Happiness is not the goal of life

[@NotFourResale]

pretty deep for a 13 year old

[@theactualplanet6633]

BRO THIS DUDE IS GOING EVERYTHING RIGHT, HIS SETUP IS FIRE, HIS EDITING IS ALSO FIRE, AND THE CONTENT IS FIRE! WHY THE CRAP ISNT THIS GETTING MORE VIEWS!!!!!!!!!

[@BigA_bro]

His titles/thumbnail packaging aren’t creating a curiosity gap and are kind of hard to understand at first look. His video ideas aren’t interesting to a mass audience which prevents it from going viral. The youtube algorithm is struggling to understand what audience to push his content out to because he makes his videos in multiple different subjects/categories.

[@BigA_bro]

basically he’s missing lots of the basics but i agree that everything else is actually extremely good

[@thereal_mattng]

Love your content bro. I resonate so much as a fellow deep thinker. It’s a gift and a curse. Early on it was more like a curse because we lost our innocence quicker than others. While kids were having fun, we were more matured for our age and as a result often sad and depressed. Like who do we relate to? Not the kids around us for sure. Most likely writers like Jung, Nietzsche, Dostoevsky. As adults now and men on our own path, I’m starting to see it more of a blessing. The time alone and introspection gave rise to a sense of self reliance. Maybe I’m not crazy and the world is just dull.. Not being fooled by the world as easily as others. Captivated by the world we want to build type of deal. Anyhow LOVE YOUR SHIT!!

[@matus_revak]

this comment is so relatable bruh

[@Tyler_Schaer]

As a 14-year-old going through school right now, this absolutely hits home.

[@aaroncoret]

Angelo. This is the message I needed today. I’m going through an existential crisis. Teetering on the verge of falling into darkness and depression. Struggling to figure it how to justify my own existence, in the face of mortality and the question of the meaning or meaninglessness of existence itself. I feel like I have so much potential before me, but can’t figure out the direction to go, and what’s the purpose of doing it if nothing means anything in the end. Where do I derive my sense of meaning in a meaningless world? Torn between my instinct to seek validation through social acceptance and praise, and the feeling of a deep emptiness in the pursuit of doing so, manifesting a voice that tells me to seek a sense of meaning from myself and myself alone. What in the end really matters? And how do you really know before you've even had to face your own mortality in the face of the threat of the extinction of your own conscious experience? What is going to make you happy? The question to which I have no answer… For now I feel like had no answer. This is the answer I have been seeking. And today needed more than ever. Whenever I have these moments, my mind tells me to just go and watch 1 of your videos. And so far, without fail, I find one that has exactly what I’m looking for. Today this was the video. Thank you

[@Rusty28724]

I'm 13 at the moment and everytime I experience a strong emotion like sadness or anger I end up writing a book. This video was so fucking relatable for more than just that though.

[@PeterMichaelDarby]

Best video yet mate, really gave me a glimpse into a new perspective, one I want to capture for myself

[@AngeloSomers]

@@PeterMichaelDarby thank you bro 🫡🤝

[@alpha-wear]

How can you not have like 5M subcribers? Your Content is so fucking inspiring

[@zeroinfinity8174]

I was in a new continent and new high school. I was introduced to a bunch of ppl and be friends and join the group, but i just cant relate to anyone, i didnt know what i was doing at all, whether in school or outside in life, i was merely placed there, so i left them. I was all alone. Not long after everyone in the same year knows this. There have been numerous group of ppl asking and wonder why im all alone where everyone else is in a group, my answer is always 'i dont know', i can see some want me to join but NON OF THEM R BEING HONEST, its always tricks every turn to toy with me. I always laugh whenever those ppl laugh at sth, but rlly i dont know what im doing. Every break and lunchtime i would sit and watch those groups being happy, mark around like any other ppl where im just sitting there watching. i asked myself how much longer will this situation continue.Then suddenly one of the ppl i met when i entered this school went to find me and asked 'u can join us if u want to', i didnt have hope that this will work, but i tried anyways. I still cant relate to any1 but we were good for a while, at least i felt my existence in this school again. Just as i started to felt NORMAL and part of sth again, the pandamic striked. After the 1st lockdown we meet again at school, but this time i felt like a side character: there my friends are happy and doing stupid things and im standing next to them. Now its even more lonely then ever. It got worse after a few more lockdowns, some of them even start ghosting me. But whenever i was congraduated of sth they were always the first to clap for me. i dont understand what happened. This situation continued all the way to the end of high school. Did i mattered to them at all? Cuz they mattered a lot to me. After school i was in my lowest, going nowhere doing nothing, alone. Then i landed a job. I met ppl from work whom are very different from school, its new experience that i didnt like or hate, but working hard became a way to forget the past. More ppl of my age joined work and i made friends. I finally got closer to the HAPPINESS i longed for. But whenever i see them going out with their friend group (they knew each other since high school) after work, where Im just standing up far, i immediately felt the difference between me and them. After work its nothing, alone again. Was the happiness fake? The time i had with them? Everytime i see any high school groups it would remind me my high school life. The emptiness is always there. I cant help but look and walk away. I hate that im addicted to meeting and making friends to escape loneliness and BE HAPPY. Its not normal, normal ppl dont need to be happy they're just happy. I dont know what happiness is anymore. I just want to be like everyone else, but im not and never will be.

[@zeroinfinity8174]

Whenever i meet and talk to ppl, i would never stop cracking jokes becuase i knew they would laugh and i knew i would be happy if they're happy, thats the only reason i do it.

[@narekkarapetyan7453]

I've been following you for the past couple of months. Almost every video I watch from you has some very valuable insights in it for my life. You have great potential and a great future ahead of you. God bless you, and thank you for your work.

[@JJG369]

Isn’t usefulness making ur life satisfaction dependent on other people and what they deem as useful? I love ur ideas but this one contradicts what i myself discovered. I believe the base of ur behaviour should be informed solely by ur needs (identifying them first is a big part) and then adding ”compromises” meaning that matterness Ure talking about. So basically a calculation between what extras we would like and whether They are worth the effort put in all things considered. What do yall think?

[@OmPrakash-mu9bo]

Looking forward to next vid😊

[@AngeloSomers]

@@OmPrakash-mu9bo it’s a bit late, had to take a step back and change things up a bit :)

[@fabianinderwildi1757]

psyched for the deepdive on matterness for sure

[@cameronplunkett4304]

Just so good man, honestly

[@ChrisSpiegl]

Great content. Listening, I instantly thought of the book “Man's Search for Meaning” by Viktor Frankl and the ending of the Logotherapy he built to find meaning in life even when there is apparently no more reason to continue. Matterness is a great word to strive for in that regard.

[@PantsFN]

My new favorite KZbinr😁😁

[@MatúšMandzák]

crazy content bro

[@BrisaRuiva]

So cool you wrote a full book at 13yo and so deep. At that age I was only busy with studying and spent the whole day at school 😅. Didn’t do anything useful at 13yo that I can remember.

[@TheoSomers]

Ooft great vid, backdrop looking sauce too

[@5IRHK-oe9yj]

Love it

[@bigboicloud]

Amazing content

[@KaavyaV-m9f]

Buddy did my entire essay for me about emotions and what not 🥶

[@Justiceroote]

2 minutes in and it's already better than 78% of the shit of my feed. How are you coming up with quality ideas for every video!? (Asking for a friend...)

[@StormBRNGER]

By the end of it hopefully you have your answer, I think. What matters to you? And explore it. Makes sense?

[@marcus_74]

poor you

[@TmgMedia975]

awesome

[@thinkinglim.]

I wonder if in a few years you will make a video dissecting this video in the way you have dissected this book.

[@charlheynike9619]

Isn't matterness just another attempt at happiness?

[@dalejohnson9144]

amazing brooo. soo true. just saying you would get so big if you did this stuff on TikTok

[@bengtaylor]

Mf was writing novels at 13 💀 That's fucking awesome bro. Great video - can't wait for the next one. Cool how everything seems to tie into the agent/arena thing

[@therobrine1234]

according to me, objectively speaking(yes ik how stupid that sounds just because of how subjective most if not all the questions revolving about happiness or emotion are but hear me out) sadness and happiness are not supposed to be goals but they are tools developed by evolution in order to teach you weather or not something is good or bad, therefore when you do something good(according to your brain) you get rewarded by feeling happy at the same time if you do something that is bad(also according to your mind) then you sorta get punished by feeling like shit or in other words u feel sad, what im trying to say is that happiness and sadness is our body's biologically programmed method of teaching you through a form of mixed positive and negative reinforcement.

[@igor_ostrovski]

You forget that our minds cannot be trusted because in the modern world it goes towards all the instant gratification. Trust your soul and conscience brother. Not some easely duped feelings

[@francisbaranski]

are you happy? = do you matter?

[@fabianinderwildi1757]

this is relatable lol

[@slimysoap966]

bro changed the thumbnail too many times

[@AngeloSomers]

Hahahah yeah I think they put me in KZbin jail for it

[@Adam_Millns]

I think what you're saying is really good but maybe you could really simplify what you're saying so it's super clear.

[@BrisaRuiva]

I think it’s super clear. If you want to be happy = be useful. Really easy. If you watched the full video u would have understood it.

[@becsechannel5360]

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