Racial Preferences On Grindr | What The Flip Season 2 Ep 3

[@enderwiggins8248]

I really love the host! She's really good at having the guests explore the topic while putting her own thoughts too. Also the guests so far have been really interesting and articulate. Love the content!

[@aeonjoey3d]

couldn't have said it better, good stuff

[@daveha4445]

Like I love her

[@xrmoff]

is she a she or just fem/cd?

[@xiweizhou123]

i love the host

[@RichardsTruth]

same

[@bmark8783]

she is the best

[@blAckg0D]

yessss

[@ramonsarino556]

I love kanon spackman

[@ramonsarino556]

Kanon can u be my BF?! ':)

[@catharticreverie]

"If you have Latin, Asian, Black friends and they don't talk to you about race, you don't have Latin, Asian, or black friends. Those are people that you know." woof, that's scalding

[@BeLikeNexus]

cathartic reverie I haven’t heard anything more stupid in my life

[@catharticreverie]

that is exactly why your poc "friends" don't trust you.

[@MrTacasio]

I'm glad there's a platform to listen that conversation. Because in the mainstream media....you don't get to have that level . That was full of good things. And I watched my self checking how much time left at that video because I didn't want it to end.

[@brentduanefoster]

cathartic reverie Like I always say, “The truth ain’t never been a beauty queen!”

[@chase5682]

This doesn’t make any sense.

[@ln664]

I'm black and you're blocked😂😂🤣🤣😂love it!!!

[@enderwiggins8248]

The guy on the right was super eloquent and insightful while also recognizing how his background played into his perspective. Cool dude!

[@dantetempest9585]

he's a soyboy

[@GayDracula_]

@@dantetempest9585 I was waiting to find someone who believed soy gives people high levels of estrogen. Because ew women right? *pure idiocy* Go back to your Jordan Peterson god.

[@GayDracula_]

@@eleusinia I laugh.

[@eleusinia]

@@GayDracula_ That is usually what halfwits do when they are confronted with harsh truths. Well that, or cry.

[@GayDracula_]

@@eleusinia Edit: You see, I laugh at stupid ass shit. I actually engage in conversation when what is stated be it truth or opinion is actually smart, or at least productive. You're glorifying an old white guy who worships lobsters and sounds like kermit the frog.

[@alice-ij7fu]

"Queer agenda cheerleader" I love it!

[@cloudofreverie786]

White guy is actually woke af.

[@SearchingForTimothy]

Cloud of Reverie Yaaaassss. I am feeling him. Is it a fetish if I like “woke” White boys.

[@onepunchboi1962]

@@SearchingForTimothy Yes stop it

[@cloudofreverie786]

@@SearchingForTimothy not really. He only happens to be white but you like him mostly for his intellect. Can you fetishize social consciousness? It is only a fetish if you only like him because of a facet of himself (his race), even if you dont really know him in the first place.

[@enderwiggins8248]

He seems really cool

[@finntran1672]

Who said white ppl cant be woke? The fuck?

[@someone-go8ee]

Wait I'm sorry who TF said she doesn't look Black like....😵

[@Samuel115s]

She's quite light skin and has a mixed look. To me she dose not look like your typical black.

[@Social_Pugatory]

Exactly she looks like one of my cousins. (All black af)

[@swithreve7071]

She looks latina a little bit

[@Gee-xb7rt]

People with a Latin fetish, she could pass as Caribbean, who are mixed anyway. A lot of white boys have race fetishes.

[@someone-go8ee]

@@Samuel115s idk man...she looks black af to me. Like yeah shes lightskin but so is Mariah Carey and I don't see anybody dismissing her Blackness

[@hindashfadi]

"what are you gonna do? jump through the screen?" LOL

[@thefutureA]

The host gives me life y’all. I love how she’s sex positive and also asking really important questions to get to know everyone. Loving this series. :)

[@compassion4833]

You're just a pervert

[@TimothyEspinosa]

The host is fantastic!

[@TimothyEspinosa]

That final message!! 🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@danachos]

As a gay man, it took me an embarrassingly long time to realise that we were not all talking about the British news series when referring to BBC. Even with the text:photo alignment, I thought it was some weird BBC-related in-joke. Then again, it was only last year I realised smh does not mean 'suck my head' (which, yes, made no sense)

[@cornellious45]

I know I’m like so many months behind but, I use to think the same thing. I grew up never hearing that expression except for when I watch the BBC and, I didn’t start getting into the apps until I got in to my late 20s so, when I would see that I was was really confused until I had to ask someone about it

[@vahtito]

Arisce said “this woke white man” to me with her eyes 5:56 LMAO

[@shamargreene1316]

The "No blacks, and Asians" is the most common messages displayed on some simple minded degenerates profiles on grinder. Big Yikes! Share the Love, not the hate.❤❤❤❤💞💞💞💞💞❤ We're all beautiful

[@Gee-xb7rt]

Just do this -- put "if its white its not right" on your social media, and all the white boys will be like "that's racist!"

[@claudwong1106]

I've been using Grindr for a long time and I saw 'Prefer Asians/Asians only' more than 'No Asians' LMAO.

[@aeonjoey3d]

[@mervdapervert]

I put "no masc, whites or skinny folk". Never have I had so many uptight white guys tell me I was racist haha. I then pointed out for them to reread it and realise it was satire and that I hope they also get up guys who post the opposite of that.

[@depressedgaysassyitalianre5748]

Shamar Greene I once seen a profile that said “No femmes, no spice, no rice, no blacks, no fats” and said to him “wow you’re really welcoming” lmao

[@joelmunoz8571]

The white guy's top is cute af where can I get it?

[@1bwash]

Joel Munoz you can actually make shirts like that yourself. If you flip up the collar on any button up skirt, there is a stitch right around the neck. It’s very easy to cut out/off.

[@tobypearce6109]

they're called grandad collar shirts

[@joelmunoz8571]

@@tobypearce6109 thanks how long have they been trending?

[@ParisAlexandros]

They're also called Mandarin collars too btw

[@pseudopulk3478]

he's a top?

[@louismartinez5552]

Are we all going to ignore that Kanon profile said "open Relationship". Personal i think this would be great topic for a episode and the stigma it comes with.

[@LorenzPCHOP]

Arisce Wanzer is such a gem 😍😍😍

[@benjamint2606]

I think the line between preference and prejudice falls on how you go about conducting yourself with people of certain races you aren’t particularly attracted to. If you are respectful and say you aren’t interested to someone who you aren’t attracted to, I don’t think that is being prejudice. If you are adamant about making these people feel bad about themselves because they messaged you, that is prejudiced. You shouldn’t have to talk to someone that you’re not attracted to. I don’t talk to women on dating apps, it doesn’t mean I hate women. You can’t control the feeling of attraction therefore I don’t think it can be considered prejudice. If you are intentionally disrespectful to people outside of the races you find yourself liking, that is prejudice.

[@countgreg95]

exactly

[@KaiDecadence]

This is pretty much the golden answer. It's all about how you reject the person. A simple "Sorry, I'm not interested" suffices instead of going into specifics but if the person is one of "those" people who will keep heckling you until you answer, well they put themselves in that spot to hear the blunt truth. Because at the end of the day, one can still treat those they aren't physically attracted to as fellow people of society. I mean, I'm not attracted to fat people but that doesn't mean I wouldn't be friends with a fat person. It's pretty much the same deal. You have to find the right match for you, that's really all dating comes down to and I'd much rather be with someone who wants to be with me over someone who's just dating me to be Politically correct.

[@danahops6841]

"I already know, because that same group wants me." *uncomfortable laughter*

[@christianpaz6666]

The host is so real, I just love it; I like how she tries to make/understand moral judgements but also keeps it super real and admits our faults (like how we don’t mind being fetishized sometimes) I don’t know, it’s just refreshing to not be preached to during stuff like this. Overall, 10/10

[@KaiDecadence]

Hm if that's the case, then why didn't she ask the black guy about his dating preferences/leanings? Now that would've been a good question.

[@mellowmuffin6645]

Him: BBC? Me: I love David Attenborough...

[@archwayofcesar]

watchu gonna do jump through the screen? anyway

[@likedmyowncomment3547]

Eh if someone is racist I don't see any point in wanting to date them anyways. As a black latino, if someone has "no blacks" I'm happy they let me know to block them 😁. Honestly make it easy for me!

[@brentduanefoster]

LikedMyOwnComment True, indeed. However, I think it goes deeper when you have groups of people going through similar experiences. It brings attention to a deeper problem. That said, if you have a preference, you had better have a full understanding as to why you have that preference. Most folks are afraid to be honest about that, because it brings some pretty uncomfortable realities about themselves to the surface.

[@jeffmorse645]

That's the whole point of being upfront. Not everyone wants to date my pasty ass either and that's fine with me.

[@caraqueno]

@@brentduanefoster Boy, did you say truth! I'm glad someone spoke out about how our attractions are created by us, based on our "imagos", the set of messages, experiences, and behaviors that we all saw our parents, relatives, and communities engage in as children. That imago informs who we are attracted to. We are also conditioned by media to aspire to attract who will make us look gobouod in society. Most of us don't want to take a look at that imago for fear of; uncomfortable realities about how race, color, and social class inform who we are attracted to. As "part of the conversation'", we need to talk openly about why we have the attractions that we do and how those attractions limit or define us.

[@brentduanefoster]

Mr. LA Tours I wholeheartedly agree. Failure to do so will only set us on the same path of other social groups. It’s ironic that so many within the LGBTQ will declare to the heterosexual community, “We’re just like you.” To that I say, “Yes, we are, and in many ways, that’s NOT a good thing.”

[@armanpierre-charles5303]

Shit. I love every flavor of the rainbow. All that matters if that person have amazing personality, respectful, courteous, loving, passionate, has a plan, and positive outlook color doesn't exist in my eyes.

[@drewsy4788]

yo HMU :P lol

[@armanpierre-charles5303]

@@drewsy4788 Seriously who what's miss out with all guys who could be very fun, even if it's only a short moment

[@LaineIsNotReal]

Taste the rainbow hunny

[@armanpierre-charles5303]

@@LaineIsNotReal 😋 And I'll enjoy!

[@drewsy4788]

@@armanpierre-charles5303 so HMU...lol :)

[@thedeepdarkwebb]

This was hands down one of the most constructive conversations about racial profiling. Great work!

[@alex9471]

These conversations are so important. I’m so grateful for this channel.

[@amhk5918]

My racial preference is if you're racist I won't date you honey

[@fredocarroll]

A good preference. I actually like it when guys post, "No blacks or Asians." Thank you, now I know you're racist and not worth a second of my time. That said, I'm white. I'd hate seeing those messages as a person of color, so I'm also glad that Grindr is cracking down on them.

[@MoutainCity]

I'm a take that to heart, "if I dont have friends of color who talk about race, I dont have friends of color"

[@angelmora3660]

Give this host a raise! She is everything.

[@BD92]

The host is AMAZING! So natural, positive, engaging and beautiful. Nothing but the best for you and your platform.

[@nuncamais1985]

I love what the flip, the whole thing! The topics they discuss, the light approach on the subject and mainly Arisce's wit. She is an amazing host!

[@setra-8769]

The best (and possibly the only good) content Grindr has ever produced

[@Doudle6]

*_"Clean your fucking rooms"_* - Arisce 2019

[@DINJARIN-t4w]

Yaaaasss, this needs to be addressed. Good job!

[@starside7]

Kudos to the host, she's doing a very good job! The two guys as well!

[@TheMulle999]

I do believe that there are preferences that are created by social norms, depending on where one grew up etc. But I also know that it doesn't necessarily control who you fall in love with. You may firmly believe that you have a strong, specific preference, and then fall flat on your face for someone completely different.

[@freebitchmon]

The whole point of dating is EXCLUDING people and picking what you find the most suitable person according to your PREFERENCE. There are attractive people in every ethnic or racial group, but some people just prefer a certain race, THAT'S NOT RACIST. Just don't be an asshole about it.

[@brentduanefoster]

Christian The thing about preference is that it is birthed from our social conditioning and experiences. Education, or MISeducation about people, places and things. Here’s the thing. What is programmed can be reprogrammed. Some people just choose to remain where they are in consciousness, because it’s somewhat comfortable.

[@TheFeltonLover]

exactly. dating is the only time when it’s 100% okay to exclude people. you don’t owe anyone access to your body/romance. everybody isn’t attracted to everything and that’s fine. this demand that everyone’s dating desires be inclusive of everyone otherwise you’re a bad person is ridiculous. i don’t like short men or men who do drugs. am i shortphobic for that? am i drugs-phobic for that? people need to grow the hell up.

[@alexandria-paul]

I love this video!!! We need more discussions like this in the gay community.

[@athlete_sorts4498]

Don’t comment often. This was a great chat, in depth and needed. Keep this type of content coming.

[@Yaaassssssssss]

Thank you for extending the length of the what the flip videos. I am enjoying them so much more, getting more perspectives, loving your quips, and getting deeper lol on the topic.

[@thevampanezelord]

I love this video, I love Arisce, and I L O V E her ending message that if your friends of colour don't talk to you about race, then they're not your friends.

[@funjonny4957]

Her content is amzing. She keeps it real and she’s hilarious. The topics also are helpful, relevant, and important. 👍 hell yas baby

[@callofyoey9926]

Excuse me Miss Wanzer, you are my spirit animal. Thank you for bringing these conversations to the gay community. You’re a beautiful soul. Love you sis 💛

[@windrunner9158]

I feel like I prefer men that are hispanic(especially Ecuadorian) because I myself am Ecuadorian, and it's just so nice to relate about things such as upbringing, food, family traditions, , music, culture etc. I think it's because I feel familiar to them so I just am attracted to them. I think I might have a prejudice against all other races because I feel like I won't "get" them on a cultural level and they won't "get" me. Thank you for provoking me to question whether I have preferences or prejudices. I am going to challenge my beliefs to explore people outside of my comfort zone and hopefully learn more about others and about myself.

[@guntherstewart8941]

There are black and white Latinos

[@themonsterwithin4000]

@@guntherstewart8941 And mixed Latinos too

[@akeemrollins2327]

Thanks, Arisce. You are so lovely, insightful, funny, and bomb af. You really are opening eyes and minds.

[@DirkAustin]

Yass! Shes back! Love her!

[@sharjjahnaziz4122]

I love her !!!!! I want her to be my best friend !!!!!!

[@ageoflui]

*GASP* I LIVE FOR THAT MOMENT IN 2:52. The host is amaaaaazing. We need merch from them.

[@loganpickering6519]

This show is great, talking about the complex issues that a lot of people can/do ignore. I really love it! Also, Arisce Wanzer damn girl you are so great to watch your personality shines through.

[@izzy3204]

I love Arisce Wanzer and What The Flip, do moree!!!! xo

[@slightlyokay9150]

The more I watch her the more I’m attracted to her. My god what a personality!! 🤭

[@FuzzyBSMcgee]

That last statement was perfection. You summed it all up 💫

[@JeremyMYG]

Good conversation. The more awareness the better!

[@rosalocalinda]

I have no racial preference honestly. I find people of all races attractive but I always was careful that if I dated someone from certain cultures, to establish if they believe things that are common for that culture. For example, I'm half white and half Mexican. Latino men tend to like me but if I was considering dating one, i'd have a conversation to make sure that they don't believe in some of the unhealthy stereotypes and gender roles that are prevalent in Latino culture.

[@Silverythoughts]

This was wonderful. Great Host!

[@XanderBeckett1]

As a gay male POC who has been significantly affected negatively by white gays, I am totally convinced things won't change and that POC must only fight back with our own racism to make others experience our plight. So sorry to say it, but it's how I spread awareness and make myself feel better too, and I will never change my stance. I openly discriminate against white gays socially and sexually, and when they realize it, they become upset and truly understand the pain.

[@coomcake]

Crab mentality

[@XanderBeckett1]

@@coomcake justice mentality

[@Not-Ap]

@@coomcake You may think it's brutal primitive way of fighting back but it really does work. To control wildfires in nature firefighters start there own smaller controlled fires to burn up all the fuel and suffocate the other fire. I believe it can work with racism too much the same way it works nuclear weapons. If all countries have nuclear weapons then no one can use nuclear weapons or we all die.

[@Chevybee765]

The host has me so weak 😭😭 “Picssssss.....who’s haunting this profile?? 😂

[@hey34]

Love Kanon, he's 100% himself and it feels comfortable and genuine.

[@RichardsTruth]

I love this

[@ЕлизаветаСамушева-т3х]

I like this channel. The host is really charming. Keep doing what you are doing!

[@amhk5918]

I'm only here for Arisce

[@enderwiggins8248]

AMHK this is the only comment I full heartedly agree with on every aspect

[@dennisblackwell4723]

Great video! An important conversation that needs to continue.

[@antwanpena171]

Race isn't a preference there are ugly and cute guys in EVERY race because we are ALL different

[@jc-zy8xt]

Omg ! The next Wendy Williams !

Oh god the hostess' legs are BEAUTIFULLL!!!

[@thelessimportantajmichel287]

“I definitely have a type. I love thick eyebrows.” The other two guys look down 🥺

[@michaelberger362]

"Sounds about white" Arise is perfect can we just appreciate that pun rn?

[@cjscott5915]

7:17 i spat out my water 😂😂

[@KaiDecadence]

Er no. Dating is absolutely exclusionary in nature, you go for what you find attractive and vice versa with the partner. What people need to realize (but they don't) is that some people are attracted to certain things and race absolutely plays a part in it too. For example, some guys aren't attracted to Asians because they tend to be shorter or they're not attracted to their facial features (and don't give me that "not all asians have certain facial features like slanted eyes" because unless the Asian is mixed, they will have it). Or for Blacks, some aren't attracted to dark skin as it does nothing for them and they prefer paler/fairer skin color. I mean I'll be real here, I don't have racial preferences but I do tend to slide towards non-black guys because a lot of black guys who try getting at me are ghetto/street and I find that to be an absolute turn off (and this goes for any race ("wiggers"), I'm just not attracted to that type of mentality) but also because I have not a whole lot in common with the average black guy who does get at me. I'm also not attracted to fat, overweight, or obese men neither and it's not because "the media tells me it's bad", I just don't find it physically stimulating and I felt this way even before I knew what gay was but I was attracted to the same sex when I was a kid. And finally, I just find it hilarious how all this expectation falls on white people but it's totally okay for a Black man to only date Black men or Asian men to only date other Asian men. Either all of it's wrong or none of it is, you don't pick and choose what's convenient for you/your agenda. Because what the white guy said in the video about when he dated his Chinese ex also plays a part in dating. Familiarity. Some people just prefer to be in a relationship with those they can relate with. It's really no different when an Asian man prefers to date another Asian man because of shared experiences and/or background. White guys can be in the same type of sphere and it doesn't make them racist for it so long as they still treat the minority as a person in daily interactive life. The main reason I feel this way is because it's very obvious why this topic is still going on today and that is because a bunch of minority men get pissed when they get turned down by a white guy and you know it's because deep down, they prefer white men. How many gay Asian men do you see chasing after Black gay men? Or Black gay men chasing after Asian men. The latter is probably more common but the point I'm trying to make here is that it all comes down to them preferring White guys but when these White guys prefer other White guys, it's seen as a problem yet the minority in question is no better because he's mostly chasing after a certain kind of man themselves. Let's not beat around the bush here because if there were just as many Black or Asian men chasing each other, this wouldn't even be a thing of discussion or at the very least, not as prevalent as it is today. TL;DR: Just let people date who they want to date. So long as they aren't saying thingsl ike "I don't date niggers, chinks, japs, etc" and still are open to talk or have a conversation outside of the meat market of Grindr (which is a hookup app, not a "dating" app), there really is no issue. Now if we are talking about a gay club and a minority tries to strike up a non-sexual conversation with a white group and they just get scoffed away, THAT I can totally get behind and call out but if it's just dating/hookup then yeah... The only dating problem as far as minorities I can side with are the people who push their porn fantasies on people who don't fit the criteria and don't want to ("Blacks are all dom thug tops", "Asians are all subby bottoms"). I can totally understand the frustration there because even when you make it know that they don't fit these stereotypes, some people still try to push it on you and it's just annoying so for that, all I can say is keep that stuff to yourself unless you know for a fact the guy is okay being put in that porn stereotype. But anyway, that's just my 2 cents.

[@Thestandingturtle]

I'm at that point where I understand some people know what they prefer (even if those preferences are controversial) and no matter what other people say, they aren't going to change their mind. I just have to hope that I meet people who are more open-minded than that. I'd rather see someone as more than just their face value appearance because we're all humans who have more layers than just fat, femme, asian, skinny, tall etc. If you don't like me for any particular reason, then I'll just have to move on to the next dude.

[@santiagomoro2293]

The host is a star, she need her own tv program now about the issue, well people will always have their preferences and I don’t mind it until someone brings it up to me!! I do boys so y’all can come to mama 🕺🏾🕺🏾

[@christianbaldomero1133]

Love this series. Love the host.

[@MD-hw9tv]

This was too deep and you need your own late nite show for real

[@coffeemanic6566]

I so ♥ the host 👑

[@sonicvasquez4673]

No uncut or no body grooming. No frangance .No pnp no drama no animals etc..The laundry list goes on and on.

[@KittyIvie]

I cant relate on a race front, but as a "gothy", pierced, colored hair, busty woman I def understand the feeling of being fetishized. When I was on dating sites, I would get the occasional "hey, how are you?" but the majority was a "i love goth chicks" "your tits are huge" "youre fuckin dark and hot".

[@birnamdown]

The host Arisce Wanzer is great to watch and listen to. Love the pacing, articulation and honesty.

[@livvielov]

I legit almost cry whenever ppl talk about how they had to learn to find themselves beautiful bc they were told otherwise by media it's so sad that so many go through that and for so long

[@MDGtv]

I'm black and I prefer white guys. That's just my type. Obviously I think other black people are great but idk I just always liked white.guys.

[@scott7385]

I like how they admit that familiarity and shared background play a role in preferences. I just wish they would've said a white person can feel the same way.

[@ricardovaldez3573]

Do not ever call me spicy! That's all I gotta say!

[@mikasingh4782]

YASSSSSSSSSSSASS!!! I was eagerly waiting for this!!!!!

[@NM-tx7zm]

The topics are great and the host is amazing

[@FuzzyBSMcgee]

LOVED all of this dialogue. Great job everyone

[@hd92122]

The host is amazing, good convos, and glad topics like this are being talked about. The constant cuts every second don't need to happen, that was for 2010 KZbin

[@TheMillennialPlantDad]

This show needs an emmy. Periodt!

[@danielvmay]

This is my type of video. 10s, 10s, 10s across the board!

OMG this is such a good show, please don't stop

[@dannydnnvy]

love the host so much !!

[@luckeeleeyeo]

Whether people realize it or not, their "preferences" are rooted in prejudice, racism, or self-hatred. If all of the images of beautiful people you've been fed are all tall, pale, light eyed, have light straight hair, and muscular, you will begin to internalize these images and view these qualities to be desirable. Simultaneously, if every images of a person of color was the down-trotten (black/latin) or the comedic relief (asian) in media, you begin to associate this with being undesirable and begin to distance yourself from seeking out people of these races. The preference is the internalized bias that they've subconsciously succumbed to. This includes the white guy who prefers whites or the black guy who only dates whites. You mean to tell me that they can't find ONE PERSON in the ENTIRE RACE that they find attractive?!?! When they try to justify their preference, it only highlights their bias and how oblivious they are to it even more.

[@luckeeleeyeo]

@Britney Bitch What's your opinion on where they originate?

[@KaiDecadence]

That is such a cop out, cookie cutter answer though because sometimes, it does come down to genuinely liking something. I mean fine. As an American myself, if what you said is true then why do I think Asian men are just so very attractive? When it comes to other black guys, it's a case by case thing for me because a lot of the ones in my area who've tried getting at me were hood/street and it is the biggest turn off to me and while I know there are black guys who don't fit that mentality, they're rare in my area and most are straight a lot of the time but I digress. I just don't think it always comes down to self-hatred, racism, or prejudice. My non-attraction to a lot of black guys is not because I hate myself for the race I am because I've seen a good many black men I find attractive but at the end of the day, If I had to choose between a handsome black guy or handsome Asian guy who both had equally good personalities, I'd go for the Asian guy lol Some people are just attracted to certain things and it's not wrong because the important thing that matters is that even if you aren't attracted to a certain someone, it doesn't mean you can't treat them like a fellow human of society in terms of daily, non-sexual interaction.

[@luckeeleeyeo]

​@@KaiDecadence The fact of the matter is that in your mind, you've established a hierarchy of desirability. This is highlighted by the fact that your decision between two equally desirable candidates will still ultimately be based on race, as well as by your admission of fetishizing of all Asian men but choosing to take Black suitors on a case by case basis. That's problematic and superficial. Not all people that happen to live in areas that you describe have a "hood" mentality. Are there not "hood/street" white men? Isn't there a whole set of Asian gang members in LA? If you met one of them, it sounds like you'd still be into them simply because of their race which proves my point. If you are shutting out an entire group of men based on your sweeping generalization of how you've perceived them all to be, that preference is rooted in prejudice.

[@allureebene5111]

@@KaiDecadence Man your answer just proves how racist an d anti-Black you are ? You don't like Blacks in your area because they're "hood" ok but you would date hood Asians though... and would not date non hood Black men... Racist GTFOH

[@brentduanefoster]

luckeeleeyeo In other words, society.

[@Jreamz-ot2wi]

So I’m trying to see what’s up with ABC at 6:49 👀

[@aaronbynum8968]

This conversation was so exhausting but informing and enlightening

[@xlRenaiSSancelx]

24/B/M. There is still some racism on grindr. But but taking care of yourself and being fit will take you a long way...

[@freddy7534]

The host is mood all day everyday 😩

[@meggyspencer]

Ok I just love this, all the guests have been very interesting and smart people and the host is like the most hilarious girl on the planet.

[@internetpaper1]

*Damn this was actually therapeutic*

[@sedecim]

Loved the discussion and honesty dears. I suggest that everyone get off Grindr , - try reality for a while and learn how to flirt dears much healthier in the long run. It truly builds character

[@KaiDecadence]

Grindr is a HOOKUP app. It's not meant to find a relationship. It can definitely happen sure but it's not what the app was intended for. I don't disagree that it's probably better to try to learn how to flirt/show interest in person but at the same time, it's kinda dangerous if you're not in a Gay setting. But I digress, Grindr is what you make of it, it's not some evil sentient program that's out to mind control people or something like that lol.

[@jovienrobinson]

Ghost hitting on me: Piiics! Haha Thanks for the vid, it gave me some food for thought, and biases I gotta work through.

[@roachqueen1973]

Who told her she wasn’t black? Those ppl lied to her and themselves.

[@djg115]

This was dope. Think I know one of the guys you interviewed on the street.

[@lashon5671]

You just went to church on that t. Amen

[@GayDracula_]

Im going to have to use that ☕👀😂