Hope you guys are enjoying the video ☺️ Don’t forget to hit the like button & leave a comment to let me know! For more of Somebi, be sure to check out her KZbin channel: kzbin.info/door/2UOQCJEvzf3gx9oevHieFA
@emmanuelabedide96972 жыл бұрын
He took me to Mr Biggs lol
@eberehislight.2 жыл бұрын
I loved it🥰🥰
@vikieve2 жыл бұрын
I love your video
@sarahalan30622 жыл бұрын
I love everything about this video!!! So wholesome🥰🥰🥰
@idrisoluwalonimi_p55252 жыл бұрын
This is just another big shot. I was just laughing while learning. Jesus is Lord! But that ICM man is so funny. Please Ezinne, can you give us your perception about the criticism about women deciding to have discipline in choices of men that walk up to them and being so uptight to approach as a woman. I have had a sister told me, "the way you too serious minded, you might chase men away from proposing. I was like nah." That's too much! am I too disciplined about men?
@Ibeojo2 жыл бұрын
The both of you are GIVING!!! From hair to Skin🔥
@EzinneZara2 жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@myhairdairy2 жыл бұрын
Yassss
@stitchesbylola88762 жыл бұрын
Seriously 🥰
@kuukuahayford79232 жыл бұрын
Yessss! Glowing 😍
@chinazaekezinne19822 жыл бұрын
Seriously!!
@Mathapelo_Nkosi2 жыл бұрын
The whole story of “lowering your standards “ so that you can claim you’ve been in a relationship before is none sense. I’m 22 years and I still don’t have a boyfriend; when I tell people my story they exclaim and they are shocked but honestly I know who I am in Christ and I’m not going to allow myself to allow bare minimum in all forms of relationship's because I am a 10. I pray people get over this fear and realize that God wants the best for us and he will provide the best❤️
@Simply_yoma2 жыл бұрын
Yooooo! You are literally me! 😂 it's weird explaining to people why I'm a 22year old that has never had a boyfriend. They think something is wrong with you. God is building us for the best, this is our phase of learning. We can't lower standards sir, we know who we are.
@preciousbezeng19842 жыл бұрын
Someone even said I'm a cultist because I'm not dating 😅 and I'm just 20🙄 this society is very sick. SMH. I won't lower my standards just because I want to fit in. There's still so much I don't know about me that God is revealing. This society cannot pressure me
@BellaChristiana2 жыл бұрын
Amen! Yo!!! I love the energy 💯
@chiikahh27402 жыл бұрын
Amen
@flourishorji66812 жыл бұрын
Preach sisters!!!👏🏾... I'm 23 years and I haven't had a BF and it's bliss because I have time to spend with God, Jesus and the person of the holy spirit more... Though the thought comes once in a while but listen y'all, it's better to be with the man God has for you than the man you have for your self!...
@sylviaugoma2 жыл бұрын
“If you don’t deal with your issues, you’re going to bring that baggage to whoever you’re with”. That hit , man!
@barisuka_16312 жыл бұрын
I’m 18 and I enjoy my space. I get a lot of questions and attacks as to why I’m single and I refuse to date but I’m not just comfortable being in a relationship
@stellamarislegal2 жыл бұрын
Come ... Ezinne, how can you be so young and yet so sensible? May the Holy Spirit keep directing your ways, amen!
@jemimaoduwaiye2 жыл бұрын
This happened to me too; where I prayed for the feelings to die when I was getting too obsessive with a guy and the next week literally, all the feelings just went from 100 to 0. Honestly, I think that’s the best method to get yourself out of any feeling that you shouldn’t be feeling; ask God to kill it.
@kaosaratemilayo33802 жыл бұрын
This is totally unrelated but I recently gave my life to Christ and I decided to break up with my boyfriend even though at first it was a tough decision because he was a really good person but there were certain things we were doing that weren't right with me anymore and I am glad I did because I feel a lot better and happy. cheers to being 22, being in Christ, and being happy. Thank you Ezinne for all that you do.
@tegaedwards2 жыл бұрын
❤❤❤❤
@nenguselma7161 Жыл бұрын
You're very much welcome to the family. God loves you❤
@omodesolajuliet50504 ай бұрын
I did the same, I feel lonely sometimes.
@favourajayi9194Ай бұрын
I did the same too 1 year plus now no regrets! ❤ & 💡
@estherenang31998 күн бұрын
That's a wise choice dear, a time to focus on the Lord.
@kateofmanycolours2 жыл бұрын
An interesting conversation! “The fact that men have been badly behaved doesn’t mean women should be badly behaved. We should be calling men higher and not women coming lower 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽” I like the sisterly bond 😍😍😍
@maryadeniyi44542 жыл бұрын
The "Mr Biggs" part had me howling 😂😂😂😂
@grahamdeborahabimbola88882 жыл бұрын
You're right Ma'am! When it comes to dating, sex is a determinant of how long the relationship would last. I am 23yrs and I was in a relationship with this person and I couldn't give sex willingly but he violated me and it hurts 😔. At the end of the day, when he knew that i couldn't give sex, I saw another side of him and he used my flaws as an excuse to leave.. it really hurts but I have learnt lots of lessons
@ellaowusu21992 жыл бұрын
Ezinne you should be a life coach.. you know how to say Every word and give the exact advice on every topic... U are blessed, u are blessed, u are blessed
@nahambohilma85982 жыл бұрын
True talk
@funtofaith13812 жыл бұрын
It's the Rita Dominic's scene for me.😂😂😂😂😂
@olajumokeakosile13862 жыл бұрын
It's the facial expressions when you said "he took me to Mr Biggs" for me 😂😂😂😂😂. I loved this video so much. It was fun to watch and at the same time was filled with so much wisdom. Thank you Ezinne and Somebi❤️❤️
@maryblessing43322 жыл бұрын
Can we just appreciate this gorgeous woman on our left.😍😍 Thanks Mrs Zara for this talk. What I'm taking home: . Set standards and put God first in any relationship. . Note the red flags of the person. . Pray to God when a certain feeling inside you doesn't feel right.
@emmanuellabuzugbe15112 жыл бұрын
Ezinne you and your sister are so beautiful. thank you for reaffirming that having standards is not the problem, also I have been in situations where people who don't really know how to be alone and enjoy it (because it's one thing to be alone) try to tell me I have a problem because I'm not actively dating. I know for sure that limiting the number of people I open up to in this life is for the better because siiiis there are so many broken people out here trying to drag others down with them.
@Thisisbisola2 жыл бұрын
Somebi is wiser than her years and so cute! Definitely enjoyed this conversation…I didn’t want it to end😩
@helenibekwe8272 жыл бұрын
Why did it end oo😭😭😭😭😭I was grinning ear to ear.I love this video,and this is for me,because the pressure to get married @23 is just so much. People now make it seem like being single is doom😂😂😂and I’m not understanding why 🤣🤣
@ReenelT2 жыл бұрын
My sister let them take several seats. I'm pushing 26 and I'm okay......... okay, knowing that I have a life to live and once I'm in my purpose, every component of that purpose will happen in their set time.
@emmanuellabarnes58042 жыл бұрын
A friend shared this with me and I’m very grateful that she did. I haven’t even finished watching it but my spirit is just happy. God bless you.
@nahambohilma85982 жыл бұрын
❤🙏
@somkayne2 жыл бұрын
It's tells you a lot, when they start commenting before the video is over 😂, Great job Ezinne!
@Simply_yoma2 жыл бұрын
Somebi has never dated. Wow! We are many in this club o. Love this video y'all! ❤️ Our life is God centered, no two ways about it. It's what God says that matters o. We can't remove our core just because you want to "feel" us. We know who we are abeg! Thank God for God. Like somebi said, life is way easier with God. Shalom.
@aimaohi26672 жыл бұрын
“We should be calling men higher not women going lower” so true!!! 3:05 I relate with Somebi when she referred to that prayer she prayed about that guy who was going to ask her on a date. I prayed a “dangerous” prayer like that. The way God answered my prayer so quickly!! It was like film trick.
@abigailinspires2 жыл бұрын
I wish this video was actually longer 🥺 undiluted truth that I needed to hear(Just the reinforcement I needed). Thank you Ezinne and Somebi❤️❤️
@peaceyya21812 жыл бұрын
This video was really helpful and fun to watch. Sometime ago, this guy I was talking to suggested we go to a "lounge" to be specific, a hotel, for a "date". He said he's a shy person and would be more comfortable in a hotel and we could talk there as well. I don't know if I'm the only person that thinks it says a lot about him, especially because it was meant to be our first meeting. We don't talk anymore because it turns out he thinks sex is what makes and upholds a relationship.
@EzinneZara2 жыл бұрын
Welp!
@tiyaosa2 жыл бұрын
Omg I can relate to Somiebi’s prayer.. it actually works fr😂😂😂
@nechefavour93322 жыл бұрын
"Love yourself enough to find our why" This is so good. By finding out why, we know the right solution for it
@alinaabed60822 жыл бұрын
I love the chat and you guys are so pretty ♥️✨. Honestly I guess what most Christians are failing to do self introspection especially ladies. Most ladies don’t know who they are and they feel like perhaps they can just accept any man and try by all means to change the man. Please if you are a Christian (male /female) every time you are about to enter a relationship make sure that the God factor is the ultimate thing you look out for. There is a way a person who fears God will behave towards you and there are certain things he or she won’t do because he or she understands the love of Christ. 🤗
@krissy_n57322 жыл бұрын
Part 2 please 😭This was so insightful. The wisdom that both of you imparted was so needed, love you guys❤️
@somkayne2 жыл бұрын
Yaaaaassss! Part two pretty please 🥺🤲😂
@biancaihua58412 жыл бұрын
I'm in love with your sister, Ezinne. Please, always bring her to the show so you both can talk about societal issues and proffer solutions. I feel your sister will be a great orator someday ❤️🥰❤️🥰😍.
@komelle2 жыл бұрын
20 minutes was definitely not enough 😁, thank you so much Ezinne for this video. I love love Somebi's vibes.
@Ibeojo2 жыл бұрын
"sitting alone, away from the noice gives room for growth" thank you Soo much Ezinne and Somebi. God bless you 😇❣️
@dimmaokeke2 жыл бұрын
That prayer!! To kill whatever fake feelings is present is so necessary. That's what I always pray, if he is not my husband remove him from my thoughts and God answers ohh 😂😂😂😂
@temiod2 жыл бұрын
It’s definitely “sister Ezinne” for me 😂😂
@chinazoucheaga48252 жыл бұрын
The moment of silence when you said " he took me to Mr. Biggs" 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣Like the actual NERVE!!!
@Onosetalee2 жыл бұрын
Love the bond between you and your sister, plus this was also such a hilarious video😂 Also wanted to clarify that dating in the actual sense of the word doesn’t always involve sex though, and I realized Nigerians generally look as dating as courtship as well, so the words are usually interchanged even among Christians.
@somkayne2 жыл бұрын
I agree with you, but The actual meaning is one thing and what most people actually use it to represent is another, and I think that's what she's referring to
@anne.88302 жыл бұрын
Yayyyyyy Glad to see you and Sommie My dreadlocks and low-cut queens😌❤️.
@levelupwithada2 жыл бұрын
"we are coming into an age where men have been badly behaved, and women are now saying they can be badly behaved" Nuff said!
@wobochioma18252 жыл бұрын
Ezinne your videos are always timely, I just know it has to be the Holy Spirit, every time I get a notification it’s a video answering a question my heart needs an answer to. God bless you 🤎
@gatw19772 жыл бұрын
I’ve not even started watching, but I’m already excited because I recently subscribed to your sister’s KZbin, and I love love her vibe
@llsss7772 жыл бұрын
She is amazing and has a very attractive personality
@rhemasage81062 жыл бұрын
😂 you really had to bring in the short clip showing the Nollywood vibe 😂😂😂💔 I just can't stop laughing. Much love to you all 😘
@ruthngube35152 жыл бұрын
That question Somebi asked was a very salient question and the manner in which Ezinne answered the question just added to my knowledge on relationships. Just this part of the video reminded me of a dream I had. In this dream, I was in a car with Ezinne and she was given me relationship advice as well and after that she hugged me. It was so soothing. A kind of hug I don't even receive from my elder sister. ( that's the most abridged version of the dream I could give) God continue to bless you and keep you both🙏
@nahambohilma85982 жыл бұрын
Wow 🙏❤
@iluvlovemwah Жыл бұрын
“honey...you should be putting God around”😂❤ very true tho!
@Iwasimidele2 жыл бұрын
It’s both of your facial expressions after she said mr. Biggs 😂🤣. I’m rolling
@toyoqueen68732 жыл бұрын
Thank you zara for posting. I have been feeling so down and when i saw your post I just felt like this is exactly what I needed because I know you will always involve God in anything you are saying and I love that about you. Thank you , I love you ❤️😘
@EzinneZara2 жыл бұрын
Aww I hope you feel better soon. Whatever it is, it will pass 🤍
@toyoqueen68732 жыл бұрын
@@EzinneZara i think I feel much better now. God is with me and he loves me
@toyoqueen68732 жыл бұрын
@@EzinneZara thank you
@kelechiobadiah29422 жыл бұрын
I can actually relate with somebi😂😂, after i prayed the same prayer she prayed omoo all the heart pounding stopped😂😂. I loved every bit of this video. Thank you guys for this♥️♥️
@ifyezeh56972 жыл бұрын
Such beautiful and intelligent duo. Looking forward to more intelligent conversations like this one. Well-done guys!
@gislainfrancois33482 жыл бұрын
This video needs another part 2. You and your sister speaks on true facts.
@obehioye2 жыл бұрын
First of all, skin! Second, Somebi is a moooood! 🤣🤣🤣 Loved every bit of this video. ❤️❤️
@funtofaith13812 жыл бұрын
They are so cute!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Oh my God! God bless you both.
@EzinneZara2 жыл бұрын
Amennn
@RiyeOjikpong2 жыл бұрын
I loveeeeeeee your sisters vibes Zara... welldone you guys!
@onyinyechiogbu26562 жыл бұрын
Marriage is a good thing but it won't fix you.. Trueee✨
@D.Youngest.Youtuber11 ай бұрын
I really enjoyed it. Funny how I've had the same experience as praying to God to kill a feeling for me and I just realized 😊 Thank you for this❤
@biancaihua58412 жыл бұрын
It's the "Sister Ezinne" for me😍😍❤️❤️❤️. Aww😍😍❤️. I love you guys so much 🥰😍🥰. God bless you.
@AkoJess2 жыл бұрын
Sommi brought me here🥰 I’m in love with you both already, thanks for the video
@somkayne2 жыл бұрын
I would've literally kept watching if it lasted an hour😂, Such an interesting, thought-provoking and entertaining conversation. Splendid one Ezinne( your editing is getting better😁), pray that you have more of God's grace, and please give us more Somebi!!😩
@kumapayiopeyemi2 жыл бұрын
Ezinne is always delivering. Thank you so much for this. Now I don't have to lower my standards or boundaries because of what the society is saying. I love Somi's lowcut btw😍
@paulrhoda13642 жыл бұрын
It's the "actual Nollywood scene" for me. 😂😂
@matildachipale53612 жыл бұрын
The way I was excited to see the notification 😭😭 omo I'm in love with this KZbin channel
@EzinneZara2 жыл бұрын
🥺🕺🏽
@Francisca_esonwune2 жыл бұрын
Knowing what you want and what you need just defines it for me❤️❤️
@theambassador95142 жыл бұрын
"If he's not the one , whatever I think am feeling , kill ittttt" 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@lekannn2 жыл бұрын
thank you so much for this video, Ezinne !👏🏽 i really learnt a lot and also got insights to some of the things i have been wondering about such as being alone and getting to know oneself. thank you for shedding more light. and also, we’d love to see more of Somebi 😂she’s so funny and dramatic 🤣i couldn’t stop laughing. thank you for all you do ! it’s very much appreciated ❤️
@amarachianoliefo74192 жыл бұрын
It is Somiebi’s face for me throughout😂😂😂……#boyfriend season#
@preciousezike93022 жыл бұрын
The way I ran all the way from Instagram. Thank you Ezinne ♥️♥️
@toyoqueen68732 жыл бұрын
I’m telling youuuuu😂
@minachbrown56382 жыл бұрын
Thank u so much Sis Ezinne as youths as I am I think we need this❤️
@Abba_s.daughter2 жыл бұрын
Awwn I wish this video was longer 💕 Thank you Ezinne and Somebi (I like the way Somebi calls Ezinne Sister Ezinne) ♥️
@thankgodsunday8461 Жыл бұрын
The part she said “without me”😂😂😂😂😂😂
@bupensobaula18582 жыл бұрын
This channel is a blessing ❤️.
@tiyaosa2 жыл бұрын
Somiebi’s facial expressions😂😂😂..Ezinne you actually waited for an hour🥲..The audacity of some men😭…I loved and enjoyed this video🥰
@isha_ojoronya_sae Жыл бұрын
"Without me" got me rolling with laughter 😂😂
@ladunorole67602 жыл бұрын
Somebi's nailss are giving😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍 everything
@eunicenjiraini8342 жыл бұрын
I looved this video,i have this guy friend we were talkin with jus the other week and he was like,you don't need God wen it comes to courtship or finding a partner .God won't come and date you,,,you'll get old while waiting for God you jus need to find yourself a partner and ask God to bless the marriage.I kid you not he said that.It pains me so much seeing people boxing God and being like this is what i want bless it and not really involving him in our matters. love you guys
@Nicolen20002 жыл бұрын
Love yourself enough📌 I love this conversation and one thing I learnt is Dating Intelligently. Missed your content Ezinne, thank you for posting.
@pauline_daphne2 жыл бұрын
Thank you ❤️, both of you this justice to this topic I'll recommend to read Dating Intelligently by Laju Iren if you would like to build on what was discussed here
@ojoifeoluwa20262 жыл бұрын
Ezinne, you came, saw (shege) and conquered in this dating world😂😂😂
@jackiemalia79572 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@EzinneZara2 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@kandintaeshe2 жыл бұрын
‘I could see the bell’...’real Nollywood vibe’...😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣Lmaoooo
@jadesolaeo2 жыл бұрын
Somebi definitely brought out the fun side of Ezinne and I love it😩❤️
@everything_naturalz2 жыл бұрын
This exactly what I experienced some years back😂😂😂 you just reminded me Ezinne…. Somebi with her facial expressions 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣.
@Cherie00192 жыл бұрын
If you knew how patiently I waited for a new video, you'd pity me. But I'm glad it's here😁
@somtoezepue2 жыл бұрын
Lmaooooo I laughed throughout the Mr Biggs guy part. Utterly enjoyed this video
@chukwudumebimbah56932 жыл бұрын
The silence when you said he took you to Mr Biggs. 😂😂😂😂😂
@chibaby35992 жыл бұрын
Please do more of this videos It’s educative There are not many videos of Christians talking about dating
@eryantcube2 жыл бұрын
''Did he shower that day or what'' cracked me up😂😂😂😂😂
@somebileo2 жыл бұрын
Omg this video is hilarious😂. Ezi mama your editing skills no be here again😍❤️❤️
@talkwithbliss86372 жыл бұрын
It’s the way you used your hand to push his head back 😂😂😂😂😂😂,omoh I really enjoyed this series
@now_or_never7092 жыл бұрын
I strongly believe that the road map to marriage is first, one gets to Date, followed by courtship and then finally get married. Even though dating these days usually go with sex, we as Christians can change that trajectory for ourselves..... well done, I have learnt a lot. more Grace.
@ezinnenwaenyi31742 жыл бұрын
I so much like the sense of reasoning. You hit the nail on the head. No regrets watching this video. It's amazing
@zaraokorochukwu49992 жыл бұрын
I had a Christian guy in my dm that immediately started talking to me about love. This guy will be calling by 6:00am...like what is it😂. He was even trying to impress me by saying things like he sees angels and all of that. Initially I thought I was being mean by just telling him I disliked what he was doing but omo...I didn't care again..I just stopped replying his messages..
@ruthngube35152 жыл бұрын
Absolutely loved this video. Didn't see this coming😅 Loved the sisterly vibe
@emmanuelabedide96972 жыл бұрын
The part where ezinne said I blocked him with the shoulders lol
@anjolaoluwaganiyu82022 жыл бұрын
Love eeeeeet! Thank you sooo much. My favorite part was where you said it's not like your husband would want to go and play ball and you would say "without me?"😂😂😂, I laughed so hard
@fefenati2 жыл бұрын
Hey Ezinne. This was so fun. Lol ,I remember telling my friend about instances when men ask my number I ask "for what? " "Like what do we have in common? "( to my friend) , like how ? I don't see us! I think insight of ourselves will benefit us grately, insight of what is God breathed will show us the manner in the which we should walk.
@Oghenerunor2 жыл бұрын
The silence after Mr Biggs has me rolling 😂😂😂😭
@Ibeojo2 жыл бұрын
Ha!!! I'm here 😅😅.....I was legit watching the clock, waiting for 3pm😅😅
@EzinneZara2 жыл бұрын
Awwww 🤍
@Giiiirlllll_182 жыл бұрын
The silence after Mr.Biggs' 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@NellesTube2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this video . I love both of you guys energy 🤍😭
@life_with_Esther2 жыл бұрын
Thank God you're here.I've been waiting. I thank God for you Zara.
@praisetar2 жыл бұрын
I enjoyed watching this, from the juicy stories to the facial expressions 😂. Somebi was just spitting facts sha...
@estherokoro46532 жыл бұрын
It's the meatpie and Sprite at Mr Biggs for me😭💀💀
@thetamarcollins2 жыл бұрын
“First of all, you laugh a lot “😂😂
@Booksandshowswithkas2 жыл бұрын
'He took me to Mr. Biggs....' 😂😂😂😂
@JenniferEhuine2 жыл бұрын
This is indeed a nice chat, a nice chat to learn from U both are beautiful, no doubt It's the skin for me❤️ I would pls love to see more chats about relationships ❣️