Hey prachi.. Hope ur good...I was as the same place as this girl... I was ok not getting married...he said he loves me..I even did his wedding shopping along with him😆...but as he got married...he was still calling me and dating me...so happened one day I asked him to show me his wedding album...what I saw in the album he was so happy with getting married...pictures of his frns along with him so happy on his wedding day. Days passed by he was still dating me and having fun with his wife too..going everywhere with his wife...almost everywhere....I realised this guy is damn enjoying both sides and one day I told him I just want to be with you without any physical intimacy. He agreed but after few days started to abuse me...I saw his real face...he called me what not. That day I decided to leave him..he blackmailed me and called me and raped me several times. Finally the day came I said no wonder let him blackmail me and ill still not allow him to touch me or rape me.he fought with me I left from the place..once it happened I was alone at night he was in the urge of raping me..I called the cops got him arrested. It was my fear..and I saw the real him. Today I'm happily married since 5 years...have a baby. All because I made a choice .I'm so lucky to get a wonderful husband who loves me unconditionally...now I know what exactly true love means.
@SmileWithPrachi3 жыл бұрын
That's such a powerful story. Thank you so so much for sharing this. Sometimes it's really easy to lose youraelf when in love with a person.
@TheAlphonso86883 жыл бұрын
@@SmileWithPrachi hope my story inspires atleast one person..wud be happy....ur doing a great job prachi👍more power to you.
@betterthings83693 жыл бұрын
@@TheAlphonso8688 really inspiring... ❤️
@chillatejaswini87473 жыл бұрын
but u should not date a man who is already married even loving you, an unhealthy and bad affair can never get u good
@SanjanaYadav-bw4qz3 жыл бұрын
@@chillatejaswini8747 but she was in relationship with him before his marriage.. We can never know anybody's true face until a person is dragged out of his comfort zone.. Clearly he didn't respect her when she said no to him
@hidden_forest3083 жыл бұрын
I had the exactly same scenario once as the second girl. The guy gaslighted me by saying stuff like polygamy is natural for men, etc. Little did he know, I hadn't lost my brain over him. I never have over anyone, tbh. Don't think love is supposed to make you lose your mind, but rather see things with a better vision in this world. Contacted my brother who is a scientist, and asked him if it was true. He said no, and told me he was manipulating me. Left soon after six months. The biggest problem I see with these scenarios is women not respecting other women as well. The guy is the primary one at fault, but I feel like we really need to learn to respect our own fellow lady friends so much! Sometimes they give us more comfort and happiness than any bf can give. A woman standing up for another woman, be it cheating, backbiting or anything, is beautiful and rare. When we support one another, all this hurt is minimised. I've met good and bad lady friends as well. Glad to say, didn't hesitate to dump any of the bad ones.
@mapleandplum3 жыл бұрын
Totally agree with you!
@Radiowali3 жыл бұрын
Completly agree girl!
@Trollika_Devi3 жыл бұрын
I know a guy who cheats and encourages girls to cheat on their husbands and partner. When I call him out on it he launches into rants about feminism monogamy patriarchy and all kinds of mental gymnastics to justify his behaviour. "Monogamy oppresses women" lol.
@nori97793 жыл бұрын
“You cannot heal at a place you got hurt” words!!
@ms-xd3tb3 жыл бұрын
I noticed that in the case of letter - she has described her boyfriend as the exact opposite of who he actually is. She says he is very loyal and truthful. It's almost as if she's trying hard to convince herself. As human beings whenever we make a mistake we try to convince ourselves repeatedly that we did the right thing. Somewhere in her hearts of hearts she knows the reality but is not accepting it. What do you think of this prachi?
@sriv4183 жыл бұрын
I feel the same
@Sophia-ex7fu3 жыл бұрын
Letter you and your bf in simple words are cheating. And the fact that you are willing to keep the relationship even after he gets married is mind boggling to me. I feel super bad for the other girl who has no idea what's happening behind her back
@baghyasrib69293 жыл бұрын
So true. Just imagine how heart broken and embarrassed she would be when she finds out. I just wish she gets to know the truth and walks out of that relationship.
@sharmisthabiswas74683 жыл бұрын
I hope she gets to know it before marriage please god🙏🙏I really want to help her..but am helplesss
@arundhatipaul93373 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@deepikar38533 жыл бұрын
@@baghyasrib6929 correct.. I too feel the same.. let that girl find a perfect match for her and lead a happy life..god will save her 🙏🏻
@sharmisthabiswas74683 жыл бұрын
@@tushardeshpande1556 I agree😠
@coloursoflife8623 жыл бұрын
Dear letter, If he can cheat on her, he can cheat on you too.
@goldendandelion78843 жыл бұрын
Letter please be a good human and tell that girl about your relationship. She deserves to know the truth! Saying that man is a good human is only masking the fact that he is a cheater! Who does that....?? He is going to get married and having an affair... Pathetic! I feel very sad for that girl with whom he is going to get married. God bless her and give her courage.
@sharmisthabiswas74683 жыл бұрын
Yes pleaae god save her from getting married to this jerk
@rey_123 жыл бұрын
This is for letter: there is difference between loving someone and being in love with someone he might love you both but he can not be IN love with you and that girl both so the answer to your question is yes you can love many people at the same time but you cannot be IN love with more than one
@anshikaa26333 жыл бұрын
Great words
@megha23463 жыл бұрын
Can you tell me the difference?
@faeezparkar97313 жыл бұрын
At the beginning I thought you would be be angry at the second writer , but honestly I love your professional behaviour , the way you replied to her making her understand her faults witbout any judgements because it clearly seemed that the second writer is completely immature and i won't call her selfish, but she seems to not hav any idea of how relationships work , lol !
@baghyasrib69293 жыл бұрын
I clearly found her selfish. Her life is all about what she wants and she thinks. All that mattered to her was her views and her boyfriend's views when clearly there was someone else, the first girlfriend who had to be considered.
@sharmisthabiswas74683 жыл бұрын
She is immature as well as cunning!
@sharmisthabiswas74683 жыл бұрын
@@baghyasrib6929 yeah that girl is the actual victim here
@anushamishra29383 жыл бұрын
I have suffered from such situation. When I was I at the lowest point in life, this guy talked with me and I fell in love with him at first sight. I cried in front of him. He hugged me and kissed me...That was the best day of my life...So we dated for 3 months. But slowly he started to ignore me completely...I was so depressed...I tried to make it right. But on the day of my birthday, I found out that he already had a girlfriend for 3 fucking years and was just using me. I broke down completely....But I broke up with him as soon as I got to know about this. I even asked him about this but he just blocked me.
@rosyaryaseries3 жыл бұрын
@physics iq love your soul and concentrate on your good habits naturally u will come out of it
@rosyaryaseries3 жыл бұрын
Being single is far better than being in bad relationship at least u can fly without someone s permission
@rosyaryaseries3 жыл бұрын
@physics iq time changes for everyone God bless u
@sayaliyeole11153 жыл бұрын
Letter needs to make an ultimate decision because firstly it is very very difficult to be with someone you know is having someone else in his life. Today she's OK with all of this but after a while she is going to be trapped in an unbearable situation. She already has started feeling insecure. And first of all... Being a girl you can Not cheat on another girl. Please ❤
@sayaliyeole11152 жыл бұрын
Agreed @Amazing World
@sayaliyeole11152 жыл бұрын
@Amazing Worldi never miss a single video
@sayaliyeole11152 жыл бұрын
@Amazing World I never said you fall in love only once. I agree with you
@therareworldofficial3 жыл бұрын
My advice to letter: Please step out. You will fall in love again. The worst has happened and it still can be fixed. You staying away is the only solution now. And your bf who loved two woman at the same time, it's upto him to fix his marriage. The best that you can do is step out and live your life.
@Talk_With_Shivani3 жыл бұрын
she should be regretful about doing such thing to a girl
@bhavanap69333 жыл бұрын
Letter, please just step out of this relationship. Please dont cheat anyone and tell him that enough is enough.
@bhavikakosambia33073 жыл бұрын
The way I look at it, everything is about control - having the control over ur own behaviour/thoughts/actions and choices is what helps us make the right choice...here letter and her boyfriend are weak infront of their own desires and only prioritising their emotions. Please be honest abt ur situation to the other girl and don't steal her choice
@bhavikakosambia33072 жыл бұрын
@Amazing World polyamory is not the problem, dishonesty is. Whether or not that other girl wants this arrangement should be her choice. Considering her mental and physical health is at stake. She doesn’t know if this girl is clean of any disease na? Like this many small things need to be considered before a relationship begins… what about her immediate family? How will she explain it to them ? What abt the parenting situation? How will the kids take it? How will they be raised? Who will be involved? What abt trust issues? Consent is missing
@bhavikakosambia33072 жыл бұрын
@Amazing World love is not the problem, having multiple partners is ok too. But people should be able to trust each other. That doesn’t happen if one doesn’t do what they say they will. Your word should mean something. And while one person might want a polyamorous situation, doesn’t mean everyone wants it. At least a conversation about expectations and hopes should be had. You are different is not an excuse or free pass to hurt someone’s feelings
@bhavikakosambia33072 жыл бұрын
@Amazing World I can list a few basic things like - responsible(in behaviour), sensible(in nature), reliable. But mostly I value people who are easy to talk to. it has more to do with how I feel when I’m with them rather than a set of qualities. If anything, people who have worked on themselves (personality/skills etc) and know who they are + what they want are very admirable. It’s sad to see people constantly trying to mould themselves into whatever the other person wants. Just build confidence and become whatever is your idea of a good person if u are seeking advise
@anishasingh88463 жыл бұрын
Letter please see yourself in the position of the first girl. Be a good human and say everything to her .She deserves to know the truth
@believer48943 жыл бұрын
In Letter's case - being a woman she can't do that thing to other woman. His girlfriend is same like her believing in him and building her future same like her(writer of letter) she is finding herself in a triangle story rather than finding her own love. How does that guy is loyal & trustworthy when he clearly making fool of his first girl in the name of love. I really feel sad for his girlfriend who might be thinking he is the right one & might gonna fight with parents for marriage with so many hopes for her future with him innocently without knowing truth😢
@navyahm16933 жыл бұрын
"Letter" please leave your boyfriend Becoz you both are technically cheating the other by not telling about your relationship
@madhurimabasak71683 жыл бұрын
Dear letter, sorry to say but you seem to be truly Living in a fantasy world. You've been completely blinded by this so called "love". Remember that it's not always the man's fault to get into an extra marital affair. The woman who's gotten involved with the man is equally responsible. How could you get involved with an already taken man? What example will you be setting for your future children? Please save your life before it's too late. Your life will be ruined completely with what you're doing right now.
@baghyasrib69293 жыл бұрын
And this moment I think the one who should be saved is the first girlfriend. She doesn't deserve a boyfriend who cheated to her this way.
@madhurimabasak71683 жыл бұрын
@@baghyasrib6929 exactly. How innocent she must be to trust that cheater, even getting married. Grown up women who get involved with already taken men, deserve every hatred. They aren't innocent at all. There are so many other single men out there, and here they choose to ruin a relationship and call it "love". Absolutely disgusting.
@abby8533 жыл бұрын
@@madhurimabasak7168 Word!! You spoke what I wanted to say I mean I’m not gonna sugar coat or sound empathetic but this person letter is so selfish Like how can you be this cruel to another woman
@farheenkhan34063 жыл бұрын
Dear letter, I understand your situation what you're going through rn. As you're seeking advice for how to handle this situation I would suggest you to take a step back and just think about it from a third person's perspective. When you're in a serious relationship with someone the most imp thing you expect from your partner is honesty and loyalty which helps you to build trust on your partner. WILL YOU BE OKAY IF YOUR BF or HUSBAND GETS INTO A RELATIONSHIP WITHOUT LETTING YOU KNOW? It's okay to feel attracted or fall in love with someone inspite of being in a relationship but one should also try to control the feelings and stay commited with the partner if you're in love with them. If you don't have feelings for someone then be honest and discuss with them rather giving false hopes or pretending to have same feelings which you have for them. In your case it's none of the girls fault bcz she's innocent for not knowing about you and her partner. Before getting into this relationship you and him already knew that he's already committed to someone. The more time you spend with him the more stronger your expectations and feelings will grow and ones he gets married eventually he'll have family responsibilities bcz of which he won't be able to spend much time with you. It would be a better option to move on and be open to new ppl, you'll fall in love again and that time you'll be thankful that you moved on in your life.
@light_clover96363 жыл бұрын
HAHA LOLLL!!!!! This letter plot reminds me of Bajirao Mastani. people wanted bajirao and mastani to stay together but nobody gave a thought about how kashibai felt when she loved Bajirao life more than hers.
@deepsikhadeb13703 жыл бұрын
So true
@divyareddyailuri65163 жыл бұрын
But i wanted bajirao stay with kashibai.. Kashibai loves and accepts bajirao after knows of her husband relationship with mastani..
@mausami7733 жыл бұрын
she should leave him because he also has right choose own life patner
@deepalil10853 жыл бұрын
Bajirao and Mastani's wedding was political not like these people.
@pritiraj58752 жыл бұрын
💯
@danisonice.2 жыл бұрын
i think falling in love isn't a choice but persuing that love is.
@rmmn73 жыл бұрын
prachi .. your video on the toxic parents is wonderful and relaxing to me suffering from narcissist. thank you Prachi .
@shruthisarode40043 жыл бұрын
Hi Letter, The longer you invest in this relationship the more you are going to get hurt,Just move on. "The move that you are afraid to make could be the one that changes everything" . Just try to look at whole scenario from a third person's view!!
@shruthisarode40042 жыл бұрын
@Amazing World But when there is no future ahead, there is no point in investing emotions as all the expectations are going to end up as disappointments!!
@shruthisarode40042 жыл бұрын
Ofcourse....You need not marry the person you love....but in this video's context she is not just in love but looking forward to have future with him...which isn't possible !
@Neha-fe8tv3 жыл бұрын
Letter, please don't do this to another woman. You must own your mistake n step back. I think it's your responsibility to let the other girl know about this cheating scenario. You will save her life, may be this could wash off your bad karma. And guy is a cheater.
@rima29353 жыл бұрын
Letter, it's shameful what you and your boyfriend are doing to that other girl! Please put yourself in her situation and just imagine how would you feel if you were cheated like this? Would you be happy to accept that? No, right? Then please step out of this mess and don't ruin that other girl's life. He is a cheater and he can cheat on you too.
@Ritik_Nandan3 жыл бұрын
People like letter and his boyfriend are weird and selfish, they don't care about the other girl's feelings! Letter herself is a girl but don't mind about cheating happening to the other girl. And the boy is a disgrace, two-timing for his selfish desires! I just hope the other girl gets to know about these two weirdos and stops the marriage and cut away the "cheap romeo" from her life.
@nirupamasharma43893 жыл бұрын
Absolutely, I also wish the same. It's disgusting to see how easy people can get with cheating. Pathetic!!
@rima29353 жыл бұрын
Absolutely right!!!
@Ritik_Nandan3 жыл бұрын
@@nirupamasharma4389 Hello Miss!! How are you? Can we be friends?
@ihateyouall46413 жыл бұрын
Cheap romeo 😂😂😂even he left Rosaline after meeting juliet.
@nirupamasharma43893 жыл бұрын
@@Ritik_Nandan no
@vanshikakumbhare62873 жыл бұрын
I have same situation as yours.. because I also think I'm not addicted to my phone..but when I lose it I get withdrawal symptoms..I will definitely try to spend one whole day every month without touching my phone
@Aankhein36313 жыл бұрын
Letter, Get out of that relationship and tell the other girl everything. Please don't ruin her life. Let her know that this is what it is and sincerely apologize to her. This will keep you at peace and help her make an informed decision. As for you, this will not end very well.. I can guarantee that with personal experience.. :)
@allaboutshwetasmusic3 жыл бұрын
You look gorgeous today 🥰😘
@anamikasingh44773 жыл бұрын
she always looks gorgeous
@PriyomMajumdar3 жыл бұрын
Forget about looking gorgeous. Just think how intelligent and Phenomenal She is...♥️🙏🏻
@allaboutshwetasmusic3 жыл бұрын
@@PriyomMajumdar totally agree 👍
@peace-jw4eh3 жыл бұрын
@@anamikasingh4477 no dude not today but all day i mean just all dy😁
@PriyomMajumdar3 жыл бұрын
@@allaboutshwetasmusic 😇
@ananyasinha43653 жыл бұрын
Letter you calling the guy loyal but think about it he so not loyal with the first girl . She needs to get out of this relationship she doesn't deserve such a cheap guy
@divyasharma43883 жыл бұрын
Dear girls now u need to take stand for ur self 😌😌
@shishya0853 жыл бұрын
I am so done with people , i want to go far away.
@rizwanarashed4283 жыл бұрын
Dear letter, Yeah love is a chemical reaction in brain, love is a choice, one can found two people "loveable" at the same time but he/she always has the choice of ways he/she want to love the second person! First of all accept that you love that person and that's totally ok☺️ Romance is overrated, know that! If you "choose" to not love him in a romantic or sexual way, have your boundary than it can be solved. You should love him enough to not make it a romantic connection and let him cheat with someone he claims to love. You should love him enough to let him go.. and remain loyal🖤 keep it pure! Let love stay there and let your decision of keeping it romantic slip! Let platonic, respectful & understanding feelings enter. Don’t force your self coz you're gonna find it hard for sometimes, which is normal ☺️☺️
@SanjanaYadav-bw4qz3 жыл бұрын
And I'm damn sure once this distance is maintained that guy will no longer be in love with the writer... This was not love in the first place
@padminrathod54963 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much..you have no idea how perfectly timed this video is for me..the 5-6 min speech of yours gave me so much clarity.practical , sensible and smooth talk it was ! ❤️
@anisharamteke33073 жыл бұрын
For the 1st letter, i think even if she moves out nearby n if her mother comes to stay with her, there is a possibility that the father could come too, just for fights or argument n if she decides to not take her dad home, that will also turn into bigger arguments and shamful situation in front of neighbours cus in that state the father wouldn't care what he is doing.. I think the best thing she can do is involve someone who her father cares and listens to, like his close friend or relative, and also talk back about all the wrong things he does or say n how frustrated she feels about his behaviour, but only when he is sober.
@shuktikasrivastava84863 жыл бұрын
Letter, you and your boyfriend are frankly destroying that poor girls life, and its absolutely selfish! Always remember, do unto others as you would have them do unto you. Also, once a cheater always a cheater!
@magirai123453 жыл бұрын
A person has just one heart. So no place for two if love.
@mapleandplum3 жыл бұрын
Letter, absolute shame on you. How could you even look at a guy in 'that' way knowing he had a girlfriend? Shame on him also, he is cheating on her physically, orally and emotionally. No, he definitely does not love both of you, because he would not lie to her if he loved her. I am not even sure he loves you. I know the thing that they say about humans supposed to be in polygamous relationships because they are animals. But well, humans are different from other animals. We have the faculty of choice and we are able to discern. Other animals are not dependent on their parents, we are- very much. The society would be a total mess if humans went on polygamous relationships. With who would the kids grow up? There are also a few animals who are monogamous. Also, I believe that if you talk about love as the hormones and sex, then maybe that is why you think of polygamy as possible. But if you think of love as the feeling, well I don't see how you can have that strong feeling for more that one person. I take my own example: I would never love someone apart from my boyfriend. Here, you are not the one he chooses. You are not his only choice; you are just one of his choices. I really pity that girl; both you and the guy deserve hell. It is because of people like you that today so many persons are broken.
@amazingideas7133 жыл бұрын
True
@CharicatureCharicature3 жыл бұрын
Letter, according your explanation, you have only considered yourself and your boyfriend. Your problem here is: Will you be sidelined when he has a family and kids. But the reality is, the innocent girl is already being sidelined by your boyfriend. There are people in open relationships, yes, as long as it is harmless to anybody involved. But here is the problem in your case: 1. you and your boyfriend seem to think that you are in an open relationship, but the truth is, you two are having an illegal affair. You might get offended when I say this, but the truth is, you are in an illegal affair. 2. Open relationship is only for adults. Even if hypothetically his wife knew about you and her husband staying in a relationship, it is totally unfair for his kids. When they have kids, he has an obligation towards his kids. So, don’t go about saying that this is an open relationship. Firstly, learn what an open relationship is. What you and her fiancé is having, is an illegal affair.
@sumedhk41483 жыл бұрын
Maybe he is poly you're monogamous that's why you think he's bad except the lying part he could be a decent guy
@karthickselvan58303 жыл бұрын
@Disha What ever you say, you cannot completely eliminate the animal instinct from humans. HUMANS ARE NOT MEANT TO BE MONOGAMOUS. I am not saying what letter and that guy is doing is right, but you are extremely JUDGEMENTAL towards them without understanding the scientific facts. You cannot be sure that you will never love anybody other than your boy friend. No, it is completely unscientific. Nobody can be like that in this world. It all depends up on whether you are acting up on that attraction or not. It depends up on your self control ,sanity and impulsive behavior at that time. Yes love is a feeling but those feelings are driven by our hormones. Our hormones are the king and the monster here. So don't be rude on other's life.
@CharicatureCharicature3 жыл бұрын
I am surprised that you think that he is a decent guy. If he is polygamous, he has to tell the girl he is going to marry. He didn’t.
@Talk_With_Shivani3 жыл бұрын
letter shame on you, i suffered same situation my bf cheated on me with another girl and then cheated on her YOU SHOULD BE SHAMEFUL
@supriyasaha89963 жыл бұрын
Latter - I know you are trying to convence yourself that he love you. But the reality is, if don't love you , and not his girlfriend too. If there is a little possibility he love someone, than it is definitely his girlfriend, not you, because at the end he want to spend his whole life with his wife, not you. Now, you can do 3 thing : 1) you can still love this man while he is happily married with his wife and using you as a time pass. 2) You can breakup with him and move on. 3) Tell the truth to his girlfriend, (there is a chance his gf will breakup with him, and here you and this man can be in a relationship, if not, then you will eventually move on without guilt). I will suggest you to tell his girlfriend, because she deserve batter.
@deepsikhadeb13703 жыл бұрын
Sensible comment 🔥👍
@nibeditaacharya36273 жыл бұрын
Once i was also in that situation. It's not like that also. He told me that he loves me. He don't like his wife but it was not true. He just used me. When I came to know the truth, broke up with him & moved on. Happily single ☺
@238gshivamnair72 жыл бұрын
Talking about the 2nd letter. .hilarious! Yeah ..he is very truthful ..that is why the 1st girl friend doesn't know anything ! And very good human being also. .that is why he is being so irresponsible about the other girl's life or her wishes! How selfish people can be ! -- Preethi
@sharu16sowmya453 жыл бұрын
My question here is how can a girl love a guy who is already in love with other girl so sincerely?? How can a girl be so normal any girl in love shld have priority first frm the guy she love and then after he gets married to tht girl ur not his priority 🤔 be careful just breakup dont enter into sumother girls life without her knowledge . U will find a better one👍
@SanjanaYadav-bw4qz3 жыл бұрын
I know how relationships works.. Based on loyalty and honesty.. And I can really control my feelings and attachments for third person... One of my friends had crush on me 4 years back but i never gave him hopes, that time he was 21 and i was 17.. Now he is one year married to someone.. But still ready to be in relationship with me and i m so proud of myself as i only think from his wife's point of view and whenever he tries to flirt with me i use to avoid chatting with him until and unless its necessary.. By nature he is a good guy but lacks basic principle of relationship My advice to 2nd writer is to please control your feelings i know its hard since here u r in love.. But as prachi di said you r a consenting adult and can do whatever of your choice UNLESS it HARMS anyone. So for that girl's sake please cut off yourself from his life, its not healthy for that girl and u as well
@deepsikhadeb13703 жыл бұрын
👏👏👍👍
@moumish3 жыл бұрын
Pausing the video to answer your question. YES, I can go about with a day without my phone. Infact, when I was not working and was just a student (in the non covid world) I once got so irritated with my phone that I went without a phone for 7days!!😂 Now due to wfh and all, I only do it on every sunday. It feels amazing. Even now, I have turned insta, fb and everything off since the past 1 week. I feel detoxified 😁
@narayaniwategaonkar3 жыл бұрын
You go girl!😃
@pranamihayaran3 жыл бұрын
tips please
@moumish3 жыл бұрын
@@pranamihayaran Self-Awareness and Self-control. 😁
@juhitamitra6613 жыл бұрын
Same here Moumi 😁 it feels great ❣️
@moumish3 жыл бұрын
@@juhitamitra661 I know, right!?😍😍
@SmratiRaheja3 жыл бұрын
For phone, it's a normal scenario these days and I totally agree with your opinion and for letter, it's good to separate by yourself otherwise it will hurt you later.
@tubisa02343 жыл бұрын
Letter please run away from that guy he is manipulating you and the other one, not asking for sex at first doesn’t mean he is the right one and he is loyal… i had similar experience but I didn’t know he has other girl and to the other girl he told he cannot marry her but he won’t keep any gf and they will be together until she marries and he came in relationship with me without telling her and when i told that girl about us she was surprised basically that other girl was living in fantasy like you… move on and be happy
@Divya-co1ri3 жыл бұрын
Letter, If you are seeing this comment, please speak to the other girl and let her know that her fiance is seeing both of you. She is going to marry this person and she deserved to know about this. Let her decide whether to continue with the marriage or not . If she comes to know about this ib future after the marriage, she will not able to tolerate the pain.
@juhigaikwad48323 жыл бұрын
Very Professionally Answered. 👏
@GSa99263 жыл бұрын
Hi Prachi . As you know my mother is taking treatment for her cancer and to support her treatment I started a fundraiser. Please let me know if you know about some NGO where they support cancer patients . Thanks
@aaradhyamaheshwari78223 жыл бұрын
Did you try ketto ?
@GSa99263 жыл бұрын
@@aaradhyamaheshwari7822 no but I’m raising funds on milaap.
@nsp87123 жыл бұрын
Letter, you fell in love with a commited guy and he fell in love you is not ur hands. But u made a move inspiye of that. THAT IS WRONG. I feel bad for his fiancé
@EnglishAcademyofArpita3 жыл бұрын
Yes I can stay one day, two days without my phone but the thing is every 10mins there is something important I get as a message on email or on whatsapp. So, sometimes if I'm not feeling to use my phone then also I have to because my work is like this only. 🙂
@akankshasengar70493 жыл бұрын
Hey prachi i just want to let you know is that I love you really. It's been a year watching your videos following you on Instagram knowing you as a person and I can say this has been amazing. I found you immensely muture and a good human being. I've learned so much from you. In every difficult situation I visualize you that what prachi di would have done and I do it accordingly. May you all the lovely things that you deserve.
@narayaniwategaonkar3 жыл бұрын
Ikr ! I never miss her videos. She's an amazing person, love her
@kks15313 жыл бұрын
Only two souls can be connected in a very special bond ...that bond above all other relations...Dnt be such person who spoils everyones life ..in the early stages it may seem ok but...deep inside the person,who got cheated by the soul whom she or he trusted the most .....the pain that no one knows only thay can feel the pain....if you are into multiple relations why dnt you let your partner to know that.....Just stay connected with only one soul...for a healthy society....dnt push some trusted soul into hell 😟
@rupachemudupathi95693 жыл бұрын
Softly , truly , genuinely...letter he is ditching you
@stutikhanna9873 жыл бұрын
I seriously think it's a bit of problem for a girl. I noticed that she is loosing her mind like she is constantly trying to convince herself that it's okay of her boyfriend is dating two girls at same time. I'm not against polygamy but it should be willing not by force. Just because one person is looking for that adventure but another one is emotional pain than its not correct or cool. And I'm 100% sure her boyfriend won't be very accepting this fact if she had another boyfriend by saying it's a poly thing. If you're getting emotionally abused please back out instead of keeping urself make addicted to something ur not happy about it.
@AmishKumar-lc7zs10 ай бұрын
Even if 2nd girl know about all this still You didn't got problem with polygamy?
@sowmyav.60793 жыл бұрын
Phone ... Even I have suffered same thing... Still now.... I'm tired dear ... But stay strong
@barbiebarbie39323 жыл бұрын
I was eagerly waiting for thissss dii 🥺
@bluewritesrose51763 жыл бұрын
I just love the advice you gave to advice..❤️❤️❤️ Keep up with good work you deserve millions of subscribers. This is what social media should be about
@sakshiagarwal123 жыл бұрын
Hey Letter, TRUST ME , I can relate to it better . JUST LISTEN- Once he's married with that girl, you will definitalty be sidelined and your life will become hell, you will cry most of the times for him to not giving you time. And marriage is a big commitment , after marriage the relation becomes more stronger. YOU WILL REGRET IT LATER, PLS DONT LET HIM MARRY IF YOU LOVE HIM TRULY.
@economicsadda73763 жыл бұрын
I am happy with my one and only girlfriend. She is good and I am marrying soon. Jai shree rama
@moumitamaiti48163 жыл бұрын
The second story was a little triggering for me😅
@divyasharma43883 жыл бұрын
Dear letter the boy is very clever n playing a safe card don’t get much serious n kindly move on I know its lil hard but trust urself know ur worth n move on u ll end up with some one better n to be honest getting physical is what now a days called as relationship n don’t make blockages in ur mind I ll not get physical see its completely ur choice to get or not to get but but u need to remove this thought that i need a man who never asks for physical intimacy coz dude let’s it be on terms and situations n yess holding urself on something which is cheating on uh n playing safe card not a great job dude kindly move on ☺️☺️
@zquad55133 жыл бұрын
The title sounds like the plot of "Girlfriend, Girlfriend" anime 😂😅
@Sb-sh3nm3 жыл бұрын
Love how you start the videos with some interesting incidents 😀
@Ahmedabad-Single-Souls3 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂 Love is a waste of time. 💔💔💔 Stay single stay happy.
@vaishnavinavale29773 жыл бұрын
Let's just learn few things in the process😁🤗
@snehagurung71343 жыл бұрын
Thank you for simply being who you are...🥺🥺
@sneha379313 жыл бұрын
Not an alcoholic but very toxic environment at home I just want to get out of my house
@kapilsinghal47623 жыл бұрын
What, falling in love is a choice? Everything I do as a human being, is ultimately my choice. Does anyone have any choice for anything?
@nimisharaj85013 жыл бұрын
I can live without my phone but I need my laptop..😂😂
@shishya0853 жыл бұрын
How to kick out someone from our mind?? Even if we keep ourselves busy it doesn't work What to do in that case?
@codingsutra11933 жыл бұрын
What's your age?
@shishya0853 жыл бұрын
@@codingsutra1193 why r u asking that? Tell me that first
@devanshijain95563 жыл бұрын
Hey Nisha...I believe the best way to do it is to first accept it. Accept whatever happened as a reality, don't try to run away, it will definitely hurt, let it hurt...you might even end up being sad about all the time...but once you'll be done, you'll be done...the person won't affect you any longer. You won't have to run away from the person. If the case you're talking about is someone's seperation like death or moving out to a different place ( without hurting you) or just a crush you're not in contact with..... understand that life works like that, you have a chapter in your life and then you move on. Or if the case is about someone who didn't really hurt you in a emotional way but something about them angered you...the best way is to burst out...call your best friend, tell him/her everything and bich about that person freely once and for all. Ik biching isn't really a good thing, but since it's not a routine thing and you're doing it only to clear up your mind and not really directly indirectly causing any bad repercussions on that person...I think it's okay.....
@shishya0853 жыл бұрын
@@devanshijain9556 i accepted already I did everything But nothing helps
@sg39183 жыл бұрын
you need to think, what is really so special about that person and what are you missing? they are human like you and I. I promise you they bleed like the rest of us and they will die like the rest of us. they'll too go through the transitions of life as a human. the bodies we possess are impermanent as are looks/intelligence/wealth etc so we should not be so fixated on another one. you are only apart in this physical bodily sense. when you see the world as oneness, life becomes a whole lot easier to navigate and manage.
@rupachemudupathi95693 жыл бұрын
1st lettet .. My father is alcoholic i am 23 , no job even , but few father even if you boycott also leave divorce, they bounce back , they wont leave you no matter what you do , may be your mother know that
@codingsutra11933 жыл бұрын
Yea exactly I was thinking about the same point
@ROHIT-kx4kz2 жыл бұрын
It is always the other way round. Men rarely have more than 1 partner. It's women who have multiple partners nowadays. Most Indian men are single and desperately searching for a partner.
@ahb46783 жыл бұрын
I am in the same situation as letter! But i have tried telling him to let her know about me..(atleast a character like me exists) he doesn't tell...... She is very possessive... She has been waiting for 6years to get married to him she is 27 now and he is 28..! I am 24! I feel bad for that girl... But on the other hand i am very much addicted to this person... I know this person for more than a year now... Not able to get over him.... Even though he has his own financial problems i feel that because of my presence in his lyf he is not taking any step to marry her.... He lyks us both... He will will never confess that to me... I have promised him that i wont tell anything about us to the other girl... But recently he has started feeling really guilty.... I feel helpless... I have my xam and m not able to focus on my career ... Its very hard to stay and even harder to leave this person
@jyotsna57152 жыл бұрын
Better leave that guy. And stay alone( no relationship) focus on career u ll find a right guy at right time. This ll hurt u more if u continue. It’s hard but just change all contact no., email etc n stay away from him. U ll one day come out of that addiction.
@shivranjinighegde11133 жыл бұрын
Letter, how do you think he will 'be in your life' WHILE being married to another person?
@preeti-bq7st3 жыл бұрын
These videos are always therapeutic ❤️
@nimisharaj85013 жыл бұрын
Hello everyone.. I just want to share my feelings. I am 22 and my sister is 24. I had a relationship in college and she came to knew about it and then she told about it to my parents. My life became hell and I started hating her. But then I made myself understand that afterall she is my sister so I can't completely avoid her.. That incident is two years old , so now we had normal relations.. But recently I came to know that she was also in relationship in her college.. And now I don't understand if she also had a relationship in college then why did she told about my relationship to parents, why was she so much against my love life , why she showed herself as a pure innocent girl, and me as a devil infront of parents , why she made my life hell..?? Now I have started hating her even more.. And I don't know how to deal with it.. We both live together in a same room . And I feel like choking being with her . Please help..
@biswaviratfaneditz3 жыл бұрын
Don't hate her sis... He is your small sister... Forgive him
@varshamishra33403 жыл бұрын
Yes, I think i can leave my phone for a day, I'll try this Sunday to not my phone or any screen. (Being a designer if I get some urgent work only then I'll use it)
@bhavyamishra55663 жыл бұрын
What if prachi the second woman knows everything about the two and is okay with the two because she knows where she stands in her life and she knows that he is gonna be with her eventually bcoz he is gonna marry her and his future is not possible with letter
@thebrowngirl39803 жыл бұрын
Hey prachi i talk to a guy from the longest time...its been almost 9 months and we talk late night till 4 or 5 on any and every topic irrespective its coitus or periods....is it okay to talk...he is single and i am single too...i cant afford to lose him i kind of started feeling for him......he doesnt want to be in a relationship soon...what do i dofor this...
@lovemypain75013 жыл бұрын
Keep some distance because u will end up following in love and he will not
@peppermintdior3 жыл бұрын
how old are you guys? are you adults or teenagers
@gogreen27163 жыл бұрын
Just go with the flow.. Fall in love without any expectation.. when we expect them to have the same thoughts about you, we'll get disappointed and hurt. So, there's no harm in loving someone who doesn't want to be in a relationship, but I guess y'all are already in a relationship, but he doesn't want to commit right now.. it's ok right? It's understandable. If you both get along well and let's see how things go in future😄❤️Cheers
@thebrowngirl39803 жыл бұрын
@@peppermintdior we are end of teenagers
@thebrowngirl39803 жыл бұрын
@@gogreen2716 thank you so much...❤
@abinaya_anbu3 жыл бұрын
Prachii yesterday why no video about Korean skin care???
@SmileWithPrachi3 жыл бұрын
Half the files were on my phone. Will need to reshoot. Waiting for the new phone now. Will be a week :(
@abby8533 жыл бұрын
This may sound HARSH letter but I’m sorry he ain’t your BOYFRIEND you are technically the SIDE CHICK he has The only person who can legitimately call him a boyfriend/fiancé is his first girlfriend Second do her and yourself a favor and tell her the truth!!
@LifeInsightsjk3 жыл бұрын
God is calling from thoosand and one directions. But our eyes are closed.We never feel love for the fellow human beings. Existence always loves never expecting anything from us-OSHO
@firefly_203 жыл бұрын
You are looking amazing 😎🎉
@shabanaali30773 жыл бұрын
Wow such great video....❤❤❤
@princicreations99963 жыл бұрын
Omg, your suggestions are too good.
@amazingideas7133 жыл бұрын
Letter, u nd that boy (I'll not call him yr bf) are both wrong! U both are just spoiling that other girl life!
@pratikpandey89103 жыл бұрын
Your BF has 2 GF and I am single from last 21 year's 🤣🤣
@mayanklakdawala36043 жыл бұрын
Di For the phone I would like to day that last week only I started an internship were I am so just busy that I dont get time to use my phone earlier before that I use to say that my phone didn't have enough battery life and now what I am seeing that I am always going to bed with 50% of battery remaining but would want to say that the phone is the lender of the last resort as we don't have someone to talk to or we don't have any kind of work than its like phone is a necessity but than it just becomes an important device for that work and talking 👍
@deepsikhadeb13703 жыл бұрын
You look like Radhika Apte 😊
@riya60853 жыл бұрын
Nice hair cut😍
@MsKanchan013 жыл бұрын
Hi Prachi, What happens to phone's mother after the daughter gets married or have to move for job or something. You never addressed the issues with parents. The parents also might need some counseling.
@maheearora43463 жыл бұрын
Love your advise
@Fati_meow3 жыл бұрын
I dont use phone for 2 3 days in some month .. its awsome... me time 🥰.. but its also hard due to work and all..
@shrutijha73183 жыл бұрын
U r outstanding🙌
@binay22233 жыл бұрын
No... But rest is true...
@a.b.c42383 жыл бұрын
Letter, please dear leave this man and find a good guy. You are ruining another woman's life. Just please leave him.
@jamesprince5713 жыл бұрын
Awesome dress di!!
@Hemrajdass163 жыл бұрын
Basically the plot girlfriend girlfriend, anime watchers will understand 😁
@Mummabetu-13 жыл бұрын
Hello mam I am 29 year old woman. I am forcing to have a baby by my own mother. She has told she wouldn't talk to me anymore until I have a baby. I want to do job. I want to enjoy my life with husband according to us. With baby this dream will not become true. How will I respond my mother. Plz help.
@SmileWithPrachi3 жыл бұрын
Don't succumb to the pressure. She needs to treat you like an adult and her demands are selfish, to say the least. You can tell her that the husband is not ready, and maybe that will help with the convincing. Personally I would recommend just telling your mom that this blackmailing will not work, and that she cannot force you like this. If she doesn't want to talk to you, she can stop talking. Take a strong stand, it's your life and your body after all. Even if that means that feelings get hurt