Neil Strauss Picks Up Jessica Alba on the Jimmy Kimmel show PROVES The Game works!

[@davidshillito]

"Give me 10 minutes to talk away my ugly face & I will bed the Queen of France" ~ Voltaire

[@sanctuaryism]

or for queen and country...

[@LAZLOUFORIA1379]

Lmao I love that guy

[@tritile]

hahahahahaha I will write this one down for later

[@michaelmichaelagnew8503]

Was Voltaire beheaded by the Queen of France? Or by her husband for trying?

[@davidshillito]

@@michaelmichaelagnew8503 ~ No idea but it matters not, given you missed the point

[@arthurwatts1680]

Why does 2006 suddenly feel more like 1996 ?

[@jeremyw.5729]

Because 2009 became 2019.

[@arthurwatts1680]

OK - o is next to i on a qwerty keyboard, but I hear ya. @.

[@djcaron5202]

Yea it does have the nostalgic feeling

[@Ghouse666]

Wishful thinking...that's why

[@ciarandevaney385]

2006 was still in the 1990's in many ways

[@FranTheMan29]

notice how they were testing him like the whole interview, he didn't buy into the frame showing he's self assured and non reactive , good job

[@Andy_Arkadata]

I know, even the man was giving him shit tests lol

[@babayagajmw2953]

They werent tests. Jimmy really wanted to make fun of this guy. Jimmy is like that. He wants to be the better guy. Almost all of the show hosts are that way 😅

[@ankitnikunj3808]

@@babayagajmw2953 thats why joker movie made

[@Bearforceone]

@@babayagajmw2953 Jimmy has always been a prck. He is so arrogant and commonly insults his guests.

[@bluemystic7501]

@@babayagajmw2953 It's called a shit test and your social status is based on how you handle it.

[@Jack-xl5eq]

I fucking died when Neil zinged Jimmy at the end with the "Big cheesy guy" line.

[@RuiZavier]

What's funnier, he drew Jimmy into that one but it was Jimmy that punched himself. Priceless.

[@sirus312]

One could say he…won… the…game!

[@southamcaballero]

No, the guy seemed very defensive, instead of laughing at himself, which shows his insecurity

[@jimclaus1576]

Obviously Jimmy hurt his little feelings with the bald joke. Lol

[@nrspinelli]

@@jimclaus1576 what makes you think that? he just returned the same physical humor to show all fine and fair

[@Parodypeeeps]

lol he was doing his technique of ignoring her while talking to jimmy, not looking back at her

[@JaIch9999]

Parodypeeeps Yeah, and every woman over 14 knows the trick. This game is for dumb and imature people.

[@davethedm]

Parodypeeeps it’s a PUA “trick” to make them bring attention to themselves

[@MegaGliders]

Ja Ich no it’s for people who’ve grown up and saw the world for what it is.

[@MiguelGonzalez-yl5vf]

Doesn't every guest do the same exact thing when sitting in that chair

[@sebastiantrudel3084]

mira bien gil

[@beeatoms]

he just ran game on her and no one even knew it. strauss nailed it.

[@beeatoms]

diornotwar123 by her reaction she didnt think he was being rude. thats all that matters.

[@beeatoms]

diornotwar123 she was impressed. how was he being rude?

[@yosharian]

diornotwar123 Haha. Wow. The delusions run strong in this one.

[@Iam18]

He's not trying to pick her up, it's a fucking talk show.

[@beeatoms]

Iam18 he ran pickup lines on her. not with the intention to pick her up duh. it was used as an example. how hard is that to understand :-/

[@gusti1021]

"I'm in a two-set trying to neg the target but I get IOIs from the obstacle". He's describing the exact situation he's in.

[@jamesmarsh5288]

I got that too but I don't understand what IOS is?

[@gusti1021]

@@jamesmarsh5288 Indicators Of Interest. Verbal and non-verbal signals that someone sends to show that they are interested in you.

[@jamesmarsh5288]

@@gusti1021 Cheers mate. I just learnt something :)

[@AthletismeQc]

lmao, i just realized this

[@yole7390]

It shows Neil was acting in a very conscious way.

[@radar0412]

That actually works. The other day 5 women showed up at my door and said "Hey, I heard you don't want it!"

[@infinitydreamzz]

And then you said "that's right" and closed the door to their faces

[@cedricwilcox7583]

😂😂😂😂😂😭😭😭😭😭

[@Daladun]

If you've read the Game you know EXACTLY what he's doing, it's awesome. He says he isn't going to pick her up but he was doing it from the beginning of the video. Making her qualify herself.

[@AEO21Productions]

@@pashadyne I'm so sorry to inform you.. Daladium passed away last year.. He never procreated and thus has no lineage of DNA so neither him nor any descendants will ever answer that question for you :/ Also, thankfully he didn't die alone.. he had his whole community.. all of them single and also without children.. at his side (online in his computer) til his last day *tear*

[@AEO21Productions]

@@pashadyne lol, if they did then i pray to God their children have more a soul than they do.. they go about engaging with potential mates like if its a chess game.. the potential for true love and connection is squandered with this type of manipulation and scheming.. life doesn’t flow when these types of human behaviors are involved. I hope you see this for yourself.. if not yet, maybe check out true spiritual teachers like Alan Watts and Ram Dass.. they know the true powerful ways of living.. not chasing tail like a 7th grader in the school yard.. wanna be infantile?? Go for it.. want to be a God in the truest sense.. then find your inner Divinity

[@AndyTomlins]

@@pashadyne Daladun probably left college. Got a job. Started having to talk to women on an equal level. Started to respect them. Made female friends. Then one day met a woman through a friend that he had a spark with that didn't require an ulterior motive.

[@rafomic4210]

​@@AEO21ProductionsWho is daladium ?

[@inorite4553]

Jessica was absolutely interested in hearing more about Neil and The Game as can be seen that she felt compelled enough to ask him a direct question.

[@youngsuit]

Something important here: he confidently talked about his prior insecurities. The pick up artists back then didn't do a good job about talking about vulnerability but it takes big confidence to do that

[@Fokas-n8t]

The professional pick-up artists as well as dedicated amateurs were researching that stuff and they were testing everything and noting it down. They had quickly figured out that sharing insecurities, vulnerabilities as well as self-deprecating humour was N O T conducive to successful flirting. Sharing insecurities and self-deprecating humour were only conducive to becoming more likeable to a general audience only once one has attained considerable status, not when one is a nobody. At that point in 2006 Strauss was a successful journalist and writer and had trained with Mystery to become a pick up artist himself. His acquired notoriety worked for him, hence sharing insecurities or self-deprecating was gaining him likes, not endangering his status.

[@notexactlyrocketscience]

@@Fokas-n8t he sold a believable coherent narrative and painted a picture of his past. that lent him credibility. i think that's what he was there for.

[@lotuseater7247]

@@Fokas-n8t God listen to yourself. What a loser

[@bladeios6380]

Andrew tate before he hit gym

[@FrenchComprehensibleInput]

hahhahahaah good one

[@tamratchala6497]

This is funny😂

[@BWater-yq3jx]

Yeah I mentioned somewhere else over a year ago that Tate got his look from this guy.

[@K-aR-Oh]

Back then when he was Top Geek, then he took the "eek" off to become Top G

[@Overlorddz]

And when he had manners and social skills instead of anabolic brains

[@lorenzoalvarez8867]

The game helped me get thru a rough breakup with my long time high school girlfriend. After I read it, I was going out with a beautiful girl from a sorority in Orange County. This book made me realize that it’s not the end of the world and you can always find a new love in the most unexpected places

[@SGrosch]

similar story, but then I started coaching and helping others, and now remarried and happier than ever!

[@monkeydog8681]

Well I started with "can't even have eye contact in conversations". My UNI days were awesome thanks to this book. I don't consider myself a PUA but goddamn what they demonstrated there are some magical shit that actually work when used correctly.

[@xeno126]

The fact that the world's greatest PUA isn't hot in anyway and is actually a nerd is the biggest evidence that attraction is one of the most misunderstood things in society.

[@MrXavier0899]

EXACTLY. haha

[@jacobmufasa]

Xeno wat do you mean misunderstood? can attraction be recreate?

[@freddyr0]

jacobmufasa don't ask here, ask a Psychologist and you'll run to the bookstore all excited. Attraction CAN be recreated, and when it fails it doesn't mean you can't, it means you did it wrong.

[@jacobmufasa]

Freddy Rivero I cant create it :[

[@freddyr0]

jacobmufasa Friend zoned? What's the problem? Maybe I could tell you what I think..

[@andreachung396]

Loyal, reliable and hard working. She just named characteristics found in a dog!

[@nickangelo116]

A dog is man's best friend

[@TheVariableConstant]

+Andrea Chung You must know a lot of hard working dogs in your life!

[@roaringrid]

+Andrea Chung This is the best neg ever! I'm definitely gonna try this one.

[@veganhanz7391]

I dunno, i think most dogs are lazy

[@DrugzRKoool]

If only Neil had actually said that, would have been hilarious

[@CodyShreck]

Clever bastard was running game even as he sat down. The whole "I don't know talkshow game" simply disarmed the audience, jimmy, and especially Jessica for the rest of it.

[@1495978707]

Yep, a very big key to running game is not letting them realize it. It's like sleight of hand in magic tricks. Skilled magicians get people to think they figured you out so they are distracted from the real trick

[@bhalleck]

His first move; On entrance, he squeezed between Jessica and the table while shaking her hand, rather than taking the more natural path around the table.

[@CorrosiveColin]

The shirt over the shirt... Dear lord save me from this disaster.

[@Cittamatra]

Hes making a statement that it just doesn't fucking matter. If you're fearless and fun, it doesn't matter how you wear your shirt.

[@SuperAdityakaushik]

He’s peacocking

[@jsheav3n]

It was dark times for fashion

[@lionforlambs9167]

It's now eboy now

[@artemiauxreigns9971]

Boss Grade Award goes to...™🔥🐈❤️. 🥑🧐 AvocadoAvogado ™

[@caddencadden]

Neil did really well in this interview and dealt with Jessica and dealt with the host who tried to make fun out of Neil multiple times. The best thing he could have done was laugh at any piss take and that is exactly what he did

[@EmmettXIV]

yes, like the underhanded comment about his looks and that he should put his ugly mug on the book. oh a shot to Neil's self esteem but taken like a champ.

[@Ikaros23]

@@EmmettXIV Exactly. He was " amoging" him. When you read the comments you see alot of narcissists who are shaming him, and people who are desperat to get " likes". But most are to self obsessed to notice that he is actually playing with them right in this scene. The game is playing out all the time on both a consious and unconsious level. The game for attraction, and the need for attension. You can see the host trying to assert himself as the dominant male. But Neil outsmarts him by beeing realy humble instead of the narcissistic asshole they think he is ( But that he became in that period, but later worked hard to get out of). The sad part that most people dismissed, is that Neil whole point in the book was a confession of his struggle for self acceptance and that was the driving force to learn pickup. The hatred in society is 100 times worse today against men who want to learn to socialise and to be better with females. Culture has changed, technology has changed ( from calling,texting to dating apps). But the game is still the same. That is human nature is the same as it has always been.

[@jaylucas8352]

Jimmy was savage

[@ziyamc4847]

The first initiative he took was giving a very brief hello & walking past her. He then started with his immediate opener talking about his methods to spark the interest. Then crossed his right leg over his left, creating a barrier to block her out & turned more toward Jimmy. This sparked the need for attention. He kept his head straight & shoulders back. Everything was relaxed. He shows his teeth a lot when smiling & laughing. Used great conversation skills balancing a ratio of listening & talking when he was "given permission" to. He uses hand gestures with his palm up toward the ceiling. This is more inviting than palms down or pointing & looks rather intelligent.

[@BootyWonka]

Profile picture checks out. Hold this L, creep!

[@millionairemelly4164]

@@BootyWonka how is he a creep ? Clearly you don’t understand body language and psychology!

[@supernice_auto]

@@BootyWonka you have a low iq

[@serrael-182]

Still he seems like a creep. Im not a girl but i didnt feel the magic. They ran tests in a tc show the good locking pick up artists was as succesfull as the attractive reporter who didnt used any methods. There werr many sluts with boyfriends by the way. They behaved like they lookes. At another time the followed an unattractive pick up artist he failed completly.

[@youcryilaugh-m5z]

you are a nerd

[@alepalacios8908]

Im reading his book and is so incredible, Neil is a great writer.

[@SGrosch]

it really is a great book, much better than the follow up (which I am in) if you want to learn how to actually use that stuff you are reading about, hit up my site and learn

[@DAMfoxygrampa]

You're in the follow-up book? Which one, the truth? I've read that and it's really interesting

[@yunghung5388]

It just goes to show, you can be bald, skinny, and have the most ridiculous laugh on the planet and you can still have game.

[@teriyaki_chicken]

Yung Hung with the way he dressed too

[@senecanicholson1090]

It's not clothes or necessarily "looks". It's based on how she feels and the probability of mutual attraction...

[@poopydoggy]

He didn't demonstrate any game that I saw. Jessica Alba was constantly leaning away from him and subtly mocking what he said. I'm not saying that such a "game" doesn't exist, but he sure didn't pull it off.

[@reljasaurus]

yeah, cause fat guys with hair get all the girls

[@Earthad23]

Yung Hung yes and for some people it’s actually genuine

[@fifaztreet9571]

He laughs like Janice from friends

[@darrenwalshe8513]

🤣🤣🤣

[@toysvintage807]

And dresses like her.

[@alpermetegunes4661]

oow my good

[@JimmyJ1983]

😂😂😂😂😂😂👏👏👏👏👏

[@IafetCoto]

Whether or not you believe in pick up artist stuff, you hace to admit he handled this well considering Jimmy Kimmel had it out for him.

[@jaylucas8352]

He just roasted him a little bit he can take it

[@booboo4963]

Have you never seen a late night comedy tv show?

[@casualgerm]

The book "The Game" opened my eyes to a world i never knew existed 10yrs ago. I don't like scripted pickup lines as they're not authentic and creepy to use. but learning how to effectively communicate with people on a deeper level is what i really learned from the PUA community. That's something most self-help business seminars/classes fail to teach.

[@MonotoniTV]

Yeah stuff is really awesome. I also like that now it's more about being then doing. Because you can learn all the techniques and in the end feel like a fraud or you just learn how to be a great guy and are successful with girls or people in general

[@onizuka2307]

@@MonotoniTV Facts

[@MonotoniTV]

@Zurg Game should be complementary to your character. It shouldn't be who you are. Game is a tool. So you should fix yourself while you learn game

[@MonotoniTV]

@Zurg and then get fucked over in your 30s or 40s, marrying a woman who divorces you and takes half your shit, after taking your soul

[@MonotoniTV]

@Zurg it's Better to have the skills. You know, warrior in a garden and stuff It's ok to be mgtow for a while, but someday some girl will probably sweep you of your feet, better to be prepared

[@Malthizar]

All I'm going to say is, look at Jessica's arms at these times: 00:40 2:44 6:00

[@ХристоБояджиев-л4и]

Quite perceptive

[@Suchapill]

Hook Line and Sinker.

[@beastmasterbg]

I've noticed he made her say what else she has other than looks making her believe hes interested in her not her looks I think that got her

[@neotheftm]

@@beastmasterbg he was making her validate herself to him.

[@jackbrady9738]

Exactly well perceived

[@SacredSnipa]

Fucking genius, his game was so under the radar that none of the audience or the target even realised what was going on... Fucking epic and a little scary

[@Sean-mc4iq]

she is also an actor, and him being on this show is a publicity stunt to sell the book... so remember that.

[@t2na_]

True, but she's not a particularly good one

[@Sean-mc4iq]

***** it's a lot easier to act attracted to someone... She doesn't have to have an amazing range for this type of acting.

[@christopherg.8591]

Kapsproductions Yeah, but It's funny people ALWAYS say they must be actresses, he's got a hot girlfriend, OH THAT GIRL MUST BE PAYED TO ACT LIKE ONE, he makes infield videos, OH SHE IS AN ACTRESS, LOOK HOW THEY DON'T SHOW HER FACE, COULD BE ANYONE!, look he's doing it in fron of you in an interview... OH SHE'S AN ACTRESS ALREADY, SHE MUST HAVE BEEN PAID!! Always the same story

[@mayyn77]

Kapsproductions you said that like 10 times. What do you gain from this lol? Youre extremely insecure i guess

[@valerydelinois9850]

6:51 resumes it all. If you know what I am saying.

[@movie30000]

Such a rare thing, to see a girl like Jessica Alba to be so humble

[@mrcookie97]

Jessica Alba is right. That's what confident and successful men naturally and subconsciously do with people around them. I feel like those pick up guys ran like a bunch of science tests and hypothesis while seducing women, and simply adapted by doing a lot of the stuff that stimulates positive responses from people, and less of the stuff that makes people not like you. That's what you get when you release nerds off their computers and let them go in the real world lmao they just become good at another game

[@BeyondTheMind007]

you feel? lol thats literally how they study the science of things to get a desired result

[@A1RyRy]

I was thinking same. You feel. Lol. Try reading a fckin book lol

[@NallahBrown]

Lmao bye 😂😅

[@litjellyfish]

Yes and? This is exactly what it is. Making people with no social skill better at social interactions.

[@davidback2144]

They did. The book talks about precisely that. In fact, Neil describes them all (himself included) as nerds.

[@RexJ]

"As anyone who regularly reads newspapers or true-crime books knows, a significant percentage of violent crime, from kidnappings to shooting sprees, is the result of the frustrated sexual impulses and desires of males. By socializing guys like Sasha, Mystery and I were making the world a safer place." - Neil Strauss, The Game Simply put. It's a real life Hitch. Hey, it's either acting like this or the Jersey Shore.

[@5FT6MAN]

this couldnt have aged bettER

[@michaelregis1015]

*Elliot Rodger has joined the chat*

[@JediMindG]

Hitch came out AFTER these guys

[@fadesola2002]

or making money?

[@pushytub]

None of these things happen in a Buddhist monastery

[@rezopolis]

wait.... TWELVE YEARS AGO?? holy moly... this video is literally from the beginning of the PUA phenomena

[@PaulGaither]

Depends on what you mean. It went down around 2000-2005 before his book in the underground on forums and so forth. I followed David DeAngelo, as opposed to Mystery and the really scummy people. His book is why PUA became a "thing" to the public, as well as his two followup books, "the rules of the game" and "the truth".

[@supremeape2549]

"it doesn't last for ever" 16 years later and she is hotter than ever

[@SGrosch]

I’ve thought this too. But her and other top level chicks= age as we do. So I think our taste also ages a little at the same time. Until they crash!

[@melvinost8272]

​@@SGrosch that's an interesting point. Although I would hazard a guess young bucks find her attractive in that awful film trigger warning. Film is a 2/10, she's still a 10/10

[@louio]

​@melvinost8272 meh, she's just there now. So many younger and attractive women now days

[@melvinost8272]

@@louio oh man I thought she looked incredible in that film. but each to their own!

[@YuzuruA]

He is veeeery quick. In one second that he received the challenge, he instantly (and very subtly) diminished her (so you got lucky in the gene pool so what?) and defy her to be not "just beautiful", and to talk about herself.

[@iiDeaGLex]

tommy cane115 you seem very insecure about yourself commenting on everybodys posts shitting on the guy in the video. What this guys doing is basic psychology no need for the hate

[@redstealth9683]

@tommy cane115 what's funny is what your comment says about you more than anyone else 😎

[@nathanx.675]

Yuzuru A he is. I was skeptical at first but after watching this video I was sold

[@l1348]

LitErALLy

[@maxiscrubian4722]

Like intelligence isn't just luck in the gene pool...

[@stevet6665]

4:02 - He's making her qualify herself to him. Expert move, lmao.

[@mattis1307]

??

[@yqrose]

@@mattis1307 ¿¿

[@yqrose]

@@mattis1307 he’s making her tell him why he should try to get her😉.

[@BuzzKirill3D]

What's amazing about Neil here is that he manages to really "sell" the game to a somewhat conservative audience once again. He picks just the right words and examples to make the game seem like a gentle and noble art, rather than psychological manipulation. So that's a double layer of mastery right there.

[@spencerantoniomarlen-starr3069]

Most of the fundamental social dynamics PUAs train men in they learned from carefully observing how gorgeous women behave to men. For instance, "negging" is something they learned from hot chicks, girls neg guys all the time. You want to talk manipulative behavior?? Look no further than unusually attractive women in their 20s, the only difference is that qthey do these things innately. That and it is socially unacceptable to critique women for how to they flirt

[@spencerantoniomarlen-starr3069]

@@NEbluefire okay, absolutely nothing you claimed and assumed about me personally in your reply can actually be found anywhere in my comment you replied to. Do you think it's either reliable, or even okay to make sweeping assumptions and generalizations about someone you've never met? Who says I adhere to pickup guru's advice for getting women?? I certainly didn't!

[@Curiousonic]

@@NEbluefire Beauty is relative! Some are attracted to physical looks -- fit, average or chubby, pretty or ordinary, and others look for inner beauty. Also the words you use to describe pua's contempt for women actually describe your own contempt for pua's, which makes you equal. Fact is, all pua's are different. You are right, some of them use the pua techniques to get many women, but others, who have never dated before, use it only once to get the love of their life. I know one who did. And accusing him for hating women (???) is just unfair, like he is not worthy of love because he didn't know how to approach a girl. Most men are unprepared when they go out to chat up a girl. Their agenda is the same as a pua, except they don't know how to make a honourable representation of themselves. It is like going unprepared to a job interview. You can't do that. The pua techniques is a guide for men who doesn't know how to approach a girl -- where they get a chance to present the best of them before being rejected at face value. Everyone deserves love. Have some empathy.

[@PCProphecy]

@@spencerantoniomarlen-starr3069 Yes, agreed. I don't know what the other guy or girl is rambling on about; they literally proved your point about "socially unacceptable to critique women" as they proceed to immediately jump the gun and claim "you hate women" accusations for female critique, all sorts of negative assumptions with a couple of psychological manipulative tactics while pointing the finger.

[@ImAgentK]

@@NEbluefire Doing whatever it takes to win doesn’t mean you hate women. If you’re being mean to women in order to win in the dating market then you’re simply doing what it takes to win. You’re just saying they have contempt for women because you don’t like the fact that púas actually win with women and you’d rather see men just lose. Have you ever thought maybe men do these things because they feel like they have no choice?

[@openmind06]

I had his mp3's and I can say that if you have the confidence everything his says works and it's gold. Great Psycology!

[@complicated-antihero]

He did remarkably well under difficult circumstances. I kept waiting for him to slip up and slide into smarmy arrogance or have some kind of stuttering nerd breakdown, but he avoided both extremes and came off as kind of humble and likable, even when Kimmel insulted him a bit at the end. I think most PUA "gurus" would have pushed back, but he just rolled with it. Still think he threw away a promising journalism career to become a PUA huckster, but at least he's a competent PUA huckster.

[@hernandayolearyallda]

Prominent journalism career, he was no Dan Rather, he made more off of PUA huckster in his 10 years than most major news anchors will ever make in their lifetime.

[@galacticfanatic1912]

"Fraudster"

[@bricklawson9745]

Didn't you hear what he said his reason was for going into journalism?

[@Chris-T4]

I like how he takes Jimmys shots and turns them in his favour

[@ketodiet5766]

I was right at part this happens and it’s true

[@evolutiontail5697]

It's called agree and amplify.

[@Pyccan]

after reading the book and watching this interview. Everything makes sense. Everything style is doing is exactly what he teaches!

[@mrhernandez8256]

Yup

[@Catfishchristian]

Coming back to watch this in 2023 because Neil Strauss is the Goat!

[@monogameplay3]

Every bad quality you can find in Strauss makes his feats even more amazing.

[@theepicwolfnetwork5220]

SKADRIN 2020 squad up

[@cjh3062]

Shit is cool. Notice how Alba is subconsciously moving closer to him, and testing him, while Kimmel is insulting him (making it look to JA like he's trying too hard). Interesting stuff.

[@hondaissace]

Kimmel is the beta male hater in this scenario

[@derekbeal7829]

sure it's cool, but probably it only works for those who already know the game and want to increase their chance to get laid. @Ruben for starter, i recommend *"Rapid women seducer"* guide. they teach you step by step how to subconsciously seduce and attract women. It's pretty epic guide if you're a shy guy like me. I managed to overcome my fear on approaching women little by little.

[@philosophersstone2482]

She wasn’t attracted to him though. Men need to understand women put you into a friend or future date category seconds after meeting you, sometimes even laying eyes on you. If you’re in the friend zone, move elsewhere because attraction isn’t forced.

[@VanielDeeform]

No she wasn't fooled. She was laughing that him and his guys, when they aren't on the internet looking at Jenna jameson, they're in huddled in chatrooms. It didn't work on her at all.

[@MrKrushgutz]

VanielDeeform You sound like a hater because you hate guys that get the women that reject you.

[@TheBuckMagoo]

I love how effortlessly Neil deals with Jimmy's envy

[@g0tst1ngs]

Hahahaha envy? Over what exactly?

[@bigoofinthechat5496]

I kind of saw it that way at first and it may very well be the case, but we all forget Jimmy is a comedian and his job is to fill the quiet moments. He’s gotta have rapid fire jokes and often times they may come across as personal and mean spirited but he’s really just tryna do his job

[@Dopaminando97]

@@g0tst1ngs envy because Neil is ugly compared to him and even so he is able to pick up 100x more girls than he is, and prettier girls..

[@jaylucas8352]

Jimmy is way more famous, richer, and good looking but is envious of Neal’s aerodynamic hair style @@g0tst1ngs

[@jaylucas8352]

Lol @@Dopaminando97

[@ChattanoogaLife]

My gosh, this is recommended to me 18 years later. I remember this stuff from 2006

[@billmeisters6444]

The chilled walk - Style's magic (under the rader) The ignorance towards Alba in the beginning - Mystery's magic (don't go straight for the target) The hand movement during talk - Ross Jeffery's stuff The qualifying questions - Style's magic (make her work for it) The neg before questions - Mystery's magic The compliment after questions - De Angelo's stuff The comeback line towards Jimmy in the end - A classic Style-mogging Style = the most flexible PUA ever

[@mohitadlakha982]

Damn right

[@s.sterling6685]

holy fuck this is so sad. just get a girlfriend dude.

[@Sasasala386]

@@s.sterling6685 well man..there are people that don't have enough interaction with others or never had the opportunity to learn this things naturally as they should! don't judge so much, that's not your plac

[@DarthFurie]

This comment is really weird and cringeworthy... I like the internet as much as the next girl, but some people need to get off of it and go live their lives

[@wilmeralbert2908]

@@DarthFurie no man This man talk truth

[@dhomme83]

The techniques in the pickup community are all about developing your confidence. I used to try a lot of the pickup routines and ultimately I just ended up feeling empty. But it definitely develops your confidence - if you live life being afraid to do anything or go places you'll never do anything or go places, it's as simple as that. If you have the balls to just enjoy life &take new experiences as they happen. Just stop being afraid of what "could be" or "should be" and live in the moment

[@NattligMelodi]

Alba is showing all the signs of an interested women...WTF...this guy is good...

[@DaniMysteryZone]

Notice how her crossed leg is making a barrier. Basic body language that she has mental reservations.

[@ksum24]

2019 baby

[@ChaosSpectator2020]

@@DaniMysteryZone Funny how in the FBI crossing your arms or legs doesn't always mean they are holding something or shielding themselves because they oppose you. Not every gesture follows the textbook descriptions, human beings just happen to be too complex.

[@kevincosgrove948]

Shes only interested because he was announced as a pick up artist. If he was just some guy she met i guarantee she wouldnt care

[@chad2208]

NattligMelodi cope

[@savingferris9998]

After following this journey i have had amazing moments in my life. Met great girls, had great experiences, experienced my first kiss and more, experienced long and short relationships, had many memories and better bonds with people and also experienced devastating heartbreaks while still growing on the journey. It’s been great and i don’t know what else i can say. It’s a different reality and one i’m glad to be in

[@juanalvares11]

You only read the book ? Or payed online coaching?

[@duckncover182]

Definitely worked. Her eyes were fixed on him the whole time and he only looked at her when he was speaking directly to her

[@DigitalBath306]

dude shes a professional actor on a show

[@LunraStudios]

This man is a motivation for improving yourself.Not only in the pick up stuff but in the other chapters of your life.

[@g0tst1ngs]

Tf you mean he's cringey af 🤣🤣

[@jaylucas8352]

This cringey nerd lol

[@rejuvenator8966]

@@g0tst1ngs @jaylucas8352 And you're not? Looks like you just can't handle a "cringey nerd" being successful in life while you're still jacking off and pretending to be superior on a youtube comment section.

[@deeznuts4910]

2006 Jimmy Kimmel seems way more chill than 2020

[@EriPages]

This guy looking like this and SOUNDING that voice actually supports his book

[@SGrosch]

@@EriPages that’s why I kept the vid up! When I saw it years ago. It inspired me! If THAT guy can do it…

[@r3dp1ll]

My god he's so so badly dressed ...

[@LifestylewithAbby]

I know right! How can he pick up women with the voice and wardrobe of a 15 year old boy. I'm pretty sure his game wouldn't work on me.

[@papaxota4725]

Abby Banks 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@lepredator189]

Saying "...I'm pretty sure his game wouldn't work on me" is the exact reason why it would work.

[@pancakesandtea]

Lol I know right! The flared jeans haha

[@supaahflyy]

Lifestyle with Abby basically his 'game' is putting princesses like you in their place lmao. This society has made girls believe they are top shit because they look good and guys should run after that. He literally says to a girl I'm sure who's more beautiful than you that he doesn't give a fuck about her looks, what else can you offer and watch Jessica Alba get flustered causes she never had to think of that before as opposed to getting what she wants with her looks. Now she's looking at ways to impress him instead of the other way around. At that point you're done.

[@alexgalal5990]

Neil is obviously a legend at what he does don't get me wrong. But i think what really boosted him a lot is the whole process of "picking up" girls and him being projected as that whole image of being a legend at what he does- this guy will know that whatever he does will actually work because of this- his such high confidence makes him seem invulnerable, at the end of the day he isnt any different from anyone else- just more experienced and positive.

[@theS4V0Y]

No matter how much game he has... that laugh is brutal.

[@thyrassword9698]

It could be deliberate.. a strange laugh is often very disarming and humorous.

[@dude9318]

Lol

[@DigitalBath306]

he has no game

[@dude9318]

@@DigitalBath306 well he has a wife so

[@DigitalBath306]

@@dude9318 so?

[@ansgaar]

His laugh is priceless.

[@Enigmaprince]

Take notes guys. This is the actual top G

[@Captain_Of_A_Starship]

Pffft

[@ChrisBlackTV]

"What kind of girls does this work on?". That was an obvious congruence test, he clearly got her hooked.

[@Nickholast]

And biting her nails before that too.

[@hypergamyusa1376]

No it was a backhanded question. She was implying that she can see through his act and his "game" would never work on her

[@FamousIsComical]

@@hypergamyusa1376 that's what they all say lmao

[@hernandayolearyallda]

@@hypergamyusa1376 That is what a congruence test is basically, a shit tests. Think about it, when a girl says "what KINDA girl would that work on". We know women communicate through more indirect subtle language. So what is she trying to say here, what kind of girls on the sunset strip does this really work on? The implication here is it would not work on a high value movie star woman like me, maybe some low down bar ho. But she can't just come out and say it that way, so "What Kinda girl would that work on is a congruence test. Also trying to suss out if Neil will back down like a Beta and say it didn't work on pretty women or confident women, so she doesn't want to admit it is working on her if it works on mostly low value women.

[@Earthad23]

Kai yea she dated him and they fucked 1000 times right ?

[@JoeL-dp1ej]

Can't believe I found this 15 years too late

[@SGrosch]

It is NEVER "too late" i am still coaching new guys every day about this stuff, from 18 year olds, to guys who just got a divorce and are grandparents!

[@cpilfold420]

​@@SGroschwhat are some bullet points would you say

[@SGrosch]

@@cpilfold420 you don’t even have to just bullet point request. Tons of FREE advice on my site. thebravohood.com/blog

[@corynorell3686]

Oh man, I forgot the t-shirt over the dress shirt was a fashion trend. Those were the days man.

[@andresloubet]

Cory Norell nah man, glad that fashion is long gone

[@julianc6374]

And a striped longsleeve under a short sleeve meant you liked music

[@chris_sndw]

I will revive this tomorrow 👍

[@draconshot928]

@@chris_sndw so how'd it go

[@zooyhnahte]

@@draconshot928 They shot him in the streets.

[@michaelmichaelagnew8503]

She had a good question "What kind of girls do these tricks work on?" When they said Brittney Spears I almost laughed out loud because its probably true.

[@brettpilkington9539]

That was when she was the hottest female singer on the planet though, not knife dancing Britney.

[@Wingedmagician]

@@brettpilkington9539knife dancing brittney is hilarious

[@michaeljames6817]

@@brettpilkington9539 It was also when she was getting wasted at the clubs every single night.

[@louvretreekay12_]

The delusional comments about her suddenly being into him when she’s just having a polite conversation worried me even more than these nerd tactics 😂

[@zach5381]

Seriously, she's just playing along with the show, people who watch this stuff are in fantasy land.

[@louvretreekay12_]

@@zach5381 agreed. i’m beyond worried for this world

[@johnpulawski35]

😭

[@josejr.garcia2228]

You’re right. They won’t be into you if you tell them what you’re doing.

[@_A_G_1]

All these comments are delusional 😂😂 talkin bout omg he's the man! 🤣

[@acook213]

6:10 “All guys when they’re frustrated, they go to the internet.” 😬

[@christianpuga3921]

the less people read this book, the more valuable the information

[@Kali23Yuga]

6:50 biting her nails, doesn't even know she's been jackpotted.

[@juliozz59]

IOI

[@hernandayolearyallda]

Look how her body language changes between 0:37 and 6:05 she has her elbow on Neil's chair and her hand under her leg, leaning into Neil; 6:14 her hand touches Neil's leg by "accident" 6:51, biting her nail sexually while give Neil the I want to fuck you look and rubs her hands up her own legs

[@reyyanyildiz]

@@hernandayolearyallda wtf is wrong with you? The words you use to articulate yourself, you literally talk like a horny middle schooler...

[@SonTran-fq9nm]

@@reyyanyildiz lmao, he probably watched too much porn

[@thegorn]

hernandayolearyallda absolutely right - you are SPOT ON!

[@bitternCE]

"That's the future of dating." Alba predicts Tinder!

[@Zeaiclies]

It's all body language, psychology and confidence and a guy can really get any girl.

[@Manu-wb2uv]

You know what I've discovered when I watched the video?! That he is kinda ignoring her! Now I'm reading his book and I found this: "After approaching the group, he continued, the key is to ignore the woman you desire while winning over her friends-"

[@franciscomaldonado9559]

NimeniTv you had to read the book? He literally said it in the video.

[@Manu-wb2uv]

@@franciscomaldonado9559 Ya ur right xD

[@themarkus6472]

But how do you win over her friends

[@nathanx.675]

NimeniTv what if the woman is alone tho?

[@Тапи-щ7н]

@@nathanx.675 you should specifically look for groups and later try to isolate her. Its easier to win her over that way, than to look for girls who are alone. Also never approach a woman from behind. It's creepy.

[@jessealexander886]

I read this book in 2010-2011 and it transformed my life. I need to re read it.

[@appletechpro4u506]

How did it change ur life

[@Lostmusicvideos]

Sadly doesn't hold up as much in 2021

[@Piero0926]

@@appletechpro4u506 he got an STD

[@poyaochang3122]

@@Piero0926 Worth it

[@corey469]

Made my 20s absolutely amazing!! 😱🍆🍆

[@mitchharpenau786]

When Jessica started talking more and contributing to the conversation and asking questions that's when he had her.

[@salem730]

She probably gave him her number because she thought he was gay to be honest.

[@conandoyle1740]

He does look gay a little, the voice is what assured her he is.

[@lamart3857]

😂😂😂

[@OArchivesX]

Yea this shit is cringe and does nothing. Alba was laughing at how ridiculous it all is.

[@Osjey]

notice how he is completely ignoring jessica :D

[@gpapa31]

He is not ignoring her, he is just giving her the right attention necessary during a conversation within a group of 3 people when one of them is the interviewer who asks most of the questions and evidently should get most of his focus. When Jessica talks or asks the questions he focuses his attention on her. That's called being normal.

[@phoenixfaze1]

Read his book he is playin her like a fiddle

[@marcozolo3536]

If I were there I'd be completely ignoring all 3 of them too.

[@robi6317]

please he is being interviewed! he is looking at Jimmy because he is suppose to

[@painlife6799]

@Mike Roagression shame😛

[@nonenone-ik3ny]

The Great One showing his skills with an AFC next to him including the audience who at the end.... Witnessed the truth. Some will deny it, but he is the Father of the Game.

[@bigslice54]

My dad didnt teach me much worth knowing, but there were some gems. Such as...."women want what they cant have & what they can have they dont want." Other was, "you cannot think 1 way & behave another for very long."

[@jakemarlow8998]

Your dad is/was wise. It took me until 50 to finally learn the first lesson you stated.

[@nrspinelli]

you can break it down into a ``science`` but really all it comes down to is being genuine, honest, loving yourself and others, and being a good person

[@schmolywar]

The commenters are reading too much into this. I only see Jessica being friendly as she would be with any guest. There is no sexual tension here whatsoever. Neil has a forced laugh as he has heard most of what Jimmy says before.

[@traida111]

attraction is not sexual tension

[@canm7157]

@@traida111 without tension there is no attraction, but yes Neil has game

[@fallingleaveskungfu]

Oh, I love how he clapped back at loser Jimmy Kimmel at the end. FAFO Jimbo! 🤣

[@bplayerr1]

Read this book late HS. It works. 🤷‍♂️

[@booksteer7057]

I've read six notable books on success with women. Three were by pick-up artists, one was by a male historian, one was by a female psychiatrist, and one was by three women. It was amazing how much their advice overlapped.

[@booksteer7057]

@@handlewhatever Gladly :-) Christopher Curtis "Mack Tactics: The Science Of Seduction Meets The Art Of Hostage Negotiation" Ron Louis "How To Succeed With Women" Susan Eno "The Truth About What Women Want In Men" Robert Greene "The Art Of Seduction" Pepper Schwartz Ph.D Everything You Know About Love And Sex Is Wrong Mystery "The Mystery Method: How To Get Beautiful Women Into Bed"

[@user-ty9bq7kn4u]

Did it work for you?

[@antonbromley6447]

Book names?

[@joegambitt7414]

Names?

[@tpzlol]

it's fun to see how much the game has evolved since then.

[@IafetCoto]

Pray, do elaborate. I'd be really interested in it. Please?

[@DirtBlockGames]

Luke Liu just read the book "The Game" by Neil Strauss, then look at videos from RSD. Hard to describe the changes, but it is def interesting

[@Frederick0220]

RSD has moved completely towards inner game, essentially ditching outer game. It's too limited. Both are massively important.

[@josuastangl7140]

Frederick0220 Todd is fucking back!!!

[@Frederick0220]

You can’t kill a God, mah man! The Toddfather runs the game!

[@seadog2969]

This never gets old. Look at how much Jessica begins to physically cross over into his space.

[@EloquentlyEse]

She was leaning in before he even started speaking @0:53...

[@Phoenix1664]

At no point at all did she fancy him. She's on a talk show it's not like she had any choice. I think she enjoyed the subject and being part of it. I even think she enjoyed his company, in the same way she enjoyed Kimmels company. Could he have picked her up? No.

[@gailainsley6939]

Omg. You guys read too much into things. That doesn’t mean anything 😂

[@miamijefe7793]

@@EloquentlyEse But she didn't make contact with him until she really got into it

[@acason4]

😂 She did that long before he ever came onstage. It’s called: leaning towards the center of the conversation. It’s a natural reaction to three people taking where the middle person is the main speaker. Jessica Alba had zero interest. 🤦🏼‍♂️

[@TheParadiseParadox]

It's interesting to see all the complex analysis in the comments I don't know what was going on in Style's head at the time, but to the world he just seemed like a calm, charming fellow

[@fabioalexandrino2244]

4:20 look how style deals with interruptions. He just talks louder and louder, and when everyone is paying attention again, he turns the volume down.

[@ViceKnIghtTA]

Plot twist: this is a show, she's an actor, he's trying to sell his book, and Jimmy is the host. You all got played.

[@vektacular]

Exactly ….my thoughts too, TV is one big commercial

[@willrichtor]

When you can't spot the grift, you're the mark.

[@JC-jr9hw]

@@vektacularTV is all about programming your mind to be a good slave.😊

[@Elvira-k3r]

​@@willrichtorexactly 😂

[@_A_G_1]

​@@willrichtoryess... the mark ass trick 😆

[@adamspeight5256]

How is he picking her up? Its just flirting anyone can flirt he didn't tap her

[@Billeh556]

Jimmy Kimmel was always such an inauthentic slime ball and he’s even worse now!

[@riotpoliceTRELL]

Not gonna lie, jimmy has aged really well. I totally forgot he used to look like this 😂

[@cranberrieseater7397]

bless the guy at 4:14 who shouted hot 👍💪

[@hijack69]

Plot twist: He said Thot

[@xxadzchu100]

Jajjajajj

[@FILIPBG100]

You're a fucking Simp

[@cranberrieseater7397]

@@FILIPBG100 and youre 3 years late so fuck you

[@FILIPBG100]

@@cranberrieseater7397 Sorry, couldn't understand what you were saying, I don't speak the language of the pathetic ones.

[@siddhantchoudhry1800]

He displayed every skill that he had learned. Ignored the target...built up rapport with Jimmy(lead the men and u lead the women?...didn't buy into his frame(when Jimmy was trying to poke fun at him)..had a Curt and instant reply for everything usually a sign that he thinks really fast..and a constant smile..brilliant

[@irrelevantideology9640]

Ah, the good ol t-shirt over the button up. Lol

[@AngeloftheBx]

dude that was an amazing breakdown. I am amazed you were able to point these things out. The Game was an awesome book and Im sure to read it again

[@davidmalindy6178]

I came here to hate, I stayed because all three were cool and seemed like good people

[@patwaddington]

I remember reading his book when I was about 20. I found it funny that all the guys who were experts at PUA were all computer nerds.

[@DD-xw6uw]

The likely reason probably being that they never had great looks or natural charm to help them get girls, so they had to learn other ways to make up for it.

[@MKeehl23]

He even dribbled Jimmy's sociopath envying arrogant insults. He's the guy!

[@Wheelio]

Which is why if you DO happen to stumble across these books - it's best to take many of these "rules" half-heartedly. I think some of the tips these guys offer can be used in all sorts of social situations, not just dating. But it's the ones that take everything as gospel and become robotic that are hopeless.

[@antonboludo8886]

I took the Mystery Method workshop in the early 2000s. Neil and Mystery were the instructors. The method works. It took me a long time to improve because I had more crap in my head than even I was aware of. The war is in your head, guys.

[@michaelthoele1625]

Used many techniques from this book and all of them have worked. been happily married for 6 yrs now.

[@zig8925]

I didn't realise what he did to Jessica Alba the first time I Watched this. But he literally ran game. First of all, he talked to Jimmy Kimmel mostly, cause he's the host obviously. And then he asks he the "Beauty is common, what traits do you have other than that?" Question. And the fact that she answers is an indicator of interest

[@zig8925]

Also just noticed that Neil moves his arm over the armrests after he says it her her and gets close, then he pull away. And afterwards, Jessica is putting her arms across the armrests facing Neil more

[@ItsxAxLiger]

3:58 I think he just negged her.

[@bright.light.sights933]

She starts breathing very deeply after it too

[@MrAlcmj]

+ItsxAxLiger perfectly after giving her no attention

[@shukailu6731]

He just did that Qualify yourself routine!! Haha

[@dankearrape1939]

7:41 an indirect neg.

[@UltraMegaFail]

"That's awesome maybe we can hang out. Nah I'm joking" she heard that and nobody else really did.

[@juandavidtello3406]

Neil laughs like the "just look at it" guy. 😂😂