Hayley teaches You How You Can Say Hello To A Woman for The First Time | Martin 2.0

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[@axelfalk1]

This is interesting because Martin is such a regular guy - usually these focus on guys who are better looking etc - but Martin looks like an everyday man: kudos to him - he has guts!

[@HayleyQuinn]

Martin was such a champion for this video. I have to admit I was not having a good day when I went to film this one, so I pushed him a lot and he totally took on the challenge. Core of steel // heart of gold. Look out for his practice date video out at the end of the week :D

[@felipeferreira5206]

+Hayley Quinn : Thank you for all the inspiration, youre obviously very good at what you do, you and Martin were both great in this video,

[@RW2709]

Great person.

[@myvenusinuranus]

I'd like to meet a cool chick like you. I'd approach you

[@RW2709]

I am a man I not a woman I am a cool man

[@ICET100]

yeah right you are

[@kevinp8108]

Bravo Martin! Get out of your comfort zone and keep talking to women. It'll get easier the more often you do it. We admire your courage! Here is a quote for you..."FEAR ONLY EXIST IN THE MIND & IS A DESTROYER OF DREAMS."

[@jayleeds2006]

This is really good. Very smart, compassionate, but tough coaching. Watching Martin plow thru is interesting. He creates so much resistance for himself, but when he finally executes, it’s flawless, like a pro- especially the 1st two approaches. He is very inspiring. Hayley is fantastic.

[@HayleyQuinn]

+jayleeds2006 he is inspiring

[@mr.la2842]

watching this i found myself yelling "you can do it martin!" and "Get it bro".. i believe in you man! Funny thing is that if i was put in the same situation it would definitely take a lot for me to even muster up some courage and approach. So to see you getting out there and giving it a go is very inspiring martin! Love your work Hayley! Your videos are encouraging me to be a better me, thanks!! :)

[@nico3641]

You inspire me Martin. Takes a lot of guts. Don't lose the momentum

[@selftaughtkh]

Totally love this. Love the content. Love how it is real and how you're coaching and challenging to step out his comfort zone and free himself.

[@jeroenfens8978]

Great coaching, Hayley! Martin seems like such a great and honest guy. Love it. Good luck from the Netherlands

[@koobxmeej]

Martin reminds of myself. I like this video and how you coaching Martin - I think this is what we truly need; an exposure that other people are genuinely and authentically scared of talking to another stranger. Thank you.

[@HayleyQuinn]

+Kong Lor i wanted every guy (and girl!) out there who wants to face social phobias to know you can and you will overcome everything

[@cristianrayas2586]

Amazing Job Martin! All you need is 5 Seconds of insane Courage and something good will come out, every single time. Great Job!

[@Ravenex2]

Really great session! Nice growth and interactions.

[@nathansamuel222]

im so invested in this story now - keep it up both of you!

[@HayleyQuinn]

+Nathan Samuel more videos next week :D

[@myawesomelife4168]

Love this Martin training... It's hard to get out of the comfort zone; but with practice and perseverance you can achieve the ultimate goal. We're only human both men and women feel nervousness an uncertainty. So practice, practice and you'll get to become a natural at it.

[@martinpaint]

This is like the coolest thing someone has done for anyone ever!!! You two are awesome!!

[@neil4182]

So much to learn from this video thank you Hayley!

[@KeikoFXDesigns]

She is probably the best coach out there!

[@Return2Self]

You felt the fear and did it anyway. Well done Martin!

[@sz5971]

I wish more women were as patient, gentle, encouraging and empathetic as you were with this man, this world would be such a beautiful place!

[@mbpm3]

I love Hayley! she's wonderful-I've learned a lot!

[@HayleyQuinn]

+mbpm3 aww thank you!

[@rhirhidoi6820]

well done Martin!

[@josephbeatty4421]

Martin BUDDY!, Great job getting out of your comfort zone! I need to work on many the same issues you have, but don't know if o could do it in such a public form. that takes guts. congrats and keep it up! :-) Joseph when I let go of what I am, I become what I may be. Chinese proverb.

[@notreallydavid]

Good to see so many really decent, generous comments here - so un-KZbin-ish.

[@Chorus696]

true, i was expecting a lot of comments bashing Martin, but no! I like that.

[@vl4eva]

@@Chorus696 never that!! Dating these days is like a battleground and we gotta support guys like Martin for attempting to break down barriers. Only bashing if this was all staged like most dating/pick-up vids are.

[@lamrof]

here is an idea, solicitors interrupt us on the street, at work, coffee shops and hell even at home to sell us something so they take profit. How about interrupting somebody and give something for free, now that is an idea. I interrupted a marred couple the other day in a coffee shop and told them, " excuse me, my name is so and so, I just want to say that I wish you to have a good day. I am in a good mood and want to share this mood with others" Big smile from both of them. I ended up talking to them for 10 minutes. Turns out we are neighbours, I got their number, called them and we exchanged christmas cards.

[@petermitchell2203]

Awesome video.

[@maenad1138]

Martin's a champ, seriously. It's clear how difficult it is and yet he wades in there and does it, and as others have said, it's wonderful to see that when he lets his natural -- great -- sense of humor come out, as it did with the woman taking photos, people respond so well to him. I hope he got that, that the more of his actual self he exposed, the better response he got. That said, although Hayley you've got such awesome things to say, I'd get prickly fast if a strange man wandered into my personal space and touched me uninvited. In general I send out crystal clear signals and they don't, but I'd hate to think that was obligatory in someone's repertoire when it's liable to have a negative effect on a lot of women. I want my person respected; I don't want touching without clear invitation.

[@arremerace]

Martin, you're a natural bro! Keep at it! :D

[@HayleyQuinn]

+Matthew Logan he's got a natural social ease and warmth which really helps him to connect

[@Ricardo2707]

This is so wholesome 😢

[@JackNapi3r]

Poor fella :p but Hayley you're a great coach very comforting and supportive towards him. :) I'm glad you managed to boost his selfesteem a little!

[@HayleyQuinn]

+El Jasper he makes me smile so that's easy :)

[@mauricesavaari]

Hailey and Berba. Two best dating coaches in the UK. No doubt in my mind. Well done Martin.

[@user-md1ol7nj7h]

la ruina?

[@Urathamax]

Lost count of how many times I yelled "Go on, Martin!". This is engrossing, and speaking as a fellow socially awkward guy, I hope he breaks through those mental barriers!

[@HayleyQuinn]

+Urathamax wahoo let's support him the whole way :)

[@Urathamax]

+Hayley Quinn Absolutely - I really feel for the guy. I also think that you were amazingly patient with him. I've seen how some coaches are and to be honest, I was happy you both got results without it getting unpleasant. It's hard to break out of your comfort zone, and it's hard to show somebody how, so congratulations to you both, and may you have many more successes down the road!

[@oopalonga]

can you post the equipment u use to record this? including the mics. were u using two or one mic? and what camera

[@joef1245]

I love how you've taken something that usually feels a bit creepy, misogynistic and weird, and you've made it actually nice! P.S. Get in there Martin you legend!!! :D

[@RW2709]

Another great video,this guy is good around girls to he is so funny I watchs your videos over and over I walk up to some girls and did what you see they smile I gave them a hand shake to,your friend Ronald Williams

[@weironiottan7166]

wow, he reminds me so much of myself back a year ago, wish i had hayley quinn in phoenix last year lol

[@josef8428]

hey thank you very much heyley for the video, I like it and all those excuses are happening to me, I really can't do like what Martin did, and I wish so. go job Martin

[@HayleyQuinn]

+MICHAEL ADMIR yes you can. You have to 'mind over matter it' check out my website for more tips on how to start feeling the fear and doing it anyway x

[@josef8428]

I will do , thank you

[@KiritKanaga1]

+Hayley Quinn Susan Jeffers. Awesome

[@ryans413]

I'm no expert but what I found works is to talk to someone about what there wearing. People feel good when you comment on what there wearing. Oh like your shoes or your jacket looks great were you get it. Then it's easy to talk to the person you can talk about the jacket shoes then you can ask were you got them and talk about the store or place you goth those shoes. Makes for a nice easy conversation and who knows if it's a girl she might be nice enough to suggest something for you. Oh I know a great place you look great in these men's shoes and bam your in you just got a girl willing to hang out with you. The hardest part is just doing it I agree with Hayley you just gotta do it.

[@SzuesS]

Wandering eyes from Martin😂😂 23:35

[@KingoftheJuice18]

A bit hard to watch, but very valuable. Thanks.

[@greenteasmoothie8404]

Kudos to Martin!

[@careditor]

Hi Hayley, I was just thinking the other day, did Martin ever get a girlfriend? Or married? What was the result?

[@KxK96]

He's so attracted to you, Hayley. Notice how he's staring at your lips rather than your eyes the whole time. So either he's paying attention to what you're saying or he wants to kiss you, lol. Good video !

[@pyhomer]

Well done Martin 👍💪

[@rossgoldberg5201]

The thing is that u have to be careful where and whom u approach. If u approach a lot of women in a small town and u suck at approaching, then you'll eventually get a bad rep of being a "creeper" since everyone will gossip and see how weird you are. Actually, I got kicked out of a small to moderate sized mall once because the security guards there told me that they got complaints from some women who accuse me of harassing them, even though I didn't.

[@wallrider73]

Well done Martin. I was getting nervous just watching the build up. Keep going!

[@quxantipe]

@26:50 Wtf that guy with the "flashy" scarf doing. It looks funny as hell.

[@lukeh5165]

Part 2 please, on how to open someone's mind up please Hayley :)

[@POWERMINDS747]

At first Martin was like "Aww, I don't want to do this!"

[@josh5196]

Martin you are a fucking boss!! Keep up the good work

[@albateg1189]

hey does anybody know the song at min 22 :D

[@davidlj4041]

All of the "I can't do that", "that sounds silly" and walking slowly and all of the other excuses are so familiar to me that it was really hard watching this. I feel on some of those occasions Hayley was being a little harsh and it would have made me feel less inclined to continue. But it seemed to push Martin in the right direction, so I guess it works. Talking too fast once you've started is also something that is familiar and sometimes leads to people not understanding what I'm saying.

[@HayleyQuinn]

+David Lj I was a little too harsh that day. It's a fine balancing act to be supportive but when you know someone is three feet from gold give them an extra nudge x

[@martinbray2183]

+Hayley Quinn No way were you too harsh, I need the kick up my bum to get out of the Rut I'm in and you do it perfectly :)

[@lamrof]

Anyone felt a lump in their stomach as Martin walked into the Lion's Den of strangers to say nice things to them. Wooohoooo scary shit.

[@dreadthefearpad9770]

I give this guy 100% respect; I am trying to do this to college girls right now, and man, it is hard. XD

[@barranqismocanyoning2566]

Damn, i love YOUR smile!

[@ShivaCVIII]

The pizza walk is good for overcoming hesitation. Go into a shop and ask for something ridiculous they don't sell, with a relaxed straight face eg go into McDonalds and say something like " Can I have a ham and pineapple pizza please?" then when they say " Sorry, we don't sell those" go " Ah, it's ok thanks, I'll try the chinese restaurant"

[@all4180]

I'm a pretty shy guy sometimes. I was walking through the train station today and there was a pretty cute lady walking while reading a book. I was walking near her and asked "where'd you get the antique?" She looked at me puzzled for a couple of seconds. Then I said "you have an actual book". She laughed and said some people still use those! It was awesome! I probably could have continued but that was it, we both went on our way. Another wasted opportunity. I think there's something wrong with me. Not pathetic, just kinda sad.

[@rossgoldberg5201]

I can very much relate to his overthinking problem

[@TasteMyStinkholeAndLikeIt]

+Ross Goldberg That's because your subconscious already knows what your conscious doesn't want to accept.

[@rossgoldberg5201]

+TasteMyStinkhole Well not always. Sometimes your instincts are right and sometimes they are not. Btw, is that really you in the avatar pic?

[@TasteMyStinkholeAndLikeIt]

Ross Goldberg lol.. the pic is click bait. I don't usually swerve into this dating bullshit, but somehow meandered my way here from cars, religitards, or poli-dicks videos

[@rossgoldberg5201]

+TasteMyStinkhole I see. So, are u a guy or a girl?

[@kingdamager7370]

I had a friend I helped doing something like this. His anxiety was so bad that he would avoid ordering food from a girl at a counter. That's where we started. Then light flirting with them or a waitress, and so on. less than a year later he had his first girlfriend. A super good guy, overlooked because he was super shy due to childhood rejections and ridicule by girls. Looked a lot like a skinny Martin.

[@irvyncaesar1857]

love all Haley videos A

[@midge218]

I like how Hayley kept touching Martin to reassure him

[@sukbin7978]

15:12 haha nice job mom ^^

[@melonasks7041]

The moment deserves some happy music motive like when you get points in a game.

[@crnamamba3898]

Isnt weard that when you are afraid to do something, cuz you think that you dont have what you need to have, but deep inside you have it. Anyway thats situation with me. Martin did just what i said. He thougt that he cant do something but when he did it he realise that he has what is needed.

[@Chorus696]

how many hellos it takes to have a gf? I think i need a coach too...

[@patarikisoterion9899]

This is all about being more confident-not about picking up initially.

[@joaquinbolanos5526]

Plot twist: Every girl who spoke with Martín was a Hayley's actress and Martín did not know it.

[@TheBeautyGamer1]

What did he say in the first approachSomething about ham or amI Way off?

[@TheBeautyGamer1]

*Am i

[@MrRichard9315]

hayley, you hace a gourgeous accent :) !

[@ryans413]

Lol 22:10 that person video bomb you guys lol

[@LakenTak]

That girl with the camera actually is very beautiful and is also interested in Martin. I feel like Martin should have asked for her contact information and start something. It's a pity Martin is so insecure about the way he looks. Some girls do like chubby guys with glasses.

[@pithikoulis]

lol interested? She's just being nice.

[@JayAyers]

Beautiful lady indeed. I wouldn't say interested just yet, but she was willing to chat. He could've has a nice few minutes of conversation with her actually as she was willing to talk about what other pictures she had captured.

[@TinyTurtie]

Congrats dude...baby steps..

[@HayleyQuinn]

+TinyTurtie exactly... you just need to take many small steps not a big leap

[@EricFisher.TheVillages]

A pirate's name. Respect to the dude and the person who booted him in the ass to a better life.

[@ryans413]

This was awkward too watch but very informative

[@Koettnylle]

26:50 Actual pick up being followed through successfully

[@00great226]

Random wingman action! lol

[@backwoods8581]

I talk to strangers all the time and to be completely honest, Martin was right about some things. "I like how you're drinking green juice"? If someone said that to me I'd dismiss them as someone a little bit odd... and not in a positive way.

[@mickeymicky]

I wouldn't want to talk to anyone else if I was coached by haley

[@LohTek]

This is more or less about Martin becoming comfortable in his own skin by repeatedly opening women at the shopping center; I can see that Martin already has a golden personality by his cheeky comment about the mistletoe. He only needs the confidence to show that to the girls he opens and things will go extremely well for him.

[@un_chien_andalou]

It's interesting how awkwardness is contagious

[@Hanariel]

OMFG i can't believe it... I was having a hard time watching him on the first two videos, it was sooooo painfull to see this guy... now what a difference o_o

[@ivanhoe4mag]

yeah yeah

[@misterneckbreaker88]

Right there the onlooker is what puts me off. Hang on jm trying to score with this woman do you mind staring

[@willywonka1815]

I like giving women weird stares ,ha ,things I do to amuse myself .

[@yusufalef92]

Hayley you are really nice

[@fionastiles2159]

one of my favourite videos youve done.i want to see the follow on videos,and martins progress.there should be a womens version of these videos.

[@TasteMyStinkholeAndLikeIt]

You know the girl with the book is a plant, right... I mean even he knows that, doesn't he? For chryst sake, they're standing 2 feet away from her, talking about her and her book as though she were 50 feet away... it's not like she can't hear their whole conversation. lolololol. If I was the guy at the table listening to all this, I'd be in tears on the floor laughing my balls off. Since he's not even smirking, I'm guessing he's in on it too.

[@ms7857]

I was thinking that too but I think she couldn't hear as clearly as we could because she has a mic

[@bradsmith1934]

+TasteMyStinkhole I doubt buddy could hear them well, & also it's highly unlikely he cared what they were up to.I had a hottie gal pal yrs ago who gave me a little coaching (dressing stylish, acting bolder, "just do it" when approaching etc.)The guys around us were drooling over my friend & bugging me for her #, & the gals were basically oblivious, in their own worlds.

[@TasteMyStinkholeAndLikeIt]

Michael Scofield Well, unless the seated women is nearly deaf, most people can hear conversations 5 feet from them with no problem at all. And given this is a quiet setting to begin with, not a crowded restaurant with roaring chatter, it just strains credibility to think either (1) she couldn't hear them talking about her and/or (2) she wasn't in on the game with Hayley

[@irvyncaesar1857]

Hayley cool chic

[@oopalonga]

the funny thing is, as nervous as he is, he actually has pretty funny shit to say lol. but why wudn't u start him with an easier warm-up? like just walking the two of u together and then asking people for the time?

[@DW-nh4kt]

Come on you can do it...!

[@DW-nh4kt]

YES

[@charliechase7390]

Hayley; can you describe you ideal husband in terms of looks, wealth and personality? Thanks for all your videos :)

[@HayleyQuinn]

+Charlie Chase integrity and morals are everything to me so someone with a heart of gold x

[@SanjayPatel-el6vv]

+Hayley Quinn Absolute BS. Please guys don't fall for this trap , she is just selling her product simple , please guys don't be dumb enough to believe her so called tips for dating girls , a woman can never understand from a guy's point of view and its not her fault either

[@willywonka1815]

Hayley loves the girls ,ohhh lovely.

[@JackNapi3r]

Hayley maybe try to give him tips on how he has to represent himself. First impression is influenced by the way he's dressed and behaves in general. (maybe no backpack that is falling of his shoulder) He seems like a nice guy so there's really no offense intended or whatsoever.

[@HayleyQuinn]

+El Jasper we're getting onto styling... later :D

[@sidrat69]

Lol! Try acting out Hayley's 'advice' here in Central London when approaching women and see what happens. In recent years every time I've approached women here in London in a non-creepy normal way they tell me to get lost or "go do one"! I remember one girl I was approaching even shut me down before I even opened my mouth to talk to her! And another woman was giving flirtacious signals to me whilst we were both waiting at a bus stop and when I responded to her overtures she started shouting to everyone that I was harassing her!! And she was the one looking at me to begin with trying to get my attention! You do hear stories of women giving false signals to men in order to entrap them and hurl false accusations at them. As a consequence men are now far more reluctant to approach women and Hayley knows this which is why she's desperate to give out this 'advice' as women are now complaining that men are now reluctant to approach them. Hmm.. I wonder why? 20 years ago or so it was far more straightforward to approach women and chat them up without any fear of backlash. I had many dating opportunities because of this. Men these days are not so lucky. Unfortunately in recent times the #Me Too and 3rd Wave Feminism movements have killed the art of flirting and approaching women not to mention killing relationships and commitment between women and men. So sad what it's come to but this is what 3rd Wave Feminism wanted and the brainwashed women around the world that believed it were not astute enough to see how mendacious and damaging the movement and it's aims are.

[@visaman]

Why didnt he say hello to the guy in the Ice Cream shoppe?

[@30096350]

I wish I had a friend like you!!! Can I meet you in person. what is your email?

[@manxman6282]

I need a wing woman like her

[@LakenTak]

I wish Martin does this approaching session more often, not just once a month. I feel like there's very little improvement over the last session. Martin is still insecure about his body type and as a result hesitates to start a conversation with pretty women. Michael, on the other hand, learns much faster because his sessions happens more frequently and his speech aside, he's actually an attractive young man. Martin's look will be a barrier to meeting quality women, but practicing often will be the key to letting go of that insecurity and doubt.

[@allsearpw3829]

ROOTING FOR MARTIN HE,S A GREAT CHAP ,crack it mate , or face the roth of HAYLEY Q .

[@FateNightroad]

If Martin randomly said, "I like how you're smiling on a Monday evening" in Canada, it would be considered socially awkward & creepy due to the cultural differences.

[@thaskunk1]

+Fate Nightroad not always

[@melonasks7041]

Being creepy is never about WHAT you do, but HOW you do that. You can make any activity creepy. On the other hand, you can say almost anything if your voice and body are relaxed and properly adjusted to the social context in which you're doing that.

[@willywonka1815]

He's gonna get arrested

[@Advection357]

I think Martin's troubles with approaching women lies deeper than it looks. He seems like a genuinely nice guy, but when the intent is approaching for a possible relationship or future romantic endeavor, Martin needs work in other areas as well, not just the 1st contact. He needs a proper diet along with a good gym workout program, and a fashion consultant. That would realistically boost his self confidence and sense of well being & will make it much easier for him to approach women.

[@kevinp8108]

+Advection357 Baby-steps, baby-steps.

[@martinbray2183]

part of the program is an intense fitness program as well, I'm getting personal training 4 times a week and have lost nearly two stone since starting.

[@johnteoh4420]

+Martin Bray keep it up martin we are all rooting for you

[@Advection357]

***** Awesome Martin! I've been on the other spectrum, I was thin for many years.. and it had a similar effect on my confidence.. So I started training 6 months ago & have put on 20lb.. feels great! We will be watching your progress!

[@brayman1701]

+Advection357 Yeah im sure I will definitely feel a lot better about myself and a lot more confident when I've lost a bit more, the trainers are pushing me hard I promise it will start showing soon ;).

[@RW2709]

U.K. Girls are beautiful ....

[@SanjayPatel-el6vv]

Sorry hayley don't wanna discourage you but you got very loose game , with this kind of coaching he will never be able to get a girlfriend or won't get any dates. The coaching you are giving now might be able to help girls to get better blokes and I think you should focus and try to teach women to get dates as you seem very expertise in that but no way the other way round

[@HayleyQuinn]

+Sanjay Patel He'll get there you shall see. Wooing women is not about loads of BS lines, teasing and an over inflated ego. martin wants something real... and that's what he shall receive

[@SanjayPatel-el6vv]

+Hayley Quinn See that's what you are mistaken Hayley , I never said wooing is about bullshit lines or teasing or anything related to that , you got it all wrong and just because I criticized your teaching you reacted like this in a very strong way , a typical british lass and that's the only reason you got very less subscribers in compare to other dating coaches . What Martin need is raw first hand coaching and not some fairy tale experiences and you can never understand being a lass , as you don't have that kind of exposure , its nothing wrong with you and you won't understand that where all this guys coming from , all i can wish you is good luck and I already recommended you is some alternative career options , I sweat to God you can do thousand times better in coaching women to get better blokes but no way in coaching Men please try to understand hayley

[@LakenTak]

Hayley Quinn I am not sure if that's what Martin wants. He's touching you, kissing your head. A lot of touching is what I see from Martin, and he's obviously desperate just to get any girl for that matter. Sure Martin is looking for something real, but he, like most boys and girls, wants a bit of salad on the side.