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so this has been my love life for the past year...
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[@maiphammy]

so y'all have heard me say "I DONT KISS BOYS" for the past year... and this is the explanation on why. lol this is in no way advice at alllllll by the way. just me oversharing about my love life ahahahah

[@khalilahd.]

Love a good story time and I’m proud of how much you’ve grown

[@allie_read]

Slayyyy🤚💅🙄

[@clopie987]

The way that she’s thinking about a boy now OMGGGGGGGGG

[@victoriaaaaa.]

ok but you still slay every video you do 💕

[@freyamelody6420]

Okayyy puuur

[@nataliesoutlet]

That last smile GIRRRRL, someone’s in love 🫶🏽💗😚

[@Brooklyn2.0.]

Omg Hi!

[@lupitaservin2004]

Hey Nat, I love you so much. I hope you're doing well. Wishing you peace of mind.

[@alexiswashere1228]

I WAS JUST THINKING THAT

[@hannah-eg5tc]

THATS WHAT I WAS THINKINGGGG

[@jaava9596]

YESSSSS, LIKE HER GENUINE SMILE AND LIKE GRATEFULNESS FOR THE GIFTS, IS LIKE ANOTHER LEVEL OF JUST THINKING BEST FRIENDDSSSS

[@tanj1na]

the happiness on Mai's face in the end when she showed us those gift ,, that made me happy too

[@rainachoi9537]

Mai is so open with us and doesn’t give a f abt others opinions! Everyone needs a friend like Mai.

[@carlieronzano3124]

the fact that apparently we're both 19 but you make it seem like you're a whole ass well put together ADULT- like I could never survive on my own in NY I can't even go to the store by myself (yay for grocery delivery services)

[@iswhosheis]

This girl has MONEY. I'm 10 years older and left NYC because I lived in a shoebox with 3 guys younger than me. Yes, I have a college degree and a full resume. This girl is not living in a standard reality...

[@dnni8936]

Fr same

[@sweetmarasme]

girl i'm 26 and i look up to her so much lmao she's more an adult than i am

[@GlitterObsessedFreak]

​@@sweetmarasmesame

[@skylinechilii]

as a person who doesn’t have friends this video makes me feel like I have someone to talk to

[@akshu8111]

I agree.

[@samkarlitv9318]

I just moved to another country to go to a univeristy. I don't know anyone cause the classes haven't started yet, so I'm basically alone everyday. And these videos make me feel like I have a friend and we're just talking.

[@Martina-zg1os]

@@Alrorosmile mmm you're here being rude at someone who has difficulties in finding friends, it looks like you don't have anything better to do, who's the depressing person now huh?

[@rainy5517]

Same. Haven't had friends in 9 years

[@blessieyang8070]

Bestie be my friend wtf

[@Brooklyn2.0.]

This girl is everything gorgeous,Funny, Entertaining and acts like we are her best friends.

[@ayeshaawaiss]

Can we appreciate how she likes everyone’s comments like Mai is so relatable love her! 💙💙

[@khalilahd.]

Always 💜 she’s the best

[@ashaterrezao7590]

Exactly😩

[@justine7743]

isn't that just a bot? lol plenty youtubers have it

[@zixzizia1066]

She has always been a real one

[@777m0n4]

liked this on 777

[@aradikas8811]

My quest to my "soulmate" literally led me to be so over conscious around almost any guy. Like i subconsciously treated most guys and girls diff. Any guy that found attractive always held up a small "what if he's the one" question in my brain. That led to me not moving with ease with the opposite gender due to trying present myself in the most put together way. Like geez, i need to relax... the one" ain't running away. "And this video was a good reminder that.💞

[@lbbb5456]

The way I've been watching mai since before she moved in with her sister, and then traveling and then living alone. Absolutely insane, I've just been living vicariously through her we're both the same age and it's just like watching my bestie grow from a distance. Insane how time flies

[@renn.eu_]

i literally relate to the part about not being able to be friends with guys without feeling like they could like you in that way or just not being able to be friends. I've had that problem throughout highschool, but now that i'm almost done, ive learnt this year that all i have to do is see guys the same way i see my friends that are girls and just treat everyone equally, anyways you look really happy!! love your videos sm

[@randomcommenter420]

if only guys adopted that attitude 😭

[@blinkeuisaswiftie8397]

@@randomcommenter420 Fr lmao- they be really messing up when you're tryna have a good perspective.

[@randomcommenter420]

@@blinkeuisaswiftie8397 they either see us as a different species creatures to analyse and “figure out” or objects. lol.

[@blinkeuisaswiftie8397]

@@randomcommenter420 agreed and some of my guy friends do both of it, I've had some guy friends who are like so nice and polite to you in person but are pretty misogynistic irl and some had gross things of their girl classmates on their phones, that was traumatizing 😭

[@JustABoy98]

@@randomcommenter420 not all of us are like that 😩 but I do get where you coming that from. I had a really nice friend (which was girl) but guys in my class ruined it and girls from her side , they always romancize us and say some s*itty things , even when we were literally studying . And it was easy to tease people like me and her becouse both of us were the one who got really bad bullied . Still she was my really good friend till end of my 10th grade , after that we went into different journey and sadly couldn't exchange number or anything

[@dorratrojette]

When you take a break from dating and on a random day you decide to get back at it and you actually start seeing guys and realize how bad some of them are and feel so proud of yourself for not letting them play you because the old you definitely would.

[@Sosofloflo]

I’ve been without boys for TWO years now and I cannot even describe how Amazing My Life Is Now

[@victoriat2682]

omg....I made this rule - no guys for one year. I havent been with guys for more than a year now...and I didnt even think about it!. My life is amazing, and I dont have a guy in it! This is awesome because I used to be really lonely and obsessed about finding a boyfriend or dating

[@2thsky]

this video rlly opened my mind to a lot of things. Ive been so conscious about this boy that ive neglected a lot of things and people in life, especially myself

[@x_lillyk]

Mai talking to us is literally like a FaceTime!! She is like the best friend we wish we all have.

[@suzanna3966]

this comment 🥺

[@zanaiwright02]

i love how mai is so comfortable talking to us about her problems, she is so relatable. I love you sm mai you saved me 🥰

[@user-wi8zm]

The way you smiled at the end made my heart ache❤️ I’m so happy for u Mai

[@yaralisthen1104]

Honestly Mai is like everyone’s big sister,I love her SM!!

[@foreveryoung3998]

she's like my bigger sister and im 22 yo

[@yutingwong18]

you’re literally goals🤍😭 love how confident you portray yourself, you’re so gorgeous. you deserve a fine man mai

[@anjalivue8154]

I love her line "the hormones are hormining" it's so cute. Oh and yes, the ending is superb...her cute smile

[@Jjuuuussttttt55]

She tells everything I’m literally thinking. Feels like she’s talking about me💀 exactly the reason I love her

[@ishaniprasad272]

Girl ily so much. You’re literally so relatable and so entertaining to watch. LOVE YOUUUU!!!

[@skarlet1670]

I love how realistic and real Mai always is. She’s my fav KZbinr

[@Janzzz.x]

I honestly love her she is so comfortable and when your alone it feels like she is their. I love her videos and watch them over and over !!! 🫶🏼🫶🏼

[@graysent2837]

MAI OMG. i needed this video so fricking bad. i'm going through a breakup right now that affected me this exact way. before i watched this i thought he was the only one for me and i NEEDED him but no, what i need to do it love myself before i can love someone else.

[@vivianneprice]

The ending was so heartwarming. I’m so glad that your happy!

[@sandhyashankar4715]

Mai makes me feel good about feeling insecure

[@kaeya713]

the more she uploads and rants like this the more i feel closer to her!!! and always she looks extremely gorgeous with the best vibes of her!! im so in love with her she my bestie frr

[@zelrius8714]

tbh it's so much better when you take a break from boys and not have to constantly worry about them, I used to be in a mindset that I had to crush on somebody and find love 24/7 but then i took a break, became happy and then i unexpectedly ran into love. the literal "perfect" man came to me, we both didn't really care about each other at first... but we started becoming friends and it bloomed. he is like no other previous boys, completely different and so much more mature. when u let love come to you, it's way more nice

[@avalivigni8088]

I love how realistic Mai is like it makes me feel so much better about my life!

[@AliceRizzpers]

Mai, you are such an inspiration. I have been going through some dark times and watching your videos gives me the motivation to keep going thank you for being here you will always be my comfort KZbinr.

[@__hajar__]

The way I relate to every single thing she says is just wow...

[@mayleestewart8864]

her smile at the end looked so wholesome and genuine like it just made me so happy

[@annaa6326]

Mai you are literally my role model i love how relatable and kind you are and i love love love how you are always yourself !!! I'm still trying to find my true self and you are the biggest help to me right now. Lovee you Mai ❤

[@ruimacedo1075]

I swear I’ve never watched a better video this is my whole entire existence like it’s so aesthetically pleasing and satisfying and I am loving the intro that girl every day is another slay

[@alt2433]

having a healthy platonic male bff is so healing

[@dontatmeimmoody2895]

This is why its good to have male friends so you dont feel as cynical towards guys if theyve been a shitty experience 🤣

[@mxrissahashemi4604]

YESSS

[@rose4_9p]

girl you are so amazing to talk to and I wish every girl sees u becoming a boss of there own

[@christinaleighstephenson2236]

It's great to see Mai growing more confident with herself. She's super inspiring and she helps me to feel more confident in myself too. If I want to go somewhere, I'll do it, even if no one can come with me. For example, if I want to go to the symphony, and unfortunately no one can come with me, I'm confident enough in myself to go by myself and have a good time. Which is a huge improvement from where I was a few years ago. Keep up the great work Mai!

[@sarahdworatzek8394]

I love when you just talk to us while getting ready sit so therapeutic

[@lmd_z]

i love these type of videos where it feels like we’re on ft, Mai just has the best big sister energy! 🫶🏽

[@jde_qz]

girll im still a young teenager rn, and listening to this makes me feel so happy and comfortable. Like the moment when you say the advices when we might feel like "what if he likes me, or what if he's this or this.." I felt so wowow. I thought I was the only one who felt this way but I wasn't, I'm def gonna take this advice tysm!!!

[@elainamcclendon5593]

I love your videos, Mai. As someone who doesn’t have friends, this is comforting. Seeing you happy about the gifts he gave you made me so happy 😭😭!!

[@s.o.m.e.o.n.e4247]

Dude- I always thought she was gorgeous when she was normally dressed in her videos. BUT DAYUM IS SHE’S SO FREAKIN FINE WHEN SHE DRESSES UP TOO 😭💕

[@sielladewit5434]

Love this, Mai is literally so open with us and relatable and she is my literal role model. Love you Mai

[@chuns6348]

i LOVEEE the fact whenever i watch your videos, i always feel like i'm on a facetime with a really good bestie. YOUR SO SLAAY LOVE U U DESERVE EVERYTHING IN THE WORLDDDD

[@savannahberry4201]

I honestly feel like the friend that’s in the back just relating to you and we both be spilling the tea on our relationship drama

[@jazminem7750]

Can we appreciate how real and genuine Mai is, literally love her ❣

[@aimeequan9082]

This video was honestly so cute, just loved everything about it.

[@bluestarr606]

i love mai so much she always makes me feel okay about having insecurities

[@a44y.58]

YOU ARE LITERALLY GLOWWINNGG!! you’re literally throwing off such good vibes, so so so so sooooooo gorgeous!!

[@zayleenkock3475]

That smile, that gift, those giggles and 2 dogs at the end???🥰🥰🥰someone’s in love

[@andreaabad3522]

Mai,you really evolved and you re glowing!I can see a big change in the past months in you and I wish all the best for you!❤

[@brianachovancek8362]

Absolutely gorgeous ❤️ I love that this feels like a FaceTime and honestly I relate so much to you and it’s nice to know that someone has the same thoughts as me.

[@username29648]

oml the smile at the end

[@vankhanh8004]

OMG the most relatable video ever! I always thought I will forever be a girl boss without a relationship until that one guy came into my life and fudged everything up. I even felt embarrassed to myself whenever I imagine what it likes when we're together. I'm still healing from that, and watching this video make me feel so much better knowing that I'm not alone.

[@-lizzy9152]

those gifts at the end and the way u smiled are so cutee

[@anotherdayanotherslay5582]

Girl you make my whole day when you post!! 💗💗💗

[@julissalopez8762]

“basically the epitome of my existence” 😭😭😭😭. litterally me and how i feel

[@ellayspam63]

mai. Your in loveeeee. Ur smile saying something more than happy. Literally love u and ur vids btw ‼️‼️

[@megan6191]

omg you were so genuinely happy in the end, im so happy for you girlll, also you looked stunning!!

[@brianachovancek8362]

WHY DO WE HAVE THE EXACT SAME THOUGHTS?? I’ve been celibate after my ex who I was in love with too and who broke me. We are at the same place, me also being 19. We got this, and whats meant to be will be. Self love above all else. But we are still allowed to have fun. Like I legit don’t want to get that physical with anyone rn but we can still go on dates and explore.

[@naquasiapurvis3052]

Hey girl Mai this video is so relatable and your not the only one feels like this I been talking to a guy recently and I thank god for this video btw love you

[@brooklynthorne1313]

Mai you literally need a podcast this is my fav type of your videos other than cleaning your room lol but you fr need a podcast I would be listening everyday

[@KOKO-yz7hv]

I love how open you are, I think that’s what sets you apart from other creators. You are genuine and honest!

[@shaborneedey3335]

MAI MAKES ME HAPPY. PERIODT.

[@Tae_smoothie]

I love your videos. You are the only honest KZbinr i know. You live like a normal human being. Who is not exaggerating anything 💗💗💗

[@livyslife3002]

1. Pop off💕 2. Love a good story time 3. THE MAKEUP IS FIREEEE

[@ChiiiLi]

We need to make a petition for a mai podcast tbh

[@irisraudvee4839]

why are your "get ready" videos literally the best and you talking about boys is always so entertaining lmao love you mai!!

[@romeliapc4175]

This type of talk really makes me feel less alone in my thoughts❤. I think every girl has this problem, we just loose ourselves and it feels impossible to go back sometimes. GIRL YOU LOOKED BOMB, MAI THE SUPERMODEL SLAAAAY!!😌🔥 *insert snapping fingers*

[@isabelcatanzaro8270]

Slayed tbh 💅💀

[@hannah-eg5tc]

i wore your hoodie to school the other day and i got so many compliments!! thank you so much mai

[@adorxocean]

ive never found a youtuber like u whos actually super super open and real with us ur subscribers i love that abt u mai thanks for posting❤️💪(hope u had fun going out and u feel cute is always the best)

[@priscilaarias6195]

that smile at the end gave me life

[@sseuniecheol]

I swear watching and listening to you get ready while I’m just sitting in my bed eating really makes me feel it’s a girls night 😭

[@nancypenaloza974]

Mai We All Love When You Overshare Girl!!!! Hope You Have A Wonderful Month Of September!!!! 🙌🙌✨✨

[@brittatellvik1472]

Love the stories and you're so kind to share it wit hus

[@itsn0tjaila891]

girl you’re so real for this 😭 at least I’m not the only one cause I FELTT

[@imanimwiti7604]

Gurll every girl knows that look- Somebodys in loveeee

[@_.exanova._]

You posted this while I’m getting ready so it really feels like a FaceTime call 😂💕

[@Mewmewtokyogo]

Transformer Mai...haha you look astonishing! I miss having a girl group that would get dressed up like this just to go eat. It has also been incredible watching you learn and grow as a genuine human sharing your moments with us. Thank you 💕

[@LailaVelasquez-n2z]

something about MAI sayings she’s a 19 year old hit me😭😮 like I knew that but this whole time she acts like such an adult🥺

[@pragyasingh2297]

You have such a genuinely warm energy about you Mai. It’s a really rare quality in people. Even though you’ve grown as a person, that’s never changed about you and it warms my heart ❤

[@eleveah]

Hey gurrlll, been watching you for a while now and somehow when im watching your videos i always end up cleaning up my room :') Hope you're doing well Mai

[@never_too_many_books8114]

LOVE YOU MAI, I love your channel and I feel as though you are my older sister giving me advice :)

[@daphneliterrero8309]

OMG i was in a situationship too and girl ... not the best time of my life I was so sad too and i didn't deserve that but than i slowly started to loose feelings and gave myself a break and I met my now boyfriend and he's the best boyfriend ever. I'm happy that you got out of it too Mai! You deserve to be happy and I can see it in your smile that you are ❤

[@nafisa7720]

she really needs to make a podcast, i'd listen to it 24/7.....love how she's open about everything and doesn't filter out stuff!!

[@shrutii.waghhh]

Found your channel like two days ago now i can't stop binging!!! You're like super relatable and i got the motivation to get on top of my stuff from you, thank uuu

[@maryleecarlin9390]

Here’s some advice: when you sleep with a guy mark that date on the calendar and mark 2 months after that first day of sleeping with him. When you reach that 2 month mark make the decision on whether or not to keep seeing him or to cut it off. If you continue to see him after that 2 month mark you will automatically begin to have feelings for him regardless if he’s a fuck boy. If he’s bad news cut it off at the 2 month mark. 2months!!!!!

[@katiecostello7444]

Mai baby I literally did the same thing the past year after being in toxic relationship after toxic relationship. I can relate to everything you said. Expect now I don’t even wanna date 😂 I hate men and like no one meet my standards🤣😭 I love youuuu 💞

[@hannahtheone]

THAT LAST SMILEE THOOO

[@p1xelfairy385]

i love mai so much u seem like such a vibe to hangout w, i love u lots ❤️❤️❤️

[@sixthoughts3965]

The happiness i feel when i see your videos is something else 💗💗💗💗💗💗

[@arii.r5876]

that whole “thinking I knew myself until this boy came into my life and made me cry everyday” is SO FRICKIN REAL

[@megs3019]

Is this the boy you went to visit? Plane ride? That smile at the end…. Every girl knows that smile and that’s the best type of smile to have… I miss having that smile for someone. Happy for you Mai, and if this doesn’t work out the smile was worth it and the next one will be even better. Enjoy the moment, enjoy the feeling and enjoy the smiles❤

[@nadineroypen2306]

Watched this video at 3 in the morning and ii don't regret it at all.💕You are so relatable . Love you mai😊pls never stop making KZbin videos 😭

[@3seren]

I can't believe she's 19. She looks and behaves like a 30 year old (which is not something bad since I'm also 31) I meant it as a compliment, soo mature in both looks and attitude

[@peepeepoopoo4003]

Her practicing her walk even though she’s late is sooo me lmfaooo

[@Lol-ro7dg]

Girl I relate SOO much to the situationship thing and honestly it taught me a lot i defo felt like you were talking directly to me because I’ve never related so much in my life 😭😭 I’m glad I’m not alone 😩

[@sinemaltintop5458]

i am currently in summer break and i miss my uni friends and life so much 😭 i missed prepping for night outs so much after watching thiss