habits to avoid if you want dark confidence

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Күн бұрын

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@donallen7313
@donallen7313 Жыл бұрын
You can’t play confidence. You simply have to learn to love yourself and accept that how you are is how you are. Then defend that, and stand up for what you want and trust that it’s right. When it’s wrong, face the consequences of your actions with humility. Stop looking at tv and movie characters as templates for how you should be. That is the very opposite of confidence.
@neo1675
@neo1675 Жыл бұрын
you should make a video
@slysoulja1861
@slysoulja1861 Жыл бұрын
real
@benja303
@benja303 Жыл бұрын
facts. this is all so 🌽y
@amaniet8722
@amaniet8722 Жыл бұрын
honestly its best to just be yourself i find these vids soo goofy because why would u take advise to be someone your not at the end of the day your true self will still show so its like just be you.
@briancomforti3890
@briancomforti3890 Жыл бұрын
yeah this only works if what you stand up for is actually right. Otherwise you're one of a million people standing up for immoral cowardly behavior because you "trust that it's right"
@xxiamlostxx_dreams_7916
@xxiamlostxx_dreams_7916 Жыл бұрын
I really love the" fake it till you make it " confidence
@mustbecome
@mustbecome Жыл бұрын
I hear you. Eventually, you no longer have game, you just BECOME game. Its never off. If you just keep practicing it, it kind of just comes. Think about when we sleep. We basically put our head on the pillow and pretend to be asleep until finally.... we're sleeping lol.
@ChrisWilliams-ls7ue
@ChrisWilliams-ls7ue 11 ай бұрын
Holy shit I never thought of the sleep thing lol
@lylyle2029
@lylyle2029 Жыл бұрын
just work on yourself be your personality bro like if ur nature is talkative then learn how to talk interestingly don't try to "listen more, speak less" omg confidence can't be faked
@officialonifans
@officialonifans Жыл бұрын
confidence comes from character development. not the personality you're born with.
@lavatr8322
@lavatr8322 Жыл бұрын
My nature isn't talkative and I have social anxiety but I fought it and joined the gym where I get more social anxiety, also I'm the thinnest guy ....but I fight it.
@lylyle2029
@lylyle2029 Жыл бұрын
@@officialonifans ofc but you have to develop around your personality, there's different kind of confident, talk less and be colder is not the only way
@balleraddict
@balleraddict Жыл бұрын
Facts bro... there are those guys who talk a lot but they know how to move their audience with their words most of the time... really extroverted individuals. They're able to talk to a multitude of people
@fuadhaque9417
@fuadhaque9417 Жыл бұрын
This comment made my day, so true!!!
@milinddinesh7359
@milinddinesh7359 Жыл бұрын
Keep it simple . Stay fit. Have healthy habits. Work on your posture. Spend more time offline or with people instead of social media . Listen more talk less. Dress simple , but presentable and according to the occasion. Take care of general hygiene and cleanliness.
@enioescauriza330
@enioescauriza330 Жыл бұрын
Your best video! Water in my opinion is the real challenge, always being surrounded by soft drinks or alcohol
@mustbecome
@mustbecome Жыл бұрын
Honestly, try doing a 75 day challenege of avoiding things other than water. Make sure your friends know youre doing it. That way, when theres temptation, they already know youve preset that you're not touching it. Then either take a couple days to chill, or go back on another challenge. Soon enough people will just know you as the guy who doesnt drink that shit.
@ZoneTwelveOnline
@ZoneTwelveOnline Жыл бұрын
Water drinking is like a form of fitness the more you become able to drink in a day the more effortless it becomes. We were forced to drink 4 litres every day for years when I was young because of high level training. I didn't know at the time but it was a blessing because to this day I drink 2 litres a day as a preference, WHY? Because my "water drinking fitness" that benchmark was set at 4 Litres. The body will adjust and then expect it. You will look 30 when you are in your 40s
@iamsubham333
@iamsubham333 Жыл бұрын
Broooo, straight up quality content and facts. Keep them coming.
@ekbrownly1205
@ekbrownly1205 Жыл бұрын
Confidence has nothin to do with looks or how u feel The more u know about the universe the less u start to care about life People who lack confidence just don’t know much
@pillspotions3464
@pillspotions3464 Жыл бұрын
I'm not confident...please teach me.
@ENZERYN
@ENZERYN Жыл бұрын
"confidence has nothin to do with looks or how you feel" what's with that exaggeration.. rather misleading
@daddysirbtw3192
@daddysirbtw3192 Жыл бұрын
i want to stop using social medias but also want to keep self improving
@Ayush-li6nn
@Ayush-li6nn Жыл бұрын
​@@duncanpincushion9980 good advice.
@dylanguitarr
@dylanguitarr Жыл бұрын
“if u wanna have dark confidence you need clear skin “😭 stop ittt
@maekomaeko1555
@maekomaeko1555 Жыл бұрын
😅😅😅
@LeonardPC272
@LeonardPC272 Жыл бұрын
You just gotta feel good inside
@LPrulezhard
@LPrulezhard Жыл бұрын
Im going monkmode starting today for the next 3 months. My goal is to get in better shape physically, workout every day and grow my business to 5-10 k a month and 5 people who i manage, coach and lead. Lets do this!
@davideddy3074
@davideddy3074 Жыл бұрын
Me too bro I'm on the same mission. Let's fuckin go
@mustbecome
@mustbecome Жыл бұрын
YES. 90 days is amazing to do something like this. I talk about this all the time. And eventually you'll just prefer yourself as monkmode and that will just become you because the results are so addictive. No other way to live. Keep us updated on the progress!
@Sallen000
@Sallen000 Жыл бұрын
Yall always be talking about doing sum shit, not keeping in mind that you need to provide real value.. If you aint got no skills that you can cash out on, you wont learn any good enough to do so in 2-3 months. Look for something you like doing and then work on your craft instead of talking bout sum useless shit
@LunchWitLou
@LunchWitLou Жыл бұрын
What type of buisness you into ?
@eyespy3001
@eyespy3001 Жыл бұрын
@@LunchWitLouPyramid scheme
@jesuschristislord98
@jesuschristislord98 Жыл бұрын
Confidence come from doing something and getting the desired results ..but you have to keep trying when you fail ..if you believe that you will find success through trading don't stop when you blow your acc but go back to the drawing board and learn then comeback for more ..keep getting up when you fvck it up ..eventually you'll get it and that's were the confidence will come from ..first you start and then you never stop
@carltwidle9046
@carltwidle9046 Жыл бұрын
No one has 100 % complete confidence. I'm an old guy now. I lacked self confidence at times in my life, but so does everyone. Anyone who's says they are confident all the time are lying.
@x-sylvr
@x-sylvr Жыл бұрын
After watching this video, I've realized this was me all along.
@mariusgutowski8623
@mariusgutowski8623 Жыл бұрын
it´s so funny how patrick bateman, literally a psychopath that brutally murders people, has become some type of role model to all you alpha bros.
@SoSoAmazing
@SoSoAmazing Жыл бұрын
lmmfaooooo for real
@felixlehmann6369
@felixlehmann6369 Жыл бұрын
And thomas shelby, gangster boss and drug addict with failed relationships to his children, his wife and his brother. 😂
@ENZERYN
@ENZERYN Жыл бұрын
​@@felixlehmann6369and he even has so mnay mental issues. PTSD, depression, etc. He isn't seductive, isn't likeable... Just has status and wannabe-effortless attitude. Life's off with him.
@SelfMasteryYT
@SelfMasteryYT Жыл бұрын
Your best video yet 👊🏻
@krishshelke2006
@krishshelke2006 5 ай бұрын
I guess accepting ur self the way u r , stop hoping for people,n working on urself will give u the confidence everyone dreams of
@JustABoy98
@JustABoy98 Жыл бұрын
Love it love it broo new fan 🔥
@zakilisandro9003
@zakilisandro9003 Жыл бұрын
I thing that this dark confidence exist only in Films. And TV shows
@laughalltime_
@laughalltime_ Жыл бұрын
Hey can you make a video for hair routine of black men ,our hair are totally different
@__ActaFooL
@__ActaFooL Жыл бұрын
Finally someone said it💯
@j36793
@j36793 Жыл бұрын
How are you going to ask a non black guy for black advice
@Praise--
@Praise-- Жыл бұрын
​@@j36793💀
@Datboi_Av
@Datboi_Av Жыл бұрын
@@j36793 😂nigga
@Datboi_Av
@Datboi_Av Жыл бұрын
Bro just grow that shit out or just get well braided braids or a drop fade there’s so much we can do bro if it’s grown out like our out curl it water conditioner shake boom we don’t have to a lot of shit fr fr 😂
@famousintellect
@famousintellect Жыл бұрын
great vid!! thanks 🙏🏿
@kimoshoheeb5402
@kimoshoheeb5402 Жыл бұрын
To speak less when you have nothing important or effective to say. As long as speaking provokes you then that's the target dude. To make you un comfortable. That's what we are all working on.
@ENZERYN
@ENZERYN Жыл бұрын
You're rare
@woudanborson2778
@woudanborson2778 Жыл бұрын
talk less and listen more - well, this can be interpreted as shyness tbh
@sahilutekar495
@sahilutekar495 Жыл бұрын
If you were truly listening just maintain the eye contact with the person who's talking and then you'll not be interpreted as shy person and if still that person or any other person tries to tell u that you're shy give them straight answer ' I'm all ears to '. ' the person who's talking this helps...
@marvin22blu
@marvin22blu Жыл бұрын
Dark confidence ? Bruh wtf y’all coming up with new shit everyday 😂😂😂
@obiblaster3913
@obiblaster3913 Жыл бұрын
Real bro, wtf is an asthetic man 💀
@sakshamrao6581
@sakshamrao6581 Жыл бұрын
I think it is just similar to introverted confidence
@glitch8445
@glitch8445 Жыл бұрын
fr bro , if he renamed it to just confidence it actually makes sense but tf is dark confidence
@VanitasTV
@VanitasTV Жыл бұрын
Corrupt Rizz 🤣
@Astranoire
@Astranoire Жыл бұрын
I swear, people keep making up new terms and create youtube guide of them for profits.
@colemoran13
@colemoran13 Жыл бұрын
The videos you've been making really resonate with me. Would you be willing to let me edit for you for free until the channel is at the point where you are making good money?
@GangGang-cp3sz
@GangGang-cp3sz Жыл бұрын
Can you make one video about money management, job things for girls and yourself?
@gvsmani4810
@gvsmani4810 7 ай бұрын
😭😭im quiet,but still I don't think pepple listen to me, I'm too socially anxious
@mrsugma
@mrsugma 8 ай бұрын
Being blunt
@himmick5438
@himmick5438 Жыл бұрын
Humanity is so confused
@RafYT
@RafYT Жыл бұрын
The song aight ngl…good marketing
@PersonalFinance-j5m
@PersonalFinance-j5m Жыл бұрын
working on ur physique ain’t looksmaxxing that’s gymmaxxing and looksmaxxers usually make fun of those hyper masculine guys
@davidignatius1
@davidignatius1 Жыл бұрын
Can you have a dark confidence while also being poor? Or being rich is also a must?
@kaspervaneetvemde2613
@kaspervaneetvemde2613 Жыл бұрын
Real confident people don’t have to fake…
@rahulgudhe551
@rahulgudhe551 Жыл бұрын
thank you
@donarunav7214
@donarunav7214 Жыл бұрын
Lucrative.
@A789.
@A789. Жыл бұрын
thank you sm bro
@EyuephanTuran
@EyuephanTuran Жыл бұрын
I have a little Rock under my Bedsheets
@Vhsss_God
@Vhsss_God Жыл бұрын
In terms of skin care products don't listen to him. Get (morning) Cleanser/ face wash (gentle soothing) Niacinamide & hyaloronic acid serum Moisturiser & spf (Night) Salicylic acid Exfoliant Vitamin c serum Retinol Every 2 weeks use a derma stamp 0.75mm to help your skin produce more cologen :) That's the secret to perfect skin
@Flyfam11
@Flyfam11 Жыл бұрын
I wish I could give this four thumbs up!!!! Oh wait….👍👍👍👍
@youngmoney7262
@youngmoney7262 Жыл бұрын
Ultra gigachad pro max😂😂💔
@obiblaster3913
@obiblaster3913 Жыл бұрын
How do I get light confidence? 🧐🧐
@Wallentino
@Wallentino Жыл бұрын
Is this supposed to be a joke... If it is, it's probably a good one😂😂💯 premium bro
@carlosreptile
@carlosreptile Жыл бұрын
just play with white mage bro
@ToyoinGaming
@ToyoinGaming 10 ай бұрын
this was good
@tjbenito683
@tjbenito683 Жыл бұрын
Ya no, I’m getting jacked don’t give a shit wat anybody says.
@hoangphi241
@hoangphi241 Жыл бұрын
can i have normal confidence ?
@masoodpeshtaz73
@masoodpeshtaz73 Жыл бұрын
Who died and made you the authority on dark confidence
@Kometheus
@Kometheus Жыл бұрын
After you come out as an ai voice channel or famous KZbinr can I have the channel? Lol 👀
@matthewcormier8744
@matthewcormier8744 Жыл бұрын
Yes
@hemantsalaskar6004
@hemantsalaskar6004 Жыл бұрын
Vro are u from India?
@shahrulziman7752
@shahrulziman7752 Жыл бұрын
It's been 5 day, i can now finally finish the video😂
@Contagious_chap
@Contagious_chap Жыл бұрын
Why is it label dark?
@Yarmox
@Yarmox Жыл бұрын
We need old money aesthetic confidence
@eyespy3001
@eyespy3001 Жыл бұрын
Dude, get off Tik Tok…
@Yarmox
@Yarmox Жыл бұрын
@@eyespy3001 we need tik tok quiet luxury aesthic. please
@mosey4915
@mosey4915 Жыл бұрын
@@eyespy3001hahaha fr man hate this generation
@orhanbbeslagic-ss6pu
@orhanbbeslagic-ss6pu Жыл бұрын
Second its sad
@ypspice
@ypspice Жыл бұрын
the thing is.. i am a narcissist bro 😩
@coldndistant6511
@coldndistant6511 Жыл бұрын
just be yourself bro
@MemeYouyou-dz4yk
@MemeYouyou-dz4yk Жыл бұрын
I already had their confidence before there was even a name for it but it doesn't seem to work in this part of town because a lot of idiot girls and foolish followers kiss the butt or lick the boots of whoever they're afraid of instead of who they truly respect Instead, they're jealous envious haters while being impressed by the While I don't have to prove anything which is misinterpreted as I am nothing The truth is I'm past that something with the big mouth showing off I don't have to show I'm already private and I know I'm good until you find out😶 My comfort zone does not require other people's approval especially if they're jealous haters which means a secretly admire you but wish to mislead or lie to you to sabotage you Never believe the hype folks don't believe the hype🤪🙃
@shahmuzammall
@shahmuzammall Жыл бұрын
But i'm black😭😭
@SandyNiki
@SandyNiki 10 ай бұрын
You mean ebony.
@justheretoinspireyou5803
@justheretoinspireyou5803 Жыл бұрын
Cool vid..
@slysoulja1861
@slysoulja1861 Жыл бұрын
wtf is dark confidence bro
@Private_Account101
@Private_Account101 Жыл бұрын
W vid
@cassius12ful
@cassius12ful Жыл бұрын
Third !!
@ronkeli2963
@ronkeli2963 Жыл бұрын
@balistikcious
@balistikcious Жыл бұрын
Pls stop the keyboard sounds
@SoSoAmazing
@SoSoAmazing Жыл бұрын
So basically tips for 16 year olds and shit.... ok cool. Glad I stopped halfway. But I respect your work and hustle. Wish you the best in the KZbin game.
@themvp8922
@themvp8922 Жыл бұрын
Cringe on god
@Me-vl4vk
@Me-vl4vk Жыл бұрын
As a gay guy I see a quiet confident man and the question is "do I wanna be him or do I want him"
@blabla-xq1br
@blabla-xq1br 9 ай бұрын
Ew
Жыл бұрын
first
@Mids528
@Mids528 Жыл бұрын
Oh my god😂dark confidence is the gayest shitt ive ever heard it’s just confidence people are trying to hard to be profound nowadays
@BarryDylan111
@BarryDylan111 Жыл бұрын
HAHHA cope harder
@biggiesmalls3096
@biggiesmalls3096 Жыл бұрын
Weird video this la
@BetterEveryDay947
@BetterEveryDay947 Жыл бұрын
The first tips is pure BS, talk as much as you need. Hone your speaking skill.
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