Your today's message encouraged me so much. I'm just going to an English conversation circle for the first time tomorrow. The English level in the circle seems high, so I am a little nervous, but I try to take a step forward! Thank you so much!
この動画で自分のメンタルにこそ原因があったことに気づきました。 自分自身が他人をいちいち評価しないで、自分が周りの人の為に何が出来るか、にフォーカスすべきだったんですね。 I rearized that there is problem in my mentality. We shoud focus on what should we do to show our opinion. We should't evaluate our neighbors.
I’m happy when I talk in English😊 Even if I mistake something, I’m so happy😁 Because I have realized to try new challenge it❣️ I think I don’t need to speak well, but I need to be respected by people☝️So I think I need to get some special results🤩 It is very important that I seem to be special.
Thank you for sharing your view based on your experience which is always be our back. It is a true example of peer pressure which most Japanese people feel. Also I realized that speaking is a kind of message or gift to other people. So we should ask ourselves whether our speaking is worth delivering. I mean we should be creative and be ourselves.
Caused by wheather the Japanese temperances of specialist or Japanese education or the others, many Japanese get too nervous for checking those mistakes. In ,so called, business English, it would be effective way, but isn't a fitting, significant method (a work ethic) of English conversation so much, even not at all. Learning English conversation needs know-how of "conversation", which means how English mother-tongue speaker reacts in the specific context, and how they use the simple word abondently surrounded us in the context. So second language learners better know especially these two things at first, For inputting. In outputting, we can make and modify the errors at the actual scenes. Anyhow, don't forget to fully know the situation where the conversation happens, I think. Thank you for reading above, in advance.