Self Love - You are Enough

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There comes a time in life when we realise that holding on to pain only deepens the scars we carry. The hurt we’ve endured, whether through betrayal, neglect, or misunderstanding, can weigh heavily on our hearts, tethering us to the past. But in the gentle act of letting go, we begin to free ourselves from the chains that bind us.
When we choose to forgive those who have hurt us, not as an acceptance of their actions but as a release from the burden, we discover an unexpected gift - healing. As the bitterness dissolves, we feel lighter, as though the soul breathes again, untangling from the web of resentment. In that moment, healing blossoms within us, like a garden after the rain, nourished by the waters of understanding and grace. We step forward, no longer shackled to the pain of the past, but open, whole, and at peace with ourselves and the world around us.
Featuring Robyn Simmons (Instagram - @robz.photographer)
Filmed in Betty's Bay, South Africa.
The quote read towards the end of this film is by Khalil Gibran:
"The river needs to take the risk of entering the ocean because only then will fear disappear, because that’s where the river will know it’s not about disappearing into the ocean, but of becoming the ocean.”
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Who is Reflections of Life? We are Justine and Michael (previously known as Green Renaissance). We use our passion for filmmaking and our love of storytelling, to remind our audience of one simple truth - that we are all human. The more that we understand and believe in this interconnectedness, the more we will treat ourselves, one another, and planet earth with a greater sense of compassion.
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Filming - by Michael Raimondo
Editing - by Justine du Toit
Sound mix - by Tamryn Breakey
The following music tracks are used in this film:
Distant Hope - by Laim Back (via Audiio)
Through Mountains - by Flint (via ArtList)
Shiver - by Borrtex (via ArtList)
Take Me Broken - by Salt of the Sound (via ArtList)
Many Faces of Healing - by Rand Aldo (via Epidemic Sound)
The Weight of Water - by Alan Ellis (via Epidemic Sound)
Sunday Afternoon - by IamDayLight (via ArtList)
A huge thank you to these guys, who gave so generously of their to time to help with translations, enabling us to provide subtitles in the following languages:
Chinese (Traditional and Simplified) - by Shun-Ying Lu
Croatian - by Davor Bobanac
Czech - by Katarína Božek
Dutch - by Karla Greven
English - by Justine du Toit
French - by Amélie Macoin
German - by Tanja Pütz
Greek - by Vicky Polychroni
Indonesian - by Ary Nuansa
Italian - by Grazia Gironella
Japanese - by Fumi Mori
Kazakh - by Mereinur Tabuldin
Korean - by Hotae Devin Noh
Kurdish - by Gashbeen Hassan
Polish - by Anna Konieczna
Portuguese - by Sibylle Steinpass and Lucivani Valvassori
Slovak - by Zuzana Beratsova
Slovenian - by Tadej Pasar
Spanish - by Paty Aguirre
Swedish - by Julia Alvar
Thai - by Ornwara Diloknawarit
#emotionalhealing #lettinggo #innerpeace

[@ReflectionsofLife]

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[@bieni1690]

@@ReflectionsofLife Danke für Eure nette Antwort. Da ich im Moment selber einen anstrengenden Lebensweg habe helfen mir diese Videos sehr von Menschen die bei sich angekommen sind, daß ist wirklich sehr hilfreich. Mein Englisch ist nicht so gut das ich es schreiben kann aber ich muß dazu stehen. Ich hoffe nun das Euer Übersetzer meine Worte richtig interpretieren kann. 👋👍🌼 Viele liebe Grüße

[@NinoshkaBarros]

Maravillosa!!!! Me has guiado hacia el amor a mi propia madre. Gracias!!!

[@SidAhmed-b9v]

How can i share my story .... so devastating

[@suzanainacio748]

Amei estou me reconhecendo dentro da sua vida

[@suzanainacio748]

Eu tenho um canal aqui nesta plataforma ,onde eu busco a minha cura no autocunhecimento, ajudar também outras pessoas ,estou me libertando de um relacionamento.doente

[@joniheisenberg]

“I’ve had to love this body that actually carries this soul.”❤

[@ReflectionsofLife]

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[@dominikak2100]

Wow, this is soo beautiful ❤️

[@bridgettgathof6950]

What a beautiful perspective!

[@bridgettgathof6950]

She is beautiful. And her beautiful soul shines brightly.

[@Rositasparks]

@@joniheisenberg that was a powerful statement

[@ReflectionsofLife]

The quote read towards the end of this film is by Khalil Gibran: "The river needs to take the risk of entering the ocean because only then will fear disappear, because that’s where the river will know it’s not about disappearing into the ocean, but of becoming the ocean.”

[@sofiak.6574]

Tears are falling from my eyes. Not because Im sad, but further more because in this quote, i recognize myself. In this quote my path is confirmed. Im so grateful to you...all! Love, Sofia❤

[@heatherberg7499]

Thank you for this information

[@judithsilver4402]

You are so beautiful and I thank you for teaching me about unconditional love.

[@candacekunze252]

What an extraordinary soul 💚🪽✨

[@Kookey-hu9cw]

​@@judithsilver4402My thoughts exactly ❤

[@margohwang6991]

This baby girl needs a big, tight hug. You're beautiful. You're more than just good enough.

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Thank you for your caring and kind words. Warmest wishes, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@LindseyLister]

This lady is a beautiful soul. I love her wisdom, what a gift she is to the world.

[@jinal7128]

I made my first poetry watching your video and I want to share my gratitude with this poetry “You are a perfect , single flower. No flower stays closed because it’s scared of the world. No flower gives up and refuses to bloom because life is short. Every flower is perfect. We can’t imagine how hard it is for a flower to bloom. It faces pain, loneliness, and struggles alone. But once it blooms, it sees others just like it. They look at each other and smile. Even if no one notices, they are perfect as they are. We are all perfect flowers.”

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Wow, this is beautiful. Thank you for writing and sharing it. This touches us. Sending much love, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@robssimmons8670]

So beautiful, thank you for the poetry ❤. So appreciated

[@Flippy_808]

I love it ❤

[@paolr9152]

❤

[@laurenyellinweinberg]

I hope this is just the beginning of writing poetry for you. You have a gift to share. You never know when the universe will tap you on the shoulder and say, “you… it’s your turn to bloom”.

[@fotiniav6643]

I really don't know what to say about your videos guys, it is not about the "like" anymore, it is not about the scrolling any more..i think you are finding the pure essence of life, that lightly figured ray of being..that is so rare to be seen..thank you! every human has its own truth inside of him and by sharing it, shows everyone of us that we are all united..

[@ReflectionsofLife]

We really appreciate your kind and encouraging words about our videos. Lovely to have you with us on our journey. Warmest hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@kimulm0619]

Yes,yes we ate all united.The aord alone-al-one.❤

[@MsChitterchat]

United by God ❤

[@veronicaperez3555]

😭agreed. It’s a shared human collective. The work is truly beautiful. It’s perfect 😊

[@marthaelenataceatorres8251]

Este es una belleza de video! Me encantó, tan profundamente honesto y a la vez tan suave y fuerte. Felicitaciones a todos los que lo hicieron posible.

[@SeethaGopalakrishna]

I so often think how nice it would be to meet all these lovely people .

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Touching. We are so glad that you enjoy the stories of the various people. Sending you warmest of hugs. Justine and Michael. 💚

[@writeract2]

I wonder if that could ever be arranged - not impossible.

[@greentomato5762]

Your beauty touches my soul. My tears are for you, for me, for us. we are one

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Deeply moving message - thanks for sharing 💚

[@chamaclinea]

Très beau…

[@elainemidgley4795]

How heart-breakingly beautiful. I would just love to give this lady (Robyn, I believe) a big hug and reassure her that she IS enough and by sharing her story has reminded so many others that they are too. Thank you xxx

[@robssimmons8670]

Thank you Elaine ❤ received the hug😂

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Thank you for watching and sharing this kind message. Much love, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@TheBlueOwl21]

What a truly lovely lady 💙

[@ceciliap7197]

​@@robssimmons8670Totally different stories, working the same issue: Being good enough 🙏🏼💖💫. Thank you Robyn for sharing, for allowing yourself to be vulnerable, for being true and authentic 💖. Being good enough is really solved within our heart's 💖, it's ok to be different, uniqueness is a Gift 🙏🏼💫💖. Enjoy mother Ocean 🌊 💖, remember you are loved exactly the way you are: Unique 💫. Receive a Warm hug 💖🫂🌞🙏🏼🌹

[@FRASERMCGREGOR72]

This beautiful soul is "perfect". She embodies what it is to love herself first and foremost. Her light shines so brightly and I am glad that she hasn't allowed her soft edges to harden with the life lessons she has endured. Beautiful. Just beautiful. Thank you for making this perfect film.

[@ReflectionsofLife]

This message touches our hearts deeply. Thanks for seeing all the beauty that Robyn shared with us. Robyn is reading these messages, so your heartfelt words will reach her. Sending you much love and care. Justine and Michael.

[@kcampbell867]

Thank you for putting my thoughts into words that I could not find. She is amazing and when she smiles, there is a light!

[@PatriciaMuirMaestroQ]

Yes, this woman is more than “enough”.

[@JohnVucetich]

"You don't lose if you get knocked down; you lose if you stay down." (Muhammad Ali)

[@ReflectionsofLife]

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[@learningtostream3919]

Yes

[@rocco_siffredi.]

I needed this, thank you

[@nmash6835]

That's true

[@kimcunningham2107]

Can TOTALLY relate to this! My life in a nutshell. Now 63 and FINALLY in a position of loving myself completely because I AM CHOSEN and the daughter of my Creator. Living in Love and Gratitude. 💜💜💜Must add... I think you're Beautiful.

[@debbiesittard7653]

Amen. ♥️

[@MsScotlyn]

I totally relate too ❤

[@kimcunningham2107]

@@MsScotlyn 🙏

[@kimcunningham2107]

@@debbiesittard7653 🙏

[@cateenyeart6874]

I'm 64, and same story. God bless you. 🙏

[@kwthar7168]

I can’t believe that I start to crying , she such a beautiful person with great soul, never stop making videos please

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Touching words. We are glad this story meant much to you. Sending you warmest of hugs. Justine and Michael. 💚

[@LigiMathew-f9z]

She walked and walked through grief until she reached the realm of self awareness. This is what we all are expected to do. The causes of our grief vary. But the healing process is the same. She shares a happy lesson so painfully learnt. Thank you, Reflections..to making this kind of co- experiencing possible.

[@ReflectionsofLife]

You are most welcome. We are glad her story meant much to you in many ways. Much love, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@dr.harnet466]

Dearest Robyn (I hope I got your name right). Your mom coming into your dream telling you that she loves you after she died, is her soul reaching out to you. Not because she wants to be forgiven, but because she wants you to heal and feel loved. You can talk to your mom, start a new relationship with her, and experience her loving you, because on the other side ...where pain & trauma seize to exist.. all she has for you is deepest love.

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Thank you so much for sharing this here. Robyn is reading these messages, so your words will reach her. 💚

[@loretta9478]

Beautifully stated, I agree wholeheartedly Robin.❤

[@imbolc8024]

often we cannot 'solve' trauma on our own, also not with a magic dream, it's really complex & goes very deep. forgiving helps, and finding our selves, like the amazin lady did-does

[@rozbrockie2684]

Beautiful words 🕊❤️🙏

[@Lee-ws4fr]

I don't think pain or suffering ceases to exist in the afterlife, of the body yes, but I think we still experience feeling. That if a person who kills themselves may still not enjoy existence in the afterlife.

[@user-ih6kc1rb7t]

i've been so ashamed of myself since childhhod. after living 70 years i'm working on finding the peace & love for myself. its so hard to really achieve that feeling...that i am good enough...

[@riverbilly64]

You are good enough.

[@annecrestani9218]

As a child of the universe - you are actually perfect - as you are

[@vivian9803]

You are more than good enough 💗

[@Tinks384]

Thought lives in duality "Good enough ,not good enough " . The mind IS duality ,there is no peace in mind it is a constant movement .But you are not the mind ,you are here now simply being .You're perfect just as you are beautiful ,🥰

[@ReflectionsofLife]

We hope that Robyn's message helps to remind you of the beauty that lies within us all. 💚

[@Mxxjzz]

This brought me to tears . I too had a mother who didn’t love me . She favored my brothers over me my entire life. I haven’t spoken to her in over 10 years. It’s a vicious cycle because my grandma never loved her either. Its really sad

[@killyGHILLIE]

I hope you find peace

[@Mxxjzz]

@@killyGHILLIE thank you 🫶🏼

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Deep words, sorry to read about your experiences. Wishing you strength and peace for every new day, sending much love and kindness to you. Justine and Michael. 💚

[@lifeslessons9889]

This is a pattern unfortunately… my mother was an only child, her father dotted on her, her mother was a jealous lady because of that so resented her daughter.. my mother had two daughters, I’m the second and always felt SECOND, I believe both my parents were unemotionally unavailable. I’m 64 in @ few months, widowed very young and unexpectedly whilst I was pregnant..lifes been cruel and I still feel the hurt of rejection by everyone I encounter. My son has grown into a fine man , I hope his life is kind to him, he’s a fantastic human being and though my parents never told me they were proud of me ~ I tell my son Often !! The rule book and mould has to change. Wishing you love and light xxx

[@Mxxjzz]

@@lifeslessons9889 means alot!!! thank you 🫶🏼 we all deserve to be loved. We didn’t ask to be here

[@fatoufrancescambow5876]

Thank you so much for honouring the pain caused by mothers who don’t love their child. And thank you for teaching me that we learn in many ways in life, about love, including from a mother who did not love us.

[@ReflectionsofLife]

We hope that you continue to carry Robyn's words forward with you in your heart, as a reminder of the potential and power for love that we all carry within our hearts. Sending you warm hugs. Justine and Michael x

[@victoriawillis831]

What a beautiful woman, I felt her enlightenment through her words.

[@ReflectionsofLife]

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[@rknrlgrl6146]

It breaks my heart that a mother could be so cruel to her own child. I’m happy this woman has found some peace in her relationship with mother and herself. I wish I could take her in my arms and give her the biggest hug. May the rest of her time on earth be happy 🙏

[@ReflectionsofLife]

We appreciate your touching and caring words. Warmest hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@Arieslove176]

“This body carries this soul” is the best reminder possible to love our whole selves

[@ReflectionsofLife]

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[@alexpavlides2047]

Thank you for sharing your story. I am in the gym between sets wondering why my father, who I cut out of my life two years ago, is as unkind and cruel as he is, and I needed to know there are others out there. We didn’t deserve these damaged people as parents.

[@RevealAlchemizeHeal]

Many of us. I see you and send you compassion.

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Reading through these YT comments for this film, it becomes clear that so many have had similar challenging relationships with their parents. We hope that Robyn's story serves as a reminder that there is the power and potential within us all, for forgiveness and love. 💚

[@carmenbarroso5332]

No me parece sano aconsejar el perdón, eso es muy personal. Es mejor dejar ir con indiferencia y desarrollar nuestro potencial vital. Saludos​@@ReflectionsofLife

[@Brecon723]

That's right we didn't, or the lifelong suffering that's been caused because of them

[@Groovy507]

I loved this. Video so much. I am 66 and I am accepting myself for who I am..thank you to this lady and this channel

[@ReflectionsofLife]

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[@ReincarnatedStargazer]

Childhood trauma leaves an indeilble mark. You carry that scar with you through life. But this lady expresses how to wear it like a badge of liberation. "I needed to actually put my relationship with my mom into kinder place for me. To put her in a peaceful place with inside of myself."

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Deep and touching words. Glad that her message meant much to you. Much love, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@lakritzeslena]

Crying, for you, for that kid that you were and for that kid that I was. I went through similar things. And had that moment of awakening when my mother acted to my daughter as she acted towards me, I got so angry! And I send her away. She had no right to speak to my daughter in that way, nor to me, when I was little. And still, I find myself sometimes, so insecure, cause I just want to be enough and be enough to be loved. And I try to say to the kid inside me, that it was not my fault, that I'm enough and worthy of love and that I do not have to earn it with being perfect or negating myself.

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Sorry to read that you had similar experiences. May her story encourage and help you to become a little stronger and confident. Sending much love, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@carmenbarroso5332]

Todo niño merece ser cuidado, respetado y querido. Actuaste bien protegiendo a tu hija, así sanas también a la niña que llevas dentro. Potencia la seguridad en tí misma y quiérete mucho. 🫂

[@Crystalquartz964]

I relate very much to this lovely lady's story as I had a similar mother. I grew very tall and large and she and I didn't get on. My mother died 18 months' ago age 95 and at the end of her life, she didn't know who I was but she knew I was a friend who visited her.

[@ReflectionsofLife]

She is lucky to have had you there beside her - someone who cared. We send you much love 💚

[@carmenbarroso5332]

Los narcisistas no suelen cambiar con la edad.

[@joycebenvenuti4782]

Yes… I think a lot of us have had to realize our mothers did the best they could with the knowledge they had …..

[@ReflectionsofLife]

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[@annecrestani9218]

Beautiful words from a beautiful soul. She is right - when we recognise that we are nature and nature is us - there is no need to take on other people's expectations of perfection and "good enoughness" because as children of the universe - we are perfect - just as we are. Nature is our eternally loving mother and true home. I am forever so very grateful for that.

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Thank you for your kind message. We are gld that so much in this video spoke to you. Warmest hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@carmenbarroso5332]

Cómo hijas del Universo no debemos permitir que nadie nos quiera destruir, ni nuestros padres. Ya por existir somos únicos y merecemos respeto.

[@lili1603E]

Thank you for this wonderful woman and her thoughts. I cried for 12 minutes because, in a small way, it is also my story. But above all because I was just so touched by what a beautiful soul she is. And it is precisely these people who have had such experiences who have so much to give to themselves and the world. Thank you from the bottom of my heart and kind regards from Austria.🌱

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Thank you for seeing all the beauty in the words that Robyn shared with us. Your precious words will mean a lot to Robyn - and she is reading these comments, so your words will reach her. Sending much love in return, across the seas from South Africa. Justine and Michael. x

[@lili1603E]

@@ReflectionsofLife Thank you so much and all the best to you, Justine and Robyn. ❤

[@Typeher]

I love this lady, I just want to hug her

[@ReflectionsofLife]

So kind, thank you. Warmest hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@parkeschaffer5808]

You’ve run the gauntlet and you’ve come through as the beautiful person you always were. You’ve evolved to another level of love and peace.

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Beautiful message, thanks so much. Sending you warmest of hugs. Justine and Michael. 💚

[@Rositasparks]

Precious lady, thank you for sharing your strength and wisdom. ❤

[@ReflectionsofLife]

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[@Sophie-py8cr]

This made me cry. I love this woman.

[@ReflectionsofLife]

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[@laddieokelley6095]

I respect Robyn's journey. I think letting go can manifest itself in different ways, without necessarily forgiving or recreating people or events in our minds. As I approach 80, I have simply let go of those who do not bring positivity. My mother was not suited to motherhood or marriage and gave me over to grandparents to raise. My accomplishments and intellect owe little to her. I harbor no bitterness. I have let go, much like clouds that were overhead, then drifted away.

[@ReflectionsofLife]

A powerful message that you share here with us all. We all walk our own path, in our own way, given our own unique set of circumstances. And your message is a beautiful addition to all that Robyn shared with us. Thank you for sharing. We send you love. Justine and Michael 💚

[@carmenbarroso5332]

Bendita indiferencia, que nos salva y sana. Bendito potencial que nos hace apostar por nosotros mismos. Alejarse y Soltar.

[@laddieokelley6095]

@@carmenbarroso5332 ❤

[@AdventuresinMaggieLand]

Only Thank you to this lovely Lady, this Lovely SouL who shared her Heart & SouL ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Touching words.💚

[@MsScotlyn]

I relate to this in so many ways, had me crying but what a beautiful ending, This lady is a beautiful soul. Thank you for sharing your story 🙏

[@ReflectionsofLife]

We're so glad to know that this story stirred your soul so deeply 💚

[@JoannaJordan-i8p]

This film should help you feel wholeness! What a gift your story is to all of us listening to it. You define wholeness now because of your journey.

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Thank you for your kind and encouraging words. Much love, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@ronnronn55]

You're on the way to the healing that you want. Recognizing where you are is a big step.

[@davidkaplan3817]

Bravo, for yet another magnificent testimony to the goodness of the human spirit. Love your channel, and the people you present. Thank you!

[@ReflectionsofLife]

You are most welcome. So thankful that you see so much value in the videos we share. Warmest hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@laylakhamis369]

your relationship with your mom made me contemplate my relationship with my 3 year daughter. I have an older son as well and feel that my relationship with my daughter is not the same. I am making changes, thank you for this 💜

[@robssimmons8670]

❤ wonderful

[@ReflectionsofLife]

We are touched that her message was so valuable, that her words spoke to you so deeply. Wishing you all the best and strength for the days ahead. Much love, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@sharmaraygoldman9415]

My mom passed in 2018. When you said,”I needed to put my mom in a peaceful place inside of myself”. That went right into me. I have not been at peace with her. My intention is to put her there. In a peaceful place inside myself. Thank you for saying this about you with your mom.

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Touching to read how valuable Robyn's message was for you. May her words carry you and help you to find that peace. Sending much love, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@ginny709]

Her words are touching about not being loved by her mother.... it resonated deeply with me......thank you for sharing

[@ReflectionsofLife]

You are so welcome, thank you for watching. Warmest hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@sweetlampe]

Wow how badly our childhood can damage us through life if we aren’t unconditionally loved and nurtured by our parents.We all want to be loved for who we are, it’s detrimental to our well being,body soul and Spirit. What a Beautiful woman you have grown to become.

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Wow, really touching. Glad this story meant so much to you. Sending you warmest of hugs. Justine and Michael. 💚

[@verenagraham1606]

Forgiveness is not only healing to the ones we forgive but for ourselves. IT releases especially all bitterness anger and sorrow.We are all connected and we all need to be gentler and kinder to every part of this beautiful planet .You are a part of this beautiful world and love is all around your beautiful soul ❤❤❤

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Beautiful and deep words, thank you for sharing. Warmest wishes, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@TheQueensWish]

I loved my cat. Then I found out he was deaf. I loved him even more. Then he grew old and lost a back leg to cancer. And I loved him even more. All the way to the end. And even now. This is how it should be. ❤🫂

[@ReflectionsofLife]

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[@lynnvandyke1065]

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[@samkangal8428]

And one day you will meet him again .

[@TheQueensWish]

@ I truly want to! ❤️❤️🐈

[@renatahawkdreams]

Beautiful and profound! And there is always a Divine Mother embracing us all 💚

[@ReflectionsofLife]

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[@artmel7395]

"Une mère" deux mots qui sonnent comme un état merveilleux mais qui pourtant peuvent vouloir nous annoncer une naissance ou les prémisses d'une petite mort. Merci à vous deux d'avoir mis en lumière cette belle âme car tout au long de son témoignage pour les personnes qui ne l'ont pas vécu sachez que c'est un long combat une self destruction ! Et qu'il faut être très courageuse pour affronter ces détracteurs... Rien n'y personne ne peut vraiment aider c'est un combat de longue haleine... Et c'est important de dire que beaucoup d'entre nous n'ont pas assez d'une vie pour se défaire de ces liens qui nous entravent au quotidien... Et qui par épuisement morale et comme elle dit physique quitteront ce monde... 6.07 de la video elle trébuche sur le mot "mum" qu'elle ne dira pas clairement ça m'a bouleversé. J'aimerais savoir son nom si elle est d'accord... merci encore car c'est une violence sournoise dont les femmes et les hommes ne peuvent encore pas parler aujourd'hui. Bonne continuation. Armelle.

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Thank you for sharing your thoughts. You find her name in the write-up below the video. Warm wishes, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@deborahg4599]

At 65 I dearly miss my parents. So many questions and misunderstandings, I’m happiest alone. At least I can have some control. So many battles and so many challenges and never enough “I love you’s.” I love your channel, it truly helps. We all think of the past and little we can do. But the love always remains. Love is our greatest asset, always. ❤

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Thank you for sharing. May her message carry and encourage you. We hope to share many more videos with you. And yes, love remains, it carries us through the ups and downs. Much love, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@uuubeut]

A senior only now learning to parent myself. Letting go of parental abuse is not easy but very available with Spiritual growth , Lead with your heart as you have been doing

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Thank you for your touching words, wishing you all the best for your own journey. Warmest wishes, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@Mystic_Paths]

Letting go of the pressures to constantly prove ourselves, meet unrealistic expectations, or chase external validation. The story of ‘letting go’ probably highlights the peace and freedom that come when we stop trying to be perfect and embrace our true selves. It’s a message of self-love, acceptance, and understanding that being enough isn’t about what we do but about who we are at our core

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Touching and deep thoughts, thanks so much for sharing. Kindest wishes, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@lourdesangulo413]

Ayyyyyy... The mother's wounds. How deeply we can feel them... And how brave and powerfully we can transcend them too. ✨✨❤✨✨

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Thank you for sharing, it's deep and touching. Much love, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@sukhjotkaur8811]

This woman is so easily loveable. This really made the words I received in therapy, and have been nurturing for a while, come into view. They have released me from the weight of my mothers actions, and they are, "It was never about you." Nothing is more regulating for me than to see my mother as a separate human being, making her very imperfect way through life.

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Thank you for sharing your thoughts and experiences. We are so happy that her message resonated with you. Wishing you all the best. Much love, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@chrissiemorton4126]

My mother told me she loved me once......with dementia she said the words I waited so long to hear! She wasn't raised with those words. I as there holding her hand as she transitioned...I told her over and over I love you mom...

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Deeply moving. Thank you for sharing this here with us. She is blessed to have had you beside her, when she needed you most 💚

[@gailreineke7186]

You’re right. We can’t fix the hurt done to us by those closest to us. I’ve been where you are except by my father. I forgave him long ago, and have begun healing because I truly let it all go just before he died.

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Thank you for sharing a little bit of your own personal experience. To know that you were able to let go, to forgive, and to move towards a space of healing - that is powerful. And a perfect echo to all that Robyn shared with us through this film. Warm hugs. Justine and Michael. x

[@sofiak.6574]

You are beautiful no matter what they say....this is from a song...but you are Sweet Lady! Your soul is sparkling. Made from the gold of the stars. Im sending you much love. Im grateful. ❤

[@ReflectionsofLife]

We agree - her light shines so brightly 💚

[@gutchiespencer2714]

I'm moved to tears by the life experiences of some of these dear souls, their willingness to share brings clarity to my life.....❤️

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Thank you for allowing these stories to touch your heart so deeply 💚

[@cathypreddie98]

You are so special!! I had a similar life but I am now 67 I live alone now for 10 years and I am so happy. I also came to peace with my mom. You are totally a wonderful person. We have to heal our past and move on otherwise we destroy our life, for nothing. ❤

[@seventhchild7270]

Well said AND SO true!....My reading the scriptures DAILY...., Praying CONSTANTLY to God,....building my personal relationship with God and JESUS Christ,..And just working hard to know myself, accept my flaws,.. I came to realize the beautiful qualities I discovered I had and have.....being Spirtual Not RELIGIOUS, ...My .LOVE for Almighty God and JESUS CHRIST, love OF nature, All animals, art, music, the oceans, universe, healthy cooking and food, my style, great health, morals, and then my compassion, love, empathy and sympathy for others, my nice but simple downsized life, my intelligence, .....LIFE is worth living, ....I have that beautiful GOD given PEACE, ...that MONEY can't buy

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Thanks for sharing a little bit of your own personal situation. And to know that you came to a place of peace for your relationship with your own mother, is very beautiful. We send you love. Justine and Michael x

[@joh3360]

What a beautiful wise woman you are! You exude calmness, kindness and your gentleness and wisdom are inspiring 🧡

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Wow, thank you. Such beautiful words. Sending much love, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@janetgao6201]

Many women can learn from your life story. Sometimes we can only see ourselves through our shared experiences.❤

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Thanks for seeing the value in the sharing of these stories, and for allowing Robyn's story to stir your soul. Sending love. Justine and Michael x

[@TheRamblingsofBry]

Oh Robyn, what an amazing insightful woman you are. You are as perfect as you need to be, love yourself x

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Very beautifully said. Robyn is reading these messages, so your words will reach her. Hugs. Justine and Michael.

[@divinecomedy0]

You are such a beautiful soul, inside and out. Your vulnerability and honesty of what’s so for you today and to honour yourself in this life journey is such an honour to have witnessed. I wish you a continuous joyful journey in this life, and love of self. You are awesome, woman! 💟🕉️🌷

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Thank you for seeing so much beauty in all that Robyn shared with us, and for allowing her story to touch your heart. She is reading these messages, so your words will reach her. We send much love to you in return. Justine and Michael. x

[@recherche4528]

Her explanation of the difference between loneliness & being alone is the most beautiful & apt one.❤

[@ReflectionsofLife]

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[@AnnaM22]

I'm happy that she has found herself despite her difficult life... I wish this strength for myself too. Thank you for another beautiful testimony. Sending much love to everybody ❤️

[@ReflectionsofLife]

We hope that you continue to carry Robyn's words forward with you in your heart, to remind you of the power and potential for forgiveness and love, that exists within us all. Justine and Michael 💚

[@AnnaM22]

@@ReflectionsofLife Thank you so much Justine and Michael. Hugs to you both. And also a big thank you for your wonderful work that brings us joy and time to reflect. It's incredible ❤️ All the best!

[@fs5368]

Many people are struggling to accept themselves as good enough; and I had been one of them for a long life. I believe that this video and her inspirational message will help a lot of people like me to experience true love. Thank you all for your wonderful work.

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Thank you for taking Robyn's words into your heart, and for allowing these to remind you that we are all worth of love. We send warm hugs. Justine and Michael.

[@AmandaReid0000]

When this beautiful soul talked about the ocean as her mother, I felt this absolute rightness - you could see the joy and ease rise in her. 🙏🏼❤️

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Nice that you appreciated this moment. 💚

[@Towanda-rq4cu]

What a wonderful soul.❤ She has so much to give. Thank you for sharing and god bless this beautiful woman.🙏❤

[@ReflectionsofLife]

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[@my.spicy.kitchen]

I just discovered this channel and I ve been so inspired by three women I watched so far. It is like they talk to my heart❤ beautiful work

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Welcome to our channel. Thanks so much for your kind message, we are so happy that you enjoyed the videos you have watched so far. Kindest wishes, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@mereinurtabuldin4882]

Yesterday I shared this film with my mother who doesn't know English at all. "Just set the subtittle in Kazakh and listen to this character". That was my first message after a long silence between us. I felt I became kinder to her. This lifestory reminded me that I am actually on the right path. Michael and Justin, thank you so much for this marvelous film! Thank you for giving us the opportunity of listening to the wisdom of such a great person as Robyn! Robyn, you are a very beautiful person! You are the model for a thousand of people who still struggle to forgive and are in a deep pain. I hope this film will help as many souls as possible. Be blessed and happy! 💚🙏

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Thank you for sharing this comment dear Mereinur. We are so deeply touched to know that this story means so much to you, and for your own relationship with your mother. And we thank you deeply for sharing your translations with us, so that those who speak Kazakh have the opportunity to learn from this film too. We send you our deepest thanks and love. Justine and Michael x

[@robssimmons8670]

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[@MaBoJo1]

The wisdom she has learnt, is hard won, it touches me listening to her as i relate to the complex mother relationship

[@ReflectionsofLife]

We are glad that her story meant much to you. Much love, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@margheritagalasso947]

Most evil teachers always teach us to stand up and sparkle against their dark. A big hug, dear woman ❤

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Thank you for sharing this thought and sending a hug. Warmest wishes, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@mariogaido3537]

True, it's not even about "liking" these videos. You can capture true essence and put it into images and sounds which then touches pure essence in each of us. Forever grateful 💙 PEACE&LOVE

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Thank you for these words. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@chrisbee379]

I had the same when my mum died a very strong dream the day after. She hugged me and said goodbye. It was perfect timing. As I didn’t get there in time and when I got there I felt sorry she had passed without saying goodbye. x

[@LindaLights]

Thank you for sharing. This is powerful, what you have described.

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Thank you for sharing this here with us. To know that your heart found a sense of closure and peace, is very beautiful. Hugs to you. Justine and Michael. x

[@susiefairfield7218]

Soon as she said: "my Mother was a perfectionist" that little person inside immediately died a little 😢

[@ReflectionsofLife]

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[@aidikel852]

I absolutely love your films, they’re just beautiful.

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Thank you. Warm hugs. Justine and Michael. 💚

[@Kerome33]

Your mother is always going to be one of the most important people in your life, and if she rejects you that leaves a deep wound. I really appreciated this story, that healing is not always easy, even for a well-developed person such as this lady artist. I would love to give her a big hug and say, the universe loves you my dear. Only worthy souls are given lives so full of challenge. ❤

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Very beautiful words of kindness and compassion that you have shared. Robyn is reading these messages, so your words will reach her. Sending hugs. Justine and Michael.

[@GrandmotherWindsoftheEarth]

Thank you so much. I needed this so much today. My beloved husband died 3 months ago today and I am struggling. When this wonderful woman described the love that she wished she had known, I realized that I had that with my tender, gentle man. And I still do, because the feeling and that love will never die. I think I need to go to the sea for healing. blessings xx

[@robssimmons8670]

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[@ReflectionsofLife]

Deep and touching, we are are so thankful that we could share her message with you at this time of sadness. May her words carry you in the days to come, we wish you renewed strength for every day. Sending much love and kindness to you. Justine and Michael. 💚

[@GrandmotherWindsoftheEarth]

@@ReflectionsofLife Thank you for your kind words xx

[@kathrynparker983]

This made me weep. I related to everything she said, even though some circumstances were different. The mind has a way of telling me stories that aren't true. Thanks for this.

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Really glad that her story meant much to you. Wishing you strength and peace for life's journey and sending you warmest of hugs. Justine and Michael. 💚

[@SmruthiSS-q8m]

She gave us all such a beautiful message . Will cherish it forever💙💚

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Touching words, thanks so much. Warmest hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@user-sw1ps1oo5h]

Thank you for sharing your story.🥰And we are good enough as we are.🥰

[@ReflectionsofLife]

So thankful her story spoke to you. Warmest wishes, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@cindyshilanskis8503]

In the book "Women Who Run With the Wolves," Clarissa Pinkola Estes, a Jungian analyst, writes about the unmothered child - the extreme pain and also the gifts received as you work through that pain. I've found that book very helpful to understanding why I may have chosen to experience such a thing in this lifetime. You are very beautiful. Thank you for sharing your story with us. ❤

[@ReflectionsofLife]

We are glad you enjoyed the video,. Thank you also for sharing the info regarding the book. Warm hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@TamaraMaraMoo]

I read this book...it was the start of my journey, both painfully and joyfully

[@shadesofsunandsky5495]

It brought me tears as soon as she she started talking about her mother. I could resonate with her words well, even when i see my mother, she says she loves which she do but there are many times when I crave for the words when she could say she loves me and she is grateful to have me. Sometimes it hurts badly when you are being cussed and cursed by your own mother, when she tried to bring down the voice inside of me by various methods. It broke me badly, it broke the person i was inside. Sometimes we crave the words of love not from the people outside but by our own parents that how happy they are to have us. But it is also true as she said in the film, "the more i will be angry with her, the more i will break and due to that I can't heal myself, fix myself" it is so true because as soon as it keeps repeating, the argument or when I like to speak my mind infront of my mother and she thinks i am not respecting her, it hurts me more and I get angry and things start to go worse. But thankyou for making this film. It was really heart touching, maybe I needed one this time. ❤ and always thankyou for your wonderful films that you people make with your hardwork and these beautiful people. ❤

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Touching message, we hear you.... We can understand that Robyn's story touched you deeply. We wish that her words could maybe help you in some way, to heal, to let go. Wishing you all the best and strength for every new day, glad to have you with us on our journey. Sending much love, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@dawnolynyk]

❤ your views on life are so 💞. Am able to relate to your experiences, took so many years for me finally love myself. We are all here to share the earth❤.....sincere love and respect to you❤❤❤

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Touching words. We are glad her message resonated with you, may it inspire you. Sending you warm wishes. Justine and Michael. 💚

[@bieni1690]

Sehr schön gesprochen 🥺 es hat mich sehr bewegt

[@ReflectionsofLife]

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[@beatereich5466]

I remember...... My mother didn't love me. I was an " accident"😉 When I was born she was 17 years old!!!! Many years I hate her. But later on......I realized that my mind only remember a Part of the Story. And my mother told me never what took place with HER. I know that she didn't love herself....... I know about ME a long time I didn't love myself and because of that I truly had no love to give. Ans I did hurt many people many years. A expartner asked me " why do you hurt people that love you most?" I don't hate my mother anymore. Now I feel compassion. For me and for her. I am very glad that I learned to love/fully accept myself. Now I can give love and compassion. Blessings to All of you from Austria❤❤❤

[@MaryFroelich]

Thank you for your vulnerability. Beautifully expressed.

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Thank you for sharing some of your own experiences. We are glad that you were able to overcome and can now love yourself and others. Sending you warmest of hugs from South Africa. Justine and Michael. 💚

[@beatereich5466]

@@ReflectionsofLife 🤗🥰

[@ArchMorgan]

Thank you, Robyn, for your honesty, vulnerability, and sense of perspective. You've touched me deeply with your sharing as it resonates with strands of my self and my own journey. Peace and joy to you.

[@ReflectionsofLife]

A beautiful message that you share here, for a beautiful soul. Robyn is reading these comments, so your words will reach her. Warm hugs. Justine and Michael. x

[@mayamac1458]

What a wonderful woman ❤ thank you for sharing your story 🙏 I have been single for more than 10 years now... I got very clear that my mission was to love myself entirely... My most abusive relationship was with myself so I had to get right with me. It's taken a long time but I'm here 😊 and I'm really very protective of the peace I have cultivated. I love how she has found peace with her mother. I have found that peace too... But only through loving and having compassion for myself. Acceptance that I am good enough. I am nature, I am the bird, I am... 🙏

[@ReflectionsofLife]

So glad her message resonated with you, thank you for sharing some thoughts and experiences. We are happy for you that you found peace as well. Wishing you all the best for life's journey, keep on accepting yourself. Sending you warmest of hugs. Justine and Michael. 💚

[@mayamac1458]

@@ReflectionsofLife aw, thanks... Wishing you both all the best too 🙏💝😊

[@darkangelkate3950]

Thank you for this video. The woman could have been me but she has come so much further. Her words were comforting and inspiring ❤.

[@ReflectionsofLife]

We are glad that we could share her story with you. May her words help you along life's journey. Sending much love, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@annem9858]

What a beautiful story of overcoming a painful past. I thought I recognized those beautiful mountains of Betty's Bay...a favorite stopover on our Sunday drives around the coast! ❤

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Thank you for watching and and sharing these kind words. Nice that you enjoy the area. Warmest hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@monicalauber2934]

Mrs. Simmons expressed thoughts that free us from pain.....how good it was to have heard these thoughts! We are unique beings and at the same time we are all that exists! We are part of the ocean and at the same time we are the ocean! Emotional pains come and few understand them, moving from a dark state full of bitterness, to a state of absolute consciousness and love! Thank you Mrs Simmons, Michael and Justine! Love to you all!

[@armoogumvencatachellum4997]

So well said. From bitterness to consciousness!

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Very beautifully said - thanks so much for sharing this here for us all to read - a precious echo to the story shared by Robyn. We send love to you in return. Justine and Michael.

[@monicalauber2934]

@@ReflectionsofLife ❤❤❤

[@alinaadamut]

Dear Robyn, I would love to give you the biggest hug! You are such a beautiful human being! Thank you for sharing your light!

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Precious! Thanks for sharing this. Robyn is reading these comments, so your words will reach her. 💚

[@mabelsto.domingo1824]

The journey of a soul. So beautiful.

[@ReflectionsofLife]

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[@paulathefairy676]

Another absolutely wonderful video, thank you dear sister for sharing your story 💗 your life is one that I have also had with an unloving and abusive mother, and it has taken me many years of loving myself and being loved and held by our Creator God, who is universal love 💜 to heal and allow a relationship with my mother, where I can honour her ❤️‍🩹 and God gave me the most amazing daughter, with whom I have a safe, nurturing, loving and joyous relationship with! 🙏🏻 Bless this community, we all love your channel, thank you again for making these films, they are priceless 💗

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Wow, your words touch us greatly - the words about this video and also regarding our work. It all means a lot to us. So glad you find yourself in a good place now. Sending much love, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@rebeccajones5941]

The beauty of truth and the wisdom of her accountability is very touching, very real, thank you for sharing your pain and your victory. I appreciate your presence and I am happy you found you.

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Thanks for taking the time to listen to all that Robyn shared with us. We send love. Justine and Michael.

[@angeliquesourtzis2392]

How uncanny that each person you interview and tells their story live in such serene and awe-inspiring locations....coincidence? Nah! ❤😊 ❤❤ ❤❤❤❤

[@ReflectionsofLife]

The beauty of mother nature is truly incredible. And her ability to heal body, mind and soul does seem to be a thread that carries through the lives of so many people that we interview. We hope that you too value this connection to Mother Earth. Sending you warmest of hugs. Justine and Michael.

[@susantelfer8576]

What a beautiful tale of humanity. This gorgeous lady is a wonderful human being, and I wish her a very happy life. ❤

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Beautiful wishes that you share through this comment. Robyn is reading these messages, so your words will reach her. Hugs. Justine and Michael.

[@peterjensen1455]

Letting go of the history is essential. The Power is Now.

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Thank you for sharing this thought. Warmest hugs, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@LaurensLifePhotoJournal]

I was blessed to find that love you described and it was through pain. I asked Jesus for a hug with tears streaming down my face. I was filled with the most pure concentrated feeling flowing into me - it was LOVE. Totally not judged, accepted for who I am. A peace I had never known. He healed my broken heart.

[@B_Vea]

This is so beautifull and profound! The ones of us who had to fight for our life (in the way you have to when your parents did not love you), had to dig so deep to find love within ourselves

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Deep and beautiful words, glad her story meant much to you. Sending much love, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@joniirvin1469]

Another very special human featured here. Wow. The filming and music capture her perfectly! Thank you for this inspiration. 💜

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Pleasure. We are glad that we could share her story with you. Thank you for your encouraging words about our work. Warmest wishes, Justine and Michael. 💚

[@writeract2]

This woman is so utterly compelling and she actually embodies within herself the wholeness that she longs to find in a love relationship - she appears whole within herself because she has found the ability to love herself. The surroundings to this little capsule is so beautiful, would like to run to Betty's Bay (particularly being an artist myself who was drawn to the creativity and cozy artistic lushness of her home) and give this incredible and beautiful (inside and out) woman a very big hug. Michael & Justine are master filmmakers evoking the subtle beauty of life in the incredible intricacies of its poetic journey presented in very small, quiet, peaceful moments of storytelling - the use of the camera, the transitions and the understanding of the necessity to stand still and allow time to flow are just a few hallmarks of their mastery - very large kudos to you, will share b/c THIS is what we need to see in these the most inhuman and dystopic of times. Please continue doing what you are doing - God has gifted you to do it for His Glory and HIs purpose. God bless you and this wonderful woman is in my prayers as well.

[@ReflectionsofLife]

So glad you enjoyed this video with Robyn so much, thank you for the lovely message. And we thank you for your kind words about our work, we are glad that we can share some light and hope with these videos. Sending you warmest of hugs. Justine and Michael. 💚

[@robssimmons8670]

Thank you for your beautiful insight. Yes Justine and Michael are truly special people and have a real ability to capture the essence of 'real' .❤

[@writeract2]

@@ReflectionsofLife I did enjoy this v. much and you stated it so accurately - you are sending light and hope and so much more - insight, wisdom, humanity and life - God bless. Anita

[@writeract2]

@@robssimmons8670 Hi Robyn,, so lovely to hear from you in person, after hearing you speak I wish I could just have given you a big hug - you are so worthy of it. You have so much courage and despite everything you've been through, you look whole as if you fit inside of your skin, and frankly, b/c you simply have learned to embody your authentic self - your face radiates beauty. Destructive mothers are very hard to overcome (speaking from experienece) but with God's help, far from impossible so that you become an even greater version of yourself than you ever could be otherwise - God bless you, hope, God willing, I can meet you one day.

[@writeract2]

@@robssimmons8670 Robyn, I sent you a reply but no longer see it, hope it did not get deleted! :).

[@jodydugan6690]

Thank you so much for all you do. I love your beautiful videos of real people in real places and life’s lessons and wisdom that are revealed in each one. Truly a joy to watch each one. Thank you thank you. 😊

[@ReflectionsofLife]

Our pleasure! We are glad the various speak to you. Thank you so much for supporting our work, we appreciate it a lot. Much love, Justine and Michael 💚