Hello Creators! One or two of you have commented on the “benefits” of therapy. Just to be clear, we are not judging or weighing in on whether therapy is good or bad, or whether you should do it or not. You get to create and determine what therapy means to you. If you believe it will help you release past drama and trauma then that will be your experience. Take whatever action you feel inspired to take. What we are saying is that continually talking about your “problems” creates the problems and there is no bottom. The solution is there when you stop recreating the image of the perceived problem and “reliving” the drama and trauma. The only benefit is to let it go and transcend it by not holding onto it!
@Meliloyo Жыл бұрын
Eternamente agradecida con vos Tom!! Para cuando el canal en español!!!
@vesh20244 ай бұрын
Wonderful reminder. Thank you for delivering much needed clarity. Onwards Tom ❤
@BeSomethingWonderful4 ай бұрын
Thank you for your support!
@mybrainisuseful2 жыл бұрын
It’s so funny you speak about young viewers - I listen to your videos on repeat when I’m cleaning and cooking and now my very young son knows when Tom is speaking and will imitate Tom laughing 😂❤
@nycotter35762 жыл бұрын
Omg how cute 😂❤
@ks_swissmiss2 жыл бұрын
Same - even my 76 year old mother 😂
@Wickynnx2 жыл бұрын
Today I was out in a book shop and I came across a book called “The Expectation Effect”, which essentially describes the scientific proof about how our expectations shape the outcomes in our reality! A little over two hours later, you drop this video. Crazy!!
@paula-elizabeth2 жыл бұрын
🙌🏽👏🏽👏🏽😃
@thisisbubblegumx2 жыл бұрын
You can always rediagnose yourself as, "Loved and lover. Super. Amazing. Genius. Wealthy."
@CalmRiver3332 жыл бұрын
Tom this is so big. I just messaged you a little earlier today and I was literally giving those thoughts and past dramas and traumas power over me. It’s so funny how easily we forget what we are. After watching this I feel so much more empowered to just DROP it all. To expect the best. Trying to “fix” things implies there is a problem. Wow. So powerful Tom!!!
@RachelSullivan732 жыл бұрын
"You have a confirmation bias to your expectations. Everything else is filtered out." Wow, now that IS big.
@jackiek41592 жыл бұрын
Go all in and expect the world to smile back at you! Love this! 😍🙌🏻💞
@cbholmes47392 жыл бұрын
My SP and I have taken things to a whole other level lately… At first, I thought “Well…. How long is this gonna last??” But then, something awakened in me and I flipped that thought into “How amazing is this gonna get??!!” That made ALL the difference (I didn’t say it to him, just myself) I can truly say- it’s been exceeding my expectations which I never thought possible a year ago this time ❤️Liz
@billk8922 жыл бұрын
It's going to get more amazing everyday, every single day forever
@cbholmes47392 жыл бұрын
@@billk892 Thank you for your prophetic words- I feel the power and truth of them! My SP and I are really basking in this new dimension, bless you for encouraging us❤️❤️❤️🙏
@billk8922 жыл бұрын
@@cbholmes4739 Your welcome soooo much, Woww that was a super frequent amazingggg response thank you ❤️🤍
@generatemagic2 жыл бұрын
Yes, I've been going through something very similar :)
@catalystlove84582 жыл бұрын
I really appreciate your awareness of the ages of your audience and the appropriateness of your words. You Are Truly a Gift. Thank You for shining, Brother. Peace be with You.
@catalystlove84582 жыл бұрын
@@Livesinashack Truly embodying Christ.
@Yumin-r4f2 жыл бұрын
Go all the way. All is God, all is good. You are all that. Why not expect it?
@EmpoweredToBeMe2 жыл бұрын
Expectations. How simple.
@Gin_ko2 жыл бұрын
So powerful. I'm going to save this video. Thank you Tom.
@Leahmpls2 жыл бұрын
thank you! its an honour and privilege to be a BSW Member! I expect the best for myself!
@amirjackson83662 жыл бұрын
Amazing, I just finished meditating and had this thought before watching the video; As a creator/ being the simplicity is creating the goal, the goal is immediately fulfilled, the fascinating and joyful part of the experience [as well] is seeing how life comes together to actualize between the Hertz of each dream/goal/ideal. The journey or process then is life, all of it is beautiful
@joedavila7383 Жыл бұрын
god bless you
@LBrobie2 жыл бұрын
haha! i love how you explain that her language was a little more "colorful" than you shared with us. 💜 thank you, Tom, so grateful!
@StephaniePisces2 жыл бұрын
Your passion is palatable, Tom! Thank you! 😊
@lucydiaz10742 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this teaching ❤️
@lanacreator2 жыл бұрын
I’m waiting for Tom to explain the Reticular Activating System (RAS), which will explain this current video scientifically. He will do the best job on such a video.
@RachelSullivan732 жыл бұрын
I'd love to hear that too!
@iamredventure2 жыл бұрын
Tom, I’ve just found your work and oh my god 🤯 Excellent breakdowns, really
@NajaOrangeBird9 ай бұрын
Woooow! What a breakthru!
@animalover19632 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this channel.
@BOAREDBEAUTY Жыл бұрын
I had to stop this video. I have been watching you for a while now, because I truly enjoy your videos and the way you “make it make sense.” Normally, I don’t like videos until I complete them for integrities sake lol, but, I did with this one. It just hit home with me. I woke up this morning saying something has got to change for the BETTER. It has to, I realized it felt different today of all days because I expected it to. It had finally gotten bad enough (crazy to wait for that, but I did). The kicker for me was to see that I was your 777 like. It’s an omen. Thank you for your contribution to the “deliberate” manifestation reality.🎉
@paula-elizabeth2 жыл бұрын
Hey Tom, I’m a great believer in; “You get what you Expect.” - Down to whether your children listen to you and how health/ wealthy you are. So this video was Golden in my mind, Thank-you. 👍🏽👏🏽🙌🏽😃🌟
@ShaniceSp2 жыл бұрын
AMAZING VIDEO TOM !
@christophercarrion13492 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your videos. I've been watching for a little while and I have to say you're one of the best on the subject. You help add to my knowledge on my own manifesting journey.
@Majinfirehawk2 жыл бұрын
You had said in one of your videos that expecting creates a reality of expecting, or in other words more waiting.
@BeSomethingWonderful2 жыл бұрын
That’s right Adam! You get what you expect. Expecting from the state of being that it’s already yours “now,” creates the immediate reality that it’s yours. Expecting from longing and waiting and not believing it’s already yours creates a reality of always waiting and never getting. This distinction is made in this video! We are talking about something different here!
@Majinfirehawk2 жыл бұрын
Ahhhh got it!!!!
@magdalenawiszniewska2825 Жыл бұрын
That what i think about diagnoses...it is so stigmatizing and defining. If it helps somwoney, sure. To me it seems one finds an excuse and never gets better
@giftyjato93412 жыл бұрын
🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
@CRAZYxSNAKE2 жыл бұрын
🦋
@I_am_perfection2 жыл бұрын
Tom, in one of your last few videos you talked about stop taking action in the 3D which I get for some things but not career. Is looking and applying for jobs & finding people to network with taking too much action in the 3D or how much action and effort should you ne taking?
@BeSomethingWonderful2 жыл бұрын
Hi there! It’s never about not taking action. Whether you take action and what action you take in the outer world is secondary to your inner action. There’s always action to take, but there’s never anything you have “to do.” It’s about not trying to make something happen. Create the ideal reality within and then take any action that feels right and natural. Applying for jobs and networking sounds like a natural action to take after creating the ideal career within!
@I_am_perfection2 жыл бұрын
@@BeSomethingWonderful Thanks, Tom! All the 3D action (applying, networking) all winds up feeling like lots of efforting & frustration & trying hard to get one.
@sema15062 жыл бұрын
How do I get a coach session with you ?
@BeSomethingWonderful2 жыл бұрын
Hi there! Here is the link to schedule with me: COACHING If you would like to explore coaching options with Tom Kearin, visit: Calendly.com/tomkearin I look forward to talking with you!!!
@sema15062 жыл бұрын
I texted this to the person I like:' you said hi & you disappear. I texted you but you are not responding. You can not even talk. I am not going to bother you again. It seems you do not care or you don't have value for me' now am worried if he is going to reply . What should I do ? The problem is my old relationship keep popping in my head and I get afraid if this going to work.