AFRICAN AMERICAN KIDS HAIR CARE ROUTINE + TIPS FOR FOSTER & ADOPTIVE PARENTS /CHRISTY GIOR

[@PrincessAntics]

so many people are trying to discredit this woman by saying "That is her job as a mother" and yet so many moms do not take the time to do this. they are so quick to straighten or put relaxer in their child's hair. this baby's hair is HEALTHY! great mom for sure ❤️

[@MayaRoses]

Exactly!

[@AveryKait]

Facts

[@apjo438]

This video makes me so happy as a young black woman .. idc what anyone else says. I appreciate you for trying to interrupt other future mistakes

[@aryauna6809]

Exactly! Even black moms because my hair was definitely relaxed at 5 or 6 years old & when I went off to college it took a world of self reflection & an abundance of self love to learn to accept myself and my natural hair. The first semester I left for college I cut all my hair off and let it grow out naturally and I promise you I’ll forever remember how I felt in that moment washing my hair for the first time after that big chop!

[@roriespencer3158]

Speak on it!

[@fadjy]

These are the types of people that should be adopting children outside of their race. I respect you. Thank you for what you are doing for your daughters ❤️

[@techdiva4cybersecurity]

Yes girl. These are the type of people who should adopt kids periodt. Imagine a couple years from now when she's been at it for years! That little girl hair gonna flourish.

[@naturalady4559]

I think she mentioned race because black people are the only people with hair like this so we’re all human but this is about hair. Our hair, more specifically. She did her Thing! She will be unstoppable by fifth grade LOL.

[@fadjy]

Just to clarify, I didn’t bring up race to be divisive. She is an amazing mom regardless of her race and the race of her children. I said what I said because I’ve seen many children be adopted outside of their race, and as she’s mentioned, moms not take the time to learn or take proper care of their children’s hair , straighten it to conform to Eurocentric beauty standards, the whole 9. I was simply appreciated the effort she has put in bc even black moms get tired of doing our hair.

[@fadjy]

tag line ^

[@kekeluvxxx8119]

It takes patience to do what she’s doing and she took the time to learn that’s beautiful fr

[@RoyalTi86]

The way this women parted , moisturized, and braided this baby’s hair gave me LIFE!!! Great job mama!!!

[@charlesbush1166]

I know right so nice to witness!

[@ohreally404]

Tiana Young She’s a real Supermom!

[@janeesajamierson8147]

Tiana Young girl I’m amazed!!! Lol

[@RoyalTi86]

Christy Gior It looks to me that your an under-braided! I can’t explain it to you but I’m definitely rooting for you to learn, and drop that tutorial ❤️

[@user-vw3zi2wp5w]

@@ChristyGior8 flat twists are easier to learn (I can't grip cornrows right either 😔)

[@kerrisickel8890]

I am a white mom fostering a black 4 yr old girl. Thank you for sharing this. We are just beginning our hair journey and I am thankful for any advice.

[@ChristyGior8]

Anytime good luck!

[@JillianBaileyMcc]

This literally made me emotional. As a black woman hearing a white mother of a black girl speak on our hair with such love and care has been so refreshing and beautiful. Thank you for this example.

[@mackfar27]

I agree, this was very beautiful. I am an African American male.

[@edwardwiley428]

I don't know what your talking about lady!!! Their is still to much racism in this world and injustice for u to think this is ok...

[@angrymal1345]

Edward Wiley this is ok this woman obviously loves this little girl to be doing her hair this beautifully!

[@astinnicole]

AGREED!

[@edwardwiley428]

@@angrymal1345 She might love her, but all the love in the world will not prepare her for the real world as a black woman!!! That white lady cannot teach that!!! It's really disrespectful...

[@tragiclolz4587]

These are the type of people who needs kids period. Gentle mothers who take the time to love and care for their children’s hair, and their identities in general.

[@anasofiaperezrios703]

Facts, also I have the same pfp as you 😙✌

[@tragiclolz4587]

Ana Sofía Pérez Ríos It’s cute! Lol

[@adriennemarcus8085]

Um....no everyone deserves to be a mom

[@tragiclolz4587]

Adrienne Marcus Dont EVER say this again. Not everyone deserves to be a mother. Literally NOT everyone. I’ve seen too many abuse stories of controlling and abusive mothers. Some people do not deserve to be parents, everyone CAN be a parent but don’t DESERVE to be. I’m saying people who treat their kids with respect and love deserves to be parents. Never ever say this again because you obviously haven’t had anyone close to you be abused or neglected by the hands of their mothers.

[@heyitsnoreen]

That's beautiful. ❤️

[@Jay-tz8cf]

This woman is trying to understand her daughters hair and I have to respect that...PERIODDDDD

[@sherry7347]

Mae Jon I was just thinking that! I absolutely love that.

[@NikkiFilJapinAmerica]

❤️❤️❤️

[@RadicallyRose]

Agreed and impressed!

[@msnnyaj]

We STAN;)

[@msnnyaj]

Rock Chick Supremeo 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@zm.9794]

"every single coil"❤ "its bonding time" 😭❤

[@melissafreeman7064]

I miss doing my little girls’ hair. They’ve decided they’re too grownup now and I miss that bonding time!

[@jdishmael001]

I'M A MAN, AND THE WAY THIS WHITE WOMAN HAS LEARNED ABOUT AND CARED FOR HER BLACK CHILDREN'S HAIR, BROUGHT ME TO TEARS. BEAUTIFUL. I AM AMAZED BY YOUR THOUGHTFULNESS. I CAN TELL YOU WILL RAISE THESE QUEENS WELL! AND I THANK YOU FOR IT!

[@ChristyGior8]

Thank you 🤗

[@clairepruski5466]

LOL WHY ARE YOU YELLING

[@alani5335]

@@clairepruski5466 fr...giving me a headache

[@kyle-tg7bi]

JD Ishmael why you gotta announce that you’re a man lol

[@NidsNY]

*kyle* Maybe because we usually don’t expect men to understand when it’s come to the connection a lot of women have with their hair. 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@waylor3029]

Let’s just take a moment to focus on how pretty this little girl is

[@jhezzy]

She's absolutely beautiful!

[@suziukanovic42]

She truly is.

[@yourownperfection]

Absolutely precious

[@louisasmiles]

Stunning

[@wifeyb.9779]

She reminds me of my baby girl

[@gabriellemiller2133]

There’s literally no excuse to not raise and tend to your kids hair if this lady can sit here and learn and care for her kids hair , I’m knowing this was completely out of her comfort zone. This really makes me happy

[@CC-yh2yq]

Too Miller yea i’m pretty white and my mum didn’t know how to deal with my hair , people used to bully me as a child and say i had witch hair because my hair is textured. I straighten my hair most the time every few days with a heat protectant and i use hair masks often but i do let it rest sometimes, because it’s easier to cope with, i wish my mum knew how to do my hair, I don’t remember her ever doing anything to my hair lol 😂 she cannot braid and i had to teach myself to do my own hair

[@summerbreeze198]

Girl I wish my mom did this! She took the easy way out and straightened it! But can't blame her she wasn't really knowledgeable about hair! Well natural hair. She just wanted something quick and manageable. Now I myself is learning to love my natural hair and also will teach my daughter (if I have one) to love hers

[@mbadger9084]

Why? Because she's white? I'm confused. If this lady?

[@TheMsklg1981]

So true.

[@TheMsklg1981]

M Badger She was very clear in her comment. What is there that you couldn’t understand. I just had my 12 year old boy read it and he comprehended it precisely.

[@TheLutastic]

I wish my mom did this to my hair as a child instead of having it straightened and wearing wigs for like 14 years...... I'm still mad about it and I'm never gonna get over it tbh. Thank you for doing this for your child.

[@Beatngu23]

I don't think anyone should have to wear wigs. I think black women and men should be able to wear their hair naturally. I understand curls can be a fuss sometimes, I have them myself. But I absolutely adore the natural look on a woman and a man. I love braids as well, but I love the girls and natural look the most!

[@wowzers4437]

@@Beatngu23 I believe it's your choice sometimes you can use wigs to try certain hair colors before you dye your hair or see how a hair style looks before trying it. Or experimenting with hair without damaging your real hair. maybe they just like the look or it makes them feel confident. Also let's not forget wigs are a protective style too!

[@lakendrawilliams9814]

FrankN Stein was just replying to the original comment, which was traumatizing to her. She wasn’t downplaying wigs. She was more so encouraging the care that’s required to wear your natural hair.

[@KamoreeLove]

Same first perm at 11

[@TheLutastic]

@@wowzers4437 oh I still love wigs for cosplay and fun. But man it's so hot in the state I live in I'm surprised I managed to wear a wig everyday and even in my sleep 👀

[@worldofnicko8965]

Oh baby she did research research cause that baby’s hair looks so healthy and well kept after

[@tamekawilliams2852]

Baby girls hair is beautiful and healthy looking. Great job mama you took the time to learn about her hair. 👍👍👍

[@worldofnicko8965]

Theme Fresh I don’t think I understand your question but there is no need for me to be adopted I’m fully self sufficient aside from that I come from a loving family

[@melwood2981]

So true most of them cut the little girls hair...and they go around looking like no one cares..she did an awesome job...

[@amyapulliam8470]

@@melwood2981 periodt

[@C00kii0]

@Theme Fresh Just have to feel some type of way ,don't you?

[@uuloveguccii4729]

This makes me so emotional. Most Caucasian parents with children of color want to make their hair straight and banish their African identity. U referred to her hair as a crown 😭😭. We need more ppl in this world like u 💕. #MuchRespect 🥰

[@100XPercentX]

banish their identity?? whoa whoa slow down lol

[@100XPercentX]

@@aderlinejohnson8566 "we" is not you...you do realize this, correct? your opinion is as smart as you and this does not look smart. barely average.

[@100XPercentX]

@Winter Wonder let's ignore ignorance and cast it away. The spirit of stupidity is angering and frustrating lol.

[@dmobibj1401]

@Winter Wonder u need to chill don't put the race into this

[@Maameelle78]

I don’t think they do. It’s us black people that have the issue with hair

[@_Jai_]

She’s an African American girl that got out of the foster system, lives in northern Cali, and has a woman that took the time to research how to do her hair...why the dislikes?

[@monie2u]

I'm curious also. Over 1k. Like, why?

[@beasthegreat640]

Quita Cole most are bots

[@callieestra1095]

Because some people are bitter and don’t like seeing people of different races adopting children of color. I’m black and would adopt myself, you don’t and shouldn’t choose a child based off their race 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@babycupid761]

Some BW won't even take the time...

[@MAGAISKLAN]

They're just a bunch of racists.

[@karlar8648]

The fact that you mist the hair with water FIRST tells me you really did your research. Thank you for doing what you do.

[@mirag6644]

i don’t have kids, why am i watching this? quarantine is getting to me.

[@sef11996]

Dude same but I am living for it

[@randomuser3441]

It’s getting to us all I’m up at 4 a.m. got nothing to do with my life.

[@v8ali8]

Right? I don't even want kids.

[@Emmatriaaa]

I’m extremely Childfree and I don’t even know why I’m here either lol

[@danielhess5778]

I honestly started on animal crossing vids literally no idea what happened

[@animaguskatt]

"I've learned it is their crown, it is their identity." Just goes to the heart right there.

[@damemixalot3716]

This is not our identity. This is just a woman’s overall crown glory.

[@yir9383]

Amen that is True.

[@mialiok4489]

This is triggering I need to adopt some black kids we all do black people 🙁😶😬😬

[@tayashley3539]

I thought of India Aries song, “I Am Not My Hair” ..

[@graceblossoms130]

Mia Loik wait what was triggering?

[@priscillaetim]

This woman went out of way to make sure she properly care for her daughter’s hair. She is most definitely right. Our hair is a crown and many parents just want to put relaxer or straighten it because it seems like a burden. We love our crowns and we need to show them to the world more!!! Thank you so much! This honestly makes me cry tears of happiness 😭❤️❤️❤️ Ma’am I applaud and respect you greatly!!!!

[@ChelseaBailey1997]

And you can tell she does it often, because she’s just siting there and helping her mom by holding her hair ❤️❤️❤️

[@MsAshbashcash]

Yassss!!!! So much love in this video. Will u do my hair? Haha. I was learning new tips for myself from this video🤣

[@TheFabulousshay]

She Africanxo I like how she learned about the type of care needed. Like black women don’t wash their hair consistently everyday and the reasons why how to Detangle, not using perms and relaxers etc

[@Theelderscrolls52]

No one will probably see this, but what are relaxers? (Not my hair type. But my parents are wanting to foster and I’ve been trying to learn about different skin and hair types).

[@SarahBent]

@@Theelderscrolls52 a relaxer is like a perm that straightens the hair. And just like a perm it can cause damage.

[@jojojohnson2000]

Is it just me or does everyone else absolutely die of happiness and joy hearing her call all her baby girls baby girl! It’s just something about the way she says it, so inspiring, real and raw! She’s such an amazing momma!!

[@topgurl9313]

I love when white parents call their Black girls 'baby girl,' it's so loving.

[@TenishaWilliams-i1d]

U can tell it real from the way she say it

[@stacymoncrieffe7471]

As a black woman who is a hairstylist, who have worked with all kinds of texture hair, I'm so impressed with the patience you showed in caring for your baby's hair. I can actually feel the love that you have for you're children. Keep up the great work Mama. It was a blessing to see this!!

[@ChristyGior8]

🥰 Thank you Stacy.

[@ZairaBandy]

@@ChristyGior8 so, questions: does your dauthers always have to get assistant we their hair when they are older?? can they do it alone?? I know very little about african american hair. would lke to learn.

[@ChristyGior8]

Zaira Bandy I do it now and teach them as I go so that they may be able to do it when they’re older on their own.

[@ZairaBandy]

@@ChristyGior8 Thanks for the answer. If I may suggest something.... search Mindy Mcknight here or instagram. She made a new hair style line and is in walmart. She also adopted two african american children. The hair line is called: hairitagebymindy It will totally change your routine. Hope it helps. xoxo

[@happymeesh6410]

Yes Stacy!!! This was so heartwarming!

[@adesa1]

The baby’s hair is HEALTHY! And that’s all that matters.

[@TaylorsJourney]

Cats O OD HEALTHY and long asf she did that. That’s how I know she’s not just talking, she is taking CARE of her baby’s hair.

[@closedears5429]

Sure is!!

[@tiarascott4698]

“Cute little natural styles...are all this lil baby girl needs” Yesssss!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I just hollered. YOU GOT IT MAMA!!!!!!!

[@nicolehernandez6335]

Tiara Scott YASSSS!! EXACTLY 🥰

[@xxbellajasmina]

Tiara Scott right?!!!🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾❤️❤️❤️❤️💯💯💯💯

[@ChristyGior8]

Tiara Scott it is a fade as different length guards were used on top and on bottom. Very similar but not the same. We did this so the haircut last longer. It grows so fast. In two days is a perfect length fade.

[@vicruzan7888]

@@ChristyGior8 i

[@tiarascott4698]

@@ChristyGior8 lol...misplaced this response Super Ma...i forgiveeee you.

[@me-217]

I’m a white guy tryin to learn about his adopted sisters hair and how to help her with it this video was beautiful and I appreciate it.

[@shayzway]

When she said she makes her girls wear satin and silk bonnets on their hair at night and the added they they use satin and silk pillows cases! Come on now this momma know her girls hair culture. Yasssssss 👏🏽. This momma gets it.

[@haveagoodday629]

Shayz 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@vibesxryan]

Kyle Hines FACTS BRO YOUR GONNA BE LOOKING AMAZING ‼️‼️⚠️

[@aphropicthehiphopsnob]

I just want to point out that I've been black and female for over 38 years and didn't know this for the larger part of my life so shout out to her!

[@fatalblue]

@Kyle Hines I'm a frim believer everyone short of being bald or buzzcut, regardless of race or hair texture would benefit from covering their hair at night tbh. When you sleep uncovered all the natural oils and/or product from your hair is transfered to you pillows and ultimately your face. I wonder how many skin problems might be fixed by ppl just covering their hair at night! Ofc it prevents breakage and moisture loss too

[@queentargaryen9389]

@@fatalblue You just convinced me to try it, lol. I usually just put it in a bun to sleep but that probably does worse damage.

[@yootoob2]

When she took 10 minutes to get that part right.... I knew then.... I knew then that she was invited to the cookout and is allowed to take several plates home. 🙏🏾

[@tiadaniels3356]

HONESTLY THO THAT IS SO TRUE bless her heart

[@Klgray7373]

Yes b/c my White step-mama took ZERO pride in STRAIGHT parts. I had to learn to do my own hair by the 5th grade. I was embarrassed by my crooked parts. She tries tho.

[@ronniacherry]

Facts lol

[@ushine4me]

Yessss! I had so much respect for her parting those sections.

[@ExoticAfrican6]

Severalllllllll honey!

[@saunyaaa]

When you put the satin scarf on your little princess at the end, I almost shed a tear.

[@wanjiruthumbi4838]

You know!!

[@lmendesb1226]

I cried

[@HaleemaTravels]

I know right?! I felt like I was about to tear up watching this as well

[@alishadennis17]

This is a positive & completely involved mom. Learning to comb & style Afican American hair & not hurt her hair & look pretty is a big skill. The time & love of this mom is blessing these children's lives so very much. Great job mama Christy. Wow!!!😅💞💖👆🤾🤾🌅🎊🎈🎁💝🎊🎊😄😂🎉😄

[@miaeba]

I jumped to the end because of your post... so cute

[@SuperAnimelover100]

She is what's called a real MOTHER !!

[@chantelchisholm]

“It is their crown” ....*starts crying, “yesss honey yasss”*

[@alexishaygood7168]

Girl me too

[@tanecabrown3271]

ME TOO MAN, ME TOO...AMAZING

[@blaireblu]

Yessss I cried I was ready to say something then I listened and was like God Bless this woman...

[@spclkay1219]

Ok! I was like yes she knows what’s up! 💗

[@TheMzmia79]

Yes she really knows what's going on 😍

[@brittanyhill59]

When she said no perms & no heat when they’re this young I teared up 😭💯❤️

[@keymoten3079]

Brittany Hill Foreal I don’t get why parents do

[@JessicaSmith-ie7cm]

Key Moten They do it because it’s more manageable...I think.

[@pink23system63]

I know Bht why am I tearing up it must be tears of Joy!

[@octaviaeddings3765]

PINK 23system I think it’s because she really took the time to learn and Care for her children’s hair. She wanted them to have the healthiest, maintained hair and is willing to put in all the work that comes with natural hair. GO MOM!

[@karineokafor8510]

U inspires me. Gal I applaud you.

[@sarahwaggoner2069]

As a Black women, she’s more informed and knows more than a lot of African American mothers out there Edit: Why do people have to twist and turn the comment I made above? Speaking as a black women, I have encountered damage to my hair because of perms, and “just not knowing”. Born in the 80’s so many women close to my age can relate to not having KZbin to teach us or internet for that matter. Greasing the scalp with petrolatum or mineral oil, perms, improperly straightening hair etc.. Yes, there have been huge improvements and healthy “hair consciousness” and movements in our African American community but there are still some women/girls still not informed and I am shocked that women are still perming their young girls hair due to the amount of info out there. But , please people for once quit trying to twist a comment into a million different directions. As for the women in the video, thanks for sharing this to mothers out there that need to know. That is how most of us here learned by sharing and watching KZbin videos.

[@neghiepean1530]

That is actually very true. Too many of these girls walking around with damaged hair.

[@GlaxciaChrome]

And fyi, perms can be damaging if done improperly however a child can have a relaxer and still have healthy hair.

[@jessicaa9470]

Seriously? Who do you think she learned the styles and techniques from? Black women....

[@danniikerr6975]

Jessica A she would've learned them from black women however, these women would've been very informed on how to do hair for them and their kids, some women maybe don't quite know as much. She's clearly really informed though and honestly well on her!

[@bluebri3477]

@@jessicaa9470 Dont quite know why you have to keep trying to knock this amazing women down. Please learn to have more respect for others, and from your other comment, dont refer to her as just "this white woman". She obviously has a name.

[@nicolebayaua384]

The world needs more of you. I am so impressed and this made my entire day.

[@ArbreaElexus]

I just love your willingness to understand raising African American children. That’s so awesome to me

[@dmobibj1401]

American

[@quietandmildone]

THANK YOU! Thank You! thank you!

[@kolahmabullu137]

Of what?

[@kolahmabullu137]

@@Mika-lz3bn you STFU

[@debj5114]

Kolah Mabullu: If you don't know, learn to read (I use captions) and if you can’t read, learn to listen. Don’t knock someone who cares.

[@Sister_Sandy]

My mom is white and she would wash on Sundays and grease my scalp and then the rest of the week for my school days she would redo the braids. I have no idea where my mom learned how to do black hair but my hair was pretty long and healthy

[@gabrie11aaa]

Whadupp Racineee

[@Manara111111]

maybe she asked other mothers!!

[@tishad5418]

She asked a black women

[@Sister_Sandy]

@@tishad5418I'm guessing my aunts and no offense to you but in my experience a lot of black females tried to give me hair advice because I would ask for it and in general I found that many of them gave bad advice🤷🏾‍♀️ & going to most salons was a nightmare. I guess you live and you learn

[@raydient1]

@@Sister_Sandy I believe you. It's typical, especially if they want you to rely on them. They aren't going to give you all of the answers.

[@LtsTalkAboutit]

When you said “don’t wash it daily” so many white people don’t understand that we don’t accumulate oil over night like all over races and I almost cried because I can’t tell you how many times I’ve had to have that conversation! 💕🙌🏾🥰

[@22cataly]

Exactly! I can't even tell you how many conversations I had with non-black people trying to explain that we aren't supposed to wash our hair everyday. It's so stressful when people hear that and assume our hair is "dirty". That daughter is very lucky to grow up with a mother who is so knowledgeable in natural hair, especially because she doesn't have it herself.

[@Aj-sn1dp]

@Brax It shouldn't even be washed every week either. 2-3 times a month is more than enough, especially when its being protectively styles

[@asideofaioli4630]

@Brax True. If I go more than 7 days, I can tell. I have scalp issues though, so I can't let it go too long.

[@abigailmiller7331]

Brax okay smartie pants

[@jasminex6421]

you DO produce the same amount of oil like every other race but it isnt distributed around your hair like others.

[@skylarg5233]

as a black teenager i’d just like to say i absolutely love this. i know you don’t need thanks or praise, but thank you for learning how to properly care for your daughters hair from products to styles to bonnets and silk pillow cases

[@aidenkitsune1647]

I am not black and I am CRYING. tears rolling. she called her daughters hair a crown.

[@jaxon19kira]

I know at first I thought she was talking about the crown of their head like giving a tip on how to deal with a lopsided or irregular crown but she meant like a princess crown 😭❤️

[@Moe_3x]

😭😭😭

[@tracymccandies6989]

You can tell she has researched black KZbin sites via buzz words we use

[@kingjojo142]

Because it is her crown

[@LaviVick88]

Like real tears?

[@MasonGregoryStJames]

I’m a black guy with no kids. Idk how I ended up here, but I’m kinda glad I did. Video deadass made me happy inside

[@ShootinTheBriez]

I know exactly how you feel. I was like why was this recommended to me...then I watched and had all the warm fuzzies. I just love seeing mama's in general care for Black hair. It is our crown and glory...glad this little lady is going to grow up with a healthy respect for her hair.

[@MasonGregoryStJames]

Geo mii I wish you peace and positivity

[@amandawhitney4163]

@Geo mii I feel bad for you. This is just a mom. Who loves her child the same as any other mother but wants to do right by her child. I'll pray for you

[@TheNittyGritty735]

Geo mii what did you even mean by this? Lowkey be quiet.

[@mariaprado391]

I gotta ask, you from NYC?

[@AmarisRenaeTV]

. People need to see this. She is the DEFINITION of unconditional love. Her and her husband are what I pray me and my future husband can be half of. And 791 dislikes for what lol. Such hateful people ima pray for y’all 😅🙏🏽

[@lasheikaholmes2313]

I was saying the same thing

[@mrskay1674]

@@ChristyGior8 Right...they dont like it yet they won't do it themselves. And yes...im a black woman. Keep doing what your doing for those babies. It's THEIR lives that are being changed bc of the impact ur making for them. Nobody else matters.

[@kaylarichardson6813]

@@DrStephanieMillerWilliams what a hateful comment.....

[@ifyouwantoreplyjustclickth5063]

@@DrStephanieMillerWilliams that's so low class and narrow minded. Would you rather see this little girl grow up in an orphanage or go foster home to foster home? You'd rather have her have no one to call mommy and daddy just because of their racial difference? There are so many orphaned childen in the world who dont get the opportunity to get get what this little girl is getting. We dont need anymore newborns. Black children are also one of the least picked. This little girl will grow up in a wonderful home all thanks to this womderful woman and her husband. You're so insecure. I cant believe youd rather see this little girl have no family over a family who happens to be white that will love her unconditionally. All i can say is that i feel sorry for you.

[@twistedbliss58]

People can dislike whatever they want

[@yallratripbye9570]

Yeeeeessss she said "no child relaxers" and "every no and then leave it down or a loose ponytail, let it breathe" yes yes yes

[@GlamourrBae]

ii swear im not crying 😭😭😭😭😭😭 day 6 of quarantine just got better 100%

[@simonethatch2764]

Shawty416 I’m in tears 😭 this is a guardian angel mom!!!

[@encroachmentsworkinggroup2245]

Me too!!

[@ashleycathey944]

Same feeling 😭😭idk why this made me so emotional. But it feels like a beautiful shift. I feel the love and so many times I don’t see it or feel it from the way our children look whilst in the care of different “race” parents. I can’t express how beautiful this is to me. I respect your mothering regardless of race or color the love is felt through the screen because you took the opportunity to educate yourself for the betterment of your child. That is love.

[@lailafair9795]

It must the onions 🧅 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@TheGlitteredPill]

Shawty416 Yesssssss!!!! This made me cry in the most joyous way!

[@resurgenceofprayer]

I’m a Social Worker, I will definitely recommend this video to my foster parents! Great job!!! 🥰

[@yeeyee-sf4xq]

That is so cute!!!!

[@73cidalia]

Rock Chick Supremeo Sure. Because there are never situations where families are unfit to raise their kids. There may be issues and abuses pf power within the foster care system, but let’s not pretend that all fostered kids are taken from safe and loving families.

[@Anna-gm4nx]

Rock Chick Supremeo what the heck are you talking about.

[@Anna-gm4nx]

I watch so many of these videos myself, because I want to foster kids when I Get a little older, and I really want to foster black kids, and I want to know how I can care for their beautiful hair in the best way possible

[@ChristyGior8]

Rock Chick Supremeo I have seen you post and hate on me for years. I’m tired of you. I know you lost your child, but that doesn’t give you the right to harass me or anyone else that has adopted. Stalking and harassing is a crime.

[@alexandriamarie1830]

I love the fact that you have educated yourself on how to maintain your daughters hair. Small tip for her 4c type of hair water is her hairs best friend it allows you to use less product . Less is more ! Oils are also her hairs best friend. Ayurveda herbs and chebe , clay masks may be something you want to look into as well. These will help make it easier to maintain length, strength, and manageability. These are herbs that will be essential for her hair because they date back to her ancestors and history as a whole.Enjoy this journey and stay blessed.

[@LoveVirgo]

In other words, keep a spray bottle full of water to use while detangling. This uses less product which attracts dust. Also try the wrapped rubber bands so the hair wont rip. Shes beautiful

[@annathompson3135]

So happy to see this. I am also 4c type hair. WATER IS OUR BEST FRIEND and conditioner ofcourse. GREAT JOB Mama!!!

[@deasiadotson7613]

Depends on not just her hair TYPE but how her hair reacts. I don’t use water on my hair as much and I also don’t get product buildup.. but water drys my hair out and I have 4c hair.

[@LoveVirgo]

@@deasiadotson7613 Me too. I dont use water as much but moisture and oil. Not coconut oil for my hair though. It dries mine out.

[@avalenemcdonald111]

Yeah, i was thing the same thing she doin great. Put put less prouduct in the hair it helps the hair maintain its texture.

[@tamikaredmon2483]

I get chills just listening to you. I was interracial adopted and my mom had no clue about black hair. She did occasionally reach out to other black foster moms about hair care but my goodness not like you! She never understood black hair care is part of my identity. You rock!!

[@anelielowe9482]

She really put beads in this little girls hair. She’s getting the full little black girl experience 😭😭 I so happy for her you’re an amazing mother.

[@amelouise6572]

I always put beads in my babies hair.....both of them. I am going to be honest....I was so happy when we had a boy because his hair wouldn't be so tough to do. I am again hoping for a boy. But I love my girls hair. I got so mad when a white family member straightened her hair....not once but twice....in one week! I tired to be nice at first but the second time I told her to do what she wants with her kid's hair but dont touch my daughter's hair again. My girls are past the age of beads but they loved them when they were young. I had to have my mama in Missouri send us hair stuff for the kids. I also am not able to corn row. I am trying though. I bought a head with African hair off the internet to practice. The kids dont sit still for me to practice. I had to pay extra because I wanted to use it for corn rows and lock practicing. I got a cheaper one and all the hair just fell out. I teach my kida about their roots. I have found ao much African art here. They dont appreciate it so they sell it cheap. Its worth money and they have no idea. I will be the white mama that passes the African heritage to my babies. I am not afraid to ask for help either. Not to mention, I believe there are genetic factors that they have that would surprise you. You can take the girl out of Africa but you cant take the African out of the girl. I mean that in a very positive way. So no offense meant if anyone takes it that way. It beautiful.

[@TheJillianJiggss]

I'm mixed with a white Mom and my Mom used to do this for me! Christmas colours and Halloween colours and themes when she could lol I loveeeeed the beads

[@TheJillianJiggss]

@@amelouise6572 Practice doing the cornrows on your kids. Its not only a bonding experience for both of you, you wont cornrow the same on a plastic head as a real one. I used to have to sit for 5 hours so my white mother could braid my whole head. Your kiddos can too. Start by maybe doing one or two braids on the side as a cute little style for them and work up to more. Glad to hear you're trying to such to give your kids a part of their heritage. I wish I would have had that. Didnt try Caribbean food til I was a teenager lol My other tip which changed my hair completely is the LOC method and adding protein in my regime.Its much much more managable.

[@mdaynjer]

I'm mixed and missed out on this my mom didnt ever learn about my hair. I cant wait when I have kids to treat their hair like the precious gift it is.

[@TheKawaiifan]

low-key I was jealous of my black classmate in second grade when she got beads in her hair. they looked like so much fun!

[@misskatzlife5892]

ALL THE CHILDREN IN THIS HOUSE WILL BE SUCH WELL ROUNDED PEOPLE . I LOVE IT.

[@kierrawilliams5648]

Finally a woman raising black kids is learning how to do their hair instead of them walking around looking like who shot John . Thank you ❤️❤️

[@taetm8868]

Even black woman need to learn I be seeing 5th graders with doodoo braids

[@passionball4134]

Cordaejah Ridley LMFOA💀💀

[@serryjeinfeld4864]

SHE SAID WHO SHOT JOHN💀💀💀💀💀 chill out🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@janderson947]

Who shot jhon 😂 but yes her honesty and the fact that she said her hair is beautiful, and the way she described it I was like yass and she took the time yyo do it and understand it I love this video.

[@faleyeolamide9045]

Your comment had me laughing so hard 😂😂

[@keisha382]

Mad respect for you!!!! “I’m their mama and it’s my job”!!! The fact that you know and understand the importance of African American hair care is tremendous!! You may not even know how special this is! We need more mamas like you!!! You are so appreciated!!!! We see you girl!!!

[@lisafraser3]

You took the words out of my mouth Keisha. I love how she says momma. It’s cute. She’s definitely inspirational. Beautiful just beautiful.

[@asmrstar7135]

I’m a black woman and this.... just made me cry. The fact that you are advocating with such passion. The fact that you’ve taken the time to understand the importance of their hair. Thank you. Bless you.

[@rhondaforcer2266]

Would you cry and bless a Black woman for doing her child’s hair? I think not

[@BlueLatte-f3f]

the fact that you didn’t chop off all her hair and just add water and call it a day ... some beauticians of the same race are quick to hair chop for no reason

[@laramujagic1222]

Stop being salty, she has taken time to learn how to care for their hair and is doing a great job, it just shows how much love and effort she puts into raising kids that aren’t her own, if it makes someone else happy to see this video I don’t see how it affects you

[@rhondaforcer2266]

Lara Mujagic Show me one Black woman/man you thanked or thought to thank for doing the same thing. None

[@laramujagic1222]

@@rhondaforcer2266 well if the black person In question has made a routine for their adopted white childs hair I would say the same, get over urself

[@rachelmbokane5789]

1:43 "I have learnt It is their crown. It is their identity. It is what they look in the mirror every single day and then they see and they are proud of. It is part of who they are and for that reason, it was so incredibly important for me to learn how to care for their hair properly. Every single coil, every single strand of their hair needs to be gently cared for appropriately to what their hair specifically needs." 😍😍😍😍😍💜💜💜👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿

[@othergeorgea]

Rachel Mbokane ❤️💯

[@rachelmbokane5789]

@@othergeorgea 💜💜

[@marianworld4771]

Im a black women all I can say is thank you.Why did this make me 😢

[@QueenNefertiti1980]

Because she genuinely cares about her daughters culture

[@sheilaadams4538]

This made me cry too😥

[@NonameWriter]

Weak.

[@marianworld4771]

@@NonameWriter Not weak..Just love and passion for all human race.

[@cheeseck7205]

@@NonameWriter how is being happy about stuff like this being "weak"?

[@alexisshepherd4666]

This is DEDICATION 101! Thank you for educating yourself so that you can best take care of your children. I am a black woman and I am SO lazy....I'm not even gonna lie😆 I just keep my hair cut really short because I HATE doing my natural hair. But, you are awesome and everything you are saying is so very true. With our various hair types, you do have to be mindful of the products used because what works for one may not work for the other. But, great job, Mom!!!👍

[@101TexanNativez]

She's being modest. She's an uncertified expert in my eyes. When you move with love race is never an issue. God bless you being a great mom!!!

[@e-exclusivehair9776]

PasSion Waldon THEEEEEE BEST COMMENT! 😍💕#movewithlove

[@tanyaericacd]

This woman knows more than some of our mothers did (which also wasn’t there fault but that’s another convo)

[@rosee4934]

Yesss!

[@PrincessYonna1]

@@tanyaericacd To be honest !!! Us younger girls know more about our hair than our moms and grandma's ever did . Thanks to KZbin I became natural in 2017 against my mom's will and my hair is all the way down my back .

[@fiestyfox2207]

@@PrincessYonna1 congratulations on your hair journey!! 💕

[@CupOfTae_SugaKookies_Sprite]

I love how you keep saying "beautiful" when referring to African American people and hair. You're BEAUTIFUL as well, inside and out.

[@babybratzdilemma8848]

Cup of Tae, with Suga Kookies no jams & a sprite armyyy💜💜💜

[@jacindarush7523]

Why wouldn't she use the word "beautiful"

[@carorezende1158]

Cup of Tae, with Suga Kookies no jams & a sprite Of course she is saying that couse its true

[@CupOfTae_SugaKookies_Sprite]

Jacinda Rush Because I don't see a lot of white people calling African American hair beautiful, that's why. Even some black moms don't teach their children to love their hair. Instead some treat it like it's a burden and put a relaxer in it because they don't want to deal with it. So to see this mom not only doing her black daughter's hair beautifully but also teaching her that her natural hair is beautiful is a wonderful thing and I was just pointing that out. And of course she's call her daughter beautiful (because, it is true). But I was referring to the fact she was calling ALL black hair beautiful.

[@CupOfTae_SugaKookies_Sprite]

Caro Rezende I don't see a lot of white people calling African American hair beautiful. Even some black moms don't teach their children to love their hair. Instead some treat it like it's a burden and put a relaxer in it because they don't want to deal with it. So to see this mom not only doing her black daughter's hair beautifully but also teaching her that her natural hair is beautiful is a wonderful thing and I was just pointing that out. And of course she's call her daughter beautiful (because you're right, it is true). But I was referring to the fact she was calling ALL black hair beautiful.

[@DumplinMills1]

Someone is chopping onions because these tears are just running. As a black girl i hated my hair. I am now 28 and still figuring out how to care for it. Thank you for allowing her to know from young.

[@Gabriellaella23]

Girl I'm 28 and I feel the exact same way. I love that KZbin has opened up a space for so many black women to discuss the hair and allow women like her to be able to take care of her daughter's hair.

[@Devncole]

This gives me a lot of hope for all of the other interracial families who simply don’t know how to take care of African American hair

[@ImperfectlyAshe]

When she pulled the silk scarf/durag out I knew she knew what she was doing!!

[@Stanfordk08]

Imperfectly Ashe RIGHT! I said “Thank you ma’am!”

[@arob9815]

Yes, I kept thinking I hope she puts a scarf on her head. Then "Bam"!! She pulled out the same exact purple durag scarf I use on my 6 year old daughter's hair. Perfect🥰🥰🥰

[@demirutledge7611]

Imperfectly Ashe lol!! Yep!!!

[@DivaDaniella]

Right!!! When she mentioned Bonnet and silk pillow case I knew!!

[@dashiarahmaan8478]

You’re doing a fab job with their hair. Just one tip: you could try sealing in the leave-in with a little oil. You rock Christy and your daughters are beautiful!

[@PatriceDEvans]

dashia rahmaan yeah she also needed to steam it cuz she looks like she is low porosity. It was just sitting in her hair. And too much parting. She can be more gentle. All of that said. It impressive that she is even doing as well as she is and the little girl’s hair looks healthy enough. 👏🏿👏🏿.

[@megandeann8402]

Jamaican Black castor oil will do the job after the wash and leave in conditioner...

[@nialynn2666]

Christy Gior That blue magic great you mentioned in a previous video is also a great sealant

[@tarledamanley2832]

@@PatriceDEvans I don't think she's low porosity my hair is low porosity and that Cantu spray sits on top of my hair. My daughter is high porosity and Cantu conditioner makes her hair white for a little while

[@lilmsluchi]

@@PatriceDEvans parting looks fine to me. She styled her hair in several braids the parting is necessary 🤔 also baby girl is just really tender headed is what i observed 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@rebuiltgirl3263]

She needs to go and speak at the classes for foster parents and Foster adoptive parents to empower them to care for their children's hair and not to become discouraged. This blessed my heart hearing her talk the way she did

[@ebrig2874]

Veiria Rebuilt Johnson I agree!

[@Hell.0itsMe]

Agreed

[@ChristyGior8]

Veiria Rebuilt Johnson thank you 🥰🥰

[@tiffanybruce1348]

I've worked as a social worker for nearly 20 years and have taught these hair tips to my culturally mixed families! Thank you for your willingness to learn and for your beautiful loving heart!!!

[@aliveandconnected]

My high school friend reached out to me when she hit a wall with her daughter's hair. I was so touched. I gave her the low down, the breakdown of how often, how to moisturize. Whew I was emotional. ❤

[@ChristyGior8]

Love it!

[@annabressi7756]

As a black woman who was adopted by a white family, hearing you say, "I am her mama, it is my job" just brought me so much joy. I wish I, or most children, in interracial adoptions or interracial families had this at home. Best wishes to y'all.

[@luzycuty]

I’m sorry I know this is personal, but did you not feel like your adopted mom was your mom? I ask mainly because I know I want to adopt children when my time comes.

[@gonation9287]

Girl I feel you. I was also adopted by a white family, I agree with this so much

[@kita3256]

What was your experience with you hair growing up with a white family?

[@melaniesipe60]

My son is biracial and am so so proud to be his mama. He is beyond handsome and smart. He's so funny too and my little best friend.

[@serenapalmer1220]

I just love that as I scroll through these comments, there’s nothing but love and positivity. I absolutely love diversity and this mama definitely knew how to take care of her baby’s hair. Well done! ♥️

[@serenapalmer1220]

Christy Gior I’m so sorry that happened to you sweetheart. I don’t understand why people have to be so hateful. I think it’s a very commendable thing that you embrace other races into your home. Just keep doing what you are doing. God bless

[@Artliker1234]

She’s really trying and people see that

[@QueenofMarine]

You tube randomly recommended this video and I don't even have kids, but you have me in tears listening to how much you love and honor your girls. I wish every child had this kind of love.

[@treble529]

I love that you took the time and made it a priority to learn to take care of your girls crowns. You go mom! I hope other parents of children with textured hair find it necessary because it is!!!!

[@Skylightatdusk]

Indeed, especially since many Afro *women* are still learning to appreciate, have the social stamina and care for afro hair.

[@sewgeekdesigns9113]

Hear moisture game is on point ❤️

[@titinerma460]

Right. My friend has a white adoptive mom and her mother just relaxed her hair. Now she’s an adult figuring out how to do her own hair and she has no idea

[@emilyreeves7854]

I care for patients at a hospital, and I often wash and style my ladies' hair when they are too weak to do it on their own. All of the hygiene products provided at the hospital are designed for caucasian hair which is sooooo frustrating. I learned to take care of my curls from my lovely black neighbor, and I now use products designed for "ethnic" hair. I've decided to buy an extra bottle of my favorite root rinse and keep it in my locker for my patients with braids, weaves, and natural kinks and curls:) It's so important to be inclusive--even when it comes to hair care!

[@CharlyPhilly]

I have a white friend with some crazy kinky hair. I took her to the dominicans and she'd never had her hair so straight and silky before. I told her she just needs to accept her hair is like black hair and she had to maintain it different. It's more work but worth it. Thanks for taking care of the elderly! I know you are lifting a weight off their shoulders

[@emilyreeves7854]

@@CharlyPhilly I relate so much with your friend! For the longest time, I thought my hair was just a MESS. But it just needed some TLC:)

[@gin376]

🙌🏾❤️

[@rhondadenis3469]

You are a beautiful person. Keep shining your light. ❤️

[@TheBLACKKING25]

As a fellow healthcare worker, you are awesome.

[@yaanimatt2578]

She’s going to grow up loving her hair 😊

[@hsavant1]

Yaani Matt yep and she’s going to have a whole lot of hair too if her mama keeps this up. Kudos!

[@agnetasigurdsson6630]

Pospppååpoiiuuipokkjoqaklalkiiioopp

[@rhens8088]

AS SHE SHOULD.

[@autumn0378]

True💜

[@azmiraclegirl441]

I'm a white chick, and I saw this on my local news just now. I had a few friends who struggled with their hair. And just knowing how much goes into African American hair plus the unfortunately negativity :(, this literally brought a couple tears to my eyes! Thank you for being the difference! They have gorgeous hair, and so many beautiful styles. Please, embrace your hair, ladies !!! ❤️

[@All.ThingsRE]

I came here expecting a disaster but I was wrong. You speak with sooooo much love and passion for these babies. You did the work to be the best mommy you can be.

[@ChristyGior8]

Thank you :) never judge a book from its cover :)

[@sanayyx5137]

Christy Gior your doing an amazing job caring for your babies. But if you use the shiny side of the durag on her hair it locks in more moisture as it’s satin

[@maars75]

You should NEVER expect a disaster just because a skin color.😊 Like black people, she has also hands and a brain to use her hands. Any human can learn how to take hair of afro hair. Like most afro girls who LEARNED too on internet or somewhere (not from parents !). So how you can judge by the cover ? Its just lighter or a darker skin colors. Maybe this woman love and respect more natural hair than you, who knows ! 😉 Racism and stereotypes will never never end if we think like that.🌍

[@sanayyx5137]

Mår I think she meant because she doesn’t have black hair so she wouldn’t know how to care for it. No disrespect❤️

[@kellyedey5952]

Why would that be exactly?.

[@Kevbandi]

Even most black parents sometimes don’t even want to deal with doing their own or their child’s hair because it’s too much. It’s amazing how u can take care of her so well 👍🏽💯💯💯💯

[@jessicaa9470]

kevbandi ❶ ... you really don’t have to disrespect black parents to uplift a white woman. Most black mothers do take care of their child’s hair. How do you think this woman learned how to do it? These are all tips, techniques, and styles created by black women to care for black hair.

[@hanneloreh.8137]

Jessica A ,,this white woman“ why you gotta be so dismissive, that tone of yours is poisonous

[@ciarachanel6561]

Jessica A yet you’re lowkey being rude yourself with the “this white woman “ thing . a lot of black parents ( yes i am part black myself) perm & relax their child’s hair half the time & by the time their child is older their natural hair isn’t even beautifully natural anymore . say i’m wrong & you’ll be lying to yourself cause people in the black community know this is a fact

[@BlackWomenAte]

kevbandi ❶ let’s not generalize “most” black parents. I’m a black woman who have only ever been around black people and we adore our hair and our children’s hair.

[@aliyahp9969]

TRUE.. I've seen so many matted heads of hair and shrinkage and just dry damaged hair on sweet innocent 2 and 3 year olds 😥 we should be caring for their crowns for sure

[@harmoniusmeditations5737]

My foster Mom took pride in my hair growing up. Even though she was of a different race. Much respect😊

[@larose1605]

I had to come back. You made me sooo emotional. Im a black mother of 4 children 1 daughter. Your the best. Their are some black women who doesn't take the time out to do half the dedication that you put in to your kids smh. Your a blessing a angle thank you.

[@OOoKarmaoOO]

Everyone doesn't deserve children but that woman is such a mom...😩🌼

[@scarlove50]

She grabbed the durag and started talking about silk pillowcases and I was like this women knows

[@DaigeeDeJ]

Scar Love everyone needs a silk pillowcase if they don’t have a scarf😭

[@BeccaDaily]

The fact that this lady took upon herself to learn the proper way to care for her daughter's hair and did an amazing job doing it, I applaud her!

[@nisigate]

Am a black woman and don’t remember my mom bonding with over hair braiding you are a great mom

[@qiyonnejones5856]

See how the kids in the background interact with each other you can see she is in a loving home ..

[@avshaw89]

Qiyonne JONES At 8:48 the little boy puts a blanket on his sibling and I- 😭

[@louisasmiles]

I noticed that!!!

[@jalynnwilliams6170]

Aerolyn Shaw He put pillows on his sibling I believe haha.

[@BB-qk8on]

Qiyonne JONES I took note of that too. Lovely.

[@claudiadavisja]

Just a shout-out to Ace. He's such good brother. I saw when he got his sister a snack, a blanket to cover up and kissed her. You raising an excellent young lad there Christy.

[@tnxsdandelion637]

I have noticed how caring he is and I think his a mama's boy 😊

[@teeramirez464]

Lol as a mom of seven i wonder how many times you tell him to sit down! Lol

[@ScorpioCrystal]

I caught that too!! So sweet

[@FearRKO]

I'm mixed and my mom is white and she did not know all this information when I was little. This is so important. You seem like a great mom!!

[@r3ddon3pttwo87]

Same! Lol My mama knew nothing about hair but she did try I'll give her that

[@HAIRHOLIC_1]

Lexi girl I’m mixed too and my African black mother didn’t know either 😂😂😂 she always cut my hair short just cuz she didn’t know how to handle it, ended up making me look like a little boy in pink dresses 😂😂

[@Renewedbyreign]

Lord we need more of this kind of love! 🥰

[@tinapullen6421]

I'm mixed, but didnt have a issue with my mom doing my hair. However when I had kids I had no idea what to do with their hair. One day my neighbor asked me. TINA..... .what you putting in that girls hair? I said water.. . She said , girl she needs some grease 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤷🏽‍♀️. My girl still tease me about that.

[@The_Food_Police]

I got lucky with a white mom who knew how to do my hair pretty well, and I think that's part of why I grew up appreciating my natural hair.

[@hammyfan6060]

Tip: Soak the rubber bands in Olive oil before you put them in the Hair to help prevent breakage. ❤️

[@magpie6180]

you guys are awesome

[@tommesiacooper1258]

great tip !

[@vendulaalomoge2364]

This isba great tip, thank you!!

[@josijo2384]

As an adoption counselor, my heart smiles for this little girl!! When she hits teen years and starts going into the world more independently, she will forever appreciate the efforts you made to honor her individuality while making her apart of your family. Bless you💐

[@areej2630]

This little girl will grow up to be a QUEEN 'cause she got an amazing mom like you !

[@2012Nece]

Emma - She's already a Queen. But yes it does take a village to maintain a clear vision of such.

[@fabiennepierre2424]

Emma - YES!!!!!!!!! ❤️

[@ThisIsNotTheEndd]

It doesn’t sound super overwhelming...it sounds like love. Black children need a special kind of love to to have their hair cared for. Every Mother of a black child has access to God’s Grace to get that special love and you clearly have it. You wanna come over and do my baby’s hair?😒 Pray for me y’all 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@YaYa-hr2rr]

😂😂😂😂

[@PorchaMoney17]

I will

[@reginalancaster3692]

I love this video 🙌👍🙏

[@ThisIsNotTheEndd]

From My Roots Thank you sis. I have anxiety over it and I know that is not of God.

[@janderson947]

😂

[@dionnedasme9556]

Well done...this is a true mother's love for her baby. Whether black or white. You do what your baby needs to celebrate and confidently grow into who they are. Well done👏🏾👏🏾🙌🏾

[@BrittanyYogurt]

This reminds me of my own childhood. My mother has traditionally straight, Hispanic hair and when I was younger she would study the hair patterns of lil black girls on the bus and try to do it with me at home. Your baby will thank you when she’s older for being able to give her this kind of love and understanding the importance of our hair.

[@123tube456]

You had me chuckling 😁... Pictured your mom spying on little kids on the bus. Your mom really cared for you

[@veronicaguillen672]

b b this is so sweet lol

[@SubliminalQueen368]

You have a great mom

[@BrittanyYogurt]

It's funny seeing everyone's nice comments when in actuality my mother was a mentally ill, boy-obsessed, abusive monster. Take care though y'all!

[@marvelousmarvi9970]

I have to commend this woman for what she does. She knows what she’s doing and she has the patience for our childre’s hair. I really appreciate her so much. We need more like you, and for that... I’m subscribing to the channel 💕 much love 😘

[@walkingintruthknowledge7418]

Nah we need less. That child needs to be with her own

[@bho9196]

Walking In Truth & Knowledge...what that child needs is to have her physical, emotional,& spiritual needs met. Far as I can tell this white woman is meeting every last one of this beautiful babies needs...that baby good...u, not so much

[@evelynsophanny]

Walking In Truth & Knowledge how would u feel if someone said an african american mother couldn’t have a white daughter cos she needed to “be with her own” ? 😐

[@walkingintruthknowledge7418]

@@evelynsophanny she doesn't. Ppl need to stick to their own. Simple. The Bible even says so. And there's no such thing as an African American. You not amerikkkan and you sure aren't African.

[@walkingintruthknowledge7418]

@@bho9196 not at all. You're delusional just as she is. This is an abomination and sin against the Most High. You should be ashamed of yourself just as well as she. Poor baby needs to be with the chosen ppl of the Most High, her ppl. Not animals

[@kikobangz]

She just detangled her hair from tip to root and I am SHOOKETH!!! This is lovely that you took the tile to learn to care for your beautiful black baby. So much respect for you.

[@RealTalkWitA]

Kiko Bangz I said the same thing!!! When I saw that, I knew sis did not come to play lol

[@kikobangz]

Kirsty Birsty I personally have never known a white person to do this.

[@TheMsnita]

Kirsty Birsty nah I have had conversations with many white women with black nieces, cousins etc and their caregiver lets them run around wild.... they’ll ask if I have any tips or friends that do hair to help

[@ChlorineHeart]

@@kikobangz It's the advice I have always seen for how to detangle your hair. I do have "curly" (technically wavy) hair though so maybe white girls with straight hair wouldn't care enough to ever even look it up

[@kikobangz]

ChlorineHeart I think that’s the difference. I’ve only known people with thick or curly hair to swear by this. Curly girls have to deal with the most. It’s worth it though. I love my hair now 💕

[@Shirx.ley7]

This made me emotional. Grew up with relaxers in my hair.. took years to get it natural and I’m still learning how to style it. I have 3c/4a hair. This was very beautiful to watch keep it up ❤️❤️

[@dianah8014]

These are the moments she will reflect on and cherish when she’s an adult. Kudos to you mama! I’m so proud of you.

[@justebania]

I was thinking the same thing, she needs a spray bottle with some water in it that will help go a long way to help detangling her hair

[@OzzieLizze]

These are the moments she will treasure and remember when she’s older. I’m only 18 but I deeply appreciate the times mom would sit me down on the floor in between her lap and do my hair. ❤️🙏🏾

[@iitsNiickyDuh]

Yes!! Exactly I find myself thinking of that very experience watching this video!! 💛

[@lajoiahamilton8218]

Absolutely

[@L.sabore]

U know this mother ain’t letting nobody else in her child head period 🤣

[@44of144]

PERIODT!!!

[@diamondsandpearls899]

That’s a fact she’ll probably be standing over them with a microscope 🥴🥴🥴🤣🤣🤣

[@oceejay5148]

Lateefa Sabore 😂😂😂😂😂

[@kittyb9453]

@@diamondsandpearls899 bare retakes in the parting fr😌

[@ishanibrinson4374]

Lateefa Sabore PERIOD

[@ladylauren5258]

Great job! Some black women are just learning how to care for their hair, I’m so glad for the natural hair movement! We’re going back to our roots and not assimilating to European standards

[@clemmaynard4580]

When she said no heat, the stadium cheering went off in my head. Go Mom!

[@MeMe-ht2hd]

This woman gets it!!! She is the truth, she's coming from a place of Understanding. We in the African diaspora love you, thanks for extending your love to your children of another color.

[@nouvelbel1333]

She gets its 110% ❤

[@destyneefloyd6804]

that baby looks like she has some beautiful long healthy hair.

[@tonistark7894]

I was saying the same thing as I watched this video.

[@aliciascott6464]

Just started fostering two beautiful African American baby girls & so want to care for their hair correctly. Thankful for women like you and some sweet black women in my life who have helped me learn. This was beautiful to watch & I learned some things ❤️

[@ForHisGlory2393]

As a black woman, this is heart warming!! I’ve seen many in your position not invest in learning about black hair and not do anything to their children’s hair. You have not only educated yourself but you are killing it SiS!! I’m so proud of you and when your daughters get older they will be so proud that you their mother!! New subbi

[@ashleyeoff9232]

I’m a cosmetologist and she did that better than some of us moms and stylists!!! Hair care is simply LOVE.. yes mama!

[@iiamlakayla]

Ashley Eoff i have some questions about my hair. is there a way I can contact you?

[@trinadeerhodes]

I agree. My daughter is 15. I vowed she would know her real texture before changing it with chemicals. This is exactly her routine

[@ashleyeoff9232]

trvpkaylaa what’s your question?

[@ashleyeoff9232]

trina dee this is awesome for her on so many levels !! 🥰

[@TheBrownIsland]

True some don't care to learn & know how. She actually did it like many Moms & Stylists who know how to properly care for African-American/ Black hair.

[@kiyamarie9317]

Tip: Once you have added leave-in conditioner in the hair and the hair doesnt feel damp anymore: Add water to the hair and detangle again! that way you dont use more product that you need to!!

[@MissJacklyne]

Kiya’s 411 also using a wide tooth comb to detangle before going in with a brush helps loads with the pain and reduce breakage x

[@nikkifav4639]

She is not using too much product. Water evaporates, the product is essential.

[@leshalesha2055]

Yeah I was thinking that too! It will be easier to detangle if u add more water 💜

[@ednaidatipote5602]

My good God..This woman is an absolute Angel! I got so emotional watching this video as a black woman. You have the same heart my father has (my father is white). Thank you for caring so much, and thank you for really loving us and learning all you can to accept us was we are. My father did the same thing. I'm the luckiest girl in the world. Your bond with your daughter is so beautiful to watch. GOD BLESS YOU 🙏 😘❤