10.13.17 Goodbye From Lonely-My Interpretation: Because this is “Future Friends” and it explores their relationship history, I have placed this song in their timeline. To me it feels like this is referring to the time when Mitch and Scott reunited for the Sing-Off and they had expectations about the reunion and what it might be like and mean, and part of that was they were both “caught up in what they used to be”. Because they had been apart, they both were feeling “lonely” and hoped that getting back together would be a “goodbye to (that) lonely”. But it wasn’t the same. In their book, they said their feelings had change from boyfriends to siblings, and this song gives us some more of the details about that realization and what that meant. They met up and Scott sings (because of course Scott would notice) that Mitch called him “Scott” not any of the pet names that they use again now, but that had been lost in that moment. Scott sings Mitch didn’t say “good night” I think this refers to the texting (IM as in Heartthrob) “good-nights” that they refer to in the book and we have seen with their Scomiche history of texting conversations. Mitch sings that the kiss when they met up again was not like the “First Kiss” so full of the novelty, joy, excitement, passion and anticipation that had built up and lead up to it. Now it was “distant i.e. different”, so each of them had some doubt and disappointment that the other had “fallen out of love” and not knowing how to comfortably be with the other again e.g. “talking too much” not the right “content”, and some panic about how to fix it - “coming apart . . . can’t breathe”. They don’t look at each other while singing this song. They are not singing to each other. They are singing for us “the kids” and for new listeners, who can relate to a similar experience. The filming that has them both in the shot, but in different frames with different backgrounds, represents that some of this is their similar, but individual, thoughts about the other and that first reunion meeting. Separate thoughts (but similar) and that they probably could not initially talk about it yet to each other, and when they would talk it would make it clear what had changed. During their song and lyric writing process, they have been processing that time in hindsight and captured it in this beautiful song. They share it with us because we all have similar “loves and losses” and can relate. They are extra lucky because they have a friendship that is so precious and full of all the memories and the growth and they are a part of each other’s history of “self-definition” and that will never go away. They are soulmates and will always have that. And that takes away some of the “nobody understands where I am coming from” lonely, because they both do. However, the hope that maybe they could recapture the special “first life changing significant relationship” didn’t happen and so that “romantic significant other lonely” still persists. HUGS :-) BKK
@caitlynking73777 жыл бұрын
MY QUEEN HAS UPLOADED 👌🏼😍😍
@Grassisass7 жыл бұрын
Caitlyn King MY LOVE IS HERE
@SHAYLEM7 жыл бұрын
I just need my money man 😂😭😭 I love watching your videos! lol
@madisonnelson31257 жыл бұрын
SHAY SHAYYYYYYY
@monicatorres96537 жыл бұрын
I know where this was filmed 😭(literally it was an hour away) 😂😭
@Grassisass7 жыл бұрын
Monica Torres omg you live so close to them!!
@charliejuarez-sayune55687 жыл бұрын
I love the way you started the video lol
@payton90527 жыл бұрын
I'm here queennnnnnnnn
@Grassisass7 жыл бұрын
HEY PAYTON
@emiles82917 жыл бұрын
Almost every time you post it’s so late here where I live in Tennessee it’s like almost 3 in he morning here! But I’m still awake because it’s Friday and I’m always up late on Friday nights. Anyways great video so far as always! Hope you have a great day/night! I have no clue what time it is in Australia!
@Grassisass7 жыл бұрын
Emily Dawn I feel so bad because it’s so late in America but I’m glad you’re watching! Hope you had a wonderful night too! Thank you❤️
@emiles82917 жыл бұрын
Grassisass Oh don’t feel bad! Always stay up late on Friday’s and I was kind of bored and you posted just in time which was great! Have a wonderful rest of your day because I googled it and it’s almost 6:00 Saturday in Australia! And your very welcome!💙
@payton90527 жыл бұрын
Emily Dawn ikr it's like 2 in the morning
@Laurelle747 жыл бұрын
Always love your videos!
@Grassisass7 жыл бұрын
Laura Pew thank you Laura!
@emi_clayton7 жыл бұрын
IM HERE!!!
@_katie_d7 жыл бұрын
this is really off the topic of the video, but im pretty sure i first saw matt (the new bass) because of you so, thanks
@Grassisass7 жыл бұрын
Kate Donovan aw no problem! I followed him a LONG time ago, when he had like 1000 ig followers 😂
@preciousfalconi24457 жыл бұрын
pls tell me the full name of the newwww bassss
@_katie_d7 жыл бұрын
His name is matthew sallee
@preciousfalconi24457 жыл бұрын
Kate Donovan THANNKKKKK YOUUUU
@madisonnelson31257 жыл бұрын
I love your channel so much!!!!!
@samanthatawatao88737 жыл бұрын
Pretty sure this is scotts part, as it _was_ mitch who dumped him :11
@kurtsiecolferites21607 жыл бұрын
The video didn't make me that sad, either and I think I prefer Deny U but I like the black and white filter and the fact that they filmed it in a desert. Like the feeling in the song is barren and empty and that is what a desert would be like.
@MissRhossel7 жыл бұрын
OOOOH IM EARLY HEHEHEHE HELLO KAYLA!
@astvrials7 жыл бұрын
Q U E E N
@Grassisass7 жыл бұрын
Simxly MY LOVE
@chloedonahue-johnson15957 жыл бұрын
I liked! Hope you go horse riding!
@Grassisass7 жыл бұрын
chloe donahue-johnson thanks!
@chloedonahue-johnson15957 жыл бұрын
I love this!
@hannahltaylor7 жыл бұрын
what does your shirt say??
@Grassisass7 жыл бұрын
Hannah Tay “once upon a time I was a princess. And I still am so bow down” IT WAS MY SISTERS AND ITS SO COMFORTABLE SO I WEAR IT IM NOT THAT VAIN THOUGH😂