‘Having My Mom Live With Us Was A Complete Nightmare,’ Claims Woman Who Had CPS Called On Her

[@laineyjane22]

That cat took its shot and never looked back.

[@brinjoe]

Laine best me to it 😝

[@franci.f.]

ahahahhahaha U were able to transform a dramatic situation in a funny one with few words. I would kill my self if someone leaves the door open and i loose my beloved cats.

[@mirandatwumasi]

LMAOOO This comment tickled me

[@JusticeForNicholeAlloway]

There are street cats that will return to the same house every day if you leave food out for them, this lady must have been the worst for that cat to bolt.

[@Momofukudoodoowindu]

@@JusticeForNicholeAlloway True. There are also the house cats that turn feral once they leave.

[@Aquarius1930]

Even the cat got tired of living there and left lmao

[@lyfewithfena843]

😂

[@boomboom6577]

😹😹😹😹😿😂😂

[@Jeremiasdagerm]

😹😹😹

[@alejgr1]

😹

[@anissavue8179]

I was the 1,000 like

[@lovegracewisdom]

They’re all petty. They’re all lazy. They’re all liars. The cat knew when to go and never look back.

[@geeksimmer2488]

amen

[@prk2i]

Ya!!!

[@LoverofSunflowernBees]

Your right but the friend should called the CPS if the children are being beat and they are physically sick due to their living conditions!

[@heckboi402]

The cat must've been the smartest out of this whole situation

[@SynterraSteen]

Tbh as lazy as the wife probably is, where do you think she learned it from? The mom is probably just as lazy which is why it was an issue to help.

[@nobodymatters3294]

Your genius is showing

[@akaDICworldwide]

Thank you! Preach!

[@zeinmarwan8920]

Bingo

[@RayneZaleska]

Not really. Growing up I had a friend who grew up to be a complete slob to the point it was hard to walk into her apartment from the shear amount of garbage on the floor. Her mother always kept her house spotless. So sometimes its not "like mother like daughter". What I think happened its either the mother coddled the daughter and did everything for her including picking up after her (as my friend mother did) or she was dirty and taught her to be dirty.

[@tinathompson7442]

That's not her mom, it's her MIL. But the place has definitely been filthy for some time if they couldn't or wouldn't let Dr. Phil's people in . . .that mandated reporting will get ya every time

[@TruecrimerSalad]

CPS ain't worried about some dirty dishes. There more to this story

[@100Haidyn]

Right, thats why they wouldn't let them film inside her house. Lazy afff

[@jessicas2092]

The house has to be filthy. Or the report was so detailed that it made them go out.

[@cindyvaughn6211]

Well obviously they still have their kids so cps wasnt too worried

[@dragon83455]

I feel sorry for the cat to deal with all these crazy people and the kids

[@misha-lamegericke2751]

Thats what I'm saying!

[@inspectorsteve2287]

It sounds like they are full of excuses. Your house is filthy because you're lazy and you're not teaching your kids to pick up after themselves.

[@lindaanis5574]

Even my 4 yo son, know what to do when he spill his drink on the floor... Take the cloth and wipe it,

[@toriannalanam5341]

They are liars. That house is definitely trashed if they didn't let Dr. Phil's crew in there to film.

[@catherinedavis-sparks2669]

Not necessarily. From what I know they usually interview the whole family at the same time. If the parents work opposite work schedules and communication is off, then it is completely plausible that they just couldn't get everyone together to do the home interview. Besides, CPS can't take children based on dirty dishes and clothes on the floor. They have to have a doctor or law enforcement call them to take the kids. Cockroaches are a common intercity problem, no matter how clean you are, so that is no indication of dirtiness. It's like mice in forested areas, they need a place to live with food nearby. Doesn't mean the home isn't clean, just that nature likes you extra specially. Five days for photos makes sense as well, especially based on what they said and how they interact. If the grandma said she would help. she should have. I have been in that situation, and I have seen the results of that. I let my mother live with me rent free to watch the kids (two girls) while I worked. I ended up losing my job because she would show up to my job with them and claim she just couldn't do it. She would berate my managers about my work schedule, made my date pay her the one time I went out without the kids, and told me to keep him because he knows the rules(?). She was living rent free with all her belongings in my home, I barely had any of my stuff, then she threw it all out when I moved out and destroyed our written agreement about my things being stored in the basement room until I got a truck to move everything. I had collectables and things of sentimental value down there, and she couldn't get down the stairs anyways. So I sympathize with the daughter and son in law, but I think that charging 650 for rent and cable is a bit excessive on top of childcare and helping around the house.

[@robertlefeaux]

@@catherinedavis-sparks2669 So I guess this is only the third time in the history of Dr Phils show that two people had conflicting work schedules? Five days sounds like they they wanted time to clean up their pig sty for the photos.

[@janjbowman]

lil alexus And they wanted an elderly woman that happens to be their mother to clean in for them. I could never treat my mother like that .

[@katiekilgore6319]

Love how defensive they got about it all

[@brendabautista9683]

@@janjbowman and charge her $650 month

[@bonitaohyea9258]

There is a clear difference between HELPING with the cleaning and childcare than being the full time cleaner and daycare.

[@sweett5896]

@@breakfastattiffanys741 yes help, not do it all. Also, if my mother needed to live with me I would take her in for no rent, no chores. Common a friend & a parent are totally different things! My mother raised me & cleaned up for me for 18 years, the least I could do is return the favor a bit. She gave you life!

[@googlyeyedcat]

@@sweett5896 you are a good daughter.

[@ar12781]

Nectar Nympth it’s her mom like she lucky to have a house when’s she is a kid so help your mom when she is older

[@290wayne]

Can you say "oink"

[@thesuitshow9944]

my grandma lives with my family, she pays a pretty cheap rent and helps clean.

[@candiiyadigg3880]

Um so she had to pay $650 a month to be a maid and nanny ? Yeeeaahh no ... I’d rather live in my car lmao weird they wouldn’t let them in and couldn’t send pics ....

[@Andrea-mg9py]

I would never charge my mother rent. I would never ask for a formal agreement with my mum. This is odd family behaviour to me.

[@1stYoutubeHandle]

They have no love no relationship at all

[@clubsnatcher]

Two unhealthy ladies!

[@julianacaroline9237]

At most I'd ask my mother to help out with cooking and maybe groceries from time to time. I could never imagine charging my mother for rent.

[@music0cool]

I mean my parents charge my sister rent, I don’t think its so strange. Adults need to pitch in, pull their own weight

[@blackswan1983]

I would, because I wouldn't be able to afford having her around otherwise. My budget is beyond tight.

[@eirazeas]

When the guy is asking his MOTHER IN LAW to move in... Then you know the wife is lazy.... *They wanted a free or low budget maid* 🤷‍♀️☻

[@niamphdollieofficial]

I mean the guy's equally as lazy if he doesn't try to help either 🤷🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️ I just leave all the housework to the woman and then call her lazy 🙄

[@eirazeas]

@@niamphdollieofficial True...

[@PrincessZaire100]

Eira Zea they said that she couldn’t afford to live own her and feed herself so they moved in

[@trucnguyen7155]

Imani Floyd yeah, a maid that pays them an additional rent of $650/month, why not LOL?

[@haileyrafferty2372]

Accurate

[@MichellesDollCollection]

As a mom... If my kids needed help... I would do the dishes.

[@tima2553]

That mom is 70! She already did her daughter dishes with she gave birth to her!

[@ShivalinyNaidu]

Agree with you...

[@humble305]

@@tima2553 and as ammo on 70 if I can't afford my rent and came to live with my daughter I would help with anything in the house

[@staceystrukel1917]

@@tima2553 then she shouldn't live there. My mom is 71 and quite capable of doing dishes especially if she lived in MY house. When I lived in HER house I did dishes. You've got anger issues.

[@redXmamba]

Very nice of you. If you have adult children however, they are capable of doing the dishes.

[@joschannel2026]

Are they just gonna ignore the fact the mom accused their house of being infested with roaches

[@jennipritt8546]

Jo’s Channel it’s probably true!!!

[@xmxchhx6109]

yes, it’s her daughter, son in law, and their children. jk

[@hyesky26]

The daughter is dirty before before the mother came in.. their intentions were to get their mom in to be their personal slaves.. shame on you!

[@biancapierce2849]

If I'm cleaning and babysitting I'm gone need a discount on that 650

[@michellecox8538]

Right?650?🙅🏻

[@judithlanda4728]

Yea she’s supposed to help but it’s not her job to clean EVERYDAY.

[@pillskrips]

judith landa and thats on crickets 🦗!

[@sailormoon206]

If she's living there rent free then she should clean. No clean & neat person would tolerate a nasty house, period.

[@nanna12crhil66]

@@sailormoon206 she was supposed to be paying $650 a month.

[@Kyotopearl]

sailormoon206 asking her to clean, take care of the kids AND pay 650 for rent is asking way TOO much. I think it would have been reasonable to ask her to put in towards utilities and food and help with kids and chores but then NO rent. But I really can’t blame them for kicking her out once child protective services gets involved

[@judithlanda4728]

sailormoon206 she had to pay

[@bookcontroversy7641]

Can the husband say anything else that ISNT ‘because of my work schedule...’ ? He keeps deviating from the question

[@niamphdollieofficial]

Men always use that excuse 🙄🙄🙄 you're a hard-working husband like there is single mothers out there with three jobs and can handle children better than this guy just an excuse not to do anything

[@jenniferb.awesome]

Right? My husband works all day and still comes home and helps me out with our 3 kids and cleaning. This guy is just lazy and is making up excuses for it.

[@jodarklunia]

Them not allowing the show to come shoot there just proves the accusations. I have 4 kids yes it can get messy quick!!! But dishes are always done sweeping is done. I might leave a toy or two out but it gets cleaned regardless. 15minutes in the evening of quick cleaning does the job especially of you keep up with it throughout the day

[@JusticeForNicholeAlloway]

So what you're saying is grandma couldn't be bothered with doing 15 minutes of work every day in exchange for a place to live, then called the cops on her own granddaughter, and that's cool with you.

[@jodarklunia]

@@JusticeForNicholeAlloway I'm talking about them now! Yes grandma could of helped for sure shes not innocent.

[@1stYoutubeHandle]

@@JusticeForNicholeAlloway she pays her rent 😑🖕

[@dropexpectations12]

@@1stKZbinHandle really? Why flip her off when you don't get what she says

[@jesussaves6625]

JusticeForNichole- it wasn't just fifteen minutes of cleaning in exchange for a place to live, though. It was $650/mo for a room to rent, plus being responsible for the childcare and being responsible for cleaning a house that was trashed on arrival.

[@MalloryHasCats]

Oddly enough I'm kind of on Mom's side. Sounds to me like they wanted someone to give them money AND do the chores. Then they let their kids do whatever they want - I'd put a deadbolt on my door too.

[@sableann4255]

Me too

[@victoriaivagba7607]

Grandma told to pay rent (abomination in my culture) and still do child care and cleaning? Hello

[@says101]

im on neither side. theyre all morons!

[@nickieh2735]

Mallory's Outlet honestly I’m not saying that here calling the cops was smart because it was definitely stupid and moronic. But they had her paying 600 for rent 50 for cable then doing babysitting and house cleaning. Idk where they live but typically a good babysitting charges between 15 and 25 and hour for one kids then they add a couple bucks per additional kid so they got free childcare instead of paying a couple hundred a week. Then they got free housecleaning instead of paying money for a house cleaner. They were taking full advantage of that women. I would have also but a deadbolt on my door. She needed tome to herself to and her own personal space.

[@nancyramos48]

Sounds like a dirty house to me 😂

[@psmiththeking]

She didn't help because yall were living in squalor before she moved in.

[@jesussaves6625]

Exactly. You can tell the husband only decided to move his mother in law in because he wanted more money and a maid to do the chores and watch the children.

[@tinathompson7442]

Yeh it was probably impossible for her to get the place straightened out by herself . . .and paying $600 a month to live with them, why should she be the only one cleaning up the mess?

[@testedtried1233]

And grandma was homeless and ungrateful

[@psmiththeking]

@@testedtried1233 she didn't become homeless until they gave her the boot. What should she be grateful about?

[@anarchist_parable]

$650 is rent for a single person anyway. Then that and babysitting. I feel like the mom made the commitment to help and then they treated her like she was supposed to do all of it i.e. stopped cleaning the house and dealing with their own children. I hate lazy people that try to blame working on making them incapable of raising their family. If you can't go to work and maintain your home, you're not an adult. There's no situation where you could say "oh I just stopped doing laundry because I have a job." You suck.

[@ashleyhardy6297]

Hyacinth Niemann I was thinking the same thing! I would never charge my mom or my own family that much, of that was the case you could just get your own. I’m renting a 2 bedroom ranch house for 650 lolll. That’s crazy 😩😩

[@Beeagoodperson]

They charged their mom. Greedy. Plus she had to do domestic and babysitting at her age. Shame on them. Wish the same on her.

[@shayheard1466]

Thank you

[@yvonnetaylor9331]

Demi Dubach studio is different. That is a whole apartment. I love in the most expensive place to live in the the US and you can still find a closet like room for 650/700, in a 4-5 bedroom apt with roommates. They are few and far in between, but they exist. Charging you grandmother 650 + childcare + cleaning is just disgusting. People offer free room and board for childcare and LIGHT cleaning here to complete strangers.

[@meganbasini4757]

Hyacinth Niemann before covid I was working a full time job and a 30hour extra job. My house was still cleaned and laundry done during that time

[@ashleyjamison5518]

That cat said "bye" 😂😂

[@sophisticatedmm3632]

Hilarious

[@Jeremiasdagerm]

😹😹😹

[@nicdoe7436]

Byyyeeeeee

[@nieyana9442]

The only person who isn't lying. That cat just left. Great decision.

[@raniayasmine6308]

😂😂😂

[@themithegangsta09]

“She accused your two year old of losing her cat.” *What-*

[@obsant7214]

Haha the daughter and son in law are just making a million and one excuses 😂🤦‍♂️

[@shontae445]

Grandma looks a little off but believe when she said the house had roaches and many dirty dishes

[@JusticeForNicholeAlloway]

She agreed though that she would do that work.

[@babygirl9397]

@@JusticeForNicholeAlloway she agreed to HELP with cleaning. Not do everything.

[@dl5fse990]

Newt Queen Yeah there’s a difference between helping around the house and being a 24/7 maid who pays rent

[@countryexplorerlady916]

If the house is disgusting and the grandma had to take care of kids. She shouldn't have to pay rent. That was good enough

[@agotapongor2069]

@@JusticeForNicholeAlloway She agreed that she helps with chores and helps babysit. What kind of children steal from grandma???

[@pjp8648]

The fact that she calls her mom “Liz” is shocking to me.

[@animesong10hourschallengeb79]

I think alot of westerners call their parents/ aunts, uncles etc by the name. Totally rude to us asians, as it shows we got no respect for our elders

[@margaretmaclure6164]

P Jp that man is being dramatic all the time and that woman is horrible to call her mother liz that’s so horrible shows the way they are . He says his wife had health issues maybe she does I have it myself but to have your older mother slave cleaning is so wrong

[@winterbirds8022]

@@animesong10hourschallengeb79 Most of us think its disrespectful too,at least I do! I wonder how that gets started to call ur parents by thier name? I couldnt,I think its disrespectful and would just feel so awkward.

[@theroadtocosplayandcomicco5840]

@@winterbirds8022 the first thing my parents taught me was their names, their phone numbers,my home address. I do believe its disrespectful to call your parents by name but you do need to know their names in case something happens .

[@francesthepossum1812]

My mom and her sisters call my grandma by her name. It’s not a disrespect thing, it’s just because when they were little, my grandma was always around her sisters in law (they all live in the same area). So when they called to her as “mom”, no one knew who they were talking about. So they just started calling her “Sue” so it wouldn’t cause confusion.

[@thackergeorgina]

OMG the woman is 70 years old. Charging her rent, expecting her to housekeep for 3 adults, 4 children is just too much. Help, fair enough but not do it all 🤦

[@mommamia4630]

I think the parents thought they would have grandma move in and she was going to pick up the slack like cooking and cleaning and watching the kids. Sorry guys, that only happens with the Asians and Latins lol

[@simplymejourney998]

More than dishes was dirty that’s why they couldn’t film the house.

[@ohiogirl8703]

The fact that this daughter calls her own mother Liz. I am also not buying that child protective services showed up over a couple of dirty dishes, it takes more than that. What don’t they want Dr. Phil and his team to see...

[@Карова-ц8ц]

Ohio Girl no matter what the reason is, if a call is made, DCF must investigate.

[@ohiogirl8703]

Tatsi ___oOh lLa lLa my great aunt worked for them in Ohio and that’s not always true. If it is known it is a frivolous call they can send a welfare check of sorts but it’s not a full on investigation. They get calls were people are just trying to stir up trouble and than their are really homes that need looked at and children that need to be protected.

[@onceinabluemoon91]

That is so cringeworthy each time she calls her own mother Liz? That’s so disrespectful smh

[@agotapongor2069]

These parents are absolutely lazy. I am old and my tactic is, I do something, take some rest, do something again, next rest and so on. At the end I am done. It takes more time but enough time to rest as well.

[@donnagelina8548]

I had never even heard the term "CPS" or "Child Protective Services" when I was growing up.

[@dropexpectations12]

You're lucky!

[@jenniferb.awesome]

You must of had a really nice and loving family

[@sophisticatedmm3632]

Ive heard of DCFS

[@marleycurtis794]

must be nice

[@teresabasinger5965]

Me either. And I never had a visit from them while raising my boys!

[@annepedroza]

Daughter calling mom, “Liz.” smh letting mom do all the house chores.

[@Nicurru]

The one im feeling most bad for, is the cat. I hope she found a better home.

[@cocobutter7667]

On my my understanding this woman is just Lazy but wanted to use her mom as maid

[@kkjay951]

Coco Butter I was thinking the same thing

[@mydogsioux]

*maid

[@calamitynatalie8590]

On the other hand though, that was part of the agreement when she moved in. I was in a situation once where I moved in with family and part was that I would help out. I did everything possible because I was so grateful to them! There were 9 people in the house, I did laundry, dishes, cleaning toilets, vacuuming, dusting...everything just to show my appreciation. I would see something was amiss and tidy it, if I saw someone get up to make coffee I would hop up and beat them to it for them! Don’t be ungrateful when invited into someone else’s home. That is their house, their space that you are in.

[@cocobutter7667]

mydogsioux 🙄🙄🙄🙄

[@sixfeetundertheradar6080]

Calamity Natalie exactly, plus both parents had full time jobs. Though the house should never have been that dirty.

[@caroldriehorst1165]

The daughter is lazy, she's young and she expects to older Mom to do all the work. If I was that Grandma , I wouldn't even want to live in that nasty house.

[@oomma5]

But she is homeless now and wants to get back

[@caroldriehorst1165]

@@oomma5 Then I guess she'll have to do all the cleaning.

[@agotapongor2069]

Oh, I remember, I was 12 and I had to do all chores what my mother hated to do.

[@kathconserv]

Maybe she was ill.

[@heckboi402]

Girl my friend has 7 kids including her, and all of their friends, and their house is normal.

[@SusanMinhTrangNguyen]

My parents took care of me and now that they are retired, they live with me and we take care of them! I would never treat my parents like that!

[@daisycassidy2448]

Having the mother-in-law pay $650 rent plus $50 cable TV sounds excessive to me in addition to expecting her to babysit 4 children. Part of the story is missing, I'm sure.

[@kathconserv]

You don’t know what their relationship is. How do you know that her mother wasn’t nurturing growing up.

[@pawpawmeowmi8889]

i would never do that to my mother, she sacrificed her life to raise me for free, now as an adult and mom i always make my mother like a queen when my mother is in my house

[@nataleesongs7259]

This woman sounds lazy and expected her mom to do it all-The place was filthy when she moved in-AH!!!!

[@Poo_78]

Uhh when the daughter was a kid the mom gave her a roof over her head for free.... but she’s charging her mom rent??? i could never do that to my mom

[@stormykins1009]

Ikr brutel

[@mouldysushi]

You have to provide shelter for your child it’s the law. The mom isn’t a child she isn’t owed anything. They probably don’t have enough money bc they have 4 kids 🙄

[@_TIO]

Maybe it depends on the mother and daughter dynamic, but if I moved back into my mother's house I'd want to help with bills and such since I'd be adding to her electricity and gas bills, along with food bills. And vice versa really. If my mother moved in with me she would want to financially help me out too. I really think it depends on you as a person and your relationship with your parents and its also fine to say you wouldn't charge them anything.

[@xTwilightWolvesx]

Ugh Ugh Your parents provided you the basic essentials for survival because you weren’t old enough to provide for yourself and they chose to have you. That doesn’t mean you owe your parents anything.

[@emilyc9846]

Children don’t ask to be born. The parent decided to have a child, the parent is in charge of that child. Her mother is capable of pulling her own weight. They did her a FAVOUR by letting her move in when she couldn’t afford her rent.

[@miltoncat]

Millions of couples work different schedules and have kids, and somehow manage to clean the house.

[@pillskrips]

That makes no sense, they think she should be the only one that should clean, but all of them need to clean.🥴

[@supremequeen1272]

She needs to teach her children responsibility and how to pick up and clean after themselves as well💁

[@agotapongor2069]

And do not steal. The kid steal at age 6.

[@marthaalavez1537]

I love how de Phil calls these people on their bs. 😂

[@darksoul479]

If the cat took off and didn't come back, that means it's not a very good place to live. Cats have built-in GPS they never get lost. If that cat didn't come back there was a reason. I understand them wanting their mother to help out a little bit, but why should she have to clean up after their whole family?

[@ShealMB79]

Not quite true. Most cats will actually stick close to their home (is not roamers or naturally outdoor cats) if they are indoor cats. In fact, they'll hide even, out if fear. Sometimes they hide from familiar voices and humans because of that fear. They hunker down and hide, sometimes to their own detriment.

[@theonejokeking3191]

Cats have to be inside for a certain period of time when they move or they will not be able to relocate back to their home.

[@amandaagnew6787]

@@theonejokeking3191 when I moved, I only moved down the street from my old home. My cat got out and we found her in the yard of our old house. The cat was probably trying to figure out how to get back to it's old home.

[@ohaidenny9852]

my cat was killed by a fox 😭 RIP Kiko

[@agotapongor2069]

I could understand if the family is poor and grandma has money, she helps them out occasionally. But here it is not the case.

[@lisaann0128]

The cat made a great escape from the castle of dirtiness.

[@ajokpatricia8021]

At your mother age, your children will treat u the same way u are treating your mother. What goes around, comes around

[@Sarah.Jade.]

Didn't the Grandma admit she called CPS and asked them not to report, but also, she said that she sent photos to a friend and they called CPS. Like pick one ●~●

[@SophiaGoodThings]

They wanted her to be a live-in nanny and pay rent. That's not right.

[@correaplayz01nunya93]

Ha Dr. Phil doesn't let people get away with lame excuses and half answers to his questions! He won't let it go- reminds me of my mom during my teen years- I couldn't get away with ANYTHING

[@PoeticAmmunition.]

Lollll he lets them babble round n round then just asks the question again🤣

[@niamphdollieofficial]

*lucky

[@steph8703]

Id be pissed if someone lost my cat. Theyre like family. Id never get over that.

[@foechicken8023]

Short answer? Yea, their home was a pig pen.

[@brookescheumann729]

The house was probably a huge mess. Yes. But dirty dishes is not a reason for CPS. So that part confuses me.

[@tiffanys7939]

They live in a messy house lol that’s way too many excuses.

[@WallStreetWill86]

Sink with dirty dishes??! 😂 You think they would be more concerned with the parent who is out there putting cigarettes out on their kids or holding their hand on the stove. There WAY more important thing going on CPS. Come on.

[@amuthaoly1590]

It is "refreshing" to see examples of misbehaving parents on Dr. Phil instead of misbehaving children...

[@SeizethedayRa]

Yeah that house was dirty AF. Just admit it girl. You're going through something and it's a mess. No shame in that.

[@Bhalforii]

These godawful wigs. 79 million a year and he cant pay for a decent wig.

[@lf3541]

I KNOW, RIGHT!? 😂

[@lf3541]

@Creed Bratton A good percentage of the guests on the show (women especially) are wearing artificial hair. You're a guy, right? You probably never noticed. Us gals are tricky. Lol.

[@lf3541]

@Creed Bratton Sorry if I presumed and insulted you! Yup. Wigs. And lots of his guests do it, but I couldn't tell you why. I surmise they believe they are in some disguise, lol. That super shiny synthetic hair is a dead giveaway. The irregular hairline weirdness is another. Whoever runs that department does these guests dirty, lol.

[@lamyabecker6097]

Shoot If I was that cat i would not want to come back either 😂😂

[@chrysichrysi7889]

Without making excuses for the daughter and her husband...the irony of this is that if grandma was dissatisified with how the housework and raising the kids was done by her daughter (even though Grandma was supposed to help out...wich in itself shows her miserable character), then that's a direct reflection of how she raised her daughter. This is what many parents of grown kids don't understand, you can't write checks you can't cash because you never invested propperly in the first place. 🤷‍♀️ That's just not how that works. Don't raise your kids as goldfish then be shocked when they fail to walk on land. Lol.

[@qimatswift4829]

Eeeeexactly.

[@agotapongor2069]

@@qimatswift4829 Grandma knows that, she was her favor child. Now she pays for that not you or me.

[@lordbaconabdi8624]

They are nasty, she wanted to use the old lady when she couldnt clean after them and pay 650 . They trash her

[@jnieswartz4878]

She made excuse after excuse after why the house was disgusting

[@maryamalmansoori6267]

She is 70!!!! Nothing left to leave ! Plz take care of her!!!!!!

[@dolled-upjen3606]

There is an untold background of the dynamic between mom and daughter.... She calls her mom by her first name

[@tylergnosis2581]

So the mom acts a fool and gets upset when kicked out

[@ashleyscout4848]

How are you going to charge your mom rent after all the years she took care of you

[@agotapongor2069]

@Cheri Merchant They should pay 6 times $650.

[@pandaweeb4665]

Look at how nervous the mom and husbans is and how chill the grandma is SUSPICFIOUS

[@sherricarlson839]

As I see it, these two entitled people expected the mother to do everything. They expect the grandmother to be the maid basically. I would and could NEVER let my mother be homeless, no matter what!

[@alexisrose3836]

That cat said" I'm not living in this mess😾"

[@sydonnewarren6776]

I think if they wanted the mom to clean they should have cleaned the house first then just had her maintain it. It's hard to start with a huge mess and be expected to clean it by yourself

[@twinniedavidson9909]

Her mother should pay rent and be the maid? How 😞

[@66hoodwitch]

Bro, if the cat left that means it was really bad in the house! Cats like to "hunt" around, but if it loves you and feels safe with you, it will come back. I've raised 16 throughout my teen years and into adulthood ...I'm a cat person, big time. This poor cat is better off out with someon better! And so are the kids, apparently..🤨

[@pshamlet8005]

Why does she call her mother Liz, first?

[@travelingtootie6945]

I had 3 surgeries in a 4 month period a husband that works full time and 3 children and not EVER was my house so bad child protective services were called out. ESPECIALLY WHEN YOU HAVE A DISHWASHER YOU COULD LOAD🤦🏾‍♀️

[@Snappldel]

Did you have a crazy mother living at your house who calls emergency services for fun?

[@travelingtootie6945]

MilkaC her mother is no longer in the house but yet the house is still so unkept that they refused to allow filming. Mom batCrap crazy but her butt lazy as well

[@agotapongor2069]

@@travelingtootie6945 Lazy? She keeps clean and organized her car where she living now.

[@agotapongor2069]

@@travelingtootie6945 Lazy 70 olds do not do laundry 8 hours per day for their lazy family. Or do you think otherwise?

[@Fake-rt9uk]

why are they just using "my work schedule" as an excuse to everything "hey why's your house burning" "my work schedule is tight so I can't really put out the fire at the moment"

[@mantakiteke1390]

H I'm worried about the daughter's upbringing, the fact that she calls her mom by her name instead of mom, that raise an alarm

[@rukhsanakhan8857]

She wasnt your servant ...you should never have made such an agreement in the first place

[@babsdolson]

Mom moving in is NEVER a good idea.

[@DianaLopezDlo]

Family is family. My mom will never be in an old folks' home as long as I'm around

[@babsdolson]

Good luck with that. Let us know how that goes.

[@dropexpectations12]

I agree Barb. It's a boundary issue in my opinion and even worse if you don't get along

[@DianaLopezDlo]

I will. It happens in my family regularly. My mom worked at an old folks home so we both know what happens there. May your tiny heart know the meaning of family some day.

[@babsdolson]

Ooh. My heart is normal, but I watched my sister care for my elderly parents. She GREATLY regretted her decision.

[@wyatthagel3842]

There is definitely WAY more to this story. I highly doubt dirty dishes was a priority for cps to get involved

[@1thousandteeth]

the most surprising part of this video is the fact that the comment section is open lmaoooooooo

[@sylencecured77]

YES, INDEED *

[@caity9244]

We didn't have a work schedule that allowed a camera crew in our home.......but we had time to fly here and come on the show. 🤔😂😂😂

[@wtfishappening2490]

I don't think I would be comfortable letting a camera crew into my home either.. especially not for millions of people to see. Am I weird for liking my privacy?

[@chickadee39]

No hunni not weird.. I personally would have let them in to prove a point to million of viewers my house was clean!.. I would only refuse if it was indeed dirty or take pics to show.. I think it's safe to say if it had fleas and cockroaches it was dirty.. Xx

[@conniethompson6976]

What kind of mother takes a pic of HER child's shortcomings instead of simply helping out, DAMN!

[@ikmnification5737]

This entire family has issues with accountability, you can see a huge crack in their character at 3:45

[@Dr.Philth008]

It seems like they’re mad that she wasn’t doing every single thing they wanted and they were hoarders

[@agotapongor2069]

YES!!!

[@jacobburdak3430]

I don’t know who’s side to pick 🤦‍♂️

[@agotapongor2069]

Grow up. No doubt that grandma's behavior is particularly nasty, but otherwise she is absolutely right.

[@dalaynamedina8608]

As a woman I would never let my house get that dirty, ever. I don’t care if I was working 3 jobs. Imma clean. 😑 and that lady was WRONG for kicking her mother out. 650 a month and being a live in nanny. PICK ONE!!!

[@crystaltheo8494]

With cps on them I wouldnt let anyone in my house either. They arent entitled to use there house as entertainment.

[@PlsWaLuigiDomMe]

"she even put a deadbolt on her door to ensure the kids wouldn't go in her room" How dare an elderly woman who is paying rent to stay in your house want a moment to herself. The absolute horror/s. These people are just so lazy it's disgusting. The mother is definitely nuts too, but Christ they're expectation that she pay rent, be a 24/7 babysitter, and also clean their whole house is so gross and absolutely vile

[@agotapongor2069]

You forgot that the kids went into grandma's room to steal her belongings.

[@joshuaupham5993]

Dirty dishes? Come get my kid...🤣

[@jesussaves6625]

You know it wasn't just dirty dishes, though. CPS wouldn't be contacted over that. These people wouldn't even let Dr Phil into their house to see how bad it was.

[@4x3ll3x2]

Some dirty dishes aint that bad- no need to call CPS.

[@beththewicca]

That house is definitely nasty. That woman probably comes home from work and sits and eats. Smh, the excuses. Help those children!

[@TwanVRr39O]

Liars, house is dirty refuse dr Phil crew to come in. Then clean house, take photos a week later 😭😭😭 come on

[@thischannelisactiverightno6888]

She called the cops she's insane

[@ComettableMabel]

Benita - whilst coming to post I glanced and read yours and I need say no more . Laziness is all the problem is, don’t need the drama stinks of cant be arsed .

[@mistyblue8913]

Parents with multiple young children have dirty houses, this is ridiculous.

[@dropexpectations12]

Dirty no, messy for sure.

[@worms3656]

Yeah, not dirty. You cannot just say that universally. We have two young kids. Our house gets messy/cluttered, but I clean it up by the end of the day and we start fresh the next day.

[@gadearayed2457]

Messy yes but not piled up dishes, I came from a big family and out house was always clean

[@johngreene9220]

Ok...2 sides here...one...I would never charge my mother rent...2nd...if shes babysitting...shes done it...on the other hand...if shes complaining about the surroundings...yea...she shouldn't be there