Hair Wash Routine for Our Autistic Toddler | 4B Natural Curls

[@allthingsnatural3882]

You can also part her hair and then twist it in like four to six sections and wash each section. Take down one section Detangle it, then wash it. Then twist it back up. If you don’t twist it back up into those sections after washing it. Her hair will tangle right back up. So this part is very important. Do each section like that one by one. You will see that the aloe vera juice makes the hair easier to comb through, because it makes her hair slippery and moist so the comb will go through her hair easier. Note: If you don’t have an aloe vera plant. You can use an all natural detangler, or an all natural leave in conditioner. Also if you’re going to buy these products from the beauty supply, make sure they don’t have harsh chemicals in them and make sure they’re for Kids.

[@allthingsnatural3882]

Just sent you a short video on Instagram on what I’m talking about.

[@yoyom1521]

That’s how I wash and condition my hair or it will matte on itself. So glad we are learning to care for our natural hair.

[@allthingsnatural3882]

@@yoyom1521 Exactly me too!

[@puntinprincess7343]

That sounds like a wonderful idea. Poor baby, all that hair and with a tender head i cant imagine.

[@lolaottinger3038]

Oh my goodness, that baby has tons of hair, and it always looks so nice! Good job from these loving parents.

[@Dignityclouds]

She’s the purest sole on this earth and I’m so glad she has you both as parents!

[@Dignityclouds]

I crocheted a small Miss Rachel doll and I’d love to send it to Mikko if you’d be okay with that.

[@puntinprincess7343]

You are just so sweet.

[@cynthia-iz9ew]

God didn't make no mistake when he gifted you Mikko. ❤❤❤

[@audreymo63]

👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@maryjane-rx4sq]

So true. ❤

[@JAKEYRAWILLIAMS]

I 100% agree she perfect just the way she is and very intelligent

[@theire483]

Wonderful parenting.

[@maxinegilman2010]

I'm here thinking the very same thing . They are so patient with their baby girl and I know it's not easy for them but they make it look so easy man.❤

[@jackiepearson5505]

Mikko, your hair, your glorious hair! What a lovely little girl you are. Both mom and dad helping with your glorious hair. Although I am white, I have very naturally curly hair, white or black, curly hair can be tough. I'm so thankful you have loving parents to help you with caring for your hair. It is beautiful.

[@julialori4591]

Your daughter is beautiful, and she has very loving and caring parents!

[@TraceysTake]

So gentle with her. I believe her hair is more 4A than 4B but she can also have both. Here a few suggestions I have. 1. Use a wide tooth comb instead of a pick. It gives you a better grip and control. 2. Those knots on the ends are single strand knots or fairy knots. So many reasons as to why Mikko might get them. Google offers many ways to avoid them. 3. Use a detangler. Its so many to choose from. 4. Deep conditioning or use a leave in conditioner. 5. Try to avoid combing her hair when its dry. Always use a product or try using the LOC method to maintain moisture. 6. Protective styles help to keep hair tucked away and moisturized. 7. Try finger detangle. 8. Use the method that works best for you.

[@tyraaiken7159]

I also assumed her hair was 4a or even 3c because the textured appeared looser. But I could be wrong because I'm not physically there. Either way, her hair is gorgeous 😍. And great tips you listed. I'll definitely be doing the same for my hair. ❤

[@lindasamba4816]

Definitely because it looks very slick for 4b 4a or 3c makes more sense maybe a tiny bit of 4b

[@jayjay-602]

They’ve mentioned before that she uses her hair to stim, & if you notice in the videos, she *always* has a hand in her hair at all times, I’m guessing that’s part of the reason it’s so tangled.

[@zonamay6515]

i've seen her attempt to use a wide tooth comb on her and Mikko threw that thing across the world lol

[@ughkaliyah.]

It’s 4a and 4b, not 3c.

[@CallmeChrissy876]

I love how gentle you guys are with her❤

[@spiritualbeing4279]

I know it makes me want to be more gentle with mine ❤

[@ycsdramaqueen]

Poor babe - her hair is so thick, and the pulling must hurt so badly. Good job to everyone involved for getting through it as slowly and painlessly as possible!

[@ladyt5957]

I have a granddaughter with very thick hair like Mikko, plus she is tender-headed, with autism. I wash and condition her hair. The real work is to brush and comb it. 1) Get rid of the pick it will cause too many tears. 2) Get a wide tooth comb, wet brush and a regular comb. 3) take a very small section of hair, put a very moisturizing leave in conditioner on her hair and work from the bottom to top. The leave in moisturizer should help to glide the tangles away, plus less tears. 4) Use the wide tooth comb to manage and get the tangles out the hair with the leave in conditioner. Once the wide tooth goes through the small section, then use the wet brush or regular comb. Take your time and be very gentle, for an autistic child is very sensitive. 5)Then you repeat this process in each and every smaller section of hair. Style it however you want as you go through each section. 6) Although it is a very cute style for kids, I would recommend not to put her hair in puffs. It causes a lot of tangles and it is a nightmare to untangle. The best style is braids, twists, french braids, corn rows. These styles help to protect her ends from knots aka fairy knots. I wish you guys all the blessings, and support that comes with having a blessed gift such as Mikko ❤️ ☺️

[@LifewithBreanna_]

Hey mom, have you tried a detangling brush? It would work wonders for her curly hair, make detangling less painful, and save you guys time. You can use it on wet or damp natural hair (perfect for wash & styling days) ❤.

[@ari333]

Someone from youtube recommended it to me. It works wonders!

[@AnjGuy]

Yes, a detangling brush works much better than a comb or pick. My hair is similarly thick. And I would add that parting her hair into at least 4 sections would be great, to detangling one section at a time. Hopefully, over time you find what works best for her and she also gets used to it. 🙏🏾

[@glorianorwood6581]

You two are such an inspiration for me and my daughter. Her son is 3 years old and autistic. Where did you purchase the neck support for Mikko?

[@Mslat3p]

It breaks my heart when Mikko sobs. I cried along with her. Please give her a hug from me. Lots of love xxx

[@fefe9111]

My granddaughter has the same type texture hair so her father decided to give her dreadlocks and it so much easy to do. Wash day takes less time I saw your testimonial on you sharing that you too have been diagnosed with autism!! I truly thank God for your channel. My granddaughter has autism. You, Nikko, your twins & husband are a blessing to us. Also thanking your husband for his service.

[@1957Loyal]

Mikko is so precious and beautiful! You two are amazing parents…GOD chose you because he knew Mikko would be in awesome hands. 🥰🥰🥰. All kids have anxiety when getting their hair done …you all are amazing..can’t say it enough.

[@Rayach_Napash]

I don’t know why this is about to bring me to tears. We are for certain our daughter is autistic even though her doctor is saying otherwise we know our child. I’m gone keep on praying. We end up cutting baby boy hair off because he was so upset. I’m so mad at myself I let baby girl hair get tangled so now I’m paying for it. Once I get it detangled this time I plan on styling it once a week. Thank you for sharing this

[@JustFluffyQuiltingYarnCrafts]

I love your little salon set in the kitchen. Mikko did such a good job. 😍 Chris, this is the first time that I’ve seen a Dad be such an active part of their child’s wash day. Thanks to you and Precious for sharing your “Gentle Life” techniques with the world. ♥️

[@karlenespencer8824]

You are so patient with your daughter. God bless you!

[@AfricanDee]

As a parent with a daughter with a lot of hair (3c/4a). Hear is some Advice (take it or leave it): start wash in small sections. Braid the sections Get tangle teezer brush. It is your best friend. Before detangling make sure to Use A LOT of conditioner with good slippage per section. Use a tangle teezer brush, not a pick. It takes longer, but it’s gentler. Never comb her hair without conditioner Or leave-in de-tangler conditioner. Also, when manipulating, try not to create more tangles. Manipulate hair in a SMOOTHING downward action. After shampoo/conditioner, keep those same sections and apply a moisturizing cream and oil. Or you can just add oil after your leave in conditioner.

[@sheranmitchell5985]

Totally agree my granddaughter is not artistic she has the same hair type and when she was smaller we learned the hard way but now at 11 her is much better (side bar leaving the water running helped) but that's a great way to take care of her hair 👍 she is doing much better than about a year ago

[@debberacoleman3932]

Blessed to have each other. She's so beautiful. And God couldn't have given her better parents. She did a great job. She has so much hair. My daughter when young use to cry every time I'd wash her hair also. And she isn't Autistic. Most all Toddlers do. So in saying that's normal behavior. But she is conquering everything that is thrown her way. Stay blessed

[@pameladavis895]

You did a nice job with her hair. Two hours from start to finish isn't bad. Hair parts don't have to be straight, as long as her hair is clean and kept. It gets better with time. Cleanse, condition (and brush when wet for more ease), and style! Remember those 3 things and you'll be fine! Love dad how you gave Mikko a massage during the hair washing and conditioning!🥰🥰🥰

[@MsMonique]

Such a beautiful baby and both yall have so much patience 😊.

[@newnightstarhair4572]

Aloe Vera gel will help you detangle her hair easily. Make sure she is not allergic to it first. Also use leave in conditioner that is creamy before you start sectioning her hair. It will help a lot. Try to also only finger detangle and see if that helps. She is so adorable and can sleep when daddy is massaging her hair! How cute? 🥰🥰🥰

[@vee408]

Hearing mikko cry breaks my heart. So much work, but such beautiful hair. Good job parents! I’ve used shae butter products and detangle my daughters hair while the conditioner is still in her hair, really makes a difference.

[@dawnmitzel6419]

I love the way you work together to do these tasks that I’m sure are stressful for her. And despite that stress she clearly fully trusts you both. You’re both great parents!

[@brendabell9007]

Patience and love. That's what it's all about. My autistic son is in his late 20's and attends college and loves the drama club and choir. He didn't start verbally talking until he was three. It seemed each year he increased his vocabulary. I am so very grateful for my son. He has taught me so much about myself and how important it is to always take a deep breath and keep on going. He is on par with people his age, but it was not easy.

[@gsopinions8254]

Hair section washing may be another choice for hair washing day. You guys are doing such a great job.

[@shantrellhunter2219]

As a curly girl, detangler, aloe and hibiscus work wonders! Cactus oil and a spray of water can be miraculous as well!❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@yoyom1521]

Mom you’re amazing and I love how involved Dad is. Wish someone will gift you an anniversary vacation. 🤞🏽

[@Publiette]

Love the realness. Parenthood realness. Relationship realness. Patience and frustration realness. You can see the progress and love! Dont forget to take time for yourselves and as a couple. I am not educated to guve the suggestions but it does seem like some different tools and products will make this much easier for you guys! Best wishes

[@della9884]

Pre-Wash: Dry detangling with just fingers and part hair into 4 sections and loosely twist them up. If dry detangling doesn't work try detangling with conditioner with a lot of slip. Depending on the hairstyles she wore before if her hair is stretched out from braids detangling could be easier. Washing: Shampoo and condition each section separately. Use more conditioner to make the detangling brush glide through the hair. If you take out smaller section from the section you're working on detangling should go smoothly. You can also try out different detangling tools like a tangle teezer brush or a simple wide tooth comb ( instead of that metal pick) Post-wash/styling: After washing I personally use a Leave in, cream and oil (LCO-method) and try to keep my hair not too dry throughout the week as my hair tangles up more the drier it is. And I'd suggest using some kind of protective style over night either like you did mini braids or a big pineapple with satin scrunchies and maybe even a satin bonnet during night to avoid some friction and more tangles. In a nutshell: section out and detangle hair before washing and use more conditioner with lots of slip when wet detangling. Try out new stuff and see how it goes. Good luck 🍀

[@sharonbrown7806]

First I’d like to commend you both for supporting one another because hair wash days are no joke! My granddaughters have curly hair that gets tangled very easily too! It’s so hard to keep it detangled! Their hair type loves moisture! What works best for us is, keeping the ends trimmed, wetting the hair before any tool is used and using leave in conditioner after shampooing with a bonnet for 5-10 minutes to soften n detangle before we even try to comb or brush! The detangle brushes n wide tooth combs do work best but not the metal pick! To start…You can section, lather with the leave in, detangle and braid or twist it up after that section is detangled or it will just tangle back up! The trick is to not let it dry or tangle back up! I’ve seen people even wash the hair while twisted or braided to avoid tangling! Also a few parents have opted to just get it Loc styled to avoid combing and pulling on the child’s already very sensitive scalp! It’s sometimes a sensory issue with ASD children! Mikko has so much hair which is why it takes so long to do! Hope any of these suggestions help! Most of all being loving, gentle and taking breaks as needed helps her comfort levels! 🙏🏽💕

[@CCela1608]

Thank you so much, my 4 year old is so easily Overstumulated and wash day is a lot of crying. I am slowly adding techniques that have made it easier for her. God blessed that baby with 4B hydrophobic hair and so much of it! Anything to stop the tears and help hair day be a fun experience for her and not misery.

[@deja957]

I think she has 3c 4a as hers it a lot similar to mine I’d say a wide tooth comb and a detangling comb works best so it will be easier to comb ❤

[@ladyl22]

That what I was thinking because it too curly and loose to be 4b

[@golden22h8]

Yes her hair is 3c 4a ❤❤❤

[@TheJCMlove]

And more 3c than 4a.

[@Adora-il5xb]

She’s 3b 3c

[@deja957]

@@Adora-il5xb no 3b is a lot looser than her curl type but she may be 3b in the back

[@Danniii8888]

My hair is exactly like your little girls. I use Aussie conditioner. I’ve tried a ton of conditioners, natural ones, ones specifically for black hair. But the only one that works is the Aussie moist conditioner. Also get a Tangle Teaser. It’s the only one that works on my curls. I’m very tender headed and I never feel pain when I use the tangle teaser brush.

[@mostdefinitelymonique2.0]

Her hair is so thick and full 🥹 I would suggest using a wide tooth comb or a detangling brush. The pick is to harsh on her hair type

[@pamelaferebee3648]

She is definitely daddy’s little girl. My daughter has the same type hair. I use moisturizer and water. She didn’t like getting her hair done. Daddy don’t like his baby upset. She is an angel.

[@finallyanaccount]

You may also need to keep her hair in protective styles during the week in order to avoid too much tangling. So like some bigger plaits or twists with her usual hair accessories. For me, if I’ve been wearing my hair out during the day, once I’m going to bed that night I will put it in some sort of twists or plaits to avoid it tangling when I sleep. And the other thing too is I often keep the same parts from wash day so that when I need to moisturize it mid week or whenever the parts are there for me to reuse. These are the same parts that I detangled my hair in… roughly 8 or so sections. So for Mikko, you can do these parts prior to washing, detangling in these parts where the hair already has some oil with a good conditioner or detangler. When you wash it, wash it in these sections. What happens is the shed hair makes the hair more tangled so if you detangle prior to the wash, it reduces the knots. And as other ppl have mentioned, you can wash each section at a time… starting from the top to the back if she lying down that way you’re not washing back dirt on to a clean section. And definitely invest in a solid plastic wide tooth comb (that metal comb isn’t the best). Also I don’t know if she keeps a bonnet on at night but that also helps to reduce tangles before the next wash day. I hope that helps. 🙏🏾

[@finallyanaccount]

I’m seeing the hair style she has on now. Lovely! Even bigger plaits may prove less stressful for both of you. 🙏🏾

[@vasa95419]

Hello Loves! I recommend that you try co-washing (washing with conditioner only). Get a large, very ride toothed plastic comb. The metal Afro pick’s teeth are too small and narrow. Instead of shampooing, you dampen her hair with water and then saturate it with conditioner. Massage her scalp well to listen any dirt and then while the conditioner is still on her use the comb to section her hair into four sections. Massage her scalp and comb each section out. It will be super easy with the conditioner still in. With the conditioner still on do a chunky two strand twist for each section and secure the end with a rubber band. THEN comb each section out while rinsing out the conditioner. Once the section is rinsed out re-twist the section and move in to the next one. Pat the twists dry with a towel and voila. Clean, detangled and done. It will be so much easier on everyone. Hope you’ll try this method. Blessings to you and your beautiful family. ✨🫧✨🫧✨

[@karlenespencer8824]

I just love your daughter. She is so cute. God bless your family

[@nothing7666]

If that was me my parents would had hit me you guys are the parent she needs she is blessed to have you guys

[@nmd298]

Really your parents must be mean parents to hit such a beautiful person who don't even have control of what they are doing

[@tanieshadavis8740]

YESSS!!!

[@cherry_bear_aestheticd6840]

So sad

[@eponymous2684]

For real, it was nothing for my mom to pop me in the head with the back of the brush if I did not sit still.

[@samanthasaldana120]

It's one thing to get hit when you didnt stay still 80s kids will understand but for an autistic child that's cruel.

[@Lysaidaromero]

Washing my son’s hair is an event too. I separate his hair when I put conditioner and after I wash off the conditioner I put in a leave in conditioner and separate it again. I then start to detangle with a wet brush. It take me half and hour to do his hair. Also I rough section and spray more water if needed to detangle. You’re amazing parents!

[@golden22h8]

You guys are the best parents ever!!! also I think her hair type is actually 3c 4a mix ❤, not that hair typing matters, but if you search 3c 4a detangling you might find videos that cater towards her hair and have helpful tips compared to 4b 4c! but ofc u know ur baby best ❤❤❤

[@ronij7212]

Good job dad! Nice to see you take part in her grooming as well.

[@shannonstearns5803]

This sweet little girl just melts my Heart every time I see her❤

[@allthingsnatural3882]

You can detangle her hair with any type of leave in conditioner, that doesn’t have a lot of chemicals or sulfates in it. Make sure it is all natural! You could also take the juice from an aloe vera plant and rub it in her hair. It would make her hair softer and you will be able to put the comb through it easier. It will give her hair elasticity. Also, you want to use a detangling brush.

[@allthingsnatural3882]

I meant to say, use a detangling brush. It will work much easier on her hair.

[@allthingsnatural3882]

Use a detangling brush.

[@shenequademeritte7654]

God bless you both and that precious baby. She is in good hands.

[@maxinegilman2010]

God entrusted you with this baby girl because He knows your beautiful hearts. He knows us more than we know ourselves and you guys are perfect in your doings. I love y'all so so much man. You have touched my heart in more ways than one. God bless your family.❤

[@Taylor19941]

I wish more parents who have kids with intellectual disabilities spent more time with them. Help them with their care and teaching them. I’ve had so many come in as adults and know nothing about self care or how to help themselves. I appreciate parents like you. Please keep going. (Note: I’m talking about adults who have disabilities. I understand she is a child and still is learning. However, it starts as a child where they learn. So that’s why I am praising her parents.)

[@karenm1965]

Love the gentle approach and every child is different as you already know & have said. Plus, what works with washing hair sometimes changes with age & sensitivities. From sink, to tub, while she was outside playing with water table, now daughter (14) loves to stand up in shower & play with water while I wash, condition, detangle hair. Hand held shower head a blessing. Daughter has similar hair. I finger detangle then use tangle teezer for curly hair detangling brush , ends first. All done with lots of conditioner on hair. She likes to pick the one she likes scent of (all natural). It’s all a process continuing to find what works best for her at each stage & age. Keep working with her like you are. For A few Products we like Treluxe (whole line) ,Melanin hair care leave in , Tabitha Brown leave in, Curls blueberry bliss shampoo. Miss Jessie’s coily custard. But everyone is different with what they like. On days when she needs a break during process, I put conditioner on & shower cap & she does something she likes for awhile and then easier to go back to it. But usually we go through whole wash time & wash & go and she’s happy during & after. We use As I Am JBCO water Restore spray throughout week to refresh when needed. 💕💗🤗

[@beaudoz3603]

I detangle my daughters hair in sections using conditioner. I twist each section and then wash her hair whilst in the twist. Edit: Put product in your daughters hair before parting it. It will make it easier.

[@Nub1anPrincess]

Some helpful suggestions: 1) Section her hair in braids/twist then wash and condition. Hair and scalp will be clean with her hair not tangling. Less stress on all of you. 2) Add detangling product to each braid/twist, then detangle by each braid or twist. 3) THROW THE PICK AWAY. It is entirely too small to detangle all that hair. 4) Get a large detangling brush and a very very large comb. It will work so much better. Good luck.❤

[@apara2005]

Please don't do this!!! Always wash hair loose. Washing in braids doesn't wash anything...it's still dirty!

[@lexygardner1076]

Hi 👋🏿, I have a few suggestions of things to buy as a baseline for a possible easier time when parting her hair ~ • Leave In Conditioner • Hair Oil • This is especially for Scalp and Ends, before combing or parting, but you could also put it everywhere in her hair. • Clips for sectioning I definitely think when it comes to textured hair ✨ Moisture ✨ at all times is the most important ingredient. 💕 With Love 💕 Lexy p.s I could be wrong, but I would suggest putting leave in conditioner in before the oil as I've heard that oil, although moisturing itself; is for locking in moisture. p.p.s Thanks for sharing your journey 🥰 It's an honor to be able to witness your memories and precious moments ❣️

[@yalondalawler1359]

I love your family. The way the two of you care for Mikko brings glory to the Father. Kinky Curly Knot Today is a great conditioner. It will make your detangling a lot easier. ❤❤

[@queenlala111]

She has type 4a hair. A trim will help with split ends de tangling.

[@prettyprincess94602]

Please use a wide tooth comb and a wet detangle brush. Don’t try to detangle the hair after it’s dry. It needs some slip. A really good leave in conditioner. Detangle the hair and braid the sections.

[@afuasaafir8564]

You all are so beautiful as a family! I am so glad that she has you for parents and that you all have her for a daughter. I definitely suggest putting her hair in about six large sections and then washing each section one at a time and re-twisting with conditioner. Then comb through to de-tangle with the conditioner still in her hair (one section at a time). Then rinse and re-twist. Then add oil and/or leave-in conditioner and finish any de-tangling section by section again away from the sink. Do everything section by section. This way her hair does not have the chance to dry out or tangle up further during the process. I hope these steps might help make the process easier on all of you. Thank you for sharing your lovely family with all of us! 💛🌸🦋🌷🌺

[@purpleladybug95]

Try putting her hair in 8 braids before washing, and wash and condition her hair in the braids… don’t take the braids out till you’re ready to style it, less stress on her. I do that because thick hair gets tangled when wet 😊and that way you can focus on one section at a time

[@fedupto68]

I think you guys are awesome. She got blessed in the parent department. And both of you got blessed in the partner department.

[@valisha416]

I use cantu leave in conditioner and shea moisture shampoo and conditioner set on my hair to detangle my hair. With some Lukewarm water

[@tybryga86]

If I can make a suggestion. Before washing, part her hair into 4 sections. Wash, condition, and detangle each section. Because of its thickness it will dry fast which means more tangles. Cantu detangler for children is your best friend. Saturate her hair with the Cantu and let it sit and do its magic! Let the product do the hard work . And wide tooth combs😉. Good luck! And prayers for daily strength. All things through love❤

[@donna948]

YOU'RE SUCH A BEAUTIFUL FAMILY. THANK YOU FOR SHARING YOUR JOURNEY. 🤎🤎🖤🤎🤎🙏🏼

[@spiritualchild3015]

Two loving and caring parents. Keep up the patient work 🙏. It will pay in the end.❤

[@louiserawle8999]

Wow what a fabulous amount of hair she has ,lucky girl Mikko ❤️❤️

[@mssan2016]

She is more of 3C/4A with shrinkage. Her hair is more prone to tangles. Section into 4 or 6 and pre poo her first. Works wonders for my 4 year old niece. Spray with water and use a detangler n let it sit a bit. Then comb through it with wide tooth. Twist each section up as you go through the shampoo and conditioning process. So much easier and less hassle. This is also the time we alot for tablet time. Many kids go through the washing hair pains at this age, its normal, but structuring wash day will make it a smoother process

[@tracygaters4901]

I recommend mixing conditioner in with the shampoo. It works wonders!!!!

[@Tracie4364]

I LITERALLY fell asleep watching that head massage. Had to watch again..Great job.

[@SandySoSo]

I teach autistic children and I know it’s hard. It takes a of patience and I want to tell you both, Precious and Chris, you are amazing parents. Keep up the great work!😊💕

[@maryjohnson1144]

I salute you two loving, gentle, caring & very strong parents.❤❤❤

[@EritrawenetKuburMenenet]

I've got 4 c hair and I detangle it while water is running over my hair🙏🏾(It's so much easier to detangle my hair on wash days since I use that methode) Adorable daughter btw🤎

[@AngelsOnScreen]

When was the last time Mikko had her ends trimmed? The hair at the end catching and knotting up a bunch could be a sign that she could use a little trim. You could do it with her hair in twists, or braids. You just want the trim the part that isn't curling like the rest of the hair. I hope it helps.

[@boymamaof382]

You guys are Amazing what a Blessing seeing you all work together and be everything for this precious baby girl!! Love from PA! Beautiful family!!

[@mattiesmith1731]

Such a very good mom and dad, keep up good job. ❤

[@pretoriaafro5074]

You two parents are so Amazing!!!

[@deborahhandy1201]

Such good parents, keep the good work up it's hard sometimes but don't stop!!!👏👏👏❤

[@lynwil2286]

Put her hair in about 6 or 8 twists and wash hair while twisted. You may have to put rubber bands on end. Also Use leave in hair conditioner It will make it so much easier.

[@lynettelewis5688]

I'm sure you both have read through an exhausting list of comments and criticisms. There is a you tube channel called GlamFam hair and beauty. The instructor and his two daughters have very thick 4A/4B hair like Mikko. Look through his hair tutorial videos from 4-5 years ago, when he was styling his toddler's hair. He did product reviews, detailing advice, hair wash advice, etc. It may help. When my boys were little, I always detangled, washed and braided their hair while it was damp and more pliable. Picks pull and break the hair - I used a firm detangling comb. I twisted their hair in big, 2-strand twist, and washed their hair in sections.

[@loveme8037]

She is so amazing. Perfect❤

[@TYXOXY]

My gosh. I wish I could be there to help you guys. A Denman brush works well for detangling. Mielle makes a hawaiian Ginger hair butter that works extremely well with softening the hair to detangle. It was like magic for my daughter's hair

[@gness32]

I use Carol's daughter conditioner, a detailing brush comb and I comb it while it is wet and conditioner is in the hair. It's made my life a lot easier. Miko is precious!

[@vernyvnails8248]

Your daughter has beautiful hair. I have much shorter hair than your daughter but I am severely tender headed even when I comb my own hair, I rarely use a comb. Due to yout daughters curl pattern, you may want to try the following: Always use a detangling brush (as was mentioned) Section hair and detangle before washing (as was mentioned) twist hair when styling instead of braiding use the hair balls instead of elastic, since elastic can be hard to remove. I’m 🙏🏽 you and your husband will find a system that works for your daughter so that the process won’t be as stressful for you all. You both do an AMAZING job!

[@Luckimee]

Hibiscus tea really helps me detangle. I have fine 4c hair. Also use your fingers if shes tender headed. Takes longer but doesnt hurt half as much. Hold the bajri in between the root so it doesnt pull so much. How dad was combing hurts

[@jayedenise4812]

I use Pantene gold series conditioner or carols daughter wash day delight conditioner. It works great for detangling. Along with a good detangling brush.

[@Hugs4you500]

She’s so precious! Good job on her hair parents!❤❤

[@nicoleford7127]

Try washing and detangling her hair in sections . Also TGIN green tea super moist leave in hair conditioner is excellent for detangling hair.

[@rhodagibbs3046]

Good job mom and dad!!!

[@Sirenloserr]

Her hair is similar to mine it’s more 3C. If you put a lot of leave in conditioner before parting, especially the ends that will help to prevent the pulling. You guys are doing awesome and making great time haha

[@thegentlelife]

Ok! I was not sure what type it was, as it’s not like mine. We will try the conditioner first next time! Thank you so much for the information ❤️

[@luotosirpa5458]

Amber Ansah (in Belgium) has really kinky curly hair. I think her daughter is 2&1/2. She has her own washing day routine and may have some products that she uses for her daughter. Worth looking up her youtube channel. You did well with your little one! ❤️

[@7117Dina]

God Bless your family and thank you for sharing. Mikko is so special and such a joy.

[@WrightLC73]

I use Creme of Nature Perfect 7 on my hair as a detangler, moisturizer and conditioner after washing. My hair, since birth, has been like your daughter’s thick and tangles after washing. I would cry too. Keep up the good work Mom and Dad.

[@mandyjoi7015]

First off, just let me say you guys made me so relaxed watching the tag team effort to wash and detangle her hair. You guys did/do such a great job with those curls! I feel like I ran a marathon after doing my sons hair...like WHEEEEW CHILE! Back all hurting....lol Anyway, my gang changer product for both my and our sons hair is Aunt Jackie's Knot on my Watch. Its a detangler for after you wash/condition and works AMAZING! Knots don't stand a chance. I actually wet my hair, then detangle with this, before washing/conditioning, etc and my life is much easier. Not sure what type of hair we have but its much tighter than your daughter's. My son no longer screams and cries while I'm detangling his hair. Give it a try, I'm 1000% positive your fingers, detangling brush or wide tooth comb will glide any tangles right on out! Good luck 😉

[@MYSTICMANDY22]

Detangle with a lot of conditioner in the hair, wet, with a wide tooth comb first. Start from the bottom of the hair and slowly work up to the scalp. Go from a wide tooth comb to the pick and then to that brush in phases for each section. Use alligator clips or butterfly clips to clip sections out of the way to make it more manageable. Clip all hair out of the way, only start with a small section and then as you do the whole phase on that area & finish, clip it out of the way, move onto the next. I Hope this helps. ❤ Bless your family and beautiful baby ❤

[@mab1414]

What a beautiful baby and loving parents more especially your husband supporting you all the time ❤

[@sweetlady3651]

Such loving parents may God continue to bless you and your husband . You are such beautiful parents

[@Prncsjcyj]

My son has Autism & couldn’t handle the detangling. He’s been locked for a year now. Washing & styling is a breeze now & most importantly, he loves his locs! Hoping y’all find a regimen that works for y’all! Her hair is beautiful ❤

[@deedee9679]

That’s what I’m thinking about doing for my son . He just need to sit still to get it done 😩

[@Prncsjcyj]

@@deedee9679 try it! He sits still with a snack and TV for retwists. He wouldn’t sit still when his hair was loose tho. I transitioned his 2 strand twists to locs. Best decision ever.

[@soyinimarcano7775]

Garner Fructis sleek and shine leave in conditioning cream. That is my go to and my daughter has the same curl pattern and is autistic and sensory sensitive around her head and face. Apply when wet and then section as you like. I hope it works well for you!❤️

[@kenedyg2374]

She has thick gorgeous curls. Try a tangle teezer you can get it at target and online.. they come in different colors, the purple one is specifically for curls. It’s a bit more expensive but trust me it’s worth it. It cuts detangling time down and doesn’t snag and pull as much as traditional combs. Hope this helps ❤

[@peaceriver1793]

Good Job Mommy!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! And Daddy!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I took a sigh of relief with you all at the end. LOL!!

[@kimwarner-yu6ls]

You’re using the wrong type of comb to begin with. Get a big tooth plastic comb. My daughter has hair like this down her back and 14 years old, it is still a struggle for me to do her hair. Also, as a therapist for autistic children, you guys are doing a fantastic job being patient with Mikko. She is deeply loved.

[@cherry_bear_aestheticd6840]

She is just so cute ❤❤ she did so good I love Mikko because shes so amazing and unique. Good work! 👍🏽

[@LeeW7233]

You do a wonderful job with her hair, it is gorgeous. I use a wide tooth comb to detangle. Leave in conditioner and still spritz water as you style is key. She has a mixture of 3c and some 4a and b in there. My granddaughters have hair just like that.

[@MaryMac04]

It may help you section off her hair while washing and detailing her hair. I normally section my hair into twos and wash a d detangle one side at a time. It helps the process go quicker and more smoothly

[@jenngoddessoflight3046]

Using coconut oil in with the conditioner will make her hair so silky smooth & easy to detangle & is so healthy for the hair❤

[@exceptionaltalentspc4954]

If she was my baby I would cut most ot that hair off and spare her the long, tedious hair wash and detangling routine. Such a sweet girl.

[@aprill7592]

Hi Precious and Chris. I know what works for one, may not work for the other, but a suggested product you guys might want to try is Eden BodyWorks Cleansing Cowash Coconut Shea. It's sold everywhere (Walmart/Target/Sally Beauty, etc). Even though it's considered a cowash, I use it like a second conditioner after the shampoo/conditioner process. I use it on my nieces hair as well as my own. We don't have Mikko's hair type, but I'll say for us, it makes our hair soft and manageable to comb through as hair is being rinsed and after. With my nieces, I massage a decent amount into their hair really good to saturate it for about a good 3 to 5 minutes to allow the product to do its thing as I'm massaging, then I rinse it out. As it's rinsing out, I comb through with a wide tooth comb as the water runs through. Since Mikko's hair is so thick, it may help to section her hair during the process if you decide to try it. Sorry for a long comment, but just wanted to share. 💖