Handsome Men Will Get Challenged by Other Men

[@CopycatNinja875]

If you are handsome, ppl will always try to paint you as a jerk or idiot. Guys will always act petty and exaggerate every little flaw that you have. You basically have to develop a survival of the fittest mindset and be cautious about other men you interact with.

[@Lifeoftheparty8290]

Facts

[@Forevermirin94]

@@JohnPierre-lz6vb the so called "friends" are the worst! Always jealous and envious. I cut them all out 👊🏽👊🏽👊🏽

[@Nftman555]

@@Forevermirin94 came across a few of those "friends" in college for sure

[@barackthecomposer6642]

Excellent point brother. So true. I get the same treatment because I’m tall, intellectual, with lots of creative skills: PIANO, guitar, singing, oratory, teaching, and martial arts. I’m not bragging. I’ll give all praises to my GodFor these gifts; and I use them to help people.

[@carljordan4515]

Well said !! I go thru this everyday at work if I make a mistake it’s gives the guys ammunition!!

[@FoxxAddamz1]

Had this happen throughout my life. Smh. It took a looong time to understand how women who were truly attracted to me viewed me on the 'cliche' attractive scale. I've always had resistance from other dudes and at times had to defend my self whether verbally or sometimes physically. Jobs were no different... Even had a supervisor who would hate and cock block just because the females at the job were feeling me. We almost went to blows cuz dude would not let up. Even so called friends have hated and tried to block in situations. These days I'm more of a lone wolf just because I know how people male and female can be. I could keep going but Imma cut it short here...

[@cliffbangaway6652]

I recognize this distractive pattern's. But what do you advise me as a 20 years old handsome young man that doesn't much experience in this field?

[@HonestProfessional01]

Been there myself, all through life.

[@donatello9482]

That’s what I’m going through right now 🤣😂 these dudes talking down on my name. Spreading rumors about me

[@lo8020]

At work this childish shit keeps happening.

[@marlboropiked]

@@cliffbangaway6652 Be aware of your friends & females whether you deal with them directly or not at all times… trust your internal instincts about people no matter what they tell you. Accept jealousy as a compliment & understand that most guys are going to be jealous of you & women will be insecure of you also… If you’re a handsome man avoid being “hooked up” with a chick by your buddy. These situations can cause a rift between you & said buddy, trust me… Make females earn the right to have you as a man … one thing that can be a detriment to a handsome dude, is not knowing his super power…people will actually think you are weird if you aren’t embracing your handsomeness.. Understand that females will try to tear you down out of jealousy so beware of females who constantly judge your looks or make passive/aggressive comments about you… these females say they love you but they really want to control you & the only way they can do it is by playing mind games… Don’t ever take your male friendships seriously, your male friends are going to be the main ones who will turn on you over a woman……Try not to date to far down… women seem to loose respect for handsome men who eat low hanging fruit… the woman that you pick to deal with represents your standards as a man…

[@Run2BFree]

That’s why I’m a lone wolf. I’m not trying to do anything, but pay my bills lift weights mind my business and do what I like to do.

[@Brinkofinsanity]

sad but true me too

[@MusiciLoveYouuu]

Fr G. I have a roommate who never invites me to go out. Bro lowkey scared ima take all the women. I know for sure

[@banderas2000]

I'm seeing that's how you gotta do it. Dudes you don't even know, ex at a restaurant the cute employee feeling you , the co worker sees it and gives those death stares tries to eliminate opportunities for you and her to talk

[@PantsofVance]

@@MusiciLoveYouuu You will get the craziest mixed signals from women too bro, especially ones who are in relationships or are dating another man, it's wild lol

[@MusiciLoveYouuu]

@@PantsofVance fr man. The shadow world there are no rules. Gotta be sexual discipline out here though

[@IcyBandicoot]

OG does not miss. As a handsome man you have to be ready for all the smoke.

[@BIGSAM-O-A]

Preach my don

[@slim3710]

@@wardboy23 lmfao factz 🤣

[@slim3710]

@@wardboy23 and if you still got the hood thing oh my boi it's a wrap

[@MarvinNicholson823]

FACTS BRAH

[@PDGAF]

Yep. It ain't no games.

[@wrightseaman5417]

Even as someone who gets hate for being handsome, I realized I felt the same way around really handsome charismatic men sometimes. Although I shit that shit down quick after remembering what other jealous men did to me

[@MusiciLoveYouuu]

That’s true bro

[@SONGOHANXBEASTSSJ11]

This FAXX

[@TripleG5050]

When I was heavy, I never had this issue. As I lost more and more weight, my friends would congratulate me, but eventually they started coming at me sideways, especially when girls were around. When you’re handsome, you really can’t afford to spend time with the wrong dudes as they will act friendly but go behind your back when you’re not around. Learning to fight is a must, also elevating the quality of men you hang with is also very valuable.

[@The_Game_Is_The_Game]

No one really talks about upgrading the men around you. I’m this way myself. I don’t want non players around me that get in their feelings when women are around. Even some dudes will bring down your SMV if they are considered less than handsome than you. It’s a tough battle out there for sexual conquests. Great video Unk💯

[@robertromero8094]

@Justin Davis emotional kids with guns basically lol ccw is needed but by stable people only lol

[@KingBabaJames]

Yep bro. I cut off some friends bc that. One of my boy try to date my x girlfriend. After we break up. She called and told me that she signed up for dating app my boy hitting on her. Saying I doesn't have to know.

[@jackiechun5817]

I don't even like dudes in my face unless they are in the "top 20% club" too bc these weak 🤡 be on their man-period. Had supervisors hate,try to fire me,cocblock me, ask me "man how you do it I be watching you round these vvomen", I was 1 more slick shih talking remark from 2pc'ing him and walking out. Had fake thug/fake player coworkers hate and even try to fight me LITERALLY AT WORK ON SEVERAL OCCASIONS, former "friends" switch up and tried to get me knocked off back in my "street thug" days (had to go get my steel calvary from under the mattress...almost caught a body that day). I get 50% of black dudes(and white dudes trying to be SUPER "bro bro" with me on sight and the other 50%(mostly the black dudes tbh) be on some "I hate that pretty boy motherfuccer" type shih...even try to 1up me, cocblock, or aggressive posturing around me for no reason(COMPLETE strangers). Funny thing is they don't even HAVE TO DO ALL THAT bc Most WW ain't checking for a black(mixed race ) dude and MOST BW are standoffish/dismissive anyway bc apparently I'm "too handsome". Hate I was even born MOST DAYS tbh.🤔😒🤷🏿‍♂️🧔🏾‍♂️

[@sophisitcated1194]

@GNG Not trying to belittle your experience, but as a big person all my life I always got hated on for being good looking. I dislike the narrative that alot of men push around that they weren't good looking until they lost weight. Handsome isn't just for skinny men. If thats your experience, then its valid to you. Ppl, so called friends, strangers, and even fam in the past came at me sideways for nothing. Took me till after high school to realize how ppl actually liked me, wanted to talk to me, or were hating on me. Everyone actually viewed me in a brighter light than I assumed. It's crazy. The past 2 years since high school, I had to rewire my brain to know I'm more attractive than I think. When ppl treated you like crap and tried to fight you unprovoked you assume ppl don't think much of you; but they think Very Highly of you. That's why they hate. Being good looking has its pros and cons. Smh

[@ThenotoriousRH]

I would get favoritism as a kid in my school for my looks and girls would tell me I was ugly and basically wasn’t shit. And it lead me to have social anxiety as an adult. Being handsome is a curse and a blessing.

[@buttmunch2670]

Same man, all through school i got called ugly as i guess a joke so i just assumed i'm ugly but i get alot of random female attention so it really confuses me.

[@Gabriel_the_Shemite]

I've been in the same situation as you - minus the handsome part.

[@kelvinholmes5348]

I’ve been dealing with this hate my whole life, I’ve dealt with this jealousy from so called friends and my family members including my own dad, I’ve had my so called homies to go after every woman I’ve had just because I was with them, it made them feel above me if they was with a woman I was with, I’ve been lied on, I’ve had clothes stolen from me, I’ve been fired from jobs, been to jail to screw up my record you name it I’ve dealt with it, it’s sickening to my stomach to the point where I’ve had to live a solo dolo life, man these low self esteem dudes has got to go at all cost.

[@Hunchopapa]

Same boat

[@blacklion2432]

Handsome men will definitely be tested out of jealousy by men and women will assume you're conceited even when you're approachable and "friendly" Being pretty boy was all good until I hit my 20s and haters came outta nowhere and it used to get to me but after ahwile I embraced being slightly conceited while treating everyone with class.

[@dewayneperry8395]

Exactly 💯

[@PrincePharrell17]

🥶🥶

[@tyronetyrone6462]

Factz

[@cowboymalliefit6106]

Preach

[@Hunchopapa]

Hit the nail on the head💯

[@Brandon-sb3nw]

I’ve had dudes stop inviting me out to functions when I got the body game and drip down

[@Simeonsvids]

Man this too real 😭

[@bioshock9998]

Crazy how grown ass dudes still live in popularity contest mindset without realizing it. Dropped groups because of this.

[@ham5483]

Lol thats a great analogy

[@mizukagematt1186]

Exactly 🤦🏾‍♂️

[@jalena.4173]

Rom really is really making the blurry part of my childhood and teenage years make sense

[@darlingtonobi3324]

Underrated Comment

[@justinglenn4820]

💯

[@ABxThugg]

Very true! I was made fun of so much as a kid and as a teenager that I believed I was ugly, currently 28yrs old I’m being approached by dimes which is ridiculous in my mind because of my low self esteem that build up over years. I immediately think back to my young years when I’m approached, and I just end up not talking to them. Shits terrible man!

[@ryrez4478]

same

[@warrr_machine]

💯

[@siyonqoba4810]

I'm so slow. It took me being a grown man before i realized ninjas are catty like school aged girls

[@impulse894]

Same! Instead of bettering themselves, they act like high-school girls. I noticed the dudes who pull chicks don’t get bothered much. It is the losers.

[@siyonqoba4810]

@@impulse894 facts!!!

[@bioshock9998]

@@impulse894nah man my last friends who did this had gf’s. The one single dude is actually nice af to me. Both of their gfs have called me attractive in front of their bfs too

[@banderas2000]

Can't lie sometimes it bothers me seeing them looking dagger's at me while I'm charming the women. I know shouldn't let it get to me but sometimes it's like bro wtf you at

[@impulse894]

@@banderas2000 insecurity at its best

[@Jupiter_9911]

It's true. I became a man capable of extreme violence due to the number of times I had stand up for myself since I was 6 years old. Yes, 6 years old. This stuff starts very early

[@thaistomp]

It just sucks that we have to become savages because other guys hate on us since we're young boys.

[@TheBoon14]

What a real ass comment man. Being handsome will turn you into an uber coward OR a fucking monster. Choose monster every time & harness its power for whenever necessary.

[@thescience4294]

Sometimes the jealousy is from women too , they like to be the most attractive people in the room, they get it intimidated as well

[@robertpitts8161]

This is facts! Like if u at a bar and a whole bunch of females is giving you action it will always be a female thats wants your attention but wanted you to put her on a pedestal lol. She will usually be sitting back watching u with a stank face lol. If she never gets your attention she will try to figure out a way to embarrass you lol.

[@HumbleDude46995]

females are too jealous i stay away from em bruh

[@x97s]

Women are jealous asf of men

[@ham5483]

Facts

[@iiConFuZze]

This is why I gravitated towards psychology, not as a career, just reading a lot on the side and on this topic. I'm truly fascinated by why ppl act the way they do, and in my case I can completely relate to every one of the handsome man videos. It's even more intriguing to know why ppl react the way they do to you bcuz of your appearance. I mean I literally find myself doing social experiments, for my own knowledge not to post, of how ppl will react in public to things I do. I think I'm obsessed lol

[@AyeYoZay]

Relate to this 1000%

[@iiConFuZze]

@@JohnPierre-lz6vb lol I thought it was just me bro!

[@Michael-rm1bx]

Some book you recommend?

[@juswolf22]

What some psychological books you started with Greg?

[@iiConFuZze]

@@juswolf22 I can say I started with books like “How to Win Friends and Influence People” by Dale Carnegie. He isn’t a psychologist but he talk about how to interact with people, just more in depth on interactions. Also i started listening to lectures, no particular professor, but they are interesting to me at least on this topic. I also like Jordan Peterson’s lectures and books. I would say just go pick up a book and start reading dude, we gotta get back to that. It helps with conversation, intellect, vocabulary!, etc 💪🏾

[@joeldouglas533]

This some real shit Unc. I've had guys try to play me or embarrass when I'm out with one of my 8+ girls. With me they do it real subtle. Try to make situation awkward for me or boss me around like I'm the "Lil bro". As good looking guy, you gotta get real about body and gym life because that goes into defending yourself. Add that "No nonsense vibe" by not walking around laughing and smiling anymore and watch mfs fall in line. I'm was 170 lb a year ago, I'm 192 as of this morning. As a good looking dude you gotta look like you can break a mfs jaw if you have to. If not you're gonna get tried in the streets.

[@roosrosambert6183]

😂😂😂

[@slim3710]

@@JohnPierre-lz6vb everyday life

[@nafajonit8854]

SUPER FACTS

[@qcfgaminginc5427]

Realest shit💯💯💯💯💯👌

[@denzel9455]

Looking like is not the way you really have to be about it so getting boxing classes or karate is important i'm almost 250LBS and still get tested i know guys taller and heavier thn me who have the same issue. - Being a gym dude is never enough because now they wanna see if you're "big for nothing".

[@tmot6714]

I’m handsome, quiet,confident and don’t follow the crowd. I get all types of “gay,weird,stand-offish” coming from every direction. Most aren’t even consciously aware of this dynamic.

[@isaacsoto2106]

Man I’m getting this at work right now man it’s crazy asf, they assume stuff and it’s not like like that I don’t even play that way or weird and kinda fucking up my mindset but I gotta put that MJ mindset on. I get hella rejected as being a handsome man so I just gave up and if I happen lol to come across a female then I’ll chop it up. And there’s people at work that I’m gay and shit and starting rumors so I’m guessing why I don’t attract women at work but I still have a hard outside of work.also when Rom talking about other man putting other man down especially handsome man I’m experiencing this at work. Hard out here for handsome man so I stick to myself then they call me stuck up weird gay whatever.

[@tmot6714]

@@JohnPierre-lz6vb It use to bother me when I was younger. At this point those types of people don’t even exist to me.

[@tmot6714]

@@isaacsoto2106 Do you work at a blue collar job or white collar?

[@isaacsoto2106]

@@tmot6714 ratchet Amazon

[@tmot6714]

@@isaacsoto2106 Yeah, they have all of the 87 octane hood/working class females. You’ll have better success in a difffeenr environment. (Whole Foods,farmers markets,outskirts)

[@QLACREOful]

Sometimes competitive men use humor to attack you and block your advances on girls. This is some stealth ninja shit

[@LuhCalmSwag]

Had this happen a few days ago. I pulled up to a mansion party hosted by my roommates boss. Walked in and the host was greeting everybody as was his wife. Host is a older guy probably 45, 50. His wife was beautiful & younger probably closer to my age (21) Wife was near me but hadn’t gotten to me yet. I notice the host makes a b-line towards me. We shake hands & he goes what’s your name? My name is Vic. He goes what? I say it again. He goes Oh. I thought you said Dick, wouldn’t it be funny if your name was Dick. Some other corny shit he said I can’t remember. Mind you there’s a good 5,6 people standing in on this interaction and everybody is silent but him who’s seems to think that was the funniest joke in the world. Wife says he didn’t mean anything by it. He got a death stare, turned to his wife and smiled. Notice she was eyeing me more too after the whole interaction was over. Guy lucky my roommate works for him. After that challenge I wanted his wife even more. Still gotta make sure rent get paid tho

[@60NXNP09]

@@LuhCalmSwag My advice to you is if opportunity of her present herself to you knock those ankles loose I've had similar experiences happened to me during my working careers it is "damn if you don't', why to my knowledge I wouldn't have no regrets that I have now and I hate regrets!

[@colinlin4568]

and when they know you see through that, they will be angry and find something else

[@hindsthe16th39]

@@LuhCalmSwag do it for the team

[@saluuud]

​@@LuhCalmSwagno matter how beautiful she is, if you get the oppurtunity dont DONT knock her ankles loose like the other guy said because one day the tides will change and you will marry someone you adore and that may be the time when someone more attractive than you will knock her ankles...and she will enjoy it. Just like you had when you were in your 20s. Be warned.

[@shawnwilliams2381]

Very true. Have had other men try to pick a fight with me. Because the women they liked had a crush on me. And believe me there's men out here that will take your life over a woman. Sad but true. Keep coming with the bangers bruh!💯🔥

[@vaughnamir.6457]

The thing is, we don’t need women to validate ourselves. So it means nothing to fall back if it really comes to that.

[@shawnwilliams2381]

@@vaughnamir.6457 word my brother!

[@shawnwilliams2381]

@@JohnPierre-lz6vb definitely, bro!💯

[@Movieclips_101]

That’s why I’m getting concealed carry 💯

[@jackiechun5817]

Yep, that's why I conceal carry a legal self defense knife and am HIGHLY trained in the art of "neutralize the threat".😏

[@danimal0126]

Crazy nobody talks about this …and when you try to bring this up, other people act like you’re talking nonsense

[@italkshyt14]

This is very true video. A lot of simps out here mad because they can’t get play. A lot of “fighting for her honor” type simps. I’ve always experienced this first hand even till this day.

[@QEatzz]

This is true especially in college man, I know some dudes that would act cool with me but when it was parties and small gatherings in their dorm they wouldn’t want me around if women were there. This video helped me fully understand

[@masterleoify]

Facts

[@101elelky]

Facts when I was in the service I use to get invited to so many house parties but when they seen how most of the girls wanted me or I would leave with something every time they would tell me on the weekends they aren’t doing nothing…. But I would check Snapchat and they all a be partying lmao snake like hell.

[@QEatzz]

@@101elelky exactly bro, atleast you know you hold weight 💯

[@fatpapi17]

I feel you on this

[@ChiefQueef_]

@@101elelky its the ugly girls hating too

[@thenicestguy2748]

Before the pandemic a guy at work used to greet me like evetybody else but as soon as some women started saying that I look good he stopped greeting me and had a disgusted look on his face.

[@MrCharmingPoison]

😂

[@serame1]

😂😂😂"he stopped greeting me and had a disgusting look on his face" laughed my lungs out💀hard to be handsome huh

[@banderas2000]

Yup 💯

[@animalyshorts]

This is why I registered in a boxing gym 🥊 I live in Nigeria and I'm in the university, they're gonna jump you fellas best believe

[@DialloMoore503]

If you’re good looking, there are people that will try to destroy your self esteem. They will try to put you down to boost themselves up. We all have our insecurities, but I never projected my insecurities onto others. I surprised myself a few times as a youngster when I attracted girls that (I felt) were out of my league. Then I got older and realized that my peers were just hating and talking shit. I’ve never cock blocked a man. I don’t go that far with my insecurities, because I don’t like it when people cock block me. Our ego can get bruised if someone is getting more attention than we are. I was always good looking, but I was far from the coolest guy. Many women rejected me for that reason alone. It felt great whenever I met a woman that truly liked me for who I am, because I wasn’t going to change who I was. It’s interesting that you mentioned violence, because your rival may try to f-k your girl just to get at you. That’s the ego thing I was talking about.

[@maravilloso002]

I have never been a Chad/Tyrone like that, but popular girls always gave me attention. I just wasn't on the lifestyle like that, just square. I got so many cock blocking situations from the creepiest dudes at college parties and whatnot and the women were so gullible to believe what they said. NPCs man ppl who can't compete ride in packs and shout the most. Some of us have better gifts than others and the ones who see us as competition usually can only flash a little bit of success and toughness, but are mostly riding on past success and not present.

[@tercial]

Yup I used to hang out with some ex friends and noticed they would give me back handed compliments or throw shade even though I was in better shape and looked better than them I thought we were cool I didn't realize why until I got older.

[@e-jaythesupreme1504]

I understand. I had a coworker who always joked around and said I was "ugly". It was funny at first but when that's the only insult you got and you keep saying it, dude you either suspect or insecure. I did not realize that it could have been jealously until later on.

[@DialloMoore503]

@@e-jaythesupreme1504 Don’t let it get you down, brother. Insults can be compliments. That’s the way I see it. Either way, people should be nice and not mean.

[@e-jaythesupreme1504]

@@DialloMoore503 yes indeed brother! Thank you! Luckily I ain't gotta deal with him no more. Haha

[@TheRealest127]

I had my own “best friend” always try to push up on every girl that I was ever with and always kick my back in to them whenever I wasn’t around. Come to find out years later after I removed myself from his presence he confessed to me that I was the best friend he Ever had in life but he just couldn’t realize it at the time because he always felt jealousy about how good looking I was and everybody always quickly took to me. I knew that’s what it was all along but I needed to him hear say it. But you’re right. Dudes will definitely feel some type of way. But never the REAL Dudes. If you’re cool people the REAL Dudes are gonna rock with you and don’t care about how you look. And the REAL Real dudes are gonna even playfully brag about you around their lady friends. I’ve had those kinds of friends too. And needless to say I still remain friends with those kinds of brothers to this day.

[@robertstevenson3214]

Absolutely. Your friend is supposed to alley-oop you. Not block your fucking shot. Took some time for me to realize that just because a mf is standing next to you, doesn't mean they are on your team. Cause most of this WORLD is playing for your opposition.

[@thebluebook214]

Hundred percent true I've run into this so many times. people automatically think I'm stupid because I'm handsome

[@wardboy23]

They do everything to try to destroy your ego

[@Bryce911]

I was bullied a lot in middle school. All my friends called me ugly every guy in my grade made fun of how short and skinny I was. Then in 8th grade I popped out with the best looking girl in the school. All throughout highschool I was still bullied but I always ended up with sum of the best looking girls especially out of my friend group. But my self esteem was cracked from the negative comments about me. Not just my looks but just about everything about me. And I was so confused if I’m so ugly why am I so successful when it comes to girls. I couldn’t figure out if I’m so ugly why am I being touched and grabbed at parties and being catcalled. Why do girls come up to our friend group only trying to talk to me. Because when I look in the mirror all those negative comments about me are still in my head and that’s all I see. Sometimes I hated looking in the mirror. I remember being depressed and crying by myself becuase I wasn’t “normal looking” and only saw the flaws that people hated me for. My brother is autistic so my parents were always focused on him and never really had time to talk and get to know me. Being 21 now my dad even says he’s really sorry about it. Recently at work this guy (my age) was being real passive Aggressive with me and I couldn’t figure it out. I always said good morning and smiled when I’d see him but he was still fucking with me. I asked my dad what the problem was because at this point it was pissing me off and this was his exact response. He says that because your very good looking a lot of guys are going to be that way with you because they wish they had ur looks and persona. So now I just accept it and I thank God that those negative comments are out of my head and all I see is me. And now tbh I’m shocked at my looks and I’m starting to accept the compliments I’ve received . I’m trying not to sound conceited saying any of this because I try to be as humble if a person as possible so I didn’t want to go into a lot of details. But it feels good to finally say wat I had to say.

[@alexwangechi7175]

Can relate with a lot of what you said. Since I was very young (like just out of kindergarten); I was always really popular with the girls. And I talked to them with real ease too... I never could quite figure why other dudes were so stiff around them... I'd just say hi back at them and shoot the shit. And you can imagine the river of shit I would get from jealous boys. The prettiest girl in class was into me for the longest time... she'd make me kiss her desk and stuff and I could never quite figure out why she made me do these things. Anyways long story short... I let my esteem get cracked toward the end of high school. Then I got into Uni, and I just couldn't believe the attention I was getting from the femmes. Confirmed a lot of stuff for me.

[@dapo09]

Brilliant video. Since the time I turned 18, started lifting weights and getting serious love from women I have always hated hanging out with other men. Men CONSTANTLY feel threatened by you, some are so insecure they overcompensate by acting "hard" against you. Always jealousy and hate and dudes acting funny taking little subtle digs, and talking behind my back. I never had a "crew". I learned over the years to roll solo and have some girl friends for companionship.

[@mizukagematt1186]

Exactly loner gang

[@Menkephere]

Facts I'm a handsome brother, lightskin 6 ft 220 solid, military trained, 43 yrs old and I see the hate from lil 20 and 30 yr olds it's crazy but I'm always ready, shid I can't help it if god made me handsome

[@WrathOfGOD_Ruach7-]

Definitely had to fight a lot growing up. To GOD be The Glory, I learned through every hardship in life and understand about emotional intelligence+diligence+discipline and now I’m a Professional fighter. The aura is much different when you train for War day in/day out, you don’t want to waste your power on small minded individuals unless they cross the set boundaries or trying to harm you & loved ones Psalms 144🙏🏾❤️‍🔥👑 Stay Blessed

[@lesliepeterson6]

Facts bro I compete in Jiu Jitsu and train Muaythai. The aura is different.

[@narutokyuubi99]

Favorite comment so far!!

[@dsetgetatme]

If another man is getting more attention from women than me.... I would give him props instead of hating on him... No need to hate...I still gotta live my life at the end of the day 👌

[@AlexRmex]

i've never lost a 1 on 1 fight. but damn if i tell you i've gotten jumped a few times. the best thing you can do is put up a fight. I'll never understand how a group of men will think they did something courageous by ganging up on one man.

[@NoBody-mt9ky]

Cowards.

[@nandochavez4546]

Same got beat up badly by a group though

[@rawbrenaissance.]

Only a group of cowards would think something like that

[@TheBoon14]

Real bro I fucking hate cowards. Guys only press you when they have 5-6 friends ready to jump in.

[@marlonious7650]

A real friend will hook you up with babes and help you move. If they ain't doing that, they hating on you, using you or both.

[@marlonious7650]

@@JohnPierre-lz6vb Facts

[@cazlonewolf5544]

Yea that's the thing people think its all good with a good looking person, no people will compare themselves to you they will talk down on you try to ruin your reputation and more.

[@CopycatNinja875]

They are doing you a favor by revealing themselves as your enemies. This world we are living in is filled with fakes, hypocrites, and virtue signalers. I just know that I show be cautious and keep my guard up if they talk to me like that.

[@cazlonewolf5544]

@@CopycatNinja875 big facts bro thats why I keep my distance from certain cats they be on some weird timing and I can sense it, being attractive can be hard bro but we got this just don't let nobody touch you and if they do end them 💯

[@cazlonewolf5544]

@@passive_income35 glad you still here my g its not worth it bro people gonna talk because they jealous simple as that we aren't the average looking person we stick out and it makes certain dudes or alot of dudes mad that we look good without trying even if we mind our business its still gonna be someone talking

[@vaughnamir.6457]

@@cazlonewolf5544 bro but they try to destroy your spirit. I see you’re looking swole. I imagine part of that is you know that you may have to hurt someone to get the point across. I’m on the same wave. Ready to fight when I leave the house.

[@cazlonewolf5544]

@@vaughnamir.6457 you are absolutely correct brother, this world isn't kind its got haters evil people etc so I just keep my self ready at all times mentally and physically being built brings the jealousy out of men certain men i should say

[@ufokamakazie1]

I have no competition because I don’t compete with other men for women....I’ve always been cool with choosing from whatever women choose or compete for my time instead....Great commentary for those who do compete and respect to all.

[@ufokamakazie1]

@@larrycoleman9513 Never had to compete....Never will....To be honest, I find it beneath me and women know that those who compete for their validation are substandard compared to the men that women actually compete for.....Some people just won’t allow you to be humble.....Tragic.

[@MrCharmingPoison]

@@ufokamakazie1 💯

[@o_ss3284]

The social circle situation is true. Was involved with a girl from a social circle of a few guys and girls a few years ago. There was a guy in the social circle that had a crush on her and there was a girl in that social circle that had a crush on me. They both told the girl I was with at that time that I was just there for a short term encounter, even though that was not my intention. The girl I was with at that time was insecure and she listened to them. I tried to explain to her that the guy liked her and the girl liked me so they were trying to break us apart for their own selfish reasons, but she didn't believe me so she cut things off. If people see you as good looking then you can only deal with women that are more secure than average. Yes a lot of women will find you attractive but your dating pool might not be as large as people think it is because there will be women who find you attractive who is insecure. The good thing is though the ones that like you will really really like you.

[@bsj555]

Man, I needed to hear this. The dating pool seems Scarce lol

[@apureguapo]

"Yes a lot of women will find you attractive but your dating pool might not be as large as people think it is because there will be women who find you attractive who is insecure." This is so true. The pool gets even smaller when you have standards and self respect.

[@David-ej1ps]

Facts on facts, People are often shocked when I tell them my raw numbers and they aren’t as high, mostly cause I don’t get into it with insecure women, I can’t deal with all that unnecessary strife and stress. A woman needs to be confident of who she is for me to even bother

[@jojobens]

Thats my bigest problem!!!! The hate i get from other man is to much. I'm so scare to go out house because of the hate i get of other man. And ugly insecure woman to, thei hate handsome man (not all). Its not all flowers when your a handsome man. Love your video's Rom!

[@WrightwayFT]

💯

[@Supremedionn]

I hate going out the house to. We can’t live in fear 😪

[@CopycatNinja875]

You have to be ruthless and cunning to a certain degree when it comes to dealing with ppl.

[@vaughnamir.6457]

don't be scared brother. Get in the gym to get your confidence up.

[@jojobens]

@@vaughnamir.6457 I'm on that now. Thx my brotha!! 💯 💯

[@ojalara3937]

No lie. As a guy coming from private school to a rough public school in 8th grade. Being handsome was tough. I grew up sheltered. And reverted to akward behavior. Because I had never been around anything similar before. People would make fun of me and I didn’t have the experience to throw jabs back. It took me until college to understand how to live in my masculinity . But that was easy. I just had to outgrow my childhood. Now I know how to use my genetics.

[@C.R886]

I can relate I got it from boy scouts, cousins etc, was in a singing group too and wasn't even the lead singer but could feel the jealousy from my group members,but I always try to be the nice guy and team player, but all that to make ungrateful people feel good, I was a fool

[@PrincePharrell17]

🥶

[@kingk.2547]

My dad always said in his prime men told him they didn't want him around. He said they got upset their girl threw the cat at him. My dad have fine curly hair he had waves back then. He's tall he also worked out and walked alot.

[@adeona5202]

This is SO TRUE!! I have experienced this as a guy that women checked for. For example at a former job, I was liked by the only two females in the department. One was supposedly a lesbian and was obviously throwing it at me. Also the director of the department (a quietly gay man) would openly compliment my work via group emails. I was a decent worker too. But there were two dudes (bigger than me physically) that hated me. Those guys low key wanted me to click up with them because they thought they were the best workers. It was the weirdest sh*t because you would think this petty stuff only happens with women. Much respect for pointing this out!

[@Justsomeguysomewhere]

Lesbian? where are the lesbians I wonder... lots of gay guys but I never seem to meet lesbian women...

[@adeona5202]

@@Justsomeguysomewhere Listen bro.. I'll put it to you like this.. Every job/situation where I was in close proximity with a Lesbian.. I mean every single time, they eventually started showing interest.. It was just a matter of time; it was like clock work.. Even the "studs".. I understand that female sexuality is way more fluid but I am convinced that women are just women.. No labels needed.. Even the lesbians get jealous if you're giving another chick attention.. I've seen it!!

[@Justsomeguysomewhere]

@@adeona5202 I almost thought I was the only one who noticed this, I think this isn't even discussed in the ''red pill'' community. You are 100% right bro. Even the bald tattoed masculine feminist lesbians... maybe it is because they want seed for their offspring.. I don't know... but no woman is 100% lesbian.

[@joelrobert4053]

@@adeona5202 Facts, there are plenty of lesbians or tomboyish women who will sleep with guys. They keep it very lowkey though

[@Ddunc83]

The "slick"/"backhanded" compliments is just probing by the insecure....just validation that they're not self validated 💪🏾 creative topic UNC Rom 🙏🏽

[@robertstevenson3214]

That was a bar.

[@joseph6243]

I thought when I got on the body game that people would universally treat me better than they did when I was invisible. And I often do get treated better than I did in the past. But I also get more detractors, and I can sense others judging me and sizing me up everywhere I go. Surprisingly a lot of women seem weirdly jealous or insecure around me...

[@joseph6243]

@@Skinner90210 Exactly, you know what I'm talking about.

[@David-ej1ps]

Yup, that’s why I always try and tell guys, body game works up to a point after that it just causes more problems than you expected especially with women. That being said a man should always have a good strong body because it is the vehicle through which the will is exercised.

[@parthpatel1923]

Bro I thought I was the only one ever since I’ve started working on my body women give me more attention the ones that like me but the ones that don’t give me so much shit like it never used to happen in the past and it’s kind of disheartening the stuff the say or the way they act

[@d.castillo9586]

Most women are insecure and jealousy of you especially when they feel u should be chasing them but know your worth

[@TheBoon14]

My conspiracy theories are the following : 1. Obese/ugly women hate you out of spite, they know they could never access you sexually therefore they hold contempt towards you. 2. Pretty women will reject you for an ego boost. They'll brag to their friends etc, but I believe these women will marry poorly so it's whatever.

[@tonycento1084]

Rom you are so right bro ,,,,because a man will get alot of attention from woman , and other guys dont have not even one girl checking for them , there are alot of jealous frustrated jerks out there that will try to pick on you , and you must be ready to defend yourself

[@madebyreuben3402]

This explains a lot of my interactions with men and fitting into male friendship groups

[@mkingISTP]

I talk about this all the time. Jealousy can make a normal person think about killing you. I have many stories about people trying to come at me because some girl they liked liked me. I make sure I know how to fight just in case. The first time I experienced this was in middle school when this pretty girl was on me hard chasing me and this dude who was like a school bully used to get mad and try to mock her when she would flirt with me. After that he’d try to punk me but I always fought back so he eventually gave up. Back to the thing about being handsome and smart to it causes people to try and pretend like you are stupid and/or shallow. Especially the nerds because they feel as though they got have something to say they are better at. But I’ve gotten in a few fights because of dudes mad at me getting attention from women or seeing women compliment me but I know how to handle myself in those situations and I’m not a small dude I’m 6’5. Last one I got into years ago I broke my hand so I make sure I’m not out here just fighting. It only happened because the guy attacked me so I defended myself. It’s really not worth it most times and it rarely happens anyway. Most people bitch out before it ever leads to a real fight. One of my friends who are also considered very attractive no homo but he is like one of those pretty boy type dudes but he got sex appeal too he always knew how to fight too because of this. He beat up 2 dudes at the same time one time who tired to jump him over some girl when we were younger in the 8th grade lol. Anytime I’m out with a baddie I’m always ready just in case. I believe as a man you should know how to fight.

[@DannyBoy426]

That’s exactly why I plan on weight training plus learning bjj and Dutch kickboxing. I 100% agree as a man you should know how to properly and be ready at all times.

[@mkingISTP]

@@JohnPierre-lz6vb right bro. That’s what you call the dark side of human nature

[@mkingISTP]

@@DannyBoy426 right. You’d be surprised at how many dudes can’t even throw a punch or even think clearly enough to be affective in a physical altercation. It puts you at a significant advantage just knowing how to throw a basic punch

[@DannyBoy426]

@@mkingISTP I’m 22 years old, is it too late to start learning bjj and kickboxing? I want to become pretty efficient in both. Also plan on getting my gun license just in case, but I don’t want to be one of those dudes who hides behind his gun when I know there’s other ways to access a situation. That’s why I want to learn mma.

[@mkingISTP]

@@DannyBoy426 not at all. Fighting is a something you can do longer than other sports as long as you don’t take too many hits to the head. Most fighter’s prime is around 30

[@David4321-u6r]

When I was in the military I wasn’t invited to certain things by other guys because they didn’t want the women there to give me all the attention. Some dudes are just weirdos, be cautious of those guys.

[@colinlin4568]

As good looking people we get hate. Ealier in my life I thought I was not being nice enough. Now, I understand and turn that pains to greatness, I started to invest time in me and finding my purpose. Gonna be the person not only look good also got pockets. All love

[@Michael-rm1bx]

What you mean by you thought you weren't nice enough? Please explain it sounds similar to situations i had

[@leosolis5846]

The jealousy is real. Not saying I'm really handsome but I've been called tall dark and handsome. And dudes be hating, & let me tell you,they will get close to you and want to be your friend but hate you deep down. You gotta watch out for those. Now if I encounter people that are too nice and giving right out the gate it's a red flag but I guess it's a good thing to cuz you get free stuff

[@ABxThugg]

Very true! I was made fun of so much as a kid and as a teenager that I believed I was ugly, currently 28yrs old I’m being approached by dimes which is ridiculous in my mind because of my low self esteem that build up over years. I immediately think back to my young years when I’m approached. and I just end up not talking to them. Shits terrible man!

[@matthewbertuleit4045]

Sounds like my story lol

[@emad5594]

Same here man, even my mom would call me ugly (when she was hella mad) and that shit gets to you as a kid. Plus, i was obvious to females signs and shit so i never thought I was anything

[@Justsomeguysomewhere]

I have the exact same experience... used to be chicks would get mad if I looked at them, now they get mad if I don't look.

[@TheBoon14]

@@Justsomeguysomewhere Bro.... so real. in my youth I'd be lynched for looking & now they're appalled if I don't look LOL

[@jeremiahjeremiah1319]

No shit man. Exsct same thing with me. And despite all that toxic shit in your head, it makes you think back to your teenage years and growing up and experienced with women. When I look back I realize, I never had to do much to get with the sexy girls I did, I had no money, no nice car to flash and no wingman. Women wanted to fuck me when out at the bars and clubs older ones especially. And girls that I met had confessed to me that they figured I'd be one of those "assholes" or dicks. As a result of the bullying as a young kid on my looks and different things about me from my own friends it made me turn inside out. I always played football, rugby and have been boxing for about 7 years now, I carry myself a certain way and have a persona about me that intimidates ppl. I had many clashes in the streets and night club fighting ppl and knocking them out. I've got overall close to 50 stitches, 1 knife cut in my arm, knocked out front teeth (repaired now) and beat on one occasion with a pistol. I always had a propensity for violence. That's why I box lol. I love to fight. But what it did was male me feel that I had to he stone cold on the outside to protect myself from ppl that I can no longer smile at people I don't know. I have an emotional and mental block. Further more, it caused me to intimidate women to the point they are terrified to hold eye contact with me unless they have been drinking or re in an intimate setting like a restaurant or bar or club where it's more acceptable to give ppl choosing signals. I'm the same age as you actually 28 now, but it's a fucked up way to live and I out this Armour on and I csnt take it off and i can't abandon my identity that I've built. Still need to be hard to protect myself from being hurt. It's the ones most scared that can turn the most ruthless. But on a sidenote, I am married now but I still feel like an alien in this world amongst regular people who are so unsure of themselves around me and afraid to interact. What a trip man I tell ya

[@wokeuplikedis1500]

I thought I was doing something wrong my entire life but this video really opened my eyes. Other men often make fun of my height (5'9) or say how lightskins are too feminine or gay. I don't hold it against them because if I were in their shoes I'd be jealous too. Doesn't mean I won't defend myself.

[@alexwangechi7175]

From one lightskin dude to another... hit the gym my dude. I got called "gay" and what not by jealous dudes all the way up to last year. An extra 27 lb of muscle and some broad ass shoulders a year later and you can tell that in addition to feeling jealous; they feel hella intimidated too and that latter one keeps their mouth shut

[@HYPNOTiK_]

Shoutout to all the handsome men!

[@9magwaza]

This is so damn true, the amount of stories I could tell you about almost being jumped or guys talkin so much shit behind my back to girls. It's the reason I have close to no male friends, that jealousy shit almost always comes into the equation.

[@Forevermirin94]

Same here, got almost no proper male friends. It's always the same shit over and over.

[@khethelosiyanda6764]

Magwaza mfwethu

[@shadowinthedark8157]

@@Forevermirin94 yeah so true most straight guys will hate you unless they are gay

[@agbordaniels]

This is why as a handsome man you have to be as solid, Waco n strong 💪🏾 as possible. I’ve been hated by other cats even fought n bullied by my step brother n senior student in boarding high school 🏫 but once I got stronger they knew better.

[@skeelo6219]

Hey pretty boys, u not off the hook as yet. Even your girlfriend might try to put u down because she feels inadequate & insecure in your relationship. Criticism, accusations of cheating, accused of not showing enough commitment, etc. will be thrown at u. Poor u, unfortunately u can't exchange your face at all

[@LuhCalmSwag]

Lmaoo bro my ex was exactly this. Insecure af. Always accused of cheating. tried to put me down by saying I would never get a girl badder than her. She was a solid 8 but by far not the baddest chick I’ve ever had😂 face or body wise. She was scared I would leave her. In all reality if she wouldn’t have acted in that way I wouldn’t have left her🤷🏾‍♂️

[@marcuskoolrt]

It’s alright. Just dispose of her and keep the rotation going simple.

[@David-ej1ps]

💯

[@MegaPsycho84]

This is the type of game/street smarts material that I didn’t get from my own dad. I sincerely thank you for constantly dropping these gems and helping out us young brotha’s! Salute to you Uncle ROM.

[@D.ocument.The.Journey]

I’m glad I came across this channel lol I would always wonder why I’d get mean looks from dudes for no reason, especially when their with their gf or wife. Have dudes constantly staring at me wit the stank face😂 ppl be really insecure and envious out here.

[@D.ocument.The.Journey]

@@JohnPierre-lz6vb I try and stay out the way bro but I don’t like that staring by dudes 😂 but I’m learning as I get older

[@walidmeziane8134]

i started doing boxing intensely to channel all the external bad energy that gets sent my way over merely how one looks

[@andredrummondii1378]

Ya’ll saying some real shit in these comments, I couldn’t agree more

[@Its_just_zell]

This resonated heavy wit me OG. I live in a open carry state(South Carolina) and you right. Either get ya hands right or have that hammer cocked and ready. It's crazy nowadays fr

[@wardboy23]

Definitely resonated

[@taymangaming]

Both

[@andrewnadje7176]

One of my close friends who has a lot of female friends didn’t want me at his birthday party because he was afraid I will take his crush.he literally told me that

[@busyrand]

@@larrycoleman9513 You make some good points... I heard a podcast from a woman who'd lost a lot of weight with a surgery and she was able to transition to the hot young blond look while still in her young twenties. She said a lightbulb went off one time she was a couple dollars short at a gas station convenience store and the cashier let her slide. She said she tried it again multiple times to find out that she'd be able to be excused for not having change and anything less than a couple bucks. I've seen this with my attractive female friends.

[@busyrand]

Yeah... Sometimes you can end up attracting women by accident in those scenarios too. I've done this way too many times by mistake by sparking conversation, having charm, or sharp humor a particular day. My favorite college teammate and roommate had a girl who was his Mona Lisa that I had to avoid because I inadvertently turned her on, but I didn't want to break his heart.

[@redmondisaiah16]

I used to have the same problem with old friends. They would always try and embarrass me in front of females but it always back fired on them because most times the women would come and tell me all the bad things my old friends would say behind my back. Now I know why certain dudes just can't stand me when the ladies come around.

[@Bmac2324]

Man, I found this out in high school. I use to try to be everyone friend I just never liked conflict. I asked a guy to toss a plate in the trash can ( cause he was literally blocking it) he went tf off said I think I’m better than everyone and I need to stop talking to all the girls. And literally wanted to fight me. You have to always stay ready…

[@d.castillo9586]

Should've hit em right in his mouth 👊

[@mrsmiley707]

I started watching red pill channels in the august of 2020, I was just 19. They were all eye opening, but none of them were as eye opening as your channel Rom. Keep up the good work.

[@vaughnamir.6457]

Rom, your handsome man series is hitting every note. Even though I already know these things, it’s therapeutic to hear the ideas fleshed out.

[@preo_pushin_p.2323]

Handsome men(select or non-select) catch the most hell, and can cause one to say "F××× it, if you hate I'll get your woman" pick her up and break her back. Handsome men as Rom said "learn how to fight".

[@aroundthewaytrucker2760]

This explains it all; I can be sitting in my car in traffic bothering no one and guys be looking at me with a confrontational look. I never understood that, now I do.

[@ahappyguy7695]

Dudes are always mate guarding. I’m 47 and in great shape. These young girls be out here catching feelings in front of their man. Dudes pick up on this shot quick. They can see their girl acting different. It’s crazy to watch. I don’t want these dudes women although if I wanted to take them it would be easy work. These girls will have these suckers go and get something for them and will open up to you as soon as he leaves.

[@andrecrapps7914]

ALL FACTS! I HAD TO FIGHT BECAUSE OF THAT JEALOUSY THING AND GUYS PICKING ON ME FOR NO REASON....COME TO FIND OUT IT WAS ALL OVER THE GIRLS LIKING ME. EVEN IF YOU DON'T PURSUE THEM SOME GUYS WILL THINK YOU ARE....I DON'T REGRET IT AT ALL...BECAUSE IT REVEALED SOMETHING TO ME ABOUT MYSELF. I LEARNED THAT I HAVE HEART AND BOLD. CHALLENGES WILL DEFINITELY COME JUST BE READY TO FACE THEM. ONLY THE STRONG SURVIVE.

[@kingkemet333]

yup facts ! other dudes constantly throw me under tha bus infront of females even picked fights with me in high school in reality i'm ah chill humble person that jus mind my business

[@onemotimepalmbeach3719]

Never understood jealousy till I got older by men and women lost out on some woman it’s a blessing and a kirs

[@theanomaly8796]

And this is why I grew up fighting through my early teenage years. Constantly got challenged but never understood why until recently. Baptism under fire is a cruel teacher.

[@TheOneJPtv]

Same. I went to school daily prepared to fight, whether it was a Bully or a lame tryna fight ME over MY Broad. I stayed in detention for scrappin . Memories😁

[@blackgator7549]

Same here Man.

[@dubb9207]

That’s why I always got my guard up when it comes to this, especially with other guys because they have always tried me since I could remember. I have a low tolerance for that now, gotta respect me.

[@TheGr8-1]

This is how I learned how to fight. And actually had a lil rep in middle school which carries into the rest of your school career. Now it wasn’t until I was older that I would be called ‘pretty boy’ or ‘hey light skin’ you’ll be tested even by women because they wanna see if you’re soft. When you’re younger you don’t realize the subtle things. But when ppl got to know me specifically women, it was always ‘I thought you’d be stuck up’ with men it was not a vocal thing but they’d let slip that they knew I wasn’t no pu$$y and so there was always a level of respect given. I’m not light heavyweight champ. But I can handle myself and win lose or draw the other(s) will not be feeling 100% themselves.

[@versatylepoetry]

Yep, i grew up in Philly, I had no choice but to fight, pretty boys in the concrete jungle; they think its sweet

[@blackgator7549]

Especially with the dark skin Black Males. A lot of them have this disdain for lite skin Black Males. I put sumt on they're asses though. Respect.

[@juniorlee7084]

If the skin is light he must fight 🤣

[@jackiechun5817]

I used to fold dudes up from elementary to high school to my early 20's. I still train, but use ALL SELF RESTRAINT THESE DAYS bc if they run up or even reach wrong...I'ma "do em something" ain't gonna be no fight, it's game over.🤷🏿‍♂️

[@andrewmelton2686]

I get a lot of stares from other guys, just holding their gaze is enough to start a confrontation. I dont even look at anyone when I'm out now just ignore 😂

[@NateTheNoble]

I’ve experienced jealous treatment from other men. It’s worse when it comes in the form of friendship and a smile. I’ve had dudes who I thought were cool try to threaten me when I least expected it…..they failed….several times. One of them tried to embarrass me in front of two women….I still ended up fucking em both…AND another woman he was thirsty over. I confronted them twice when I caught them alone and they wanted no smoke. They smile in my face when alone but in a group they act shady. You know the rest. You definitely spoke the truth in this video. God must not want me to go to jail because I haven’t seen the main one who was doing snake shit behind my back in years. I have a cinder block with his name on it. But I blame myself for actually trying to be a good friend

[@jackiechun5817]

You can't have friends UNLESS they too are in the top 20% club lookswise or they WILL hate on you.

[@LimitBreakerJ]

You know Rom, you are right, this is James by the way from your Patreon this is just my fitness page. I had to deal with people who wanna fight me just cause I worked out with their women in the area of me putting in the work by myself or with a crew. Or when I'm in a business or collegiate setting. Men want to start with me with slander. And I'm only 5ft 8 just a stocky dude and I'm not ugly. But these guys are 6ft+ and I just sit there like man it isn't my fault that your woman is looking my way. Life is always competition as you mentioned many times before. And honestly, it isn't so sweet at times as people think. I say learn how to fight and have street smarts cause that's the best way to go about life in my opinion.

[@dionysvs2882]

Rom you are spitting some real shit on this one. The older dudes at my retail job( the cool ones) was always telling me how lucky I was to be young and handsome. I had to tell handsome don’t pay my bills and many times it created conflicts. As a handsome man with a beautiful woman you always gotta be on it. Dudes out here will go as far as trying to take your life just to get you out the picture 💯. Stay safe y’all …

[@RomWills]

Real talk.

[@Movieclips_101]

That’s I’m getting concealed carry 💯

[@beDirect2034]

I always say “I’m not that damn handsome”. Lots of times I say I look goofy as hell. But I have went thru everything you have spoke about.

[@jalexworld4138]

I realized that young a few my friends friends never meet me before and would tell him behind my back they dont like me at all It use to confuse me because I have always been that chill cool guy

[@juliusmurrayiv3304]

Story of my life I am a male model, and it is vicious out here for me.

[@ngu400]

I'm only 5'6 and sometimes I'd catch so-called straight men staring my way with a look of jealously and overhearing them call me gay. The irony, straight men don't check out other men.

[@marcuskoolrt]

I catch this a lot…. You turn to some guy randomly looking at you then they casually just slightly look away, sometimes they head bop thing that says what’s up like I see you. A lot of the times I catch dudes looking tho is when they’re with or around girls…. Idk. The shit is weird.

[@ngu400]

@@JohnPierre-lz6vb Yeah sometimes it's a group of like 5 guys staring and usually white or black. The racist looking ones have a look of envy on their face. I can notice the lingering stare in my peripheral vision and out of nowhere "oh he's gay".

[@60NXNP09]

Fact!!!

[@bandman600]

Yo stg 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 like bra can I help You , I can see it in the corner of my eye , like bro yo girl right next to you 😂

[@ChiefQueef_]

Real people could complement each other in a genuine way. Instead of tearing each other down just boost each other up.

[@SeanDiego]

Unc setting the table for us. Pretty much since middle school dudes have hated on me about my dealings with women. Learn to appreciate your haters and worry when they aren’t around

[@90matthews90]

I needed to hear this years ago. Better late than never.

[@busyrand]

As a handsome nerd I empathize with guys who aren't gifted with looks. It's difficult for them to have action with a woman and the prospect of losing that option to pair up is devastating to them because their opportunities are so rare.

[@WNFpker]

Being a handsome nerd is like being super man. Very few men can compete

[@YO_KB]

So appreciate this topic, Rom! I've seen a bunch of other vids you've done on this, but talking about the bullying when you're young and the back stabbing when your older in the workplace is important to discuss. Even other men in the family can be very undermining. One thing I'm not sure you've touched on is that some women will avoid handsome men if they can see jealously from the men in their social circle. They want to belong to the group more than anything and will avoid a handsome man at all costs if they feel they are being watched.

[@sebjacobo9655]

Man I love these "handsome men..." videos. Also nobody covers this on youtube

[@dewayneperry8395]

I definitely have this problem. Shy growing up it was conceived as conceit from women and guys would acknowledge me as a Alpha in my face but bash me behind my back just to get an edge.Sad part is I was last to discover my being handsome even though I've been told.

[@MrNapalm313]

Always, which is why I always look every man in his eyes regardless of the situation.

[@stanj-p9507]

Kids were ruthless to a youngin in middle school unc🤣. And in high school it was dirty looks and this heavy “competitive” energy from other other men I had never even spoken to. Ofc I had friends and got along with a lot of people but there were definitely those few who made it clear through their demeanor that they had no interest in even shaking hands with me

[@rellconnects4695]

Back in my 1st 3 yrs of high it was my lack of assertiveness I had to build on, 11th through 12th I improved with experiences good and bad but I earned 💯

[@matthewtorres6354]

Recently went out w a different group of people. Me and one of the dudes hit it off when we talked one on one, but once I started making the women laugh. He got very cold towards me. Thought I said something to offend him, but now I don’t think so.

[@Gigaover]

When my bodyfat is low and the cheekbones start to pop out I notice dudes bigger and taller than me give me dirty looks and attempt to intimidate me. Sometimes I feel like I need a weapon lol.

[@luisriba8082]

There is a always sharks praying on other sharks. If you go alone on some place always carry something with you. Always order a beer bottle to use it as a weapon and pick a table where you can sit your back on the wall facing the crowd so you can maintain visual. If you can hang out with a group of people with the same mindset as you and know how to fight and shoot guns believe me you'll become unstoppable. Always do your thing watch your back at all times specially in a close crowded environment. If a girl likes you take her to a different table or different bar, if her girls are down take them with you but leave the place without trace.

[@Forevermirin94]

Good advice! When I go out to a bar or club I always have a wall behind me so nobody can try and jump me from behind. Lots of jealous insecure beta males out there.

[@EpikYuth]

Aye Unk got Cuthroat at the end grab one of them hit with a brick but this deep tho I just found out why I’ve been let go from jobs because of my height and handsomeness attractive men need their own business ‼️‼️‼️‼️

[@blackgator7549]

Facts.

[@vaughnamir.6457]

got to bro. either that or subject yourself to people's jealousy. Lmao.

[@sonicrok1]

100% guys will try to start fights because of their own insecurities.

[@ahneimnaudia]

Same thing with being an attractive female, some females will try to start shit out of envy/insecurities! That’s why Attractive women/handsome have to learn how to fight!

[@versatylepoetry]

Wow this Handsome man series is on point... never heard anyone articulate what this demographic goes through ao accurately... most have no idea of the "unique" challenges and things we have to look out for

[@o_ss3284]

@@JohnPierre-lz6vb you can look like you are showing off just by existing and minding your own business

[@rawbroccoli5547]

As a handsome guy there was an rumor at work that I was a closet homosexual

[@bigdawgsoverhere]

This is the most popular one of them all …he is gay rumor

[@Forevermirin94]

Some insecure beta male at work was constantly trying to imply that I'm gay. Idiot even has a gf, but still focuses on other males 🤣🤣

[@Mikejoness87]

Yeah 😂😂😂😂😂but the women still come after you.

[@Mikejoness87]

​@@bigdawgsoverheretrue but the women will still pursue you regardless.take that as a compliment