Gray Skies Ahead, Gloomy Weather is impacting Our Mental Health in New Mexico

[@KimberlySnellings]

My Mom has dementia and she LOVES watching your videos. Everytime she sees Jenn she says, there’s Goldie Hawn! Thank you so much for sharing your lives and bringing so much joy to our family ❤

[@Beingbethunes]

Kimberly!! I am just so grateful I picked up my phone this afternoon and began to read framily messages. My heart is so incredibly full and I can’t even begin to describe how grateful I am that your family is here with us. Tell your Momma we said hello!!!!! 🫶🫶

[@kavitadeva]

Jenn, it's sad that I don't have anything that brings me joy. I am afraid this is my reality. Watching your videos is something I am so greatful for.

[@Beingbethunes]

That must be really hard Kavita. Sadness is a tremendously deep emotion that feels never ending and hopeless. I am really proud of you for continuing to make it through every day you have. That shows just how resilient you are!!! I’m grateful that you’re framily 🫶

[@deborahmcdermott6927]

You're not alone in that feeling Kavita. I have had a very full life. Work, travel for work, two competitive sports with travel and my pets ..especially my dogs that I volunteered with in a therapy dog capacity. I'm a senior now, health issues, no dogs as we're on a fixed income and joy is often not something I feel. For me, my world is just a lot smaller. But now that Jenn mentioned this topic, I'm going to find something for the long time from now until summer next year. Summer is what I enjoy most. Sending you a hug and wishing that we all find our joy.

[@kavitadeva]

@Beingbethunes Jenn, your words of VALIDATION make such a difference.Thank you, Friend, for not saying unhelpful words that people tell me. Such as, It can't be that bad, you choose your responses, choose joy. I could go on and on I think you know what I'm talking about that you create your own reality type of philosophy it doesn't help people and I've been there doing it a long time ago totally committed those things do not help at all when someone like me is disabled both mentally and physically. I have COMPLEX PTSD which is so severe. I know Jenn, you are no stranger to the depths of Grief and sorrow. I can't change it, I have done every kind of therapy, and I know things won't fully heal. Thank you so much for telling me how resilient I am. Tha had me in tears. I bought a small rv, and the guy LIED ABOUT EVERYTHING. IT WAS FULL OF BLACK MOLD, AND THE TAGS we're not 2025 as he said they were 2019. It did not pass smog so I am now in an illegal vehicle and I'm not allowed to drive it and actually if they find me driving it they'll tow it and I'll be homeless and the only reason why I bought it was so I wouldn't be homeless. I'm just sharing that with you because you know you guys with the van and blue Betty and then the new motor home that is having a few issues I've heard you guys understand being Nomads because I have had five motorhomes. It doesn't take a lot of money to do this lifestyle when you're single. But what this guy sold me is actually a criminal matter, not civil. Please say hello to Kyle for me and let him know I'm hoping his depression lifts and is a lot easier to handle. Jenn whatever you are going through, if anything, I hope that things will be better lickety split. I love the videos. Thank you for them.❤️❤️‍🩹❤️

[@kavitadeva]

@deborahmcdermott6927 Girl, I am beyond sorry how life has changed so drastically for you. It's hard for you to phathom all the loss, I'm right with you. Are you isolated, or do you have family? Thank you for sharing your ideas. I appreciate you.

[@deborahmcdermott6927]

@@kavitadeva Husband and I....and we do have a kitty cat. We have a lovely yard and truly are blessed. I just can't stand the cold and dread November - April weather. We just don't "go anywhere or do anything" much for fun / joy. Trying to keep it all in perspective. Thank you for sharing and responding.

[@lesley.4238]

We have a tiny cabin at the bottom of our yard I have turned into a beautiful little home It's my safe space, the place I go when I'm overwhelmed and need some me time. I have suffered from depression now for 22 years, and I find going in there even to watch you guys always helps. So thankful that you are on here and that I can smile after watching you guys You don't know how much you are truly loved So from the bottom of my heart thank you ❤❤❤

[@Beingbethunes]

Lesley!!!!! Tears are pouring down my cheeks! Your words are the absolute sweetest. I am so overjoyed and proud that you made that space for yourself because you knew you needed it. I’m glad you have that to go to and be in your own energy. I am just so grateful you’re here and you’re framily 🫶

[@mshockey73]

Jenn, I love that you change your outfits multiple times a day. How fun is that!! The thing that used to bring me great joy as a child was being with my friends. I haven't thought much about it but that's probably what still brings me great joy today:)

[@Beingbethunes]

Awwww!!! I love that your friends brought you joy then and now 🥰 Friends really can pick you up and give you the best hugs 🫶

[@WanderfulRevolution]

Awwww so many memories with the van! A summer to remember for sure!!!! We miss you guys too!!!!! ❤❤❤

[@Beingbethunes]

It absolutely was!!!!! We love yall and can’t wait to walk the world with you some day!!

[@deborahmoore3468]

Jenn, one thing I loved to do was play with my Barbie’s and we didn’t have money for her clothes so I took old mismatched socks and made her clothes. It was a lot of fun! I think your clothing fashion is amazing! Keep on being you. I love your use of colors! You always look fabulous!🌷

[@Beingbethunes]

Thank you! I love to experience all different fashion! Its so fun!

[@DJDiane-2368]

Fall is/has always been my favorite time of the year too!! The brisk air just feels great!! When I was a little girl I loved to explore the outdoors, being raised in the country, I feel so blessed to have those wonderful memories. I think it was the freedom...to do what ever, whenever & however I wanted!!! Now a days the younger gens I feel, are missing out what us older gens had lived/experienced!! So much tech has taken away their imaginations of freedom to express etc... As an older person now, I rediscovered sewing, another hobby/career, that is dying.. 😞 I took home Economis when I was 11, sewing, and never touched a sewing machine after that until I was about 42!! That was a fews back lol So it has become my happy place...I love to create and it is sooo rewarding when I look at what I created!! Such a cool feeling of accomplishment, like wow I made this!! 🙂 That was amazing, double rainbows!!! Beautiful!! Heres a thought for Kyle... When ever it is raining outside and he is stuck insde the bus... How about he build a garage/shed big enough to pull vehicles into, for him to be able to work on things!! A MAN CAVE if you will lol.

[@Beingbethunes]

I couldn’t agree with you more Diane! Fall is magical!! I can remember being younger and loving playing outside; it was such a wondrous feeling!!! I’m grateful my kids get to experience it too. I think we all have to try things on and end up finding the way back to who we always were meant to be 🥰

[@Beingbethunes]

And yes!! That would for sure be a great addition to the property! Kyles Kave! 😂

[@dianeheintz68]

​@@Beingbethunes😂😂😂 love it!! Kyle's Kave. Perfect!❤❤

[@1997slowry]

I really love fall with all the cooler weather and changing of the leaves. I get depressed thinking of the long cold winter. I try to keep myself busy by doing projects around the house just how Kyle was working on the van., which by the way I love how open it looks now. Winter is hard on me due to my raynaud's, syndrome, winter is not my friend. I love that you enjoy your clothes Jenn and I do believe the way we dress or present ourselves affects our attitude in a positive or negative way. So keep on sharing your clothing so we all can enjoy the sunshine with you. Keep on shining friends!

[@LSChestersMom]

One thing that has been a blessing here in North Carolina on the heart of serious storm recovery is being too busy helping other folks to be so focused on myself :) And being grateful for every little thing. Bless y'all!

[@Shelly-in-Tampa]

God bless you. Praying for you. Praying for all to be restored in a timely manner.

[@Beingbethunes]

What a beautiful testimony to your love and compassion. We have seen the devastation and its heartbreaking. Hugs to you and thank you for being an incredible human!

[@spellingbee2000]

I love to read! That’s my favorite!! Especially mystery and thriller books. I’m into clothes too but since I had to dress up for work all these years, I enjoy a little more laid back style!

[@Beingbethunes]

I love that! Reading really transports you to another place and time, I enjoy getting lost in a book for sure. I can absolutely see why you’d enjoy to be more casual these days! Everything is in our life for a season 🥰

[@paigemalone797]

Absolutely playing in the rain brings me joy ❤

[@Beingbethunes]

Ooooh yes!!!! Doesn’t it feel invigorating?!

[@edwardleecaliforniausa]

Hi all lovely friends how are you happy Saturday night to you and I enjoy your channel and you all amazing supporter

[@Beingbethunes]

Hey Edward!! How are you today?? It’s great to see you 🥰

[@edwardleecaliforniausa]

@@Beingbethunes good morning your welcome sending love to you ❤️

[@lornamackenzie2525]

Dressing up was my favourite as a little girl. It's obvious that you love putting together outfits Jenn. The fall colours are beautiful. I'm sure the van will find a good home Kyle 💜💜

[@Beingbethunes]

Wasn’t it just the best feeling to twirl in the mirror?! Thank you so much Lorna! We know the van will go the the exact right person at the exact right moment 🥰

[@margue06]

I love to bake. I use to pretend I was baking as a little girl. It brings me joy when I share my baked goods.

[@Beingbethunes]

That’s really cool!! What was the recipe you enjoyed making most?

[@pocomokeforester2504]

I see you had a tornado not to far! Why not check out the Drive In Theatre in Las Vegas! Would be funny to see the kids reaction!

[@Beingbethunes]

Tornadoes are super scary! We had a run in with one in Ohio; it touched down about 2 miles from the bus! We have been meaning to get there! We for sure need to take them soon! Thank you for reminding me 😍

[@deborahmcdermott6927]

The double rainbow was gorgeous! I know how hard it is to weather the cold. Its my downfall every year. I become so depressed and have so much arthritic pain along with the metal rods with my spine. I look forward to your videos and I know you will all have some great experiences.

[@Beingbethunes]

I am so sorry! I hope you have a nice restful winter, full of pain free days!

[@sqwerlgurl]

OooOo You said you like to be "Fancy in the Forest" sounds like a cool book title for Ms Jenn ! Hm my 9 or 10 y/o self loved to read mysteries, and writing was a favorite past time. I'm so glad you both chose to get that property it's beautiful with the mountains, different levels with swing spots to revel in the views, and an amazing double rainbow. It was meant for you and your family with joyous crystals, sunflowers, lots of spaces to enjoy. An amazing home base, and still able to travel (well when you get the new bus :) I do enjoy your videos thank you both so much for sharing your home, and travels. I have fun watching what you choose to share whether at the property or on the road. Take care

[@Beingbethunes]

Love it!! That is an awesome Idea!

[@catH727]

A hitch “wheelchair “ platform. Can use it to transport the garbage outside the vehicle.

[@Beingbethunes]

That’s genius!!!!!! I love that! I will let him know!

[@SterlingHolmes1776]

Well hello. Good beautiful day to y’all.

[@Rosesnflowers7]

Wow I would act the same ways over a rainbow like that

[@KTocci66]

OH.... & How about that AHHMAZING FULL RAINBOW!!!! SOOO BEAUTIFUL!! THAT WOULD MAKE AN AWESOME FRAMED PICTURE TOO!! 🌈🙌💛

[@Beingbethunes]

Right?!? That was just so awesome!! I am grateful Molly called me! She was in the car talking to her friend and let me know there was a big rainbow outside. It made my heart so happy!!

[@KTocci66]

@@Beingbethunes Yes!! So SOOOO BEAUTIFUL indeed!! ♥️

[@KTocci66]

Hi Bethune Fam and Bethoonies!! Happy Blessed Saturday! I honestly Love and Appreciated these fun daily "life" videos with you ALL. Please know that most of us who have been here for lonnng time with y'all, enjoy "anything" y'all want to share with us. I believe with my whole heart that your Homestead was destined for your family. Everyone seems not only happier, but relaxed and excited for life! Also, I genuinely can see the absolute LOVE between Jenn & Kyle ( as I've read some not so nice things at times 🤨 which is not OK or true) please continue to show that in your comfortability because it truly warms my heart! There ain't nothin wrong with showing your partner and family, LOVE. ❤ Great job on the Van, Kyle, wow, you really made some progress with it! I think your hunches about it are correct too. I'm praying it will sell quickly and bring another couple/young family, Joy! Oh, here in Alaska, we must trailer the trash to the dump as well. It is just what works Best when you live out of City. You're on the right track. 😉 If I'm already a Bethoonie, are you just taking all the emails within the group or is it NEW member sign up? I've been wanting to try those earth sandals for years... What a nice Give away! Y'all have a beautiful weekend! 🌻💛 🎃

[@Beingbethunes]

We love and appreciate you so so so so so so so so so so so much!!! You are honestly what keeps us going! We truly want to show what real life is like and living in happiness is genuinely possible. We’ll always be real, raw, and open with yall. Kyle and I, like anyone else who has ever been in a relationship, have struggles and joyful moments alike. I’m grateful that you love us through them all! Thank you for recognizing all that hard van work! I was astonished when I walked in. He did such a great job. Before they closed up for the day, Eli went and cleaned out the van from the summer trip, it was so thoughtful of him! If you are already signed up with email, you are good to go! Each month, the drawings will be from the entire email list. So you only have to put it in once 🥰

[@KTocci66]

@@Beingbethunes Wonderful!! & You're welcome Jenn! I will remain here with Y'ALL no matter what you film and what "kind of day or mood" any of y'all are in. I'm with you, honesty and real life, is the ONLY way to truly enjoy what you do and not let the "stresses of others or the world, change any of ya's". Have a beautiful, blessed NEW week!! Thank you for your reply and info on the earth sandals. 🙌♥️

[@CuzmicTarot]

That rainbow 🌈 was 10/10 thoufh!! ☝🏾😮‍💨🔥🔥😃😅🥹🎉🌻

[@Shelly-in-Tampa]

Be careful walking alone. Wildlife. A trespasser. ❤ U!

[@Beingbethunes]

I love you too and I am grateful for your concern🫶🫶🫶

[@wessebaggers]

I love your property ❤️! Kyle you can always work in the barn and building shelves and organizing that barn 😊! I can see you all there for a long time !

[@Beingbethunes]

Thank you!

[@catH727]

I’m all about color. I wear Lularoe leggings. Crazy patters and colors

[@Beingbethunes]

I love that so much!!!!

[@CuzmicTarot]

I am super excited for The new bus updates! ❤❤❤ Hello 🙌🏾🧚🏾🙋🏾‍♂️🌻💫🔥to everyone from across the Niagara, ON Canada 🍁 😅☺️🥳🤩

[@Beingbethunes]

Good morning!

[@kimberlygribbin7832]

Can you get a rack for the back of the SUV? One that you can remove when needed?

[@Putapota21]

That's the only thing i don't understand about depression how does someone get it, and then how do you get out of it, and don't they have medication to help you? when my cat died two years ago i thought i had depression but the DR said that there's a difference i was grieving from the last of my cat and i explained everything what i was going through. So i've never experienced depression not even as a kid. I had anxiety as a kid, and then i got anxiety as an adult and had panic attacks as a child and even now. Because of my faith i get though it now.😢 Sending love and prayers that you and your family get through this winter safe. 🙏🏼🤍🙏🏼🤍

[@catH727]

I feel it’s like a prolonged grief over people/situations.

[@Rosesnflowers7]

Omg isn't it awesome to have a husband like that I have one I didn't always get him but I'm glad we are one cause he treats me soooooo goooood 😊

[@Beingbethunes]

YESS! I love that we can be so different but match so well.

[@thepotterswife2088]

I love your van. I know I can't afford it. Maybe someday I will get one. Thanks for sharing. Bekka ThePottersWife

[@sharimahigab1292]

How’s the kids schooling going ???

[@Beingbethunes]

Hi! Have a beautiful day!

[@davidactionfigure]

Imagine what living in a closet does to your children’s mental health…. Too bad your kids won’t get whisked off to wizard school just because they live in the equivalent of an under stairs closet

[@Beingbethunes]

Thanks for being here David. We can appreciate your assumptions about us, because you don’t know us, and that’s okay. Your perspective of us has nothing to do with us personally and everything to do with you individually. No matter what you think of us, we’re going to send you love either way 🫶

[@Beingbethunes]

Also! I am re reading the Harry Potter Series now, it’s what truly helped me during my time of getting bullied in Middle School. It is for sure reconnecting me with my inner child again and my imagination. Have you thought about the idea of perhaps, reconnecting with your own?

[@opal7197]

Why arent you making shorts anymore just asking