888 4 ай бұрын
Yes. True.
@charlesnonso433
@charlesnonso433 4 ай бұрын
You are in my mind bro.
@chukwuemerie
@chukwuemerie 4 ай бұрын
Kelly, Please go to the court registry and apply for a copy of the court judgment. Pay the fees snd wait for it. It's your right to have it.
@bethlawrence3721
@bethlawrence3721 4 ай бұрын
This is a bruised, wounded and brave woman. Mixed feelings
@atohtenguhsamuella7769
@atohtenguhsamuella7769 4 ай бұрын
this lady is a star!!! the fact that the pastor was attracted to her at her young age means she has something great. people are attracted to us beacause of what we carry. Sadly, some come instead to steal, kill and destroy the greatness instead of helping to build it. May God restore her!! to my sisters, please let us use discernment when men approach us claiming God said this or that. They should wait for God to speak to you too if really it is God's will. while waiting, build yourself, your relationship with God especially. Marriage is not the end goal but a journey to destiny. Who you marry can make or break you!!! oupps I've spoken a lot🤓 thanks
@bijoudelouest2507
@bijoudelouest2507 4 ай бұрын
The fact that the pastor was attracted to her at such a young age means that he's a pedophile, full stop...it's abhorrent, repulsive and an abomination. This unnatural attraction has nothing to do with greatness or "what we carry". Such an idea can make victims blame themselves for grown men having been attracted to their "greatness" or make them feel that they were destined to have been molested and r**ed at a young age. Everything else you said is on point
@FamousInsight
@FamousInsight 4 ай бұрын
Poverty makes parents lost their grip on children, her story is a lack of parental care.
@marcelinevernyuy597
@marcelinevernyuy597 4 ай бұрын
I love you Kelly Your challenges will strengthen a generation.
@osaruguewhittaker7780
@osaruguewhittaker7780 4 ай бұрын
What her fbook page
@DaddySok
@DaddySok 4 ай бұрын
She’s sounding so relaxed and making it look normal. I don’t think she even knows that she was raped and abused as minor.
@jennifereguakunossai8629
@jennifereguakunossai8629 4 ай бұрын
She needs help. Like therapy. She is not okay like that no matter how she is talking about her situation
@mercydennis8541
@mercydennis8541 4 ай бұрын
Rape trauma never really goes away, no matter the therapy, ​@@jennifereguakunossai8629
@PRESH_HAIRMOSPHERE
@PRESH_HAIRMOSPHERE 4 ай бұрын
@@jennifereguakunossai8629This ☝️
@johnnjoku5267
@johnnjoku5267 4 ай бұрын
That’s what happens when you’ve become too strong for too long. Traumas like this that are hidden are the most heartbreaking when shared.
@Larry-qu4et
@Larry-qu4et 4 ай бұрын
It's a sign of a broken woman.....she needs serious therapy.
@madubomarinze-f9j
@madubomarinze-f9j 4 ай бұрын
Any one from Anambra that heard where she said, she from. You will know that the fundamental issue that lead to all these, is not alien to those area or people. (no shading, just the bitter truth) Yet i won't take away that she's an amazon for passing through all these & still had the courage to share her story to the world.
@rejoicewilliams9913
@rejoicewilliams9913 4 ай бұрын
This girl has really been through a lot in this very life.. chai so many girls are going through a lot but can't come out cause environmental stigma, am so proud of you ❤
@justinabulus2626
@justinabulus2626 4 ай бұрын
Ah swear 😢 so sad
@MmesomaaOhamadike
@MmesomaaOhamadike 4 ай бұрын
Exactly Many girls dey go through worst but who wan come out talk 😢
@TimileyinSegun-zy4lm
@TimileyinSegun-zy4lm 4 ай бұрын
and men
@Ancientofdayz1
@Ancientofdayz1 4 ай бұрын
They asked her why she agreed to marry at 17 yrs to a 31 yr old man
@rejoicewilliams9913
@rejoicewilliams9913 4 ай бұрын
@@justinabulus2626 very sad my dear
@gozietwelve
@gozietwelve 4 ай бұрын
I love how nedu seek for clarity with questions 🎉
@cynthiachizaramnwachukwu2754
@cynthiachizaramnwachukwu2754 4 ай бұрын
Same here
@angelamicheals892
@angelamicheals892 4 ай бұрын
I noticed some contradictions in Kelly's story. Initially, she said she lived with her ex-husband for 5 months but didn't get pregnant. subsequently, she said she got pregnant and had an abortion.
@VINCENT_FAVOUR
@VINCENT_FAVOUR 4 ай бұрын
What she meant was she wasn’t pregnant while getting married
@francineambo1423
@francineambo1423 3 ай бұрын
She said she wasn’t pregnant when she got married
@Malaikandherlaikas
@Malaikandherlaikas 2 ай бұрын
Yeah cuz they aborted her pregnancy before the wedding
@Aishaa5
@Aishaa5 4 ай бұрын
No one deserves to go through what she has gone through omg But Somehow some parts of this story no add up. I don’t know if she’s completely honest omo. Bh my heart goes out to young girls out there that experience such things. May God save them. Amen🙏
@gabrielachemu2786
@gabrielachemu2786 4 ай бұрын
I insist that this lady still needs a counselor or therapist. Even she will deny that. But is obvious she is holding a lot and needs to heal.
@jaceewonderVevo
@jaceewonderVevo 4 ай бұрын
You're right, I can't agree less with all these I heard
@omacooliz
@omacooliz 4 ай бұрын
That pastor has been taking girls to do abortion long before...
@pascalokafor2937
@pascalokafor2937 4 ай бұрын
I am just seething at this point and I feel every bit of the trauma she has passed through having being on similar situation. I hope a day would come when i will have a platform to tell my story. I pray for her healing. But I urge her not to forget. For my future based on my event I fully understand that revenge is a dish best served cold. In future
@bakhitango263
@bakhitango263 2 ай бұрын
I'm so sorry for what you went through.
@DARLINGTON-zj6cw
@DARLINGTON-zj6cw 4 ай бұрын
The pastor in question is by name Apostle Little - David Foc, General Overseer of Save the World Love Evangelical Ministry Asaba - Delta State..
@Vetsolo
@Vetsolo 4 ай бұрын
.is that his real name
@japhetjoshua
@japhetjoshua 4 ай бұрын
I don sha see the pastor profile for linked in na werey self
@uchechiudeagha7686
@uchechiudeagha7686 4 ай бұрын
we could go get him arrested!!!!!
@Dozie_UR
@Dozie_UR 4 ай бұрын
This pastor Sha go collect oo. One way or the other
@estherobaze186
@estherobaze186 4 ай бұрын
Yes I have checked him on fb.... I don ask m question
@presheby5701
@presheby5701 4 ай бұрын
I knew things werent very ok woth her when i first came across her video on IG. I keep saying it that people should stop judging other's untill you wear their shoes. Lots of folks with siblings who are worst than this girl will come here to talk trash or lift this video to go make a post talking nonsense why theirs is worst. I pray and hope she reslly understands that she needs to heal from all thesr and move on to become better for the sake of her children. Sending you light and love❤
@ogechiolivia5771
@ogechiolivia5771 4 ай бұрын
What's her name on IG please
@sheilamammanramatu8877
@sheilamammanramatu8877 4 ай бұрын
This girl accent sef sweet. Even with the igbo language chaiii true true you be star girl.
@felicityugbaja4145
@felicityugbaja4145 4 ай бұрын
She doesn’t need a therapist just by doing the content career she’s already healing from her past 😊😂
@emmanuelchidozie9004
@emmanuelchidozie9004 4 ай бұрын
Far from it
@patrickjoevita2939
@patrickjoevita2939 4 ай бұрын
U don carry movie line come here 😂
@dikekingsley1510
@dikekingsley1510 3 ай бұрын
She actually needs a therapist. She doesn’t even know who wronged her or who she needs to avoid. She’s just living by the social media. God save our society.
@ngoziabakwam382
@ngoziabakwam382 4 ай бұрын
Husband Material and his Introductions are classically funny. Cheers to you Husband Material 🥂
@samueldorcas1071
@samueldorcas1071 4 ай бұрын
Pple and there hate comments, but anyone making hate comments on her , his or her children will experience this too. Am really proud of her👏👏. Very touching story😔😔. Anyone that has experience manipulation will know better💯💯💯
@samueldorcas1071
@samueldorcas1071 4 ай бұрын
If she did not talk now and later got married to a influential man, u pple will still go and dig her story out😡😡
@lightcollins6948
@lightcollins6948 4 ай бұрын
A mummy G.O at 17😂....crazy things dey sup bruh
@sandrachiamaka4414
@sandrachiamaka4414 4 ай бұрын
I swear
@emmanuelebunoluwa1501
@emmanuelebunoluwa1501 4 ай бұрын
mummy g.o were no know God oo
@sammydiamond5212
@sammydiamond5212 4 ай бұрын
Even till now she's still growing, she's not fully matured emotionally and mentally, God bless her
@OghenerobohNelson
@OghenerobohNelson 4 ай бұрын
I feel so too
@olayinkaolaide558
@olayinkaolaide558 4 ай бұрын
Exactly 💯💯💯💯💯....... She's giving too many information.
@IfeomaChukwu
@IfeomaChukwu 3 ай бұрын
Really great , she's made up her mind to provide what she lacked growing u, shelter for the homeless....I appreciate her mindset......May God teache us to make a message from our misery, gains from our pain, grace from our disgrace, honor from our dishonor, may we access glory after our story.....it is well ......
@AdamsMurray-oi5km
@AdamsMurray-oi5km 4 ай бұрын
Now I understand why she talks the way she talks, at kosi if you're seeing this am so sorry for all those vuga comments I made on your page not knowing the reason behind it. I pray you get the healing you deserve 🙏🏽✌🏽❤
@OgbukosisoMaryjane
@OgbukosisoMaryjane 4 ай бұрын
Beta go delete am
@chidiogoakumuo1487
@chidiogoakumuo1487 4 ай бұрын
​@@OgbukosisoMaryjane😂😂
@osaruguewhittaker7780
@osaruguewhittaker7780 4 ай бұрын
What her Facebook page
@priscaanyanwu9474
@priscaanyanwu9474 4 ай бұрын
Seriously I love the way Nedu ask questions, for clarity purposes
@nollywoodactorsgallery
@nollywoodactorsgallery 4 ай бұрын
U get...
@Mike-mill-mv8hl
@Mike-mill-mv8hl 4 ай бұрын
Not all abeg
@princeobaseki2931
@princeobaseki2931 4 ай бұрын
He is not Nice but a manipulative man... He created the nice image he created just to make sure you depends on him
@jamesscott1489
@jamesscott1489 4 ай бұрын
Nedu go use question finish you but no panic 😂
@OpeyemiMathew-n4c
@OpeyemiMathew-n4c 4 ай бұрын
😂
@okolochristian759
@okolochristian759 4 ай бұрын
Maintain steeze
@Roza-May
@Roza-May 4 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂
@stanleyobeta3501
@stanleyobeta3501 4 ай бұрын
i so much missed NEDU in the last episode,🥱
@EhisOnaghise
@EhisOnaghise 4 ай бұрын
Nedu I love the way you ask her questions for clarity keep it up ❤
@destinyujenyuojoonuh
@destinyujenyuojoonuh 4 ай бұрын
I pray she heals perfectly❤..and this is also an audience for every parents out there learn to spend time with your kids get to know them better and stop making them feel insecure to talk to you about what's going on in their lives and trust me a lot would be made known to you
@keneodo
@keneodo 4 ай бұрын
The most emotional episode for me. ❤ Kosi is a strong lady and courageous. Weldon.
@Chi_Som
@Chi_Som 4 ай бұрын
So many unsaid stories and very complicated. I hope we all healed.
@kelechinwagbaraocha3946
@kelechinwagbaraocha3946 4 ай бұрын
I love your guest today, she's blunt and straight forward.
@FavourIgwegbo
@FavourIgwegbo 4 ай бұрын
This is the best podcast I've watched so far on Nadu's page ❤
@DirectorFabien_A
@DirectorFabien_A 4 ай бұрын
If you are watching from Cameroon 🇨🇲 react with a heart
@PhilominaTseyah
@PhilominaTseyah 4 ай бұрын
@nsaidzekaharriet6275
@nsaidzekaharriet6275 4 ай бұрын
@nerisgiyo2909
@nerisgiyo2909 2 ай бұрын
@tambawainde7661
@tambawainde7661 4 ай бұрын
Dear honest bunch/Nedu Husband material is a gem please keep him I have been watching you from SIERRA LEONE 🇸🇱.. I love every bit of your content since I started watching you, keep it up guys 👍🏾
@humbleandyagwu4513
@humbleandyagwu4513 4 ай бұрын
Nedu, thanks for your podcast but pls create avenue for your viewers to contribute
@djstunt101
@djstunt101 4 ай бұрын
Nice podcast, and kudos to the lady that came to the show and pour our all the past experiences she had. I like nedu questions though lol, and everyone there, but Toun was asking a lot of innocent questions lol. Kudos everyone.
@mammaiddieosung245
@mammaiddieosung245 4 ай бұрын
Even Oga Nedu became emotional..he had to excuse himself for a while,..
@BrownBrightness
@BrownBrightness 4 ай бұрын
This is so heartbreaking She's a strong and courageous woman and I love her😩🥲🤍
@Larry-qu4et
@Larry-qu4et 4 ай бұрын
She is broken.....and she needs therapy.
@crypticchronicles344
@crypticchronicles344 4 ай бұрын
Trauma! Trauma! Trauma!! I feel for her, may she find true healing.
@janneyhenry3894
@janneyhenry3894 4 ай бұрын
Quality hair is your natural hair ❤
@makuochukwu7219
@makuochukwu7219 4 ай бұрын
The fact that I watch this from beginning to end
@davidscot7767
@davidscot7767 4 ай бұрын
All the way from facebook, anyone?????
@graceadelemoni4839
@graceadelemoni4839 4 ай бұрын
Yes oh, Right here
@NdukubaPrecious
@NdukubaPrecious 4 ай бұрын
Am here
@BLlover650
@BLlover650 Ай бұрын
Yea
@IfeomaChukwu
@IfeomaChukwu 3 ай бұрын
This Girl is still a Child, she never had the opportunity to grow up. I can still see the Child who never grew up in her . Yeah there's a Child in her who never grew. But she so strong........God bless her!
@Aishaa5
@Aishaa5 4 ай бұрын
She has given us the name of the church and state Now we shall take it from here 😡
@ekioduwa1
@ekioduwa1 4 ай бұрын
The pastor's name is Little david foc
@nnajianne538
@nnajianne538 4 ай бұрын
​@@ekioduwa1exactly
@blessingonyebuchi740
@blessingonyebuchi740 4 ай бұрын
I have seen his church page on Facebook seh
@blessingonyebuchi740
@blessingonyebuchi740 4 ай бұрын
Preaching what he doesn't preach 🤬🤬🤬
@on__off2923
@on__off2923 4 ай бұрын
that b@stard won't go unpunished
@joyoisaghie
@joyoisaghie 4 ай бұрын
Sorry to say ooooo. But she has a contradicting story line. I think she is nt seeing anything wrong in some of the things dat happened to her.
@morolakeajimisinmi5429
@morolakeajimisinmi5429 4 ай бұрын
when you go through trauma, some bad things look ok to you
@humphreyobi8912
@humphreyobi8912 Ай бұрын
SIR NEDU MY GUY, I RESPECT YOU, YOU ALWAYS ASK VALID QUESTIONS ❤❤, MUCH LOVE ❤❤❤❤ TO ALL THE CREW MEMBERS OF THE HONEST BONCH.
@UduakFrank-iw5by
@UduakFrank-iw5by 4 ай бұрын
hmmmm this one tears go follow ohhh cause i am so emotional Na only God go help us
@onome7074
@onome7074 4 ай бұрын
I just want to give her a hug 🥺
@rhudodusengenalondwa231
@rhudodusengenalondwa231 4 ай бұрын
Me tooooo😢
@whytewebmg6863
@whytewebmg6863 4 ай бұрын
I felt like pouring salt on Nedu's tongue. Haba! Learn to listen kwanu.
@vivianokoye2777
@vivianokoye2777 4 ай бұрын
Very annoying guy mouth just dey draw
@chikaodiliruth
@chikaodiliruth 4 ай бұрын
I swear
@kinzoogbugo1891
@kinzoogbugo1891 4 ай бұрын
Mumu guy
@opeyemivictoria3725
@opeyemivictoria3725 4 ай бұрын
All the way from TikTok ✌️
@tennyadebowale6863
@tennyadebowale6863 4 ай бұрын
The kind race wey I pick ehn, I go go pick my slippers later 😂
@EMENIRUUCHECHI-dj3ez
@EMENIRUUCHECHI-dj3ez 4 ай бұрын
😂😂😂
@nobiuusman8484
@nobiuusman8484 4 ай бұрын
Same here oo
@TEXT_MarkRober9
@TEXT_MarkRober9 4 ай бұрын
What's her handle please
@atilormaorji660
@atilormaorji660 4 ай бұрын
This husband material is so smart, intelligent and morally sound to a reasonable extent. Kudos bro❤❤
@mariamk7828
@mariamk7828 4 ай бұрын
I love his humor too
@_Eagle.2
@_Eagle.2 4 ай бұрын
Kosi we see you and we love you 😘 be strong 💪🏻 God will see you through and you will get ur children back for sure 🎉❤
@ehisebojie4510
@ehisebojie4510 4 ай бұрын
One of the best Episode if i am being Honest, i feel your story
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