He had an affair!

[@kaviyakaruna7432]

I'm glad someone brought up this topic because it's true. Unfortunately, in today's world, people often overlook what girls go through and fail to address the actions of men.

[@kasthurirajan5890]

Happy Women's Day Malini Madam.. Your point of view is correct why should we always blame women always the mistake is from both the sides..

[@thatslife8604]

Both betrayed their spouses. But I like the courage the husband had to disclose the affair to his wife. At least he is truthful.

[@shishi3239]

Great talk, I love your speech ❤

[@sylviabiju399]

Very rightly questioned, why nobody questions the guy??? He was the one who went for it.... Why did he go? Definitely he has to be questioned....

[@chinkuvap5716]

That's why we should never share our personal issues to the opposite gender. We live in a judgemental society, people see things not as they are. And misunderstanding that comes in-between a couple is mutual. They have to sit and talk. Because whatever happens in life affect our families. As a female we should always set a boundary. Everybody in this world is fighting a battle that we know nothing about. Happy women's day to the most beautiful women in and out.

[@mahinatarajan4232]

Happy Women's Day Mrs.Malini Yugendran. Hope you are doing well after the injury. It's a most valuable topic for everyone who is in a relationship. I agree 100% with the points you have discussed that both are accountable for their wrongdoings. It's ruining the trust and honesty among the 4 individual adults and spoiling the harmony of the entire family. Looking forward to such topics relating to relationships.

[@AmuthaRaj-yv3jg]

I like your speech. It is very true 👍

[@TanggarajuSundaraju]

I like your speech 👍

[@satheeskumar6137]

He come front and open up his relationship than how much he loves his wife!! Think about he is a gentleman and I support him..and he realised so that's it...

[@NirmalaRaja-f9p]

Nice topic ,well said and happy women's day .

[@segaranpalanisamy6765]

Don't listen one side. My advice to all. To be fair to both

[@shapedcrown7793]

Well said, Dr.. we have the same mindset

[@JINGOBRITO]

Excellent story and i could relate to the same situation as my partner did the same thing

[@ancheleiarunasalam4946]

Good job தங்களுடைய அருமையான கருத்துகளுக்கு மிக்க நன்றி வெளியூரில் இருந்தாலும் தமிழ் மொழியை அழகு பட தெள்ளத் தெளிவாக உச்சரித்தீர்கள். இது போன்ற நல்ல பரந்த நோக்கமுள்ள வாழ்க்கை நலக்கல்வியை எதிர்பார்க்கிறேன் தங்களின் பணி மேலும் வளர என் மனமார்ந்த வாழ்த்துக்கள்.❤

[@musiclove4887]

Omg never thought Yugendran would do such a thing ! Always had high regards for him. Stay strong madam...karma will hit one day..

[@shahas11199]

She's telling someone else's story. She never once mentioned that its her story.

[@diMO1933]

😅😅😅

[@archanaarvind290]

According to me , infidelity can never be justified.. it is nothing but betrayal .. Just because she is a woman, it is not ok.. she has betrayed her husband.. This guy has betrayed his woman.. They should never be trusted again.

[@vikneshkumar7852]

Hi Dr Hema, the topic was very true, infact I m in tat very same situation till today. I hav yet to get any answers frm my spouse. It's extremely hard to even clear/delete the whole matter n move on with the next step of action. Until very recently abt 2 weeks back, I understood the whole meaning of a "Narcissistic Spouse". I apologise for telling too much. I just wanted to share. Stay Safe & Stay Happy 😊

[@malakumar5750]

well said, super topic. if a man can not share his emotional stress with his spouse, he does not feel free enough to communicate. definitely need s help.

[@positivepraveen9141]

You look confident and 👍 great....

[@mageswarymunusamy2579]

Happy Women's Day Malini .Well said 👏❤

[@Remaa509]

Please don’t carry misleading headlines for click bait, Malini. People are commenting badly about poor Yugendran ☹️

[@sriramalingam5760]

I’m going through the same situation, I don’t know how to get out of this. I gave time to my husband to fix this but still he doesn’t care about this . Trust 💔 it hurts me a lot mam.

[@sowmiyaist]

Yugendran be like y ma y..one title big damage..going to see the video now..🤒

[@chanthirakrishnan4834]

Happy Women's Day, beautiful Hema ❤

[@seethas865]

Another thing is everyone would have had liking towards someone in childhood or before marriage. Once committed in marriage, one should never change mind

[@positivepraveen9141]

Madam..some get into this kind of affair for emotional support...but in real most get into this kind of affairs for financial support..it happens for both genders....people must be carefull and look at their families well being or else they will lose their money and social status..

[@tamilsalangai9824]

Beautiful and impactive narration

[@nachamaynachamay5630]

Well say Happy Woman Day Malini ma So proud of you. May God bless you always with good health happy family 🎉❤❤❤from Singapore ❤🙏🙏🙏

[@gayathrigayas3204]

Well said malini.i agree with what that wife says,even in many cases men used women's for their lust & blame that women that they didn't know anything,only that women did everything....says to their wife and their wife & other women will fight in the streets . Heard many things like this,we should stop accusing women both of them are equally responsible as they know it's consequences too.

[@balabala9213]

Hahaha look who's talking 😂😂😂

[@visagai1161]

Great perspective!!

[@shanmugamisha]

Nice message.

[@Archana8319]

It's individual call because there is no straight answer when it comes to relationships as it directly impacts mind and body totally

[@mokeshwarraju]

மகளிர் தின வாழ்த்துகள் தங்களுக்கு எப்படி இருக்கீங்க

[@akj1289]

I had a friend who was a home breaker..avoided the friendship altogether.and yes she felt much better and greater than the wife..yes both to be blamed but many women to be blamed unfortunately as they feel much better thn the wives..men either are truly in love with d affair or truly sorry for the affair

[@tanyamoore3215]

Happy Women’s day! You have taken up a good topic, on this day regarding women, yes they first point out the finger on to the woman, They equally have responsibilities in such an affair, so my request is also grow up , cos some try to cover up their husbands & blame the women.

[@tanaesther9570]

Thank you Ms Malini Nice topic and it’s real in life 🇸🇬

[@kavithakalaichelvan46]

Well said ❤

[@SUBAPRIYA17]

You are so good talking ma Modulation,voice, everything sooo nice

[@Arun_thanjavur]

She is a RJ from Singapore.

[@ananth7795]

Any relationship, however fulfilling it may be , will have pockets of void...affairs germinate in such void space; As a result, adultery seldom yield good results. We simply lose the right to err after marraige.. One more thing is , adultery may creep in at any age . We need to be on the alert ( on ourself) all the time. End of the day , my intergerity is my choice on one hand and MY sole responsibilty on the other.

[@kavimelmisandy]

So true what the girl said I nvr taught abt it until you tell the story Malini. Actually the husband is not a good man.

[@GloryGlorious-wg6ip]

Belated woman's day wishes,sista Hayma❤️

[@hilariebalachandran7130]

Thank you for your wishes. Wish you the same. God bless you.

[@smkd_saimoneykandangaming9673]

மாலினிமா இனிய மகளிர் தின நல்வாழ்த்துக்கள்மா.உங்களின் கண்களும்,கையும் ஆரிவிட்டதா.இப்ப எப்படி உள்ளதுமா.நீங்கள் பேசும் தேன் தமிழுக்கு நான் அடிமை.அண்ணா, குழந்தைகள் எப்படி உள்ளனர் மா.❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉😊😊

[@tineswarypathmanathan6220]

Women 's day talk,thank you.😊

[@rajisviews2583]

Really good storyline

[@abiasha]

Iam going through same situation...similar story... My husband cheated on me and left me and my daughter.. Now he filed divorce .. but I want to live with him... He completely abandoned me... For the past one year he has been hiding from me.. I don't know where he is living... Every single day is very tough...

[@_-KK-_]

Are you sure that he is not gay or bisexual? These days, men leave their family in those circumstances. Specially if he is gay he pretends to be straight and have kids and a family to protect himself from the society

[@haymamaliniyugendran]

That’s a tough situation. Hugs ma. Do you love your child and yourself? Watch what actress sulochana says about marriage in her video and watch kutty padmini who survived two failed marriiages. Kutty padmini is a must watch!!

[@abiasha]

@@haymamaliniyugendran thnx mam...

[@Davey1022]

you are still in love and you will find courage to move forward .

[@sangeethachandran936]

Same situation for me too sis.. I have 2 children... He abandoned us.. it's been 4 years now... 😭😭😭

[@sangeethasrinivasan8376]

Well said. Sensible ❤

[@manosanthi7483]

No one is at fault.this is something like accident but not seriouly injured.so pl take care of your own family because there are a lot of joy n happiness in i our beloved family.Corrrection is better than going for cntinuous unwanted mistakes.

[@manorajan3115]

Madam இவ்வளவு நாளாக எங்க ஒளிந்திருந்தீங்க? 😂😂

[@subalakshmimuthukumaravel311]

Sorry ma. I cant support the woman who are doing injustice to other woman. Yes, the man is wrong and also the woman. She is married and she did a great mistake to his husband and her kids? These kind of things whoever did, is wrong. Woman's day topic unfair ma.

[@moony4649]

Correct...both are wrong...even i feel the same we should not keep women down...because.....very matured i agree...🎉🎉🎉

[@christinauma7278]

Happy woman's day Hema

[@Easwari19]

Happy women’s day sis ❤🎉❤!

[@reginasingakkutti1313]

Love u thangamae...happy women's day

[@thiruchelvikumarakulasingh5626]

Happy woman's day love you dear ❤️🥰💐🇱🇰👍

[@jinamidunasivaraj6113]

Mahaleer Dina Vaalthugal akka from srilanka

[@geetharavi25]

People are not fool enough to blame only woman. Wrong topic and explanation ma'am

[@pathmathevyperumal7903]

Well said mam👏

[@vasurajoo2330]

Great topic Madam , Mind set of woman should change

[@pusparanikalimuthu3244]

Happy Woman Day. Your voice and your tamil language are good and memerzing

[@nazmajabeena9336]

Happy women's day malini keep rocking

[@ravindranbalakrishnan5704]

The affair husband should not reveal his temporary affair story to his wife its grave mistakes...just my ten cents opinion only..

[@Remo.miranda4]

Useful one. But still,,, You are pointing twice that the fault is man, and then immediately you are correcting that the fault is on both sides.. It's very clear that deep inside, your intention is to blame only the men side in this case. As a married woman and a MOTHER , she should think twice before sending that email. 'She is the one who initiates' Anyways, at the end , both are wrong*

[@arunnajagadeeshwaran3513]

Why this kind words of headers? You give Chance to useless KZbiners to talk about your life now connecting this affair word.kindly be precise about whom u talk. It will he misunderstood as your life

[@riyabejoy5158]

To get attention and views 😂

[@sunithavishwanath5130]

❤wow super malini🎉

[@umaashwath7471]

Narrative must be bit more crispy , simpler ✨. Happens to both spouses - Many yrs of marriage the friendship quotient is there , yet somewhere taken for granted happens... Either could be ignored n thus outside connect likely to happen. Followed by fascinating moments , fear , guilt etc etc ✨

[@januchandra324]

Ma'am what did u suggest that wife if they decided to live together... Will the wife be able to forgive and forget the betrayal?

[@anbanaamma9465]

Happy woman 's day sis💐

[@mathavyayappan4102]

Sister I just saw this post. The lady is a wife and a mother then she should be more careful not to sweet talk another woman husband and snatch him away from his family. It must be the woman's fault for showing the green light to the man TO MAKE THE MOVE. SHE IS GUILTY AS CHARGE NO PARDON FOR WHAT SHE DID. SUCH WOMEN'S ARE INCREASING EVERY DAY. THEY GOT THE FREEDOM AND MISUSED IT. AND FOR YOU THE MAN HE SHOULD BE ASHAMED FOR DOING SUCH INSPECABLE ACT TOWARDS HIS WIFE AND CHILDREN.

[@ssLUVmyself]

What I feel is , as the guy involved in affair his wife is your friend folks cannot criticize her husband in front of her. That’s what friends do they support each other😊 but I am sure personally they feel both are at fault.

[@mangaimuniandy3558]

Hi Sister, actually yes.... But why the other girl think how the wife will feel? being a women supposed to be support each other right.... so she also would have stopped the damage that happen to another women.

[@tonykumar9727]

These days the so called "blockbuster" movies are just nostalgia click baits and cash grabs for more sequels and spinoffs. It is just a way to pass time but nothing memorable for the next generations

[@SN10118]

Like the title “He” had an affair, true enough. He is 15 yrs elder than a lady means arivurai solli annupi irkkualamey…. At the end its both their mistakes man and women.

[@JohnAbraham-df3oj]

Whatever whichever,what's done can't b undone!Both were at fault!This isn't Love but Lust!Both knew the path they went wasn't right but chose to deliberately ignore! Didn't their conscience prick them?Obviously they went against it(conscience)! When the whole shit thing was over,only then did they realize their own folly,like it dawned on them! 'Prevention's better than Cure'!Too late then!Wondering whatever happened to that issue of '1 Man 1 Woman' through Life & Death?Totally forgotten I suppose! A person can b able to Forgive,depending on the situation concerned BUT THIS IS COMPLETE BETRAYAL!IT'S UNFORGIVABLE & UNFORGETTABLE!The Wound heals but the Scar remains forever s if to remind them on/off! Better off if he were to remain s a Bachelor & she,a Spinster!Unfortunately,the words 'marriage/union' aren't in their kind of dictionary!Both r completely frivolous,disgusting & despicable!The definition of Marriage/Union is definitely marred by Trashcans like these 2 who can only act but not truly being innocent! 'Snakes w/double-tongues' & 'Wolves in Sheeps' clothing'!How appropriate!🧐

[@deepigasreenivasan6636]

Well said dear

[@ilovemyself416]

Happy Women's Day....❤💐🙏

[@TheThirdEyeReports]

thappu rendu perum pannanga rendu perukkum dhandana kudukkunam, adhenne pennaagaa irundhaal illa aanagaa irundhaalo rendu perum ethics illa endru dhaan, please dont normalize the sin's either its a girl or a boy, does the men think in the same broad way if his wife has done the same with somebody else, its shameless to know that both men and women try to normalize every sin that happens

[@EswarySuppiah]

Happy women's day Malini

[@MuthuRaja-d1c]

Actually its true... a woman should blame her husband first if he cheated her or the husband should blame his wife first if she cheated him before blame third person. One of my friend...her husband have an affair with another married lady. My friend blame that another lady and even slap her at public area. She just do whatever she can to spoil that another lady's image. If she do the same to her husband..its fair enough but in return, she being so good to her husband. He even doing so much criminal activities, stealing and he is a womaniser yet she pampering him and she will melt if he bought any luxury gift for her.. and she call this love. In this case...there is no love here.. cause she giving so much trouble to her surrounding people whenever her husband have an affair but she treat her husband so nicely to show him she is innocent..

[@IshakMaricar-xd1ob]

நான் உங்களுடைய பழைய ரசிகர் நீங்கள் தொலைக்காட்சியில் தோன்றும் போது ❤🎉

[@vijayalakshmishanmugam421]

Malini super 😊❤

[@thilaganadesan8452]

Yo voice very lovely mam

[@abiramibala8630]

Happy women's day

[@chitrakannan5220]

Hi mam H r doing? My life happens the same thing.I got divorce and trust is very important.

[@k.s.subramanian6588]

Trust is very important

[@haymamaliniyugendran]

Hugs

[@jananithambaiah4401]

Of course her husband has broken the trust. But the other woman had broken a home and knowing that he was a married man. I would blame the woman more than man here. Because we women are born with manipulation skills. Men are just being used.

[@saraswathim4003]

Would like to know,will u accept ur spouse in such a situation?

[@haymamaliniyugendran]

Hmmm

[@shrividyashashidharan4925]

Wishing you too a wonderful Women's day dear Malini🤗 how are you doing now? Hope, you have recovered fully.. Take care dear.. God bless and much love to all at home from Mumbai, India🤗♥️

[@haymamaliniyugendran]

Thank you so much 😊

[@vanajaamuthan8294]

I want your soap videos please

[@geraldinesrikanth4468]

Nice 🎉

[@jessicaooi9909]

Miss u in oli 96.8fm

[@prabinprabhakar4687]

Both are at wrong ...irrespective of gender...period ..both are to blame to get into affair

[@christinauma7278]

I won't blame the girl but anyone who did ts kind of issues their life own be t same anymore.

[@haymamaliniyugendran]

Hmmm

[@sandhya5236]

Hi Mam. Nice vlog. But it’s really so nice of that lady, to think that way. So what did u guys suggest her? And your make up is amazing. I love it and Happy women’s day to the woman, who I adore a lot

[@radhachelian1249]

Well say❤

[@_-KK-_]

You can't generalise this kinda situation. Why separate the gender? It's a fault on both sides equally. It looks like you are saying its ok for an extent for the girl to have an affair but completely bad on the guy's part? Dont make any sense.

[@sunithab7816]

I think u misunderstood.. point of view matters. Both should be blamed ofcourse. But as a wife it's fair enough to blame her own husband than pointing out on a stranger

[@haymamaliniyugendran]

Hmmm

[@UMAAC.V]

This shows how both have values for their life partners! Clean bold!

[@_-KK-_]

@haymamaliniyugendran do you know any cases where the husband is pretending to be a straight but secretly gay? DL man ? These kinds of cases are quite booming in the United States. And I have come across guys in India as well.

[@sasiammakitchen]

❤

[@sasiammakitchen]

I joined

[@yaminiyamini4995]

Hi malini mam

[@KaviKavi-li7sz]

amma thaaaye onnu tamil la pesu.ellaina un languge la pesu.summa yen mathi mathi pesura.ethuku epdi .video podura .

[@sarasathyam8528]

Why r u watching..😡

[@duvaragasview]

தமிழ்நாட்ல இருக்குறவங்க யாரும் தமிழ்ல பேசுறதுயில்லையே எல்லாரும் தமிழ் மற்றும் ஆங்கிலம் கலந்து தானே பேசுறாங்க and Ms மாலினி oil 96.8 லெ பேசும்போது அவங்க தமிழ் அப்படிதான் இருக்கும் நான் நினைக்கிறேன் நீங்கள் அதை கேட்டது இல்லை. ஒருவரை விமர்சனம் பண்ணும்போது மரியாதை ரொம்ப முகியம் Ms Kavi அவர்களே.

[@puspalataannamalah9441]

When I can understand her, why can't you. As if you don't mix Tamil and English when communicating with others. Than stop watching her show.

[@vijayranganathan8580]

How about you? Would you talk in tamil without mixing any word in English? Do you even know all the tamil words? Why the H you are watching it..? Can you not post your useless comments here and show off your ignorance?

[@KaviKavi-li7sz]

@@puspalataannamalah9441 super pa .ur comment.