I am in USA. So I lack the full proper cultural knowledge. But to lose my entire family would devastate me. To lose all my children and spouse at same time takes the wind out of your lungs and spirit from heart. I hurt for him. Many Americans would say he can start over. But that isn’t the point. All the effort, work, love and family traditions unique to that group of souls can’t be done over. May he heal and if he chooses to, find himself a father and husband building traditions once again. May he heal and soar in spirit again.