Tanya you can't take home everything you see 🙈

[@profoundintrovert]

“I’m so tired of trying to be people’s cup-of-tea”. Brilliant.

[@tanyatalkstoomuch]

🤣🤣🤣

[@bagobeans]

I'm new to your channel. I can relate to most of what you are going through. Now if you warn there will be bad language and people still listen, that's on them. They have no right to police your language. His subscription is not that important. You need support right now, not the word police. When I went through my divorce, I was the one put out. So I know what it's like to be homeless. Hang in there. 🎉 I am an artist too. I hope you paint on those wood pieces you found. Be creative and be strong. ❤

[@tanyatalkstoomuch]

So many divorced women artists around here!!! I found my people!!! 😁

[@bagobeans]

@@tanyatalkstoomuch I'm glad I found you. 🌹

[@erinlee933]

Those are for book displays in a library (I work in one). We also use them for DVD displays. Perfect for your iPad idea!

[@tanyatalkstoomuch]

Thank you!!! 😊

[@yayaserenity2397]

Tanya, I love hearing you talk! Continue to be you ❤

[@Tiffabean]

I'm right there with ya! She seems like such a beautiful soul.

[@tanyatalkstoomuch]

Thank you so much. You have no idea how good it feels to hear that 😭❤️❤️❤️

[@tanyatalkstoomuch]

​@@Tiffabeanthank you ❤️❤️❤️

[@julietteboser1202]

lol. I have the same storage drawers. Guess what I put in them…craft supplies. lol. One can never have too many craft supplies. I make junk journals, do pottery, macrame, sketching, make jewelry and have about 300 house plants. Oh, I also collect tarot cards. You and I would get on well. I also made paper at one time. Love your channel. I look for a post every day.

[@tanyatalkstoomuch]

🤣🤣🤣 we are twins!!! ❤️

[@Brenda-u1]

Awwww, love that you have her name so it’s like you are having coffee with your friend. I lost my best friend to cancer two years ago. I need to do that.

[@tanyatalkstoomuch]

Yes it's kind of like a memorial tattoo but we are both still alive. It is a picture of the pearly Gates. With our name underneath. Since high school we have been saying meet you at the pearly Gates ❤️❤️❤️ you should get a tattoo with your friend's name on it. The tattoo on my wrist is a memorial for my baby daddy. I remember the feeling the day I got it ❤️❤️❤️

[@profoundintrovert]

Go DEEP. Never Defend Engage Explain Personalise. The less emotion you show that person the more power you yield.

[@tanyatalkstoomuch]

Oh that's a good one! I will remember that 🙂

[@noraangel5288]

You're authentic as it comes. Bad language or not, I love your channel. 😊

[@tanyatalkstoomuch]

Thank you Nora!!! 😊

[@julietteboser1202]

Sometimes you need those “bad” words to emphasize your feelings. Don't ever apologize for being real. If someone doesn't like how you talk, they don't have to tune in. Be yourself! You are amazing.

[@yayaserenity2397]

I totally agree ❤

[@tanyatalkstoomuch]

Awww thank you so much 😁

[@julietteboser1202]

Oooh, the crochet runner…don't judge me but I would use it as texture for pottery.

[@tanyatalkstoomuch]

I totally get that!!! I wouldn't blame you that would be awesome. I HAVE ALWAYS WANTED TO DO POTTERY ❤️ I think the price is what has stopped me. Or should I say prevented me from starting.

[@SB-wg4fj]

I get over stimulated and need to relax. you are gem! I mean this in the most beautiful way.

[@tanyatalkstoomuch]

I'm sorry you go through that as well. And thank you so much!!! 😁

[@dnixon205]

I saw a wreath at my brother's house yesterday with flowers and a little watering can and it made me think of yours. So that's a thought of what you could create with that or do a pot of flowers with the can incorporated into it.

[@tanyatalkstoomuch]

Oh that's a beautiful idea. I could create a little spring wreath and put it on my door every spring 😁 thanks so much for the idea ❤️

[@Ch-vl8bg]

I seen the water can and thought of a twig wreath. Flowers , butterflies and tiny pot with a stuffed bean lady bug from TY. So big enough to be using the water can. Lol

[@SandraDoiron-sb3bp]

You be you. Sometime a good swear word is warranted. I’m from PEI and just found your page. I love how real you are and you do remind of an east coaster😀I am so sorry you’re going through so much. Narcissists are impossible to live with. Hopefully your living situation improves, you deserve the best.

[@tanyatalkstoomuch]

Hi Sandra! I am absolutely in love with Prince Edward Island. I have been there several times. My daughter's grandfather lives there. I really appreciate you being here and showing your support ❤️ it means a lot to me.

[@Brenda-u1]

I’m from Texas and I’m usually calm and don’t cuss. People tell my kids oh your mom is so sweet and easy going but when I’m mad my southern accent gets heavier and I cuss like a sailor. I grew up with a dad who called my mom every name in the book. She always ignored him and never fought back. I guess I’m determined not to take stuff.

[@tanyatalkstoomuch]

I'm sorry you had to listen to your mom go through that. My mom was in two marriages that were not the greatest for her. I always said I was never going to get married and then I did. I thought I had met the perfect man and he was for the first few years. Or so I thought ❤️

[@Brenda-u1]

You are such a nice person. I’m glad I found your page

[@tanyatalkstoomuch]

@@Brenda-u1 awwww thank you so much 🙂 I'm glad you found my page too!!! ❤️

[@Tiffabean]

Would you happen to have an Amazon Wishlist, by chance? My curious mind wants to know. :)

[@tanyatalkstoomuch]

Hmmmm I wonder how I would go without posting that? I will see if I can figure it out!!!

[@AlysianahNoire]

Good for you taking back your power. Not healthy for you long term so hope you’re able to find a resolution that brings you a peaceful outcome. You be you. It’s your channel. ❤

[@tanyatalkstoomuch]

Thank you so much. We actually had a discussion this morning about a possible solution. About a way to separate the assets that would benefit us both. Benefit him more honestly but that's fine with me. I hope the logistics of it all work out. I can't wait to be free ❤️

[@elvamajors3497]

I love your crafty haul.😊Take care. 👍🏾

[@tanyatalkstoomuch]

Thank you! I am very excited about it myself 🙂

[@AuthenticityMG]

New subscriber. Loving your channel ❤

[@tanyatalkstoomuch]

❤️❤️❤️

[@LovinLife-pv7op]

I would still recommend legal advice. If he acts that way, he is not likely to change and you most certainly deserve to be free of him. Peace is immeasurable.

[@tanyatalkstoomuch]

Yes I am definitely getting some legal advice. I think we have actually come up with a compromise and we just need help getting it sorted out properly. I really hope it works I can't wait to be free. No contact 🚫

[@BittyBooBrown]

Yes they are for drafting for architects. That is a crocheted dresser scarf. Oh girl I am a purse and shoes girl lol. Lol I get it. I just tell them I can't complain and I did no one would want to listen anyway lol.

[@tanyatalkstoomuch]

DRAFTING!!! That's the word I was looking for thank you!!! 🤣🤣🤣

[@tammyinman1699]

You are so fun! I don’t think one can have too many arts and crafts supplies lol. Girl anything free… I’d load up lol. I love the mini water can!!! I’m still trying to organize and oh if you could see my two rooms upstairs you’d probably pull your hair out! 21-22 I had to have 5 fully opened knee surgeries and was really sick with deadly infections so I’m still not up to full strength and now I have to have back surgery 😏. You have the neatest ideas! The name calling and yelling ugh! He wants total control and I can understand wanting to not live in one room. Please be careful for your health, mentally and emotionally and physically !♥️🙏🏻♥️🙏🏻♥️♥️🙏🏻♥️🙏🏻 I love the maple leaf 🍁 candles! I wish I could find a “ free sale” like you did! 🤣 That stand is maybe for an IPad but also to hold a small canvas? What a treasure trove you found!!! By the way which dollar store were you talking about? Dollar General or Dollar Tree or is it different in Canada? I’m in Arkansas, USA 🇺🇸 😊 I once had a small wall of shelves and I bought plastic shoe containers with lids. I lettered them A-W and one XYZ to put all my supplies in alphabetical order. It was awesome but now I’m in a much smaller house. Divorce is not easy and I have struggled for 24 years just to get by. You are very real and I only watch people who are real! Oh I hate the beeping French fry machines!!!! Sometimes I wish I could just talk on KZbin but I feel too vulnerable to do so. I hope people are being kind to you in the comments but if not remember to not take it personally bc they have a problem if they are unkind. Have a wonderful day Ms. Tanya! Love n prayers 💕🙏🏻💕🙏🏻💕🙏🏻💐

[@tanyatalkstoomuch]

That is a lot of surgery!!! I have had a few surgeries myself. Recovery is no fun. Especially with complications. The dollar store here is Dollarama. I have run into a few guys that are wondering what my husband's side of the story is LOL but I'm not too worried. There is definitely both sides to a story and I am no saint. But my husband's behavior is over the top. Not the kind of reaction anybody should have to anything. Those are the facts and I know that. No one can tell me otherwise. Thanks for taking the time for such a detailed comment. I love all the comments and support from everyone ❤️❤️❤️

[@tammyinman1699]

@@tanyatalkstoomuch yes ma’am and I’ve had about 20 surgeries all together and now facing back surgery 😏. I’m not good dealing with pain so recovering is always very difficult. I’ve heard of Dollarama but not sure where if any are in the USA. There are always 2 sides to every story and then there’s the truth lol but when dealing with a Narcissist your side is way more true than theirs for sure. I’ve made plenty of mistakes but I can still confidently say I did everything I could to make things work for 18 1/2 yrs except literally die. The second and third I was like oh no way so gone in 5 mos once. And in Jan after only 8 days. I’d rather be alone in peace any day!!!! Any way, you’re welcome…. I enjoy watching and following your journey!

[@annitastewart1914]

I very much look forward to your videos ❤. I, also am an artist/maker of things & love paper crafts of all kinds & making/sewing things with fabric...a couple of great KZbin channels for inspiration are, Treasure Books & Lolly Palooza.

[@tanyatalkstoomuch]

Sweet! Thank you for the recommendations! I'm actually going to go check them out right now!!! 😁

[@T_Barb]

Didn’t subscribe to bad words? Lol. Oh his poor, delicate, virgin ears! 😂😂😂😂😂

[@bagobeans]

Yet, he still watched. The nerve!!!

[@tanyatalkstoomuch]

🤣🤣🤣

[@rebeccazuckman9059]

Hey gurl! Glad to see ya again..

[@tanyatalkstoomuch]

Hey Rebecca!!! Thanks for saying hello 😁😁😁

[@JUStMeKari]

He can leave!I know you might not have money to move,and u shouldn't half too. I think that white cloth is a doily,I have a few that I use to cover scratches on my end table. I'm new here,and just love your channel ❤Stay Strong,like u are

[@tanyatalkstoomuch]

So sorry about the late reply on this comment Karrie. I'm just catching up on a bunch of comments I missed from weeks ago. I have no legal grounds to make him leave. I can't wait to have my own place so I can use my doily for something!!! Thank you for sticking around and showing your support I really appreciate it ❤️

[@violetgirl6512]

Oh gosh coffee might be effecting you adversly... I had to go to decaf but even the days i drink decaf i have troubles sleeping. I love coffee ☕ 💕

[@tanyatalkstoomuch]

I gave up coffee just a few days ago!!! I've had a little bit of a headache but that shouldn't last more than a week. I gave it up mostly for the amount of sugar I put in each cup honestly. I would rather drink no coffee than drink coffee with less sugar LOL

[@jipsiemune]

Living under the condition you are with , with your abusive husband will I would think it might stir up inside you some bad words ... I totally get what you are going through as the verbal mental and emotional abuse many people must live with is crazy making , especially if you are not aware of this kind of abuse ... it has taken a lot of inner strength and good friends and family for me to keep myself from going insane , the world is full of angry bitting types of peeps ... Is really good you talk about your suffering as it is a form of healing , we gotta let out the poison that other people put inside of us or we will not survive 🌼 You are NOT crazy , you are human and you are living with a very angry mean person ... GOD bless you and protect you and guide you on a healthy path 🙏🏼

[@tanyatalkstoomuch]

Oh my goodness thank you for all the kind words. I am definitely in a bad situation. We are going to try mediation and see if we can separate our assets. My hope is to go no contact. And rebuild a life of my own. Thanks for showing your support ❤️

[@alana7228]

Hey there! I have two of those black, wire stands; a small one and the larger one like yours. I bought them at Dollarama and the packaging said they were tablet stands. So there you go... perfect for your iPad.😊

[@tanyatalkstoomuch]

Ok sweet!!! I made a pretty good guess I guess 🤪 it is now at my daughter's house. I don't have a tablet 😁 thanks for letting me know. It is now confirmed...

[@dfollantree1]

Girlfriend, do not apologize for being you. If that guy is so sensitive then he can go. I say if they aren’t paying my bills then they don’t have a say. You do you. Love your videos. You stay strong and don’t let that ex pull any crap on you. I hope that you ex desires to go too. Hugs girl.

[@tanyatalkstoomuch]

He unfortunately has no intentions of leaving. I am trying to come up with an arrangement that he can stay here if he can manage to pay off all our debt at once. We are going to try to go through mediation and see what happens. I could be stuck here for months though 👀

[@susanwiseman4851]

That is a folding adjustable picture or plate stands or for your iPhone. Don’t worry about others what they think about you. It would be a pretty dull world if everyone was the same. 🙂

[@tanyatalkstoomuch]

Thank you Susan. That is very kind of you to say 🙂 sorry I missed a bunch of comments from weeks ago I'm just trying to catch up now ❤️ thank you for your support.

[@GrandmothersRule]

Honey that black thing is for a picture are either a small IPad. I am addicted to yoir channel. Just love you. Have a bless day. Oh... and the bad language!!! I am a 70 year old retired truck driver. There is nothing you say I have not heard before. 😂😂😂

[@tanyatalkstoomuch]

Oh my goodness thanks so much!!! And I love your name 😊 grandmothers do rule!!!

[@LouiseHolden-yk3oh]

I love your glasses

[@tanyatalkstoomuch]

Thank you so much 🙂🙂🙂

[@April-z9u]

Hi 👋 👋 👋 👋

[@tanyatalkstoomuch]

hello 👋

[@jesscherry404]

Make the box into a tea box.

[@tanyatalkstoomuch]

OMG that's the best idea!!! I think it's the perfect size 😊

[@donnakitt2672]

Good idea! It reminds me of a box for dominoes 😊

[@SB-wg4fj]

you are so funny. I think you should go into comedy.

[@tanyatalkstoomuch]

🤣🤣🤣 it's nice to hear people think I'm funny. Cuz I sure think I'm funny 🤣🤣🤣 it would just be weird if I was the only one 🤣🤣🤣

[@kimdolly]

I get the drift that you have spent a lot of your time being mainipulated , gas lighted, and with someone who is incapable of being there for you emotionally. It's going to take time for you to gain enough strength to set boundaries for " discussions" that your husband spits at you. He's used to one familiar with you, and you are used to responding to that or else not responding to keep the peace in your marriage. Lots of times, men like him could escalate abuse, so please make sure that you are safe. I stayed with a narcissist for almost 20 years. I recognize you and send strength for the months ahead until closure occurs. ❤

[@tanyatalkstoomuch]

Thank you so much for the encouragement. I am currently receiving abuse counseling as well as psychotherapy. I believe the abuse counseling was what finally opened my eyes and helped me make the decision to leave. I could be stuck here for months. We are going to try mediation to settle separating our assets. But the process takes months if not longer. ❤️

[@janinewetzler5037]

Tanya...you have to get your own place. Your ex will only escalate the rhetoric about thesituation! If u aren't recording these exchanges? START! Talk to a divorce lawyer and your worker and their supervisor about getting on a separate OFSP account of your own. In Winter, going to and from the rest of the house will be difficult with snow and ice. This living situation will. Not. Work my friend.

[@tanyatalkstoomuch]

I know, I realize it's a terrible situation. There are so many rules and red tape in the system to try to do anything. I am working through things slowly. Baby steps. I have a lawyer but she's not very helpful honestly. When the lawyers are paid through legal aid they only do the bare minimum. It's like she's not even listening to me when I talk 😕

[@violetgirl6512]

You handle yourself better than I would. The last guy I lived with took over $30k from me and attempted to drown my 4lb toy poodle. I punched his face out ! The "F" word is one of my favorites, we're all adults here. I'm sending prayers your way. You might want to have your husband go to his doctor and get checked to see if he's recently had a heart attack or something to that effect. I'm a nurse of 20 years and not the first time I've heard of something like your going thru due to a medical issue of the other spouse. I'm not making excuses for him maybe he truly is a heartless bastard.

[@tanyatalkstoomuch]

Oh my good Lord that is very extreme. Harming a pet is psychopath level!!! I'm so sorry you went through that!!! I don't think he had a heart attack. His behavior has been slowly escalating over many years. When I met him we were in recovery and going to meetings regularly. We used to have people to talk to and balanced our thoughts off of. We have kind of lost everybody over the last few years and that has not helped the situation. I think he has lost his ability to self-reflect. And combined with mental illness I just can't get through to him anymore. It honestly breaks my heart to end the marriage. But I am dying inside... Thanks so much for taking the time to comment and showing your support ❤️

[@cathleenmiller8407]

I think the best thing you could do for your mental health is get away from that toxic relationship with your ex-husband. You need to get as far away from him as you can.

[@tanyatalkstoomuch]

I hear you Cathleen. I am working on figuring out how to go to no contact. There are so many laws and red tape to try and figure out. I wish it was easy. I'm definitely taking steps to find a solution. Thanks so much for your support ❤️

[@lauraschmahl7162]

Don't worry about bad language

[@tanyatalkstoomuch]

I think a few bad words are okay but I have to be careful about community guidelines 😳

[@jesscherry404]

Pebeo?

[@tanyatalkstoomuch]

YES!!!