GOING TO A NEW HOSPITAL 🏥 (5.12.19)

[@sarahtomlinson3843]

Hi. I was assessed for lung transplant for cf at age 31. Had my transplant at 32! Still here at 51! So much luck to you both. xx

[@shannonwright8270]

God Bless you. My mother had a double lung transplant in 92 and open heart. She was 44 and passed away at age 52. She had conjective heart failure. I miss her so much.

[@carolinariley]

Sarah Tomlinson what a wonderful testimony!!!! 💖

[@roseragan-mcwain2395]

Thank GOD for YOU, Sarah! You MATTER! Love that You SHARED!!! God Bless You!

[@shellierodarmel7282]

Nice,my dad had a heart transplant and they only last about ten years because the anti rejection drugs caused him to have kidney and liver shut down!

[@sharonheadland9233]

Your both so beautiful together

[@ntrwv1]

I worked, as a nurse, at Duke on a unit called 3200 when then first lung transplant was done. I can tell you that your in excellent hands. Have courage and feel strong in the power around you.

[@beccakeith8044]

Scary as the thought of transplant must be, I'm so thankful that it's a viable option. Modern medicine is so amazing. I appreciate that you dont "flour coat" anything in your videos and show us how CF life is.

[@groovybabycass]

agreed !!

[@kathywaddington1978]

We need a tee shirt that say's Dont flour coat it....😂

[@purrbugaloo]

In my mind I heard Don't Flower Coat It. Lol. 🌼🌸🌷🌻

[@patriciaschall4180]

I have been watching your life for 6 months. I feel like you are my children. I love both of you and your faith. God has you in his hands.

[@supermandimo]

I will buy that.

[@helenf2606]

@@purrbugaloo l thought flower coat it too! I immediately thought of a problem covered in flowers!

[@Lyn4817]

Try "sugar coat it"

[@trulygodsgrace]

You're in the South. We flour coat it, sugar coat it, then 'frey' the heck out of it!!! Enjoy the South! I realize this is a very hard trip. Sending love and hugs. (By the way, your videos helped me prepare to get my feeding tube a few weeks ago, so thanks for sharing!!)

[@debismith2802]

Mary and Peter, so sorry you need to have this done, but happy it's an option. My 44 yr. old daughter had a heart transplant 18 months ago and is doing super.....will be sending up healing positive vibes for your journey.

[@justme4109]

Praise God she is doing super!!! :)

[@MommyCassReborns]

my friend got a lung transplant...it was hard at first but now he is really good! He is more active and does not need oxygen now

[@kathleenbeaman6712]

You are experiencing that. “peace that passes all understanding”

[@shadesebastian7795]

I want that feeling...

[@racheallewis3283]

Oh Mary I just watched a young man and his wife go through the double transplant cause he had CF. I watched as he went in for two false runs and he received his lungs a couple of weeks ago and he’s doing great. He can breathe comfortably. He walked the next day!!! You will be flooded with prayers. God has more for you I need to learn more from you and Peter and I need to hear you sing more!!!

[@mikennastephenson3863]

Transplant testing is emotionally/ physically exhausting and draining. I haven't been listed yet but have to do once a year testing to keep my file up to date. You have an amazing support system to help you through this. You are blessed and trust that God is with you the whole way. After this week treat yourselves to something...you deserve it!

[@courtneycox8297]

Duke is 15 minutes from my house if you need ANYTHING!!

[@pinkybabe6190]

Courtney Cox I’m beginning to hate that word ( ANYTHING ). Here’s why. Multiple people will say it to me too.... I tell them, what I need....and then they reject it! Why offer, if you just going to disappoint? 💔

[@pinkybabe6190]

Gypsy thehoneybee Exactly!!!!!!

[@courtneycox8297]

Hmmmm, how do I respond? I think Peter and Mary would know that I mean if I can run an errand or bring them something, or offer my home (complete with two standard poodles) if Peter wanted a break from the hospital during a time he couldn’t be with Mary. They mentioned wanting to find a church...I could tell them about area churches, food that they might like delivered.

[@FreeBeerNoBingo]

Courtney Cox I just wanted to say that not everyone reading your offer is a hardened cynic. I'm sure your offer is genuine and even if the Frey's don't take you up on your offer I'm sure the offer is appreciated.

[@courtneycox8297]

Ilene thank you. I understand the frustration above. I’m old enough to be Mary or Peter’s mom. Lots of room and free time as the empty nest season is upon me. I really do mean my offer. ❤️

[@CrystalSaysSo]

Welcome to North Carolina! You are in the best hands at Duke. I spent two weeks there with my Daughter about 4 years ago. She received the best treatment, and top-notch staff. Oh, and when people in NC offer to help, especially those near Duke, they truly mean it. We are all covering you BOTH in prayer

[@SouthernBelle_sam]

Like= prayer for the Frey family!! ♥️

[@Jesswithlessstress]

I'm not particularly religious, but I'm wishing you both the very best during this rough patch. I'll have my mom, who has faith that could move mountains, pray for you both. Bless you both because you are sweet and beautiful souls.

[@AP-sx4nx]

God bless you both and your trip. We are all standing behind you cheering you on all the way. Many prayers and hugs!!!!!

[@groovybabycass]

okay i’m crying big time. especially when mary looked at the camera and said just bring it to god. mary you are so precious. you are far to sweet for this world. you are so strong and i admire your strengths and i just admire you in general and the love you have for everyone and your husband. i will be praying for you, however long it takes. just keep us updated and like you said, god has you. take it to god. he’s got you, but you know that. praying for you. always 💛

[@jackiepovitsky8676]

You both feel like family to me. I don’t have many words to say. But I am sending my love from Chicago. You both are always in my heart.

[@mandimoo87]

No words just crying watching this. I've been absent for about 3 months but have been watching 8 videos at a time to catch up. Love to you all x

[@FreebirdTMH]

Praying for y'all. "Flour coating it" made me laugh. 😂.

[@laurene1389]

Mary, you're amazing. Praying so hard for you and Peter as you endure this very challenging week.

[@caseyortiz2184]

Gods timing is always perfect, and His plan is as well. I trust in Him to walk you through this journey and no matter what happens He is with you. 😘

[@elizabethmion4595]

Mary and Peter, I have been following you guys since the very beginning. I have never missed a single video. In the 4+ years of Frey Life vlogs, none has ever hit me as hard as this one. I'm sure y'all are completely overwhelmed but I pray that God brings peace and understanding to you and your team. He's got this and YOU'VE got this, Mary! I hope you know how much The Frey Life Family loves you!❤️

[@crzyswmr]

Mary - sending you prayers of positivity and courage. God will carry you through this! Peter - prayers for your courage in this and your support for Mary as you are walking through this together. Blessings!! ❤️

[@kittymervine6115]

tears almost from the start of this video. And Peter's face. Bless the good people that work at Duke, all who are at that hospital, from cleaning staff who keep patients safe from germs....to nurses and staff and surgeons and everyone that has spent however long training and have dedicated themselves to working with those at risk. Transplant, you have educated us all on this. It is no "fix", and now most of your viewers know this, so the good news is you are doing the steps needed....just in case. And hopes that the new medication will give you TIME, before that truly dangerous and yet hopeful surgery. I like you, am happy and scared silly! How wonderful to live in a world where this surgery is possible. How wonderful people have dedicated their lives to this work, what blessings that they took this route with their lives. But also, thank YOU for knowing our hearts are with you and Peter and Ollie in this.

[@gaynorboyle5573]

You are a special person Mary and have touched my heart. As you say one step at a time and you can accomplish anything. Sending love and prayers from Scotland xx

[@madisenblaire91]

You are in amazing hands at Duke!! My dad had a liver transplant there in 1996!! I will forever stand behind Duke hospital they gave me 19 extra years with my dad that we never thought we would get! Good luck to you! Y’all will be in my prayers!

[@italianpaws7689]

Now the explanation of why Ollie wasn’t part of the previous videos; I’m glad he’s okay...I was just a little worried. He’ll be in good hands while you’re on this part of your journey. Good luck. It will be long and tough, but y’all are strong! 🇮🇹🐾

[@hannahtonnarini1853]

Mary, you made me cry at the end. I have a follow up ultrasound on Friday to look at my baby girl and check on her growth. We were told at my last ultrasound that her growth was being restricted. Watching you live your life with joy and grace has helped me get through some tough weeks during this pregnancy. I will pray for you and Peter as you navigate this difficult week.

[@pattihall9853]

Hope all goes well for you.

[@hannahtonnarini1853]

Patti Hall Thank you!

[@sweetluvgurl]

Good luck to you and your baby.

[@pinkyblessed2218]

Isaiah 43:2 "When you pass through the waters, I will be with you; And through the rivers, they will not overflow you. When you walk through the fire, you will not be scorched, Nor will the flame burn you.” Deuteronomy 31:6 “Be strong and courageous, do not be afraid or tremble at them, for the LORD your God is the one who goes with you. He will not fail you or forsake you." I am praying for you both. Be an Overcomer.💪

[@whatterrisees6246]

💖💖

[@mrs.dalton3738]

Pinky Blessed Love your comment!

[@hollyirwin4159]

I was crying with Mary with that pep talk to us at the end. Those words hit home wow! Thank you both!

[@totalhealthtrip]

Duke is AWESOME!!! North Carolina is beautiful, y’all might want to stay a while😊😉

[@cottoncandyfriends8933]

I am so totally in tears! I LOVE you guys soooo much! Words just can't express how much I love you!!! Never have I watched a utube EXTENDED FAMILY like y'all and felt sooo much like y'all actually LOVE and care about me! Truly, replies don't matter...I can't believe I'm writing this, I always want people to reply on utube and very few people do...but Mary when you spoke to the camera and said "I'm talking to you right now. YOU MATTER!!" And that u were validating my pain and who I was and what I was/am going through, that I matter to you...I just...I truly can't explain how much that means to me. I've never met you or Peter...I don't honestly think u have ever replied to me, but it doesn't matter.....you say things like that and ... well, I FEEL LOVED AND WANTED! TY so much, and truly I love y'all sooo much! Praying for God's guidance and best for us all, in His Holy name I pray...Amen. Praying for safety in all ways...ONE STEP at a time. I love you! Thank you for making me believe I'm important and that I am loved! Even if only in this moment. God bless u, Mary, Peter & Ollie boy!!! In His Constant Care... JESSIE 5/15/19 8:27 pm

[@SouthernBelle_sam]

I just wanted you guys to know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. Mary, I have been praying for you every single day for the last several months now as I have watched you struggling more with your health and the iv antibiotics. You both are such genuine, good people. I know God has you every step of the way in this. May the Lord continue to bless, strengthen and protect you both!! 💗💗

[@haleypeterson4492]

I really needed to hear "you matter" today. Thank you.

[@leigha8948]

Thank you for your words towards the end Mary. I've been going through so much the past 3/4 weeks, my mums been in hospital, I'm no unemployed because of this and the overwhelming stress of being my mums advocate/guardian has really been getting to me. Today I've just wasted to cry but I've stopped myself. You saying my feelings are valid just made me cry . I've felt I've needed to block those feelings because 'I'm okay' and 'other have it harder'. So thank you. The fact is I'm not okay and that's okay.

[@meolahresseh5031]

Brogan Akroyd god bless you, and life and healing in your mom now in jesus name. I've seen Jesus heal people, look for miracles from here on :)

[@mariearmstrong1258]

Mary, Peter and Ollie please know that all of us are wrapping our arms around all of you and your family and friends. You are an AMAZING family.

[@karenoleman6887]

Oh, Peter looks so scared. Praying God’s peace and guidance as you begin this process!!

[@Kelly.Patricia]

Praying for you Mary!! You’re so special and brave. God’s with you!!

[@kerrimcvinney6081]

Gosh dang it Mary. You cry, I cry! But I really needed that and I didn't know it.❤️

[@onepawatatime7925]

Thank you Mary for the support, I have my final EMT exam tomorrow and I am really stressing about it. Those words gave me the little boost I needed to get through this anxiety tomorrow. You are going through so much and yet you still give so much to others. I am going to go into that test tomorrow and I’m going to do it for you. So just know that I’m thinking of you and this test is in honor of you! 💕

[@angelaa.3130]

Omg Mary...no words. I know this can be both good and bad. Know your Frey life family is behind you ❤️ every step of the way.

[@FindingMyLight]

Mary, you are in my prayers. Peter, you are an absolute epidemy of what a man or husband should be. I wish all men would be so loving, kind, supportive not just towards their spouse but with everyone around them. God knew what he was doing when he put you two together. You both are such inspirations. Mary your strength will get you through. You certainly have a whole bunch of people praying and putting those good vibes ou there for you, you got this!

[@princessdesigns8439]

Aww peter looks so concerned for you. He is an angel. You guys make a good team. My love Mary and Peter. 😉

[@rae1957tn]

Mary you’ve got this ! All of the Frey life family will be praying for you. All three of you are loved very much. ❤️

[@Judymontel]

My prayers and support go to you gladly, and also my gratitude for your willingness to share this. Your courage inspires. Hugs, guys.

[@nickn8017]

Mary you are the first person that I have herd of who has faced timed a dog. I love it!!!!!

[@emmster124]

I live about 30 minutes from Duke. you will be in great hands! Hugs and prayers to you!

[@lizcoz4714]

You got this!! Knew it was coming, said you would take it by the horns and hang on for the ride!! Love you Oliver, Mary, and Peter!

[@mistycgrimm]

Praying for you guys, Mary! We love y’all!!! 🌸🌹💐🌷🌻🌺

[@Kimmeranne]

Mary you are in my thoughts and prayers. May God be with you and all of the doctors and nurses you encounter this week and guide them into getting you information and answers to help you going forward through this journey. Know that you are loved by so many of your subbies and we will also be praying for you during this time. Take care of you and thank you for being so authentic and beautiful. You are a very special soul. God Bless ✝️

[@jencannon9564]

God bless you both! My prayers are with you! As a person with Chronic Illness, I needed to hear your words. Your heart for God is inspiring.

[@mrssmurf55]

It's crazy I know I wanted to cry at the start of the video cos your not just a person I watch I feel like your a friend and all this new news is worrying me just wanted to remind you how much we love you and hoping everything works out for you in your health process were all behind you guys !!

[@kathikamholz1493]

Other than Children's in Boston, you're at THE BEST hospital

[@revsmg]

Watching you two face life with CF strengthens my own faith. God is indeed walking with you & it is a blessing that you feel it & know it. Mary, I love your smile & your faith. Peter- I have cared for a very sick spouse & I appreciate the love you & Mary share. You are both in my prayers.

[@lilkimmel3659]

you're in our hearts and prayers. we love you guys.

[@MissaLVT]

This had me in tears, Mary. Please know that I've been praying for y'all and will continue to do so. I pray this new medication will help you more than anyone ever imagined it could and that you can push transplant off the table completely. I know that with God anything is possible. I'm praying for strength and wisdom for you both throughout this whole evaluation this week. Keep hangin' in there, you two. God's got this. Love you both. 💜💜

[@tammylowe4047]

Every beat of my heart beats for you right now. GOD Please keep Mary safe.

[@mckayahpugh6554]

This situation sounds pretty overwhelming as these new challenges come all at once. That being said, I don’t know that I’ve seen anyone as honest, faithful, and resilient as you. I appreciate your taking us on this journey with you, allowing some of those wonderful attributes to rub off on me. Thank you, and I wish you the best!

[@maryjaneadams2914]

Keeping you in my prayers! God be with you!

[@rubyred6167]

I can’t tell you what a comfort and inspiration you have both been to me for this last year that I have been watching. You are so brave , thank you for being so honest , open and most of all always being a light of God’s glory. Praying for you . God bless. Love your sister in Christ. 🌸❤️🦋🙏

[@2ladybughippies569]

Your courage and faith is amazing. I hope that it's good news after all testing is in. Stay strong.

[@morganforrest7551]

My husband and I currently are going through unknowns. I began tearing up as you started to encourage others in the midst of your unknowns and journey. Thank you for sharing your journey and my little family is praying for you and Peter as y’all take these next steps throughout your journey.

[@AmyLouiseYT]

I am so scared for you, Mary. You've saved me recently and I feel a strong connection to you because of that situation. I am praying harder than I've ever prayed before 🙏🏻💞 for you. I pray for strength, health and healing. You are a true blessing and I pray for the best for you and Peter. 🙏🏻💞 @thefreylife 🙆🏼💞🙏🏻🙆🏼

[@kweet13]

Peter and Mary, I've been watching your videos for a couple of years now but I don't normally comment. I just want you to know that this video really touched me and that I think about you both often. Please just know already that you both are doing so much good and bringing so much hope and joy to this world. I have truly learned so much from watching your videos. I'm sending prayers, peace, and hope your way for this next coming week. I wish you both the very best. -Katie

[@lunaplata4726]

Good luck Mary. My prayers are with you guys. I know God will always do what is best for you.

[@SandySanders81]

You got this Mary! And we are here for you! It's all going to work out and this journey will make you stronger! 💪

[@vickierhard1441]

Loving the new intro. Standing with you and Peter. Bless you, Mary.

[@nicoleanderson3217]

So many people rooting and praying for you, myself included! You have a lovely community of folks here

[@joygomez4942]

Hi Peter, Mary, and Ollie boy. Greetings from North Carolina. Praying that all goes well for you. Safe travels as well. Love you guys!! 💕🌹 💕

[@aprilschrock2181]

Prayers sent for strength along this journey

[@bjz111873]

I will keep you both in my thoughts and prayers as you go through everything this week. 🙏❤️

[@morninglory30]

You are so strong and inspirational Mary! Thank you for being you!

[@HannahJoy333]

I am praying for you guys to have the most peaceful, healthy, and smooth process in this journey that you can possibly have. 💙💙💙

[@kathleenjbazan5563]

Mary you explained it so well! Both you and Peter are so good at explaining and speaking. Thank you for sharing, and I will continue to send prayers your way.

[@debbie7771]

Thinking of you today and praying your first day brought some peace and clarity. 🌷

[@dekjules32]

You are leaving such a valuable legacy, Mary, by sharing your journey. I pray your time here on earth is long and you and Peter have many more years of love and adventure.

[@michellebeebelewisfrith1544]

I have to say. We saw this coming for a while. Nothing to be alarmed about. Pray works and God is amazing.

[@barbarabarrera6148]

The Frey Life You have no idea how many needed to hear that ending

[@michellebeebelewisfrith1544]

Definitely new family favorite quote from Mary - flour coating it😍😁😂🤣

[@jamiesingleton3909]

Oh Mary and Peter. You both make me cry. I’m praying for you all.

[@kellikruger7656]

Mary and Peter, God bless you on your journey. He put you on this earth for a great purpose which is to encourage us and be a witness to His greatness. It is clear He works through you both as witnesses to His love and blessings I am praying for you and am so grateful to you both.

[@carolemouallem2558]

Having been thru this with my mom (heart transplant recipient in1990), I know how grueling the process is. Sending prayers and good vibrations for you in hope that everything works out for the best. Thank you for sharing your difficult journey with us. DUKE university is one of the top transplant hospitals so they will take excellent care of you no matter the outcome. Hang in there guys...God is always watching over you.

[@Deadandgone-q2j]

Sad and hopeful in Jesus, with you brother and sister. 💗💔 We had wonderful experiences at Duke with my daughter, I pray you will feel the same compassionate care from one of the top hospitals in our country. 🙂

[@CatGrace66]

You do a great job of balancing sharing with us and educating us with holding things back are private (and should be.) Thank you for taking time to process, but also for taking us along for the ride so that we can better understand CF. Praying for you this week.

[@wt0416]

Alot of prayers for u. Just like jaq's motto, just keep moving fwd.

[@TigerLily0384]

I know someone personally who had a double lung transplant at duke. I live in NC as well. You’re in good hands. Prayers and so much love !!!

[@Croppermom17]

Thank you for sharing this news with us, and may God bless you as you walk through this week’s evaluation journey.

[@donnakahle2623]

Mary and Peter, I'm watching this on weds the 15th. I had gone through all of the testing for a double trans. about a year ago. Due to my situation I wasn't a good candidate for the procedure. Prayers and hugs to you and your family... I am living the best I can with what I have. Hang in and have faith because God has a purpose for you.

[@lorimitchell9025]

God will give you the strength to tackle this hard journey that your going through. Keeping you in my thoughts and prayer. Keep your spirits up.

[@kaylawerch4530]

Mary, the fact that you can comfort people in our own daily stresses when you are going through quite frankly the scariest thing you can experience, just shows how much of a blessing you are to this world. When you brought up going through our problems together it brought tears to my eyes. Thank you for that. Stay strong and you will make it through this.

[@lorimoghadam3054]

I am happy/sad to see this. But I will be praying. Lets hope this allows you to get better!

[@donnadivis8654]

My prayers are with you and your family. You two are the best people I know! You make the world a wonderful place. God is with you and being part of The Frey Life is an absolute honor!

[@eob4228]

I’ve been studying for AP biology like crazy and there are so many questions referencing CF and just the nature of it being a recessive genetic disease - I took the actual exam today and thought of you guys every time a CF question came up:)

[@laurelrobbins4175]

Ellen Byers I took that same test today and I thought the same thing for the cystic fibrosis questions :)

[@rae1957tn]

Ellen Byers good luck!

[@jessicadehaan566]

my brother had cf ( he past away) i have the dna. and 50% my kids can give it to there kids. But in The USA CF is sooo much bigger then here

[@christalphelps6186]

Same, I thought of Mary when I took it. 😂😊

[@jessicadehaan566]

Gypsy thehoneybee here you only can get tested if you have the gene. a lot of people do not know that they cary the gene. bit 2 people withe the gene i a chance 25% that the baby have it!

[@amandaanderson8254]

That outro tho so powerful and yet so simple. I actually cried and felt it when Mary was talking about bringing our pain to God as my own health just keeps being stubborn and I am currently in pain. Prayers and love to u both

[@katievanwormer1674]

Praying for you during this journey!! Lifes journey has many different roads...stay strong as always!! We all love you and know you are in God's hands!!!❤🙏❤

[@lakeside4485]

What a testimony! We love you so much, you guys. You have a whole online community behind you as well, praying for strength, wisdom, and peace, holding you up in prayer all week. I thank God that He is already in the future, and knows what we need every moment to be able to get us through whatever comes. Also, Duke is not far from where I live, and they are amazing! ❤️❤️❤️

[@aprilsutterfield3635]

God Bless you Mary and Peter! May the Holy Spirit give you peace and comfort. May God lead the doctors and team working with you both!

[@heytherekelilah2]

Welcome to North Carolina, Frey Family. Praying for you this week, you’re almost done. ❤️ Duke is a great place to be, you are in wonderful hands, Mary!

[@mommyamy123]

I hope you get great news and it calms your soul! I can see the worry in you both. Keep the faith and keep smiling you got this!

[@TuggerAbbey]

You have a lot of people praying for you. I hope and pray you don’t need a transplant, but if you do, it goes well and is a big success