Your Future Wife Will Desire You If . . .

[@tedschmitt178]

There is no question that God put my soon-to-be wife and I together.

[@Justyouraverageguy172]

I am on the phase of getting my life together all the while working on letting God lead me into his Plan for my life and fighting my ego to control my life and marital journey.

[@Stanglove]

Looking forward to being the best man I can be! God please guide me.

[@monk4ever]

Being a great man has nothing to do with women. It's about serving God.

[@marieclairembangatoungou5530]

Am a woman and the only think that matters for me it’s someone that really cares about others. And most of the women I think are share centered if you are generous person ( not mostly giving expensive things but thinking about sharing your time and your provision with other to participate in their happiness) you have the key.

[@cristianmb9982]

That’s called quality time I recommend reading the love language book

[@amessenger3208]

Great stuff! Keep up the good work. God bless.

[@sergiomurillo9930]

This is very informative and insightful. Thank you for doing what you do Mark.

[@MrDarshD]

Thank you so much for this helpful video, Mark. God bless you

[@eternaladventure-wm5fn]

Great video

[@sam.abadyah]

Hey Mark, can you please do a video on retroactive jealousy from a biblical perspective? Feeling bad about someone’s past sexual history?

[@anointedone1995]

Yes please!

[@nickolasdavis4]

Unforgiveness

[@nickolasdavis4]

If this person is a new creature in Christ then their past has no old on who they are anymore. Now that does mean to disregard healing that may need to take place in that person. Pray for the Holy Spirit’s love will intercede in both yourself and your partner. Be a visionary brother not holding to tightly to the pains of the past but the prosperity of the future. ❤

[@sbattle4787]

Thank you for addressing the men most all you tubers only always address the woman ❤

[@CountrySingerWannabe]

Mark mentions in several of his videos about the woman not being the journey. I am sure he means well but there are some people out there that really just desire to work and live life with their spouse and hopefully the eventual family they create. There are plenty of men, and women, out there that desire to focus on God and each other. Perhaps Mark should make a video just to explain what he means when he says this. It makes me feel like I am not worthy if I am just a man that works and does his thing but would like to find a partner to enjoy life with while growing with God together.

[@lordinquis8r679]

Thanks, Mark!

[@Da-Iceman.]

Loving the content bro🤙🏾🔥

[@SaintlySaavy]

Hello chat: I would like to get some feedback from everyone here. My question: During the courtship process, When do you start talking about faith AND how do you go about it? Why I ask? I've been dating and I THINK I may not be going about it the rigbtway. How do you balance talking about faith without coming off as a super “nice guy” and potencially turning her off? Would love to hear from y'all! Merry Christmas

[@jordanmontay9877]

You ask her almost immediately, no point in wasting your time if your faith is important to you and she’s a non believer. Just ask her if she goes to church or if she has any religious beliefs. You can usually tell by the way they communicate but just ask her..you don’t want to catch feelings and realize y’all aren’t on the same page. And be yourself, if she thinks you’re super nice that should be a good thing. I’m not saying be a “yes man” or a pushover but if you’re a nice guy and someone is turned off by that then they’re probably not a nice person anyway…but just don’t talk about faith every second. Make sure y’all discuss a bunch of different things and just be yourself. Hope this helps, Merry Christmas to you as well!

[@regina9565]

There is no such thing as “too early” for talking about faith - though you can certainly be too late! If at all possible, try to vet them before you get involved in any way by asking about them to someone who may know their history etc. Look at their social media to see the kind of things they post (though I have heard many people like to be deceptive by trying to look like someone they are not… but you can at least see if they post party pics etc.) You never want to waste your time on anyone and/or risk getting your heart involved without knowing they are good marriage potential. And of course, always be praying for the Holy Spirit to guide you. If you are not familiar with Paul Washer, I strongly advise you to look up his sermons on courtship and marriage if you’d like a truly biblical perspective.

[@discobunny4eva759]

Very early. I don’t want to waste our time. Sometimes it’s the first thing I ask, I’ll lead with it. If she tells me she’s agnostic, atheist, married or other it’s a no. I’m not counting on my testimony and debate skills to convert her although I’ve heard some people had success that way. I make the decision before asking that I don’t care if my faith turns her off. The wrong person can be worse than being alone. Of course, I’m still a bachelor with some dating experience so maybe consider that.

[@Schizotroll]

I would just think including it early on when she asks about you. Usually something like “tell me about yourself” or any type of question when someone is trying to get to know you usually you can incorporate Jesus. Just express all He has done for you and see how she reacts. Good Bless brother💪

[@Justyouraverageguy172]

Be subtle but yet blunt in asking her what are her morals and values in are terms of being a part of the party, sexual promiscuity, drunkenness, and drugs. See how she responds following up with a question about her faith and her telling you. It works every time to get me ghosted, passed up, or marked and hated because of how uncomfortable I make people in that exact order and disagree with those things. Even if she says she is Christian but yet is apart of those things just walk away because it only invites evil and trouble into your life. I am unapologetic about my faith and make my boundaries clear that there will be no drunkenness, sexual disorder, cheating, disrespect and arguing just to fuel the ego without coming to a solution or compromise, etc. This is why I only had 3 relationships get to the initial stages of getting to know each other until we discussed our faith and only one deep and intimate one where she and I bonded and always enjoyed starting our Sundays out going to Church together and then being together for meals and quality time afterwards in college.

[@RetroCaptain]

Another home run 😊 👍

[@angloaust1575]

No set signs if it works it works

[@joederue2392]

Help me be better jesus.

[@ogremair803]

5 things that women want: 1. Money 2. More Money 3. More more money 4. More more more money 5. More more more more money

[@queenlyaraj298]

Only normal women want your money..... Not godly women!!!

[@zachbosley2225]

Everything’s on the man, never been fair to us never will be. Fucking stupid.

[@bradwhitt6768]

@@queenlyaraj298 No "Godly" women want money too.

[@queenlyaraj298]

@@bradwhitt6768 We all need money to live & survive in the world. As a husband it's his duty for provide from all area of life to His Family. As a godly women, she won't satisfy by only men's money, she need more than money,that's what I mean it

[@janetmartin5212]

True

[@damianwhite504]

For a man you seem to know a lot about what a woman wants

[@v3nomxxx961]

He do be married and he kinda dedicated his ministry to this.

[@damianwhite504]

@@v3nomxxx961 I couldn't care less

[@monk4ever]

Can't make the town bicycle your wife.

[@monk4ever]

I'm a Christian monk. I choose God. Not women.

[@sed.aba01]

Stop with your self-righteous nonsense 😂

[@monk4ever]

​@@sed.aba01Never 😂

[@wgw808]

I find that you take a lot liberties in scripture meaning in trying to make your points.

[@Rachelle-qs5ge]

😁

[@outerspaceman7534]

Women don't want you until you reach the finish line.

[@Strive1324L]

Yeah, they wait for mr. First place,and he's the winner 😂

[@The1Weapon]

A worldly woman might not. A godly woman just wants to know you have a sense of direction and have some foundational godly characteristics. She’d be willing to build with you from there if she felt you’d lead her in the right direction.

[@outerspaceman7534]

@@Strive1324L The problem with that is that, most women aren’t winners themselves. They also don’t understand math because most men aren’t going to reach that finish line. According to women’s logic, they are going to be sharing these top ten percent of men.

[@outerspaceman7534]

@@The1Weapon let’s be real bro. MOST women don’t like to wait around for a guy to build his empire. They want it now. The average men who will never build an empire aren’t going to end up with women because women want the top ten percent of men.

[@noyb12345]

Worldly woman or Godly woman fellas take your pick

[@joered6344]

Christian women file divorce at the same rate as non-believers. So it doesn't really make any difference what you do. Once she's bored she'll still leave you. Sadly marriage vows mean very little to women today

[@NickArcade]

That's BS. You make it sound like someone has to entertain her 24/7. Life has ups and downs. Life gets fun and life gets boring.