Have you heard of Death Cleaning?

Death cleaning is a phrase or term I've only become aware of within the past twelve months, is it a good trend?
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[@loristone6313]

I heard of Death Cleaning quite a few years ago. I think of it as taking a serious look at things I haven't touched for a very long time. I've been helping my 93-year-old Mom clean out small areas of her house. It has been a bonding time for us to reminisce and discuss old times. She has control of what happens to everything we lay hands on, and she's loving the fact that her old treasures are now going to charity shops to become someone else's treasures.

[@CeriGriffiths]

Beautiful memories.

[@TrishDarbonne]

I think of death cleaning as a gift to our survivors. Great topic! ❤

[@debraolm7104]

😂😂😂 for them.... 💔💔😢💔💔 for me.

[@lynnellynrobinson5849]

My grandmother started death cleaning several years before her passing. She got to see loved ones enjoying things she passed on. It was fairly easy to clean out her house because of her thoughtfulness. My longtime sweetheart died yesterday (2/17,/2024) and I had helped him do some of that clearing. It will be easier for those of us left to deal with his belongings. I watched your videos all night last night. They helped me as I planned a journal dedicated to him and us. Thank you for the work you do. It makes a difference.

[@CeriGriffiths]

Oh my, I’m so sorry for you, my heart goes out to you as I’ve been there several times and know the journey ahead of you. My condolences.

[@jesseb5112]

I am so sorry for your loss. My deepest condolences.

[@annekenlon]

I LOVE this topic! Like some of your other commenters, I don't find it morose at all. It's actually very freeing. I'm involved with a volunteer-based organization for seniors in my community, and we actually help one another do this, going through closets and decluttering and parting with things we don't want to saddle our children with. Having the support of friends is very helpful in actually doing this process. I think it's best to do BEFORE a dire diagnosis comes along. I'm 67 and extremely healthy - I'm doing it elsewhere in my house, but I admit I will probably hold onto my craft supplies till the bitter end! Thanks for another wonderful Coffee with Ceri!

[@suzanneparent4619]

Ann… I read your comment and was intrigued. The mention of a volunteer- based organisation for seniors is something I am interested in, with being disabled I struggle to achieve the task at hand. If you would not mind naming the organisation this could be the blessing to help me reach my goal. Suzanne😮

[@CreativeTrish]

Anne I’m 65 & have been doing this myself. Over loaded linen closets, excess kitchen hoard😎 The kids will be in good shape. My craft room…they can call Disabled Artists Foundation Inc & they’ll come pick up my room…they are based about 2 hrs from me.🙏

[@CeriGriffiths]

Yup my art supplies are likely to be the last thing I let go of.

[@mariewohlfield1512]

I have been going through my craft stuff for about a year. I know my son appreciates what I’m doing. I’m 79 and almost 80. I’m no longer doing scrapbooks so I’ve been donating lots of my stash. I like gifting my stash!❤

[@mariewohlfield1512]

Thank you all!

[@CeriGriffiths]

That is awesome

[@ohbits]

I learned about it about 8 years ago as "Swedish death cleaning", and a few years later, happily used the framing to help me seriously downsize. Even though I wasn't even middle-aged at the time, knowing I've freed my children from a large part of an unpleasant task is such a comfort and brings me peace. My grandmother once had all her kids go through with sticky notes to 'claim' anything they wanted in her house. It was hard, but what a gift that was to alleviate any potential conflicts after she passed. I've dedicated the last few years to helping people write legacy letters and living obituaries to achieve some of the same effect (and more!). Thinking about, planning for, and taking care of things with your ultimate demise in mind is actually very life-affirming! You'd probably be surprised how much deep satisfaction it can bring.

[@CeriGriffiths]

Wonderful

[@user-zv7gm2pw1c]

There is a book which I think is called “The art of Swedish Death Cleaning.” The women who wrote it lost her father, husband, and mother-in- law in a short period of time. Her mother-in-law had a note pinned to an old military uniform of who to contact and a phone number. The author said knowing the intent of the deceased made it so much easier for her. It is really a gift we give to those who survive us when they know what to do with our “stuff.” Great topic and I am also still holding on to my craft supplies too.

[@paularose847]

I loved reading that book!

[@juliewurf7506]

After my husband passed away after a short illness I read a number of books on dealing with death - one of them The Gentle Art of Swedish Death cleaning. Apparently it's an annual thing for them. While I do have "stuff" I'm very aware of not over collecting - my craft things are s different matter 😊. I do have a lot of old papers that relate to my husband's family and their involvement in Australia's Gold Rush in the 1880s. They're earmarked for the town's museum sooner rather than later. Otherwise I can see them (tragically) being thrown out in the rubbish. It's something my husband would have wanted. Death clearing is common sense to me - not a morbid thing

[@debbiev.1311]

I'm 62 & have decided I no longer want to spend my time managing all the things/belongings that I've accumulated over the years(& was holding onto for "just in case"), & have therefore now embarked on a major declutter!! Yes, I've heard this term, but I'm not calling it that! And of course, my craft supplies are another story all together!! 😁 Thank you for an always thoughtful Coffee w/ Ceri!! 💙☕️💙

[@jenniferjaylaplans8040]

I started Swedish death cleaning about a year ago, it’s taking me a long time as I am giving myself lots of grace. The spots in my house that are completed feel wonderful. I think once I’m done the entire house I’ll go for a second pass. I’m nowhere near death but I liked the concept better than purging. I believe the premise has been done by the Swedish for many many years, basically in the beginning of your life you are acquiring things (especially when you have kids) and then in the second half of your life you should be getting rid of things so your life is easier to maintain but also so your loved ones don’t have to go thru all your things when you pass

[@sybilmccullers6291]

Ceri, I am 82 years old and still going strong, but lately have seen that I have entirely too much stuff for craft uses. I have been making greeting cards for charities, and lots of gifts with some of it. I have been passing supplies to two of my nieces, and it feels really good to know that the "stuff" is going to good use. I have decided to get out things I haven't used in a long time and make something with it or decide not to, and then let it go. I still have plenty to work with. And my nieces are excited and don't consider it outdated. I had never heard the term "Death Cleaning". I suppose that is what it is, but I think I choose not to use that term. "Freeing up" suits me better I think. Thanks for this enlightening video, I always enjoy all of them.

[@CeriGriffiths]

Sounds wonderful and you’re passing your passion onto the next generation.

[@luannfischer747]

Clearing out past passsion supplies has always been part of my routine. However, I’ve had to help with a special friend’s belongings when dementia issues put her into a special care facility. I still, 14 years later, am looking for people that would appreciate some of her things. She had no relatives to do this so I was ‘blessed’ with soooo much stuff. Do only what makes your heart calmer, Ceri you do YOU the best!

[@CeriGriffiths]

Thank you

[@ernavanasselt2678]

I've never heard of this phrase. But when I look at my mother (86), she is working on that. She often says: I'll get rid of that, otherwise you'll have to clean it up when I'm no longer here. I have the same reaction as you on this subject, I need to think about it. One thing I do know from experience is that when you are confronted with a potentially fatal illness off your loved one, you do not think about death cleaning. At that moment it is not important. Thanks for sharing your thoughts.

[@colleen6921]

Marie Kondo wrote a book called Swedish death cleaning. I read the book and realized so many things in my house were things I wasn’t using. I’m in my 60’s my kids are in their 40’s. I went through the items and they weren’t interested so I donated them in hopes that someone else would be happy to have them. Another way of looking at it is decluttering. It just feels good to let go of things you are no longer using. It frees up space and makes your house more manageable and easier to keep tidy. Some go further to minimalism.

[@CeriGriffiths]

Totally agree Colleen and I’m definitely happier with the term decluttering or even simplifying.

[@CheleinSF]

Yes. I came across it last year when I was watching a lot of videos on cleaning/destashing/minimalist. The Swedish Death Cleaning. I get the concept and don’t think of it as being morbid. It’s actually a very practical approach. Thanks for the Coffee-talk.

[@candace1497]

Hi Ceri! Interesting topic! I’m 73 and have given this considerable thought! What I’ve done is leave specific instructions for the disposition of various area. Art and craft supplies are to go to a specific person who has agreed to find proper homes for them. Jewelry to another person(mostly silver and something my boys have no interest in) This person will be able to eBay a lot of it and can use the proceeds. My pets also have a “godparent “ who I trust to find them good homes. The only thing that I’ll have left for the boys is to go through old family photos and mementoes which they’ll probably enjoy. Everything else goes to a charity shop. This plan allows me to enjoy my things as long as I’m here. Either way, having a plan is the important thing.

[@williamhawthorne1375]

Hi,this is not the meaning of death cleaning,quite the contrary,it is still leaving the c,earing up of all your belongings to members or a member of your family that could take them months or years and you are not taking that responsibility yourself 🥴Liz,,,

[@JournalJourneyArts]

I like this plan very much

[@ultraviolet13881]

Ceri, you are SO right about the craft/art supplies!! Someone who doesn't craft or create would look at a lot of the things we use and probably wouldn't understand. One example is paper scraps. I have some stored in two small containers, and others in two large containers. Most people would take a look at that and say WHY?? So I made a point of telling the person who might be left with the project of getting rid of my things that she would find a LOT of paper scraps and not just the expected craft supplies like paint and stickers and stencils, etc. I have been on a mission for a couple of weeks, though, to DECLUTTER (I just prefer to call it that, as opposed to the other phrase, but that's just me), and it feels GREAT. I guess that's similar to death cleaning, just with a different name, but I would recommend it to anyone who feels burdened by their "stuff." "The Minimal Mom" and "Clutterbug" both have AWESOME videos on KZbin and give tips and strategies, ones that actually WORK, on decluttering.

[@briarwoodimp]

For anyone liking the idea, but hesitant, I'll share another idea At 58, I have no children. I'm taking care of aging parents and slowly helping them shed stuff. For myself, I try to stay mindful of not collecting stuff in the "vaguely possibly maybe someday useful" category, but as for Death Cleaning, I may not ever go that far, as I know another way my survivors can easily handle what I leave behind. 7 years ago, preparing to move cross country with a year of working in random places between leaving one home and finding the next, I downsized from a 4 storey Victorian to what fit in a 10x6x6 foot utility trailer and my jeep! I did that by putting what I thought I wanted to keep in one room and then held a series of "pick your price" estate sales, wherein folks were invited to walk through my house and then load their vehicles with everything they wanted, then come back in and pay me whatever felt right to them. I hate holding yard sales, but this way was perfect. The hardest thing I had to do was convince folks I really meant they could have everything they wanted, even if they didn't have a lot of money. Many, and possibly most, paid well over what I'd have asked, if I'd had the actual desire to spend hours pricing everything, and some even came back a few days and weeks later and gave me more money, when they realized the personal value to themselves of whatever they had bought! It got really festive by the 3rd and final sale, and the stash in the "keep it" room got whittled down each time too, as I realized how freeing it was to let go of the stuff of a certain era in my life. At the end, I left a few tables on the front lawn with free stuff, and most of that was gone in a day. Seriously, I was cleaned out from basement to attic and all around the yard, without having to do any heavy lifting or tedious, anxiety inducing pricing. In the end, I had only a small load of thrift store trinkets and a small trash pile to dispose of. Anyway, as 90% of my possessions now are not-too-valuable antique furnishings or art related stuff, much of the junk variety, I've designated a cousin to contact my local friends and the art guild to come get what they want in much the same way, should I drop off to The Grand Perhaps unexpectedly. Easy, peasy clean-out party. Highly recommend.

[@vanessasplace8690]

I've been willfully using or getting rid of a lot of things that I could not categorize, this year. YOU have perfected the name for this category! 'Vaguely possibly, maybe someday useful." Love it!!

[@leahbrannon1551]

Death cleaning is on my mind constantly. I have a rare autoimmune neuromuscular disease called Myasthenia Gravis. Every 14 days I have an infusion of a chemo immunotherapy drug. While death I hope is years away, my body is becoming more and more exhausted from the treatments. Each month, I pick an area of my home and take note on what needs to be done to ensure my sons do not have to struggle in what to do with my stuff. Thank you for bringing up this subject as I believe it's something we all should give thought to. ❤

[@mersearuane9553]

I had a second round of cancer in 2021, had 12 rounds of chemo and a year of immunotherapy. You should start feeling better once you finish the chemo. Just keep your attitude going in a positive vein which will rewire your brain after going through all this (called neuroplasticity - check out Dr. Caroline Leaf podcasts). Big hugs and prayers coming your way!

[@karver3440]

❤

[@leahbrannon1551]

@mersearuane9553 I will have to have the treatments for the rest of my life unfortunately as it's the only way my immune system does not attack my muscular junction. Having a positive attitude is key 🥰

[@lindadouglas7429]

I have never heard that phrase. But, I have seen it in action. My neighbors 80 yr old neighbors did this slowly. They gave their children and grands an opportunity to pick what they wanted. Eventually, donating to charities. Then 8 yrs later moved into a nice retirement village that is life care.. i need to start that process. Very great subject to talk about.❤

[@barbscott980]

I never heard of it either, Ceri. I've seen people do it, and thought about it myself, but never heard the phrase.

[@joedewar7253]

I have read about the Swedish Death Cleaning and thought it a very sensible idea. I remember the advice was to go slowly, tackling small sections of your home at a time, rather than trying to do the whole house all at once. That gives you time to sort, pack up stuff you want to get rid of, then pass it on, before starting the next area. I didn't start death cleaning straight away, but have been thinking about doing this for some time. So, you've given me a nudge! From today, I'm going to start - going round each room, one-by- one, sorting out a section, passing on what I no longer need, before going on to the next bit. This is an important topic as one ages, so you avoid leaving problems for others when you pop your clogs! Thank you Ceri. Love your channel, your creative sessions and your chats, full of wisdom. 😊

[@denisewisdom1558]

Ceri, I’ve never heard of this; but, I’m seeing it right now. My 82 year old mother has been going through her entire home, including drawers, closets, cabinets, boxes, storage, Etc. I didn’t realize that this is what she’s doing. Thank you for bringing it to light for me. This calls for a deeper conversation with my mom.

[@CeriGriffiths]

Denise take it gentle she may just be spring cleaning.

[@denisewisdom1558]

@@CeriGriffiths Today, my mom called me to come over to her home. She had 6 big boxes full of her personal and home belongings that she wanted me to go thru to see if I wanted any of it. I asked her why she was giving these things of hers away. Her comment was, “I’m never going to have time to use these things again, so, you might as well have them now instead of later. I picked out items I thought you would want and I have other boxes for your brother and sister.” I think she is doing what you talked about. Your conversation with us gave me the foresight to be able to respond properly. Thank you.

[@RockyRoadCreationsbyDiana]

I've heard of it. I'm the same age as you, and I've really been trying to downsize. I've thrown 40 years of personal journals into the burn pile, so nobody will ever read them. I hate the thought of someone going through my studio and trashing it all. Thanks for bringing this up. It's also called Swedish Death Cleaning.

[@KathyBrooksArt]

I watched a show on Swedish Death Cleaning and it inspired me to start in on it . We are in our early 70's; and I've had our Daughter ID (with sticky notes) what furniture she wants, so I know what I can donate. It feels really good to get rid of excess possessions, it is actually very freeing. So glad you chatted about this. Thanks!

[@pattyjones1350]

I’m in the US and last year I watched a program, narrated by Amy Poehler, called “The Gentle Art of Swedish Death Cleaning.” I believe it is on the Peacock channel. I loved this program. There were many reasons why people asked for help. I totally recommend watching the program. It makes you think about why we hold on to things and why we need to clean out and not leave it to friends or family.

[@marilynmaker5942]

Humm coincidence you're bringing this up. In the past month I have been doing just that! I live alone, just turned 68, and six months ago had open heart surgery (I have a bad heart). So I started thinking (like you did) about where all my stuff would go if something happened to me, and who would have to go thru it all. Have already gone thru my closets and donated 3 bags of clothes, just filled 3 boxes of other things to donate, now have a number of antiques and jewelry listed on Marketplace. Also, I'm tired of clutter. Haven't seen my dining room table in a few years (it's loaded with journal and crafting supplies). Time to de-stash and enjoy my retirement! Thanks for this Ceri! 🥰

[@sueataylor8754]

Hi Ceri, nope never heard that terminology, but it makes total sense...its like purging before any household move. That the largest, most permanent transition of them all❤.

[@jrive-stuart9608]

Hi Ceri, I have never heard of the term”Death Cleaning” but can understand the mindset of wanting to keep things “tidy”. I have a noughty birthday this year, joining your decade!, and can already feel myself wanting to simplify life; preferring experiences rather than things (clearly aside from craft supplies), doing things to suit me rather than always putting others ahead. Also looking at downsizing, so I can drop the number of days I work. All this plays into the topic, I think, especially when you have friends and family who don’t have the opportunity to enjoy a long life. Live today as tomorrow is never guaranteed. One thing though, having you on my desk when I’m crafting, chatting away sure makes it loads of fun. ❤ JaneyXx

[@CeriGriffiths]

Thank you Janey

[@user-hv1fu4xy8f]

I have heard of it. After what I went through when Daddy passed, I have become more cognizant of what I buy and what I keep.

[@em......]

In 2012 my sister ended her life and I had to go through her things and sort it all. So I became so angry at possessions and went through my own things and got rid of more than half of everything I own. In 2020 I did another declutter and put all the stuff I was getting rid of in a bookcase for my niece and nephew to look through and take what they wanted. I heard about Swedish death cleaning years ago but had already been doing it without knowing that name. I think in the case of a craft studio you should have it written in your will what you want done with the stuff. Like choose a Facebook group or something to have it advertised to. I'm lucky as my niece will probably take all my stuff. I'm only in my 40s so hopefully I have a bit of time ahead of me though. ❤

[@artcuriousbymnw]

I never heard of it Ceri, I did on the other hand heard about: Put your affairs in order, phrase that doctors tell in movies to announce people that not much time left for them to live. Is very thoughtful not leave burden to your love ones, financial, physic and so. I thought about it, and I try to downsize even is not easy, so whenever I’ll leave this world no much things will need attention. You are good and we want you in our life forever (we are the same age, or will be on the 28th, and Maxi will inherit my art stuff. If not first him I will find an institution as a destinatarios of my artsy things. Think in what make you happy now, and if is part of your joy know about the destiny of your very valuable things (at least for me are😊), left on writing what you want to be done, and then forget about it. Thank you for bring the subject up.❤

[@annemiller5759]

The Gentle Art of Swedish Death Cleaning (2023) is a TV series. It is well worth viewing. Each week I laughed, I cried and I learned a lot about methods used to help people overcome the need to keep absolutely everything. A wonderful show presented by tremendously knowledgeable & appealing people.

[@jenniferjaylaplans8040]

I believe there is a book as well

[@JudiH-ig6uu]

Hi Ceri...I first heard of Swedish Death Cleaning 2-3 years ago. I am 72 now and no longer think of death as morbid. It's just a fact of life. I started cleaning stuff out a few years ago...This year I chose January to clean out the entire walk-in closet and I was ruthless. February was my bedroom...which is where my crafting is. And it is done! Still too much stuff but each go- round pares down more. Thanks for the very interesting and candid Coffee with Ceri! Have a great day!

[@sisfidy58]

I've never heard of the term "death Cleaning", but the concept is something that hangs over my head on a daily basis. Not that I have "one foot in the grave and the other on a banana peel", but out of 8 siblings, I was left to deal with our mom's hoarder house. Don't get me wrong -- some of the siblings helped when it was all dumped into our basement and garage (40 huge boxes of yarn, 47 boxes of books, 6 cases of soup -- you don't want to go hungry if you get snowed in!!! -- and that's the easy stuff). The best (AND the worst) of it was Mom's genealogical research of 70 years -- every piece of paper and news clipping and files and boxes of research had (and some still has) to be gone through, and can only be done by me because my other 2 sisters who are a part of that "hobby"? live too far distant to be able to help physically. And even when I sort out the paper, I'll still have all the "treasures" that ought to stay with the family history -- my great aunt's birthday book (that was a German thing), the custom made prayer books that were presented to my grandparent on their wedding day (as well as a Valentine sent from Grandpa to "Miss Amanda", his future bride), a 4th Great-Grandmother's wedding ring that wasn't buried with her because it was at the jewlers for repair, 3 family bibles that belonged to Great- and Great-Great Grandparents -- and SOO much more. The data can be posted in my Ancestry tree, but when there is no one to pass these treasures to who is interested in keeping together the archive -- the physical things -- as a tribute to our "dead relatives that nobody alive knows" -- THAT is what I struggle with every day -- where does it go? How far afield do I need to go the find anyone interested in family things? As the King of Siam would have said, "Is a puzzlement!!" Thanks for letting me vent!!

[@jesseb5112]

I have several close friends who volunteer at an LDS Family History Center. I think it is now called a Family Search Center. There are multiple databases, and I know that there is at least 1 where you get to choose your privacy settings. Have you thought about using a resource like that to offer the "treasures " up to family members? I have a friend who had multiple storage units that she paid for. She is down to 1 and wants rid of it. I have been helping her declutter. One of the issues is MOUNTAINS of genealogy. Her and I are very different. I would be letting go of a lot of it. She wants to buy a better scanner and scan the pictures and documents. She then wants to upload them to 1 or more of the databases. That is A LOT of work. Not every saved piece of paper is a treasure for genealogy, but some documents are. It is NOT my passion, but I have heard A LOT about it. Birth certificates, death certificates, marriage certificates, and documents that say where they are buried are helpful. The last only because a lot of people want to see the grave. NOT my hobby. If you don't find value in the rest of the papers, it truly is okay to let them go. These are my unasked for opinions. If you found it helpful, I am happy. If you didn't, I hope I didn't offend you.

[@roseshaw04]

Thanks for bringing up this thought-provoking topic. I have been doing this unconsciously since my mom died 8 years ago. It took me forever to sort through a lifetime of memories and just plain old stuff as I settled her estate. Since the pandemic, I thought I was decluttering my house, but now that I've listened to your thoughts - I do think I am death cleaning. When you realize that there are more years behind you than in front of you, your priorities change. We certainly can't take it with us and why not have some control over where your material things finally end up. Great chat!

[@michellekingsley315]

I hadn't heard of the phrase until earlier this week so your chat is very timely. I am near the end of going through cleaning out my late mum's unit. This process has made me think twice about what I have. Thank you for discussing the subject.

[@patricialee-forry7840]

Ceri, at 76, I'm ready to do this death cleaning. I think I found this video by Devine intervention. Thank you so much for bringing this subject up.💜💜💜

[@annelawver2703]

I read about death cleaning several years ago and have taught for many years on the subject of a prepared life. I have also cleared out several estates from unexpected deaths, expected deaths and serious illness requiring someone to give up their home. It has all given me a perspective on what can happen and what should happen. The most important thing you can do is have your financial and ‘life paper’ in order. Have a trust and put all of your assets in it (at least in US, every country is different) and a will. Discuss in depth with your executor what is required before they accept the role. Keep your important papers together and be certain that your executor knows where they are. Have a ‘living will’ that spells out YOUR end of life wishes. As far as belongings, I am in the process of making engraved plates for family antiques, explaining where they came from, who made them, etc. I will be asking my children which they would like to receive (as well as jewelry and other items). Some I have begun to gift now. I am leaving a list of organizations that are more than happy to receive the fabric and extensive sewing supplies that remain after my children take what they want. The same goes for other items, including art supplies. I have also prepared a list of local auctioneers that will sell off any remaining items. Am I off-loading everything now? I considered doing so slowly (and will thin out what I know we will never use and children/grandchildren do not want) and discussed it with my daughter who will be primary executor. Her answer was to keep whatever brings me joy now. Her feeling was that I should not be deprived (nor my husband) of those activities that we find pleasure in. Great subject and preparing for whatever tomorrow brings as well as the end of our lives is a subject everyone should contemplate. I have seen estates that went smoothly and those that were an absolute nightmare. OH…also write out your wishes for the final resting place! Have those documents notarized. Attaching a list of who wish to have specific belongings and your preferred method for dispensing of them is also good. Thank you, Ceri. A valuable topic to contemplate.

[@lynneaberr1878]

Great advice!

[@jesseb5112]

I'm not sure that we will do a trust, but I 100% agree with you about the will and paperwork. My father-in-law 's decline and passing were MUCH harder with unknown passwords, insurance policies etc.

[@annelawver2703]

A super easy way to have your ‘life papers’ organized is to buy a 3-ring binder, some page protectors and notebook dividers. Have sections for utilities, bank accounts, credit cards, insurance, will, trust paperwork, living will, retirement papers, contacts to notify, immediate instructions etc. As statements and bills come in, simply stick a copy into a page protector and place in appropriate section. Simple and a great resource even when alive. I have had to refer to my notebook to retrieve gas company account number, bank information and other information. Store your passport, titles, etc in a waterproof bag and place in freezer. Your freezer and refrigerator are the best fire proof boxes!

[@CeriGriffiths]

Thank you Anne

[@oheck5570]

I have never heard the term before but I am at that point in my life. The wording is bit coarse but the fact of it is a reality. My friends warned me to start sorting while I was still able, which I ignored but now know it is getting much harder physically to accomplish decluttering. For me it is a balance between saving my children from a burden versus cutting my “living” short and leaving a hopelessness about the future because one never knows the length of time about which we are speaking. Crafting is my sanity and I may well NEED it more in the next few years as I become less mobile. So I eliminate what I feel I can and hold on to too much else.

[@amyjohnson8954]

I have heard of the concept but never heard it called that. I lost my dad and an uncle within a short amount of time a few years ago. I had to go in and sort most of their belongings out. Both lived in states far from me. After that, as my boys all live in different states, I have been whittling down my possessions to things I use regularly. I want to make it easy for them when I am gone. It's sad enough losing someone without having to go through their lives and deciding what to do with belongings. Anything sentimental, I have already given my sons their choice and they have it. At 71, I am very healthy but anything can happen. I feel it's a good thing. That moniker, however, is kind of depressing, lol. Have a lovely weekend. Love from Chicagoland.

[@CeriGriffiths]

I'd rather call it decluttering

[@lennawisehart4888]

I am a caregiver. I care for people the last of their lives. For me, this has varied from a few months to 5 years with the same client. Because of my profession I’ve known about and supported clients with this “death cleaning” for more than a decade. I have never been aware that it had a proper name,tho. Thank you, for the interesting morning visit ❤

[@Maria-k0]

Not heard of that one Ceri, but have to admit coming up to 80 in a couple of months, it has made me think about spring cleaning, 3/4 things a day to consider binning, crafting items to the local hospice and bags to worthy charities…but I haven’t started yet. Thanks for an excellent topic for our coffee break 😊

[@CeriGriffiths]

Maria, downsizing to a manageable amount is more the way I’ll be viewing it.

[@lynneaberr1878]

I had heard of Swedish Death Cleaning but never saw or read anything about it. I've been decluttering for a few years with the help of a friend or 2. When I needed to move to a single story place, nephews and nieces got involved but threw out some things I would have kept and kept things that I would have donated. I donated lots of books and other items to a shop that supports 2 no-kill animal shelters. I've helped beginning crafters by boxing up and shipping stamps, papers, punches, etc. Also I donate supplies from time to time to an organization that makes Cards for Soldiers and our other US military branches. I've also been watching Diane in Denmark as she concentrates cleaning a room each week and finds things to declutter each time she does a room. I lived in the same house for 35 years and I routinely helped people starting over by giving away things I had accumulated. I actually loved helping others that way. My nieces and nephews aren't interested in having my things so I'll continue donating and/or sharing with others. I am over 75, never married, and no kids. I should have done spring cleaning each year but didn't. My advice is to do that and/or declutter routinely! Great chat! Thanks!

[@jaynecowsert4641]

I had not heard this term. However, it is basically what I did for nearly 20 years. My company helped folks liquidate, downsize and organize. It was sometimes quite sad because no one wanted their treasures. I have tried through the years to get rid of items no longer wanted/needed. I have asked my kids & grandkids what they want so when the time comes it won’t be so taxing.

[@shellywilliamswilliamscomp783]

I guess you could say that my husband and I have been "Death Cleaning". My husband and I decided to purge and clean up our home and property in the spring of 2023. We are not done with all the areas we have to go through yet. We have set up different designated spaces for long- and short-term storage. We built a trash room to hold our household trash for the purpose of keeping the bears out of our trash. Hopefully, when we are done, we will have space for all the stuff we want to keep, and we will have space to put the good donations as well. In a few years we plan to move out of this state, so we got a jump on cleaning and purging our stuff.

[@theprimitiveblackhatsociet8274]

I never heard it called that. I could never use that phrase; it would upset my kids and grandkids. They said they want me to live till I am 105. I moved in to a 100-year-old 4 room farmhouse. I had to downsize when I did, so that was taken care of. I go through my studio every 6 months and get rid of things I have not used. I give them to my oldest daughter, she takes anything she or my granddaughter may want, and the rest goes to her friend's little girl who likes to make art.

[@CeriGriffiths]

You sounds as if you’ve got it all sorted.

[@elsieb3176]

Swedish death cleaning appeals to me after having had to empty my parents' home. Downsizing to an apartment in a retirement community is no time to clear out things, because at that point the task would be too much for an older person. What does my attorney/executor know about the value of my knitting and papercrafting equipment and supplies? In my will, the fiber arts supplies go to the Fiber Guild and needlework group; papercrafting supplies go to a friend and the senior center.

[@rickieddy1443]

It's an eye opening subject, thank you. I'm actually disabled and we used to own a scrapbook store here in our town so I have a habit of collecting collections of everything that has to do with paper crafts. I need to think about what to do with my scrapbook room! Thank you! Have a wonderful day!

[@CeriGriffiths]

You too

[@annaankenbrand4930]

What timing. Right now I am cleaning my fathers house out because of his death in Nov. I have been going through 4 generations of photos, newspapers, and papers. Besides the great amount of work I find myself feeling guilty and burdened with throwing someone else’s treasures and memories away.

[@CeriGriffiths]

I understand I did it for my mother.

[@SpydersCorner]

That's me...didnt know it was called this though. Since hubby very suddenly passed, my brother in law saw my craft room and all the stuff I've been collecting for junk journaling, gel-printing, paints, paper...etc...and said, "no worries Lyn, when you go, we'll just get a big skip." I mentioned this on my blog, and a few people asked if they could have the skip!😊

[@mayetmahulilileilani2501]

There’s something about assessing one’s possessions, piles, corners and crannies… sorting and making choices, falling in love with something again (or not.) It’s freeing and clarifying and seems to open so much space in the mind when done. I’m new to the phrase, but along the American Indian idea of Today is a Good Day to Die - about living in way that you’re satisfied and feel good about yourself and your life, without many regrets - I think it’s a good idea. A version of Spring Cleaning w an added dimension of gravitas that brings more mindfulness into it. I like the idea. I do understand of course that since I’m not departing the planet soon, that I know of, it is an exercise that has a luxury of freedom from the feelings of someone doing this who is terminal. Considering it in that context my heart is so full of deep compassion for those who must do this in facing their own death, may their way be supported by loving assistance, that is my prayer.

[@user-cw5il8gq9z]

I first heard of it a couple years ago. I think it's a valuable concept with a horrible name! I think it's primarily a gift we give to our loved ones so they are not burdened with dealing with our possessions while they're also trying to manage their grief. I like to accumulate things too, but I think getting rid of things I don't use anymore is a relief as it gives space to live/create. And it brings joy to think of someone finding value or pleasure in your items, whether that's someone you gift it to directly or someone who finds the treasure in a thrift store.

[@Lyndazigns]

Ceri this is exactly what I’ve been doing lately. I didn’t know it had a name. I agree with you, no one around me knows what to do with my crafty things so I’d want to be the one to give them. This is really crazy! I didn’t even know what I was doing. Thanks for the chat.

[@jesseb5112]

I am 48 and I read The Gentle Art of Swedish Death Cleaning several years ago. I have done some of it. 1. I asked my oldest if they wanted things that I was holding onto for them. It felt really good to pass some of those things on, and simply let go of other things. 2. I asked my niece if she would like my journals after I pass. She wants them. The bin I put my finished (as in the writing spaces are full) journals in is labeled to be given to my niece. 3. My amazing mother-in-law lives with us. Her and I went through her photos and albums. She dictated, and I wrote pertinent information with the pictures. Some pictures were discarded because she couldn't identify people. We asked another family member if they wanted photos of their immediate family and their deceased mother. Those were mailed to the family member. I know people who have had parents homes that took YEARS for the family to clear after they passed. I live in the USA. The cost of that can be ridiculously high. The book truly made me think. My oldest knows to take what they want, give marked bins to people, and hire someone to do an estate sale. I felt better knowing that I could take a lot of the burden off my oldest. My youngest is very special needs and has a much shorter life expectancy. I don't find the topic morbid. I find it very loving and kind. It feels far kinder than not discussing these things with my child, who is almost 28, and expecting them to make really hard decisions while grieving. Several years ago, I found an online calculator that estimated the cost of cleaning out a home based on different circumstances like being able to do it on weekends only. Utilities, taxes, and basic home upkeep add up. I had never considered the cost of garbage bags or the possible need to rent a dumpster. I did a massive declutter. I have quite a bit in my craft area, and I am not a minimalist, but I reduced what I had significantly, and I now declutter regularly.

[@CeriGriffiths]

A couple of years ago a family friend died and left us their bungalow with all its contents, although I was grateful it was an inherited nightmare to sort someone else’s 85yrs of life. In the end it was to much for me and I hired a house clearance crew to just gut the property for sale. I’d never have got it done.

[@francesworcester3599]

Hi Ceri, I'm 75 in the USA and I've never heard that phrase before. I worked with seniors managing in home health care and (in what we call) nursing homes(just background about me) but never heard that phrase. I wish I had heard that for the last 10 years I traveled to my mother's to help care for her and my father during the winter months. It was hard for me to do any deep cleaning and also to discuss with them who gets what eventually...now as they have past I am completely at a stand still as to what to do. I have multiple sibling who don't live close and have not helped but want want. I wish that was a phrase I could have used with my mother to get an idea and start handling my parents treasures. As I'm a new junk journal I have appreciated multiple papers as they kept everything. Lol

[@debbiesavage7107]

I’ve already gone through my items. I feel the need to make another pass. I rarely have regrets about getting rid of personal items. I mail things to sisters and children and email instructions for ‘just so you know’. I do have a sister who’s a bit of a hoarder, though. ❤

[@tanahaines1043]

I'm 64 as well, and I kind of have been doing this. I certainly didn't name it, but, I really don't want to leave a mess for whomever it is left to . I've heard people complain about the mess their parents left, blah blah blah, and I think I would die all over again if I left that kind of feelings behind. It's good that you brought it up, as none of us are going to get out of this alive, and should be mindful of those left behind. Plus! It makes everything feel so nice! 😎

[@labgirlreed]

Never heard of it, but have been doing it for the last couple of years. I’m 74 and in really good health, but could get run over by a bus tomorrow. I think as an older person it’s more practical to downsize and find homes for items that no longer serve us. It’s difficult at first, but once we begin it gets easier and I’ve found joy in the process…rediscovering things I forgot about.😊 This is a great conversation to have with loved ones who will be left with our stuff.

[@dakielty]

Ceri, I’m 73 and my husband is 79 and unfortunately we are starting to slow down a little and looking at making our life simpler. Yes cleaning things out and we did put things all on one so no steps as we grow older

[@elizabethromanczuk8958]

I am 70 and have never heard that term, but I've been cleaning out things for a couple of years and will continue to do so when I feel the need. I don't want my children to have to deal with throwing things out.

[@Aymaray2]

I've never heard of it being referred to as "Death Cleaning" but I've been thinking about trying to manage what will be left behind when I go. I'm working on a binder, putting all the important stuff in one place. My craft items certainly need some attention! I enjoyed coffee with you today, Ceri.

[@brideofchucky2278]

Thank you, I had never heard of Death Cleaning, but listening to you helped me to realize that is exactly what my mother done before her passing from a terminal illness. She began this endeavor about a year before she passed, and at the time I thought she was just tired of all the nick nacks and such. Thank you for helping me to understand.

[@julieatkinson3885]

I’ve never heard of the term, but I recognise the activity. My mother-in-law did it before her passing and my mum is doing it now. Neither of them call it Death Cleaning. I think I would like to do it myself when the time comes, but who knows when that will be!

[@deannanderson2033]

Hi, Ceri. Great topic. I have been giving away parts of my hoarde for a year. I gave away two sets os dishware, one as a housewarming gift and one as a wedding gift. Both were appreciated, and now i can display my beautiful antique crystal. I am working on my craft hoarde by creating folios and albums for family.

[@nancivessells1909]

I haven't heard that term but my Mom who passed away in 2003 did it before she got Alzhemer's b/c she didn't want me to have to go through all her "stuff." I'm now 74 and completely understand her reasoning as I have just one child & a craft room full of stuff she doesn't want. I've recently retired for the 2nd time & that was my new year's resolution to start cleaning up & getting rid of a lot of stuff I don't use. I still make cards for my church & want to do junk journaling, but still haven't made one yet!!! I've told my daughter to box my craft stuff up & take it to the local nursing home. She knows if she throws any of it in the trash, I will come back and haunt her forever!!!

[@CeriGriffiths]

lol….a threat a lot of us use.

[@kareneaton2589]

Enjoyed your Coffee Chat this morning and I think it's just a Common Sense approach to cleaning ... I'm 74 now and have been going through things for a few years, gifting and donating, just so my Son won't have to and this way I feel Good about what I am doing and who is receiving my Treasures 😀 Thank you for sharing your Positive Thoughts and I appreciate you taking time to chat about this ... nothing morbid about it ... Take care and Enjoy every day Crafting ❤️☕️

[@tynaheadrick-phipps6768]

I am 67, been crafting and creating art all my life. This past May I gave away over 50 boxes of craft supplies to many crafters and then had a “free” sale. I totally enjoyed giving this stuff away to others who could use it. I did this because we were getting new windows and the installers could not see the window in my craft stash room. During the pandemic, we decluttered our kitchen cabinets, need to revisit that again. Must do the same to my clothing again too. Love donating useable goods to charities.

[@CeriGriffiths]

Wonderful

[@Jaelri]

Ceri, I do hope that it will be decades before you stop being able to enjoy what you have in your studio. Having said that, for any of us, our healthspan or lifespan may not be what we had anticipated, so it is probably a good idea to be periodically reviewing what we are holding on to, as an act of kindness to those who need to clear up after us. I wish I could say that this is how I have been living my life. But no, I’m a bit of a hoarder. A huge declutter is my No. 1 priority for my upcoming retirement. I had never heard the term Death Cleaning. Great topic, Ceri, and decluttering aside, I think there is something about allowing ourselves to contemplate our death that helps us to live a better life.

[@cathyhughes991]

I am 72 and have been doing this for a few months. Didn’t know it had a name. I am healthy but I realized that I needed to get rid of stuff that I knew I had no more use for. I don’t want to leave stuff behind for others to deal with.

[@CeriGriffiths]

Neither do I.

[@Ann-eh7ii]

I have not heard this phrase before and not sure I like it. I do down size from time to time as I have limited space, so I can control where my stuff goes. Items of value to me such as my quilts I have made a list and it is attached to my will. Spring cleaning to me is just a deep cleaning of my house. Very interesting topic as always Ceri. ❤

[@CeriGriffiths]

I don’t like the term either.

[@michelel3372]

This is such a great topic, Ceri. Not fun to talk about, but at the same time none of us want to burden others with our "stuff" when we're gone. I was gifted a book called "the Swedish art of Death Cleaning" (or some like that). I don't think I ever read it. I do believe we all reach an age (I'm 64 too!) when we probably need to buy less and clean out unused items. But as far as craft supplies ... as crafters, this is our life, we have stuff! I am more mindful of what I purchase now and I do try to donate older supplies that I'm no longer using. Great topic, thank you!! ❤❤

[@destinygraceartistry3468]

Great topic! I have actually done a little Death Cleaning. But I didn’t know there was a name for it. It’s something I believe my children will appreciate. Thank you so much. I really enjoy these little chats🙂

[@CeriGriffiths]

Can’t say I love the term, simplifying and decluttering works better for me.

[@judymanuel227]

Hi Ceri, I know a little bit about this subject, but have never heard it referred to “death cleaning”. Funny story; many years ago, a lady who was a dear friend decided she was not going to live much longer and started giving away things she wanted certain people to have. (She was not ill.) Example, silver, crystal, China and more formal serving pieces. Well, long story short she lived another 30 years, well into her nineties. It became a given when she hosted a ladies lunch or coffee, you would get a phone call asking to borrow a tray or serving piece or whatever, because and I quote, “ I don’t have those anymore because I thought I was going to die”. She entertained until literally the last moment and loved to say nobody knows their day! She had a great sense of humor!

[@CeriGriffiths]

Wonderful

[@mkaysartfuljourney1239]

I have never heard of that phrase before.. we call it spring cleaning too. Or downsizing.. purging those are all the words I’ve heard. You know I stumbled across your channel and I’ve been a subscriber for a while, but I’m enjoying your content. Thank you.🕊🙏🏻🌈❤️💯

[@CeriGriffiths]

Thank you and I’m please you stayed.

[@nataliechim5227]

I have heard of Death Cleaning, what a terrible name. I am a similar age and I have developed arthritis in my hands so I decluttered all the large platters from my kitchen that I could no longer handle and it felt quite refreshing. On the flip side I was glad during Covid lockdowns that I had my fabric and haberdashery stash because I couldn't leave the house. I would like to have control of what happens to my belongings, however we don't know if we have one day or thirty years left so I just make sure I spend my time enjoying my crafting and sewing.

[@CeriGriffiths]

Yup terrible name, and you’re right we never know how much sand is left in the hourglass.

[@elviramk7508]

I never heard that phase. But, my dad and mom did have some time to hive some of their favorite things to us. I inherited beautiful fabrics. And I was able to make her a tote that she frequently used. My dad got a quilt. It's something to thing about, when I get nearer to 99. A living will is what we have to disburse to our remaining family.❤

[@juliasmith5646]

Hi Ceri! While I’ve never heard it termed specifically that way, after having to clean our my parents’ house upon their deaths, I was astounded by how much stuff two people had and the amount of efforts it took over months to address, I clearly understand the value and concept from the “Receiver’s” side. I made myself a promise to do this for my children, but, like you, can’t imagine touching my stash of arts & crafts supplies. I need to get a handle on it . I know my daughter wants those things, but I’m sure she’ll feel overwhelmed going through all my things, as I did my parents’.. I’m 65 and know how much of a gift it is to those we love to do as much of it as we can, while we can. So the yearly Spring Cleaning is a great way to start the process for those that haven’t to develop good purging habits that will make letting go of things we no longer use easier! Great Coffee Talk topic! Much love, Julia ❤

[@CeriGriffiths]

Thank you Julia

[@phyllisj73]

Hi Ceri. I have heard of it before. I read a book about it. To me it means sort things out before we get ill, if possible. Start it in your 50s. I have had conversations with my children and grandchildren. They know my craft supply is important and not just rubbish/paper scraps 😊

[@CeriGriffiths]

Wonderful Phyllis.

[@bohohippiebySonja]

Great chat Ceri. I hadn't heard of this term, but it is very thought provoking indeed. I'm 64 this Monday, & in reasonably good health as far as I know, but life happens all the time... I really need to explore this subject further, & make a plan of action. TY for bringing this subject to light for all of us. xo

[@amyvetter1830]

I haven't heard of it by that name, but we have been talking about it a lot during covid. We are realizing our children don't want all this "crap" we have collected. Especially the garage and attic, closets and junk drawers. They don't have the sentimental ties we have with our stuff. The local charity shops had even stopped taking donations, because they were overloaded by bored people cleaning when they were stuck at home.

[@CeriGriffiths]

Our charity shops did the same.

[@sandrapeel4667]

An interesting and thought provoking chat Ceri!! Have never heard this phrase before either. Thoroughly enjoyed. 😊

[@liekmacgillavry277]

This month I'll be 61 and last year I've been pondering about that too; never heard about it to. I must admit I'm a hoarder too; everything I see a purpose for and everytime I throw something out, I regret it later......besides papercrafts, I spin yarn, make beads, ceramic, sew clothes...... I told my son; when that time comes you are welcome to throw evetything is a rent a container. I am doing my best to work my way through my stuff. I havent bought clotjes for more then two years now. My husband understands and supports me. Last month I had to make room in my atelier and he helped me stuffing some bags with fabrics under a cabinet in the bedroom where my sewing maches are now. After that he grinned at me with a wink; I am so lucky to have found him ❤❤big hug

[@patriciawest3081]

I haven’t heard of this either… But like you it does make sense that one would accomplish this and gift there treasures to whom ever! And As we age we do need to down size …. And keeping everything within the home up to standards can be quite a challenge!! So we can make this a positive 😢occasion, Cleaning out and doing what is necessary , at this moment i am trying to do just this…. And gifting , selling, donating…. As a way to Free my self and make life lighter…. ❤❤❤

[@CeriGriffiths]

Good luck.

[@jandt2344]

There is a book called "The Gentle Art of Death Cleaning" that explains the concept. Basically, don't make someone else deal with all of your stuff, and don't wait until you are physically or mentally unable to deal with your stuff. It takes A LOT of time and work to get rid of things, so start early. I've dealt with 3 family members' estates and it is not a pleasant experience (to put it mildly). I do not want to put anyone through that after I am gone. We can all do a lot right now to make things easier later. I am in the process of doing this in my own house right now. My husband and I are in our early 60's. We've been working at this nearly full time since November and still have lots left to do! It's a lot of very hard work, but feels great! Good luck everyone!

[@jandt2344]

The book is "The Gentle Art of Swedish Death Cleaning"

[@jeanm.peterson6890]

I've heard it called, "Swedish Death Cleaning." I so wish my Mother would have done it. I am starting. Thanks for talking about it.

[@glendaainsworth5221]

I am doing it at 63 because I have had to clean my parent’s house because they have passed away. I call it downsizing, but really it’s not wanting my daughter to have to do that when I am gone. I look at my “stuff” and consider what is a momento and what is just something I wanted at the time and doesn’t have any value to her.

[@carolbain7904]

Heard of this as Swedish Death cleaning thru a You Tube decluttering video.To me a healthy way of addressing the stuff that really needs to be removed from a room/box/garage/etc so that it isn't left for someone else to have to do. Also a controlled way of personal distribution of items collected that another person might not value. A good thing, I believe.

[@debbiemaddock9509]

I'm death cleaning our late parents bungalow and it's really made me question holding onto things. Like you say, what happens after we are gone, my friend and I joke about our crafting hoard and how meaningless it becomes after we are no longer here. No doubt be skipped as unless your a crafter who would appreciate it. Great conversation Ceri. 😊 x

[@robinpowell2712]

I thought of the concept but didn't know the term was death cleaning. Good chat!🎉

[@KristenHigh]

Oh Ceri! What a topic.. I am doing this right now and I am 53.. My children are not interested in most things that we have.. We have gone through the death of my parents, and brothers and an elderly man, and have had to clean out these houses.. Our children are asking us not to leave all anything like that for them.. Down sizing, decluttering, death cleaning.. I must admit, it does feel good to let go of things that I no longer use..

[@Swt.Designs]

I’ve never heard this term either, I don’t know how I feel about this term. Of course we have had a lot of deaths in our family n unfortunately I’m not sure if it’s an American thing… or if it’s just a family by family thing, however funerals here seem to be the perfect timing for family feuding. I find it a lot of times that personal treasures for the people who pass are indeed what remains piled up in a tote or bin n either thrown away or donated. I feel it’s sad that the things that meant the most to the person passing are not known what to do with. Thank you for the food for thought subject, definitively something to ponder over.

[@reneedurling4416]

I look forward to coffee with you Ceri. This is a great topic and something to think about. Thank you for your input on this subject.

[@CeriGriffiths]

You are so welcome!

[@user-gf7vx8qn8q]

Always heard it called Swedish death cleaning. I need to do this! Always enjoy your videos!

[@CeriGriffiths]

Interesting

[@nancypridham6556]

First I’d heard of it was several years ago from a friend in Sweden. Guess it’s been a “thing” there for many years. Since my daughter doesn’t want anything I’m trying to get rid of as much as I can before I die. At 64 I hope I have many years ahead to work through all of my treasures

[@CeriGriffiths]

Nancy we’re the same age, I hope for many years for both of us.

[@ItsOnlyMe13]

I heard about Swedish death cleaning a few years ago. I took early retirement and moved from a very large city to a small town 600km north of the city. I did a major purge of things then. I now do a purge once a month of an area of my new home to keep things in check and to downsize more. I made a digital list of spots in the house and set a timer for an hour and purge away. I have an art room and that’s on the list but I keep skipping over it 😂😂😂. I feel so much lighter in spirit after getting rid of all the excess stuff. Brilliant topic for discussion. Have a fab weekend 😁

[@ThePurrlcat]

Sooooo, I never thot of it as Death Cleaning! I refer to my incident as an "epiphany." About two years ago, I sat down in my messy living room and just thot "What are you doing!?" I suddenly realized I didn't NEED all this stuff any longer. I had been a colle ctor all my life and there just was no room left for any more and I couldn't spend money needed for bills, etc. So, I started giving my stuff away. Instead of buying gifts for birthdays, Christmas, etc. , people got "things off my shelves." Which works well, as most of those I gave things to were also collectors. And I contacted a couple I know who sell things on the internet and now have a nice little income to help pay the bills. Other stuff I donate to the thrift stores. I am homebound now with arthritis and cannot go out to all the places I used to, to buy things, so there's a silver lining to having to stay home. I am 78 yrs old now and really need to be in a "home" as I cannot keep up with a house and pets properly anymore. But that's a whole other story. When you get this old, you just realize you cannot take all your stuff with you when you die, so you just get rid of it now and let someone else enjoy it OR sell it and use that money for something you need. I suppose you could call it Death Cleaning, but I don't like the term. It's just a common sense thing you do when you get older.😸😽👵🐈💋

[@sheilahamill3516]

I have never heard of it, Ceri, but I have been doing it for the past year or so! I had to clear my brothers house and I vowed my children wouldn't have to go through that. A good topic.

[@sheilahamill3516]

PS I am not ready to step off yet, :.) I just want to clear some of the mountain of stuff I know I am not going to use

[@CeriGriffiths]

Yup Shiela, decluttering simplifying.

[@ewalundgren1637]

Hello Ceri! I’m from Sweden and I’ve heard of ”the swedish death cleaning” for some years now. However I’m not good of it myself. Now both my parentes past, and I have lots of things, that is very hard to give away. They hold lots of memories. But I have to do it. The things take to much of the space in our house. My husbands parents have also died a few years ago. I had too much things before I took home my patents things. Even If its not everything that was in there home. Now I have to do my own ”death cleaning”!!! I don’t want my children to have the same problem with all this stuff that I had with it all. The things can be valuebal to others so I’m must give a LOT away. Even If it is hard!! Starting this spring:) Thank you for this episod, Ceri! You are an amazing artist!:)☀️💙

[@joannoble500]

My first time hearing this saying. I must do this cleaning right now before I'm unable to. My husband died last fall, and my granddaughters and I have to move. It will be 64 years of accumulation to sort through. Ugh.

[@CeriGriffiths]

Great opportunity to declutter and bond at the same time.