WE'RE MOVING | TRANSPLANT EVALUATION RECAP

[@thefreylife]

We did our best to try to recap transplant eval week and the outcome and plan for my health... and our LIFE. So many details to figure out! But the bottom line is... we are MOVING!

[@mercedezfredericks3787]

thank you both Mary and Peter for being so brave and such good examples for people living with illness

[@Laurana07]

The Frey Life This move, that in no way includes me or has any effect on me, is stressing me out. What is going to happen to your beautiful garden? The bird family? All your stuff. It's such a huge change. I know you will handle it well. Maybe you can have pool again? You guys are amazing. Even though your scenery is changing you will still be you. Ollie will still be adorable. Bon voyage!

[@jaimewender]

as long as you're together - anywhere can become home!

[@hannabfree]

The Frey Life Good luck with it all you guys! I am in the same boat of moving and getting ready to switch CF centers and when you said that it’s overwhelming it brought the tears! Gosh it really is overwhelming and then there is insurance and all the fun stuff... Going from Washington to Idaho. But from everything you guys have experienced and learned so far, Duke sounds like the right choice for transplant. Don’t be surprised if I move there in the future too. 😆 but seriously God bless you guys in your journey and transitions.

[@darlenehaley6781]

So thankful for your ministry of Christ like love. Your inspirational and educational videos are priceless to so many of us. Thanks for bringing us along for the ride. God bless ya'll from Oklahoma!

[@meglocklear]

I live in NC! It's a beautiful state. Duke is a great hospital. If you need anything, please ask and I would love to ask my church to have you and Peter come speak at our church.

[@expression3639]

I'm glad she's switching hospitals after the clowns are her current one wrecked her kidneys with their recklessness in administering IV Colistin for the first time at full dose and without supervision and ruining that very important antibiotic for her.

[@madisenblaire91]

I live in the Charlotte area and my dad had a liver transplant at Duke in 1997. Y’all will love it here! You get gorgeous beaches and beautiful mountains with so much to do in between!

[@laurenallison9391]

madisenblaire91 New England also offers beautiful beaches and mountains so they’re alike except it’s warmer in NC lol.

[@robinharris0562]

Wishing you all the best😀. No matter where you are. God is there too❤️

[@missatab1]

My best friend's husband went through CF lung transplant, and they were 7 hours away from their home base. Thinking about how lonely she was, how hard it was to process things and not have support physically there... I think yall are absolutely correct in your future move. Having a support system for the "if/when" is so important. I'm praying for you guys

[@karenknaus221]

You will love N.C.!!! Duke is top notch!!! If you ever need anything please reach out! Would love to help in anyway we can!!! Love you guys!!!! You will be in my thoughts and prayers!

[@LymeDiseaseRadio]

Hi Karen, do you live in NC? I was telling Mary last month that I too needed to move further south due to my illnesses and was looking there and Florida....we have to laugh now becuase I was told to look in the Medical Triad area, which im guessing is around Raleigh/Durham near Duke? The difference is, I'm an older lady, alone, and probably cant afford the same area they can. Any suggestions for me, it would be greatly appreciated. Thank you.

[@sunnya8]

NC is wonderful, warm, & pretty. Wishing you the best in the journey of moving down there & whatever lies beyond. ♥️♥️

[@jenv6846]

I live in North Carolina, it's a beautiful state. The area around Duke is not only beautiful, but it is also economically a great area.

[@haert2home1]

Awww. I sure loved knowing you guys were fellow New Englandahs! Hope you get a big ol’ moving van cuz we’re ALL coming with you! 😁

[@irisleonard4656]

Welcome to NC! the beautiful NC beaches are only 2 hours away from Raleigh and the mountains are close. So we have mountains, beaches and our winters aren’t bad! Hope you enjoy NC despite the circumstances ❤️❤️

[@StefanieRoyMusic]

Oh wow.

[@lynnrose7562]

As soon as I saw the title, I clicked immediately. We will always be here for you. I have been to North Carolina many times and it is just beautiful. It is an honor that you share your life. God bless you both!

[@cadienicole6826]

Wow. Big news. Happy to walk through this journey with you.

[@michellehinson3660]

Awww, Mary I know leaving everything and every one you love there is sad and upsetting, but North Carolina is a beautiful place. Duke is an amazing hospital and the people here are pretty awesome too. Welcome to North Carolina... when the time is right!

[@laura23678]

This must be a really challenging time for you both - thank you for taking the time to share.

[@maxinecrossfire2514]

No matter what happens we will stand by you and be with you through this entire process.

[@melissamwarren]

My cousin had double lung transplant at Duke 3 years ago...living his best life!

[@catguthrie6264]

Long may he breathe!! Blessing to him, and you as well.

[@EIND12]

you will love NC. moved in 2012 and never looked back. I don't miss the cold

[@pansun9799]

You’re moving there to be Pro-active VS Reactive. Praying for you guys!!!

[@gwenschott]

I live in Cary (about 20-30 minutes from Duke), and it's a wonderful area! I think you'll really like it. And you can't get much better than Duke. They're top notch.

[@reversevaccum]

I live in Cary too. I hope they love duke

[@joet5839]

We’ll be with you and always 🙏 for you wherever you guys go. ❤️😎

[@thefreylife]

Thanks Joe T! So happy to have you on our Frey Life journey with us!

[@misty2116]

We are currently stationed ( army ) in the Raleigh area , we live in knightdale. Its amazing here. Moving is hard, but I know God has amazing things planned for you.

[@mellowsunflower]

I’ve watched you guys for years and I’m also a New Englander (NH) living in Raleigh. It’s not the worst place to live. Horrible drivers but beautiful weather and lots to do! I hope this move brings you two peace and happiness!

[@natalieheidgerken]

What an exciting and nerve racking decision! I lived in NC for almost 10 years and loved it. The forests, mountains, and beaches are to die for and the Raleigh area is gorgeous. I’ve been to appointments at Duke and they are very knowledgeable and realistic about patient care. Praying for you guys in the next months as you make this transition. I can’t wait to follow along on the journey.

[@baileyraye2177]

I live in North Carolina! The beaches are BEAUTIFUL and if you guys take your boat, you have the huge intercostal waterway to cruise around in as well.

[@TraciHilbers]

My oldest daughter and her husband live in SC but I have also been to NC...both are very beautiful...my younger daughters and myself will be visiting in July and it's going to very hard for me to come back to Nebraska as I really love SC

[@thefreylife]

bailey r that sounds lovely!

[@gabrielleelkas2871]

We love you! I live in PVD and we have considered moving for different medical care for my chronic illness, you have us all behind you. Praying deep and hard for you. Made a page on my prayer journal for you. 💓

[@ArstyImogenSky]

* chills* oh my heart. Many blessings in the weeks and months ahead. I am really happy that they accepted you as a candidate.

[@madifeder2137]

I have lived my whole life in NC (born and raised in Charlotte, now going to school in Wilmington) but I’ve spent a lot of time in Raleigh/Durham and it’s so lovely. NC has a lot to offer and I think you two will fit in so well here. Lots of great people.

[@jaimebh30]

Thank you for filming a recap of transplant evaluation. I hope the home search and moving process go well. I am excited to see future vlogs in North Carolina.

[@carolwmsbowman9801]

So excited for your move to NC! Our daughter’s family lives in Raleigh and we love to visit there. Folks are so friendly and there is an abundance of wonderful churches! May God bless and lead you as you make plans!

[@daniellemiller1122]

I used to live in Raleigh/cary area There is so much to do . It's so nice there . I hope you guys love it as much as I did.

[@camarojai6832]

Danielle Miller I just moved here and love it 😍

[@stacybusch3923]

Duke is phenomenal! We transferred all of my son’s care to Duke about 2 years ago and have been so happy with that change. I don’t regret it one bit. Best of luck!

[@SkyEaglespirit]

You two are doing all your homework & interacting with the professionals like a boss! I and my 21 year old daughter are documented organ donors. We know how very important organ donation is & are praying for you both. ❤

[@rev2kev]

You are doing the right thing being so proactive. I just can't imagine anything more challenging than what you're facing. I was A respiratory therapist for 20 yrs. I've treated CF'ers. Its been a couple of decades since I practiced and treatment has come a long way. I'm also a retired pastor and know the challenges of finding a pastoring a new church. I pray that God gives both of you all you need in this challenging life.

[@bsuter1226]

I am a native Charlottean and still live on the area. NC is a beautiful state with great people, lots of opportunities, and even more southern charm. Duke is a great hospital and I'm sure that y'all made a great choice. So, welcome and I pray that God's grace, love, and comfort fills you during this transition time and beyond.

[@stjernoga]

Hope you find a cozy home there, lots of light,love and prayers 💕🙏

[@naomicarrier1733]

God is walking with you on this journey 🙏🕯♥️just as your frey life family is also holding you up in prayer 🙏🌸🌺

[@mamafarrell1293]

I have missed alot of our videos in the last year. I some how got unsubscribed. I cant wait to follow you on this journey.

[@sarahchaney556]

I will be praying for all of you!

[@hollyosgerby1901]

If you are both at peace with your decision, then it is the right decision. May God continue to bless your journey . 🤗❤️🙏🏻🙏🏻

[@sheenaaikins4939]

I was born in NC and lived there until just after my 11th birthday. I was near Charlotte though, not Durham. But NC in general is an amazing place! And southern people are SO nice and friendly (or at least they were when I lived there). I've said it before and I'll say it a million times more. This whole process has happened the way it has FOR A REASON. I agree that God has been orchestrating this whole thing from the very beginning.

[@XxXQuietSoulXxX]

I love how Peter sits next to you and waits patiently for you to finish speaking. Our family prays for your family. The frey life has so much love.

[@tonicartalks3221]

NC is beautiful and I am excited that you all will be doing what you need to do, before you have to do it! Mama always say bloom where you are planted, and I am sure you will be blooming wonderfully. Prayers for you and your family! I’m right down the street if you need anything👍🏻

[@loramarshall3517]

Mary and Peter, what a big decision you had to make! This sounds like the best decision for Mary's health and future transplant. I wish you both luck in your new adventures! Hugs from Texas!

[@nowayyeswayful]

Charlotte, North Carolina here!! Duke is great 100%. My friend is a nurse and soon to be NP there. I work at CMC Main, we always get patients from duke and vice versa. All these doctors are amazing. THIS IS EXCITING. Wishing you the best. If you need anything, let me know!

[@chrystald.]

❤️ Wohoo you will love NC. I live about 45 min from Duke. My husband has to go to the cancer center every 3 months or so. He spent a month in ICU and I never encountered an unkind person there. I loved every one we meet. He is cancer free at the moment. 🙏Sending Prayers and love your way.

[@danic4721]

What a blessing that your life is structured in a way that you are able to move soon, and create a life there. So very happy for you, as I know this will take a lot of stress off of you Both. May God continue to bless you and calm your spirits.

[@TatteredAndTornPages]

Come on Frey Life, we're moving to North Carolina!!!!! Your Frey Life support family is RIGHT by your side♡♡

[@davidseidel5831]

I think you are making a great choice moving before the transplant is immediately needed. Prayers for a easy transition both physically for you Mary, and professionally for you Peter. NC is a beautiful area, and Duke is a great facility.🙏❤️

[@beebee2783]

Duke is the reason I am alive, not because of healthcare but rather my dad moved from California to go to Duke Medical to earn a bachelors degree and while there he met my mom who was born and raised in Durham. Were it not for Duke having such an amazing School of medicine even back in the 70s I would have never been born. Over the years their medical program has only gotten better!!! You are in great hands and The Lord has you right were you need to be!

[@whitec1981]

Mary and Peter I pray the Holy Spirit will guide and direct your paths as you keep moving forward. ❤️❤️

[@maryjaneadams2914]

Mary, I've been following you guys since before Scotland, God is leading you, where you need to be, now! Step by step, everything will fall into place! And who knows? The medication COULD help! But if not, you'll be the place where a transplant can take place, if needed. And they have your history down there now. You are always on my prayer list, and will continue to be so. God is good! My niece lives down there.....she loves it!

[@audreyedwards6130]

I live in Raleigh, NC and you will love NC. There are 2 lakes that are really close for boat time and being someone that watched a person go through a double lung transplant at Duke, I know that the teams are amazing and very caring! I hope you grow to love NC and good luck in the housing market they go quick.

[@joygross]

I cried when I watched this.. for so many reasons, The beautiful strong faith you both have, seeing how tired you are from all that is going on, I admire you being young and so mature Wow you just blow me away. I will be praying for you through your process .. I also know you will persevere. 🙏🏻🙌🏼🙏🏻🙌🏼🙏🏻

[@meghan2802]

Having warmer and sunnier weather will be great for both of you.

[@baileythompson1242]

Wishing you guys all the strength and peace in this huge next step ❤️💕

[@Glory2Jesus]

Moving now rather than later makes perfect sense to me. Doing the temporary living situation is not the best way because, as you said, you will need a support system. I’ll be one of the thousands praying for the right house, church, and everything else. My advice, after just making a major move to another state myself, is to start packing and purging stuff now. I procrastinated and paid the price with stress and exhaustion. I love you and, as always, will keep you in my prayers. 🥰

[@connienichols6487]

So glad your moving to nc. You’re gonna love our winters...the fall omg your gonna love our mountains. Gods gots this.

[@Janet_scribbles]

I have lived here near Duke, UNC for over 40 years. Best place to live is in Hillsborough, easy drive to Duke maybe 12-15 min, small town feel, very dog friendly, so many places to go on walks, lots of nice small town activities, restaurants, safe. Chapel Hill too expensive, Durham does not have a small town community feeling.

[@karenbonham1359]

j51 great information thank you!

[@kathleengary6979]

Also, look at Carrboro.

[@Janet_scribbles]

kathleen gary Carrboro might be a bit too hipster for them and price of houses is absurd in carrboro

[@HannahJoy333]

Amazing news!!! You guys are making an incredibly difficult but wise decision. My prayers are with you each step of the process 💜💜💜.

[@glendaruff125]

You will love NC. We welcome you The Frey Life.

[@Scrap14Me]

We've been following the Frey life for years!! We are pastors here in NC. (Originally from NY) So let me offer a heartfelt welcome, and having dealt with chronic illness for the last 12 years, we get it. I do love the Drs in our area, they are amazing!! If we can offer help in anyway, please let us know!! Praying for both of you. Transition often brings it's own challenges, but together with the leading of the Holy Spirit, it will be great.❤

[@timburnette5914]

Me and my wife only live about 40 minutes from Duke and we REALLY want to meet up with y’all and just be there for whatever you need. We want to pray for y’all and with y’all. I’m a cancer survivor so I know all about the power of prayer. God Bless Y’all

[@cymbiesMommy]

watching this July 2021 and just so amazed at all the changes since this video. Little did you know how much Mary's health would improve on Trikafta, or what a beautiful home and community you had waiting for you in NC!! So happy for you both. Wishing you so much love and continued positive blessings!

[@countrygirl3940]

North Carolina is a beautiful state, God certainly has His hand in all of this!💗

[@abra819]

His make believe hand?

[@ImMichelle93]

I'm in the Carolinas. If you ever need anything, I'm just a message away ♡

[@thefreylife]

Kpop Recyclable Material thanks!

[@geminiburglar]

I'm in the Carolinas as well!! I am happy to be allowed to join you in this journey!! Love you guys!! 💖

[@christygalyon4049]

I love you guys! Isn't our God great? He knows exactly what we need, when we need it and His timing is always perfect. He will continue to open doors and ready your hearts and minds for this change. Just know you have friends in Tennessee praying for you every step of the way.

[@kristyhilt7317]

You will love NC! I lived there for several years as a child. The mild weather is the great thing about there. You don’t get much snow and when you do, in most cases it won’t be there the next morning.

[@ladyofthewood5604]

I live in Charlotte, North Carolina. Just wanted to say that we will welcome you with open arms and open hearts when the time comes!

[@terrijohnson4383]

So excited to hear you are headed to Raleigh-Durham. I hope you love NC as much as I do. I live in the NW but travelled to NC for over 25 years for work. A gentle and kind culture. I hope you can find a place near a lake so Ollie can still enjoy the boat! I simply can't wait to see you enjoy and explore NC. 🙏🏼

[@marydivine5336]

I live in the north hills area (10 minutes from duke) and that is the hospital I grew up going to for a brain disease I have, and I go to UNC for another disease. Duke is a great hospital with many great surgeons. I have been going since birth and we have always loved it and the care they provide. Good luck to you all!

[@heytherekelilah2]

I am on the east coast of North Carolina. :) It is indeed hot here! You will get more snow than I get though, as the coast doesn’t see much. Prayers that your transition is smooth and you find the community you are seeking! God is good. Much love to you, Mary, Peter and Ollie-boy!

[@alyseandrews1066]

That is such a wise decision. Moving can be scary and daunting and sad but you are right, it will be far better to do it before there is an emergent need. Having the time to find friends and build a home and settle in to a new groove will really help ground and support you when it is time for transplant recovery! ❤

[@rosebauereiss91]

So blessed by you two!! I was looking up Chest therapy for my sister. ( she has MAC amongst other conditions) I came across your videos, then read your stories. Thanking God for all He has done and will continue to do for you and through you. Thank you, this will help her tremendously.

[@hannahtoelle266]

I just moved to North Carolina a couple weeks ago! I’m loving it so far!

[@joistevens6463]

There are so many areas outside Duke, Cary, Garner,Apex, Hollysprings, Fuquay-Varina etc.. I think you will love this area!

[@kmsmythe1986]

I used to live in Fuquay-Varina! It is odd seeing someone mention it!

[@demetriasaffore7837]

I'm sending warm thoughts and prayers. ❤🤗🙏

[@lildeegurrl]

Thoughts, love and all the support in the world from me here on the Oregon coast! Cannot wait to see your NC adventure!

[@jessnapier4149]

I am so glad you still making volgs every day thank you for let me on your jonuery

[@pamelaruth6909]

NC will welcome you with open arms!!!! to our wonderful state!! Looking forward to coming along with you as you move. We live near the coast, but our whole state is beautiful. TFS and take care.........

[@beckyschmidt4025]

Tough decisions; tough times coming. God will continue to be with you! Praying.

[@JUICEYFRUITT1]

I’m excited you’re moving to NC Mary and Peter but not excited about the reason. I’m glad you’re taking precautions and planning ahead for the future with CF and your health. That shows God’s love and care and you both being responsible for your lives. I heart ❤️ you both and know that God will continue caring for you daily. 💕❤️

[@marilynmayhew6040]

God will guide you through this new “adventure “. Best Wishes for a smooth transition 😍

[@misatchi]

I think this is going to be a great change for both of you. Having such a big CF team at several different places in close proximity sounds like the best option for your continued health. :) Hopefully transplant is a long time away for you. I think this is perfect timing. Starting over with a new team will be overwhelming but as long as you communicate effectively with them I'm sure it will get more comfortable.

[@Alicia-kf9lq]

God is right by your side. I hear it's beautiful there. Can't wait for your New Beginnings. God bless you both and Ollie xxxxx

[@acciobeauty]

Love you guys so much. I wish everyone was as nice as you. I was born and raised in Gloucester, Ma. and now I live in N.C. If you have any questions I may be able to help you with, let me know. I saw you when you went to my beach in Gloucester. I got a little homesick. If you decide to start preaching, I'd love to come to your church and hear you. Best of luck to all 3 of you.

[@shelliew2280]

I knew something was up Y'all didn't seem like yourselves, NC is Beautiful and yes weather is so nice , You both will love it , The scenery alone is absolutely breathtaking . New Beginning is the best Beginning -

[@bernicemiller2130]

I just watched this an felt led to write you. I am from NC an wanted to let you know Duke is one of the best hospitals you could go to! My daughter has been to Duke as a baby. Ive been there for myself an you will be in great hands. They are more than qualified for anything they have to tackle! Im rooting for you Mary an you are in my prayers always. North Carolina is not such a bad state to live in lol. Ive been here all my life an im 57. Im about 2 hrs. from Duke, closer to the ocean. I love watching you on you-tube an give Ollie a hug from me lol. I just came across you on you-tube one day an i have watched you ever since. You have a good Christian life an thats what i enjoy. Wishing you the best. I hope your transition to NC goes good. God bless you an you are in my prayers. Bernice

[@larachatman418]

I live near Raleigh! It’s beautiful and there is a ton to do!

[@theIaurenshow]

this is a smart decision, and i’m happy that you guys are able to move and have the best situation for Mary. love you both xo

[@pamelamiller3480]

I am in Chapel Hill and have been RN at Duke caring for many transplant patients there. You will love it here! Hope we will meet and break bread once you are here!

[@Lyn4817]

Mary, you hit the nail on the head. Surgery is 50% physical but 50% is mental preparation and acceptance. I had been wondering about whether you needed to move be nearer to Duke. After living and working around our country over the years, provided you are together, that is what matters the most. My doctors decided they don't need to do a Manomety and my surgery goes ahead on Monday. If was delayed from tomorrow. You guys are going to be fine. Hopefully you will still be able to pursue your boating pleasures. With the weather prediction of deterioration, the milder the climate you live in, the better off you will be. Especially with your lungs Mary. You guys have got this. At least there isn't a great urgency to your move.

[@itynotbity]

It gets very humid here in NC. The weather is crazy at times with hurricanes so please keep in mind flooding happens so look for a place that is built on higher ground. I’m hoping the new med will help and work for as long as possible! Keeping you both in my prayers ♥️

[@shannonsartshop22]

NC is wonderful! Wilmington, NC has a very special place in my heart. If you get a chance I highly recommend taking a trip over there from Duke/wherever you end up when that time comes. Y'all are in my thoughts and prayers.

[@kareng6998]

You are in my prayers as you plan, prepare and make this move.

[@Chibi175]

I've been watching you guys for a while now. I am so happy that you are on this journey. I am so grateful that you guys video tape it. I understand your excitement about the new drug. I don't have CF but I have kidney disease and have kidney stones every month. As my kidneys were going down hill there was a drug for me to try. It didn't help with the pain but it helped me stay off the transplant list.its funny cuz when I started watching you guys I got a service dog (golden doodle) name Ollie. Watching you guys have helped me not be scared of the process. It's just so amazing that you guys are spreading love and awareness. Thank you so much

[@madison8568]

So excited for you! We will be neighbors (state wise). I live only a few hours on the SC side from where you all will be in NC. My stepdad lived in Durham for 18 months for a job and it is a great area! I moved to SC a few months ago and it has been one of the best team of doctors I have had and also the sense of community. It is so smart to move now while you are well enough and not when it is urgent because regardless you will have to move especially post-transplant when you have to be close for 3 months or so.

[@laurapiacentini9431]

I’m happy that you both are at peace with your decision to move, and I think it’s a wise choice. Transitioning with the seasons of change is scary, hard and a great adventure! I have recently gone through it myself. I think living in a milder climate will be great for all of you! I’ll miss knowing you won’t be living as close to me anymore, but that’s why we have this virtual community ❤️

[@lisatowan4536]

Best of luck on this new journey. It's got to be so overwhelming, but I know that God has you in his hands. I can't wait to see what life has in store for your family.

[@thefreylife]

Thank you for the encouragement Lisa!!