Every Parent Needs To Know THIS One Simple Truth | Dr. Shefali | Inspiring Women of Goalcast

[@PracticalInspiration]

If you can give love without expecting anything in return, you can enjoy the greatest pleasures life has to offer. Wonderful video

[@lisamullins-kd8bm]

“Giving” love should be a race to the back of the line.

[@coachbahman]

My parent did not know any better but I understand this world and I will show my kids there are endless roads that lead to happiness. I will not decide their value or reflect my own insecurities or failures on my kids. They are a new chance, a blank slate, that needs to see everything as an opportunity. I will be their coach.

[@achieachie911]

I wish my parents would see this. Life's hard for me as it is without me having to bear the constant weight of their disapproval.

[@raz902]

Your not alone, many of us are in the same situation

[@arbonneladyTN]

May May I am sorry you have to live with that. Maybe sitting down and writing them a letter.. ask that they can read it TWICE , "once for the heart and once for the head." If you are on your own, you surely need to let them know how you feel. Maybe send them the link to this video. Good luck

[@emmanuelteshome2469]

You only have one life May May, if you want success in something you want, go out there and seize the opportunity, even if it means disappointing your parents, and never give up. Failure is when you give up.

[@thomasgrabowski2202]

Trust me. I know how you feel. My parents tried to outcast me as soon as I disagreed with them. The only reason I did because I feared for my life. Talk about crazy.

[@6Fire1Fist9]

Saaaame

[@mostafasadman7524]

after hearing this, i simply just cried!! cause my whole childhood just gone by listening insults, insults & insults!! repeatedly i had to hear what i couldn't do!!! i am not good at english so i cant explain it in a proper way!! all i can say, i have been dead psychologically for years!!, tons of injustice, humiliation & bully i had to tackle in my 26 years of life!! i am soooooooo tired!!!!!! i just want live!!!! i want nothing but a deep silence with peace!!! 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

[@pholliez]

Your English is just fine!

[@khatuna801]

I am so sorry to hear that. Unfortunately, we have to fight to be our true selves. It is exhausting, but much better than conforming and pretending to be someone you are not.

[@daystar862003able]

You are a gift from God. Remember that! People who mistreat you will reap what they sow.

[@pch8236]

I cried with you. Life always will turn for the better, you will see :)

[@julia4393]

I had such childhood too... My life started near 40 .

[@paramshah6376]

God, thank you so much for this. Thank you Dr. Shefali and Tom for making me realise that I need to accept who I am and love myself. Thank you for making me realise this at 18. ❤️❤️👏👍🏻

[@thetruthbetweenthelines8521]

When I heard this brilliant mind at Tom Bilyeu it was mind blowing because it happened exactly when I was going to become a father. In that moment I realize that I need to learn a complete new type of information to accomplish the new mission I was given.

[@Love-Runs-Blind]

I have so much love and respect for this Woman. She is one of the 10 speaker who has touched my heart. Many won’t agree with her because they don’t want to accept their mistake but unless you accept it how are you going to change it Atleast when you are a parent.... Be the best version of yourself to your kids. You don’t do favour to them by rising them up. You need to be thankful for having them in your life irrespective of the way they are

[@nadiabalkaran7719]

The most beautiful thing I've ever heard..Thank you..that I look at my children differently now💕🙌💖🙏💐

[@arthurchase9381]

Strong Message I had to listen a few more times to truly think and contimplate who am I? We are all so busy in our own lives functioning like a machine that we forget sometimes that we are human.

[@tuanamni5332]

imagine having her as our parents😭👍

[@justinboothe5636]

I want her as my parent

[@jenniferdvorak7892]

This video is profound! Great advice and insight from a beautiful woman with a beautiful spirit!

[@rafiajan633]

Watching it after yelling on my daughter for no mistake ,I was simply frustrated now I am feeling guilty and so bad ...my head and heart are in pain.

[@unleashingpotential-psycho9433]

Loving your child consist Of treating them the way you want to be treated.

[@phaniprasadhk15]

Yeah

[@aahnagarg42]

I am always suferred idk why but yes im not treated nice. I came her to get some motivation. Thanks to the whole team. Hope my parents watch it. They always want to go on their track. Thanks once again

[@dherajgupta1715]

But my mom swiped it up I wanted to watch that video but I couldn't I searched that video and I found this amazing video I want my parents to be just like her Motivating , appreciating , happy with what I am and what I want to be in life😭

[@ILoveYou-bv7mf]

I should show this video to my mom 😅😂 Thank you so much, GoalCast~ ☺❤💜💋

[@arbonneladyTN]

sakura heartfilia YES you should...however have her watch it alone. Then meet up with her after she has time to think about it.

[@pujamedhi7371]

Love unconditionally

[@pch8236]

Amazing, and profound. Thank you for sharing and blessings to Dr Shefali.

[@ChessMasteryOfficial]

*It’s okay if you don’t like me. Not everyone has good taste.*

[@Aven-Sharma1991]

India’s intellect. ❤️🇮🇳❤️🇮🇳❤️🇮🇳

[@dherajgupta1715]

I want to show this video to my parents

[@fit3864]

Accept yourself first and you'll accept your children for whoever they are

[@samdaniel5099]

This made me literally cry parents don’t let u to be who u r who u want to be they think they knows the best but they dont know they are doing slow poisoning to their child which kills everything in them their desire their motivation, confidence , soul everything and once they are fully dead than they ask oh my child start getting busy oh we never stopped u its just they never admit their mistakes and never accept what they have done so wrong so so wrong !! 😔

[@bestoffers283]

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[@Josephwilson1983]

I hope when I becomes a father that I'll be able to applied those insight to let my child be a child untill he discovered himself for whom he his. I pray!

[@engineers-blog]

Wow, Dr. Shefali is also from India.

[@lrodriguez5576]

Daddy will always love you Adonis, Alanis, and Aries. ❤💯

[@RNicolasRuvalcaba]

All of this sounds super inspiring and I'll probably even buy her books but I would love to see her in a real world situation with screaming kids in a restaurant. If she spent the day with my 3 1/2 year old son he would probably leave her crying in the shower..

[@christopheredwards788]

Excellent!!🙏🙏✊✊✊

[@dherajgupta1715]

I pray to God that my mom and dad see this video I was watching an emotional video with mom which they were saying let your children be what they want to in a very unique way but my mom

[@nehakothari8899]

I just 🥰 loved it

[@bjtop10]

Great message - the ending slate “love unconditionally” missed the point though. It’s about letting go of the idea of loving unconditionally and rather, expressing love with consciousness.

[@StevenAndTraceyJiles]

I agree with her in part, but parenting also involves setting standards and expectation that help guide the child in being their optimal selves. Doesn't mean that you don't love them when they miss the mark, but the guideposts and standards are set to help not hurt. If not why even have parents to begin with except to procreate? True love involves disciple and guidance as well.... " "Whoever spares the rod hates their children, but the one who loves their children is careful to discipline them." (Proverbs 13:24)

[@samanthalee3944]

I think it's more of don't push your image of how you want your child to be onto them

[@bavleegerges1893]

Exactly, someone finally said it ....thank you that's the Christian way of raising kids.

[@positiveenergy8598]

So glad I watched this.

[@Atlanta718]

Love is conditional - control - fear - Live up to the checklist of success given by family Accept them for who they are but first accept yourself for who you are Overachiever and doing is coming from fear and lack. Get in touch with ordinary Don't feel good enough No attachment to labels

[@rafaeldwelldossantos797]

Unconditional love is hard.. Loving someone without asking something in return is truely tough.. only handful people able to feel this..

[@shivanandms6249]

Must watch

[@harrylal12]

Well done as always

[@phaveshkooyelas8221]

Love it ! 👌

[@SheIsBeaute]

So glad I watched this 💜

[@dherajgupta1715]

I sent this video to my mom but my heart was beating wham she was watching this video

[@AhmedMotivates]

*Goal Cast* is My Inspiration They inspired me to create my channel Now i upload *Motivational* Videos and Vlogs Every Week Your Support Will Be Appreciated ❤️Have A Nice Day Everyone❤️

[@glw231]

Love this!

[@Laaimz]

With hatred, we can only control a child's body. They will obey not because they want to but because they have to. With love we can own a place in their heart and soul and then they will obey us with love forever.

[@dherajgupta1715]

Ohh my god but I am glad she watched it a little bit 😅

[@kavya0801]

Best!!

[@arthurchase9381]

Wow I like this message GG brah

[@budisantoso2890]

Love as who they are.... How do we know who they are? Since they are children and we dont know it yet. so we need to build and help them grow.

[@inesines227]

It is hard to explain but when I first hold my daughters in my arms I felt their substance and yes I know who they are disregarding all material ehat is visible only with eyes. I pray to honor that and to help them feel this greatness about themselves their whole life. And no I am not talking about achievement...

[@amberunthank7209]

I love my kids unconditionally so that part is wrong but the other parts I agree.

[@lalalanding234]

The toppers are always concerned that they're not good enough that's true actually, I've seen it with my own eyes

[@loveleenkaur9123]

parents can't understand their child emotions they screaming on their child because of toxic relatives and this is making a huge effect in their lives.

[@laurade6343]

Need this with italian subs so i can show that to my father

[@Laaimz]

Forgive them daily, if you have experienced what you shouldn't have. It will heal you. Then gift your children the love, by not repeating your childhood experience.

[@bestoffers283]

Dear Parents, Want to Raise Brilliant Kids? well, trust me, nothing worth fighting for if it wasn't for your children. Invest in your child's future by teaching him/her to read in early age in a very efficient scientific way using a guaranteed exclusive program because as parents, we all face the challenge of how to best help our children develop. You won't loose anything. Watch those typical instructions and don't forget to share with your loved ones: kzbin.info/www/bejne/iIOWo5iXf62JlZo kzbin.info/www/bejne/j3-bnYiBrqd_eLM kzbin.info/www/bejne/rWqvm2SBhtmphrc Cheers 👍😉

[@thomasgrabowski2202]

WOOOOOOOOW

[@emnasai7800]

can we have this with French subs please?

[@ksethi1399]

❤

[@quincymb8576]

"All love is conditional, even when parents say it is not, because they think they know who their child is going to be, so you need to love unconditionally." But wait, she said that unconditional love does not be exist. I like her ideas but she is not being responsible with the aggressive and extreme statements she opens with.

[@lifewasalie6013]

The dislike are from the parents who beat their children to get their frustration out 😠😡

[@00RaveRat]

Im trying to find videos to show my mom what im trying to say by how im not like her so im gonna be and act differently than her. Like WAY differently

[@BrianDonato]

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[@dherajgupta1715]

😭😭😭 why this life is so difficult for children

[@sabrinajahanmim195]

No parents see that. We kid only see and cry.

[@Cosmicburn]

I wish there was a Spanish translation

[@thomasgrabowski2202]

I am showing this to my rents.

[@maryaahmed999]

So how are we going to teach them what is right and wrong,teach them good manners and etiquettes,without any criticism,guide us plz

[@kalpanakapadia213]

By doing exactly what you 3xpect from others ordeom your kids

[@theauntofdragons]

I never feel real life from my family. Only judgement and this wavering hope that i'll come running back and accept their way of life. I tried their way and I almost killed myself. I'm struggling now but I'm happier now. I wish they would just see that...wow this was a super sad comment lol. Sorry +!

[@Behappyhealthy-y1v]

👌👌🙏🙏⚘⚘🙂🙂

[@trumpaustralia2189]

How about loving people who want to bring their children the opposite way to this... How about loving them UNCONDITIONALLY ! Not wanting to change who they are... !

[@markvincentordiz]

even our relationship with our God is conditional

[@bavleegerges1893]

God loves you unconditionally, he died for all our sins. He was ultimate sacrifice and Rose again to defeat death.

[@parulparida8280]

I clicked on 999like and it changed to 1K

[@richtushawn]

I am bisexual and this really spoke to me because this year of July 8th I came out to my mom and told her I like guys 70 percent more than girls I mine as well b gay but anyway she didn't accept me so I will send this 2 her for her 2 realize the way she has hurt me. And maybe just maybe she might accept me 😭❤🧡💛💚💙💜🖤#hope #childawarnesss #lgbtq #lovewins

[@tu-anhton3561]

Great video love this edit but the name of the vid sucks

[@EnnTomi1]

It is exactly what happened to me. It is a desteraster

[@dherajgupta1715]

I am very sad

[@lancejackson9108]

Nice if you live in a world where everyone is free to be who they are (whatever that might mean). Each of us has antisocial selfish tendencies; children need to be trained to become who they might become with training. Each of us needs coaching and persistence to get through tough times. This analysis seems a bit airy fairy to me.

[@honestdudeguru]

I do not agree a bit. No parent would love their kids conditionally. Parents have seen the world and sufferings...if at all anything, they do not want their children to go thru' same sufferings. They are their to show the way and guide their children. If they ask their children to study, it is for their benefit. The children will be rewarded ultimately. Yes, definitely nobody should be forced to study against their wishes but i think parents would be sensible enough to realize where to draw the lines. I think this video is playing into the hands of children who want to justify their failure. Instead, the mantra should have been to believe in themselves and pursue whatever they enjoy. Ultimately, at the end of the day, you need to earn money to survive. You cant live off your oarents' money all your life.

[@uttampaghdal1]

1st

[@dherajgupta1715]

Why always we have to compromise always why we have to get 90% marks always why we have to become what our parents want to be why can't we become what we want to be like I want to become actor

[@benlee5039]

Why am I watching this? I am a child

[@imavlog6419]

Do you know ? I am passes my ordinary level but i cannot my advance level exam but my parents disappointe with me..they don't want weste money for my graduate ..i know i am falling one time i can stand my self but my parents didn't give me energy or hope..do you know bts? I am a fan..i watched them song after and finally i get the point ..i will starting my own business .i am working a job temporary ..i collect some money ..i will start my business after collect money ..i will get to good start ..it 's ok..parents don't want help me.it's ok..this is parents choice .it is not my choice ..i will answers my progress ..parents disappointe with me.but i am not disappointe with my life ..i have only 3 month .i will wait my day.it's ok..not today .this is my life and dream .

[@sabrinajahanmim195]

Hey I know bts. I am an army. Best of luck. Never give up. No matter what happens we I believe in u. Take love. U are amazing. It means a lot. Be proud of yourself. U can do it.

[@guesswhoami4723]

Oof, the vocab lost me xD

[@Bozewani]

Арабский китайский английский русский испанский африкаанс кр а злусский протугальсклн

[@iaackib426]

dislike This? seriously? You people are born in wrong Planet I guess.

[@quincymb8576]

The truth is nobody truly loves anyone anymore. Why does she say that?

[@kalpanakapadia213]

Because it's all about SELF. Self means society. If the child doesnot fit into the frame then he is hated by parents where as the childhas many different potentials but we enforce them because they want to feel loved they give in and that is what bothers her

[@deepakchawla1398]

Hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha... 🤪🤪🤪

[@SKF358]

Good video. Bad grammar. "Try loving your child for who he is," not "try loving your child for who they are." A child is singular in number. Are you afraid to say "he" because you might be called sexist by the PC crazies?