Gwen Stefani - Used To Love You

Gwen Stefani “Used To Love You” from THIS IS WHAT THE TRUTH FEELS LIKE.
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[@Samantha05291]

In order to understand this song or video you have to experience this horror. Don't be so quick to judge. That's SHALLOW!!! The song, the lyrics, the video is absolutely genius... I have experienced every inch of this song... Gwen...respect...respect...respect. You nailed it! And now the new life ahead is pure bliss...

[@echoustic2712]

+Spay Argyris Amen to that!

[@sueg949]

+Echoustic Exactly right...love the video love the song. I get it and absolutely love Gwen!!! Thanks for sharing your vulnerability with the world.

[@CATVANE]

True!

[@tsukemaru1]

+Spay Argyris in order to understand..... i dont fucking care about understanding this fucking song. What is up with you gushy people. stop fucking crying about that shit. he cheated on you. who fucking cares. sob to your friends. this song sucks. its generic and sounds like the rest of the fucking songs popular with you sheep these days. gwens songs were better a decade ago. now they are trash.

[@echoustic2712]

+tsukemaru1 Well, that's your problem right there isn't it? If your mind is closed to 'understanding', that's surely going to be a barrier to any kind of enjoyment, because to me, you sound like a right miserable git. :p I'm left wondering -- did affirming your 'elitist' status in your own mind make you feel any less miserable?

[@mattlewis2872]

I seriously can't stop watching this video. It's heartbreaking but incredibly moving. We love you Gwen.

[@Fenhiwi4]

exactly!

[@angelinamejia4515]

I love the meaning to this song.

[@5op2v]

+Matt Lewis ♟♞♝♜♛♚ David Cortese - Manga Chess ♙♘♗♖♕♔

[@yeahiagree1070]

+Matt Lewis Ironic you find Gwen's face "incredibly moving." She's had such a incredible amount of botox she can barely MOVE it.

[@angieanaya4316]

+Harry B hate much..?

[@mrsnathalielim]

2024 and this song still makes the tears roll down endlessly. Thank you Gwen for your poetry, your raw emotion, your beauty. You are a true artist.

[@thehauntedmansionfan]

I read an article where Gwen stated the video was not planned to be this. Camera on, playback started rolling and the lyrics hit her. And the camera stayed on. No redo or second take. Such raw emotions full of truths. Anyone whose heart has been crushed knows exactly what her eyes are saying.

[@dennyjones6921]

That’s amazing

[@graceosteen4763]

I understand

[@shawn1320]

her emotions in this video really fits the lyrics

[@purplementhol3388]

She also had her hard time during this. She had it for years. I wish people Know. Articles are everywhere you can search~ this video is art, but what deeper is her psychology here that make this art although it's sad reality. I'm not even her fans but I did research.

[@loading...948]

I guess this is really what the truth feels like

[@mokacello5594]

First time I watched the video I was like "WTF Gwen, your expressions are really making me uncomfortable"... Yet the video is actually REALLY GROWING ON ME. And the song is ABSOLUTE DOPE .

[@Gonzalezreview]

I have that same thing going on hm we are weird we hate it then we like ok ok I think I like this :-)

[@VelSurvivals]

mlllkkloo[okoop

[@DxModel219]

+Mokacello LOL it's fake

[@jln195399]

sad

[@DxModel219]

***** LOL i know i was just trolling.

[@gabriellacabral9689]

This song got me through the worst time of my life getting over the heartbreak of an abusive narcissist

[@moustacheandnisi]

I know that feel sis💜💜

[@agnesgoldberg7341]

Gabriella Cabral I literally know what that feels like. One of the worst type of a significant other to get over. I hope you find everlasting happiness. Stay strong. It take lots and lots of courage to even just talk about it or share openly what you went through. It’s a huge deal. You should be very proud of yourself. You helped me a lot just by reading your comment. Thank you.

[@dianemickelson4384]

Gabriella Cabral I know the feeling.

[@emmznemmz5897]

Gabriella same

[@wendybone8104]

Going through this now under quarantine. Pure hell.

[@bonnie3232]

She is gorgeous, so talented and the mother of his 3 children. To have your third baby and find out he has been sleeping with the Nanny would be devastating. So glad she found love again with Blake. .

[@cindyholloway7441]

I feel her pain. After 27 years of marriage and two great kids, my ex husband left me for a younger, married coworker. You could have knocked me over with a feather. Never imagined that he would betray me and his kids like he did. Before I hated him, I used to love him. Nothing hurts like infidelity.

[@bobbyleglocks1992]

Sorry to hear that. I was just reading the comments. 27 years is a long time. I know it's cliché but you'll be better off without him.. He probably maybe find someone that is your twin flame.. Never too late.

[@venturelover1378]

I feel you, Cindy. 27 years and 5 children. My husband left me for a younger married coworker too. Absolutely devastating unexplainable pain.

[@cindyholloway7441]

@@venturelover1378 Agree! The pain doesn’t just go away either. You’re now in a club, you didn’t sign up to be in. I pray for you.

[@jarrodbyrd7631]

I was married 22 years with 4 children. You are not alone.

[@jarrodbyrd7631]

Nothing hurts like being betrayed. I hope you’re doing better.

[@rshahid145]

If you’ve ever truly been in love and betrayed, here expressions reveal everything. She’s amazing ❤️💯

[@kimandcaffeine5999]

R Shahid betrayed for the last time expressions

[@Raidoven]

i love this video. i look nothing like Gwen, but it's like looking at my reflection. i'm going through the repercussions of a breakup now, and sometimes i do that thing Dane Cook was talking about where you just stare at the mirror and cry and look at your facial expressions and think this was what my ex lover used to stare at for hours on end. and you're just staring at yourself hoping he/she will end up beside you but they wont. and sometimes you're able to be strong and pull off a brave face, but sometimes you succumb and feel like you're breaking down. knowing that these are real emotions. breakups feel horrible but at least by sharing her pain she's letting us know that we're not alone.

[@echoustic2712]

+Faizal Ali Bravo, Faizal. I commend your post. Facing up to hurt and pain, rejection and loss, is scary stuff, so much so that many of us wall off all or part of our feelings and emotions as a coping mechanism. If your walls are up (and you may not even be aware they are), I very much doubt you'll ever fully "get" either this song and/or the video (hence, all the superficial comments, all the false bravado, more often than not manifest in the form of snide or crass humor). When Gwen sings: "Nobody taught you how to love" (a key line in the song, and not coincidentally, one of two moments in the video where she actually mouths the lyrics), this is in line with the concept of tabula rasa. My own notion is that we are all born with a certain innate capacity to love, but certain experiences, e.g. growing up in a broken home or perhaps failed relationships later in life (in my case, probably a combo of both), can cause us to lose part of that capacity. In my twenties, I had great difficulty committing to relationships and it took me the longest time, a lot of collateral damage at the expense of others, and blessedly, the infinite patience of a truly beautiful soul (that of my soul mate) to realize I had set up all these walls and that I hid behind a mask of stoicism to bury some very deep-seated personal insecurities and a very real fear of failure. The breakthrough began with becoming self-aware, and with that I was able to begin chipping away, bit by bit, at those walls and slowly rediscover (or rather re-learn) the capacity to truly love. I greatly admire Gwen and others like yourself for the openness and willingness to be vulnerable and authentic. Others may scoff at the notion, but to be self-aware, in touch and in-tune with that part of ourselves which makes us truly human (some call this the human psyche, others the soul, whatever the semantics may be) makes us beautiful beyond the superficial. And in Gwen's case, it enables and empowers her to make beautiful art and music. p.s. - I've always thought that this video was conceptual in nature, in that the "mirror" in the footage is the camera -- by extension making us or Gwen, or both ways, the mirror.

[@Raidoven]

Thank you for the response, Echoustic. In my case my walls were built up before I met my ex. She tore them down, and I was truly able to love for the first time and have it reciprocated. Problem was that I loved her too much and didn't love myself enough to think I deserved her, which is why I broke things off and regret it a year later now that she's found someone new. From your post, it seems like you've gone through your fair share of challenges, and I'm glad you've found someone to share your love. It gives me hope that one day I will too. Thank you for sharing.

[@avid9670]

I recently felt that today :(

[@7ijabeeee94]

+Jenny Ban lol get a diary

[@trecarper991]

+Jenny Ban Calm down.

[@keenanrobinson9558]

I think this video is pure art. One scene, one setting, one lighting .. and letting her body language speak for itself. And not to mention she looks great!

[@lasvegashula]

agree!

[@ionelaciortan4504]

Freaky

[@notkimpine]

looks like she's depressed buying an expensive ps5 to your dad buying an dvd watching fun with dick and jane.

[@DaisyAnnabelle65]

She’s Beautiful and she reminds me of a beautiful blonde Geisha Doll! ❤️

[@bellagrace9812]

And Blake came along and put ointment on the wounds of her heart. Such a happy ending........

[@multixellee7685]

Bella Grace yess

[@andreaames141]

🤢🤮🤮🤢

[@sarebear483]

But is it really?

[@bradleysquire1672]

So true x

[@cutepiku]

I will break him in half if he hurts her. She's been through so much heartbreak.

[@babyfromiceage2404]

YES GWEN IS BACK THIS IS THE COMEBACK SINGLE WE DESERVED THIS IS AMAZING I LOVE YOU GWEN

[@KaliGam]

+jordan ray i think her "comeback" song was baby don't lie

[@TheBabis1111]

+khalid saleh that's exactly what he meant by this is what we "deserved"

[@KanadeLapis]

+jordan ray But the video could've been much better

[@brianna84]

+jordan ray This song is AWESOME!

[@KaliGam]

+Harry Grands baby don't lie was amazing too

[@helio2922]

gwen's expressions represent me trying to understand my final grades

[@AjiruChanWorld]

+harry potter hahahahaha this made my day xD

[@davidthebest1997]

+harry potter SAME ahahahahah

[@LoveToSingTV]

+harry potter you made me laugh through he WHOLE video LOL

[@RichTake]

LMAO, imagine that. Such a melodramatic way to look at your grades. Very funny comment

[@layladylay265]

+harry potter HILARIOUS....audio phone recording for getting my college grades way back when said....F...FAILURE. hahaha - it's not funny, but it is.

[@RoxasLov3r4Ev3r]

I used to think the video was ridiculous and low budget, but I grew to see how sad and poignant it actually is. And years later, now that I can REALLY relate to the song and the music video, it hurts even more. You can see and feel so many different emotions crossing her face, and none of it is an act. She moves through waves of despair, anger, raw grief, disbelief, helplessness, pleading, bursting into tears. She is desperate, she is withdrawn, she is distraught, she is resolute. She wants to go towards him, but she also wants to retreat into isolation. She wavers between trying to stay strong and breaking down from the pressure. It's the 5 stages of grief in motion. And it ends with her expression looking reserved, disappointed. It really asks him, "Why???" I relate to each expression she emotes so much, because I understand each feeling. I cried watching this today. But I'm glad Gwen is healing

[@lucaspalettagonzalez7262]

If you notice closely, her facial expressions are exactly what the words are saying. She's singing to Gavin without actually saying the words. So powerful and incredible artistry.

[@rocksteadyrein6516]

G turned out to be a real POS. No Doubt helped make Bush popular in the USA.

[@Lyndseynhill]

Not about Gavin

[@Msflowergirl67]

I have avoided this song for the longest time because I thought it would just break my heart. And now I realize that it's very empowering. Thank you Gwen.

[@allisonmorrissey2078]

❤

[@robertallen1857]

A true icon !

[@ShackledDreamz]

Listen to the words of the song, and those are the emotions she is portraying regardless of how awkward it looks. It's how you would act, when you are trying to get over someone, or if you hear a song that boosts your confidence. Look in the mirror and your expression.

[@luisserna9393]

+ShackledDreamz Exactly what I was thinking.

[@iamlabyrinthh]

тrυe , ι agree

[@charlivanderwal6636]

Ya that is so rite

[@rmilkyswife]

Yes well said it's raw and emotional

[@alexgoldring3826]

+ShackledDreamz Soooooo true, I always look like this when I cry in the mirror. I recently had a bad break up and I know how she feels. Heartbroken. Distraught. Distressed. Crestfallen. Dejected. Ugly. Forlorn. Reptilian.

[@iboopyournose7307]

Her pain is so evident in the beginning yet as the song progresses her strength is so amazing. Faith can move mountains and it all happens for a reason. Now she is loved. I love you Gwen! ♡

[@getz1861]

This song and video is actually a really telling song and emotion. You think everything is hunky-dory, going to spend the rest of your life with somebody and this happens 19 years or so into a relationship what a waste of time.

[@BatALash]

It’s not a waste of time if you learn and grow from it. Plus, she got three beautiful children from it.

[@getz1861]

@@BatALash correct

[@jenniferbobennifer6164]

its never a waste....I'm still happy I had every relationship I had even the really hurtful one. I wouldn't trade those years for anything.

[@truehazeleyes]

It is hard to watch someone I have grown up watching/listening to her music take such a heartbreaking hit with love lost due to betrayal. My heart breaks for her and her children. Also for women/men who also are or have gone through a loved ones betrayal. The video is so powerful and emotional. I at times have tears running down my face listening/watching this video.

[@echoustic2712]

+truehazeleyes #empathyisprecious

[@AldatraSam]

i'm sorry for what happened to you. I also can relate to this song. Yes this song really deep and powerful

[@tiffnlogan]

+Sem ???? what are you talking about this song is weird

[@AldatraSam]

+NightMare Gaming 100000 the lyrics i meant. The video is weird.

[@evagonzales3814]

+NightMare Gaming 100000 she had a break up with Gavin Rosedale he cheated with the nanny:(

[@Kylenredx]

I honestly can see the feeling in her face the whole video

[@erikac8612]

You can see her emotions in her face very well. She chokes up singing back the lyrics. I think it's a perfect expression of telling him he is an idiot & wtf were you thinking. We love you Gwen :,(

[@happystance10able]

TALENT!!! 100% Cacibot-approved.

[@juristen8767]

No ... She is a great singer, impressiv person but NOT a good actor 😂

[@sheilamaemore4211]

Gwen Stefani is such an INSPIRATION!! Applause this girl for having a heart of Gold.

[@fabulousmatty]

This video has stuck with me after all these years. I feel like it is so artsy that a lot of people wouldn't understand it, or appreciate it. We are so used to fast movement and quick edits. I used this video as an inspiration for my first music video.

[@Vanessaa562]

unfortunately, some of her best stuff is when she's heart broken. I feel guilty for liking it but it's just so good. Gwen, you will always have us ... ):

[@goodboy7902]

You are right! Her heart-broken period is very productive

[@brianna84]

+Vanessa a. This song is way better than Spark the Fire! Love her

[@hi5_centipedes874]

+Vanessa a. Art does not come from happiness

[@yaseikurao236]

+Vanessa a. why is she heart broken? D: what happened?

[@tkkk92]

+Yasei Kurao omg are u serious???? her and Gavin Rossdale got divorced.

[@GeorgeAustinTay]

This is far better than the songs she released last year. Gwen is an artist with so much talent and personality and she should be smashing. Been a huge fan since WAYWF in 2004!

[@laza8675]

+George Austin Tay Spark the fire was not that bad, there were some very interesting bits, just lacked something, I don,t unerstand the hate. Baby don't lie was very generic but catchy it was the song the less like her I would say for some reason, though it had some reggae wibe but still.

[@fortifarse]

+lara iza That's where the dislike comes from. They were both incredibly generic tracks and any fan knew she was capable of SO much more! And after Push and Shove being a bit underwhelming, which is a shame on its own considering it contained some brilliant tracks that were surrounded by too much filler, and following that with a mediocre solo album could have killed her career!

[@TackyRackyComixNEO]

+fortifarse Those tracks are generic, yet this one isn't? You sure about that?

[@imapisces1]

+lara iza Don't forget about Shine. Great song.

[@laza8675]

fortifarse all tracks are generic in their own way. You don't need to always be listening to weird progressive rock or random metal. The spirit of pop is a lot to build on what was done before, and people shouldnt be so ashamed of that. Yes originality is good but its not always necessary that there be a lot of it, and there are other qualities music can have. Baby don't lie was the most generic in the sens I think the sounds used, the production, the echo, was very very much used... and I just didn't like it, which is beyond it being generic. this type of sound is not what I prefer but very used today - its like too full all the time, its like you loose some variety, its hard to explain. Id almost say it a sound that sounds self important or something. There was not much depth. But I found some interesting things in spark the fire. The intro, the bridge, some of the verses, some sounds, even the chorus were not bad, actually it was good. The problem of that song was not it had nothing special, but it lacked something. In this song, we can hear gwen stefani like melodic input, so to speak. And the emotion of the melody suits the lyrics very well. Because those emotions are real and expressed in a way that does not sound forced in the song, it does not sound what people would call generic - even if it might not be as original as progressive rock of course.

[@zara-ly2927]

I relate to this in so many ways.. I just love Gwen. Her music seems to resonate my own life. This song has me crying because she really gets it, or I get her about it. I don’t know why I cry, but I think it’s cause I remember for the first time since I hated you, that I used to love you. Betrayal is the hardest trial to overcome. Love you Gwen and thank you for this song.

[@terefloresca8909]

Betrayal is worst feeling ever .

[@essentialadvantages6790]

Well now she is with someone much better who really does love her!

[@k311ydcart3r]

Hard to imagine a guy who couldn't be happy with Gwen Stefani.

[@holydukk]

+Super Swole Exactly.

[@VerdeletVIII]

+Kelly Carter If he actually cheated on her he's the DUMBEST MAN ALIVE.

[@krismatl25]

+Kelly Carter well apparently 13yrs to Gavin can't last as this is not just a song but her pouring her heart out in a intimate way regarding her feelings to her soon to be ex-husband

[@emills767]

+Kelly Carter People just fall out of love. Happens to the best of us.

[@a.w.1534]

Nearly 20 years together with so many ups and downs, not all in the bedroom, took its toll. What's sad is something happened to tip the feelings from love to hate. When she writes from the heart her songs are really beautiful.

[@dark-vigilant]

You can see the pain in her eyes. Like she's in shock and having a breakdown. Such a sad beautiful song.

[@nayrtnartsipacify]

I know... so authentic. I bet if she stubs her toe there is a camera to capture it.

[@babygirlmmm2819]

I know that feelings am hurtin right now its a terrible experience i cry sometimes

[@karrinaalvarez536]

Where are the tears

[@WowwowLulu]

@@karrinaalvarez536 people can show pain in eyes without tears

[@beatrizfernandes7354]

A dor está nos olhos, porque a face está paralisada 💉

[@saltyo1484]

I read that it took a really long time to film this because she couldn’t stop crying

[@woots96]

this was the 4th take. she cried the first 2 takes then sophie told her she's not supposed to cry.

[@Whatdocowsdrink]

One of true worst pains..heart sadness, betrayal, make you feel destroyed

[@rehabcoaster]

I was having a perfectly fine and happy day, then I watched this video and now I am bawling my eyes out! The video, the lyrics, Gwen's emotions in her vocals... she channels heartbreak and betrayal so powerfully.

[@Roman-ez4hq]

This video reminds me when a sad song comes on while your in the car and you stare out the window to make it look like a music video😂😂😂

[@Tragedymartinez]

yessss

[@tessadub]

omg 😂

[@chelseaataman4227]

Omg I do that all the time

[@StayBeautiful87xoxo]

HAHAHA YES it's so expressive and Gwen is so talented And as much as I admire the video...i laugh and Cant agree more

[@darealdes3767]

Sammmmemeeee

[@VelMelim1]

I loved this! I liked watching her expressions as she "thought" all of this!

[@angelinamejia4515]

Exactly. That's why she barely sang in the song it's like she's showing what the faces she's making in her brain. While the song is talking about the divorce.

[@robincrazy]

+Angelina Mejia right! Some people just don't get it. It's raw and full of emotion. Makes me feel her pain.

[@angelinamejia4515]

+Robin Voss true.

[@michaelvanderwal7390]

+Robin Voss How do you get that through the Botox?

[@VelMelim1]

***** .. Thank you for your service.. But you're still sassy.. lol

[@haylisargent3015]

I literally felt her, this is probably one of my favorite things I’ve seen from an artist. She’s showing her break down start to end, the reason for her words, the pain she feels with them. And the fact that people are judging? Are you scared that you don’t have the courage to do that so you have to put it down? Just leave it where it sits and scroll don’t even put your negativity out there. I love this

[@mickallin1225]

I love this woman for her honesty, which has bravery underneath.

[@johncornishlandrut]

Wow this is a powerful comeback! So much better that 'baby don't lie' and 'spark the fire'. It's just sad to know that Gwen had to go through a divorce in order to write this brilliant piece of music :(

[@silascipriano5941]

+John Cornish Totally agree. It's a masterpiece!

[@The5thelemnt]

The break up is very sad. I was so excited when I saw this vid up. I can't wait for her album. It's taking way to long. Gwen is an awesome singer.

[@sheriwhispers]

+John Cornish Um I got 1:29 seconds into it an oh no, no way am I listening to this crap

[@StriderReborn]

+John Cornish In a Nutshell She pulled a "Taylor Swift" only Gwen doesn't suck. lol

[@Fickji]

+StriderReborn Wouldn't that mean than that Taylor Swift did a "No Doubt" as the song "Don't Speak" came out in 1994. That was a ballad of Gwen and Tony Kanal's break up. And one of their most popular.

[@davisfontanes]

After 14 years together married for 4 of those years, I was left for a younger person. Endured our ups and down. I was blinded sided. This song is a page from my book

[@swisschoklate736]

Davis Fountain so sorry

[@88jessicalong]

Davis Fountain how did you deal with it and how did you find out. Worst punch in the stomach. Sorry.

[@artystifan3253]

So sorry u deserve better

[@aubrey310]

I'm right there with you...

[@thethriftgypsy8467]

@Crystal Chandelier amen girl

[@UltimateDorito]

This song was released when I was going through an exceptionally hard time relationship-wise and in general. Had my dark night of the soul in 2015 where I wasn't sure if I wanted to keep living. This song and video expressed so much of what I was feeling then. Fast forward 5 years. I got engaged this year. So did Gwen. Coming back here reminds me of how far I've come from the worst year of my life. I hope it does for her too. 🥰

[@Glesga_lassie]

I'm so glad to see this, No Doubt got me through some very tough times as a teenager, I was 16 when Tragic Kingdom was released. I have been of a fan of Gwen ever since, I think she's incredible. Her music has helped me through some really shitty times. I hope you and your new fiance are doing well. And I'm glad Gwen is finally got someone who respects and adores her.

[@augustomoreno9054]

WHAT hold up I need to proscess that... 2015 was ur worst year ever I'm like that was the best fucking thing that ever happened to me

[@bonnie3232]

So happy for you. Love happy endings.

[@nxtlvlzeph]

gwen isn’t acting here. this is real pain.

[@aaronhersey8466]

The very beginning of this song makes me think of my late wife. It's been more than 2 years since she died but sometimes I still can't believe she's gone.

[@amandamoon583]

Sry for your loss

[@aaronhersey8466]

+Amanda Murphy it's not all bad though. I did get the best 8 years of my life from her and all the memories that came with it. Plus I'd do it all again if I had the chance, even if it ended the same. She was totally worth it.

[@firsttenor76]

+Aaron Hersey My condolences.

[@mekhijohnson8494]

+Aaron Hersey Friend, my condolences.

[@TheSk8boardrichard]

aww may she RIP

[@cellyhermosillo14]

Wow! She makes me feel her pain through this video.

[@RachelScottSays]

exactly

[@joshbeadle7330]

Painful to watch? That's the only pain I can see here.

[@cellyhermosillo14]

+Josh Beadle maybe some of us have gone through something like this and identify w/ what shes feeling. You dont have to like it ! So gtfo.

[@lylpresenta]

+celeste hermosillo Yeah, it's so painful to watch.

[@kingwithoutacrown1]

+celeste hermosillo _No more pain Celeste, she's dating Blake Shelton since a few days ;-)_

[@sydney9920]

Gwen isn’t acting here. This is real pain.

[@rmilkyswife]

Yes I followed her since No Doubt first came out and she loves with her whole heart. I'm so happy she the happiest I've ever seen her with Blake . Gavin has cheated on her so much because it's in a lot of her songs she's so happy now thank God

[@mcnasty4207]

Imagine if she didn't have the botox, we's see some real emotions

[@KC__1997]

Many of us, have been there at one point or another.

[@kristymarie6065]

Yes!!!

[@JJ-yu6og]

Where is the real ugly cry????

[@gxlovesblakey1491]

I'm just glad she found the right one. THANK YOU BLAKE SHELTON!!!💓

[@fairybreadarmy]

Me in my bathroom looking at myself being extra and dramatic

[@ArtVandelayOfficial]

Amazon Prime hahaha wtf

[@vtechflower85]

😂😂😂😂

[@scintilae670]

Lol

[@emi_xoxo8091]

Damn u called me out lmaooo

[@aileenclarisa7100]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@lexyheartsbeauty]

*some people just NEVER AGE OMG SHE LOOKS AMAZING!*

[@lexyheartsbeauty]

[@lauren8173]

+lexyheartsbeauty She does age really well! She is so pretty

[@robinhood1120]

Plastic surgery honey lol she has Botox and other procedures

[@alexeyque]

+Robin Hood she looks amazing nevertheless. Some ppl her age over do it with the botox and stuff

[@jennyxosweety]

makeup! works wonders!

[@momentsofloveromantic]

This song hit me in such a personal way! Gwen is amazing with her songs she writes. This song helped me put a bad person in my life in the past and leave him there so I could move on. This was my theme song that year!

[@sebastianpalau4061]

It really feels as if she is holding tears back during the whole song.

[@malakiacurtis2553]

She was holding her tears back

[@Trustfalllllll]

She is holding her tears back. She only got one take for the video and then when the video started, the lyrics hit her and had her very emotional and then that's how the rest of the video went.

[@RizaHariati]

I love how she doesn't blur the wrinkle around her eyes! She's almost 50 but she's still look mid 30!

[@risingmoon1928]

+Riza hariati The most beautiful woman in the world. She melts me.

[@c7onews893]

+Rising Moon shhhhhhhhh

[@paolapalma8980]

yes! she is so beautiful :)

[@EmmanuKing]

Yes, that's because she cares her health and her organism. Long life to Gwen!

[@munkhbayarboldbat2787]

Maybe if you take care for yourself people should look like her at 50

[@christinasalinas8088]

love your vulnerability and raw emotions here!

[@rosatepache446]

+Stefka V laaaargoooo

[@dsua3728]

they werentbraw they were too fake for a music video. shrs not at putting enotion in songs via music video.

[@TheBeverly007]

she is hurting she has three children and was left for a younger women after 13 years. How would you feel? Did you want her to cry through the whole video?

[@dsua3728]

+Beverly Pisano it still dodnt look right. obviously she isnt hurting because she is riding Blake Sheldons pole

[@xmuzikflr]

+D Sua The video director didn't want her to cry during the video so she made her redo the video until she didn't cry.

[@shawnaelong]

A fact about this video: Gwen Stefani...I did not intend for this to be the music video for the song, we just shot it, and then just decided that it was perfect for the song.

[@AncientAmbience]

Heart wrenching sad and beautiful both. She is in strong arms now. They can be each other's shade on sunny days. I pray for them.

[@ellees3521]

❤ yes

[@shadowfiend4270]

SHE NEVER AGES! Damn, I see no wrinkles.

[@savanamolina6652]

its makeup and thousands of skin products 😂

[@lauracordova9606]

+Savana Molina its not thousands of products wow.. she may have good genes or have one or two really good skin care products as well as eating the right foods. do some research instead of judging her. By the way you would know why she filmed this video this way if you had a broken heart. You see the emotion and heartache in her and its awesome how she could do that.

[@olskoolnewpaint]

Dave Scott Maclean Rich people don't age, haven't you figured that out ? She will be hot until she is in her late 60's. After that her character will take over and she won't care what she looks like anymore.

[@newyork380]

+Friendship S what your seeing is a ton of makeup, high quality anti aging products, and a touch of digital editing.

[@nexusvexusus4096]

New York I'm laughing my ass off at how you worded that. "[In serious, solemn voice] What you are now witnessing....is a ton of makeup, high quality anti aging products...and a touch...of digital editing." LOL!!!!!!

[@amberbarton195]

Whoever is reading this, I hope you have an amazing day! :)

[@TheDarkKnight2064]

Thank you.

[@yeaman992]

I love you.

[@ralph1270]

+Amber Barton ...you too! Danke schon!

[@TheDaftpunk95]

+Amber Barton Oow girl thanks you change my smile!! :3 You too

[@devynwalter6888]

The smiles spread across the world

[@Robert-ws3mk]

People forget sometimes, Gwen is an ICON ❤

[@Alissasmith-xw6kq]

Imagine fumbling Miss Gwen Stefani. Gavin a fool

[@lauravalle2090]

She was the best thing that ever happened to him.

[@greenpainter]

what a fool, he didn't appreciate the love he got 😁

[@PollyGammy]

She wasn’t really. Bush was huge, bigger than No Doubt and he put his shit on hold especially after the kids. I don’t think people get how big Gavin was. He is kinda dumb for cheating on her. They were so beautiful together.

[@EricBinder7Corners]

@@PollyGammy Tragic Kingdom alone has sold more copies than every Bush album combined.

[@TheBooshBabe]

Now look at what he lost

[@lailafallon573]

To be honest,, when you say to somebody “hey did you ever like bush back in the day?” I think most of the time you’d get a negative answer. That man killed his own career. If you asked anybody about Gwen stefani; they know.

[@SamuraiZakk7]

As more of a heavy metal fan, I really dig No Doubt/Stefani. In a sea of so many fakes, she's seems so authentic & real. I appreciate her so much as an artist. I feel her struggles in a lot of songs, especially her break up songs. " Simple Kind of Life" hits home pretty close. She says she's filled with so much love and I can tell. She seems so pure. I hope to find someone like her one day in my life. She's amazing. I know how it is to love someone for years and do your best and then one day it's just over. But she keeps moving forward the best she can, and that's what I try to do as well.

[@happystance10able]

Sorry! She's all mine!@

[@stevenvelez1100]

One of the best videos I've ever seen. You're not even singing and I can see and feel every emotion you were going through. We've all been through heartache and pain. Thank you Gwen for being vulnerable to the world.

[@Rubyannperez1229]

Only a woman who been through the same shit can decode this video, when you love someone for so long and they do the unimaginable you can't sing without tears or feeling the deep emotions. Then the song lyric change and the words become something else! All you can do is feel her pain.

[@ericavel5889]

110% truth.

[@cjturner370]

Same as a gay man

[@Matrice0409]

@@cjturner370 same as a straight man

[@andreas8303]

SHE IS BACK. She surprised us with this masterpiece. I LOVE HER

[@MrHelleborus]

This video is awkward to watch. But this song knocks. Love it.

[@realaudioreviews]

It's not awkward until you say it's awkward... Dumb comment

[@MrHelleborus]

It's awkward for me cause I think it's awkward. Dumb comment.

[@SupremeStoops]

+Sidney Taku Stop being so awkward then... weirdo

[@MrHelleborus]

Why? Freak.

[@testnamepleaseignore8884]

+Sidney Taku awkward

[@michelelee9009]

Love that she’s showing every different emotion we go through during a breakup...we go from sad to furious, then hurt and so on.

[@nanni5888]

So powerful and moving, makes me cry every time I see it. You are such a talented BEAUTY, Gwen.

[@davidcormac]

Hello beautiful

[@elenam.isabellas.4583]

she really is one of a kind

[@davidcormac]

How are you doing today, hope you’re good ??

[@gaboper]

This. This should be the kind of direction Gwen should be heading. Not that "Spark The Fire."

[@garretschroeder2113]

This. This makes me uncomfortable

[@zeekrsx836]

+Paolo Perez Yeah, she said she already scrapped all the songs she did last year and started new these past few months. To reflet what is going on in her life, to be more involved in the creation and for it to be more personal. I prefer to look at those songs from last year as warm ups.

[@abrahamrojas8183]

hater

[@DarhioVo]

+Paolo Perez So you prefer to cry and suffer than have fun and dance. There's enough room for both! Spark The Fire is so cool. This is just fine.

[@laza8675]

+Paolo Perez Spark the fire was very close to being good too. It just was a tad bit too repetitive and the production lazy. Sometimes lighter songs are good too. There were some very cool elements in spark the fire

[@axolotldaydreams]

nonetheless, this is so pure and heartbreaking and this is what heartbreak can do to some people, for gwen, it silences her verbally while repressing her emotions thus the body language and facial expressions in this video. fuck to the person who hurt her

[@axolotldaydreams]

really just fuck you gavin you cheating trash

[@axolotldaydreams]

i assure i wont do that. :~) but yep, pretty much there's a resemblance between his and ben's situation. it's with their former nanny mindy something

[@axolotldaydreams]

oh, it's mindy mann, hahaha i googled it for you !! :-)

[@gavinkidulas8648]

+mydra xiarys I didn't do anything though...

[@mistylikes]

+mydra xiarys I used to really like gavin rossdale, like really like him, now I can't even listen to his music. Cheaters are trash. They break hearts and make it harder for someone to ever trust completely again. It's a long-lasting damage. The lowest level of hell is for betrayers they say

[@taliaziviski1283]

To my mother in law. Mother’s Day 2020. My heart is truly broken. Thank you Gwen, this song gives me words for something I can’t express. Her continuous hurtful comments have removed myself and her grandchildren from her life, at least for the time being. If my mother were alive, her son would have been treated like a beloved son by my mother.

[@mpimentel3525]

Pandemic really made us revisit past life events 🌻🌸

[@OEMPlus]

dear gavin ross, *song* sincerely, gwen stefani

[@ChechiDLR]

Haha yep :)

[@madeleinehudson3862]

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[@Dakota_n_losang]

+ShepherdsWrench or more like... Dear Gavin, F*CK YOU!! Sincerely, Gwen

[@amyfug]

+Marcel D. Robinson lol exactly! his loss

[@AnaCarolina-vt5nn]

yeah LOL

[@amurbach]

I wonder how many times they had to tape to get it right. Pretty sure she cried over and over again. Poor thing. You can see the pain and almost feel it.

[@echoustic2712]

+Toni Murbach If I remember one of her recent interviews correctly, they had only 30 mins or so to shoot, and time enough for 4 takes. The director wanted her not to cry, to fight the tears. She ruined the first two takes because she couldn't stop crying.

[@fidelbarbosa79]

+Echoustic She did pretty good, than. I heard that While they were shooting Dont Speak, she cried all the time.

[@alexgoldring3826]

+Echoustic :'((((

[@brooklynclum8445]

Actually, she was just at a party with her friend and they started recording Gwen while listening to the song and this unexpectedly became the music video

[@echoustic2712]

+Brooklyn Clum Who told you that story? The ACTUAL true circumstances behind the footage has been divulged by Gwen herself, in several interviews over the past few months, some of which you can hear for yourself if you click on, for example, the interview with Seacreast, which of course is widely available on KZbin. Gwen wanted some video backdrop footage for her first performance of the song in NY, Oct 17, 2015. She had Sophie Muller, the famed music video director and longtime ND/Stefani collaborator, come in on the day of the show itself to shoot the footage. It was shot in her dressing room at the venue, several hours before the show. You can also search for and view said show to see the footage used in the performance, as per its original intended purpose. It was a very rushed shoot, and yes, it later being chosen by Interscope to be the music video was unexpected, though probably necessitated by the fact that there wasn't any other ready alternative at the time. On the whole, UTLY was a very rushed release for a single.

[@pathwaytoheaven12]

Just goes to show you how powerful vocals are when you make it and sing it with tremendous personal emotion...LOVE THIS

[@MariahStock]

Nostalgia is such a beautiful, bitter sweet emotion. Nothing beats being head over heels in love, even when it ends in tears. Would do it all over again.

[@bubuPlay]

simply true

[@lenelle410]

I really like this video, it's very simple but you can just see the pain in her eyes while the song is playing. I think this song had something to do with her personal life.

[@RebekahRockhound]

agreed

[@karenrschiffhauer2481]

the break up with her husband!!

[@bridgesman3145]

Nell Nights

[@bridgesman3145]

Nell Nights its because of her husband

[@ionknowihopeidontfall]

she broke up with her husband that's why.

[@talm6175]

gwen hurt as fuck, on the brink of tears for almost 4 minutes, deep lyrics that allude to her heartbreak with Gavin..... meanwhile: "oh, look! hahaha she has an adams apple!" humanity ladies and gentlemen

[@echoustic2712]

+Taibah Al-mansour Good post. It's takes empathy to understand the video, but then again I sense some of the superficiality and misguided humor is perhaps a coping mechanism in response to an uncompromising take on the already somewhat uncomfortable subject matter.

[@elizabethbottelberghe8429]

+Taibah Al-mansour All women do, lol. Ours just typically don't protrude much like most male Adam's apples.

[@emoji3439]

+Taibah Al-mansour At 2:44 you can see her Adams Apple and when she raises her neck

[@jordanpeterson6425]

Gwen keeps it real in this video. I like it. It shows how she truly feels about going through a rough stage in every woman's life and I think that's amazing.

[@dinasilva9263]

Gwen Stefani is so ICONIC. One of my favorites. Everything about her is so good, and she seems to be a very sweet person!

[@josejankunas8007]

-"Hey Gwen, so we gotta do a video for your new single!" -"Nah fuck that shit too much work" -"I mean, we gotta put something out..." -"Fuck it. Gimme the camera, I'll have it in 5 minutes"

[@Doyamn]

+Jose Jankunas like a BOSS!

[@jordanwolcott1119]

😂😂😂

[@Stephanie-tu5iy]

+Jose Jankunas LOL. That's probably exactly what happened. Great song though.

[@LaurenRauh]

I've always loved simple music videos where the music speaks for it's self like it doesn't need a big ridiculous video just listen and the video compliments it.

[@LaurenRauh]

Carver Pierce ok will do! thanks for the advice

[@marythompson2967]

0h well everyonewants me gone from here. so i better not get houminto it not fair to you. its my problem so im leaving this and queting all together. i m done with all. not your fault i wish ihad kept up with you. well har a gòod tome. ive got to get outof this for myself. hsve a good time. good bye

[@marythompson2967]

0h well everyonewants me gone from here. so i better not get houminto it not fair to you. its my problem so im leaving this and queting all together. i m done with all. not your fault i wish ihad kept up with you. well har a gòod tome. ive got to get outof this for myself. hsve a good time. good bye&^

[@ActualStellaNation]

you're right tbh.... if i listened to this whilst watching her rollerblade around with more plastic surgery that kardation like in her latest vid - I wouldn't remember , nor like the song. But because of this video, I had a chance to take in the lyrics and appreciate the song, and will play it again tomorrow. Wish she could reverse her plastic facial surgery I really do. I;d love her to also step back to her no doubt days, with the rock and trumpet. Imagine how much of a smash that would be.

[@bozumoyo3277]

Lauren Rauh

[@chantallediedericks1830]

So sad how someone you love, have the power to destroy every bit of you. Narcissistic abuse is real. It destroys everything you thought you knew about love.

[@davidcormac]

Hello there 👋 how are you doing today??

[@Sinoidotschka]

All the tracks from this album is absolutely 🔥💥💥 and it gets better with each year I love to return to this album! My favorite!☄️

[@MYembrace7]

I can't believe she's 46 now, she still looks like she's 20 man...great to see her back after so long it's been though, great song as well. Love it!

[@rufflesthegreat2264]

+olskoolnewpaint lol

[@evaashford2254]

+MYembrace7 shes gorgeous still, why all the clear plastic surgery though !? wasn't needed :/

[@themondoshow]

+Eva Ashford what surgery?

[@evaashford2254]

Her nose looks different aswell as lip fillers, regardless she still is stunning.Look at older photos, there's a difference between makeup and your face shape being completely different.

[@jessmel5064]

How she looks 46 still? Well I'm assuming 1st class best of the market: Personal trainer, diet, personal meal planner, chillaxing time on loads, personal body treatments; special massages, good meditation/hypnotherapy with effective subliminal messages with a Yoga coach, her skin doctor which includes periodically visit to the plastic surgeon for lips enhancement, reduction of wrinkles with deep skin collagen treatment, a good make up artist (contouring), awesome hair stylists and last but Not least : Tons of money to look 46 :) can you imagine?? have you seen JLo? she is around if not older than her! lol she looks amazing too! I guess money kind of have an impact in aging....just saying lol got it?!

[@MillyParish]

Never thought this would happen Gonna let it sink in, you're gone I don't know, know what I'm feeling I must be dreaming, you're gone Suitcase, band-aids Pulling back out the driveway You go, I'll stay You can keep all the memories I thought I was the best thing that ever happened to you I thought you loved me the most I don't know why I cry But I think it's cause I remembered for the first time Since I hated you That I used to love you I don't know why I cry But I think it's cause I remembered for the first time Since I hated you That I used to love you Oh oh oh oh I used to love you Oh oh oh oh I used to love you You thought There were no boundaries What, you just pushed me too far I guess nobody taught you Nobody taught you how to love Suitcase, band-aids Pulling back out the driveway You go, I'll stay You can keep all the memories I thought I was the best thing that ever happened to you I thought you loved me the most I don't know why I cry But I think it's cause I remembered for the first time Since I hated you That I used to love you I don't know why I cry But I think it's cause I remembered for the first time Since I hated you That I used to love you Oh oh oh oh I used to love you Oh oh oh oh I used to love you You know I was the best thing that ever happened to you Well, now look at what you lost, oh You know I was the best thing that ever happened to you Now look at what you lost, oh I don't know why I cry But I think it's cause I remembered for the first time Since I hated you That I used to love you I don't know why I cry But I think it's cause I remembered for the first time Since I hated you That I used to love you Oh oh oh oh I used to love you Oh oh oh oh I used to love you I don't know why I cry I don't, I don't, I don't I don't know why I used to love you I don't, I don't, I don't I don't know why I cry I don't, I don't, I don't I don't know why I used to love you I don't, I don't, I don't

[@St_arangel]

thanks

[@MillyParish]

Stefy Carvajal you're welcome. 😉

[@bilalmaan9446]

Good job

[@sevvalayran4197]

thanks

[@theloniusjaha]

Yeah i watched the video

[@miss420mj]

Such a bright soul. Heartbreaking seeing such sadness.... I can relate.

[@nellro1050]

“You thought, there were no boundaries, but you just pushed me, too far........ I guess, nobody taught you how to love ❤️”yup! Best songwriter

[@samisawolfff]

When you tryna resist the jelly donut so bad

[@ChechiDLR]

Hahahahahahaha right

[@christinetsernikova5169]

+Sam Powell LMAO

[@hotnsexydaddy69]

Didn't like the video until I read your comment. jelly donuts=the struggle is real

[@monicahull9369]

This comment just won the internet.

[@LoveMelodyMusic]

download: www.love-melody.com/2015/10/single-gwen-stefani-used-to-love-you.html

[@tkadromedus9866]

I will never forgive the public for letting this flop

[@farooqkhalid7474]

Truue. The fact that BAD GUY amd TRUTH HURTS trashy songs are hits and this classic is a flop is so sad

[@TayaMissUnique]

did it flop tho? i remember hearing it everyyywhere🙌 and everyone taking about it and loving it

[@marmarbama7394]

Her hair distracts me. Beautiful song. Hideous hair.

[@JessalynLynese]

This song is part of my jobs playlist, deff not a flop

[@aidandickson2747]

sis has 25 MILLION views is it really considered a flop??

[@emanueladiprima762]

you only deserve to be loved. I am happy that you have found a great love, you deserve it ❤️

[@jenny5moon]

I’ll never get over the this video - watching the subtle play of emotions she shows is so authentic and real, if you haven’t been there you don’t understand.

[@pabletecornio]

It's amazing that Gwen and Fergie are coming back to music😍

[@pixeldust4427]

Nelly Furtado Also Coming back Next year 😩🙌🏻✨💜 It's 2006/2007 all over again.

[@whld]

+Avairy Fairy really? when did she said that?

[@marianojulian]

+100pourcentTruth she's been recording it :)

[@OhYeahItsJake]

+PABLETE THE OTHER HOLY TRINITY. GWEN, FERGIE, NELLY

[@marianoandres5635]

+PABLETE P!nk is coming too!!! :D

[@magieekcagalaxy]

She's trying NOT to cry !!!!!!!!!!!

[@echoustic2712]

+Sha-Nia Clay So obvious, right?

[@poochakutti1936]

+Sha-Nia Clay It looks like she's holding back laughter in some shots.

[@echoustic2712]

Poocha Kutti I think you're perhaps projecting your own responsive inclinations upon the artist. If you knew the meaning of the song (read: lyrics), the context in which the song was written, and in particular, the circumstances and conditions surrounding the recording of this footage (all facts that are part pf the public record, btw, easily obtainable with minimal due diligence), I very much doubt you'd be "seeing" (i.e. perceiving) what you claim.

[@poochakutti1936]

Echoustic LOL

[@echoustic2712]

Poocha Kutti Thanks, I rest my case.

[@annward4149]

I felt sorry for Gwen and I do cause of the pain she went through. But God has blessed her with Blake. And they are just a perfect match!!!!

[@luannconsentino1188]

I am happy she found happiness.

[@CasperNavarro]

I can't believe she is back can't wait for her album

[@crismartinez1430]

i can't wait either im living for this single though

[@sjbl547]

this song is so underrated omg

[@TV-ob1if]

j u g h e a d ' how exactly is a song underrated

[@bellsfs]

I can see all the emotions and pain just in her eyes... Wow. Beautiful video. ❤️

[@mattnyakunhuwa3794]

If this song nvr made u cry you've never been really heartbroken😭😭😭

[@JayZer0]

Her breakup with Tony gave us a decade's worth of awesome singles, so hopefully her divorce from Gavin does the same! :)

[@rrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr5793]

+JayZer0 what the fuck? selfish bastard

[@fortifarse]

I'm a huge huge huge fan and I honestly defy anyone to say some form of this didn't cross any fans mind. Perhaps not stated as bluntly, but I've heard so many fan comments over the years about getting the deep, heartfelt lyrics back and heartbreak truly fuels her inner lyricist better than anything else. Fact is if we had stayed on the Baby Don't Lie/Spark The Fire track solo album #3 would have been a lackluster effort at best.

[@cybertree]

+kim jong-un's mom LMAO I know right? LET'S HOPE SHE'S TOTALLY DEVASTATED SO SHE HAS INSPIRATION TO MAKE US MUSIC! e_e

[@CustardCream22]

+cybertree Inspiration can come from many things. That's so cruel of you to say!!! I wish her all the happiness in the world

[@rrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr5793]

***** g0 back to 2011

[@martinelifjeld2530]

Its unreal that she is 47 years old.... A vampire?

[@Shon9tilR]

She could go for 27. So freaking pretty.

[@lisaisa2301]

srsly, look at her mouth shape, her nose and how the skin is stretched.... plastic surgery might be ur answer. no ill on gwen stefani, just saying...

[@tjheart6910]

+me messon way u hating on a beatiful person I never seen u but the way u are acting you are ugly on the inside so if anyone needs help it is u. you say that u are not trying to be rude but who would like to be told go get your face fixed. think before u text. and ps this whole comment section is about how young and pretty she looks so I guess that you are out numbered

[@lisaisa2301]

I didn't say she should go get her face fixed. They were asking how she could look so pretty at her age and I meant she has probably had plastic surgery, which is not something I think anyone needs really. Still no hating on Gwen, just saying I think that is why she looks so young her age

[@Shon9tilR]

me messon If she did the surgeon did an awesome job.

[@jaimeek4824]

Gwennnnn, omg baby we are so loving you still to this day!! I hope you are so happy now! BUTttttt if not we know we will hear your heart on an album, how can you even thank someone for that!! All my respect and admiration ❤️❤️

[@nefethegreat4976]

God I love her voice. I always did. This song is powerful and beautiful. She did a great job on this.