Truth is no one's opinion matters to you when you know yourself deeply and clearly. Shadow work is what you really want to try.
@MeibytheLake23 күн бұрын
@@LuvOfLalaland yes when we get aware of our inner self( which is usually oppressed) even from a tiny gap, we might realize it’s shadow work we need.
@LuvOfLalaland22 күн бұрын
I'm referring to Google ‘shadow work prompts’. To truly love ourselves, we must prioritize our needs-our feelings, likes, dislikes, boundaries, and emotions-the list goes on. Once you grasp this concept, you will move forward with confidence in your self-image, your artwork, and your relationships with friends and potential partners. When you have mastered that, your inner world will become untouchable. I recommend the book “Attached” if you haven't read it yet. It's crucial to understand your attachment style, as this awareness can clarify the endless arguments you may have had with the ex. This understanding is an important part of your healing process. Everything that happens matters to your subconscious mind, which may feel oppressed. Shifting these feelings towards happiness and light is essential for welcoming a new chapter in your life.
@LuvOfLalaland22 күн бұрын
@@MeibytheLake I'm referring to Googling 'shadow work prompts'. To truly love ourselves, we must prioritize our needs-our feelings, likes, dislikes, boundaries, and emotions-the list goes on to nourish the insecurity. Once you grasp this concept, you will move forward with inner security and confidence in your self-image, your artwork, and your relationships with friends and potential partners. When you have mastered that, your inner world will become untouchable. I recommend the book “Attached” if you haven't read it yet. It's crucial to understand your attachment style, as this awareness can clarify the endless arguments you may have had with an ex. This understanding is an important part of your healing process. Everything that happens matters to your subconscious mind, which may feel oppressed. Shifting these feelings towards happiness and light is essential for welcoming a new chapter in your life.
@LuvOfLalaland21 күн бұрын
@MeibytheLake I'm referring to Googling ' shadow work prompts.' To truly love ourselves, we know to prioritize our needs-our feelings, likes, dislikes, boundaries, and emotions-the list goes on for nurturing the insecurity. Once you grasp this concept, you will move forward with inner security and confidence in your self-image, your artwork, and your relationships with friends and potential partners. When you have mastered that, your inner world will become untouchable. I recommend the book “Attached” if you haven't read it yet. It's crucial to understand your attachment style, as this awareness can clarify the endless arguments you may have had with an ex. This understanding is an important part of your healing process. Everything that happens matters to your subconscious mind, which may feel oppressed as the norm. Shifting these feelings towards happiness and light as the norm is essential for welcoming a new chapter in your life.
@MeibytheLake21 күн бұрын
@ thanks for the perspective! I have googled shadow work prompts but I’m wondering why prioritizing our feelings would lead to insecurity? For attachment type, I have studied that since sth going wrong with my marriage. I was a bit of an avoidant attachment then and have grown to secure personality. I would say the growth is rooted in my self awareness which is one of the reasons why I share my experience and feelings here. I hope my insight could help ppl in similar situations.
@st.charlemagne999025 күн бұрын
Sometimes it’s easy to forget to show ourselves the same patience we give others. Thanks for the perspective!
@MeibytheLake25 күн бұрын
@@st.charlemagne9990 I’m glad this video works as a reminder🤗
@deathocalypse7 күн бұрын
this is so comforting, thank u for this
@sarah-ip9xx15 күн бұрын
This is the most warmest Video I have ever watched. I can not explain it otherwise. Thank you so much for your words.
@MeibytheLake15 күн бұрын
@@sarah-ip9xx So glad you like it! Efforts paid off because of your words ❤️
@mfgn30920 сағат бұрын
I Love this, thank you so much this is so warm ✨️🥺 and this honestly changed my perspective
@MeibytheLake7 сағат бұрын
@@mfgn309 happy to know that it helps❤️ wish you all well
@connieh254824 күн бұрын
I have always been harsh on myself to a point where I am not familiar with kind words to myself. And when I would try, I would cringe. And I realize that I would seek validation from others so much that it hurts them too due to my negativity. But I have been wanting to change that. This video clicked something in me. I'm not as bad as I think. Thank you for providing this perspective. I nearly cried. Lately I graduated university and went through heartbreak. I feel so lost, but it its comforting hearing someone older with this advice. I hope someone told you I'm proud of you today. I wish you a happy life!
@MeibytheLake24 күн бұрын
@@connieh2548oh dear, let me hug you. We are the same type of people being too harsh on our selves. I felt the same when I first thought what if I am not me but my daughter? I felt a lot of grievances and nearly a sense of being wronged for a long time. I felt being seen by myself. This will past, no matter how lost you feel at the moment it will past. When you realize you’ve been harsh on yourself that means you have seen yourself now. Everything will turn better and better from this point. I wish you find peace soon and I know you will.
@dilekalgir55469 күн бұрын
👏🌼
@shrutipatil234221 күн бұрын
Could resonate and empathise with each and every word you have uttered.
@MeibytheLake21 күн бұрын
@@shrutipatil2342 thank you! This is the best applause❤️
@HVM5559 күн бұрын
Thank you dear young women. I am a mother & grandmother, accepting who I am instead of looking at some of my unhappy past. It was so heartfelt to listen to your video. Gratitude. 🌎🙏🌎🙏
@MeibytheLake9 күн бұрын
@@HVM555This is such a warm comment. When older, wiser people tell me you like my content, I feel that the life lessons I’ve figured out are valuable and worth sharing. I’m glad we’ve both found our own paths and accepted who we are.❤️💕
@Maddy-e5v6 күн бұрын
All I want to say is this I am with you Meiya.. 💕
@MeibytheLake6 күн бұрын
@@Maddy-e5v 🥰❤️
@solindasol17 күн бұрын
The title says it all ❤
@treeofparadise961919 күн бұрын
Thank you for this. I love painting also, especially Claude monet..
@mindfullybeautiful20 күн бұрын
such a beautiful video
@Sadia_AustralianJourneys21 күн бұрын
You made me hooked and like your video within first 1 minute. The words are so captivating, the channel is so underrated, but I am sure I can watch you grow ❤, amazing presentation 😍. Sending you lots of love. Thanks a lot for choosing to share this immense words.
@MeibytheLake21 күн бұрын
@@Sadia_AustralianJourneys it’s so nice getting up reading your warm words! I feel energized. Wish you every success in Australia🥰🥳
@AbdurRahmanYoutubeSEOexpert26 күн бұрын
This video truly warmed my heart. Every child should hear this-they are precious and unique. Thank you for sharing!
@MeibytheLake26 күн бұрын
@@AbdurRahmanKZbinSEOexpert this feedback also warms me. Thank you!
@AbdurRahmanYoutubeSEOexpert24 күн бұрын
@@MeibytheLake Hope more videos like this from you. Your every video is creativity and inspiring. Your presentation quality is amazing. I appreciate you.
@MeibytheLake24 күн бұрын
@@AbdurRahmanKZbinSEOexpert thank you so much for this encouragement. i am like 200% motivated 🤠💪❤
@AbdurRahmanYoutubeSEOexpert24 күн бұрын
@@MeibytheLake Your guided instructions bring so much calm to viewers! 🙏 I specialize in helping channels in the mindfulness space grow their audience and improve viewer retention. If you’re interested in exploring how to maximize your reach and impact, I’d be thrilled to share some strategies with you. Let’s connect!
@MeibytheLake24 күн бұрын
@@AbdurRahmanKZbinSEOexpert thank you but I am happy with what I am doing now.
@Chuuchuu026 күн бұрын
😮 wow moving story .. you understand time very well.. i hope mai is good your painting was like two friends .. there back of the heads looking into the horizon is what i got .. alwqys enjoy your content and voice 😊😊
@MeibytheLake26 күн бұрын
@@Chuuchuu0 thanks a lot for your encouragement! Haha that’s an abstract painting practice. Haven’t played with watercolor for so long……
@VICHI-XXED24 күн бұрын
Its masterpiece, i already see all that millions of followers in her chanel, give it some time and that will happend, thank you❤
@MeibytheLake24 күн бұрын
thank you so much for your generous encouragement to a little youtuber😘 lets keep growing together❤
@Chuuchuu026 күн бұрын
Art why choose is even i have computer music and other hobbies art is something i always wnat and miss 😊