Good morning my YouTube Friends!!! ✌️

[@spunky38251]

One step at a time sunshine. Find one thing each day that brings you joy. Loving your content. Real people are hard to find. Stay you and stay well

[@georgiascott4172]

I felt like ''Muh'' this morning; then I remembered what you taught us. SO ... I got up and showed up!!!!! Thank you my friend for helping me change my life! Sending thanks, love and blessings. xo

[@tanyatalkstoomuch]

@@georgiascott4172 I am so glad that stuck with you!!! I am so proud of you ❤️

[@BrendaleeG]

I enjoy your rambling, makes me know I'm not alone going thru 1/2 of what you deal with.

[@donnakitt2672]

Love listening to you. Keep rambling ❤ and keep collecting rocks!!!!

[@Rosesnflowers7]

Your therapist should have just gave compassion and maybe a hug for sure

[@Bogahome4]

Tanya, I think you and the lady could lift each other up! Just having a friend who knows what you’re going through helps! Go for lunch, coffee! Sounds like she needs a good friend too! I love listening to you ❤

[@Rosesnflowers7]

Wow girl proud of you getting that I did that I think you explained that perfect..hugs girl

[@Rosesnflowers7]

Just remember don't believe everything that's pops in your head k

[@ShellyEdwards-ul9zf]

I love listening to you talk ❤❤❤

[@Daisy-the2nd]

Tanya your very hard on yourself , , you would benefit from cognitive therapy . Changing your inner voice to more positive thoughts about yourself , eventually comes natural and will lift your spirits. Your place is a lovely sanctuary that a lot of woman would love to have. A safe place for your creativity, a place to get away, a place to bring your favourite people. Please be more gentle with yourself , no one is perfect

[@tanyatalkstoomuch]

@@Daisy-the2nd I have cognitive therapy every Monday with my psychotherapist. This week she just didn't even know what to say to me 😳

[@Daisy-the2nd]

@@tanyatalkstoomuch If you don’t find her helpful you can always change therapists , maybe she could see you just need a shoulder rather than lessons that day )) Keep up the self care girl your doing great.

[@MrsGHome]

Wow you literally sound like me with my Granddaughter,I used to cry when she went home from my house,now she is in her 20’s married and everything worked out for both of us.All things do get better with time❤

[@tanyatalkstoomuch]

@@MrsGHome it must be bittersweet that she is all grown up now ❤️❤️❤️ I'm glad you are all doing well 😊

[@yayaserenity2397]

Hi Tanya! It's ok, I like to listen to you ramble 😅

[@AnnaGibson-d5u]

Hi 🎉Tanya 🎉it’s Anna yes I’d tell the guy let’s just be friends if he can’t he can’t he can buzz off right 🎉I’m sooooo super proud of u!!im listening i love ur videos!!!!take care ok 🎉

[@andreaduprey4116]

Ohh Tanya !! 😢I feeel your amazement & maybe some sadness .. I’m happy you have your grandchildren .. You are you !! It’s all good !! Thank you for sharing yourself with us .. I’m honored ✌️😎✨

[@jipsiemune]

Love is a powerful emotion and can make us emotional 💞

[@glendaroberts8463]

No matter topic, I always love to hear what you got to say. I am in tx, I want to find some peace, so tired of daily arguments......but in all honesty I can't afford another place at this time so I think to myself.....one day......blessings to you tanya

[@April-z9u]

Good morning 🙏 🌄 much LOVE ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@kellyweber627]

Hi Tanya 😊 So very nice to see you feeling better!! About cleaning your CPAP machine hose… after washing out mine, I drape it over the shower head in the bathroom. It works. A tad bit of water left in it by the time you need to use it won’t hurt it. You will start to feel the difference in using it ( good way) It may take some time. Especially your body is trying to heal after being so sick. The situation that happened with your grandson when you dropped him off, I totally understand what you’re going through. With me atleast, it is so mentally healing knowing that I am wanted and loved!! He provides that for you!! Now that my kids are young adults, sometimes I get sad thinking about when they were young and needing me. I felt like I had a purpose if that makes sense?? You are really going through a lot of emotions right now, so let them happen and try not to overthink them. I also suffer from depression (not sure if you remember me telling you in another video). I got a kick when you said the lady at the sleep study place asked how can you tell the difference between depression and anxiety?? ARE YOU SERIOUS LADY!?!? Anyway, I better let you go. Take care and enjoy your day my friend!🤗✌🏻💕

[@Highvibes777]

Tanya....when you are ready to "let go" of your story and your past you will grow stronger. When you get strong your relationships will also change and grow. You're doing exactly what you are supposed to be doing right now .....that will change! Hugs

[@DebraDockler-os2sb]

Good to hear that you’re feeling better thank you for sharing your story I enjoy watching your videos because I have gone through a divorce after being married 27 years so the last 7 years where not ok so I feel ya when comes to all the changes that go with that you’re place is coming together Beautiful😊

[@spunky38251]

I hope you are doing ok this week Tanya. Stay well and always safe

[@Jessie-j2u]

I enjoy your rambling on about you're week ì just love you so much

[@evemc358]

❤

[@thelindaschuknecht]

I find at this age in general it is hard to make new friends and maintain them. Pretty much everyone our age has suffered some form of trauma, grief or life changing moments and are trying to keep it together. I don’t think it’s just people with mental illness. I do find people who have tons of money are the only ones that can entertain social lives, that’s not saying they are happy, but with money they can have more experiences. I do understand what that lady was meaning about understanding the difference between anxiety or depression, both can be very debilitating and cause the same symptoms, but usually it is chronic anxiety that leads to depression due to the fact of isolation. As for your guy friend, I would not say anything until you feel it out, if he seems that he is showing more interest other than being friends, you just tell him the truth, you are just getting out of a marriage and you are just wanting a friendship. Hang in there, one step at a time. I think once you get your place organized that will help so much with your mental health.

[@MuseMeMuseYou]

Nice to hear from you again. And so glad you're getting better. It makes sense that you will go in and out of depressive feelings as you make your way again as a single woman. I would like to say, though, that I was a little bothered by the suggestion from your therapist, in regards to your friend coming for a meal, that you ought to make it clear to him that it's not romantic. And then in response to her suggestion, you ruminated about yourself that you often are not clear. Is this really true? It struck me, as I listened to that, that your feeling about yourself not being clear didn't come organically, from within you, but it came externally, from someone else. From your videos, I have gotten the impression that you have a great sense of yourself, and that you can rely on your own understanding of yourself, in many ways. In this situation, I think that, when your friend comes to dinner, you'll know if you need to make it clear -- you'll know by the way he acts, and you'll know how to handle it. And you'll know if you don't need to make it clear. As you seek help from others, don't forget to listen to your own inner understandings -- self-reliance is important too. You've got this, Tanya! You really do -- go go go!

[@VC_Home4Now]

The word could be "jaded" but street smart is probably more like you 🙂 Great job moving forward 🎉 you are really doing the work and it will pay off.

[@lauraschmahl7162]

Your such a good Nana 💖

[@sonysgirl6301]

I am the way, too. I think we are lonely and depressed. My mom doesn't understand ❤❤

[@debbiewatchorn5199]

My son uses a CPAP machine and I know he has a machine next to it that you just pop your parts into it and it cleans it. Maybe that would be worth looking into.

[@Rosesnflowers7]

When he comes say hi it's cool just to make friends with people hopefully we can keep building this friendly so 😀 have a record buddy ....fyi

[@MuseMeMuseYou]

I also have not had good luck making friends, especially in the last several years (since the Covid shutdowns). I've decided that I really enjoy acquaintances -- people who you see now and then, here and there, and exchange pleasantries, and nobody is hurtful because we don't get that deep into each other's lives. Maybe weird, but that's my solution. Haha I guess.

[@tanyatalkstoomuch]

@@MuseMeMuseYou I feel like this is where I'm heading. The fellow that was supposed to come and visit a messaged an hour and a half late and said that he got caught up with work and couldn't message cuz his phone was dead. I think I'm too far gone to even accept what seems to be a reasonable excuse...

[@MuseMeMuseYou]

@@tanyatalkstoomuch Nope, that is absolutely unacceptable from him. If he'd messaged an hour and a half before the dinner, well then, maybe. But this kind of inconsideration from him shows you who he is and what kind of friend he'll be. Now, I do in fact have some friends -- but not new friends. I have the kind of friends that I don't see hardly ever, so haha that's what makes the friendship last. But one thing I've learned the hard way over the last few years (when I moved back to Massachusetts from Rochester) is that: (1) don't be so needy for friends that you accept inconsiderate behavior, and (2) when someone show you inconsiderate behavior, say thank you that you got the correct information, and let them go. Well, anyways, just my humble experience. Meanwhile, enjoy your self! Notice what great company you are for your self (cause you do art!!!) and for those who love you so much, your daughter and your grandchildren.

[@andreaduprey4116]

I have a little white hepa filter on my C-Pap and I was chaining it every 4 weeks , the nurse told me I had to change the little filter every 2 weeks😳 , Thanks for clarifying it for me mam 😂

[@Rosesnflowers7]

If I was a therapist I would only do it for 2weeks a month

[@katkohlerschwartz7386]

Tanya, consider looking at your mental “illness” as taking care of your mental “health” is a more positive way to see yourself. When we change our language, we change our outlook.

[@Daisy-the2nd]

Mental illness will affect most people at least once in their life , so the sleep care lady is really out to lunch regarding her friends and family ….sad really

[@andreaduprey4116]

Because your smarter than the Therapists are

[@BeverlyAdventures]

What app are you using to create your thumbnails?

[@pristinabread]

You do not have to be transparent with people. Either go or not go and let him know you are in the process of divorce and are not interested in a relation ship ONLY if it comes up on his end. Don't get weird from the gate. Came back to edit.....you are more than a diagnosis. Talk about stuff you talk to us about, grandchildren, Art, nature, plants - would you talk to people about your medical problems - no you talk about things that are interesting. sorry if this is brash I am tring to do 10 things at once. LOL.