He LIED About This For FIVE Years 😱 Help! I’m In A Secret Relationship

[@HorrorNChill23]

Man she can't hold that against him for something another officer did. I understand what happened to her family member but he didn't do it. He still shouldn't lied to her about it though.

[@juliet7703]

💯 yh its just dishonesty bit and 5 is very long time but it could have been something else like cheating addiction. He seems like a really good guy

[@areneesouder]

I'd never date one! My second husband hid the fact he'd been a cop, and also that he'd only been one for a year because he was crazy. It's a need to know.

[@eviejameson4706]

The most ridiculous non-issue 🙄

[@Siabeysment]

I’m saying!

[@traceydawson4432]

She's has serious issues

[@diamcole]

While I agree, apparently it was enough of an issue that he lied about it. He should have just told her, he's making an honest living. No need to hide it, just let people be who they are. In this case - ridiculous haha.

[@maraloeboutique4533]

Certain professions carry energy , personality traits etc . I understand her 100%

[@Jackoftrade76]

It is an issue. Ppl who work in this field are shamed and made to feel bad, especially if u are black because of exactly what the girl is saying.

[@grammyh5784]

SHE IS LUCKY TO HAVE A MAN WITH A HONEST JOB & HE HAS THE ABILITY TO HELP CHANGE THE SYSTEM 🤷‍♀️😘🥰

[@jordantv9285]

Not your place white woman

[@tristyy404]

No he doesn’t, that’s just a lie we tell ourselves to get through the job, anything we can rise high enough to change gets changed right back. 🥴🤣

[@dacostarik]

No he doesn’t…

[@l0rdapophis]

She don't want that

[@dw5970]

The crazy part is, if he cheated, she probably would’ve taken him back. He’s better off. He got a good job with benefits.

[@juliet7703]

Yh a job trying to help people..he's good bloke

[@dreamkitty]

exactly. she’s a bird fr

[@casswashwash1070]

How? She was concerned about that. He the one lying when he couldn’ve said that from the jump

[@ProfZ.]

Based on what? He’s admitted to lying to her despite knowing how she felt, and here you are imagining ways for her to be the bad person. smh

[@fatonyalmitchell3281]

Right right ▶️

[@everythingislovelee3400]

That’s it?😂 I thought he was gonna say he got kids or something

[@nishap7195]

I understand why he withheld the info and I understand why she feels that way but she can’t hold that against him.

[@kristoff1skalet176]

The irony of his name being SINCERE 😂😂😂

[@julieblackstock8650]

He's got a good job he has kept for 5 years. Its not his fault she has criminal relatives

[@halleelizabeth]

Just bc her cousin was in jail doesnt mean he deserved to be beaten for being black. Period.

[@AnaleiaKate]

Exactly 😂 its so ridiculous

[@JennyHilda]

🤣

[@ProfZ.]

Who said it’s his “fault”? If someone has an issue with a profession, they are free not to date people who hold that profession, and if a partner knows about that, it’s not cool to lie about what their profession is. Actually it’s not cool in general to lie to a partner about something like what your job is, whatever the reason. For example, someone who hates professors because they had bad experiences with them doesn’t have to date me, and it doesn’t mean it’s ok for me to lie to them for a long period of time about what my job is in order to get them to continue dating me. This is true even though it isn’t my *fault* that they had those experiences. It not being my fault doesn’t mean I’m entitled to a relationship with this person.

[@ADR-to3vj]

And yet..if she needed help to find her carjacked car..or a kidnappimg...or somebody break into her home...Her Momma or Child gets Hurt bad...Will she call Hakeem and 'nem or the Police ..Have to put things into perspective.. just saying...she's being irrational...

[@arobinson6576]

I See Why He Didn’t Tell Her, Girl Bye He Wasn’t The One That Did It.

[@Naomirivera11]

Rigth!

[@tammicook40]

Not sure what I would do but honestly honesty up front is definitely the way to go

[@elishamartin7090]

He's fine and has a good job. He has nothing to do with dirty officers. That's not his fault

[@lovemezay]

Glad she brought him on the show. Let a better woman reach out 😂😂

[@CraftsANDcrimes]

She's not use to her dude having a job or career for that matter

[@dreamkitty]

exactly. she seems like the type to like pookies

[@Swaytekk]

Ooooooh brother. He’s made to be a bad person because he makes an honest living. This is a case of bad people doing bad things but not everyone is the same.

[@Mixedmediaz]

The point is he lied. You cannot make someone accept your lie or have someone engage with you under false pretenses. He could have end honest from the beginning but chose to willfully be dishonest. That’s the point. There’s no trust

[@ShanteeHaynes]

If you have to lie for 5 years about something or keep it from someone, you need to keep it moving

[@Lindsay407]

The baby hairs touching the eyebrows was a clear sign he should’ve ran already. He could’ve been out here cheating or had a whole secret family. Girl get tf on 🙄

[@Mothmam74]

Couldn't tell if her hair went over that eyebrow or not 😂

[@sharonnsmith81]

😂😂😂😂😂💀

[@lexeiy1730]

😅😅😅😅

[@trishaw.237]

What a shame it ended.... Her understanding point it would have been fine he should have been honest right away in the beginning. So clearly her only main issue with him is that he felt it was okay to lie, plus cover up to her, so wasn't a deal breaker that he is a Correction Officer. I get it 100% zero trust. If he was willing to keep that from her for so long how can she possibly trust him, and his judgment going forward. Who wants to feel hidden, and lied to....

[@ms.martin435]

Let her PAUSE FOREVER! SIR, RUN!!

[@VladmirPoopN]

Dude is a "surprise" correctional officer and whatsherface is wearing her striped Prison PJs; this stuff really IS staged 😂

[@ObeyJae]

I mean wtf is wrong with being a correctional officer.. wow ok? he works in inside the jail. He’s not an official Police officer. Don’t let the loss of a family member and BLM break up a good thing with a good man, yeah bro kept his occupation from you, but this ain’t as half of what it coulda been.

[@llw53one]

I’m only 2 minutes in and I hope that she sees and understands he’s a good person and all C.O.’s are not bad.

[@ms.martin435]

What is she talking about. He didn't do anything to her cousin or Bre. 🙄

[@444clockit]

He should’ve just told the truth , he acting like he a fbi agent or some 😂

[@afiaowusuaa6890]

It's not his fault if your relative is a criminal. No one forced your cousin to commit a "petty crime". This gentleman has a paid& honest job ,he is a productive citizens and a good guy! Her reasons to be this mad are nonesense to me.

[@Mariah9_]

Their acting is terrible 💀

[@onlynonsense2380]

It’s not acting lol I tried to be on the show and it takes a lot…like you can’t know anything about the person you talking to or they don’t choose you. I already knew she was a catfish so they didn’t choose me .

[@tc3354]

Exactly 😂

[@aztecwrrior1997]

I get why he did it but dude you shoulda been straight up with her and yes she broke it off with him but still it shouldn'tve got to that point

[@tanyaguy6016]

Not all CO's are the same. Just like all black ppl are not the same , all Asians are not the same, etc. That is like me treating all Europeans ppl the same. You treating ppl the same way you or your family have been treated is not going to make a change. It only continues the racism in the US.

[@StrongSensitivePerson]

True

[@chazzyg5908]

He has a good job

[@juliet7703]

Yh he's helping people

[@MiaMatthias]

Yes he does

[@ashleyannya4591]

No her mad because he has a DECENT JOB 😂

[@corennerivers6517]

Omg. This is so dumb. Walk away, officer, walk away. My inbox is empty 😅

[@jadajones4361]

Shes crazy

[@James_Doyle83]

😂😂😂

[@Khaliyah_Muhammad]

Girl , it’s not that serious. I would’ve been mad that he didn’t tell me something so small like that haha idc about shit like that, at least he has a job

[@lekiamb-0921]

damn i was shocked to see a trans man of color on a reality tv show. 👍🏽👍🏽 i don’t really see that often

[@rohiniramanchakrabarti5282]

She needs psychiatrist, and he needs a therapist.

[@VONiiE8]

Not y’all missing the point to blame her 😂

[@p810-f6p]

I can’t get past the side burns passing as baby hairs I’m sorry.

[@kialp75]

😂😂😂😂

[@joywebb6964]

Yes he should have been honest from the beginning and gave her to the option if she wanted to continue a relationship with him. He seems really remorseful.On the flip side it definitely could have been alot worst. Situation happen for a reason and this can bring them closer together or meant to be with other people.

[@francesdeleon8135]

I wonder if she knows sincere was born a woman 😮

[@arycahya3544]

Rather than drug dealer 😂😂 lol

[@AkiraRhodes-y1l]

Mad at a man with a job. Is crazy work

[@onlynonsense2380]

He so small lmao

[@DarthFurie]

Their size difference when they stood up to hug the hosts was a surprise

[@iamreborn3463]

He’s 5’2

[@fatonyalmitchell3281]

Thanks for giving us your time DuuuuuuvvvvvvvvaaaaaLLLLLLLL county jax fl USA ❤

[@hannibal-elmrs.6275]

She a fool! That should not be a deal breaker- more like a sigh of relief… he coulda been lying about so many worse things! 🙄 I OVERSTAND her apprehension with the field- but this man IS NOT them… she tripping

[@Kaysway2003]

Just leave her

[@daletheriault9956]

She wants a criminal boyfriend ??? 😂 Really???🤪

[@marisarodriguez3651]

At least he has a job.

[@Lya254]

Rahne there looking like a whole bandit 😅

[@katherinewatterson5650]

The pin striped pants set, specs, with the perfectly folded scully 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@cresedajones4185]

She looks like Amiyah Scott lol .. they’re both beautiful of course

[@nataliemscrzysxycoolharris]

He messed up by assuming how she would feel about his job. No one knows how she presented the info about her relative but he shoulda told her soon after what he does. I think her reaction possibly woulda been different.

[@VibeJayee]

A C/O does not stand on the same level and a on duty officer that patrols the city . 😒 she wack af she should only be mad for him lying , he making money he doing what he gotta do

[@sharonnsmith81]

👏👏👏

[@Kkayy020]

lol he couldn’t get the hug 😂

[@madelinemoreira7574]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@bellax0o609]

She is gorgeous.. and he seems like a good guy so she really shouldn’t hold that against him. His job doesn’t mean he is a bad person. Not all cops & Co are the same.

[@PinkDivaStarr]

At least he has a job

[@FRANKIBABI_]

See y’all don’t know how them CO’s treat ppl no matter the color of the Officer they really treat our Black men and women inside them jails

[@James_Doyle83]

I don't blame her and she did the right thing breaking up the relationship

[@AnaleiaKate]

You're just as crazy as she is

[@blueflames5785]

I agree with her. I cant imagine spending 5 years with someone who acts that shady hiding secrets. Prolly drove her crazy and had her thinking he was cheating for the longest time and all that stress just because you work as a c.o??????? Wtf. Dude is weird. And the girl hasnt even met his family what a shame. They couldve had this convo a long time ago instead of moving funny for 5 years!!! I dont blame her for not kissing his ass for being deceitful. Honest job but not an honest man.

[@willieihweih6425]

Hold on Shes mad because her cousin got mistreated in prison? In prison.....where your cousin was serving time because he broke the law? Pfffffft!!!😂😂😂😂😂

[@mrsbornagain]

How you gonna be mad cuz he has a good job like huh 😂😂😂😂?

[@sugaray7435]

I personally think she is tripping! We all know all police, correction officers etc dnt all act out of malice! So for her to be mad at the job or even judge someone based on it to me is crazy! My uncle was doing a crime and he got shot by police. They said he pulled a weapon, I dnt think he would but I wasn’t there and he was robbing someone’s house. My uncle died and it’s unfortunate. But I dnt judge the cops or the department. Unfortunately she looks done. I dnt think she’ll give him a chance. But she’ll be mad when he moves on with someone else smh.

[@jayking5452]

How is him having a good job and not wanting it to be awkward between families and she takes it like he cheated

[@audreyharalambos2592]

The man has a job, and you should not judge everyone the same there is good and bad in every in job, did she never talk about his work, so how long have they been together, if you can’t do the time, don’t do the crime.

[@atlboo98]

Isnt he a trans man?? And does she know that??

[@LynnWalsh-p5j]

Girl he loved you all these years even though you was always putting down his career choice and probably some of his best brothers who are good people!!!!

[@paulawalker2780]

She should not let his profession trigger her about police brutality which no one likes to see that occur and no he should not have lied to her but this what he do for a living I feel bad about what happen to her cousin I would not wish that on anybody and I understand how she feels about it.

[@tamararenee7394]

It was that big of a lie but I get it but on tv tho 😂

[@Fh-td8ms]

I hope he finds a woman who will appreciate him and not a person who likes to categorise a wide range of people due to personal reasons

[@Shania-od5pn]

He gotta be a narcissist 😂 that’s the only people that can do the job💯

[@orlandomorales1881]

So she has a problem with a man with good benefits and good paying job bless her ❤️

[@joileyroberts7181]

I understand her feelings but really girl he has a job thats a blessing he seems to be a great guy otherwise

[@mom4life513]

Girl byeeee. He is making a honest living. Not all CO are bad. She is needs to understanding that. Im sure he will find someone better who is supportive.

[@SoftGvibes]

I think she needs therapy to help cope, i understand why he didn't tell her. She has ptsd and doesn't wanna hurt her, they could work it out.

[@JulioGarcia-pj8rq]

We ain't even gonna talk about her hairline I mean c'mon man.

[@Victoryvlog.]

Am trying to concentrate but his hair line is distracting me 😂

[@TheStonersimpson12]

It’s like I get it but at the same time I’m like come on now 😑

[@Bella-wayne23]

It’s not a bad lie not all cops are bad what the news shows there is just as much good cops as bad cops. he has a great job

[@jamesfeliciano4650]

This Generation is wild they value the wrong things

[@courtneylove7584]

She weird for this… non of that has nothing to do with him She want a street dude for real

[@jimputnam7539]

It’s ok Weekly, plenty of woman out there that appreciate the money we make homey, not to mention the health benefits and pension! Keep your head up and those pockets full!

[@l0rdapophis]

Nah he needs to leave her and her felony- I mean family alone 🤷🏽‍♂️

[@tristyy404]

That’s a DUMB reason to hide somebody. How was it even possible? The hours, the shift changes, where tf did he hide his badge? 🥴🤣

[@SereniLeez]

Okay. This makes no sense. 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@therealtiffanybaby]

she just wanted a reason to leave him

[@avirei98]

Some of y'all don't get it the issue isn't the fact that he's a correctional officer the issue is that he's a liar. If you knew how she felt you should have told her early not 5 years later that means just move on to another girl who doesn't have the issues that she would have with your job. Due to be saying the same thing if a girl was a stripper for 5 years but didn't tell him until 5 years into their relationship come on now that means she lied it's not even the fact that she's a stripper it's the fact that she lied knowing that he probably wouldn't date a stripper. He is a liar even if she didn't care that he was a cop he lied and lying by omission is still a lie

[@DevaCompany]

But he wasn't the one that did that. U can't put that on him bc that's his job.

[@dawnmartinez9695]

Wow, she Crazee so sad, she not deserving

[@megan893]

Didn't know how I feel about this... It's kind of embarrassing for her that she has a seemingly good man, with a good job, but because her family has criminal history, she can't accept that. What will she accept then? So weird and unfortunate. Black men are shamed for not having good enough jobs, now this guy is being shamed for having a good steady job. Shame on her

[@kwynnmccallumbega4705]

I hope everything works out for the best 🙏 Aloha from Hawaii 🌺🌴🌈🤙

[@priscillak88]

The man is working and can provide, and she is mad. That’s a therapy issue, and I get how wrong police brutality is, but come on lady🤦🏾‍♀️ Is this what men are facing out here🤔

[@jasminalyssa5155]

But I bet you all her cousins keep telling her and you better keep them because he’s got a good job

[@jennifergraham5106]

He has absolutely NOTHING to apologize for. It's not his fault for what happened to her family member. He's making an honest living. Yea he lied, but it's not a big lie.

[@traceydawson4432]

How's he responsible for what happen to her cousin and everyone thats blue collar. She😢

[@positivereminders8592]

My dude..red flag..RUUUUN BRO!!! There goes your sign! Like wtf...🙄🙄🙄. I get what she saying, but this is the dumbest shit ever. He has done nothing wrong for her to hold him accountable for what her trifling family experienced.

[@BillieJean2.0]

Is she serious??? THAT’S the deal breaker?? He had nothing to do with what happened with her family members ….Girl …. Grow UP😂😂😂😂

[@MasheikaAtkins]

She getting mad at him for petty shit just because a cop did that to ur cousin don't put that on him

[@sinavaitululeupolu1455]

Guy works Some guys dont work at all. Girl u can't blame him for things that happened to your family members

[@desir406]

Girl by

[@Happygolucky1989]

Oh bugger off love! How dare you judge this man for having a good job. It so sad to think that black people cannot serve their community without being treated as some kind of traitor! Ridiculous. I can see why he felt that he felt that he had to lie but I am not condoning it. He should have just been honest upfront.

[@PeggyRabbit32]

This has to be scripted. How do you not know that your man is a CO? However, if he had cheated and / or got someone pregnant, she would have taken him back. I do understand what she is feeling tho. It's no way she didn't "suspect" something not being able to be around his family. He shouldn't have lied.

[@BeaMode1990]

She should be grateful he has a honest living over doing illegal shit.🤷🏾‍♀️