Having Pride | Thomas Sanders

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Thomas Sanders

Thomas Sanders

7 жыл бұрын

This month is Pride Month, and its a very important time to be educated and pay tribute to those who came before us fighting the struggles for equality and the present fight that still is being fought against oppression today. It's also, I think, a good time to come together and be proud of who we are. This can be tough sometimes, as it was for so many of my friends and I. So I decided, for this video, to do something special, and sit down with a lot of my friends and answer some questions you all may have had about our personal experiences with our identity.We don't represent everyone on the spectrum, and we can only speak from our own personal experiences, we don't know everything, but hopefully, something we say may help some of you out there watching. I talk way more personally and openly about myself than I usually do here, so forgive my nervousness and I hope you enjoy.
Thank you to my amazing, wonderful, and supportive friends for appearing and talking in this video, too!
Alex: • Video (KZbin)
Jay/Jo: @jayharper_official (IG); @jayisjo (Tumblr & Twitter)
Joan: @welcome_to_the_joangle (IG); @welcome-to-the-joangle (Tumblr)
Rose Porter: / @roseporter1543 (KZbin)
Talyn: @tallykat3 (Instagram, Tumblr, and Twitter)
Skylar: @skylar.mojica (Instagram)
Thank you to Drew Gooden for helping with the edit & thumbnail for this video!
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@sophiah3855
@sophiah3855 5 жыл бұрын
"I came out because of you!" "No, I came out because of YOU!" and thats when it becomes a no u battle
@xo_akiko2755
@xo_akiko2755 5 жыл бұрын
:D :D this is underrated.
@Jabberwoot
@Jabberwoot 5 жыл бұрын
Me and my friend
@yellow1433
@yellow1433 5 жыл бұрын
What in the world, this comment says something I read from Mr. Beasts comment section, but when I click on it it says the thing I think you really said
@yaeified
@yaeified 5 жыл бұрын
@mirrorcity4872
@mirrorcity4872 5 жыл бұрын
Gottem🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈
@lehighguy
@lehighguy 7 жыл бұрын
For four years I didn't tell my best friend that I was gay. I was afraid that, as a straight man, he'd no longer see me as "one of the guys" if he knew. Recently, I finally came out to him and told him I have a boyfriend. Right away, he told me that he's bisexual and also has a boyfriend, which I never knew. After that, we opened up to each other and the walls came down. We were both hiding our lives from each other out of fear, and it turns out there was nothing to be afraid of! It was a fantastic moment.
@arthurstable223
@arthurstable223 7 жыл бұрын
lehighguy awww good for you guys!
@Maya-bk8wv
@Maya-bk8wv 7 жыл бұрын
lehighguy aawww! That's like the ideal coming out to your friend story lol
@kitchensinkchronicles3272
@kitchensinkchronicles3272 7 жыл бұрын
lehighguy it's so great you both are finally being open and honest about who you are to each other. i send you all the luck and good vibes needed to keep this beautiful friendship alive.
@stonks6936
@stonks6936 7 жыл бұрын
lehighguy Awwww OMG that's beautiful I'm going to cry
@ThatKortsen
@ThatKortsen 7 жыл бұрын
This is the sweetest fucking thing ever :) this would be so awesome as the plot for a shortfilm, to show people that it might lead to something good if you come out :)
@bagle02
@bagle02 4 жыл бұрын
10:30 “Who are some lgbtq+ people you looked up to as a kid” You guys. You guys helped me a lot in the year and a half since I realized that I wasn’t straight. Thank you, guys, gals, and nonbinary pals.
@raccoonboy6601
@raccoonboy6601 4 жыл бұрын
ikr them and the fab 5
@samlionb
@samlionb 4 жыл бұрын
With me its Ellen and them. Because i cant really watch Ellen a lot, but these guys i can watch all day everyday
@jupiterboers8453
@jupiterboers8453 4 жыл бұрын
Same
@NovaZoom
@NovaZoom 4 жыл бұрын
Yes!! This is so true! Its Thomas, Talyn, and Joan who sort of helped me realize that i was non-binary and that there would be people in the world who respected my pronouns!
@elinjones4743
@elinjones4743 4 жыл бұрын
Same.
@alexclifford6792
@alexclifford6792 4 жыл бұрын
"Are you gay? And why?" Well, you see, I heard Sweater Weather and ended up falling in to this rabbit hole of existential fear and gayness.
@pete_the_pterodactyl1223
@pete_the_pterodactyl1223 3 жыл бұрын
Well you see I had a taste of the straight pie and I didn't really like it. So I settled on blackberry pie. my sexuality is Blackberry
@TumbleBell
@TumbleBell 3 жыл бұрын
Well, you see, i opened tiktok and it hit me.
@UVJorD
@UVJorD 3 жыл бұрын
Well, you see, girls and enbies exist and I just-
@evangelinemasonsoprano
@evangelinemasonsoprano 7 жыл бұрын
*During other months* "okay..." *During Pride month* "OH-GAY"
@evewright2849
@evewright2849 7 жыл бұрын
This is literally me
@DalekkittenKittycatty
@DalekkittenKittycatty 7 жыл бұрын
Tibits+ LIT ME
@jennypan4055
@jennypan4055 7 жыл бұрын
during other months: goodbye during pride month: good bi :D
@eli1098
@eli1098 7 жыл бұрын
*Friend wonders away from me during other months:* ...I've been abandoned... *Friend wonders away from me during Pride month:* ...I've been aPANdoned...
@allycattiny
@allycattiny 7 жыл бұрын
*during other months*: I'm going to pass this test *during pride month*: I'm going to ACE this test
@bristuart851
@bristuart851 5 жыл бұрын
Thomas maintaining eye contact with whoever is speaking the entire time is so sweet. He deserves no harm
@howdy1812
@howdy1812 5 жыл бұрын
WHO HARMED HIM!?!?!?!!? I WILL KILL THEM!!!!!!!!!
@xo_akiko2755
@xo_akiko2755 5 жыл бұрын
Crying in L.A. okay, okay....take a chill pill, they grow on trees here.
@bristuart851
@bristuart851 5 жыл бұрын
@@RockyBlvdd to look for another question.
@hummingbirdspark3998
@hummingbirdspark3998 5 жыл бұрын
Bri stuart WELL DUH
@hummingbirdspark3998
@hummingbirdspark3998 5 жыл бұрын
Crying in L.A. Woah there, Roman, no need to avenge anyone....yet.
@bluebyrne7412
@bluebyrne7412 4 жыл бұрын
Thomas's coming-out story in a nutshell: **Parents don't know that boy friend is boyfriend** Thomas: oh bY THE WAY
@yawn_0_057
@yawn_0_057 3 жыл бұрын
Boyf riends-
@blitzhanger
@blitzhanger 3 жыл бұрын
By the way More like Bi the gay
@lisa101561
@lisa101561 3 жыл бұрын
@@blitzhanger you are now my favorite person in this comment section
@screwtapee
@screwtapee 3 жыл бұрын
@@yawn_0_057 My mothers would be thrilled
@dennislundholmjr2791
@dennislundholmjr2791 3 жыл бұрын
@@screwtapee yas
@trainbiboi4595
@trainbiboi4595 4 жыл бұрын
Me and my friend were texting (she’s bi I’m gay) Them: ok bi Me:o-gay cya
@ricklax5919
@ricklax5919 4 жыл бұрын
This is wonderful
@cocoa_kitty5431
@cocoa_kitty5431 4 жыл бұрын
Eijiro Kirishima yea it does!!
@thebluesandthepinks5398
@thebluesandthepinks5398 4 жыл бұрын
XD
@cocoa_kitty5431
@cocoa_kitty5431 4 жыл бұрын
Chaotic Artist it's fine
@thealmightybucket5930
@thealmightybucket5930 3 жыл бұрын
Bro me and my friends do that too lol
@wynwyn8385
@wynwyn8385 6 жыл бұрын
"Oh by the way, he's my boyfriend, let's go to the movies now!" xD
@kayzagiles2296
@kayzagiles2296 6 жыл бұрын
Caŋɖყ ყąŋɖɛřɛ sounds like something i would do.....
@jasminehooper4256
@jasminehooper4256 6 жыл бұрын
Caŋɖ same same
@sunshinethesinger7937
@sunshinethesinger7937 6 жыл бұрын
caŋɖy that's how I'm coming out to my girlfriend's parents, lol.
@lizsleeth8113
@lizsleeth8113 5 жыл бұрын
Most casual coming out ever
@n1ghtw0lf57
@n1ghtw0lf57 5 жыл бұрын
I want to come out like this xD
@localdumbbitch6915
@localdumbbitch6915 7 жыл бұрын
So I paused this video half way through and texted my mum. I came out as a trans boy and now I'm rocking back and forth in the corner because I DID IT
@lewispeppers990
@lewispeppers990 7 жыл бұрын
Jaden the Darklord Congrats!
@rebeccadahlkokkegard
@rebeccadahlkokkegard 7 жыл бұрын
Jaden the Darklord Go you! :D
@m.j.shaddix9455
@m.j.shaddix9455 7 жыл бұрын
Jaden, sweet heart, we've got you. You hang in there and know no matter what you have friends and support here. If you need to chat let me know and I'll send you my number. You're not alone. Hugs.
@themagicalnoodle8983
@themagicalnoodle8983 7 жыл бұрын
Jaden the Darklord wow dude Congrats!!!
@hellointernetitsphilsfirst9397
@hellointernetitsphilsfirst9397 7 жыл бұрын
GO YOU! YOU ARE BRAVE FOR DOING THAT AND I HOPE YOUR MUM ACCEPTS YOU AS SHE SHOULD. NICE ONE😀
@alexgolden1731
@alexgolden1731 4 жыл бұрын
I'm imagining Joan just cartwheeling around screaming, "IM BI" This video does help tho Thank you.
@bluebyrne7412
@bluebyrne7412 4 жыл бұрын
Can we take a second to appreciate how drop dead gorgeous Rose is? She's absolutely beautiful!
@marselsidbskd4503
@marselsidbskd4503 4 жыл бұрын
Yessss
@alexandranoellemuliadi6488
@alexandranoellemuliadi6488 4 жыл бұрын
Yeeeessss she's so sweet and beautiful gosh i love her body language
@stacy1780
@stacy1780 4 жыл бұрын
tbh she looks like a model or smth, just very tall and elegant.
@TumbleBell
@TumbleBell 3 жыл бұрын
Just about to say that. My lesbian ass is obsessed.
@adav135
@adav135 3 жыл бұрын
I was just about to comment that
@durinstime
@durinstime 7 жыл бұрын
this video is a pansexual's dream tbh. everyone is so pretty god damn
@PastelVampire
@PastelVampire 7 жыл бұрын
durinstime ikr
@tashaology8376
@tashaology8376 7 жыл бұрын
durinstime EVERYONE HAS A TYPE OKEEHHH. Literally everyone (girls) i've come out to as pan is like, 'just so you know, i don't want to date you' Like wtf straight women don't want to date every single man.
@lauramagri4983
@lauramagri4983 7 жыл бұрын
Tash M Pretty sure she was just saying she was attracted to them
@bethanyholst8550
@bethanyholst8550 7 жыл бұрын
durinstime True!
@theycallmeHeaven
@theycallmeHeaven 7 жыл бұрын
SIS! :D and yeah, my thoughts exactly!
@LMahan
@LMahan 5 жыл бұрын
Can we just appreciate Tayln cuddling with Joan for a second?
@phoenixj.9341
@phoenixj.9341 5 жыл бұрын
Kermit the Amphibian I’m not that only one who noticed? I thought I was but *heck* yeah we can appreciate it.
@howdy1812
@howdy1812 5 жыл бұрын
They’re so cute
@isabelgee5062
@isabelgee5062 5 жыл бұрын
I so ship them!!!
@raetheloner1796
@raetheloner1796 5 жыл бұрын
Yes, yes we can.
@joeybtw2080
@joeybtw2080 5 жыл бұрын
I love it so much because they keep playing with each others black rings
@dannirobinson3782
@dannirobinson3782 4 жыл бұрын
I can’t come out to my family so I’ll come out here: Hi, I’m Danni, I use They/Them pronouns, I like girls and I’m demisexual! I just want to say, y’all are valid and I love you!
@demi_dragon579
@demi_dragon579 4 жыл бұрын
Hi!!!! I’m August, I use they/them pronouns as well, I’m Panromantic and asexual! I also can’t come out to my family. Glad to meet you!!
@jupiterrose7838
@jupiterrose7838 3 жыл бұрын
Hi there! I’m Jupiter, I use they/them pronouns and I’m pan! Love you too
@mychemicalbromance84
@mychemicalbromance84 3 жыл бұрын
Howdy, I'm Eevee, I'm a panromantic and asexual! I also use they/them pronouns :D
@crystalbethseizetheday8669
@crystalbethseizetheday8669 3 жыл бұрын
Well done. Take your time
@astrid8607
@astrid8607 3 жыл бұрын
Hi I am Elora and I am bisexual and I use she/her he/him they/them pronouns And I came out to my mom but she said I was too young to know
@snakinatrix4435
@snakinatrix4435 4 жыл бұрын
Rose sipping a gigantic cup that looks like a bowl is adorable and I love it
@keyz_6735
@keyz_6735 4 жыл бұрын
@Mel D she*
@hollyabbott24
@hollyabbott24 6 жыл бұрын
I can genuinely imagine Joan going through the cafeteria shouting "IM BISEXUAL"
@hannahdunn5393
@hannahdunn5393 6 жыл бұрын
Holly :D same
@noot3316
@noot3316 6 жыл бұрын
I would lose respect for him if he did that. That would be a cry for attention.
@spheyuh
@spheyuh 6 жыл бұрын
Nate *them
@oliviaradamitis5490
@oliviaradamitis5490 5 жыл бұрын
Holly :D same
@crow_with_a_knife
@crow_with_a_knife 5 жыл бұрын
Nate *them
@camdotcoms
@camdotcoms 6 жыл бұрын
*shrugs* *”could be gayer.”*
@artimishunter5501
@artimishunter5501 6 жыл бұрын
camaka my life tho
@oliluc8444
@oliluc8444 6 жыл бұрын
YES!
@quartsuniverse8395
@quartsuniverse8395 6 жыл бұрын
Me @ straight couples that are admittedly adorable nonetheless
@lauren1969
@lauren1969 5 жыл бұрын
Me @ rainbows Because yes even the the rainbow could be gayer
@loverboylixie
@loverboylixie 5 жыл бұрын
my life-
@HadesTheMisfit
@HadesTheMisfit 4 жыл бұрын
My parents:*Expect a cis/straight girl* Me: Trans guy and pan. Take it or leave it. [One year later edit!] Sooooo... I'm non-binary and pan after all. Panromantic asexual. I came out to my parents and I think they are kinda trying, but still have a long way to go. I still really badly wanna go on T and get top surger, but I really feel comfortable with they/them now! Will keep y'all updated if you wanna.
@analima3274
@analima3274 4 жыл бұрын
💖💛💙
@thatonekidash6945
@thatonekidash6945 4 жыл бұрын
Meeeeee
@demi_dragon579
@demi_dragon579 4 жыл бұрын
Meeeeee!! Except I’m pan/ace and nonbinary
@wearechillingchillinginced2771
@wearechillingchillinginced2771 4 жыл бұрын
Meeeee
@alix3659
@alix3659 3 жыл бұрын
Take it ❤️❤️
@jojonono27
@jojonono27 4 жыл бұрын
This is legitimately my first time finding out Thomas is gay. That aside, these folks are so sweet and wholesome I just wanna hug em all and tell them I love them. Personal experiences are invaluable knowledge for those still struggling. Thank you for flourishing in the responsibility of helping others.
@pandoamessi4079
@pandoamessi4079 3 жыл бұрын
This was the first time you found out about him being gay? That's awesome- I guess you (were- I'm 1 year later, sorry) new to the fandom then! So welcome into our family :D I was honestly so confused about his sexuality because of all the bi vines he made😂
@LumosVeil
@LumosVeil 5 жыл бұрын
The intro with Thomas’ friends saying what pronouns they use while jumping off the couch is the best part of the video.
@currahcane4884
@currahcane4884 5 жыл бұрын
When Thomas said "I am proud of you" I literally almost burst into tears.
@goodbyemylovergoodbyemyfri6364
@goodbyemylovergoodbyemyfri6364 5 жыл бұрын
Same
@mosssenter2977
@mosssenter2977 5 жыл бұрын
Me too
@livs_critters55
@livs_critters55 5 жыл бұрын
Same!
@pancon9947
@pancon9947 4 жыл бұрын
Hearing that talyn is asexual and in a relationship made me feel so good. I am panromantic and asexual. It was awesome to hear that.
@fqpxitxvpefj
@fqpxitxvpefj 2 жыл бұрын
Same :D
@JosieVal
@JosieVal Жыл бұрын
We pan romantic aces must conquer the world.
@demi_goddex
@demi_goddex 4 жыл бұрын
Anyone else start crying when Thomas said "I'm proud of you"?
@Z0mbie._
@Z0mbie._ 6 жыл бұрын
I told my boyfriend I was bi and he said "I don't care because I still love you no matter what you are." I still love him for that
@jade-lc1ye
@jade-lc1ye 6 жыл бұрын
angel girl That's so cute! Stay strong to the both of you 💖
@Bella-oi7yv
@Bella-oi7yv 6 жыл бұрын
angel girl awwwwww how sweet
@aeron4800
@aeron4800 6 жыл бұрын
angel girl That’s so sweet! I want to come out to my bf but I’m really anxious about it...
@yasmeensalas4054
@yasmeensalas4054 6 жыл бұрын
Aww he is so sweet🤗
@carryzelgert6977
@carryzelgert6977 6 жыл бұрын
When i told my boyfriend he said "I don't really care as long as you don't leave me for whoever else" so that was cute
@medley.135
@medley.135 7 жыл бұрын
25% of the comments are "wait is Thomas gay or bi" another 25% is "guys! I'm part of the lgbt community!" followed by a ton of support and the other 50% is "OMG TALYN AND JOAN ARE SO CUTE TOGETHER AAGAGHHH"
@Shywarlikegirl
@Shywarlikegirl 7 жыл бұрын
They are cute though... lol
@casualtwink1901
@casualtwink1901 7 жыл бұрын
THEY ARE THOOOO, JUST SITTIN UP IN THE CORNER AND BEING ADORABLE AAAAAAAAAAHHHH- I mean... Um... Hi?
@karlaziha8151
@karlaziha8151 7 жыл бұрын
Allison Medley so is thomas gay or bi?
@owlwatson6000
@owlwatson6000 7 жыл бұрын
Magratea Z gay, he literally said so
@karlaziha8151
@karlaziha8151 7 жыл бұрын
Yeah lol, I saw that he said it right after I have wrote that comment. Thanks btw
@infinitystudios6072
@infinitystudios6072 4 жыл бұрын
I’m actually happy someone who’s Ace like me is representing us bc ppl don’t think asexual ppl count as lgbt
@averagetransboi
@averagetransboi 3 жыл бұрын
Wait... People don't think of Ace as LGBTQ+?? I always have thought of them as LGBTQ+
@ravenblue55
@ravenblue55 3 жыл бұрын
Those people are dumb ace is COMPLETELY VALID as LGBT proof is that it's also referred to as LGBTQ+ and LGBTQIA+ the A is for asexual
@infinitystudios6072
@infinitystudios6072 3 жыл бұрын
@@ravenblue55 correct!!
@infinitystudios6072
@infinitystudios6072 3 жыл бұрын
@@averagetransboi sadly yes people do think that :(
@queenglimmer444
@queenglimmer444 2 жыл бұрын
@@averagetransboi it's mostly on the internet, most irl lgbtq+ spaces are accepting of asexual and/or aromantic people!
@beaq8549
@beaq8549 4 жыл бұрын
the absolute comfort that is hearing the words “i’m proud of you” means everything to me :’) i’m crying wow
@ikindadrawstuff
@ikindadrawstuff 4 жыл бұрын
I know, right!? Every time I watch it, my heart skips a beat and I can’t breathe for a second because the only time I’ve heard (or remembered hearing) anyone say “I’m proud of you” was when I asked my mom “are you proud of me?” Sarcastically and she said “yes, I am proud of you” and my heart skipped a beat and I couldn’t breathe for a second just like when I watch that clip... Damn, that got really personal... welp, it’s there now.
@willricks6434
@willricks6434 3 жыл бұрын
Here have some hugs, you both are so amazing and deserve so much love
@Abby-jk4pm
@Abby-jk4pm 7 жыл бұрын
I came out as bi to my best friend last night and I thought she would hate me until she looked at me and said, "lol same" and we high fived
@alliscott2326
@alliscott2326 7 жыл бұрын
I had the exact same experience with my best friend! We both just screamed and hugged it was great
@Abby-jk4pm
@Abby-jk4pm 7 жыл бұрын
That's so great! I'm happy it went well😁
@chloestone8309
@chloestone8309 7 жыл бұрын
I'm so proud of you!
@devoted.misfit
@devoted.misfit 7 жыл бұрын
Same thing happened to me too haha your friend will be a huge support to you throughout the rest of your coming out, I know mine was. Congrats and I'm so happy it went well
@galaxy-starheart1545
@galaxy-starheart1545 7 жыл бұрын
The same thing happened to me!!! Coincidentally that friend was also my crush and we're dating now.
@n.j.9282
@n.j.9282 5 жыл бұрын
We’re here We’re queer *and don’t worry, we’re still filled with existential fear*
@n.j.9282
@n.j.9282 5 жыл бұрын
24 carat magic Sounds pretty *gAy* if you ask me
@bluebyrne7412
@bluebyrne7412 4 жыл бұрын
Well if this ain't a mood
@KoalaSoybeans33
@KoalaSoybeans33 4 жыл бұрын
It’s okay to be you
@dabi5967
@dabi5967 4 жыл бұрын
Yes
@willfontana8838
@willfontana8838 4 жыл бұрын
Formless blobs where u at
@meayoutubernah9649
@meayoutubernah9649 4 жыл бұрын
Thomas: one thing I try to do is make you feel welcomed and not alone Me: every time I see one of your videos or vines (because I live in the past and still watch them all the time) I always feel like I belong here and I love that I finally have found a place where I feel like I belong I’m bummed it took so long and I hate that I can’t be here constantly but I’m glad I found it
@ikindadrawstuff
@ikindadrawstuff 4 жыл бұрын
Now here’s a short message from Thomas Sanders himself: 17:55 Enjoy 💖💙💜
@depressed_freak6831
@depressed_freak6831 4 жыл бұрын
When Joan started talking about young bisexual kids he literally was talking about my life
@kendallh3580
@kendallh3580 5 жыл бұрын
“Oh, *bi* the way.” -Thomas Sanders
@alexharvard154
@alexharvard154 5 жыл бұрын
I literally used that pun when I came out to my brother XD
@kendallh3580
@kendallh3580 5 жыл бұрын
Alex Harvard Damn, I would use, if I was bi, the pun of “Ain’t no lie, baby I’m bi bi bi.” 😆😆😆😆😆 I’m lesbian and still coming up with puns. I need assistance.
@ajkargbo2684
@ajkargbo2684 5 жыл бұрын
Im bi and fluid
@sarahthebookdragon5666
@sarahthebookdragon5666 5 жыл бұрын
Lol
@spawnofhell4981
@spawnofhell4981 5 жыл бұрын
@@alexharvard154 i used that to come out to my sis she thinks its contagious
@goodolmilo4970
@goodolmilo4970 6 жыл бұрын
Joan: well I really like Ellen *mumbles of agreement from the entire lgbtq community*
@imjustalex1623
@imjustalex1623 6 жыл бұрын
Lee Jordan Valdez YES
@Eating_Sunflowers
@Eating_Sunflowers 6 жыл бұрын
Yep, Ellen gave us all strength when we needed it.
@originaldjextraordinaire2730
@originaldjextraordinaire2730 6 жыл бұрын
HAMILTON AND THOMAS SANDERS I'm DEAD
@Food24112
@Food24112 6 жыл бұрын
I love Ellen too. I went to LA and wanted to see them film an episode, but they were taking a break for the summer sadly.
@lauren1969
@lauren1969 5 жыл бұрын
Mood 🏳️‍🌈
@Dreamyy_Remyy
@Dreamyy_Remyy 4 жыл бұрын
I put a comment a while back about being straight but since then I've come to the realization that I'm asexual.... I'm very afraid to tell my parents as my dad says not to support the LGBTQ but i do anyways. Thomas is my favorite KZbinr. My friends know I'm asexual. I just figured it out. So I'm half out of the closet half still in as I'm not out to my family but I'm out to my friends and now whoever is reading this
@emilyhill7582
@emilyhill7582 4 жыл бұрын
That's cool. Just know that I am so proud of you. I know this is late but don't rush into telling them. Just take your time.
@SeerOfTime577
@SeerOfTime577 4 жыл бұрын
I am too and I am still debating telling my best friend. Being different is a scary thing! Thank goodness for Thomas Sanders.
@storm_vinegod2302
@storm_vinegod2302 3 жыл бұрын
Congrats :D
@graypride1330
@graypride1330 3 жыл бұрын
Whatever has happened with you in terms of being asexual just remember: YOU.ARE.VALID💜💜
@Dreamyy_Remyy
@Dreamyy_Remyy 3 жыл бұрын
@@graypride1330 thank you, i now identify as bisexual and have for a few months, it feels the best for me
@lazyartist1984
@lazyartist1984 4 жыл бұрын
I love how your friends are so different from each other They dont bother to copy each other, they just do their own thing!
@zealouszombie5658
@zealouszombie5658 6 жыл бұрын
Shout-out to that awkward phase when you're not really out but kinda starting to drop hints: A few friends know "Oh yeah, my future *partner* " Rainbow accessories But if anyone asks you, you just closet yourself.
@reubenoreilly7513
@reubenoreilly7513 6 жыл бұрын
Zealous Zombae It’s sad because it’s true XD
@harvestrose3259
@harvestrose3259 6 жыл бұрын
This is me.
@Storm-bp3fm
@Storm-bp3fm 6 жыл бұрын
Zealous Zombae PREACH
@doddimor4854
@doddimor4854 6 жыл бұрын
MEEE!! Most people I know especially elders are homophobic. So I gotta wait until I turn 20 something
@raine3736
@raine3736 6 жыл бұрын
Zealous Zombae ME
@___3malia___516
@___3malia___516 5 жыл бұрын
**pulling up a chair, and stand on it** “IM BISEXUAL.”
@TheMagestucOreo
@TheMagestucOreo 5 жыл бұрын
Don't forget the megaphone
@supremefroglord3995
@supremefroglord3995 5 жыл бұрын
Megaphone and colorful confetti
@jenniferryan4430
@jenniferryan4430 5 жыл бұрын
That's the first thing I say to everyone I meet.
@unicornroses8793
@unicornroses8793 5 жыл бұрын
First thing I say
@marycruz100
@marycruz100 5 жыл бұрын
The likes are at 69 and I do not want to ruin it, so I'll just let you know I like your comment and same
@georgiag2685
@georgiag2685 4 жыл бұрын
Kindergarten: Likes girls but doesn't know what to do 1st grade: Straight because homophobic parents 2nd grade: Likes a girl and kisses A FLIPPING GIRL but says I like boys to so I'm "straight". 3rd-5th: Has crushes on girls and guys but says I'm "straight" because of parents. Meets best friends who are bi and pansexual and "straight". 6th grade: IM FLIPPING BI PEEPS DEAL WITH IT!!!!!
@llatherat9287
@llatherat9287 3 жыл бұрын
Yasssss
@katieng1158
@katieng1158 3 жыл бұрын
I'm not comfortable with revealing my age, but I've experienced sort of the same thing. I might be bi, but I'm still figuring it out. Anyways, stay safe, peeps!
@georgiag2685
@georgiag2685 3 жыл бұрын
@@katieng1158 True! I'm definitely not the age I was then it was just a time lapse and don't feel pressured. I wish you luck!
@IU-id8ts
@IU-id8ts 3 жыл бұрын
Love the profile pic!!
@georgiag2685
@georgiag2685 3 жыл бұрын
@@IU-id8ts Thank you! I didn't make it but it's still pretty.
@defuseddesactivado5134
@defuseddesactivado5134 3 жыл бұрын
I don't know why, but I started to cry when you said, "I'm so proud of you." Since I told my parents about my Gender, I don't hear these words anymore ... Thank you very much, I am so happy because I found your channel and you. You helped me a lot. Greetings from the most homopobic country in Europe - Poland.
@niamhcorrigan3972
@niamhcorrigan3972 7 жыл бұрын
"Labels are good if they help you" that's exactly how I feel
@Legomicroman
@Legomicroman 7 жыл бұрын
you only need labels, if you have a bland personality.
@crow2616
@crow2616 7 жыл бұрын
Yudron Micros Sorry to sound salty but you are quite wrong. Labels can be hurtful or helpful, they let somebody know who they are. My community is more colourful and NOT bland than you ever will be.
@Legomicroman
@Legomicroman 7 жыл бұрын
if you need labels to know who you are, then what are you besides those labels, you're putting onto yourself? only YOU should determine who you are. superficial labels take that away. it's not a bad thing to count yourself to certain groups. but i don't think you should make labels a part of your personality or identidy. because, like i said, that's pretty superficial, in my opinion.
@food9144
@food9144 7 жыл бұрын
Niamh Corrigan why is it that y'all complain about labels and then create a whole lot of labels for y'alls sexuality and gender
@shakeyblakey2936
@shakeyblakey2936 6 жыл бұрын
Talyn and Joan slowly just cuddling closer and closer as the video progresses is the most adorable thing
@welovestitch7606
@welovestitch7606 6 жыл бұрын
Granger Luci I KNOW RIGHT
@jamesturnbull128
@jamesturnbull128 6 жыл бұрын
ikr they was holding hands at 1 point
@grrrltv
@grrrltv 4 жыл бұрын
2017 me: what does gay mean 2018 me: there’s nothing wrong with being gay!! 2019 me: so I might be bi😅
@goosedotjpg
@goosedotjpg 4 жыл бұрын
nuggetbean13 13 Welcome to the bi squad! We have pizza and Taco Bell!!!!
@brycenmayer7686
@brycenmayer7686 4 жыл бұрын
@@goosedotjpg 😂😂 omg yess #BiPride Lol yes im also bi, but my mom doesn't think that i am eligible to an opinion
@goosedotjpg
@goosedotjpg 4 жыл бұрын
Jalyssa Cayer That sucks!!
@raccoonboy6601
@raccoonboy6601 4 жыл бұрын
@@brycenmayer7686 dude that suck
@brycenmayer7686
@brycenmayer7686 4 жыл бұрын
@@goosedotjpg I know it sucks, she says I'm "too young" to know even though I'm almost 14
@sxftierosie4362
@sxftierosie4362 4 жыл бұрын
He’s a coming out people! I’m Pansexual!!!!! 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈
@toribaker8612
@toribaker8612 3 жыл бұрын
Yeah!!!!!!
@miray8960
@miray8960 6 жыл бұрын
Every time I hear "non-binary pals" I want to laugh, scream, and cry all at once. Very few people can even comprehend how much a couple words mean to me. Thank y'alls for existing, keep it up!
@vizx6032
@vizx6032 6 жыл бұрын
I smile Every. Single. Time. Just those few words gives me hope.
@sukiratakashi
@sukiratakashi 6 жыл бұрын
I totally agree. Non-binary pals for ever!
@coleackley2241
@coleackley2241 6 жыл бұрын
Yeah whenever we get representation my heart soars. It's a great feeling to know people respect us for who we are and are willing to give us representation in that way. It's awesome.
@psychogamer5116
@psychogamer5116 6 жыл бұрын
Miray when I'm in school one of my teachers used to say ok guys,gals and I had restrain my self for saying and non-binary pals
@coleackley2241
@coleackley2241 6 жыл бұрын
Lol I usually just say it in my head XD
@spooksboh6251
@spooksboh6251 7 жыл бұрын
help me talyn and joan are too adorable my heart is melting
@heyimsophiaiguess8835
@heyimsophiaiguess8835 7 жыл бұрын
Sara Bergamini ikr
@lenajn13
@lenajn13 7 жыл бұрын
literally my fav thing is them just super casually cuddling in the back.
@alexwetmore8304
@alexwetmore8304 7 жыл бұрын
Sara Bergamini agh ikr
@An19941
@An19941 7 жыл бұрын
Sara Bergamini yes
@hannahlyons6707
@hannahlyons6707 7 жыл бұрын
Sara Bergamini They are adorable!!
@macbean3446
@macbean3446 4 жыл бұрын
My thoughts throughout the video: "hey, this was released on my birthday!" "aww that's so sweet" "he's wearing that shirt AGAIN?!?!" "I MUST HUG EVERYONE IN THIS VIDEO SO THEY KNOW HOW IMPORTANT THEY ARE TO US!"
@lizziethebabydoll522
@lizziethebabydoll522 4 жыл бұрын
16:02 what joan said hit home so much for me I'm going through stuff with my parents and being repressed so what joan said made me Happy and gives me hope that stuff will get better
@katerinaromero9879
@katerinaromero9879 5 жыл бұрын
I showed this video to my best friend and he came out to me as gay, thank you so much Thomas, you helped unlock a new chapter in his future. Now whenever we talk we make gay puns and jokes and it brought us closer together. People ship us and we always say, “If only they knew they are shipping a gay person and a lesbian together”
@rebeccah2662
@rebeccah2662 5 жыл бұрын
ShadowEquestrian that happened with my friend and I when we were in high school, I’m a lesbian and he’s bi and has a girlfriend (at the time and they’re still together)
@eee8665
@eee8665 5 жыл бұрын
The only other lgbtqia+ friends i have are online ones,but I came out to my bffl in real life about a year ago.
@benstephens34
@benstephens34 5 жыл бұрын
Ship???🤔
@loganhorsley2766
@loganhorsley2766 5 жыл бұрын
I am the same as your friend 😃
@groldan7597
@groldan7597 5 жыл бұрын
at the last part, dude im in the same situation. I scream i love you at my bestie, and she screams i hate you back. Everyone thinks me and her are gay for eachother, but she is straight and im lesbian
@good4nothingz
@good4nothingz 5 жыл бұрын
Just hearing Thomas talk to the viewers, especially when he says “I’m so proud of you” just makes me happy. It’s like he’s talking to us individually. Being a pansexual girl, this helped a lot. Thank you, Thomas. 💖💖💖
@parkerfoster6840
@parkerfoster6840 4 жыл бұрын
You go girl
@arianasim4102
@arianasim4102 4 жыл бұрын
Im sobbing in a ball on the floor because of when he said that. Im straight but I think I have depression.
@cookiepj6361
@cookiepj6361 4 жыл бұрын
Why you like pans
@good4nothingz
@good4nothingz 4 жыл бұрын
Update. Nvm, I’m a lesbian. Still just as powerful and heartwarming,
@good4nothingz
@good4nothingz 4 жыл бұрын
Just Peebs25 lol they just,,,,mmmm just somethin about em 😂
@elliesteele2027
@elliesteele2027 3 жыл бұрын
I found this video from an ex-homophobe saying that this was the video that made them reconsider their views. This just shows how intense hate like homophobia can be stopped with an in-depth discussion that shows the real point of view of people in the LGBT.
@kittenmittons_
@kittenmittons_ 4 жыл бұрын
1:57 unoriginal joke but... "Why are you gay?" "Yeah, well I got a 7-day free trial but a forgot to cancel the subscription so... here we are!"
@jullsisback1532
@jullsisback1532 7 жыл бұрын
Why can't the whole world be like this? A big soup of love
@karmenkarmas2506
@karmenkarmas2506 7 жыл бұрын
Jullsisback hahahah i love that u said *soup*
@paranoidlizard6338
@paranoidlizard6338 7 жыл бұрын
Jullsisback ikr????
@totalweirdo8538
@totalweirdo8538 7 жыл бұрын
Jullsisback Why is soup right?
@destinyrenee323
@destinyrenee323 7 жыл бұрын
TotalWeirdo probably bc soup brings comfort much like this group
@lauren1969
@lauren1969 5 жыл бұрын
Same then it would a whole new world. 🏳️‍🌈
@fatimasiddiqui2006
@fatimasiddiqui2006 6 жыл бұрын
The way Thomas's lips moves looks like he is going to start crying happy tears by the confidence of these people. Same, Thomas. Totally same.
@Astr0_Man
@Astr0_Man 6 жыл бұрын
Fatima Siddiqui Aww~! That warms my heart! (My voice kinda cracked when i said heart 😂)
@Mothkid666
@Mothkid666 4 жыл бұрын
How i came out ot my friend: Me: hey, does your brother still like me? Friend: yeah ._. Me: hey, can you tell your brother something? Friend: Yeah? Me: Tell him i realized that i'm lesbian Friend: ._.
@RedBlueberryAnimates
@RedBlueberryAnimates 3 жыл бұрын
I love how your friend is like ._. The whole time, just like..... meh 😑 😆
@braynedehdgames7643
@braynedehdgames7643 4 жыл бұрын
Coming out has always been weird for me. Many friends have known forever, some friends don't know to this day, but by far the hardest to me was when my sister accidentally outed me in front of my massively conservative parents. They seemed to ignore it (to this day my oldest sister's wife of 7 years is her "roommate" when my dad speaks of her) but I was terrified because I was NOT ready for them to know. I have 3 kids and I hope they never have to feel like they're not able to share who they truly are with me. 💗💛💙
@cwallflower4591
@cwallflower4591 7 жыл бұрын
Joan: *said that they came out by walking through the cafeteria, shouting "I'm bisexual"* Me: JOAN IS MY SPIRIT ANIMAL, I CAN RELATE %100
@irritableizzy
@irritableizzy 7 жыл бұрын
Caro Wallflower this was actually me to my track team ahahah
@auggiecrews8429
@auggiecrews8429 7 жыл бұрын
Caro Wallflower No joke tht's pretty much what i did i held my best friend's hand and yelled I'M PANSEXUAL!
@coelacanthe
@coelacanthe 7 жыл бұрын
Patronus? Spirit animals are exclusive to Anishinaabe and a few other Indigenous peoples within the US and Canada, and many Anishinaabe folk have spoken out against its appropriation by non-Native cultures (including fan cultures). Joan would make a good patronus though!
@brycenmayer7686
@brycenmayer7686 4 жыл бұрын
@@coelacanthe jeez, Logan much?! 😂
@marselsidbskd4503
@marselsidbskd4503 4 жыл бұрын
boskydoor me: *sees dementor* Me: whips out wand Joan: *shouting* I’m bisexual :v
@genna2898
@genna2898 5 жыл бұрын
Well I'm super late but -Pansexual -Genderfluid -Use whatever pronouns you want I don't really care -And I love everything about this video with all of my cold, dead heart
@karahopkins7859
@karahopkins7859 5 жыл бұрын
THAT IS A GAY MOOD
@Ghesties-for-the-Resties
@Ghesties-for-the-Resties 5 жыл бұрын
My mood honestly that is me
@talynblack7376
@talynblack7376 5 жыл бұрын
i am personally genderqueer pansexual. i use he, him, she, her, and they, them pronouns
@ereidy536
@ereidy536 5 жыл бұрын
I came to join the late party!!!! Demiromantic, Panromantic, Bisexual, Demisexual Agender - (they/them pronouns). Hellllooooo my felloowww LGBTQ+ humaaaaaannnnssss ❤️🌈🏳️‍🌈❤️
@RobertsinRobertson
@RobertsinRobertson 5 жыл бұрын
I love using the term “Pandemic” for myself. Pansexual, Demiromantic, she/her pronouns. I always get a good smile seeing the confusion when I answer with pandemic.
@cassiopeiaaa.
@cassiopeiaaa. 3 жыл бұрын
The fact that he says “Us”... is just so.. welcoming ;W;
@connor4391
@connor4391 4 жыл бұрын
first day of 7th grade i walked into the school building and shouted "IM HERE IM QUEER" and my friends satrted clapping
@sirknightlancelot
@sirknightlancelot 7 жыл бұрын
I came out to my mom almost two years ago (August 13th) as Bi. I didn't even have the courage to tell her IN PERSON. I wrote a letter and put it on a mirror in her bedroom before I left to go to my dad's and basically cried myself to sleep the entire weekend. I got back and my mom had written a six-page letter in response (because I specifically asked her to not talk to me personally about it because I was still uncomfortable) and she didn't care. She thought I may have been too young to decide (I was 12) but she said that if I felt that I liked both guys and girls, or decided I was a lesbian, or a transgender, or whatever that she would still love me no matter what. I still cry whenever I read the letter, though.
@ianb7599
@ianb7599 7 жыл бұрын
ThatOneGirlThorn that's so sweet of her! I'm glad you have someone to make you feel like you belong and can be who you are, because you can. 💗
@Maya-bk8wv
@Maya-bk8wv 7 жыл бұрын
ThatOneGirlThorn YES IM SO HAPPY FOR YOU! YOU ARE AN INSPIRATION TO ALL EXTRA YOUNG BI PEOPLE
@benwyatt4081
@benwyatt4081 7 жыл бұрын
ThatOneGirlThorn lol that was on my birthday
@itsrainingcats9365
@itsrainingcats9365 7 жыл бұрын
thats a good idea mind if i take that and run with it
@sirknightlancelot
@sirknightlancelot 7 жыл бұрын
KattHatt Sure, if it works best for you!
@Wolverrina
@Wolverrina 7 жыл бұрын
I'm out as trans and bi at school and now my whole grade calls me by my new name and pronouns and its fantastic yo. And this is a Catholic school
@Wolverrina
@Wolverrina 7 жыл бұрын
Aw thanks fam :) Only through my friends around me did I have the courage to be loud and proud. I hope everyone gets that opportunity in their lives
@ranaeii3451
@ranaeii3451 7 жыл бұрын
Wolverrina Your school is amazing and so are you!
@Maya-bk8wv
@Maya-bk8wv 7 жыл бұрын
Honestly this makes me cry. In a CATHOLIC SCHOOL people are accepting you! But in most normal schools people are bullied and told to kill themselves for even being a part of the LGBTQ+ community! I'm more crying cause of happiness I'm so happy for you! Congrats! Happy Pride month!
@kitchensinkchronicles3272
@kitchensinkchronicles3272 7 жыл бұрын
Wolverrina that's wonderful!
@cutiekittypaws1830
@cutiekittypaws1830 7 жыл бұрын
that's so GREAT!!
@demi_goddex
@demi_goddex 3 жыл бұрын
I decided to rewatch this and it makes me so happy hearing them talk about their journeys and I'm just like, oh my gosh!!!! That's me!! There's someone out there like me!!
@xrzx8040
@xrzx8040 4 жыл бұрын
Me: Do I tell my friends I'm bi? My sexuality is my own business and it hardly ever comes up in conversation. Also, my homophobic family would lose their marbles over it. Joan: I'M BISEXUALLL!!!!! I wish I had that kind of bravery.
@augflynn327
@augflynn327 5 жыл бұрын
omg how is no one talking about joan and talyn cuddling?? like this is the cutest thing i’ve seen (edit) OMG I HAVE 58 LIKES I NEVER GET THAT MANY (edit #2) OMG 207 U GUYS ARE INSANE (edit #3) omg you guys are too much. 311 likes??
@rosiem7480
@rosiem7480 5 жыл бұрын
Your profile pic is everything
@ashtonreed1820
@ashtonreed1820 5 жыл бұрын
I was thinking about that. Thank you for pointing it out
@theman6044
@theman6044 5 жыл бұрын
It’s so cute, right?!? 💜💜💜
@echostarprodutions1253
@echostarprodutions1253 5 жыл бұрын
Pearl lg-b-tq yay I know I know I know I know I know
@shipmaster1338
@shipmaster1338 5 жыл бұрын
I noticed
@beeps016
@beeps016 5 жыл бұрын
on spotify, you can choose guy, girl, or non'binary. I officially love that
@specter_7_reporting_in506
@specter_7_reporting_in506 5 жыл бұрын
Wait really?
@specter_7_reporting_in506
@specter_7_reporting_in506 5 жыл бұрын
How doset though do-est this-eth
@beeps016
@beeps016 5 жыл бұрын
@@specter_7_reporting_in506 yes, yes u can
@beeps016
@beeps016 5 жыл бұрын
@@specter_7_reporting_in506 idek anymore, i just thought it had to do with lgbtq
@gaybowlofcereal
@gaybowlofcereal 5 жыл бұрын
You can be a guy gal or a non-binary pal 🤗
@shaybae077
@shaybae077 4 жыл бұрын
This all happened to me in 6th grade: (there are four 9 weeks 1st 9 weeks: Straight 2nd 9 weeks: Lesbian 3rd 9 weeks: Lesbian 4th 9 weeks: Bisexual School just ended, and I'm 89% sure than I'm bisexual. I have come out to a lot of my friends, my older sister (pretty sure she is LGBT too,) but I havent told my parents. You guys made me more confident about who I am. Thank you. 😁😊
@tobeebaguley7321
@tobeebaguley7321 4 жыл бұрын
Gacha Snow MEEEEEEE
@dgdlovebot
@dgdlovebot 3 жыл бұрын
Me except 5th grade and switch bi with les
@jamiewebb7788
@jamiewebb7788 4 жыл бұрын
This video really helped me realise I was pan and agender so even though no one will read this I just wanna say thanks
@evan_teo5482
@evan_teo5482 7 жыл бұрын
Me: .....I'm trans My best friend: *shouts down the hall* YOU OWE ME TEN BUCKS
@adab3ar291
@adab3ar291 7 жыл бұрын
contagiousmadnesscosplay this comment is my favorite tbh
@giulialuotto9466
@giulialuotto9466 7 жыл бұрын
contagiousmadnesscosplay omg it happened to me when i said i was dating a girl to a friend, i was super scared but she said like:"You can even identify as a sandwich and i won't care"
@mimikyu__-
@mimikyu__- 5 жыл бұрын
mcat girl hey. That word is a slur, please don’t use it.
@cocoacrazy2539
@cocoacrazy2539 5 жыл бұрын
WAIT DID MY BABY JUST SAY THEY'RE ASEXUAL OH MY GOSH HECKING REPRESENT TALYN ACES ARE SO HARD TO FIND I LOVE YOU THANK YOU FOR ACKNOWLEDGING OUR EXISTENCE
@RhiBread
@RhiBread 5 жыл бұрын
@@parkeranne2992 you can still feel romantic feelings towards people and be asexual :>
@arrowwood
@arrowwood 5 жыл бұрын
@@parkeranne2992, whatwherewhen
@dominic8528
@dominic8528 5 жыл бұрын
Kelly Ward Yes, but asexual and aromantic are different. Asexual is not feeling sexual attraction, but still being able to feel romantic attraction.
@ashbygail
@ashbygail 5 жыл бұрын
CocoaCrazy 25 I thought the exact same thing! I don’t know any other aces in real life.
@valentine8409
@valentine8409 5 жыл бұрын
Hi! Yes! Hello! Ace rep FOREVER!!!!!!!!
@AnonymousBuddha
@AnonymousBuddha 4 жыл бұрын
Rose (transwoman): I can finally be a mother. Me (transman); Gross, why would anyone want that? The irony! HAHA!
@bluebyrne7412
@bluebyrne7412 4 жыл бұрын
@Mel D Being a mother is nurturing and caring for a child, not physically giving birth. I have no doubt in my mind that Rose would be an amazing mother, and she will raise beautiful children. And as for how? Ever heard of a magical thing called adoption or a surrogate? Truly amazing stuff. You'll learn about it if you read literally anything about transgender people and why they deserve to be respected. Good day to you.
@mercyyoung4565
@mercyyoung4565 3 жыл бұрын
Mel D It’s SHE And she is adorable and will be an amazing mother
@insomniaasaperson8294
@insomniaasaperson8294 3 жыл бұрын
Mel D First of all Rose is a SHE and you should at least have the decency to refer to her as such. Second of all I’m sure Rose will be an amazing mother because being a good mother is about caring for your child and there is no requirement for being a mother except to care for your child. The whole point is love is love and their is no boundaries to who you can care for. I hope you can do some more reading about transgender people and their rights and realize that the comment you made is quite hurtful and insensitive to many people. Hope you can get a better point if view!❤️
@your_local_fander3702
@your_local_fander3702 3 жыл бұрын
I know you most likely won’t see this but I want to show my appreciation some way. You all are so amazing and are such a beam of light for when I’m not feeling too good about my gender identity and/or expression or my sexuality. When I feel bad because of my family and some bad friends are rude about that sort of thing, or not taking my identification seriously I can always turn to this channel to keep up my confidence a little. I don’t think I’d still be around if it weren’t for you, Thomas and the kind hearted fanders out there being just awesome. Thank you, so much. ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜
@Cariboudesplaines
@Cariboudesplaines 7 жыл бұрын
Everytime you think Thomas has reached the limit of greatness, that he can't be any greater than he already is, there he goes like "SURPRISE"
@squishyredhead
@squishyredhead 7 жыл бұрын
Robin Vettier He's such an angel
@trickytreyperfected1482
@trickytreyperfected1482 7 жыл бұрын
Robin Vettier Ha, not much of a suprise if you ask me 😂. He has let out so many hints of his sexuality in the past.
@lauren1969
@lauren1969 5 жыл бұрын
If you replace greatness with gayness you would also be right. 🏳️‍🌈
@emmeoliver5007
@emmeoliver5007 7 жыл бұрын
I don't like it when people say I can't be a supporter of the LGBTQ+ community because i'm straight. It doesn't matter what you are, a supporter is a supporter.
@dayton4883
@dayton4883 7 жыл бұрын
Emilee Oliver mmhm :) whatever your sexuality is, you can still be a supporte r
@helenofargos
@helenofargos 7 жыл бұрын
Straight allies are important! You may not be in the acronym, but your support for those of us who are is excellent and very welcome.
@elieonyt
@elieonyt 7 жыл бұрын
exactly! i support animal rights organisations but do i look like a effing antelope? allies matter because people need to know that they can be safe out there and that there are people who are considered "normal" by the society and still support them and love them. support matters, guys, especially if you can't come out completely. stay safe!
@edda8774
@edda8774 7 жыл бұрын
Thank you! This has been a question of mine for a long time and now I finally have an answer
@MonsterHigh4243
@MonsterHigh4243 7 жыл бұрын
lelaaa I imagine an Antelope writing this comment and it's very confusing
@MM-te1kk
@MM-te1kk 2 жыл бұрын
Just came back here to say that back then, when I was 17, four and a half years ago, this video had a strong positive impact on me and made me accept myself. It gave me so much courage at a stressful point. Huge thank you to y'all. Y'all are precious.
@ds020
@ds020 4 жыл бұрын
Here’s one way to come out as bi say “guys I’m number 83 on the periodic table”
@cutiecakes1232
@cutiecakes1232 5 жыл бұрын
Dear Thomas and friends, I just wanted thank you. You literally saved my life. A few months ago I was struggling with my identity and I tried to come out but everyone thought I was joking every time. And many of my close family members were sadly very unaccepting and we are still working on our relationships. And I was just in a really dark place. I was ready to end my life but was just trying to find a good time. One day I was mindlessly scrolling through my KZbin and you guys caught my eye. I must have watched your having pride video 20 times. And then I watched the rest of your videos and actually laughed at you and your friends antics for the first time in a long time. The next week I successfully came out to every one and I just wanted to say how much I love you guys. I owe everything to you and I just wanted you to know that. 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈❤️❤️❤️❤️ Thanks for the likes guys, this is the most I’ve ever gotten.
@WolfMoon-jc1wl
@WolfMoon-jc1wl 5 жыл бұрын
Cutiecakes 123 hey I just wanted to really quickly say you are loved and accepted and an amazing person and I love you and I hope your life is going well and you’re doing great! Anyways gotra go BYE
@cutiecakes1232
@cutiecakes1232 5 жыл бұрын
WolfMoon 5123 thank u so much. My life could obviously still be better as I’m sure everyone’s could but it is a lot better than it was. I am still working on my relationships with some people and I know some people with never understand me or accept me but it warms my heart to know you care even if u don’t know me.
@abbigailsmith1714
@abbigailsmith1714 5 жыл бұрын
I started crying when I read this like not joking I'm not a part of the LGBTQ+ community but I fully support everyone
@nillabean1118
@nillabean1118 5 жыл бұрын
@@abbigailsmith1714 Actually, you are apart of the community. You may not identify as LGBTQ+ but you will support and immerse yourself into the community and I personally accept those who support apart of the community. Vine: Oh-I am the gay cousin- Ohmygod
@magicalfoxxx1155
@magicalfoxxx1155 5 жыл бұрын
You are so inspiring and I cried while reading this and you deserve all the likes!
@moss_phrog4065
@moss_phrog4065 5 жыл бұрын
ik im almost 2 years late but How I came out to my mom me: * writes on a piece of paper "Hi Don't be mad I'm pansexual and agender" she writes back "Good for you honey and I love you no matter what"
@lakenp8656
@lakenp8656 5 жыл бұрын
Im pan and agender too:)😮😇😊
@em_st4r
@em_st4r 5 жыл бұрын
TonyPerryIsMyTurtle also I love ur profile pic
@nerdlife8315
@nerdlife8315 5 жыл бұрын
awwwww i rlly need to tell my parents but.... my fear is less them not accepting me and more theyll tell some of their friends who r the parents of my 'friends' at my super homophobic christian school.
@Quinn-bq9sv
@Quinn-bq9sv 5 жыл бұрын
I sent mine a KZbin video because I have no guts
@Heathmae12
@Heathmae12 5 жыл бұрын
OMG!!!!!! I am pan and agender to!
@derpy_axolotl2279
@derpy_axolotl2279 3 жыл бұрын
Jesus...just hearing someone I look up to so much say “I’m proud of you”..it makes me tear up. I’ve struggled with my sexuality for a long time. I’ve been bullied and harassed for showing off my pride and in that instance I felt so alone- especially since I had moved into a new school. But I am so grateful for having such amazing friends and people in my life who support me. And I am so honoured to be a part of this amazing community of people.
@willricks6434
@willricks6434 3 жыл бұрын
"We're not alone- none of us" dear evan Hansen uwu I support you and love you- you amazing bean here take a hug *hug*
@skarutbaboon6256
@skarutbaboon6256 4 жыл бұрын
Coming out on the internet because i never came out! Im lesbian! :D
@sjhstrange
@sjhstrange 6 жыл бұрын
I was going through the comments to make sure there weren't any haters, and instead I only found heartfelt messages! Thank you comment section, you just made my day! ❤️
@abstractaxolotl7116
@abstractaxolotl7116 6 жыл бұрын
Sophia Strange ikr, it's great to see that there's still some good in the world and that for people in bad situations there's always someone there. Even if it's just a random KZbinr it can really help someone. I just wish every comment section was like this one.
@cheeseytacotime9380
@cheeseytacotime9380 6 жыл бұрын
+Alondra Cardenas Lopez yeah maybe just stay here.
@bad4746
@bad4746 6 жыл бұрын
Sophia Strange the fact that you searched for hate is too much and gives them too much attention
@sjhstrange
@sjhstrange 6 жыл бұрын
Supa Dupa Fly One, I apologize but what you just typed is grammatically incorrect. And two, I was looking for haters to tell them to kindly stop and report their comment. I recommend you stop making assumptions before you accuse.
@SkzCarteruwu
@SkzCarteruwu 6 жыл бұрын
Yas same
@amyrose8912
@amyrose8912 5 жыл бұрын
lgbtq+ people are some of the NICEST people on the planet. Thank you Thomas and friends!!! Keep being your beautiful selves!
@nooneknows2686
@nooneknows2686 5 жыл бұрын
We are, thanks. Unless you run into an aphobe...-_- aphobes are often LGBTQ+ still...
@meganmcallister1792
@meganmcallister1792 5 жыл бұрын
Hehe, Thomas and Friends... Hehe... HEHE
@caleboop1814
@caleboop1814 5 жыл бұрын
Megan McAllister IKR THAT’S WHAT I WAS THINKING
@victornikiforov2088
@victornikiforov2088 5 жыл бұрын
Until you accidentally misgender them
@thischannelexistsforsomere9584
@thischannelexistsforsomere9584 5 жыл бұрын
No.
@teddyvalentine2193
@teddyvalentine2193 4 жыл бұрын
i come back to this video every year since it was released just because of the impact it had on me a few years ago. it helped me so much with coming to terms with being trans and being gay. i'm so thankful for thomas and all of his friends because i honestly have no idea where i'd be without them
@LizzietheDragon
@LizzietheDragon Жыл бұрын
Growing up watching Sander Sides, and a lot of just Thomas Sanders videos, really helped me form my morality as a kid. Especially with these Pride videos, I learned a lot about different people and different identities. This was my safe space as a kid. I didn't grow up in a safe environment as a child, so having this really helped me stay positive (and stay alive). So, thank you, Thomas & Friends! You've helped so many people, more than you know.
@ParkerSav
@ParkerSav 6 жыл бұрын
STORYTIME: I accidentally came out (I'm bi) to my mom when we were watching TV and, Supernatural came on. We were watching the episode when we first meet Charlie (who is a female) and I ever so casually said,"Oh, she's really hot." When I realized what I said, which was about three seconds, I started trying to explain what I meant. She stopped me and asked if I liked girls, when I said yes and added that I also liked boys, she smiled sadly and said that I was confused and that it was only a phase. Later she realized that it was never a phase, that I do love both boys and girls. She apologized, saying that she now understood. I'm happy to say that the one and only Thomas Sander encouraged me to come out to my parents, and if it weren't for him, I would still be in the closet. Thank you, Thomas, I know you'll probably never see this, but thank you anyway :)) ❤️💜💙 ((Sorry about that, I needed to rant 😅)) Edit: Why the Hecc did this get 81 likes Edit 2: WHY DOES IT HAVE 168 LIKES
@preKettled
@preKettled 6 жыл бұрын
Stay proud. Happy (One day late Oof) Pride Month!
@breannan8344
@breannan8344 5 жыл бұрын
Fandom TrashTM I love that show.
@ryleesmith3869
@ryleesmith3869 5 жыл бұрын
Fandom TrashTM OMG COMING OUT TO YOUR MOM OVER SUPERNATURAL IS LITERALLY AMAZING I LOVE BOTH THE SHOW AND BEING BI YESSSSSSSSS👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
@marcusberry7372
@marcusberry7372 5 жыл бұрын
Fandom TrashTM uhm thats 108 boio
@lillysanchez2193
@lillysanchez2193 5 жыл бұрын
Fandom TrashTM Charlie is hot!!!!!!!!!!! Not as hot as Castiel though. Or Gabe. Or any Winchester bro. Supernatural is full of hot people
@courtneyledbetter5769
@courtneyledbetter5769 7 жыл бұрын
i love how talyn has their arms around joan and what not and it's literally the cutest thing ever & it's making my cry k bye have a nice day
@hannahh5509
@hannahh5509 7 жыл бұрын
Courtney Ledbetter are they together??
@courtneyledbetter5769
@courtneyledbetter5769 7 жыл бұрын
Starey Cat i'm not sure but i really hope so because they are just so flipping adorable
@DomoLuverOMGEH
@DomoLuverOMGEH 7 жыл бұрын
Starey Cat yes
@lovelysliz
@lovelysliz 7 жыл бұрын
THEY ARE SO CUTEE
@ericacousins9786
@ericacousins9786 7 жыл бұрын
what do you call a non-binary couple? as in girlfriend boyfriend.
@emilylittle1187
@emilylittle1187 3 жыл бұрын
I love how Thomas didn’t sit in the centre, even though it’s his channel. He’s allowing other people to have the limelight, and to have a chance to be heard. It’s so subtle, but meaningful.
@bluebyrne7412
@bluebyrne7412 4 жыл бұрын
You are all such beautiful people, both physically and personality-wise. You are so kind and supportive and watching videos like these make my day. You see the good in everyone and understand that things take time, which is such an important anchor for me, knowing that there are people who will understand you no matter what. Thank you for what you're doing. (Also can we just appreciate how drop-dead gorgeous Rose is? She's so pretty! And I absolutely love Jay's makeup.)
@talynholloway7141
@talynholloway7141 6 жыл бұрын
"are you gay and why?" I died
@tyrstocry3493
@tyrstocry3493 6 жыл бұрын
Thomas Sander's biggest fan ME TOO
@sanderschatstories5919
@sanderschatstories5919 6 жыл бұрын
Yes
@giabellione9162
@giabellione9162 6 жыл бұрын
Thomas Sander's biggest fan SAME
@talynholloway7141
@talynholloway7141 6 жыл бұрын
Emily G 😂😂👍
@lilfizz1619
@lilfizz1619 6 жыл бұрын
I GET THE REFERENCE!! :D :D
@emilynyberg6350
@emilynyberg6350 7 жыл бұрын
The end when he was talking about being proud of all of us, that's when I figured out why I love this man so much. He is not only a funny and kind person, he is one of those youtubers that is not fake and never will be, and THAT is what I love about Thomas Sanders. He is Genuine unlike so many other youtubers. So on behalf of all of us, thank you Thomas, for being there for us even if it is merely through a screen.
@xxxattentionseeker3205
@xxxattentionseeker3205 7 жыл бұрын
Emily Erin that part made me cry
@idiotbeingalive3582
@idiotbeingalive3582 3 жыл бұрын
I love your entire existence Thomas thank you for the encouragement and the love and all of your videos help me to realize that it’s OK to be who you are and your safety and your well-being is important and not just sticking to society and what your parents or peers think
@giulia5634
@giulia5634 4 жыл бұрын
I remember watching this video 3 years ago and it being one of the first things that made me think “huh. I might actually be able to understand and accept myself someday.” Though I’m not out to my family yet I can say I’ve come a long way on the process of figuring myself out (pan pride 💖💛💙) and being more comfortable with my identity. Don’t know how this journey would’ve been without people like Thomas spreading so much love and positivity to this world. Thank you for helping me and so many people go through this! Happy pride! 💕
@nataliacolder2809
@nataliacolder2809 5 жыл бұрын
I absolutely love how Talyn is just like, holding Joan in her lap. Also, like if if your a rainbow too!
@radioactive_baby0706
@radioactive_baby0706 5 жыл бұрын
*their lap. I'll like even though I'm straight
@samiriley4408
@samiriley4408 5 жыл бұрын
I was going to correct you but I saw the other comments about it so I’ll just leave it to them because it was an honest mistake.........probably😉😂
@Slutvestite
@Slutvestite 5 жыл бұрын
This video they stated their pronouns Taylan is they/their please change your comment
@ethan-kt9tv
@ethan-kt9tv 5 жыл бұрын
their*
@Quinn-bq9sv
@Quinn-bq9sv 5 жыл бұрын
🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈
@demetertheduck
@demetertheduck 5 жыл бұрын
My older sister who was adopted last year is gender non-binary and I call them "Big sis" because my dad told me to call them that way. They were born male (Brian) but they have another side to them who's female (Akané).I have two big sisters who were adopted, one Bisexual and one Lesbian. I'm pansexual and my younger sister is Bisexual. My dad learned about my biological sister's sexuality and sat down for two seconds to take it in before being like "I'm proud of you, you just told your dad what makes you happy and, if you come home with a girlfriend, I will welcome her with open arms." He then adopted the twins because they were mistreated for being attracted to girls by their mother. Then, he adopted a beautiful human being that introduced themselves as Akané but then said they were gender non-binary so I got confused for a while (I read a lot of books since then so I'm ok now). And then, I realized my own sexuality and haven't told my dad yet but I don't think he needs to hear it because he always knew I didn't want a relationship with someone I don't like for their personality. I think it was obvious because I told my mom and she didn't even flinch. Ten children and five have found out they were in the LGBTQ+ community.
@lauren1969
@lauren1969 5 жыл бұрын
Liz Snow wow that’s amazing be proud you and your family. I love you all. Thank you for sharing this story I know a good amount of people just need to hear a good coming out story so thank you. Keep sharing the kindness. Love is love 🏳️‍🌈❤️🧡💛💚💙💜💗🏳️‍🌈
@Kidomaru222
@Kidomaru222 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your story ! Your family looks amazing. You can get through anything with people like them on your side, that's for sure. Love is love
@charissimpson235
@charissimpson235 5 жыл бұрын
What an amazing family, and a beautiful story!
@off_white_pinstripes261
@off_white_pinstripes261 5 жыл бұрын
That sounds like an amazing family you have there. You should make a TV show about your lives.
@garbageboitm7960
@garbageboitm7960 5 жыл бұрын
That's so beautiful. You have such a great and supportive family.
@hufflepuffsith5465
@hufflepuffsith5465 4 жыл бұрын
Watching this having just recently accepted my own bisexuality
@AngryDuck143
@AngryDuck143 4 жыл бұрын
*Me reading all the comments making sure that no one is hating*
@hannahcotter299
@hannahcotter299 5 жыл бұрын
I came out recently when my mum and dad said I can't get a boyfriend so I like a smartass turned around and said well don't get me wrong guys are cool but girls are too so I'mma get me a girlfriend. (Edit) I am shocked by how many likes this comment got
@Sportyguy-bg2bg
@Sportyguy-bg2bg 5 жыл бұрын
There you go girl be you 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈
@edilthomas1943
@edilthomas1943 5 жыл бұрын
I love that
@Adriennestarborn
@Adriennestarborn 5 жыл бұрын
WE STAN
@srenee1777
@srenee1777 5 жыл бұрын
Omg that's so me lol. I was hanging with some friends and one was talking about how she wanted a boyfriend and I said, "I don't really want a boyfriend." She said "You just haven't met the right guy yet." I said, "No, seriously, I don't want a boyfriend." She said the same thing and one of my other friends said, "Y'know she a lesbian right?" and my friend just said, "Oh. Well, I do now."
@applescotchpie3003
@applescotchpie3003 5 жыл бұрын
We stan a Queen
@michelleramshaw1639
@michelleramshaw1639 7 жыл бұрын
am i the only person who was like full on staring at Talyn and Joan for the whole video as they like held hands n stuff because oh my god that was so freaking cute
@sabrinasteele6958
@sabrinasteele6958 7 жыл бұрын
not the only one i was too
@merakiem
@merakiem 7 жыл бұрын
Michelle Ramshaw I was too 😹 I swear I'm not new, but are they dating??
@ghostboy7957
@ghostboy7957 7 жыл бұрын
KawaiiBelle yea their dating :)
@handle9998
@handle9998 7 жыл бұрын
Michelle Ramshaw ikr
@bripizza488
@bripizza488 7 жыл бұрын
Michelle Ramshaw yeeeeesssss
@Radiographer101
@Radiographer101 Жыл бұрын
As a Christian and straight I support lgbtq and say it LOUD AND PROUD GUYS!!!❤️
@starflightruby6259
@starflightruby6259 4 жыл бұрын
Me being asexual panromantic and questioning my gender: Y'all are frickin amazing Edit: I figured out my gender about a month after writing this originally and am now comfortable saying I'm a demigirl ^v^ (editing this bc I got a reply and forgot I wrote this comment)
@estefaniasorando4409
@estefaniasorando4409 3 жыл бұрын
Yo! That's great, congrats! -also an Ace Demigirl
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