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@jewelsafire68442 жыл бұрын
A man that is a gentleman that shows care & respect consistently is a rare find & a KEEPER.🙌🏽👌🏽
@CaramelKissez2 жыл бұрын
Yes!
@millicentstollenwerck52392 жыл бұрын
These days it takes half a lifetime trying to find a man like this, some women will never find one.
@DH-zi5ob2 жыл бұрын
Yes indeed!
@chanelmitchell16322 жыл бұрын
Tony's laugh got me! 🤣🤣🤣 We both learned a new word Tony 😭
@melissajdelacruz2 жыл бұрын
"You are not you, you are your lower self." That's deep and can relate, currently working on being my best self! Not for a man tho lol, just for my own self confidence. 🙏🏽😇
@tya46622 жыл бұрын
Yes sis, that was a word! Deep and motivational.
@melissajdelacruz2 жыл бұрын
@@tya4662 yes!💙💙💙
@ARighteousLife2 жыл бұрын
Yess sis
@champagnemelton37812 жыл бұрын
The niggling audio is killing me💀💀💀
@Dorian_Gray1237 ай бұрын
😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣
@urteruddy8205Ай бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣
@Destinee362 жыл бұрын
When Tony go “ sister come on na”! 😂😂
@fatimahalea84722 жыл бұрын
Tony you have me in tears. Don’t get people messed up out here saying niggling.
@fah2322 жыл бұрын
😩🤣
@rolandarobinson52412 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣
@GabyDee72 жыл бұрын
Yes the devil comes to kill, “steal”and destroy. Yes the devil is trying to “steal” her blessing.
@whatliesbeneaththeweave35182 жыл бұрын
Tony is right! It’s hard to make a comedian laugh! 1. Men who are good at making people laugh are CHARMING and charismatic. When a man naturally has those two things, women will always flock to him! And ma’am that is not a problem you want! 2. Your relationship is still very new! He may have some hidden sense of humor that you haven’t seen yet! Some people have a darker sense of humor that they keep hidden until they are comfortable. 3. I’ve been married for over 10 years, so I can tell you from experience that long-term couples CREATE A UNIQUE SENSE OF HUMOR between the two of them. My husband and I have acquired a long list of inside-secret jokes that only he and I understand. Something happens and my husband and I will just look at each other and INSTANTLY laugh. This is common in long-term relationships. ⬆️Don’t miss out on creating this! It’s so unique, intimate, and beautiful!
@nidzaboricua32942 жыл бұрын
I agree with Tony on this one for sure. She found a good man and yet she finds something to complain about. Men are not perfect for you when you first meet. You have to go though a lot to be perfect for each other. Throw him back, I'm sure a woman will appreciate him without doubts.
@catherine87892 жыл бұрын
Imagine telling your 4 month boyfriend who cares and respects you and you tell him, “ sorry but I have to break this off … you just don’t make me laugh enough… “ 😳🤣😂🤣 we’re doomed if this is what it’s coming down to 😩
@laina19762 жыл бұрын
Chile I laughed after I read this lol
@lifegoeson15452 жыл бұрын
My husband left the marriage and stayed gone for 4 years and we re united trying to work things out I wanted us to deal with our underlying issues but he wants to just forget about what happen and start where we left off at . All I’m asking for is for some counseling which he don’t want to do . So I told him that It’s been real meaning I can no longer see him .
@melissajdelacruz2 жыл бұрын
Yup, he clearly does not want to change and is probably lonely cause nobody wants him.
@CoCo-yv3hl2 жыл бұрын
The door would have been closed. You take a break by going to work or on a guys trip not leaving testing then waters then coming back 🥰
@helenaxxxx50152 жыл бұрын
He should agree to counciling if he's serious but in terms on TALK about the issues 🤣🤣🤣 Every man will avoid this if possible men are quite very rarely do you get much out of them. However when a man is IN love he will open up to you and wouldn't have let you go in the first place. Listen to your spirit listen to God 🙏
@melissajdelacruz2 жыл бұрын
@@helenaxxxx5015 100% agree, a man that really loves you would not stay away for 4 years and would have been willing to do the work.
@rosagreene43642 жыл бұрын
I’m cracking up Tony! 😂😂😂😂 “niggling” 😂😂
@simmar8132 жыл бұрын
Tony I am creasing out here, “niggling” is definitely a word commonly used in the Uk😂
@stopstalkingmeitsstressful36442 жыл бұрын
If I found one, I'd never let him go. I've been busy trying to get these clowns out of my face.
@IvissAburto2 жыл бұрын
It’s the replay of the word 😂😂😂 thank you for being yourself and providing so much value!!
@millicentstollenwerck52392 жыл бұрын
These Talks with Tony is relationship education, I like how you chop it up in a caring and truthful way.
@j-tenn2262 жыл бұрын
This girl done taught us all a new word today!
@taynaburton58282 жыл бұрын
Tony, you are right! Women like men that can make them laugh. Steve Harvey said that's how he used to pull women before he became rich because he wasn't exactly the good-looking
@j-tenn2262 жыл бұрын
But he’s not funny either.
@LIVH_Olivia2 жыл бұрын
I was not expecting to learn this new vocabulary word today! My stomach is hurt from the belly laughs 😆
@veronicalynn29682 жыл бұрын
Your insight on a “funny” guy is 100%. We went on a couples vacation for my 40th birthday & our friend’s date was laughing a little too much at my husband’s jokes. Fast forward one full year, we’re divorced & she’s pregnant from my (ex)husband.
@slc922 жыл бұрын
I am so sorry that is MESSED UP I hope you are ok 🙏🏽
@kimsanders82623 ай бұрын
Wow
@jewelsafire68442 жыл бұрын
Lawd, not "niggling", which actually means bothersome (especially in a petty or tiresome way). Yes, it sounds funny.🤦🏽♀😂😂
@CoCo-yv3hl2 жыл бұрын
It’s your ego… change your routine you will forget about them… but also ask yourself if you’re unbearable to be around or was this your blessing in disguise… he evidently doesn’t want you that helps or should help get over a person but some of us have trauma bonding & soul ties to a person. If you can get to that realization you will find you didn’t like or love that person at all they just fed a “need”. My 2022 desire is that for all the women in bad relationships or in desire of a relationship that God will allow the Holy Spirit to invoke their spirit to only desire their/his purpose & not another person or partner just be content & it is so 🙏🏾
@travelchannel3042 жыл бұрын
Ok. You say you're not funny, yet you have us rolling! Esp in early grown boy lessons. LOL
@fah2322 жыл бұрын
Yes, all the time🤣
@msdesireemonee2 жыл бұрын
Tony! Why is it only 8:39am & not even 5 minutes into the video, yet you already got me cracking up?!😂
@moriahaddison2 жыл бұрын
I learned a new word today lol.
@dublingirl16912 жыл бұрын
It’s a common word used in Ireland 😂 It’s not a derogatory word. Just means a discomforting feeling, persistent annoyance or anxiety.
@j-tenn2262 жыл бұрын
And it’s normal to use around ANYONE?
@terryf.93222 жыл бұрын
That is so right Tony. I bet if he saw the women exercising on the regular and still looked a certain way then there would be less of a chance of him calling her out for the weight gain because she is exercising. If she was putting in 100% in the home, her body, her brand etc. then he would have nothing to complain about. I also question the 10 year relationship w/o marriage, not that being married keeps certain men any more faithful.
@nattysessentialsllc20442 жыл бұрын
I am in tears over here😂 I have never heard that word before.. A laugh was so needed right now..
@dublingirl16912 жыл бұрын
Wow another Talks with Tony! 🙏🏼🙏🏼
@angelalittle75222 жыл бұрын
I love these talks with Tony. I listen on my lunch hour on my walk. I’m ready.
@tya46622 жыл бұрын
There are deep deep gems for me in this video. I keep learning. One of my favorites. Thank you!
@dianthecrawford88542 жыл бұрын
God bless Sister Gaskins!!! Asking God to keep her healthy💞👸🏾
@yourstruly19842 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much Tony ! I'm definitely not at my best self..BUT I'm about to put the pedal to the metal in becoming my best version
@rleroy232 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣 Tony I just love you, you’re hilarious! Not only I’m learning from your messages, you also keeps me cracking up. I think a lot of us today learned a new word. 🤣
@familyjewel2 жыл бұрын
“Niggling,” got me caught up this morning…🤣🤣 my chest hurts 🤣🤣
@BrainsBeautyandCommonSense2 жыл бұрын
Niggling is unrelated to the racial slur, and existed in language long before the slavery of our ancestors.
@LadyAngela6782 жыл бұрын
My aunt has gained alot of weight, and he husband is super healthy. He has been critical of her since before she gained weight. Im afraid he is going to mistreat her or leave her. I got weight loss surgery, and I gently hinted to her that if she wanted to get weight loss surgery I would come take care of her after surgery. She said she doesnt need it. But she is in denial because Im sure she has gained at least 60 pounds. I see disaster coming for them. But maybe unhappiness in their relationship is whats causing her weight gain. 🤷🏽♀️
@JustMe-wq4ue2 жыл бұрын
Only 60lbs gained?! That's nothing.
@MWisdomWisdom Жыл бұрын
BE HAPPY
@sheanagray24362 жыл бұрын
They used that word in Tales from the Crypt lol ROFL omg!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! TONY IS A MESS!!!
@luwilliams10592 жыл бұрын
Women like this lord help us (The first scenario)! Tony I've never thought about the correlation of guys being funny (sometimes) to them dating multiple women. Great points on all topics, I learned alot.
@Dj-Primadonna2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the comment on weight and women changes. It’s hard for some of us - the process
@nailsbydaviah2 жыл бұрын
“Niggling” had me in tears tony you is hilarious
@lisabowman95222 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂 the child!!! 😂😂😂😂😂
@DaintyAbby6 ай бұрын
“Niggling” 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@nanslove91p2 жыл бұрын
Tony’s the best, lol he’s funny and also give us great advice. God bless you and your beautiful family
@angenoel23972 жыл бұрын
I can get over this new word 😂😂😂
@bregettewashington46692 жыл бұрын
Hi Tony you deserve the best,you are special
@juliatarot36202 жыл бұрын
God bless your hour long videos!! Thank you
@nishadominique43952 жыл бұрын
5 minutes in and I’m crying 😭😭😭
@uniquelyhis79062 жыл бұрын
"A High-Valued Man".....I understand that comes from a "Clown" Podcast! Whew Lordy!
@lindageiling59222 жыл бұрын
Not everyone goes to a gym or even has the money for that. I watch how I eat. My ex husband told me when we married. If I got fat he would leave me. Well, I never did n I had 3 children. I'm a size 4. My recent ex man once said my thighs were big n I had wrinkles on my face. I'm 58 yrs old n I will never get botox...
@LadyAngela6782 жыл бұрын
The second situation was not about weight. He did not see any value in her. It sounds like he has Ego problems, and she needs to be her own person and create some positive things in her own life.
@elainesantana18112 жыл бұрын
I was told I laugh to much and guy would not trust me .. so yes I get that in control sometimes... is just mean the person is dominant , leader , go getter , also the bad side can be evil , manipulation, lying and that can be funny at first until you see the real evil the person is ...
@Shayvideos12 жыл бұрын
I honestly like a man that is make me laugh and usually with the type of natural humor..never thought 1 way or the other about it until a few years ago. When I noticed the guys that always wants to be cool with everyone..especially the female coworkers , they would start off by being funny and just acting like a homeboy to them and just joking all the time but in a non sexual way AT FISRT until the gain enough confidence to actually hit on them..if you pay attention these guys have always had some type of work wife or got into a lit of their relationships from meeting coworkers at work.
@shanessabrown88562 жыл бұрын
🤦Cruella Davill vibez🤣🤣🤣
@fatimahalea84722 жыл бұрын
Niggling? 🤣🤣🤣🤣
@mitz19192 жыл бұрын
To the First Lady, if u need a laugh 😂 just watch these videos and keep the good man!
@latashacoleman65062 жыл бұрын
I'm dying 🤣 at niggling thoughts, right can't use that word round me. I love your sense of humor; have anyone ever told you , you favor Kountry Wayne? Yall remind me of each other.
@BrittnePtheBestGirl2 жыл бұрын
Tony you are too funny. I promise, I be at work falling out. Cracking up
@blkgurl2darescue2 жыл бұрын
Sorry…I accidentally disliked the video but I meant to like it cause I always forget to like the videos I watch. I always do that!!! 🤦🏾♀️
@travelchannel3042 жыл бұрын
I cant say that word .you spoke of. .if a British person said it it probably sound propper. LOL they probably started it. Appreciate the man & date him. I know i couldnt stay wirh a man that i couldnt enjoy his conversation topics & humor. And ive had that happen. There were other things that, later, would have been deal breakers.
@TaKyraMoonlight2 жыл бұрын
If him not being the funniest guy the only problem then I don’t really consider it settling. You’re so right about it coming with time. I showed my cousin a video and it was hilarious to me but she didn’t get it lol.
@lb1234ify2 жыл бұрын
Be Blessed
@biancamajanja35162 жыл бұрын
She have a man that can make her laugh and she will crying later. He has humor if he laughing at her
@mariabbanks2 жыл бұрын
Love this. Thank you.
@MsColetha2 жыл бұрын
Lord have mercy
@KDStyle12 жыл бұрын
Great breakdown 💜
@alouriie34102 жыл бұрын
Tony your imitations are funny especially when you grab the charger purse, lol. But I think when sister say make her laugh she's saying she wants him to be exciting not boring.
@coleendaniels52612 жыл бұрын
Yes Bro gaskins tk u for Dr. Evan Emmanuel if I got it correct. I love to laugh and and I do all the time take after my farther. The humor is needed I love all your lessons and teachings they are life changing then hear comes Dr. Evan when u put those glasses on I'm done I be falling out 😆🤣😂 please don't stop laughter is good for the soul, praise God for ur hard work and time be blessed prayer 🙏 changes things
@irlandaise56312 жыл бұрын
Same I never laugh because most people dont make me laugh and its rare it happens, I also make people laugh with my facial expressions too! Some comedians are rude too, I never laugh when they are rude and when I know they have several women etc lol
@Jusleen04032 жыл бұрын
Boy, 4 minutes in & I’m 😂😂
@lindsayhundley10632 жыл бұрын
Thank for the works.
@theaccessoryparadise2 жыл бұрын
I think the word she was trying to use was 'inkling"- a slight knowledge or suspicion; a hint.
@vanessachambers6972 жыл бұрын
Be Blessed 😊
@92Tweetylove2 жыл бұрын
Great advice!
@PhillyMunay2 жыл бұрын
Is weight gain or letting yourself go grounds for breaking up?
@hoodstar922 жыл бұрын
When he kept playing the word 😭😭😭
@MotheRuckerlove2 жыл бұрын
I don’t like that word 😩😩😩
@MsEconway2 жыл бұрын
She should have done date night at the comedy club.
@qscott8882 жыл бұрын
Checking in
@DebtDemolisherTV2 жыл бұрын
Checking in too, Q!!! 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
@qscott8882 жыл бұрын
@@DebtDemolisherTV Good morning. E-see ya tonight. 🙌🏽
@tiffanyblevins80882 жыл бұрын
This the first time I laughed at one of your videos niggling oh lord
@lisabowman95222 жыл бұрын
I want to up my subscription to a higher level. Will it just upgrade or do I have to cancel the lower level one first?
@lisabowman95222 жыл бұрын
Talking about my Patrion subscription.
@CaramelKissez2 жыл бұрын
Download the app, if you haven't. Go to account, then support. It'll be there. Blessings
@alyssadestany2 жыл бұрын
Too bad I don’t want him anymore 🥴
@Marie-ts8rp2 жыл бұрын
Yeah I need laughter w a man to feel affection,attachment also or I wont connect w him. Nice wont keep me in a relationsip.
@cecileturner4502 жыл бұрын
I needed this message tonight. I have a slightly different experience I was playing it cool and I guess it was too cool. He seemed to be sincere and forthcoming about his life experiences. I wanted to be friends first. Without sexual flirting but I guess that isn't what he is used to. We seemed to be hitting it off well. l listened to him, I asked questions... Whenever we spoke I would ask about his day...we would laugh ... However I don't recall him asking about my day or even asking questions to get to know me better. I would always initiate those questions. I became frustrated and a little disapoointed. I began to ask if he ad any questions for me. I'm sure he thought I had some dark secret Then he ghosted me. I still feel hurt , like I have lost a friend we've only known each other for 3 wks.. I sent him a grateful to have met you text. Should I contact him?
@elly38372 жыл бұрын
Absolutely fucking not! You ignore him just the same way he ignored you 💓💯
@margaretwince27482 жыл бұрын
He'll be back.
@torichase42202 жыл бұрын
Watch Tony’s videos. You never chase a ghost cause you can’t catch him. Why would you want someone who leaves you? The details don’t matter. Move on.
@godsanointed23412 жыл бұрын
NO!!!
@irlandaise56312 жыл бұрын
I see, I dont want to be introduced to things I dont like to do though.. yeah im open but im not going to sit in a stadium or go camping and people /men ghost if you say you arent interested which is pathetic. Most people want you to do the things they like. I like art but im not asking anyone to join me to an art gallery but then again it is different , you are free at the gallery. Stadium and camping you are stuck. I am not asking them to make a painting either.
@eveshalom35342 жыл бұрын
This was good! I won’t lie, it actually stung a little bit. I always threw down my Popeyes chicken. Lol 😂
@shannonmonaallathat2 жыл бұрын
04:45 I hear you Tony 🤣💯
@TonyaNicole72 жыл бұрын
So she wants a comedian he just he checks off the boxes in all of the areas but not in the laughter area this is complete craziness
@loonietunes222 жыл бұрын
Learned a new word today niggling - causing slight but persistent annoyance discomfort and anxiety
@cuniqueness2 жыл бұрын
Wondering 💭 What he look like?!?
@tya46622 жыл бұрын
PREACH!
@C_theesiren2 жыл бұрын
Some men are just vanilla .. kinda dull , I prefer a humorous man cause I like to laugh , ik that’s the childish part uh me but other qualities are way more important, he sounds like a good one
@irlandaise56312 жыл бұрын
A bit unrelated to that particular video but I notice many men well younger than me too , kind of ghost you just based on your personality and not character. I find many if not most people men and women not into culture but sports and drink and if you say you hate these things , they ghost you. Which I find it is good but why shouldn't you say you hate these. It's crazy. I tried to make more friends , female friends too but not easy even outside playing squash., I couldnt care less about sports. Yeah it's fun but I am not going to sit in a bar/pub and watch it. Recently 2 women asked me to sit in a pub to watch matches, I refused saying I am not interested. I know you like sports but you probably can sit for 2/4 hours and have a conversation over a coffee. I did have such friends in the past but they are far in between. I prefer to say no to things I dont like but regarding a man if he refuses to sit for few hours and talk that is a huge red flag.
@amariesco60625 ай бұрын
Nahhhhh but why are you so funny
@natashadunbar63302 жыл бұрын
Humor is very important but perhaps it can be substituted for a different attribute. He could be your husband but perhaps not a comedian. Maybe he’s just not a funny as you like. How’s everything else sis? I understand where she’s coming from though…I really like to be sung to. If he has a beautiful singing voice its preference I have…so I understand
@margyiphillips49312 жыл бұрын
TG, you have not made the face you used to make when you type.
@louisaatkinson48282 жыл бұрын
She thinks he's lil ugly
@louisaatkinson48282 жыл бұрын
Don't listen to me i don't know what I be talking about
@yana2122 жыл бұрын
@@louisaatkinson4828 you're probably right tho
@tashathomas17142 жыл бұрын
I agree. She doesn’t like him.
@irlandaise56312 жыл бұрын
I couldnt care less if a man can make me laugh tbh lol but they seem to get offended if I dont laugh at their 'jokes'