Takes a strong person to look honestly at their life and make the changes he/she needs. I have huge respect for Mr. James for trying to confront his demons.
@nitrokyosho7 жыл бұрын
we all make mistakes in life ,glad to see Jessie doing great again in life
@mtadams20093 жыл бұрын
Thanks for opening up, I am sure it will help someone else. When I went to AA back in 92 it was to learn how to drink less. No one in the rooms told me anything other then to dont drink, keep coming. It was people like Jessie opening up about their issues and personal defects that helped me to see myself more clearly. For the first time in my life I did not feel I was alone. I too was financially well off, which may have hidden how bad I was hurting. It was a relief and then the work started. It was the greatest decision I ever made. Thanks
@margaretryles58702 жыл бұрын
He was honest about his struggles with faithfulness, alcohol, being alone, being his own worst enemy. It's a very raw and real interview. He knows he has flaws but he is humble too. He has many talents when it comes to welding and artsy stuff. He has his priorities in the right place, himself and his kids. Watching interviews like this sheds light on addiction and pulling through with therapy. Therapy comes in all forms, prayer, wind therapy on motorcycles, even hopping in your car and just going. Art is therapy, music, etc. So glad I watched this interview, rock on!
@Malama_Ki4 жыл бұрын
If you take a drink every time he says “like”, you’ll need rehab too.
@quinnsmith29553 жыл бұрын
like uh you know like a man's gotta believe in sumthin' you know and like and um you know like I believe um I'll have like another you know
@jerrythomas6083 жыл бұрын
@@quinnsmith2955 pitiful little Quinn
@jaybarnett2114 жыл бұрын
Glad I came across this.. I need to go to rehab for myself and my kid., I’m ashamed to say. Respect Jesse., thanks for sharing.
@andrewyoung97513 жыл бұрын
Never too late to turn it around. I'm in the process of doing it myself and the positive results are starting to show. Best of luck
@csrb3383 жыл бұрын
Good luck man.
@Jgleason23 Жыл бұрын
Changed my life too, it’s never too late to change yours
@Rob-ft6lj Жыл бұрын
Do it yourself. Rehab is s ascam too get you on anti depressanta and ssris
@Rob-ft6lj Жыл бұрын
Been too 2.
@christophersnodgrass87814 жыл бұрын
I'm watching this 4 years later and all I can say is thank you for everyone that put this together and to jesse james man you will never know just how powerful this is or how many people you helped in ur life we aren't perfect stuff happens thank you bro. Seriously and no i dont expect him to see this ever but I still have to let it be known.
@frufru00717 жыл бұрын
I'm the son of a '70s Dad, and his actions influenced many of the decisions I made in my youth. I'm not 'famous', and, (resultantly), have had much less stress in my life than J.James. I'm a fan of what he did, (on 'Monster Garage'), for the young man with a spinal cord injury-as I broke my neck at 21-BUT I knew nothing about WHO Jesse was until watching Graham's series (of interviews). Great stuff, Graham. You have educated me/freed me of my ignorance about a man who-unduly-'gets the dirty end' of the stick. Thanks very much for sharing this with us. 🙏
@scootjockey7 жыл бұрын
Stopped drinking 25 years ago 54 now , no regrets,and i did it on my own.
@epikcyne6 жыл бұрын
I’m really happy for u man. Be proud of your accomplishment.
@woodyhayes74025 жыл бұрын
You didn't do it on your "Own". You think you did.
@garlandremingtoniii13385 жыл бұрын
Woody Hayes Hear Hear
@randy1ization4 жыл бұрын
good job jesse,, break the cycle, and there will be generations that reap the change YOU made.
@bigrip54038 жыл бұрын
not only do most people never figure it out, they dont even realize what they are doing is wrong
@TOCBass318 жыл бұрын
Hearing Jesse say the things he said hit home with me. I never drank or did drugs nor did I cheat on anyone but I suffer with bipolar disorder. In some ways the fear of living with a untreated me is just as bad or worse cause my ex never knew when I might flip script on her. I'm sitting here alone trying to put my life back together after my last freak out and going to get help was my first positive move. I hope one day to be at peace within myself and with what I lost. Thanks for sharing.
@oregontexfyb77577 жыл бұрын
TOCBass31 u sound like a bitch smoke a joint and chill the fuck out
@michaelhaulotte6896 жыл бұрын
TOCBass31 , Good luck and I mean it . Go get your life back !
@aphysique6 жыл бұрын
How are you doing today brother, 2 yrs later? If you care to share.
@anthonystevens58594 жыл бұрын
Use your bi polar to your advantage don’t think of it as disadvantage You will learn to love and embrace yourself and realize it is a gift not a burden. Once you realize that you will soar. I feel that my bi polar/ ocd while could be within my body chemistry was certainly genetic and refined by actions of family that inadvertently made it even worse as its traits were singled out and built upon by parents
@thebuzzcjc8 жыл бұрын
Great job Graham Best Jessie interview Ive ever seen.
@GrahamBensinger8 жыл бұрын
+thebuzzcjc Thanks!
@jorgenfischer8 жыл бұрын
+Graham Bensinger Amazing stuff. Please make it available for us Scandinavians :)
@TeamRollCall6 жыл бұрын
Hey Jesse I have the most respect for you and your work. I grow up in Long Beach and went to Cabrillo high. I’ll tell you I couldn’t wait in till I was off from school just to past by your shop walking and looking all the bikes and cars. It was the only thing that kept me up in school. That was in 2005. I own my own Harley but I wish it was made by West Coast Choppers. Now I live in Wisconsin since late 06. I miss walking by your shop.. I miss it.. hope it’s all good brother. And I’m representing West Coast Choppers in the Midwest!! Proud to wear your Gear. Thanks for the good times and memories. Juan Torres
@kralljazz7 жыл бұрын
He tells the truth. He has done well, wish him the best of all there is...Peace!
@joevald37 жыл бұрын
This is a really good interview . And you get to see who Jesse James really is . He was brutally honest . I enjoyed all of it
@richardlongo7148 жыл бұрын
Graham does a great job on interviewing. Jesse seems to be a little more relaxed and down to earth.
@MrThuggery8 жыл бұрын
Good on you for doing it.....And good on you for telling it like it is. Mental Health Issues need to be dealt with and it doesn't care who and where you come from.
@PeterHatch-mx7zc6 жыл бұрын
Love or hate him hes one of the best tradesman out there !!
@markbilodeau33123 жыл бұрын
One of the best interview you did Graham because of this i will go to rehab i had the same youth as James thank you for such great content 🙂
@dajhrm8 жыл бұрын
It takes a big man to realize and admit your faults, good on him
@JasonPriest8 жыл бұрын
I must say I just discovered your videos Graham and I love them! Subscribed!
@GrahamBensinger8 жыл бұрын
+Jason Priest Thanks, Jason!
@stavrosteve8 жыл бұрын
You know, I've never been a big fan. His early false claims of being a decedent of the outlaw really turned me off. And his swagger and overall attitude was off putting. But having gone through my own triumphs and failures I have developed a new found respect for what he's been through and ultimately how he's handled it and dealt with it. He fucked up, but he learned from it. Lot's of people make the same mistakes their whole lives and never learn, Jesse learned. Everybody deserves a second chance.
@craigschulz18525 жыл бұрын
Been 10 yrs now clean & sober. 18 yrs ago I divested myself from my family because of what happened when I was a kid. I have never been happier. It is hard at first but every day gets better.
@alanlott55538 жыл бұрын
Wow, what a great interview. I have a lot of respect for him - going through the process and being insightful enough to work through those past issues. He just seems so Zen these days; from the videos I have watched, at least.
@brittlech3 жыл бұрын
Thank you Jessey!! I think I’m not dealing with stuff and beveraging daily. When you said “ I didn’t have any friends” I was surprised.
@aphysique4 жыл бұрын
Mad respect to Jesse for tlking about addiction etc! On the otherside of suffering is Greatness! 🙏🤘
@GDLJALMEX14 жыл бұрын
Moving from California to Texas was the best move in my life!!
@joelthompson47964 жыл бұрын
Cool man
@jerrysanders91015 жыл бұрын
Jesse the MAN. Much respect.
@rlbagbrlbagb69305 жыл бұрын
He finally figured it out! Life is about lessons but, when you abuse alcohol or other things your lost! But when a clarified moment hits you and usually when your sober and your mind is clear and you start to reflect back on your situation you start to wake up from your zombie experiences that you now are soooooo tired of and finally make a change for the better!
@estradaj7773 жыл бұрын
This guy is real honest , and not many men are this honest for everyone to see .
@tubesockets120v3 жыл бұрын
You know you need rehab when your senselessly screw over a sweetheart like Sandra Bullock.
@sticustom8 жыл бұрын
Thank you Jesse for sharing. Thank you Graham for the interview.
@tiffanyedwards984 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing appreciated the eye opener
@toamataafa46477 жыл бұрын
I applaude you Jesse...i can tell you've changed a lot and matured enough to man up and make a change in your life...God you and your family bro...much respect..."A wise man learn from others mistakes, a fool learn from his only mistakes"
@TheMouseCop3 жыл бұрын
This is powerful. I’m not ready yet. But someday I’ll be there. Every other weekend and one week out of the year when I take vacation I ignore the alcohol. Every normal night is 12-18 millers down just to erase all the bad shit and sleep. I’d love to be free from all the bad memories. Someday I will get there.
@swopheim02247 жыл бұрын
Asking for help is one of the toughest things you can do as a human being. It takes true strength to admit you need help, that makes you strong not weak!!!
@JOHNTOPG3 жыл бұрын
He had to go to rehab to calm down on being an absolute beast
@VerissimusAurelius5 жыл бұрын
Super rare to meet a guy who looks life straight in the eye....not afraid, not proud just pure interest in seeing the true picture and then goes to work to make it the best man he can be.
@FLiTVnetwork6 жыл бұрын
Texas IS AWESOME J.J.
@GITMachine8 жыл бұрын
I can't help but like Jesse. He's honest. Admits to being Imperfect. No pretense about him at all. It's too bad he wrecked his relationship, but it seems like he's definitely grown and learned from it. I wish that guy the best. Very good interview.
@machinegunfunkoo7dirtyjers5327 жыл бұрын
You’re not alone man, I struggle with addiction, drinking, and womanizing too.
@goonigoogoo58685 жыл бұрын
"and like .you knowlike, I was like.and you know. and then I was like. the like she was like. .
@2bigbufords4 жыл бұрын
talks like a valley girl
@TheCyberscout3 жыл бұрын
I like this guy. Fair play, he stood up, took it like a man and dealt with it. That I respect.
@devilxdude8 жыл бұрын
"Well I still have the same welder" hahah I fucking love Jesse James..If there is one famous person I wanna meet before I go tits up it is him. Awesome series.
@mikaelattebury49568 жыл бұрын
+ssShortBoxKid I met him a few years back. He was a pretty nice dude.
@devilxdude8 жыл бұрын
Mikael Attebury awesome!!
@alexszandercakoski44918 жыл бұрын
What's with all the hate on Jesse James? like legit people act like they know the guy and he use to pick on them in school or something
@carhead93978 жыл бұрын
+Alexszander Cakoski he had a chance to play proball threw it away , chance to be a good dad threw it away , a chance to be a good husband threw it away. and like all dick heads it was someone else who made him this way.
@freshoxygen21765 жыл бұрын
carhead: The vast majority of humanities poor decisions as individuals comes from ignorance about life, pain caused by others, and life tragedies beyond our control. All of these pains and not knowing how to heal and handle the deep pain of these wounds. therefore we simply recycle or pain and toxic behaviors to others. Sorry buddy, humans aren’t constantly maliciously trying to be dickheads. Just a bunch of hurt kids in adult bodies. Let your draconian thinking go. I befriended a 63 year woman once who was wonderful and thoughtful and 7 years old in her heart and mind. But she hated herself, was a drunk and as she put it, a whore, with a continual life long progression of fucking up. LETS LABEL HER RIGHT? Let’s put her in the category of “bad person”. Right? Oh wait before we do. She was still 7 in her 63 year old body because that’s the age she was when her neighbor raped her. Car head: your not better than Jesse or anyone. I’m not either. We are broken children trying to make our way through. And yes we can at times have it really good and still choose to be selfish and “dickheads” but it is the lesser by far of our human problems. I wish you and anyone reading this the best in life and the best of wishes to your personal healing.
@scottallen60585 жыл бұрын
Because he’s still a bullshitter. I’m not in his circle influence, and thankfully neither is Sandra Bullock. The lucky ones are those who no longer have anything to do with him.
@kevet19687 жыл бұрын
Good for him. Self reflection is what separates human from animal and we should all do this often.
@sikchopper37833 жыл бұрын
I love you Jesse. A mans man and you inspire many of us
@pedalen4 жыл бұрын
I had a similar childhood like Jesse, but what kept me for going down an even wronger(?) path than I did, and I've done some shit, was shows like his. Car and bikeshows, especially the painting parts. Today I run my own custom paintshop, thanks to his and others inspiration.
@tonylee45225 жыл бұрын
Props Brother! Always Liked You Bro Real Dude Right Here
@markburden85078 жыл бұрын
jesse james my hero cool dude know whatcha mean been there keep cool
@josephm.28566 жыл бұрын
Jesse is a very HONEST person.....a real Straight Shooter. You gotta respect that. On top of it all, he has a good pure heart ! Bravo Jesse.....best of luck always brother. Brooklyn Joey.
@RickHawkDavison8 жыл бұрын
I love Jesse, so much I named my son after him, not the western character, but because, he became someone against the odds and still fucks up, still alive, no podium, no laurels, just alive and surviving, I am Hells, I know.
@HaveAnother7755 жыл бұрын
What a good dude...it's hard to realize your the problem when your successful...you kinda think like how could i of made all this amazing shit and be a f'n idiot at the same time? Doesn't happen, not me...but to see him talk about owning his faults...that's powerful...that's how men are supposed to act...with this generation, guys like jesse are a dying breed...great episode
@scolbert66446 жыл бұрын
Very honest, great job...
@RickHawkDavison8 жыл бұрын
Thanks Jesse, I hope you laugh, and smile.
@marisolmacias1408 жыл бұрын
good job jesse im harry from cali i been sober with alcohol for 4 years man .. my life changed 110% better & just keeps getting better. good job jesse
@toddgreen39015 жыл бұрын
Jessie, u learned from ur mistakes,obviously,and ur on the right path. STAY THERE!!
@jimwortham86344 жыл бұрын
Personally what I've always liked about Jesse James says he never claimed to be anything but a fantastic fabricating welder and bike builder
@rickweiss27935 жыл бұрын
A true success and a truly talented man. God put you on this earth for a reason jj!
@JCImageInc.8 жыл бұрын
God damn, you've got to give your kids the right tools to cope with the stress of life. People will find a way to cope..... one way or the other. Unfortunately, Jesse's story is not unique. His story sounds a lot like mine... a lot like yours.
@chuckHart705 жыл бұрын
Not a huge JJ fan, but he tells it like it is. If he truly did rehab for his kids then he is a better man than most.
@johnsmithth33184 жыл бұрын
Saved my life! I'm not going down that dark road again. Although I like my beer
@csrb3383 жыл бұрын
Alright Kavanaugh. I like beer too just allergic to it.
@rayrobbins46255 жыл бұрын
Jesse, I don't hate you as a matter of fact, if i was your father i would be extremely PROUD of all you have done. You got your stuff together more than most . KEEP ON KEEPIN' ON .
@darykoughton54734 жыл бұрын
I couldn’t stand his arrogance for many years but after seeing this it’s changed my perspective on him I’m happy he got help
@eddiemami9 жыл бұрын
Good job Hommie.
@aphysique4 жыл бұрын
Homie!! 🤘
@jaysen22004 жыл бұрын
Hardest thing to do is take a cold hard look at your self ditch the ego and make a core change in life
@shanedoyle10573 жыл бұрын
Say what you like about the guy but I think he’s the definition of the expression “remaining true to oneself” all those years ago when I saw him on discovery and I’m still chasing the dream of learning the skills so I’ll hopefully one day be able to do 1/100th of what he can do in a workshop.
@captbosco8 жыл бұрын
An interview with like Sally from the Valley, like.
@sledfast5974 жыл бұрын
Best thing a man can ever do is quit drinking. Your mind will stay super clear clean and crips Thank god for jesses awakening. Best thing to do for your soul. Welcome home jesses
@charlesdenman9052 Жыл бұрын
Stay sober Jess. You got it right.
@panika28103 жыл бұрын
We all have our demons.
@kooookay98937 жыл бұрын
Great dad is more than anything
@kevinferguson88637 жыл бұрын
To come clean requires great strength. Well done, Jesse.
@albertlarroca12716 жыл бұрын
good , u make the right desition. u not alone now. and more respect to the man recogn , need help ! HUGS !
@steelmill8884 жыл бұрын
Hard to admit your wrong and get focused tons of respect.Im glad your back fabricating and doing what you like.That steel work gets in your blood.
@phillipeubanks45473 жыл бұрын
I've been watching Jesse James before he went to rehab he was what made me want to get off the dope and do what I love which was working on bikes and customizing them
@rogerlimoseth47904 жыл бұрын
I had to do rehab several times.. Ya im a slow learner. Props to Jesse's testimony considering it's none of our business.
@brandonk59326 жыл бұрын
Good dude, Uber talented. Glad he's doing qell
@josearriola30874 жыл бұрын
The reason the marriage did not work out between Sandra Bullock and Jesse James it's because Jesse James is a rebel Jesse James open the door for rockabilly rat rods and things like that Sandra Bullock is too much of a good tissues I have nothing against her I love her movies she's a wonderful actor I met her one time in person in Austin Texas she was really nice Jesse James is a coolest cat around so those two world do not mix
@brandongallardo85764 жыл бұрын
🤘🏼 accountability and responsibility at its finest. He’s progressed a lot 💯 ✊🏼
@ChalkyHonky4 жыл бұрын
I thought he went to rehab for saying like like a valkey girl
@murraymachado4013 жыл бұрын
There it is, Top Comment! Plus, I don't trust his rehab motives.
@precbsfender7 жыл бұрын
At least Jesse admits his faults..rare commodity these days..
@alexlange13565 жыл бұрын
Jesse James is a real dude for sure
@tiqo85498 жыл бұрын
"you know"..
@GrantPatN8 жыл бұрын
Surprisingly embarrassment stops alot of people from going to rehab
@el_wilder88608 жыл бұрын
"you know..."
@rexhargrove51726 жыл бұрын
Why rehab? Jesse is intelligent, learns from mistakes and wants to be a better person. Respect
@theshadowtalks4 жыл бұрын
“Chose,” right!
@markduncan66908 жыл бұрын
Some-where there is 'A Ray of hope for this guy'!!!
@joemonroe94024 жыл бұрын
Real Men trust Jesus,Love He displayed...pride is the destoryer..choose Jesus...💜🤴
@donschlegel19728 жыл бұрын
Good on you Jesse .
@727gateway3 жыл бұрын
Take a shot every time Jesse says “you know”
@iron60bitch626 жыл бұрын
It’s about the kids it’s about ending the legacy of abuse
@rogermontee82643 жыл бұрын
Have a lot of respect for you.
@davewargo27535 жыл бұрын
Stop saying “LIKE and YOU KNOW”
@kellymorgan14472 жыл бұрын
Southern California has nice weather but I think the people there are to shallow? I could be wrong . Everything is actually regional & can become tricky to your surroundings?iam 40 year veteran custom welder & Fabricator I can relate ! Keep up your level of expertise eventually it will benifte not so much money wise but self satisfaction nothing sappy. Like your work.