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[@anishaanu7864]

I am a christian and i have a wish to become a muslim, may allah guide me ,in right way nd i have trust that i will become a muslim one day 😊😊😊😊😊😊😊

[@_semih_]

Anisha Ani Allah bless/guide you. We Muslims, love and respect prophet Jesus(Isa) (peace be upon him) *And We sent, following in their footsteps, Jesus, the son of Mary, confirming that which came before him in the Torah; and We gave him the Gospel, in which was guidance and light and confirming that which preceded it of the Torah as guidance and instruction for the righteous. Quran **5:46* *But when Jesus felt [persistence in] disbelief from them, he said, "Who are my supporters for [the cause of] Allah ?" The disciples said," We are supporters for Allah . We have believed in Allah and testify that we are Muslims [submitting to Him]. Quran **3:52* *They have certainly disbelieved who say, " Allah is the Messiah, the son of Mary" while the Messiah has said, "O Children of Israel, worship Allah, my Lord and your Lord." Indeed, he who associates others with Allah - Allah has forbidden him Paradise, and his refuge is the Fire. And there are not for the wrongdoers any helpers. Quran 5:72* *The Messiah, son of Mary, was not but a messenger; [other] messengers have passed on before him. And his mother was a supporter of truth. They both used to eat food. Look how We make clear to them the signs; then look how they are deluded. Quran 5:75*

[@thesonicmodderreal4195]

Wait I know you want to be Muslim like me but uh.... what’s the point in changing lol

[@anishaanu7864]

TheSonicModder Real its my wish...u mean it's lol but its my happiness..

[@anishaanu7864]

Semih Sargın tnq😃😃😃

[@saturdaybandofficial6292]

I think you have to find someone who can teach you how to be a Muslim

[@Zahid_deeds]

Haram relationship takes you away from Allah. It feels bad inside.

[@ummii586]

So true 🙄 it just won't feel right

[@UmmSafiya-zn1nq]

That's true👍 Most women expect more respect, but they present themselves cheaply, have no feeling of shame... the devil talks everything nice to you and in the end he lets you down. Trust in Allah and be patient

[@maahi9643]

It's so true. It happened with me Alhamdulillah now I m in peace

[@miko7271]

I am grateful for Allah for protecting me from cheap boys and instead leaving me in the safe place ☺️ because i want to be safe from zina and almadilliah i am safe now 🥰

[@miko7271]

That's why i have high standards i don't want play boys i want real men when I get married in my adulthood

[@turkiyeyoruk9284]

This is why I avoid Instagram, facebook and snapchat, I am a girl of 18 years old and it is really important to love Allah first, than your parents. May Allah protect my parents… I am now studying medical to be a doctor Inshae allah.. Woman in general should protect themselves! I loved someone in the past, but due to social media he talked with other girls... So love some one who is encourages you to pray, to make time for Allah.. and do not love someone who loves your body etc etc. Yarabim sen buyuksun sen bizi kotuluklerden uzak tut, sen birsin Allahim sen buyuksun

[@chirukahime2328]

MashaAllah 😍

[@tensazangetsu5140]

Amin

[@neverlosehope.8690]

Mashallah abla be proud off yourself. May Allah grant you a good man. And good luck with everything.

[@MImran-bw2qw]

Mashaallah may god grant you a good man insyallah

[@celineswift7296]

haklısın

[@abujafar7882]

Im a catholic in my papers but a muslim in my heart

[@muffinmonster2634]

Abu Jafar aw ok

[@muhammadshuvo4321]

If you believed in kalima la illaha illalahu mohamadur rasululah. Allah is one and prophet Muhammed is the messenger of Allah. And say it you will be Muslim.

[@md.shefaurrahmanshakil5679]

mashaAllah. Allah bless you brother. May he guide you to the right path.

[@jazen9054]

May Allah guid you to the truth inchaalah ❤

[@abdulfatahsalaudeen898]

try to be a Muslim in the papers too

[@justamiss3955]

parents should also understand their children 😔 they shouldn't give their daughters to someone they don't feel like to marry them..

[@yoxerspoke5058]

ya they should ask people about him ... then

[@MrIzura]

Stand up for yourself. Voice out or run away from your house and live with me. One day, i will build an institute / shelter for women who are forced to marry someone they dont one thus disregard by their parents. ⛄️

[@sunset2.00]

Friend dont go after girls/boys.if u truly want to merry go after their father 100 times.Inshallah Allah will grant ur wish.

[@reskyjamil5428]

anonymous person your parents want the best for you... so shut up and follow them... you are nothing without them.... you can't be who you are without them....

[@justamiss3955]

Resky Jamil how rude.. I'm not even talking bout my parents u fool..I love my parents and they won't be forcing me ever for marrige and stuffs.. It's just my friends parents they are forcing her to marry someone she doesn't want to marry.. and that man is not even from a good family.. some parents could be wrong at these things.. not all are same..

[@habeebies]

Opened my mind “You will never know the true character of this person until you meet them in their home” 1:52

[@Ihavemadeit999]

Same same same

[@lisaross4782]

In my case he was absolutely perfect at his house but when he went to his hostel during his education is were i actually got to know his true color the saddest part was i was already married to him n i got to know that he slept with his colleague 12 day prior to marriage 😔 I just couldn't come out of it

[@hl7806]

@@lisaross4782 same happened to me but searching for hookup when he come to my country for our marriage around, 5 days before our marriage,and all through the marriage is sleeping around with anything available subhannal,but no regrets at all because this is qadr of Allah

[@rehemasaadan3450]

Indeed

[@monalizalachica6844]

Assalamu allaikom,alhamdulillah,im a Christian before but I'm already convert in Islam,

[@hafidhahafidha6033]

Monaliza Lachica Hello sister did you convert or not yet ?

[@mohamedelmi1065]

Mashallah

[@raudamushroom6343]

Hafidha CHOUAL she did she said she was a Cristian but she’s Muslim now

[@riyadchaoui9486]

Monaliza Lachica allah akbar machallah

[@yasmeenrukhsana574]

Masha allah

[@aishamwende684]

am a convert and scared to get married,someone might mistreat me or take advantage of me....make dua for me

[@hafizminaam8902]

Do not think that sis, take good hope on Allah almighty. Because He said what u do will u get so if u didn't took any disadvantage of anyone no one even all the world want to take yoyr disadvantage they will nevwr get bcoz Allah will be there for u......

[@hafizminaam8902]

I m young and at the age of marriage, in this environment every second girl has zina with anyone. I m not afraid for my spouse bcoz i didn't do that with anyone inshallah i will never get that..... ❤️❤️😇👍

[@hamzamalik221]

Allah bless you

[@hamzamalik221]

Always Keep Hope in Allah

[@smm6756]

Oh yeah. Unfortunately, this fear is common to any girl but converts have lesser ways to investigate in the matter more thoroughly. I pray you may find a righteous husband, ameen. :)

[@SuggarRushh]

Every haram relationship I was in. I regretted it. Bcs the person looked good from outside but wasn't a good person. May Allah help me. And please pray for me to find my janat

[@Treasure-bl3cn]

if you want a good wife, become first a good men

[@marouan9668]

The name of Allah should be written with a capital letter

[@tulip135]

By haram relationship do you mean you’ve had sexual intercourse together?

[@tulip135]

The Moon no yeah I know, I meant is a haram relationship where you sex before marriage?

[@blackbunny9318]

I give u my dua

[@meghnadasgupta107sybammc6]

I am not a Muslim but I respect every religion n feel that there is only one God!!! I feel lucky to have come across this channel...I really respect Allah and his teachings...😊😊😊

[@razi4711]

meghna das gupta wow meghna thanks impressed

[@youtubelover2083]

I appreciate your words.😍

[@Marrrrrrr1]

Beautiful May Allah guide you

[@razi4711]

Maria Bbleu jazakallah

[@loulishadow1468]

meghna das gupta jazak Allah khair

[@kusinaexplorertv4592]

I’m converted few months ago and I’m better one now ❤️. Alhamdulilah

[@suhaaahmed9971]

Alhamduilah may Allah guide u all the way.💙💚

[@lutfulhaque3677]

Can I know where are you from

[@kusinaexplorertv4592]

@@lutfulhaque3677 I’m from the Philippines

[@shamillahug2398]

@Endai Explorer Tv that’s Good decision bcz l have seen most of Philippine girls are lazibilians ....

[@TheRedTech98]

Whoever is interested, the speaker is called Bilal Assad. He was my teacher in high school, one of the best people i've met

[@guenevereroset.silverio4044]

TheRedTech98 thanks for sharing

[@ifrahluul4110]

Was trying to recall his name bt I couldn't ,,Thanks

[@aamirbangash985]

You're so lucky to have a teacher like Bilal Asaad!

[@chousion6890]

Really he was your teacher in high school

[@Treasure-bl3cn]

MaShaaAllah. How can I become his student?

[@charbelm6298]

Im a christian but I LOVE islam❤❤❤

[@unoriginalusername3986]

Thx

[@rahma_8171]

Thanks

[@ismaildj4584]

We love you too!! 😊♥️

[@Samuel-nr3hx]

May Allah guide you

[@SuperEROQ]

You are what is described in scripture as a false Christian

[@noturmauwr1864]

I'm proud of my religion. May Allah Swt. Bless you

[@dulkiflykifly3133]

Maura Aisha101 insha Allah

[@lycel4227]

I'm a Filipino Christian and I want to become a Muslim♥️♥️ May God Almighty guide me❤️

[@spartacus208]

Sister go to the nearest mosque to you and talk to them

[@moazzamaahmed3]

Ameen.

[@husaynberrouche5866]

I'm Muslim and philipino

[@fanzxreaction8346]

May Allah guide you brother AMeen

[@lutfulhaque3677]

Have you converted to Islam now?

[@pulltheskymusicgroup4475]

I'm christian ,but every time I watch ur videos,, I smile a lot...thank you man

[@majimohr]

May Allah guide you and all of us to the righteous path, Ameen!

[@xChaiima]

Oowh i’m happy to hear that 😄🙌🏻

[@lutfulhaque3677]

Dear, where are you from

[@sihamsisi7230]

May Allah bless you and guide you

[@robbycarr1905]

Not muslim, but this channel is one of my favorites highly informative and the production quality is high. Allah baraka feek

[@alltimetop10s72]

Since you love the teachings of our prophet, why not just convert??? If u want to act like a muslim, Might as well be one right? May allah guide u my brother

[@LoyalQueenSoul]

waiyyak bro, may God protect and guide you to the truth

[@afzalgan3068]

learn quran.

[@afzalgan3068]

learn quran.

[@Ibosaif]

why wasting time then

[@ibrahimnurudeen8197]

guys, don't let yourself fall in to the trap of satan

[@justateen7105]

marriage?

[@dusscode]

سليمان السهميI’m a teenager too. It’s a lot more sensible and more complex than that.

[@raudamushroom6343]

I’m a teenager I know what he’s talking about,he’s talking about sexual attraction to a guy who’s not your husband like Zina

[@hmmm3210]

@@dusscode Nope

[@icyexe860]

As a Muslim who dated a girl, At first it felt so good, I feel loved and stuff, for 5 months... One night, I took it to myself to go pray qiam al lyl, I said (translated from Arabic to English) “O Allah, Please help me, if what I’m doing is right leave me on it, if what I’m doing is wrong help me get away from it” Later that night, she started texting me, I was not feeling confutable with her after that all the sudden, then I told her “Please I don’t want to take you to hell... neither do I wanna, Let’s break up... this is for your good” She agreed happily (AlHamdul liallah) And we walked our own paths...

[@mostafazahid1710]

Which type of 'haram' relationship were you in?

[@icyexe860]

Mostafa Zahid just a Message type convo, not anything physical

[@nadiaamadu7307]

MashAllah brother

[@fatheenfirdous6370]

Brother you could have talked to her parents

[@TheRealNabil]

I respect your Iman brother. But if you really liked her and were at the age of marriage you could’ve talked to her father.

[@Katlady001]

When I first met my husband we married. We have been now living in two different countries for 7 months, I miss him a lot but I am patient and Insha'Allah we will see each other next year.

[@linam9724]

Allah loves patients

[@Userdoesnotexit]

@@thaknobodi thats an excuse to me... she had a reaon... but he is just a fiance ... if it dont work .. both parties should move on and allah knows best

[@5eek3r0fknowl3dg3]

divorces happen to forced marriages too

[@justateen7105]

It happens in other marriages too

[@sarahelzaraii3139]

No not necessarily

[@sendingsmilies7433]

If you go as per statics arrange marriages are more successful than lust marriages. Just google how many single moms are there in the world. You’ll be shocked

[@faranbutt180]

@Maher Zain's Fan go and say that to most pakistani old generation they would even go as far as disowning their children if they don't follow parents rules

[@pierreemerick-aubameyang1096]

@@faranbutt180 yeh this is haram nonetheless

[@hafsomohamed5109]

this why I don't like to be in arelationship am a 17 girl who likes to be a religious watching this increase my faith alhamdulillah my life going good my first Love is Allah and second is my parents I always pray to be marry the halal way MyAllah grant me good husband who always encouraged me to pray ,to have good relationship with Allah

[@sulaman4280]

Inshallah sister

[@derartumohamed2333]

May Allah make everything easy for you my sister

[@larizaolivo7368]

I am christian but my heart on Allah and his words in Qur'an that giving me more strenght to live without fear..i love Allah❤

[@falsesectslikeshiaarejudeo6543]

May Allah guide you to Islam, you know Muslims believe in Jesus too!

[@user-ox1mv7bw3u]

Allah is our Creator and the Creator of the Heavens and the Earth.. We should love Him and thank him always of all this blessings😍

[@mohmedahmed6060]

Lariza Olivo if you want happiness every day please convert to ISLAM QUICKLY life is uncertain

[@samirarahimi7459]

May allah guide u to islam inshallah.

[@zainbasir2324]

Those who submit their will to Allah swt are already muslims.

[@Favoritemuslimah]

Mashallah im only 13 yd but allah has guided me for 13 yd and inshallah till i die i would never ever do something that will upset allah plus i pray everyday forgiveness to allah allah will bless only people that go into his path and not the shathon may allah protect allah muslims.❤❤

[@nadiaamadu7307]

Mshallah sister

[@user-oo6vr1ky5f]

mashallah 💕

[@ahmadinejad6666]

What I find weird, is that most fathers don't allow their daughters to go out and stuff. So how am I going to go ask the father about his daughter if I have no knowledge of her existence.

[@ahmadinejad6666]

***** But I don't understand your point. Why would I go ask the father if I don't even know that he has a daughter ?

[@ahmadinejad6666]

***** No my parents don't want to find me a spouse, plus I live in a small city where there are almost no muslims, and I have no practicing muslims friends because I don't know any. I am the only practicing muslim in my family. No one care about that stuff in my house, only me.

[@roberthoffman6823]

The lecturer seems to believe in arranged marriages I guess. To each their own.

[@LoyalQueenSoul]

ask your parents to find your spouse, and I'm sure they would look up and give you the best.

[@im_hiatus]

+ahmadinejad6666 If you are a practicing Muslim, then you should know that your spouse has already been decided (if you are granted one, in sha Allah you are). So no matter what happens, that result will remain the same. Also, make dua to Allah for a suitable spouse.

[@marlinaje69]

lust disguised as a love

[@normanisqueen5028]

lol true that

[@ChiefKeeffiyeh]

- says the one who is inviting lust in a prof pic. *kermit sips tea...

[@normanisqueen5028]

ChiefKeeffiyeh and who might that be

[@HaiderAli-ks2zr]

marlina je

[@vivary4746]

Is it still lust when you want to hug and kiss him? And its also ok if you cant kiss him and hug him is it a lust😭😭even though you dont even see each other in every 10 months???and 2 months of vacation you just have a minute with him??😭😭😭is it a lust and not missed when you want to hug him tightly???is it lust that you love him in his ugliest and gorgeous ways????plsss tell mee

[@sumayaparuk7784]

Allah put us on this earth, not to fall in love with the mere creation, but to prove our love for him, I don’t believe in any love...besides the love that my allah has for me, because that’s the only true love there is and will ever be. And if i am to marry in the future, it will only be for the pleasure of my allah, by completing the sunnah. When you do something for the pleasure of Allah, it will prosper...but if you do something that displeases Allah, then how do you expect that to last? For allah is the controller of everything. May he give us all hidayat ameen.

[@syedainayaqadri2326]

How beautiful...Subhaan Allah

[@majimohr]

Exactly! It's to prove our love for him but you should read abot the relationship of Prophet [PBUH] and Ayesha too

[@zkhalid5832]

Thank you

[@shifa8190]

Sumaya Paruk I admire you.I really do!May Allah bless you

[@ebunaluweakayaswonna2539]

Ameen

[@loveitslia]

"They start to cry; they start to this, they start ro commit suicide, they start to ahhh😂"

[@nadiaamadu7307]

LOLOLOL

[@DistantHana]

I absolutely love this channel I never fail to learn something every video! May Allah bless u 😊

[@MrBossmedia]

Your rainbow picture is insinuating you are supporting gay people, which is not good what so ever.

[@isabellacassino8508]

+MrBossmedia Never heard about something called "Niyya"

[@Zumerjud]

+MrBossmedia Rainbows have been in existence long before humans were ever created.

[@shocomoco1867]

+MrBossmedia Allah created the rainbow. so to appreciate the colours of the rainbow is nothing wrong. The west made it a gay thing, they over sexualis everything, so to say its a gay thing you support the western view. rainbow shouldn't be related to that!

[@MrBossmedia]

Okay sorry guys

[@therealdarkeyes]

As a practicing sister growing up in the west, I have to disagree with you on certain things. Sometimes the parents don't really understand what we are going through in the west. E.g. my parents found men who are suitable for THEM from back home, but not necessarily suitable for me. They want someone they can manipulate, but didn't look whether or not if he's suitable for me spiritually. Often times the marriage becomes a family or cultural thing over religion. Although I agree the principle of this video, but I also know there are more to it then just going by the father's wish. Not all parents are the same in terms of knowledge and understanding or even range of social circle.

[@saira4964]

Her Highness j

[@bilawalnarai]

In Islam parents have to ask the girl if she agree or not to marry the guy , but it is not preached by most . Or the girl agree where ever her parents are happy to marry her .

[@yasinsong5657]

@M H It's not her fault. The parent should know what they are doing is wrong

[@Nevebrownie]

M H not really some parents are ignorant and don’t want to listen just like mine

[@norhayaadza6089]

my heart is cry because every one asking when i will get married...i always pray dua insha allah he will hear my dua before i gain of age 35 .i will meet my future husband ,he will be the path of my jannah insha ALLA,

[@ruaahassan8387]

@Anyway Uncle Santa did you just ignore what the video says..?

[@PROSKILLS323]

The Moon But it’s highly recommended to marry Muslim girl/boy. And also you forgot “people of the book/ اهل كتاب”.

[@shafinshaikh7913]

Read rabbi inni li maa anzalata ilaiyya min khaireen faqeer all th time

[@jhencastillo8131]

I am a Christian but every time I watched videos about islam touched my soul,tears are fallen😢

[@xmuhmd]

Welcome to Islam 😇

[@xmuhmd]

I am happy you found the truth 💔💔💔 thanks God

[@lutfulhaque3677]

Dear,vWhere are you from

[@Akrenix]

Ya Allah Help Me Fast In The Month Of Ramadan Allah U'Akabar

[@mubarakgidadoumar3247]

Ameen! May Allah make it easy for you and any other Muslim!

[@servantofallah8029]

+Jim Roland It's funny how you have the time to mock other religions on youtube... How sad, may God guide the blind! Amen.

[@mubarakgidadoumar3247]

+Jim Roland Innalillahi Wa'inna ilaihi raji'un! Be careful to what you say to others. This is very aggressive!

[@thompolar]

+mubarak gidado umar lol! Tell you people to stop blowing other up/stoning people/ not letting girls go to scchool/forcing girls to cover up...that's aggressive

[@servantofallah8029]

Jim Roland They aren't our people lol. They're ignorant cowards who can't see like you.

[@joshyt684]

I for one am not muslim but this way is the right way.

[@barsharoy6091]

I am a Hindu, But I 💓 & 🙏 respect all religions....

[@jesussayingdeathtoamericaa7925]

,😃😃😃

[@ramadhirsinghwasseypurwale2782]

I am proud of you dear you are modern Padmavati.🚩💪🚩💪🇮🇳🇮🇳🇮🇳

[@majimohr]

May Allah guide you and all of us o the straight path, Ameen!

[@kstun3385]

@@Nourdin726 bro india mai esa kuch nhi ho raha... Kuch haramkhor h jo yeh sabh kar rhe h muslim bhi ate h usmai aur hindu bhi... Baki india ke log mil julkr rhete h eid mai hindu bhi saath hote h aur holi mai muslim.... App shayad pak se hounge apko galat news dikhayi jaa rhi h india mai esa kuch nhi h

[@Nourdin726]

K Stun sorry I don’t understand Your language it’s better you to reply me English instead of your mother your mother tongue.

[@mashakhalfan6297]

thank u so much for this lectures it has adviced me a lot a lot thank u teacher i have learn alot

[@nadeemnajimdeen5717]

OMG, Thank you very much brother! Best preacher ever! Alhamdullilah!

[@nurhakimiazlan5256]

All these years of friend zone has just been Allah swt protecting me. Alhamdulillah

[@hokutonoken8566]

im so thankful for this wonderful message about being marriage it helps to think more mature and ready for life❤️☝️

[@safel5810]

i wish my father was still here in dunyah :( alhamdulilah for everything ur words are gold brother jazaka lah

[@dmc7890]

This opened my eyes alot! I had this bad stuff in my head.

[@chanelvanos6714]

I’m a Catholic woman, my husband is muslim. We are doing it well together and have respect for each other. We love each other so much. It’s all about respect and knowing the culture and faith. I hope everyone, Muslim or Christian can be strong togheter like us🙏🏼

[@mhasifghaz4121]

Is haram married non muslim

[@chanelvanos6714]

mhasif ghaz no it isn’t. A muslim man may marry an Muslim, Christian of Jewish woman. Read the Quran.

[@georgiadeerhunting8337]

Chanel van Os you need to convert to Islam

[@chanelvanos6714]

Georgia Deer hunting no I don’t. I believe in what I believe. And you need to respect that. That’s what the islam says. Have respect to other believers and don’t push people to Islam. They need to believe it for them selves.

[@shahdalnashed7783]

I wish you both happiness .Yes it is true, a man can marry a non Muslim as long as she is Jewish or Christian.May Allah guide you to the straight path sister. Selam (peace)

[@meancheeto]

This is very interesting. I really enjoyed the message presented. I can agree

[@MImran-bw2qw]

Actually love after marriage is beautiful but some people find it difficult😋

[@androgamerzx389]

Love marriage is haram

[@gulebamarni6214]

AndroGamer ZX Its beautiful .. dont make beautiful things ugly

[@androgamerzx389]

@@gulebamarni6214 It's beauty to society..but not in Islam...islam says "Love the girl you marry rather than Marry the girl you love".. it's not a hadeeth but Dr Jakir Nayek said that

[@gulebamarni6214]

AndroGamer ZX sorry but you can not marry someone you dont even know ... dont marry someone you dont love ... dont marry someone Who is like a brother/ sister to you .. marry someone Who is good for you and Who will love you and love her/him

[@androgamerzx389]

@@gulebamarni6214 Why are you telling me this..tell this to the muftis or to the Imams who gives us a lot of lectures about this matter

[@berrybeebee]

This video is full of so much truth. Love it. JazakAllah

[@Unknown_1992]

The story that is mentioned regarding the girl falling in love with the guy and the guy falls in love with her etc and they want to get married and he goes and ask for her hand in marriage which the father says no too surely the father should agree if the guy is a Muslim and is trying to put everything right. To my knowledge I thought if the guy is a Muslim and is trying to be on the right path and happens to fall into a haram relationship but wants to make it right, surely you should get them married ASAP. Nowadays fathers mainly reject a proposal purely on culture. This is why some youth nowadays tend to get involved in haram relationship etc.

[@Unknown_1992]

+willy awsome that I agree. But say if two people happen to have been in a "haram relationship" may Allah guide us then they happen to make it right by making it islamically right it doesn't purely mean they will end up in divorce. I've come across number of fathers who refuse to marry their daughter to a different cast, race etc etc and sadly this does exist to this day. That is why some youth tend to go about it the haram way. I believe if it started through "haram relationship" and both want to make it islamically right and on the right path of deen it don't tend to end up in divorces

[@Unknown_1992]

+willy awsome True, but still I'm 50/50 about this video. Don't totally agree with it

[@Unknown_1992]

+willy awsome well living in a western country I have seen many relationships that unfortunately start out haram but end up not divorcing at all... And then there are many who didn't start this way and still end up divorce and like the prophet PBUH said "Marriage is the best solution for those in love" Ibn Majaah The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “We do not think that there is anything better for those who love one another than marriage.” (Narrated by Ibn Maajah, 1847; classed as saheeh by al-Busayri and by Shaykh al-Albaani in al-Silsilah al-Saheehah, 624)

[@Unknown_1992]

+willy awsome I don't condemn haram relationship far from i but there are ways to go about it that doesn't be all sinful. All I'm saying it isn't totally that 1% at all, it's verse wise the way your thinking an all

[@kazamify]

Muslimahh xx So you don't agree with Islamic scholars and would like to make your own judgements? And why don't you condemn haram relationships? So doing haram is good now?

[@ammarakhan503]

Its very knowledgable for us thanks for uploading these res of vireos .May bless you

[@lenovophab680]

A very useful and composed it in a very right way! Congrats

[@iTheNem3sis]

I agree, it all make sense if you see it from a point of view like this. Love and lust is completely different. Love is something you develop over time and what overlooks the appearance. Love is still caring if a persons face is half burned.

[@iTheNem3sis]

You're too immature.

[@AmvNightmare]

★_Vizualize_★ too immature for what?

[@iTheNem3sis]

Exactly.

[@AmvNightmare]

tell that to those middle-eastern folks

[@ExtremexZero]

soort witte smurf Tell that to those western folks. Think you're an smart guy, media tells alot of lies. Man in the middle east RESPECT their own woman, in the western country the woman is the man. HAs to do everything including; doing the shopping, adding planks to the wall. etc etc.

[@MaliktheBuilder]

Jazakallah Khayran for the great video. May allah reward you all for your efforts to help the youth of our Ummah. And may Allah grant us spouses who will the coolness of our eyes. Ameen

[@sehr4567]

this is so powerful it really touched by heart and honestly hes telling the truth thank you brother for the advice x

[@navidnasiri377]

This helped me so much. Thank you, thank you. 🙌

[@mashakhalfan6297]

thank u teacher always send me lectures

[@poncowibowo636]

If i had a lot of money, i would fund for this channel everyday! Love this channel! may Allah bless the people who work this channel, aamiin. (Love from Indonesia)

[@aiaz3dawran336]

You are the best KZbind bro you always try to tell people to go to the right path thx for your hard work

[@Swishe.co1]

Omg, this is sooo great, im gonna share this with all of my friends😊

[@nevo6348]

I swear u just answered everything for me thanks:)

[@insertname1357]

mashallah keep up the amazing work on your videos. may Allah bless you with paradise

[@unique74muzik]

Thank You..so glad I came across this channel.

[@jannatulferdous8984]

Subhan’Allah....Masha’Allah. This video was amazing. I loved it!!! ❤️

[@smartipants123]

I know a couple who were betrothed when still children. They didn't want to marry those whom they were betrothed to. They met each other, parents refused and then eloped. They had children, they made a life from nothing and built upwards. They now have 6 children who are of the best of character from all their relatives. Now their family want to know and their parents have apologised. Recently the man passed away at the age of 60, on the first day they read the Quran 67 times. He was loved. There is always more to the story. It's always the intention that prevails in the end. If it's a fling then it will always be treated as one. But if it's sincere and there is love then alhamdulillah it lasts forever.

[@SaiyaraLBS]

smartipants123 EXACTLY!

[@claudiaborzea1386]

Your comment gave me so much comfort... I am muslim convert for more than 3 years now. Due to my love, boyfriend, angel in Pakistan, whom i already call husband and he calls me his wife. My father is a stubborn atheist, threatened me to stop the nonsense when i told him about Islam 😢 He knows i have a friend in Pakistan but does not know he is my love. We want to marry and be together forever. And this video is simply so wrong. Like how can you marry a person if you don't know his/her interests, level of intelligence, sense of humour? You go and ask for a wife without even knowing how she is. And i am sorry for the speaker uttering those words, but not sheitan tells us we love each other, but Allah. He is the miracle of my life.

[@claudiaborzea1386]

@m 2222 This "incident" is called love... And if parents wouldn't be so rigid they would understand that they cannot force their children to marry whom they want against their will and feelings. You are supposed to live your whole life with that person... And love is the most noble and selfless feeling of all, so can Allah not like it? Boyfriend and girlfriend is haram... Even if you want to marry and know a bit of each other. But marrying someone whom you don't want to is ok... Marrying someone whom you only see once before marriage is ok.

[@saadiacodey6737]

ooooh my Alaaah help us all muslim brothers and sisters:::mAy Alaaah guide us the right path Amiiin Amiiin Yarabi

[@saquibelec208]

saadia CODEY Ameen

[@littledredie5]

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[@littledredie5]

Saquib Ahmed l

[@nisamudheenmamballi6770]

Ameen

[@ArmaanKhan-sy3kg]

Very meaningful... totally relatable ...we have to work upon it Inshallah😊

[@yukisnowflake]

Good messages. Soothing voice.

[@raj8172]

This was so real and pure way to express love or find true love in a paak way , very much impressed, it’s my deep heart wish to meet this man , Islam really teaches you to be pure ❤️

[@chandrasingh7030]

Well said . May Allah bless you for your words of encouragement.

[@kingakram1876]

This is really awesome 😍LoVe it❤️ and the way he speaks 😍😍😍😍

[@donnaheta4139]

this is truly mind blowing, and so amazing to learn about.

[@alyasa7617]

"its like that movie i watched the other day, twighlight" carries on giving islamic speach

[@streetbandito8426]

best youtube channel ever!

[@MayriMay]

Thank you so much for the reminders ♥

[@ayeshaneela2093]

jazakumullahu khairan for all of this beautiful videos❤

[@scribblerofdreams]

how can you ask for someone's hand when u dont know them tho? what if you do ask for it and you end up not liking them? do u UN-ask ?

[@salahudinrahim1367]

Divorce is allowed in Islaam but it is not liked . Marriage is a necessity especially for Young men and women otherwise there can be no sex. Sex outside of marriage is a capital sin that can put you in hell, it is haraam. So get married and it does not work out then get a divorce. But prior to divorce give marriage every chance. PEACE!!!

[@linam9724]

Usually, It's because that person that you want to marry is known as a good person that's always praying etc.

[@syedasaba7840]

Do you know that in Muslim traditional wedding (nikah) the marriage cannot take place unless the girl agrees.. Also the marriage takes place with the conest of the girl.. The family collect info. about the boy, they look into his bio data, check if he has a good family background and after that some meetings are arranged between the boy and the girl where they talk, share about their own nature and interact.. In the end if both of them find think that they are compatible then they get married.. Also if a boy or a girls has someone that he /she likes then he/she can talk about it to their parents for marriage.. Liking means only liking, it's like you admire someone who is your ideal type but you can't get sexual with them before marriage which people do while dating ... In Islam, before marriage you cannot get sexually physical with the boy, eg :when you date you are bound to get physical, flirt, and do all sorts of stuff which a couple does.. This is prohibited in Islam.. You can do whatever you want after marriage ..

[@justallah2785]

Rasulullah said The best was to know the opposite sex is to marry them

[@salahudinrahim1367]

I f you two have married when you find out you do not like each other, you simply divorce. It is not liked but it is not forbidden. If you have not yet married but are engaged/promised simply break the engagement. You both should consider the parent's wishes but you are not bound by them, that part is for you both to decide but be gentle to your parents whatever you decide. Surely ALLAH knows best.

[@222amonra]

So what if the father makes a mistake? Whose responsibility is my marriage and who will decide to divorce. The father?

[@zubairigal7310]

I think the role of the father here should simply because of a guardian. Some one who could help you decide for yourself and not someone who forces his decision on you. Anyway, a forced marriage isn't really a marriage in Islam as it requires consent of both the partners. And I such a circumstance the blame isn't on the victim or his /her spouse who is unaware but only those who forced it.

[@222amonra]

zubairi gal So child marriage, which is allowed and widely applied in Sharia is a form of forced marriage than.

[@zamzampetal8574]

+222amonra In Islam, a person is no longer a child once they reach puberty - they are now responsible for their actions and able to give consent as they have reached maturity. If by 'child' you mean under the age of puberty, then they are not mature enough to give consent to marriage.

[@zamzampetal8574]

+222amonra If we stopped treating them like children and started to support them as the young adults that they are, maybe things would be different. I know you wouldn't like to think so, but actually their bodies are giving off signals that they are maturing... And why do they have relationships and sex at 13 years (let's be real here) but aren't responsible for their decisions/ actions? Children do not have romantic/ sexual relationships.

[@zubairigal7310]

+222amonra lol am 21, muslim, my father is a Muslim and am still unmarried 😂 so, you were saying?

[@mageefa2613]

جزاك الله خيرا واحسن الله جزء... بارك الله في علمك و عمالك.. آمين

[@awais_alcapo4537]

THANK you soooo much for making THIS video! Its sooo true What you Said. I have learned very very much of THIS video🤩🤩 May Allah SWT bless you brother❤️🌹

[@ChaosmanOne]

I am an atheist. I vehemently oppose all religion and endorse a position of non-belief almost absolutely. Every word of this message is true. Listen, believer or not.

[@zamzampetal8574]

Thank you for watching with an open mind. :)

[@zameernizam3825]

Most open minded and nicest Athiest I've ever met + not racist or discriminative at all 😄

[@ChuckNorris-gk9uo]

thank u for u humane comment

[@ameencampano3674]

Thanks, I met a non muslim with respect, an open minded. May Allah SWT guide you.

[@zennnnyOfficial]

ChaosmanOne you are the first atheist on KZbin (that I've seen) with an open mind. you didn't offend anyone or discriminate anyone. look, I know you don't believe in God, but God bless you anyway.

[@streetbandito8426]

best youtube channel ever! 😊

[@sabah4123]

Well spoken, valuable advice the youth need. Marriage has lost it's value. It's wonderful in the eyes of God. ⛪🇦🇺

[@ayaadambek6467]

Thanks! It helped me, and now I feeling easier

[@thecuriousbeing254]

what if the girl no longer have a father like me? my father passed away when I was a teenager. And my mother and I have agreed that we will just go through nikah if someone wants to marry me. nothing fancy. but I live in a society where the guys family do not agree to this. they want a fancy wedding just because their son is the only child or oldest child. I'm stuck in this culture where money and showing off means a lot. I just hope that I will get married one day. please pray for me dear brother and sister.

[@marouan9668]

it he girl has fahter then the guy should go to the girls guarian

[@sjworld7797]

omg

[@anagracie2362]

u need to goto the molana aka priest and you can look into the Quran if she is right for you or not

[@lyestoumert606]

Where are you from sister

[@sheikhibrahimkoroma1851]

Ma Sha Allah Akhi let us fear Allah has we can

[@IshmaImrozParvezIsmail]

Subhaan Allah its soo true!! A must watch!! May Allah forgive us all for our past sins!! Aameen

[@souhanairfanullah5267]

Yes plz plz Allah plz forgive me from all the sins😥😟 I'm now always so anxious and so much stress then happiness

[@sheikhibrahimkoroma1851]

True Akhi may Allah accept where good work and forgive us all for where past sin Ameen

[@amalabdulhaque5640]

Whoever makes this vedio may allah bless u.... Gave me a lot of knowledge about islam😊

[@syedamariabanosherazi1244]

MashaAllah Vro.its really appreciable that you depicted the facts in a very keen manner..

[@makishoujo1568]

The "twilight saga" part got me!😂😂😂 mashallah brother keep going!

[@lilisatriani4515]

Masyaa Allah..i hope my dream come true with the future husband bring me to jannah ❤️

[@yaseenachakzai2898]

Beautifully described. JazaakAllah. MashaAllah. ♥️❤

[@nabilasadiqzad6068]

Thank u so much for the nice video I really needed

[@hamooza911]

I swear to God you changed my mind about what true love is and in the end I was convinced this whole thing is lust.

[@jazeeliqubal8533]

i think i watch this video @ right time....alhamndulillah..

[@osayomoreholy7455]

Oh my God I love this video so much,I'm a Christian but I learn from this video.

[@kemeriakedir2143]

Thank u so much for this lectures. I have learn a lot

[@Sebir5y]

5:08 good point brother 🤣🤣🤣

[@Marie-sw9ds]

Ma sha Allah. Muslim marriages are beautiful. :) in sha Allah one day soon. Aameen :)

[@sheikhibrahimkoroma1851]

May Allah make it easy for us all Ameen

[@mba7454]

Islaam is about respect, honesty and God fearing.Not terror and abuse.Welcome sister Marie

[@theguy9571]

Amazing video and very eye opening. I used to have this mindset of “how will I know them if we dont go out” but now I now that if Allah swt commands something, it is for the right reason. And thank you for explaining this so well.

[@jabilynasra7423]

Maashallah a nice lesson i have been taught a lot

[@tayyebamalik6915]

To be really honest, I'm so done with the mere idea of marrying and 'love' bs. I'll probably live my life alone and love it that way. What's the point of all the drama when you're going to die alone and all these lustful relations are for this life only? My husband won't answer the questions I'll be asked in my grave nor will he be any help as soon as I stop breathing when it comes to the Day of Judgement and the afterlife or the trails of the grave.

[@bluepanda4806]

But Marriage is a Sunnah! 😂

[@jellobello7145]

I sometimes think the same

[@zakahaaji2358]

In Marriage we complete half of Deen "Islam"

[@s1mplyFrost]

It's a good thing to marry. Marriage is not compulsory in Islam but it's sunnah so It's a good thing. Of Course you don't have to marry at a certain age but only when you are ready. It may be 25 or 52. Not marrying at all is also okay but is a strong decision. It's just that when some people look back at life they just regret some of their decisions. Of Course your spouse won't answer your questions in the grave. No one's does. But it's great to have someone with you to walk through life. There are amazing people out in this world so If you've met or had experience with some bad ones. Don't make permanent decisions based on that. I hope you understand my perspective and think again. May you make the better choice.

[@c.nasser12]

It is your choice entirely to get married, but remember that you should try to enjoy life as much as you can. We only get one life so make it a good one.

[@ZainabKhan-zs8yl]

Assalamualaikum...my parents are in distress because we are two sisters getting aged day by day ,but we are not getting a suitable person for marriage. Please make dua for my family. The reason for not getting married is we are not good in money & status . I request everyone who is reading this please make dua of Khair & Barakah for my family and Every single family facing same issues .

[@awakenthegreatnesswithin]

Try different methods and places In’sha Allah you both will be married soon

[@MMA12English]

Yah now a days Muslims have made more difficult to nikah instead of its making easy the harsh reality everyone Now a days greedy Of Money only But many people still in path Of sunnah , InshaAllah Allah one day grant you a good husband may Allah testing u as of now JazakAllah khairan wa kasira

[@navizrgr1396]

I hope u got married

[@iffatmajeed9798]

This is the best video I have ever come across....

[@arianrahimi6467]

Best speeches i have ever heard ...