Guys ANSWER Questions that Girls are afraid to ask (ft. Freesia Park)

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[@de341f6]

Freesia gets me-- please guys, when girls ask "what are we" please don't give her the answer you think she wants to hear. Just be upfront the way she was with you.

[@Airsole23]

True fck bois will give you the answer you want to hear. The reason I said, “true fck bois” bc girls can’t distinguish the two, if a guy is upfront and honest about not wanting to be in a relationship, girls would still consider him a fck boy. But I think at least the guy is being honest and upfront with what he wants. And he isn’t stringing you along, so if you girls choose to be with a guy like that, it’s at your own discretion and risk.

[@sushiluvrluvzme]

Omg the last guy that I'm still getting over is like "i want to date," then says "idk," then drunk calls and text me saying "I want you to be my gf," then the next day is "idk," then "we're friends." I felt played cause we were having sex too. I still feel dumb about it.

[@urdadsonic1036]

@@Airsole23 exactly i agree with you as long as guys are honest and say beforehand they dont want a relationship you can choose to leave

[@urdadsonic1036]

@@sushiluvrluvzme please tell me you left.

[@sushiluvrluvzme]

@@urdadsonic1036 yup! Met a wonderful man afterwards and we're together :D

[@nurathiah110]

I need more of jbro and freesia collab. Cause the vibe is huge 😂

[@JBRODUCTION]

as jason would say... big vibes... big vibes.. 😂😂😂

[@nurathiah110]

@@JBRODUCTION Jason's face says it all

[@tanbetty]

@@JBRODUCTION omg my favorite two I am like literally crying when I saw this

[@de341f6]

"I WILL HIRE SOME GUY TO CLEAN HIS ASS" BIG BRAIN

[@JBRODUCTION]

🤣🤣🤣🤣 died when she said that

[@NannaElise]

Freesia speaks for the girls 👏🏻👏🏻 accurate

[@JBRODUCTION]

freesia speaks facts 👏🏻

[@EmilyRaskett]

I typically don’t bother asking the “what are we question” because the guys who have been interested in being in a relationship with me were always super intentional and active in pursuing me. That’s what I like and When someone is being more casual with me I usually take that to mean that they arnt interested enough to commit or we just went a good match because of our different ideals for intentionality. I absolutely hate feeling like I’m in a “chasing” role as the woman ... so if I ever had to ask a guy “what are we?” I’d feel like I was the one pursuing him to get him into a relationship (not my thing)

[@Airsole23]

Sexist lol. Chasing isn’t a gender role. What happen to female empowerment and equality. Some guys like girls that chase and take initiative

[@EmilyRaskett]

​@@Airsole23 That's fair, I'm probably just attracted to guys who tend to take the initiative and are intentional. I didn't mean it to sound sexist, people like different things... lol and I mean I'm an engineer I feel pretty empowered I'm just not the type to ask a guy on a first date

[@Airsole23]

@@EmilyRaskett so you are traditional when it works to your advantage lol? I’m just giving you a hard time, nothing wrong with that. Some guys like chasing woman, it’s like hunting 😆. And girls love the attention that ( cute guys) guys are giving them. Double standards exist, but for girls not to acknowledge that is funny to me. It’s cool that you aren’t one of those girls.

[@icingcake]

@@Airsole23 Meh I bet you’re not a shy guy. I bet you’re a lazy chaser lol.

[@elizabethchestnut632]

Definitely a strong supporter of asking "what are we?" as soon as possible, while also elaborating on what I want and am looking for at that time. This way no one is surprised or hurt, and any awkwardness is out of the way early on. Not sure how I would feel hearing "I need a cha cha beat boy" while in the bedroom ... lol

[@JBRODUCTION]

big yes to the first paragraph (snaps snaps) . HAHAHAHAAH died at the last sentence . ur missing out Elizabeth 🤣🤣

[@elizabethchestnut632]

@@JBRODUCTION I will elaborate: after watching Jay Park reply to thirst tweets, I might only be thinking of him if his music is playing 😂🤡

[@poojad5268]

Love how the video switches between raunchy Q&A and wholesome nature filler segments

[@JBRODUCTION]

Gotta keep it kosher here lol

[@joenyc]

i think there are two types of “what are we?” one is the insecure type, and the other is the independent type. coming from different people, this question may come off as the former or the latter.

[@JBRODUCTION]

ohhh i love this.... i wish we could embed this insightful comment in the vid discussion

[@yiwenchai2019]

Hands up to those who are brave enough to drop the ‘What are we?” question. 🙌🏻 Trust me. It really takes a lot of courage for girl to pop that question due to many possible outcomes that could happen (overthinking cue 😂). As a girl who is no longer interested in short flings at my age, it’s a form of security as of whether I should continue on fighting for it or move on to pour my time on someone else who is more serious. Mixed signals is very frustrating for me because I don’t know whether it’s ok for me to move on and pour my time into the right person. I’ve dropped the question before and oh wells, I got my answer and saved my time.

[@niamhwatson]

reality is..women shouldn't have to ask, there's no need, the answer is there. 8:28 it's not that you don't know, it's that you just are not interested in defining it, it's super simple, and I think this goes both ways, if you are not moving forward or want to put a label to a relationship, you simply don't want a serious commitment with that woman/man. But also I've noticed that women are more open to just say someone is their boyfriend and then if it doesn't work, end it and move on, but men...they don't want to lose the benefits of a not-defined relationship (fb or fwb or whatever) unless they have a plan B, someone they like more or simply prefer to be alone. If a guy really likes a girl, they immediately feel the need to define the relationship to avoid any other guy having a chance with that girl, if not, they're just not sure they like the girl that much and they're just waiting for someone they truly like to come along. But the same applies if a guy asks a girl to be his gf and the girl says "let's not put labels" or things like that, there might be exceptions but not really 😂

[@KaleHello]

It depends because I do not let social media define my relationship hence why we both not to publicly announce our relationship. A lot of it comes to you and your partner having same values and goals. Both prefer a private relationship etc.

[@jennycheng9632]

It depends, sometimes ppl might still need to figure out if it is a good fit, which takes time, it is more about both parties are on the same page/pace or not

[@KaleHello]

@@jennycheng9632 I agree, what social media has done is essentially a platform to "show" the world who you are dating. But how I see it is like this, if one does not work out with the person, you lose less face. It is less drama for your relationship and less perceptions of what people think of you to keep private matters separate from public. I think that is why I was able to get to know such a nice man and now married for 2 yrs now after two yrs of dating.

[@Crystalbomb321]

I've never had to ask the question-guys will want to be exclusive if they're into you enough. Generally it happens quickly.

[@mayshusakuhanamurasufferli5438]

Not interested with such men

[@ditsygirl5409]

If the girl has to ask this question “What are we”, the guy really hasn’t shown too much enthusiasm to show her he’s committed.

[@truthexplicit643]

Jason is very grounded, confident and understanding. A good listener and have good sense a humor.

[@SamanthaCorrie18]

I am the type to always ask the question, what are we because I'm at the point in my life where I want a serious relationship and I'm done with pointless relationships.

[@JBRODUCTION]

yas we stan a woman who knows and says what she wants

[@Moneystarr83]

I am loving these collaborations with Freesia. Can't wait for the next!

[@samwui94]

Guys like girls with no makeup if the girl looks pretty without it 😆

[@aiyada_a]

I always get excited when Fresia comes on!!! This is where the good content is at 😂😂

[@sweetspringsmile]

Freesia articulates well with her thoughts from girls' point of view :) with the What Are We, I feel girls can take charge by setting a time limit to when she decides she wants to move on from that guy. With most girls (i think), its not that girls want a defined relationship now there and then when she asks that question, more like she wants to avoid having too emotionally invested and its easier to pull out of that situation earlier or re-adjust her expectations with the guy :)

[@JPFlySolo]

This one is such a vibe that I didn't even realize it was already over! 🥺💕

[@ConlyMarie]

I actually asked the “what are we” question which really got my current relationship to progress. I think it’s important in the sense that I know this is going seriously and to stop talking to others. During that time I was also on tinder and hanging out with people I could be interested in LOOOOL, but if I know that person considers us to be in a relationship, I’ll stop talking to other people and vice versa. It’s also out of respect to him because if he did think we’re serious but I wasn’t, then I’m not leading him on as well.

[@anitachin596]

My dad taught me to ask “the question” from the jump. That way you can work out if you want to “play” with that situation or move on. If he “doesn’t know” then other opportunities are fair game and you don’t owe him your time or feelings. My dad is now a grandpa and the same message is being given to the grandchildren by him 🤗

[@criminyworldriseedify8962]

I haven’t heard people say demeanor out loud in a hot minute! Thank you for that

[@sharonc7559]

Regarding the comment that says guys delay the DTR simply because he's not interested enough, I think it's true in majority of the cases. However, there will be situations when someone has just came out of a relationship or has had some previous experiences that make them slower to open up and/or need more time to truly realize their feelings for someone. This tends to happen more often to people (guys or girls) who are older and realize that instant spark and strong chemistry in the beginning have no direct correlation with the long term success of the relationship, so they like to take the time to truly know someone. I personally know someone who was very slow in the beginning to recognize his feelings for a girl (and was not committed very early on) but later got married to her after a few years.

[@ariesflower2743]

I’m never this early for any of your videos... glad I tuned in! 👍🏻

[@artisticnita]

Another great video. Love freesia can't wait for the next collab video. 💪🏾🥦

[@bellarusli814]

The make up thing is so true, men say prefer no make up ,but their eyes enjoying staring woman wearing full of make up

[@musicluver287]

Yes John! Jay Park’s album everything you wanted, especially his song aquaman should be part of the bedroom playlist!

[@glowin_teeth]

Bahaha loved this collaboration~ congrats on katalk open chat that's so big!!! I'll tune in live for funsies today hehe 🤩Also loved the 'so what are we' topic, I asked that question once & learned to walk away from any 썸 that makes me ask that first lol crystal clear & commitment is my jam

[@ashleym2728]

Awwww yeaaah!! I was hoping y'all would link up with Freesia again!! 💖💖

[@jackhansmiles]

These topics are soooo juicyyyyy. Love listening to the different perspectives :)

[@SB-gm9yx]

Thanks for calling guys out on the 'no makeup' myth, Freesia (gorgeous name, btw!). Then again, this is all societal conditioning. The media keep telling women that body hair is bad, natural skin is bad, natural hair colour and texture are bad and so on and so forth. To the point that we're often shocked to see anything that differs from the imposed norm! Our artificially-created insecurities mean biiiggg money for the 'beauty' industry. Korea, unfortunately, is one of the biggest victims of this sickening propaganda - if not THE biggest! Great show, btw 👏

[@eNVy100]

12:33, John having flashbacks to texting “Give me the address” LOL

[@JBRODUCTION]

WHYD U REMIND ME

[@noemicarranza655]

I was thinking of that too! 😂

[@faithfawole7711]

The collab brought out the best answers to each question 😍

[@keishastarz9149]

This video is so funny I couldn’t stop laughing great job guys and Freesia is such a vibe she reminds me of myself

[@dharshanaravi9558]

I just like how it's fun and respectful at the same time! 💙

[@Trsa1993]

Always stopping whatever I’m doing to watch your videos. Much love to you all!

[@JBRODUCTION]

ayyy we appreciate you belia . thanks for watchin : )))

[@rellg.2607]

I'm back! Oooooh I very much enjoy this collab! Real talk! And I love how comfortable you all are with each other. :)

[@elizah4695]

this video was a lot raunchier than I thought it was gonna be 😂 either way love it

[@JBRODUCTION]

Cover ur ears children ~

[@saratonin_613]

Why is no one talking about John’s Zion T impression?? 😂 Also I love how engaged and enthusiastic Jason gets whenever you guys talk about racy subject matter it’s hilarious 🤣

[@JBRODUCTION]

Men are simple creatures 🦄

[@angelinagao2640]

love you guys and your content!!!

[@middlesys9180]

Love this collab!

[@ummaily6732]

My literal favorites in one video I caaaannnnttttt😭😭😭

[@beenishhaider6308]

I love freesia so much. So genuine.

[@trancd822]

Always ask the what are we at every stage in relationship. Honesty is the best way to deal with all relationship issues. Your sanity is so important.

[@fromaudreykao]

big fan of approaching the *what are we* conversation by being like "i ultimately want a relationship and i'd love for you to be that person, but if you aren't on the same page that's okay too" so we can have an open conversation rather than it feeling like a confrontation. also i died when john said that listening to EDM in the bedroom "makes me feel like im PARTYING" 😂 not a vibe for me, big or small 🙅🏻‍♀️😂

[@ncz7]

❤️

[@judyhu1657]

yes was waiting for this

[@rositazheng4695]

Early squad for jbro as always!!!😎 p.s: went to ktown yesterday expecting to bump into you guys but didn’t😭😢

[@thewinstonbear2457]

Great video! Love Freesia and jbro collab. John was so quiet, was the room too warm or was he blushing the whole time (wink wink) ? 😂😂

[@ariesflower2743]

I just knew that John would say smile 😊

[@JBRODUCTION]

friendly reminder to make your appointment at 1-800-PAPA-DRJOHN

[@rafaellaoishi5887]

Omg I loove when these 3 collab!! You should do more pleaseeeee

[@melinhuang594]

i told the guy i've been dating for two months how i felt for him yesterday, and i want him to stop checking up on me cause i'm catching a lot feelings rn. and he said okay he won't be texting me daily, and he understands and respects my decision though hahaha. i think just baring your heart to your partner, communicating and letting the other person know your line. it's sort of a lowkey way asking the ultimate 'what are we' question without putting too much pressure on the other person hahaha.

[@aha_Sai_Ra]

OMG!! Couple of seconds of John & Jason's cover of the song, "Snow"!! I have been listening to your version of the song on loop for the past 2 months! 🥰🥰🥰

[@JBRODUCTION]

hahaha one of our first videos... thanks for scrolling all the way down that far back lol

[@vincentli3391]

Jason always asking the right questions

[@Ubiquitous_1]

This was a great he said/she said session. Nice mics by the way!

[@Momoko4ever1]

Lmao this was so funny, this was a great collab

[@iamichelle]

Been waiting for this since her vlog

[@LinhNguyen-cb5on]

Jason is honestly so funny without even trying

[@patriciazapiter6025]

This is so informative and funny!! Especially Jason always talking about... 😂😂😂😂 getting confused in the conversation SO FUNNY!! Keep it up you guys!!💕🇵🇭

[@flpchen0708]

Really looking forward to seeing you exercising your influence and raise awareness on Stop Asian Hate. Thanks for your consideration.

[@vanessamartinez24]

Great job guys!! Love the vibe of this video & I really like hearing Fressia's point of view! Also, John where did you get your hoodie from? I want one!!

[@JBRODUCTION]

thanksss . our merch ! that we never launched ^__^

[@angelicahong5253]

wait... freesia and john look really alike when they smile! so cute! i felt like i was watching twins or something ahah

[@kristycalungsod706]

that Zion T break into the “I play Gospel” LMAO

[@milaqin1102]

We need a jbro and freesia podcast omg

[@nayoungkwon8760]

점점 두분들에 대해서 깊게 얘기해줘서 제밌어요~~John!! 진짜 스마일 본다고???그럼 더 멋있잖아❤️

[@cheresegeorge385]

Lol this was chaotic. It had me laughing 🤣

[@aspcia]

Honesty and transparency are critical ! You're dating to determine compatibility and if you lie to yourself or to the person you're seeing, it'll only make things more complicated and potentially more painful in the long run. I'm all for weeding people out as soon as possible, lol.

[@upthedown1]

Ditto

[@cruzwithang5924]

This was so hilarious 😂

[@seljiang]

After watching this, I’m certain John is A++

[@jadew8018]

Definitely be honest and open during those deep communication moments. And also it depends on the friend group when it comes to talking about bedroom things. I have some friends that I could share details with and get tips from and others that judge and tell the whole world. Also my last relationship was a 3hr all the time and let me just say after the first hr she’s gonna be looking at the clock it’s not about how long the race is but about the satisfaction of running the race and finishing together 👀

[@sirrob1789]

This was really funny. Thank you

[@deminicha_8802]

YOU R A GOOD VIBE 🤗 J BRO

[@vini_nooh1234]

Listening first time to them, these are things worth listening 😎

[@DopeyySaeSae]

Most women wants reassurance & honesty. Periodt.

[@lydia5267]

Too bad I won't be able to join the KakaoTalk. T-T Hopefully next time ~

[@mouangsaechao5548]

I think people with a lot of experience know exactly what they want while people without a lot of experience just have a lot of questions. It’s like reading the same book over and over again until another book series becomes interesting. As your mind gradually evolves then you’ll want more interesting book topics. As a person experiences more of life and this part of life then they might want more from it than physical attributes? Guys are more physically attracted to girls but as their personality comes out then it becomes less and less attractive. Everyone has their flaws though so it’s really about what you can deal with and if this person can adjust or accept differences. I think people overthink so many things when really it’s not difficult and is very natural. Shouldn’t it feel natural and serene? Like the break of dawn in the morning and how the sunsets at night time. That feeling that is very soothing where nothing feels complex. The sound of music and the way it is composed or how an author writes a novel. It is a bit like that and a deep connection of two people who have everything to give and nothing to lose. Unless it’s not this at all then what is it? What is it all about?

[@carmenkellum4470]

So like to watch all you guys together. You are funny and so real when you you talk.

[@celinevicente2742]

Made my Monday here in Perth entertaining before I head off to work hahaha 😂 I like the vibe of your videos with Freesia Park 😊 You guys definitely addressed lots of topics and hopefully you guys get to have other guests to discuss different topics in the future! It was fun and entertaining ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️

[@JBRODUCTION]

u must be an earlier riser to watch vids before work. have a good day 5 star vitamin

[@celinevicente2742]

@@JBRODUCTION yup! Haha as they say the early bird catches the worm 🐛 🤗😂

[@babs2677]

Had a good laugh🤣🤣 enjoyed it.....

[@AnnyeongBJD]

I’ve joined your Kakao chat room! Looking forward to Tuesday evening!

[@JBRODUCTION]

see u thereee

[@AnnyeongBJD]

@@JBRODUCTION awesome! Thank you! Btw, I’m Kpopandkimchi. This is my bjd Doll account, but I subscribed to your account from both of my channels! 😉👍

[@joycemacayana1946]

This content made me laugh, got me confused and shocked by Jason's (yall already know😜) I still believe that guys should still make the final decision after a compromise so if it means dominated in relationship then it is. 😊 I still gather up the courage to ask the guy the 'what are we' question as I agree with freesia that it might scare guys away but still want to know if were just wasting each others time. Asking this question might make or break the friendship built, if both parties were not on a same page. Great content, welldone👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 Hope to see more from you guys. Kudos to everyone! ❤💜💚

[@JBRODUCTION]

yup you nailed it joyce. and jason got u confused ? join the club 🤣

[@justme.11]

If I get to the point that I'm asking "what are we?", chances are it feels like this is about sex and not a relationship. To me, that question comes at a breaking point. I'd probably already be starting to feel like I'm wasting my time.

[@shelbylaw9161]

Love that bright yellow "OPPA" hoodie!! 😬🌈💕💪

[@charissedmd2969]

THIS VIBE IS ALL I NEED TO DESTRESS !!! 😂

[@nataliemendoza1900]

Am I early or late i love watching this though like I stop watching what I'm watching and start to watch this cause this gets interesting every time I watch this

[@upthedown1]

You three my favs!

[@Linda-qs7vy]

lmao can you imagine W.A.P playing the background while u are trying to get down and durttttty. I would not be turned on

[@toria37]

We need a part 2

[@pavue8918]

Keep these talks coming lol

[@skerlyolivier6066]

For the question "what are we?" in my opinion I feel like girls are usually the ones to ask that question. For me I feel why do I need to ask this.Even in the beginning stages I make it clear I'm not sure what I'm looking for just dating and if it turns to something serious fine. I appreciate when guys are up front like that too. If they aren't sure from the beginning just let the girl know so if she is looking for a serious relationship and don't want a maybe. She has the option to stay or leave. Hope that makes sense ✌🏾

[@JBRODUCTION]

Hello Bro Fam, we are hosting an open chat on Kakao! When: Tuesday, March 16th, 10PM Eastern Time, USA Where: open.kakao.com/o/g8bBN81c​ We will be live starting at 10PM. Be there or be squared!

[@danielwilliamsullivan3192]

Let an old guy (79) interject. I have been following you both for a long time. Your great! There seems to be an expectation that the real objective is sex with women....not love and marriage. Perhaps I have missed it but I hear little mention of Love. I hear over analyzing of unsuccessful relationships. You take women on first dates to something simple. Get to start knowing each other. Do not jump into bed. That ends it. That will come in time...preferably when you wed. Love you both...Happy St. Patrick's Day!

[@amandalee320]

I’d love to see you do a video on dating korean men. I’m dating a Korean man now and have dated a few before my current boyfriend and it’s definitely a challenge. Would love to know your perspective in regards to cultural, attitude etc. In my experience dating a Korean man you have to be okay with them showing their affection differently than you, as a white woman I told everyone I loved them constantly but in Korean culture it’s rare to even say that to family. I could go on and on but again, would love to hear your side especially if you have dated a non Asian!

[@pragyasharma5537]

Wowommgg jbro hahahahaha turn on uh-huh 😂😂😁 yehh 👏 Rapid-fire💥

[@thaonguyenminh7814]

Just came across your videos on KZbin :D The music at 3:06 reminds me of the piece In the Hall of the Mountain King by Grieg 😂 Btw, thanks for making this interesting video

[@Darklovesto]

We early!

[@hwinseoul]

Agreed with Freesia and appreciate if guys also respect and accept girls’ thoughts ~^^

[@angelicavelascovirata2913]

Yeah yeah vibe 🤙🏽

[@TrishaCamille]

Liked at "the vibe" lol 😄

[@annawong5027]

Interesting with the 'what are we?' question. I live in London, U.K and when we date someone that is considered exclusive from the start. If a person was seeing more than two people that is considered cheating. Dating apps have changed things slightly, but that's the general consensus

[@tinasmith6241]

Nice one guys 💯💯💯 Well asking what are we, Straight up put heavy expectations to a supposedly “let it flow and enjoy the fun ride, see where it goes r/ships” matter of fact, the guy may be polite by just saying what she wanna hear and down the road, he’s racing away. I rather have a guy ask such, then you know he’s hooked lol 😆, Cheerrrzzz 🍒

[@majaremigio7729]

Another interesing topic! I just laughed all the time hahaha! Can you like open a brain camp? 3 intelligent people. Love it! ❤

[@JBRODUCTION]

big brain camp . hashtag BBC