God Will Draw Your Future Wife to You When You . . .

[@agwformen]

Learn more about AGW University by clicking here: agwuniversity.teachable.com/p/total-access?coupon_code=SCHOLARSHIP2023

[@virtual240]

Attractive women tend to only date attractive men and treat the rest like crap.

[@richardzhou5496]

Basically remember, pursue, yet not chase. Love selflessly, yet not simp.

[@sed.aba01]

😂 fine way to put it

[@Sam-pe5po]

I give up on this bs game honestly

[@richardzhou5496]

@@Sam-pe5po Don't quit, brother. I know it's hard, it's really hard, but if you feel the calling from God to get married, then that's God's will for you, no need to second question it, just go for it. And it's not a game. It's a process of seeking, waiting, trusting and transformation like just a process in every other area of life with God in it. I pray that God will give you all the peace, courage and strength and open doors in this🙏✝️🕊️

[@evolgenius1150]

First 9 verses of proverbs 31 are literally: Stop/quit drinking and don't simp. These things destroy Kings. 💪 Then the rest is about the Proberbs 31 Woman. 🦄

[@tony08sincara]

🔥🔥

[@Strive1324L]

I agree, simping is unattractive. And so is desperation.

[@paulwgraves]

Totally not about simping or desperation 😂it’s about a deep daily connection with God as the source and therefore a deep strength in the man that he can offer to her and not draw from her as the source.

[@Strive1324L]

@paulwgraves Well I still see it as acting weak or simping.

[@MrMoon-pz1lm]

Definitely don’t reveal feelings, reveal your intentions

[@entitiessoul]

It's not easy to trust. Even Christian women are secular in today's standards.

[@marvthedog1972]

yes i agree. too many secular beliefs are now part of the 'church doctrine' under the guise of "God is Love" mindset.

[@Ecumenicallywired]

So true

[@Billy-bc8pk]

Yeah, the story of the guy who was with his wife for like 15 years, they were each other's first, and he helped her during rough periods early on and she helped him through school so he could become a pastor, only for her to cheat on him in a 3-some when she befriended a couple at the church was heartbreaking.

[@entitiessoul]

@@Billy-bc8pk I'm not surprised women cheat more than men even shows in studies. Even the most minority women still look and lust they just aren't happy period. Just like Eve not satisfied with everything God gave her and she still ate from the dam tree. And Adam knew to protect her from her reckless actions. Women are the problem. If they never gave us kids they would be worthless. That is the only reason I still try to seek but even then that is a risk. Only God knows.

[@entitiessoul]

@@Billy-bc8pk A buddy of mine is 6ft tall and handsome. I'm also 6ft and handsome got muscle mass as well. He does as well. He was dating a girl who was less than him and everyone told him. But he chose her because she made him feel right. She started to notice women and men were well flirting and trying to get his attention. She on the other hand did not. She cheated on him with a less guy because od her insecurities. And that's all women all of them they are all the same. That's why I stay single or if God says otherwise. If I date them they are insecure and fake the Christian part. If I date "lower" then I get looked at as crazy for choosing her. Excuse my language... this is to explan just how fed up I am... but I DON'T GIVE A FLYING FUCK! I JUST WANT A WOMAN! A REAL WOMAN! So sick of it you have no idea. Lord knows how may times I have spoke to him and got myself together as much as I can and still moving forward.I got some repenting to do now.

[@mackymoo1329]

Lord, help me to remember and to listen to your words daily, in Jesus’ mighty name. Amen.

[@matty8272]

Learn the difference between wants and needs. Food, water, and shelter are needs. Everything else is a want. Don't fall into the trap of needing a wife or husband or whatever your situation is.

[@Jayar_]

Mark, having been in the dating scene for over 10 years now.. I really don’t ever see #2 working for guys. I think that’s why guys seek out so much content online because so many guys are trying the same things over and over and aren’t getting results. I really can’t exaggerate that the girls who have been most interested in me have been the ones that I did not communicate feelings to. It often seems like a death sentence for guys to show their feelings about a girl early in the relationship.

[@pastrami00]

I was thinking the same thing

[@tndm8312]

Maybe not early in a relationship but I definitely recommend telling your feelings in an assertive, maybe even slightly aggressive way. That's definitely attractive to a woman looking to be kept 😉 I've been kept for 12 years and he was aggressive and persistent in the way he pursued me. I want you and I don't want anyone else to have you kinda way 🤷🏿‍♀️

[@smathet7766]

You almost have to be an a bit of an a$$hole now a days. Women are really odd creatures nowadays. You never know what they think from one minute to the next.

[@collinmiller2027]

I told a girl I was excited to see her when we scheduled the second date and she rainchecked the morning of… I agree

[@Justyouraverageguy172]

Yes. God has gotten me to a point where He is all I need and content with seeking him but also wanting to pursue a spouse out of desire not need. Now points 2 and 3 are great pointers that I just felt like the Spirt was emphasizing, especially point 3 to me, but I didn’t know how to describe the dynamics of it in words until now.

[@Kelly-wx9ry]

I'm just relieved "learn to dance" wasn't on the list.

[@joshuacorbin221]

I'm just glad possessing celebrity-level-attractiveness is not on this list!

[@Kelly-wx9ry]

@@joshuacorbin221 If we had that we wouldn't need a list. 😅

[@robloxceeday1025]

😂😂😂

[@tedschmitt178]

My future wife noticed me first, which is HUGE in my book.

[@jakepletscher]

Thank you Mark. These videos are incredibly helpful and insightful. GOD bless you sir!

[@mackymoo1329]

God. Thank you for this word. I was looking for this tonight. Bless this man named Mark. In Jesus’ name. Amen.

[@danherrmann8755]

Thanks. I have never had any education in Bible study. You do a great job. I see a lot of my weakness.

[@Gabriel.filmmaker]

Its not that simple, some men are shy in their nature, so its not always possible for a man to make the first step. I think its not wrong if a girl/woman makes the first sign and step.

[@ItsRaitisLV]

Not a good sign though

[@harryloibl5183]

Cool thanks buddy 😊 it helps , I think I need to talk to someone like you more about my situation. God bless

[@141runn]

this may have worked prior to 2004

[@joshuacorbin221]

Is there some ethical and moral phenomenon from 2005 you're hinting at? Please tell me more.

[@141runn]

the start of social media@@joshuacorbin221

[@141runn]

social media started @@joshuacorbin221

[@Myrslokstok]

Yeah now it is moore like; tribal face tato, criminal record, having some side hoes, a lambo and sixpac. But maybee that wouldn't work on godly women!

[@personanongrata7976]

0:52 This!

[@ChiefCedricJohnson]

Ecclesiastes 7:7 Surely oppression maketh a wise man mad; and a gift destroyeth the heart.

[@CountrySingerWannabe]

I am struggling right now. I am not actively pursuing this woman who has caught my eye but it isn’t happening. After 15 years of packing my heart away and not even wanting to go down that road these feelings were placed on my heart. It seems for nothing at this point. I talk to her but it is mostly cold conversation since I do work with her. She is in my prayers daily and I trust God will guide me with the feelings that have been placed on me. So far it seems to be the same story. Thinking I should just pack my heart back where it was.

[@theochasid8996]

Don't be cold be friendly and warm, faith shows itself in action

[@CountrySingerWannabe]

@@theochasid8996 Thank you. You are absolutely correct. You want people to see you at your best and your most faithful state. God is in control of everything in my heart and my trust is completely in him. God bless you, your day and all who you love.

[@Billy-bc8pk]

In today's environment, it could end up being more trouble than what it's worth -- if she has a high notch count it will never work insofar as a long-term committed relationship is concerned. If she has been divorced, it will also likely never work as far as a long-term committed relationship is concerned. I know this might seem contradictory to what you're feeling, but sometimes those feeligns are there to help us learn and grow from the individual, rather than to pursue them for a long-term relationship. See what you can learn from her, if you can, but do not pursue her.

[@CountrySingerWannabe]

The process of discernment has always been important. For a 45 year old man that has never been married and doesn't have kids I realize that more than ever. The difference for me now is I am praying ever night and morning for among many things, this woman. I am not going to let my fear of all those situations you laid out be my driver. God will be my driver on this.@@Billy-bc8pk

[@RetroCaptain]

You should make sure she's "more than just a casual churchgoer" as this is a most common situation that even I and other men unfortunately discovered. So much time and effort lost and finding out they were not really interested in faith beyond its being a curiosity to them (let's say go to church while her grandparents are alive then stopping right away after

[@cosminbryant1243]

This sounds hard I don’t think I could meet most women’s standards i’am not saying it because well I feel in my spirit plus I rather focus on Jesus I still kind of believe love at first sight 😂

[@MW-zy9qw]

Love at first sight is totally real. No questions asked. Not everybody’s relationship experiences are the same therefore for some, love at first sight is how they met there spouse and for others it took time to realize this individual is the person God wants for them. God works with every single one of His children differently and very uniquely and personally. Love is first sight is part of many different marriages but not all. How people have met there spouses completely varies

[@charlespackwood2055]

I wear a silver tin cap with antenna on it. FYI, I don't think it's working.

[@smathet7766]

Here’s a reminder GOD gives us what we need, not what we want. Its also said if you ask you she’ll receive it. Sometimes you have to be patient, that’s the hard part!!

[@gandalfthegamer4067]

Matthew 25: 1-13 Then shall the kingdom of heaven be likened unto ten virgins, which took their lamps, and went forth to meet the bridegroom. 2 And five of them were wise, and five were foolish. 3 They that were foolish took their lamps, and took no oil with them: 4 But the wise took oil in their vessels with their lamps. 5 While the bridegroom tarried, they all slumbered and slept. 6 And at midnight there was a cry made, Behold, the bridegroom cometh; go ye out to meet him. 7 Then all those virgins arose, and trimmed their lamps. 8 And the foolish said unto the wise, Give us of your oil; for our lamps are gone out. 9 But the wise answered, saying, Not so; lest there be not enough for us and you: but go ye rather to them that sell, and buy for yourselves. 10 And while they went to buy, the bridegroom came; and they that were ready went in with him to the marriage: and the door was shut. 11 Afterward came also the other virgins, saying, Lord, Lord, open to us. 12 But he answered and said, Verily I say unto you, I know you not. 13 Watch therefore, for ye know neither the day nor the hour wherein the Son of man cometh. Psalms 37:4 "DELIGHT yourself IN the Lord, and he will give you the desires of your heart.

[@BlessedbyGrace-rn8hl]

*You are a tremendous source of motivation for me. Your videos about God have changed my perspective on life and helped me find true meaning. Thank you for these valuable insights.*

[@theSword-]

Wrong. It is NOT a man's job to "pursue" a woman at all. All a man has to do, is make ONE offer to go out. If she's too stupid to take him up on it, she's not worth having. No. He should not be revealing his feelings more than her. A woman SHOULD be pursuing a man, since he is the man. She has to impress him if she wants to be under his care. He is ALREADY worthy.

[@ferretapocalypse]

lol no. Where in nature do females pursue males? Nowhere.

[@theSword-]

@@ferretapocalypse ...Wrong. You have obviously never been to a bar. Men are the prize, which is why women want to push marriage all the time.

[@ItsRaitisLV]

That's what Andrew Tate wants you to believe

[@theSword-]

@@ItsRaitisLV ...Wrong. Andrew Tate has nothing to do with it. It's just how it is. I have been telling men this since long before AT was ever born.

[@HijadeDiosS.____..]

Amen🙏🏼

[@elgatoman4666]

Amen 🙏

[@GentleWarrior371]

How do I reveal my feelings? 👀

[@joshuacorbin221]

You've heard it said behavior is the most basic human language. I tell you, anxiety, joy, fear, anger, serenity and vigilance, are on the wheel of emotion, and that allowing emotions to dictate your behavior will betray your character for worse not better. Women can see this at the speed of light (very literally). The mistake most men make is to color each emotion red with anger, rather than being a self-possessed and spiritual man of God. If the LORD is not your source of serenity, joy, and vigilance, then your understandable emotions of fear, anger, disgust, contempt and disdain, when they show up, will be out-of-place, rather than holy because they were not promoted by a motivation from the word of God. Would a woman of God have any time for such a carnal man?

[@Hey_OverHere]

Brother, I have to say that item 2 times a backwards. If you make your feelings known more than hers, there is no challenge and she will perceive that there is no challenge and you are not worthy of her. This will turn her off and become very bored in the relationship.

[@Rooster003]

Done watching this at #2. Women run from tat simp behavior.

[@enelyoutu5437]

Strange, Gods Word says he brings the woman to the man, like God brought Eve to Adam, Rebecca to isaac and my wife to me, humm

[@ivanrodriguez8127]

Pursuing a woman implies they are running away

[@joshuacorbin221]

The English language ruins the simplicity of understanding truth.

[@ItsRaitisLV]

No, chasing does. Anything you want to achieve in life needs to be pursued. Education, career, a better financial situation, fitness... all these require a level of pursuit.

[@WorksForMeBro]

So put yourself around godly women? Where exactly is that? Most men in this generation will die alone.

[@frankjoseph6071]

Church

[@crunchy_dad]

​@@frankjoseph6071disagree. Church is where the ran through women decide to try to find a good guy. They are looking to reclaim something that was gone in their early teens. Church is not a good place to meet good women.

[@Candiedbacon75]

@@frankjoseph6071 Even in church, there's almost no difference between meeting someone there versus the bar.

[@DemonDavisK]

Amen. The desire will go unfulfilled for many

[@joeljohn1217]

I don't think the bible teaches that man has to pursue his wife. Adam never pursued after Eve or anyone else, rather God brought Eve to Adam.

[@jzeff6250]

A man revealing his feelings MORE than the woman he is interested in...especially at the beginning of the relationship?? Absolutely NOT! I don't know where you got this idea, Mark, but it is completely wrong. Lost most of my respect for you with this one.

[@soccerlube]

Point 2. Reveal your feelings for her more than she is revealing her feeling for you. Won't that make her see you as weak for expressing your feelings??????

[@ungido30]

if you exaggerate maybe, he is not sayin be a simp, he is simply saying give her the excitement of feeling wanted, and desire. Show her you are sure of yourself, and you are not afraid to let her know that you fancy her. Because when you do tat you are showing strength, strength in your confidence. He is not saying overwhelm her with your beta energy, simply don't be afraid to show her that you find her desirable in a good way so that she doesn't feel that she is the one putting more effort (even if she is) into making it work because you can have two things you can make her feel unwanted (which is not a good feeling for the woman you want in your life) or she may see you as shy or scared of being rejected then she may take that as weakness, or that you lack confidence in yourself. Women are strange creatures, lol not really they are just more feelings based, they are more entuned with their emotions which makes it hard for us to understand. If you over do it is bad, but if you do it too little is also bad lol, that is why you must let God guide you and be yourself because not all women are the same, and not all men are either, you will find that balance if you trust God. It doesn't matter how you do it if she is not completely interested in you, you can do too much, too little or too perfect she will find an excuse, but if she fancies you, and you have gained that confidence in the Lord , you will do it right and she will not resist it so. Women are strange creatures lol

[@ItsRaitisLV]

Show her how you feel, but also be ok with her rejecting you, that's the key.

[@itachir8290]

Reveal your feelings for her more than she does for you? Oh h3ll no. Men are called to be stoic. Any guy who has taken the advice to show feelings knows it pushes w0men away. Men are called to be the stable rock.

[@TokioTE]

Men are called to be like Christ. Jesus expressed his feelings at the appropriate times in the appropriate way

[@itachir8290]

@@TokioTE Jesus is the most well composed individual to exist. According to the Bible, He had full control of His emotions and His life was probably much more stoic than most people of that time and this time. There are a few events where Jesus reacted appropriately such as with anger & force against the money changers (aka the federal reserve) of that time.

[@monk4ever]

​@@TokioTEExactly. We need to be like Jesus are serve God, not women.

[@ItsRaitisLV]

Fake stoic is even worse.

[@randylittlefield2962]

Not worth the time, effort, headache, money or really anything.

[@kevinnorris6157]

Another video without mentioning parents

[@MonogoMango]

Why would I want someone I don't need? If I don't see any purpose in being with her why would I want to be with her? Yes, the best reason probably to be with someone I can share life with and have kids with and grow old with but most women tick all of those boxes.

[@kuhlman76]

Christian communities? So just start on online dating app? Where do we find Christian communities that aren't online? Not just church...where?

[@EmperorSmith]

Religious people are deeply, deeply weird.

[@agnesr.4664]

Christians are supposed to be different. Their book sets a waaaay different standard.

[@ElMesiasel]

Well we are crazy In love with God, it's not something to be ashamed of, he loves you more than you even realize

[@EmperorSmith]

@@ElMesiasel Which God? Vishnu? Thor? Buddha? Yahwe? Zues? Which of the many thousands of gods that humans have invented are you talking about? At least one of those gods will hate you for not believing in them. Unless you do believe in them all, in which case at least one of those gods will hate you for believing in other gods.

[@presupping4eva]

@@EmperorSmithThen may I be hated by other gods. Jesus Christ is Lord. ☦️

[@ElMesiasel]

@@EmperorSmith I don't believe in other Gods, I believe in Jesus Christ

[@kyleesharp378]

Dont get married. Its a curse. It will ruin your life.