God Is Saying It's Time to Emotionally Detach from Someone When . . .

[@jenninemorel7693]

This isn't just for romantic relationships

[@Fruitofthefemme]

So helpful. I needed to hear this about current friends and family

[@tammiebellon1877]

Physical, emotional and verbal abuse without change NO one should stay. Cheating without change NO one should stay. Leaving the household chores, bills and work to one spouse when they are able body without change, DONT stay. A marriage is 2. Love, kindness, support, trust and faith

[@tammiebellon1877]

My breaking point was having the "other woman" in my home and brand new travel trailer while I was working. She was married as well. Broke me like I'd never been broken before. (2.5) it was NEVER about me and I took on the shame and guilt of not being the "good" wife. Nothing I ever did was going to be enough.

[@veronicariley6294]

⛔Lord God I pray that you would permanently remove or relocate any of us from the wrong people or the wrong people that has no interest of changing or remove or relocate the ones that want to change from their I pray for them to have deliverances of people from past,memories from past,even neighbors in their neighborhood from the past Lord God thank you have your way thank you God for replacing whom or what you need to replace ,disconnecting what and whom you need to be disconnected,remove who or what needs to be removed, realign whom or what you need to realign and promote whom you need to promote God in Jesus name

[@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger]

God bless!

[@ChristopherNabours-xd1gz]

Starting the morning wih prayer and scripture is a good way for a family to keep faith and repent when sin occurs. I want to lead a woman and some children in a bible study every morning. Thats important to me. That and family fitness. Im struggling with my faith because im a problem solver. I often forget to focus on god when my life is chaotic. Im correcting that issue today.. I'm forming those good habits. I need to make sure i dont elevate my problems over Jesus Christ my lord and Savior

[@ForeverTogether219]

@@ChristopherNabours-xd1gz Hey .. the door will open.. As usual give it time … Pray about it… 🙏💯

[@ForeverTogether219]

@@ChristopherNabours-xd1gz Just remember.. he knows your heart and problems..💯

[@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger]

God bless!

[@ChristopherNabours-xd1gz]

@@ForeverTogether219 I know he does. He's already opening the door for me however I'm an active participant. Marke channel is exquisite advice for a civilian. Unfortunately if you're engaged in unconventional, informational, psychological, and political warfare you run the risk of the woman you love having her feelings engineered. So in my case nothing he says is of any value regarding that because my enemies are just going to adjust Vianetts behavior to something that's unattractive and a deal breaker.. the appropriate response that God is looking for is to take care of her and engineer things back to what they would probably have been because you'll never really know and marry her and take good care of her and then eliminate the problem behavior in the other subject as peacefully as possible. The standard operating procedure for dealing with remote influence is to go for the throat. Kind of like martial arts the guy that's wasting time dancing around is usually the idiot that gets his ass kicked. And so nobody including Vianett is going to understand what's going on because I don't want to share it in great detail with the church because the church chose wisdom not knowledge. One is useless without the other. I called the knowledge wisdom continuum. One without the other cannot be. And if it does be then you will be paying for the aware of why I should not be. I'm going to be perceived wrong I'm going to be judged criticized people are going to wonder what's wrong with me they're not going to understand things. And that's okay. I'm going to do what God's calling me to do regardless of people's opinions whether they're based on scripture or not. Many men have quoted scripture thinking they're correct. Context is always Key. In the end as long as I pray I trust that God will have his will done regardless of what I do. So I'm moving forward with my objectives and I don't give a hoot what people have to say. Law enforcement should never been playing counterintelligence. They failed miserably. Operation specter will be well underway by the time law enforcement figures out what's going on. Disinformation and other information on warfare techniques worked very well. The last thing I needed some goofy detective getting in my way. Where Mark's channel is very useful to me is understanding how to be in a relationship. I need the scriptural knowledge on how to be a good Christian husband so that when I do finally achieve my objectives my behavior does not screw it up

[@juliewhyte122]

This message was so helpful and right on time for the circumstances I find myself in. GOD Bless you.

[@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger]

So glad it was timely! All glory to God!

[@kotymccallister5150]

I feel so listened to

[@blameitonthedesign]

1. Sin is occurring without repentance 2. Emotional investment is not yielding good fruit 3. Correction has taken place but no change has occurred 4. If this person is not seeking the Lord from a pure heart 5. If your relationship with God worsens the closer you get to this person

[@oreox1000]

Thank you.

[@ChristopherNabours-xd1gz]

@@blameitonthedesign always an intj in the comments. I look for my fellow intj peeps

[@blameitonthedesign]

@@ChristopherNabours-xd1gz Yessir. Always happy to help

[@jelakennedy9679]

Do these rules of emotional detachment also apply to family members or is it just romantic relationships?

[@hannahellen12]

Yes

[@jelakennedy9679]

@ Ok I’m gunna assume that means yes to both. Thank you.

[@Ana-cadabra]

I needed this 2 years ago

[@JosephAlanMeador]

What if it's a family member, specifically a parent? I want to obey God's word to "honor thy father and mother" but I cannot honor narcissistic behavior from someone who is unrepentant and continues to hurt me. When I set boundaries the manipulation and gaslighting just increases. My sibling chose to cut off contact completely, but they're coming from an agnostic position. As a follower of Christ this doesn't seem like an action that I can take in good conscience. Do you think detaching emotionally is more effective when you maintain contact, or is the opposite true? I feel like blocking phones/emails/etc is just running from the problem 🤔

[@shireemunday5294]

I pray that you find time out for yourself to heal ❤❤❤

[@shireemunday5294]

God will make the way of escape ❤❤❤

[@JPGellabroke]

Tiiiiiiiiiiiiiiimely

[@Madenewhope]

Thank you, Mark I've been waiting on this.

[@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger]

You're welcome! Glad it was useful!

[@johnnywishbone932]

The Spirit pointed out this weekend my kid is flesh of my flesh but not blood of my blood. She knows the Light but chooses the dark. I love her but she is working iniquity on her side of our relationship. She seeing me as an evil Christian.

[@MrTahref]

How old is your kid?

[@johnnywishbone932]

@ 31

[@MrTahref]

@ mabey take some time to distance yourself from her, if she has her own house. And keep her in your prayers

[@johnnywishbone932]

@ praying is the best thing I can do. ✝️👑❤️

[@tracyoguntokun4284]

Amen 🙏 🙏 🙏 🙏 🙏 🙏 ❤

[@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger]

God bless!

[@damarismailat1612]

I had a male best friend for 10 years and almost a year i started dating and my boyfriend didn t agree the friend because he was not a christian. I said to him thatt I wont talk to the friend anymore but he found out that I was and he broke. I know I did wrong but they were both important to me. Now my friend wants a girl I am ok with it but he wants to give up our frienship and I amfeeliing betrayed because I didnt do it rhe same . Now are big chances to lose both. I still hope to reconcile wirh my boyfriend even after 6 months but my friend has a big influence on me- not a good and healthy one- bur are 10 years...what should I do??how I have to handle it?

[@XJathnaon]

First off I’m sorry to hear that you’re going through this, but with that being said, you need to realize that you probably hurt your boyfriend a lot more than you think. The way you felt betrayed how your friend is giving up on your friendship for his girlfriend, that’s how your boyfriend felt when you lied to him. If you’re still in contact with your ex boyfriend, you should ask him to sit down and have a discussion about your relationship, make sure you put everything out on the table. You have to be completely honest with him. God bless, I hope everything works out for you

[@mattmallecoccio8378]

Do you emotionally detach if you're not the only male friend a lady friend has or vice versa?

[@ForeverTogether219]

@@mattmallecoccio8378 I have both male and Lady friends. Most are married… If Men I know their wives… Why would I detach?

[@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger]

If you want more than friendship but she just wants friendship, you should move forward emotionally without her in my view

[@mattmallecoccio8378]

@ForeverTogether219 I'm feeling very strongly for a friend of mine, but I know that she's got other male friends. I also know she's happily single, but I'm not. In my mind, if there's any love on my side, I need to be okay with her being happily single until she isn't at some point.

[@mattmallecoccio8378]

@@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger okay. Does that mean that I should never consider that she might be the one at some point? Do you mean that I should look elsewhere even though I can't think of any other woman who is as good as her?

[@shireemunday5294]

Im slightly confused whether I love him or the love and affection he shows to me. Kissing in the pool, in the lift at the gym, at the beach ⛱️ where is the line, he says he wants to marry me😊

[@Heather_Haven]

❤

[@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger]

God bless!

[@miami220]

❤